When my wife and I married, her nephew, a little kid around the age of 10, had been washing cars and mowing lawns to earn money so he could gift us a pepper and salt set. Best gift of the entire wedding, the pride on his face when he presented it to us is unforgetable. (and yes I am still using it 22 years later even though my wife passed away a year ago)
Love that! I came home to a business card on my door a while back from a local kid about that age in the neighborhood offering yard services for pay. A few days later I saw him working in a neighbor's yard! It's a great start!
What always surprises me with these videos is... Someone actually proposed to these girls. Someone thought they are the best match in the world for them, they make them so happy they want to spend their life together, and possibly reproduce those amazing genes.
Love is blind. Good guy end up falling for bad I know a neighbour who had a job as a waitress. She earn her pocket money. She had five stars wedding. Hard work pay off she even invite her friends family.
It can be difficult for people to tell when they are in a bad match, toxic relationship, making each other worse. People do weird stuff when they are merely attracted to someone, never mind under the chemical influence of "lurve"
I have NO IDEA why RUclips recommended this to me, but I've spent the last hour or so watching Bridezilla takedowns and I have to say, this is fucking brilliant.
I think that's how most people found Charlotte's channel- that's how I discovered her, too. Same goes for the subsequent hours of bingeing that follows said discovery.
when my best friends got married, they didn´t tell anyone but their closest family, and two weeks later, they had a big bbq party with all their friends and families, where they then surprised everybody with the reason for the party. they did it this way so that nobody had to worry about gifts, dress code etc, and so everybody could just relax and be happy celebrating with them. It has been almost 15 years since then, they are still going strong and I wish them all the best for decades to come!
The best wedding I ever attended specifically called for people to bring comfy clothes. We had the ceremony with around 15 people and afterwards everyone changed at the bride's and groom's house and we had a barbeque in the garden.
Good for your friends and their family & friends. That, to me, is the essence of getting married. Celebrating that you have found love, and sharing that joy with those closest to you in a simple way that has a powerful message: "We love each other, we are happy, we love you and want to share this happiness with you." I would never attend a wedding that has so many outrageous demands attached to it.
I agree! I was born in '73, and grew up in the 80s. I remember dresses that were FAR BETTER than that green/black monstrosity the bridezilla chose. I would never have worn that back in the day! Good for the OP that declined!!!
More like she dodged a nuclear warhead.I am male,and don't know anything about dresses,but the bridesmaids who wore those things would have probably looked like female Teenage Mutant(I'm sure they're beautiful ladies)Ninja Turtles.I kinda wanna know if as they were walking down the aisle,did they say,"We're bridesmaids in a half-shell."
When my parents got married 36 years ago my dad's aunt brought a trash bag full of things from around her house to give them as a wedding gift because she was really struggling financially at the time but didn't want to show up empty-handed. Most of the people made fun of her behind her back over it. But my mom still to this day says everything she brought was the best gifts they got, because they were things they could actually use and she still brought a bunch of stuff even though she was struggling. My mom can't remember anyone else's gifts but can still remember every single thing my dad's aunt gave them.
I play a game called Elite dangerous.. its a very complicated space simulator. I wanted a copy of my main ship made.. the guy that did the 3D printing made it about 23in long 5in wide.. and charged me 90$ and that was a steal.. It took him 2 days straight... and he gave me a big discount. I was seriously happy with what he made.. I can't believe this woman wanted all of that work for pennys. Just getting the pictures of the Item and programming it to do the printing takes time and a lot of effort.
And people don't realize, while that machine is printing it's not like OP can go out and live their lives, that machine has to be watched because if an error starts happening it can ruin the whole piece then that is time and materials wasted. So it's not like OP is "sitting on their butt" by choice. It's like being on-call, you get paid for changing your life/activities around to be available to be used, just a part of life.
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@@sophies9274 me too. I was even mad by just watching the video lol
I own one, the print can fail at any time and you have to constantly tune it up before each print, check on it frequently, cleaning up makes your hands pain like nothing you've ever done, could relate, that guy was super nice though.
Right?! My roomie had access to a 3D printer at a previous job and it was very y time and surprisingly (to me with no 3D printing knowledge) labor intensive to watch and make sure it didn’t eff up in the middle of a 10 hour job
@@kathydurow6814 I know like she was going to shame them into doing it for free. “HEY ASSHOLE I WANT THEM DONE FOR FREE AS A WEDDING GIFT BECAUSE ITS MY WEDDING!” “Oh really? Okay you’re right I’m being totally selfish and will get right on it! Free of charge of course!”
@@martinamoroney7164 I know - some people are really insane about their wedding. People seem to have forgotten that the point of a wedding is to celebrate with your community and to involve the people who will support you in your marriage.
No, let's get this straight, it is LITERALLY the Bride's Day! Why would you even imply it isn't? She gets everything she wants and everyone else should know their place on HER day. It's people like you, who just don't get it and think that other human beings with actual feelings like friends and family and the groom actually matter on that day. People should quite literally step aside and get out of her way, figure out a way to genuflect gracefully as she passes, or move into the role of servant, preferably with lowered eyes and head, on that day. And yes, this is sarcasm.
According to every Bridezilla it most self evidently is NOT his day. The groom becomes nothing more than an accessory for the photos, ceremony, cake cutting, first dance, etc. Other than those things (And the size of his bank account) a blow up doll would do as well (and perhaps better).
Man, I got married just over 3 years ago, and I was so afraid of being a bridezilla that I actually drove my bridesmaids a little crazy by NOT making decisions. I gave them a color, a length, a reasonably priced store, and had them choose their own dress that suits their taste and budget. And I was constantly trying to get input from my husband who didn't want to give it (though his one request was that we do our first dance to "Storybook Love" from the Princess Bride, and since that was the only thing he asked for, and I also love that song/movie, that's what I went with. It's his wedding too). My aunts paid for both my sisters' wedding gowns as their gift, so they did the same for me and I tried really hard to only try on gowns at the lower end of their budget because I wanted to be considerate. But then I found the one I fell in love with, which was just over their budget, so I wasn't going to get it, and my mom, God bless her, could tell, so she chipped in too to make up the difference. And my mother and father-in-law fronted the money for everything so we could pay them back and not have to worry about interest on a loan. So many people came and helped me, and gave their input without shoving it down my throat, and encouraged me to make it about me and my husband without going over the top. I love them all so much, and they helped make the day so incredibly special. 💗
This!! Me too. I got married in 1992 and my bridesmaids still tease me occasionally about my two rules: Be yourself and have fun, lol. My maid of honor was a little heavyset and no one cared one bit. I chose her because of who she is, not whether she looks like a model, and yes, she has a gorgeous face …..I don’t care what color your hair is or whether it’s straight or curly or long or short.
When that first bride said she wanted an 80's wedding, she should have specified that she meant an 1880's wedding...'cause I was in my 20s during the 1980's, and NO ONE wore anything like that.
So I used to be a wedding photographer. Once, a couple asked me to be their photographer, and when I told them the pricing they showed me a video they made for their guests. This video was like an ad for the wedding, because the wedding was going to take place somewhere in the Caribbean and they made this video so that their guests could pay for an all inclusive hotel package where the wedding was to take place and whatnot. As it turns out, they wanted ME to pay to attend the wedding, take the photos in exchange for the "opportunity" to be at their wedding and I could also "enjoy the rest of the trip", and "share a few drinks" after I was done "capturing their memories". And trust me, this wasn't the only couple who came to me asking for similar shit. The audacity I tell ya.
Getting a staged vibe from the first one… not that Charlotte had anything to do with it but that 2 friends made this up over text and then submitted it. Am I the only one?
@@jweno I'm fully with you. Not only because it is such a preposterous chimera of every bridezilla story, But also because, as anyone who has organized a wedding knows, it would be incredibly difficult to get matching gowns, in the right color and sizes, for the whole wedding party in a week's time! The industry isnt set up like that.
i can’t imagine what the groom is like. (referring to no.1) i feel as though someone who could marry somebody that entitled, is probably also that entitled themselves. any normal person would think she’s out of her mind.
Some nice, soft towels or a super soft rug for the living room or next to my bed would be amazing tbh I just moved into my very first apartment of my own and still haven't acquired most of the things most homes have- like a couch and a TV for the living room. lol Being poor is fun. [:
I find all these “this is my day” brides so sad because it clearly means every moment of their lives has built up to getting married and that finding a husband has taken priority over everything else.
well you could overthink it like that, but they also might have had a great life and just wanted a really fancy wedding because they're used to things going their way.
@@ameliaboyce4215 The more fancy a wedding is, the shorter the marriage is, because people that do these ultrafancy weddings are superficial, hollow and only care about apparences, which means that they are usually sad.
@@petitesayo4542 don’t forget that they usually end up going into debt for the sake of making their big day happen. They focus on the perfect fairy tale wedding, but forget the important part: the marriage. Not saying Amelia is necessarily wrong, a lot of them are just spoiled, plain and simple.
I love how these bridezillas believe that their weddings are just about them; it just gives an insight as to how they will treat their marriages, giving the poor, naïve husbands their last chance to bail out before that break-up becomes almost unaffordable. Edit: I looked up 1980s bridesmaid dresses, and that hideous fashion crime of a 'dress' was a PROM dress, not a bridesmaid dress. I don't mind black lace with dark green; on some individuals, it's quite flattering, but combined with that metallic fabric, it very much resembles steam punk gone HORRIBLY wrong!
Eh, I like the color scheme, but that skirt shape… I legitimately shuddered. It’s not completely a lost cause, and the right person could probably salvage it with some major tweaks to the skirt, but yeah, it’s completely unhinged for the bride to demand that her bridesmaids all buy and wear that thing as it is.
Who in their right mind would contact someone they don't know to ask that they produce 250 mini wheelbarrows and then demand they're given free as a wedding gift at an expense of several thousand dollars as well as several months to make? lol
The person making the wheelbarrows? I would have stopped talking to that psycho WAAAY before then. Way too patient and I'm glad they finally said "ok it's full price now"
Also, I would say that since the gift should be in the amount approx. twice the overhead of meals/drinks, since I'm supposed to pay for my own meal, I will forfeit the gift.
Therapist: How insecure are you? Bridezilla: everyone else should not wear make up and should not have face because i want all eyes on me. THIS IS MY LIFE
Weren't for the costs - 300 bucks min. for present + 100 bucks for food - I'd gather everyone so ALL WOMEN would go to her wedding wearing yellow (not blonde) wigs and blank masks, on green dresses of all types. And THAT would be her memory of those who appeared on her wedding - anonymous fake blondes in green.
WHEN did brides start thinking everyone should pay for their weddings? I can't remember this ever being a thing. When I got married, we paid for everything except the food, which my parents paid for. We registered to make gifts easier to choose, but we certainly didn't require anyone to bring one. When did this insanity start? It's bizarre, it's selfish, it's cruel, it's cheap, and it's just downright RUDE. Does no one have any shame any more???
It's become more and more common in recent years because people have gotten more selfish (this has been actually researched) and I guess weddings getting out of hand. There are people who instead of "come celebrate our union with us, our treat" to "WE ARE ARRANGING THIS EXPENSIVE WEDDING FOR YOU TO CELEBRATE US SO YOU BETTER PAY BECAUSE WE DO THIS FOR YOU"
Exactly. That's why people complained weddings were expensive because the people throwing the wedding pay for everything......I also thought that was the ONLY reason they got to pick out color themes and the bridesmaid's dresses was because they were paying for it all so that allowed them to make those demands.
It seriously is. I don't get Bridezillas, I helped with my sister in laws wedding, they made a a three day holiday for everyone one in a beautiful place. Everyone had fun. I can't imagine someone wanting to dye and cut my hair (also 11lb is pretty skinny unless you are naturally that size, you can't lose a load of weight that quickly and nor should you). Kind of wondering if she actually ended up with any people turning up to the wedding at all.
I volunteer at an animal shelter and I once had this girl come in with fabric samples because she wanted a cat who would match her couch. Honestly, she went from cat to cat seeing which one would best match the fabric sample. I wondered what her husband thought about this because it was the craziest thing I had ever dealt with, but he looked as proud of her as he could be, possibly because she was absolutely beautiful. They ended up not adopting from my shelter, which actually made me very happy. Some people are just not normal, whether it's their wedding or not!!
I had a friend who turned into a bridezilla. She wanted everyone to empty their bank accounts for her "big day". She wouldn't even be there if you had a death in your family let alone to be there as me and my friends were for her wedding. In the end, I gave up and 3 weeks to her wedding cut her off firstly because my bank account was starting to look pretty bad, and secondly because I was neglecting my own personal stuff to be there for her with no appreciation. I went on her wedding day and her whole family was giving me the evils as I did her wrong. Anyway, a year later she got divorced and she turned into a divorcedilla if there is such a thing. We are no longer friends and this experience put me off weddings for life.
Simple ceremonies are the best. Let rich people and wannabe rich people throw massive weddings. I'd be all about organizing a massive reception, with food and drink for a small army. But the big ceremony in fancy clothes is not for me.
@@harrymills2770 I agree. I myself had a really nice wedding. We went to Mexico with only the immediate family who were able to attend plus 4 extra friends. I had a beautiful dress courtesy of my mum and dad. I’m not a fussy gal and I told my resort assigned wedding planner to chose what he liked and what he would chose if his sister were getting married. He picked deep deep red roses and gladiolus, and chocolate cake with white icing. My hair and makeup was done by a really cool girl at the resort’s salon with my exact name from Mexico City, I said ‘do what you do sis!’, it turned out stunning and I felt amazing. We had some delicious steaks, and a killer pumpkin soup Im given to understand is a much loved regional dish which we still talk about to this day. There was other food, but the soup stole the show. I showed up with pretty crystal seahorses from Swarovski which I thought would look nice on my cake maybe, also a gift from my mum who is a collector. I don’t know who it was, the culinary people or the planner, but they took the seahorses and ran with the theme and when I walked into the little restaurant for our group’s private dinner, the cake was stood decorated with shells and flowers; it was stunning. I didn’t choose music, I didn’t choose refreshments, I didn’t chose decorations and everything about it was the best. That night was traditional Mexican themed entertainment with music and dancing everywhere, and the group spent the night walking from little cluster of singers and dancers to the next. It cost us about 6 thousand bucks, which included mine and my husband’s 7 day all inclusive vacay. I think back to our wedding and I remember an absolutely wonderful family vacation where I also got married and had a kick ass time. Zero regrets. I’m obviously on the other end of the spectrum in terms of caring, but It’s my belief that when people place too many expectations on their experiences they are only opening the door to disappointment. Your vision will never match the result.
@@harrymills2770 my sister had a beautiful big wedding when I was like 12, and there I learned that I didn’t now want a big wedding. I got married two months ago and there were literally like 10 ppl (also thanks Covid i guess) and it was beautiful, with so much less stress cx I loved our wedding, even tho the guests couldn’t stay for the party portion that was to take place at my parents backyard 😅 it was short simple, and beautiful ♥️ very happy with my choice c: (p.s. I feel like an angel watching all these bridezila videos 😂😂😂)
@@theirmanager5204 This, and artists know what they're doing. I love going to artists with just a speck of an idea (like your crystal seahorses) and let them run with it. It always turns out more magical than you can ever imagine. Glad to hear you had a wonderful wedding, it sounds absolutely perfect!
Yeah, the fact that she said maids would have to be 115 pounds 7 days before the wedding seemed like a really round about way of saying the friend should opt out and wasn't expecting to be called out for all the other crazy sh*t.
Yeah & who asks someone to be a bridesmaid 7 days out from a wedding anyway?! That was a pure ‘panic invite’ right there, I guarantee another bridesmaid backed out & needed a replacement asap.
Honestly, the first sounds a little suspicious. I think someone sent a bit of fanciful tale to Charlotte. A parody of bridezilla correspondence, if you will... :3
If I were the 3D-printing guy's best friend, I'd be sooooo sorry for giving that bride his contact (and I probably wouldn't attend her wedding and try to get away from her ASAP).
“Your friends and family aren’t your personal piggy banks.” On a beautifully executed and framed embroidery sampler. Perfect wedding present. What to do when you receive a smallish wedding present? Send them a gracious thank you note.
@@kitty62862 The one complaining about Towels made me self conscious. For my Brothers wedding I braided him and my SIL a paracord thing. I was also about 14. I didn't really have cash.
@@melmiamisfit trust me I would have loved and cherished it any actual human specially family would love it! Handmade gifts are in the tops of special gifts they have a little of the person making them in them tied up with love.
Agreed - but we don’t know the whole story... if those friends were well off, then that would have felt like an insult- like they were being passive aggressive or making some kind of point or something...🤷🏻♀️
How she was even friends with this person in the first place is beyond me. Unless she suddenly suffered a massive head injury and thus became a totally different person, THIS IS MY DAY would have been a constant hallmark of her personality/character.
Right? I mean, don't dance or talk to anyone? WTF? Who the hell says that? Don't wear make-up? Weigh 115 lbs? I really hope "her day" was ruined and no one showed up.
Most bridezillas aren’t like this all the time, they are normally pretty nice, but the stress of their wedding makes them like this. Also there’s the Karen’s.
@Shannon R. You are speaking the truth. This kind of sick behavior is one of their character traits that is hidden (or not) and will always be there but disguised. There is no excuse for their actions and demands. I am glad I don't have friends like that....
As a Brazilian that all her life went to marriages from middle-class to lower-class from people that are from the same church as me, hearing these stories is a ride, in good part because of the cultural clash. Like... Bridesmaids and groomsmen here are very frequently children from the bride and groom families or from close friends, usually around six-year-old, that literally just walk down the aisle to announce the bride and carry the rings, dressed as little brides and grooms (a brazilian wedding without any kids is literally impossible for me to imagine) (the last one I went three little boys were dressed as security and carrying a briefcase with the rings, it was so freaking cute). Gifts, specially if the couple is more lower-class, very commonly are things for the house, like... Clothes washing machine, beds and so on (once my parents gifted an iron frame bed to a couple because the groom was a really big man and wood ones would not be able to handle his weight). It's very common for the talk between guests and the couple to go along "have someone already gifted x thing? no? That's what I'm bringing!". Marriages here usually have what we call "godparents" or "witnesses", they are usually married couples that mean something to the ones marrying (like uncles and aunts, cousins and so on) that walk down the aisle before the bride; usually it's only color-coded, with the witnesses dressing as they are able to. Also, probably because most of these were church-related and lower-class, a lot of the times people from the family and the church pitch in to cook lunch/dinner for the party, instead of a professional buffet.
The sad thing is, I think in at least some of these cases these women were probably perfectly normal until they got engaged, and then suddenly everyone from society, to their families, to predatory industries that makes wedding items is putting all kinds of pressure on them to have the "perfect" day and it just breaks them. Not saying they shouldn't be held accountable for the bad things they do after breaking, for the record. Just that it's kind of sad all around.
**some** of them, especially the lesser cases, are probably fairly normal people acting out of Character who have had people in their lives, and various wedding industries, and shows and magazines, and just the insane stress of trying to plan a wedding Toss them into a CRAZY but temporary place. (Planning a big formal wedding is a major effort, and some people dream of that event all their lives, so pressure can be high) BUT BUT BUT Some of these women have personality disorders, and the men marrying them are likely codependent, or also have a personality disorder, or are otherwise the product of household where a parent had a personality disorders/was otherwise abusive that, on a deep level, they don't know what a healthy relationship or boundaries would even look like. It's a frightening thought. You want to just send everyone concerned to some emergency intervention therapy.
melissa saint You have no idea if any of these females have any disorders or if any of these males are codependent or have any other issues. That is a massive accusation and assumption!! Did you psychologically evaluate them? No, you didn't and you cannot do any form of evaluation over one thing that was brought up in this video or any other video. In order to evaluate them you would need to run numerous neurocognitive tests, psychological evaluation tests, have medical and family history as well as talk to them in person. Just because people are being disrespectful, outrageous, entitled and an over all a b**ch does not mean they actually have mental health issues and nor does it mean that the males they are going to marry are codependent or have any issues either. Do not spit out false judgments based off of no real evidence other then these females are being b**ches. That is the problem with society today. Everyone wants to claim someone has mental health issues when they don't. So unless you actually have a license to practice psychology and have personally properly evaluated any of these people do not assume they are anything more then b**chy people and that their partners have issues at all. By the way yes, some could have mental health issues but you do not know if they do and there is no way to know.
@@jessicapearson9479 that last paragraph kinda seems to negate the rest 🤔 Im not "diagnosing" anyone in particular, I mean extreme "bridezillas" in general. Sometimes, we're seeing just stressed out people. But sometimes, what we are seeing are untreated malignant narcissists who always walk all over people, Or people with untreated borderline personality disorder who are being horribly abusive (while inside they are likely in intense emotional distress because of the situation) Statistically, people who marry malignant narcissists are just a lot more likely to have grown up in a home with a narcissistic parent...and they have trauma from that which often manifests in some predictable ways.
melissa saint No, the last paragraph only points out that some people do have issues but you cannot say they do without proof. Also, while yes, there are people with mental health issues all over, to assume that these people and especially their husbands to have metal health issues and such serious mental health issues is wrong and actually further stigmatizes mental health. Are you licensed in any mental health field? If so, then you know there is absolutely no information here to even come close to say that any of these people have such serious mental health disorders. Also, you should know that most of the statistics you are more then likely referring too are also based of assumptions. They can only be considered "best guess" at best. Due to the fact that they are based on very very small groups of people taken from the census reports. Most people lie on those reports for fear of the government. Not to mention without people actually going in and being diagnosed the statics are only assuming they have those issue. By the way, if you are curious the symptoms for BPD(Bipolar Disorder), BLD (Borderline Personality Disorders), PTSD all have the same symptoms when it comes to diagnosis and all usually come from having trauma happen to them as children like you mention with a few genetic exceptions. So, according to your assumptions these bridezillas would also most likely have been traumatized. Also, of the people who have gone in and been evaluated and diagnosed about 85% of the diagnosis is wrong and solely based on averages and not the individual themselves. This causes problems in treatment plans and thet often have to go get evaluated multiple times often getting different results. Long story short you cannot trust any statist that assumes the amount of people walking around with mental health issues. You can only trust the percentages done on real people who have actually been tested.
A friend of mine once got invited to a wedding and the couple expected him to buy for a gift that was over $400. or he wouldn’t be allowed to attend the wedding if he didn’t comply with their gift requirements. So he did he bought $400 worth of cow manure and sent a note ‘enjoy your new shit’ plus he didn’t attend the wedding as well. My friend works in farming.
@@namemiddle And that is even more concerning. The fiancé of every bridezilla do even know what they are asking for the wedding?? (Unless they are like them... this is sad)
and she broke down the cost and explained it. like a lot of people would ask why the amount and people dont really explain it so you just get x amount/ y pieces so here's the cost/piece.
@@shalakaj523 I'm not sure if there's an obligation, but it's fairly common that if someone is asked for an overview of the costs, that they break it down like that so people can see the costs. The sad thing is that a lot of artists don't charge worker's time. They only charge materials and other costs. And if they do charge for worker's time, it's usually dirt cheap.
To the bride with alllllll those rules: I would have convinced all the bridesmaids to all show up late wearing and looking whatever they like. Or possibly all wearing those blowup T-Rex costumes.🤣🤣🤣
I can NOT imagine wearing that dress with no makeup with bleached blond hair cut to my shoulders without any styling (because you know she wouldn’t have accepted that) like I’d HATE that
@@shewolfinubaka judging from that text I wouldn’t be surprised if she purposely suggested no make up and bleached hair for her bridesmaids so she can be the only one to look good because ITS HER DAY! Lol 😂
Did anyone see Working Girl? The wedding she was in? Even the clothes and hair for going to work, unless you were in more of the higher echelons of the conservative business world, were insane (albeit exaggerated somewhat for comedic effect in the movie, but not too much)! I started working there in the mid-80's. Worked in those buildings right there on Wall Street down by the SI Ferry! Luckily, I toned down the hair, clothes and make-up, and never had to be a bridesmaid except by friends I knew in the same field, but come on!
Makes me glad that the two weddings I was a bridesmaid at weren't like this: Both of them knew I wasn't big fan of wearing dresses, I'm also sensitive to certain fabrics (slight sensory issues). But they basically just said "Here's the color, pick the dress you want" I ended up picking the same style of dress for both weddings (long dress, not too formfitting, short sleeves, almost completely covers the chest area but not touching my neck, comfortable fabric). The two brides (my brother's wife, and my sister) approved of it. They also both had a registries but everything on it was decently priced. Makes me glad that I know down-to-earth people
When a friend of mine got married I had yet to met her husband, so I wasn't sure what to get. I checked on their list and saw they asked for pillows and at the time was exactly the amount I could afford. We joke to this day about this, saying I got a gift for them to get laid (quite literally) lol A wedding it's about celebrating the union of a couple, while I do think it's one special day for them, it's about the couple and they should celebrate however they want, if they need help, they will be glad with anything given to help (I did my aunt invitations for basically free and in exchange she helped me get the dress to wear on the ceremony as the flower girl) Being a bride doesn't give free pass to give shit to everyone around you. If I ever get a friend going like that I would be cutting off without a second thought
That "this is my day" crazy person is clearly marrying herself as she is only talking about HER day & not her & hubs. What a lucky man to get out of that one!
Don't know how she managed to get someone to the altar with her with that appalling attitude, sounds like a self entitled princess who has got everything she's wanted all her life (probably from daddy) and expects everyone to bow to her.
@@angelicone181 In the UK it's traditional for the bride's father to pay for the wedding. I've never been asked to pay for my own food and bring an expensive gift at any wedding I've been to. What worries me is that people here tend to copy all American trends, so I expect that entitled behaviour will appear over here before long.
@@BoingBB why are people expected to pay for food at another's wedding? arent the couple getting married/ whoever pays for the wedding supposed to cover the f&b, the space where it happens, the cost quoted by the priest etc etc?
@@shalakaj523 That's my point. Over here we aren't expected to pay anything. The bride's father usually foots the bill. All that's asked of the guests is their attendance.
@@BoingBB It's the same here in the states. That Bridezilla's... DEMANDS... are absolutely tacky, ill-mannered, NOT the custom, and must be an absolute embarrassment to the poor guy who is marrying her (or... hopefully not after he learned about her disgraceful behavior).
I didn't expect any gifts when I got married, I just wanted people who loved me and my husband to be there on our special day, I got things I really needed which included TOWELS, and we were happy with it.
@@maggiemae9099 I got household necessities, I got towels, a sheet set, even a bathroom shower curtain set with bath mats! I was especially excited about more towels because at the time, my now husband and I only had a few towels and none of them were new when we got them...There really isn't anything better than a brand new towel after a shower!!
I'm still using the towels my sweet Aunt Earline bought me when I got married. Indeed, they came from Kmart, 30 years ago. My precious aunt is no longer with us, but using her towels is like a hug from her. One of the towels is buried with my son's cat. He knew it was a towel she gave me, and special, but he wanted his beloved kitty to be wrapped in love too. She loved animals, so I think she would have approved.
People should play a drinking game for these wedding vids. Every time someone says the phase “this. Is. MY. day!!!” We’d be screwed. Just make sure y’all home for the night. Lol
This may come as a shock, but everyone attending your wedding knows you are the bride....... no one can steal your spotlight, they literally came to your wedding to look at you....... we also know it's your day.
We had a next day brunch after our wedding and I was blown away by how generous people were. There were gifts ranging all over the place, and I was so surprised and delighted by their thoughtfulness. Some of the things were not things we registered for, but you could tell a lot of thought went into them, and some were made by the gifter, which I loved. I could no imagine having such an entitled attitude toward friends and family. I did fight a lot with my mom about the wedding, but mainly because she made it about herself... I wonder if there are Mother Of Bridezilla stories out there.
I asked for recipes as gifts… my family cooks a lot and it was so sweet to get these hand written recipe cards for the family favorites from my childhood. My mom gave me a really pretty recipe box. But I mostly did that because I knew my family wouldn’t go for no gifts, it was my second marriage, I was a homeowner in my 30’s and needed nothing really. I still got some gifts and I do cherish them but it was really just about having them there.
When I got married we had a very nice ceremony, upscale I guess you would say. Not crazy expensive but well above cheap...lol. Anyway we got some very nice (expensive) gifts along with notable cash gifts. My favorite/most touching gift was a manual can opener. Why? Because it was from a male, single 20 year old co-worker. He cared enough to come AND brought a gift!! It was a nice can opener in a small sweet wedding gift bag! I teared up when I opened it. Money doesn't make the gift and gifts don't make the wedding, people. This guy was shy and awkward but he came to my wedding where he only knew a couple people to show his friendship and support to me! It's been 20 years and I don't remember a single gift now, except that lovely can opener!
I would have been out of that first wedding the second she said “you have to dye your hair blonde”… I have jet black hair. Nope not happening haha. What a bunch of crazies
Saaaame. My hair is soft black (#2 on that human hair scale) and I haven't been a bottle blonde in a number of years, but the last time I did it, it took literally 8 weeks and 3 passes to go from black to platinum, and that was with a professional's help. If I was going to be in the wedding, had that kind of advance notice, and the bride helped pay for the bleaching then I'd probably say yes, but on a week's notice she's gonna have a bunch of bald bridesmaids if any at all.
I seriously doubt that the first bride has any real friends. Her bridesmaids are probably the poor girls who were unlucky enough to be in the same sorority with her.
I used to work at a private club that had weddings. The ugliest cake I ever saw looked like it was iced with sand and had blobs of red all over it. The blobs were roses and the icing was slivered, candied almonds on a delicious icing. While we were setting up, we were a bit confused because we were using red ribbons on the tables. It was June and we thought red was a weird color for a June wedding. Turns out the bridesmaids wore tea length white lace dresses with red bouquets. The groomsmen wore white tuxedos with red bowties and red rose boutonnieres. The bride was in full length white with a white rose bouquet dotted with a few red roses, groom white tux, white bowtie and red rose boutonniere. Flower girl and ring bearer dressed like bride and groom. It was the most beautiful and elegant wedding I'd ever seen. The cake was absolutely delicious.
No 1. If this is real, I'm genuinely wondering how many people actually showed up to HER DAY. (Or actually, if the wedding wasn't cancelled in the first place.)
I guess she must have a really f...able body, since she has a fiance. As for her friends - she must have been a popular highscool girl (hot), like in those highscool movies.
My approach would have been to be vague about whether or not I was available to do it, asking for clarification and stating my price so that in case I found out about the attitude of the client I could decline them easily. People like this are not worth the time and are more likely to not pay at all, try to "negotiate" at the last second, cancel their order the day before, or try to claim once finished it's "not what they wanted" no matter how much clarification they are given.
I had a niece who got married many years ago and she sent out invitations saying totally casual - shorts, jeans whatever we wanted. So we all figured it was a cookout type day and the weddding would also be casual. When we all arrived in our comfy clothes the bride and groom and the attendants were all dressed up formally. They had the wedding at the groom's aunt's house which had a magnificent view of the mountains. There was a large deck on the house and the bride and groom etc were up there and the rest of us were on the lawn below - they had speakers so we could all hear. The day could not have been more perfect. The attendants all wore the same color but different styles and the groomsmen all had vests the same color with white shirts.The pictures were perfect and the bride and groom changed in to casual clothing and joined us all on the lawn. They had the dinner catered. No stress for them and it was so perfect for the two of them.
What the fuck? That cake made with 2days notice by the friend in training was STUNNING!!! Hit them with the maths, show brides how decent these vendors/craftspeople are and what an incredible deal they are offering... Just so bridezillas can kick them in the teeth, throw it back and ask for it at a further discount or for free when they are already making losses and losing 2months of their life to one order! 😰🤨😔🤢 The audacity makes me sick
@@stephaniemathieson9910 That's what an Indian man (I believe it was India, could have been Bangladesh) did, he offered free small bags of food, that would only be worth the effort for people that really needed it, inside he hid money (not a shocking amount, but enough to feed them for like 2 months). That way it only landed with those that needed it.
Haha same. When Charlotte showed the picture of the dress I was like "Wich 80s? Cause that dress definetly isnt from the 1980s and definetly not looking like that either."
I went to school with a girl that I could imagine acting this way if/when she were getting married. She was a late-in-life only child of two gentle souls who gave her everything and never said "no." It was heartbreaking to see how they were always trying to placate her, and see the hurt look on their faces when she'd reject their gifts. I finally had to stop hanging out with her because it was depressing to see the way she treated them.
It's going to be "her day" all right, hers and hers alone because I can't imagine anybody wanting to spend more than sixty seconds in a room with that one
This makes me realize how laid back we were. We picked out the dress color, and the bridesmaids picked the style. They did their hair and makeup the way they want. Jewelry and shoes were whatever they want. We just wanted all of them comfortable with what they were wearing.
Same. My matron of honor was pg at the time and there was No Way I was going to ask her to wear something uncomfortable. My other bridesmaids were different shapes and heights...so just said wear what makes you feel pretty. They all looked gorgeous 😍
Same with my wedding and every wedding I have been in. We get a color swatch of material to match and that's it! I was quite happy with my wedding pictures, and was thrilled to spend my wedding day with my friends of all shapes and sizes.
Oh. My. Goodness. I can't believe people would agree to that list of demands and ordering someone to make 4000 of stuff free WHEN YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW THEM!
For #2. Use the towels to dry your tears and suck it up. When my wife and I got married we were poor enough that we asked people who could to bring a potluck dish. But we made it clear that NO present was therefore expected and certainly not required. Even the potluck dish wasn't required, just helpful. Oh, and weddings aren't just for the bride. They are for the community of friends to share in and affirm the marriage. If you have found someone you really truly love then you have all the reward you need when you "tie the knot". Don't look to others to make your relationship with the one you love any more special. If you need that you are marrying the wrong person.
My bridesmaids dresses were like $40.00, and something they could wear for other occasions, and I the shoes were flats so they wouldn't be in pain for the whole wedding. I was (and still am) a fairly practical and frugal person.
Same. I actually just had them wear dresses they had or purchased for the day. I had too many bridesmaid dresses that just got immediately sent to Goodwill.
I only had 1 matron of honor, no bridemaids. She wore a dress my mom had made for me herself the year before for the Marine Corp Birthday Ball. My husband was in the Marines. He wore his dress uniform. His best friend was his best man and wore a suit, not a tux and we were fine with that. I wore a borrowed wedding dress from a friend of my mother. We did our entire wedding for less than $200, and while it wasn't the greatest, I was just happy to be marrying the man I loved. I'm like you, practical and frugal.
I made my ex best friend and her husband a dream catcher for their wedding gift, something very meaningful in my culture. I even told them beforehand and they said that they would love a handmade dreamcatcher. They pretended to be appreciative, then turned around to their other friends saying I was a "a cheap and lazy so called friend." They're completely out of my life now, and I've never been happier.
Damn! I’m sorry, they don’t deserve it! I would honestly find that neat. Especially since you handmade it. I also think it’s cool to learn about other cultures and the seemingly little things that are greatly valued among them. That is a really sweet gift!!
Bro handmade gifts are the best imo, it shows how much you care about the other person, you can't just simply buy it cz it's made personally for you. I would prefer a handmade gift over a 1000$ gift any day
I would love something handmade as a present. Anyone can buy stuff but making something themselves takes time and effort on another level. The present gets even more special. 😁
Handmade stuff is the best! I don't understand why people want specific gifts. If you are paying so much for a wedding I'm sure you can afford a George Foreman or whatever lol. Thoughtful gifts are way nicer
I love how people expect artists to just give everything for free because “it’s a wedding” or “for exposure”… ok I want my teeth done for free, I want free college, free clothes and a free mansion😂. Seriously wtf is up with these entitled brides!
THIS IS MY DAY! The way she's acting, she might not be seeing too many more days. Side note: Can 3D printers create substantial birth control? I don't think we need her procreating.
If "THIS IS MY DAY" bridezilla is real, I can't believe there is someone that had actually asked to marry her! 🤣 Unless he's a groomzilla himself hahaha
Cheep gifts: grin and bear it! You are the hosts and being gracious is expected of you! Be happy that they brought anything at all! And think about your frinds wirh love, whenever you use them! ❤😊
My 5 year old laughed at the screaming man art moment and watched it several times. lol, I love how funny your sarcasm is, and it seems so dose my mini. 😂🎉
If you were a girl and you were told not to wear makeup at a wedding ceremony because the bride wants all the spotlight on herself, then ignore the invitation and don't go. That's like inviting us guys to a wedding and telling us not to wear suits.
Subtext of the first bride: “i am hella insecure and so bland that everyone could outshine me by even existing. That's why i make their life a hell. I am also absolutely toxic snd will bodyshame you if you don't fulfill my body and beauty standarts“
Re: “slap in the face towels”. I mean, this is the problem that solves itself! Towel slap each other in the face with the towels until you become a decent member of society again! (It could take a while so maybe grab a couple of extra sets of the towels to have on hand..!)
Yeah if they are too poor to buy something expensive okay. But, who gives towels as a gift for any occasion? They could of gotten candles or something else. Even a lovely picture frame with a picture of the bride and groom from when they first started dating,
@@tsubakiofmelancholy6297 There are his and hers towel sets you can get as wedding gifts. They always come up when shopping for wedding gifts. I think they're sweet. Plus when 2 people get married, you expect kind of like housewarming type gifts to help them build their home together. It is a good gift. She's just a gold digging, unappreciative brat.
Let's just imagine she is able to convince them to do what she wants... imagine the gigantic hissy fit that bridezilla would have later upon seeing all the wedding photos of her bridesmaids without makeup and with fried blond hair. Obviously, it would be all their fault for not stopping her, right?
@@staceykersting705 but isn't that breaking THE RULES? She wrote to dye the hair, and anyone who wont will be uninvited, because as we know - THIS IS HER DAY! 🤣🤣🤣 i am seriously wondering how many bridesmaids agreed on that insane terms.
She wants the bridesmaids to look bad in order to make herself look great. Bet she won't even want them in the pictures, because after all, it is HER DAY.
When my wife and I married, her nephew, a little kid around the age of 10, had been washing cars and mowing lawns to earn money so he could gift us a pepper and salt set. Best gift of the entire wedding, the pride on his face when he presented it to us is unforgetable. (and yes I am still using it 22 years later even though my wife passed away a year ago)
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You are a wonderful man! Sending you strength for the loss of your wife. Take care 😊❤
Love that! I came home to a business card on my door a while back from a local kid about that age in the neighborhood offering yard services for pay. A few days later I saw him working in a neighbor's yard! It's a great start!
This warms my heart ❤
That cake looks BETTER than the reference like?? I would be so happy.
That is exactly what I was thinking.
That was my first thought as well!
the happy ending to that one was that the baker got SO MUCH LOVE due to the viral post and was inundated with new orders
Right ?!
@@sophies9274 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
"Will you help me forgive you"
The entitlement of this woman, that line alone is very triggering lmao
Triggering on a spiritual level
"Will you help me forgive you?"
"Nope. And for implying that *I* need forgiveness you can go eff yourself"
@@franl155 Haha, brilliant answer.
I have never seen someone this entitled
That one screams narcissistic personality disorder.
What always surprises me with these videos is... Someone actually proposed to these girls. Someone thought they are the best match in the world for them, they make them so happy they want to spend their life together, and possibly reproduce those amazing genes.
Love is blind. Good guy end up falling for bad I know a neighbour who had a job as a waitress. She earn her pocket money. She had five stars wedding. Hard work pay off she even invite her friends family.
It can be difficult for people to tell when they are in a bad match, toxic relationship, making each other worse. People do weird stuff when they are merely attracted to someone, never mind under the chemical influence of "lurve"
Or they are kingkong grooms and like that stuff 🤷🏻♀️
They probably are young, look good and some guy is intoxicated with them for the time being
I have NO IDEA why RUclips recommended this to me, but I've spent the last hour or so watching Bridezilla takedowns and I have to say, this is fucking brilliant.
no idea why I got a recommendation, too, but glad I decided to check it out.
I think that's how most people found Charlotte's channel- that's how I discovered her, too.
Same goes for the subsequent hours of bingeing that follows said discovery.
@@ath3na.64 - lol she should retitle it Charlotte's Web!
@@franl155 lol clever, I love that.
She is hysterical. I think we all need a good laugh.🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰
when my best friends got married, they didn´t tell anyone but their closest family, and two weeks later, they had a big bbq party with all their friends and families, where they then surprised everybody with the reason for the party. they did it this way so that nobody had to worry about gifts, dress code etc, and so everybody could just relax and be happy celebrating with them. It has been almost 15 years since then, they are still going strong and I wish them all the best for decades to come!
This is pretty much our exact plan! Easy, low-key (low-stress) and truly just those you care about.
The best wedding I ever attended specifically called for people to bring comfy clothes. We had the ceremony with around 15 people and afterwards everyone changed at the bride's and groom's house and we had a barbeque in the garden.
Good for your friends and their family & friends. That, to me, is the essence of getting married. Celebrating that you have found love, and sharing that joy with those closest to you in a simple way that has a powerful message: "We love each other, we are happy, we love you and want to share this happiness with you." I would never attend a wedding that has so many outrageous demands attached to it.
That is my dream wedding!
Where do I sign to be these people's friends?
That first girl didn't just dodge a bullet, she was Neo in the Matrix.
i liked your comment. very witty :)
I agree!
I was born in '73, and grew up in the 80s. I remember dresses that were FAR BETTER than that green/black monstrosity the bridezilla chose. I would never have worn that back in the day!
Good for the OP that declined!!!
The story seemed fake to me :/
More like she dodged a nuclear warhead.I am male,and don't know anything about dresses,but the bridesmaids who wore those things would have probably looked like female Teenage Mutant(I'm sure they're beautiful ladies)Ninja Turtles.I kinda wanna know if as they were walking down the aisle,did they say,"We're bridesmaids in a half-shell."
I was thinking Tuco from Breaking Bad.😄
When my parents got married 36 years ago my dad's aunt brought a trash bag full of things from around her house to give them as a wedding gift because she was really struggling financially at the time but didn't want to show up empty-handed. Most of the people made fun of her behind her back over it.
But my mom still to this day says everything she brought was the best gifts they got, because they were things they could actually use and she still brought a bunch of stuff even though she was struggling. My mom can't remember anyone else's gifts but can still remember every single thing my dad's aunt gave them.
That's beautiful! ❤
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This is so touching ❤
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All of it came directly from the heart.
My cousin has a 3D printer and let me tell you, that shit is expensive and takes so looooooong. Kudos to that person for being professional though.
I play a game called Elite dangerous.. its a very complicated space simulator. I wanted a copy of my main ship made.. the guy that did the 3D printing made it about 23in long 5in wide.. and charged me 90$ and that was a steal.. It took him 2 days straight... and he gave me a big discount. I was seriously happy with what he made.. I can't believe this woman wanted all of that work for pennys. Just getting the pictures of the Item and programming it to do the printing takes time and a lot of effort.
i can't believe how good that person was to the bride - i would have lost my shit about two messages in
And people don't realize, while that machine is printing it's not like OP can go out and live their lives, that machine has to be watched because if an error starts happening it can ruin the whole piece then that is time and materials wasted. So it's not like OP is "sitting on their butt" by choice. It's like being on-call, you get paid for changing your life/activities around to be available to be used, just a part of life.
@@sophies9274 me too. I was even mad by just watching the video lol
I own one, the print can fail at any time and you have to constantly tune it up before each print, check on it frequently, cleaning up makes your hands pain like nothing you've ever done, could relate, that guy was super nice though.
I can't believe no 1 is real. If it is, she's gonna be alone on HER DAY.
Is she marrying herself or entering marriage to someone who needs citizenship? Can't imagine anyone actually putting up with her
ITS HER DAY!! Now it's ONLY her day since no one would have showed up anywayyy lol
Exactly. It sure is gonna HER DAY! Because I sure wouldn’t go. And I’m blond lol.
How dare you say that. Being as it IS HER WEDDING DAY. 😂😂😂😂😂
ROFLMAO!!
Man, that 3D printer was so meticulous and articulate when explaining their work! - How reasonable can a person be with such an unreasonable nutter??
Right?! My roomie had access to a 3D printer at a previous job and it was very y time and surprisingly (to me with no 3D printing knowledge) labor intensive to watch and make sure it didn’t eff up in the middle of a 10 hour job
I liked how as bridezilla got more abusive, the cost and time frame went up, too😆
@@kathydurow6814 I know like she was going to shame them into doing it for free. “HEY ASSHOLE I WANT THEM DONE FOR FREE AS A WEDDING GIFT BECAUSE ITS MY WEDDING!” “Oh really? Okay you’re right I’m being totally selfish and will get right on it! Free of charge of course!”
possibly some people never hear the phrase ‘I want never gets’ is why some nutters act like that.
Yeah I was almost getting mad at them for outrageously underselling their work, two months of work for 2000 dollars?? Hell no
It’s hilarious how the bridezillas ask for these personalized, special things and then fly into a rage when they have to pay for it
If the wedding was "her day", the divorce party is his.
I laughed a little too hard at this. That caught me off guard. Hoo. Thank you.
As if the husbands are any better. I mean, they’re marrying these brides.
You win. 😂
LOL I was thinking "wedding called off" party if he sees those ridiculous text messages!
@@fragilelikeabomb3400 true that
To ALL brides that say "THIS IS MY DAY!" you wouldn't be a bride if some poor smuck hadn't asked you to marry him.....isn't it HIS day to?
Ennit!! Aha so far up their own arses man it actually baffles me how they can act like this and think its ok!???
@@martinamoroney7164 I know - some people are really insane about their wedding. People seem to have forgotten that the point of a wedding is to celebrate with your community and to involve the people who will support you in your marriage.
No, let's get this straight, it is LITERALLY the Bride's Day! Why would you even imply it isn't? She gets everything she wants and everyone else should know their place on HER day. It's people like you, who just don't get it and think that other human beings with actual feelings like friends and family and the groom actually matter on that day. People should quite literally step aside and get out of her way, figure out a way to genuflect gracefully as she passes, or move into the role of servant, preferably with lowered eyes and head, on that day. And yes, this is sarcasm.
@@Banyo__ I was so shook until I got to the end. Good one😂
According to every Bridezilla it most self evidently is NOT his day. The groom becomes nothing more than an accessory for the photos, ceremony, cake cutting, first dance, etc. Other than those things (And the size of his bank account) a blow up doll would do as well (and perhaps better).
Lol, if that bridezilla is such a 3D printing expert she can get a printer and do it herself.
I’m glad he ended it with the full price
@@ViolosD2I : Right, as if that's not an easy thing to do with search engines.
Haha she’ll probably say, “BUT I DONT KNOW WHERE TO GET ONE!!!!!” 😂😂
Man, I got married just over 3 years ago, and I was so afraid of being a bridezilla that I actually drove my bridesmaids a little crazy by NOT making decisions. I gave them a color, a length, a reasonably priced store, and had them choose their own dress that suits their taste and budget. And I was constantly trying to get input from my husband who didn't want to give it (though his one request was that we do our first dance to "Storybook Love" from the Princess Bride, and since that was the only thing he asked for, and I also love that song/movie, that's what I went with. It's his wedding too). My aunts paid for both my sisters' wedding gowns as their gift, so they did the same for me and I tried really hard to only try on gowns at the lower end of their budget because I wanted to be considerate. But then I found the one I fell in love with, which was just over their budget, so I wasn't going to get it, and my mom, God bless her, could tell, so she chipped in too to make up the difference. And my mother and father-in-law fronted the money for everything so we could pay them back and not have to worry about interest on a loan. So many people came and helped me, and gave their input without shoving it down my throat, and encouraged me to make it about me and my husband without going over the top. I love them all so much, and they helped make the day so incredibly special. 💗
Stories like this warms the heart..
You're the best
This!! Me too. I got married in 1992 and my bridesmaids still tease me occasionally about my two rules: Be yourself and have fun, lol. My maid of honor was a little heavyset and no one cared one bit. I chose her because of who she is, not whether she looks like a model, and yes, she has a gorgeous face …..I don’t care what color your hair is or whether it’s straight or curly or long or short.
When that first bride said she wanted an 80's wedding, she should have specified that she meant an 1880's wedding...'cause I was in my 20s during the 1980's, and NO ONE wore anything like that.
"Weird Al" Yankovic's daughter had an 80s-themed dance at school to attend and she went with the 1880s look 'cause - you know - you gotta specify.
@@PrinceRN I love that!!! 🤣🤣
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Thats like a shitty dress from disneys frozen or something😂
@@elite_rock_god2292 or Little House on the Prairie.
So I used to be a wedding photographer. Once, a couple asked me to be their photographer, and when I told them the pricing they showed me a video they made for their guests. This video was like an ad for the wedding, because the wedding was going to take place somewhere in the Caribbean and they made this video so that their guests could pay for an all inclusive hotel package where the wedding was to take place and whatnot. As it turns out, they wanted ME to pay to attend the wedding, take the photos in exchange for the "opportunity" to be at their wedding and I could also "enjoy the rest of the trip", and "share a few drinks" after I was done "capturing their memories". And trust me, this wasn't the only couple who came to me asking for similar shit. The audacity I tell ya.
The first bride has a whole lot more problems than just being a bridezilla. Yikes!
Getting a staged vibe from the first one… not that Charlotte had anything to do with it but that 2 friends made this up over text and then submitted it. Am I the only one?
@@jweno no I feel the same. It's way too much. The dress is way too ugly for anyone to like it seriously.
@@jweno Yeah, I know a lot of these come from Reditt. So, could every much be something fake someone posted to try and keep stupid karma.
@@jweno I'm fully with you. Not only because it is such a preposterous chimera of every bridezilla story,
But also because, as anyone who has organized a wedding knows, it would be incredibly difficult to get matching gowns, in the right color and sizes, for the whole wedding party in a week's time!
The industry isnt set up like that.
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Thought the same. No bride would want bare faced bridesmaids. There needs to be makeup.
Charlotte saying THIS IS MY DAY in 10 different ways shows her legit range of acting.
This is very educational in teaching my son the type of woman he must never be involved with.
Or to show our daughters how to never be.
Just continue to raise him right and he won’t be attracted to girls like that.
i can’t imagine what the groom is like. (referring to no.1) i feel as though someone who could marry somebody that entitled, is probably also that entitled themselves. any normal person would think she’s out of her mind.
Great thinking!!
please wait until he tells you he likes women first
Dude as a realistic adult. I would be STOKED to get towels lol
Yes!! Hahah
Yess!
I'm a bride and yep 🤣🤣 I'd be quite happy!
Yes, its so nice to have new, fresh towels
Some nice, soft towels or a super soft rug for the living room or next to my bed would be amazing tbh
I just moved into my very first apartment of my own and still haven't acquired most of the things most homes have- like a couch and a TV for the living room. lol Being poor is fun. [:
I find all these “this is my day” brides so sad because it clearly means every moment of their lives has built up to getting married and that finding a husband has taken priority over everything else.
well you could overthink it like that, but they also might have had a great life and just wanted a really fancy wedding because they're used to things going their way.
@@ameliaboyce4215 The more fancy a wedding is, the shorter the marriage is, because people that do these ultrafancy weddings are superficial, hollow and only care about apparences, which means that they are usually sad.
@@petitesayo4542 don’t forget that they usually end up going into debt for the sake of making their big day happen. They focus on the perfect fairy tale wedding, but forget the important part: the marriage. Not saying Amelia is necessarily wrong, a lot of them are just spoiled, plain and simple.
It could be anyone also, it doesn’t matter who the husband is, they’re just needed to be present, so she can have HER DAY 😅
Actually, it sounds like finding a husband was second in priority to the wedding day…
I love how these bridezillas believe that their weddings are just about them; it just gives an insight as to how they will treat their marriages, giving the poor, naïve husbands their last chance to bail out before that break-up becomes almost unaffordable.
Edit: I looked up 1980s bridesmaid dresses, and that hideous fashion crime of a 'dress' was a PROM dress, not a bridesmaid dress. I don't mind black lace with dark green; on some individuals, it's quite flattering, but combined with that metallic fabric, it very much resembles steam punk gone HORRIBLY wrong!
The design is soooo wrong.
To me, it looks like a dress from the 1880s not the 1980s.
Eh, I like the color scheme, but that skirt shape… I legitimately shuddered. It’s not completely a lost cause, and the right person could probably salvage it with some major tweaks to the skirt, but yeah, it’s completely unhinged for the bride to demand that her bridesmaids all buy and wear that thing as it is.
Who in their right mind would contact someone they don't know to ask that they produce 250 mini wheelbarrows and then demand they're given free as a wedding gift at an expense of several thousand dollars as well as several months to make? lol
bridzilla: NEVER TEXT ME AGAIN
op: doesn't text her again
bridezilla: hello? WHY ARE YOU IGNORING MEEEE!!!!!
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The person making the wheelbarrows? I would have stopped talking to that psycho WAAAY before then. Way too patient and I'm glad they finally said "ok it's full price now"
I'd have blocked her after being told never to text her again.
That "80s themed" dress looks like something a...lady of the evening would be wearing in a western movie.
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You are absolutely correct.
I grew up in the '80s and I can tell you, NOBODY wore anything like that hideous monstrosity of a dress.
Lmao right?
Didn't that movie " The Gambler" come out in the 80's?? It looks like one of those dresses that the bar saloon ladies would wear!
Maybe she meant the 1880's.
The list just made me laugh so hard, I would go to the wedding and break every rule just to see her reaction 🤣
Also, I would say that since the gift should be in the amount approx. twice the overhead of meals/drinks, since I'm supposed to pay for my own meal, I will forfeit the gift.
Therapist: How insecure are you?
Bridezilla: everyone else should not wear make up and should not have face because i want all eyes on me. THIS IS MY LIFE
Correction: *”tHiS iS mY dAy”*
Weren't for the costs - 300 bucks min. for present + 100 bucks for food - I'd gather everyone so ALL WOMEN would go to her wedding wearing yellow (not blonde) wigs and blank masks, on green dresses of all types. And THAT would be her memory of those who appeared on her wedding - anonymous fake blondes in green.
😂 😂 😂
@@karinefonte516 🤣🤣🤣🤣
WHEN did brides start thinking everyone should pay for their weddings? I can't remember this ever being a thing. When I got married, we paid for everything except the food, which my parents paid for. We registered to make gifts easier to choose, but we certainly didn't require anyone to bring one. When did this insanity start? It's bizarre, it's selfish, it's cruel, it's cheap, and it's just downright RUDE. Does no one have any shame any more???
No. They do these things for the Potato Queen's enjoyment.
It's become more and more common in recent years because people have gotten more selfish (this has been actually researched) and I guess weddings getting out of hand. There are people who instead of "come celebrate our union with us, our treat" to "WE ARE ARRANGING THIS EXPENSIVE WEDDING FOR YOU TO CELEBRATE US SO YOU BETTER PAY BECAUSE WE DO THIS FOR YOU"
It's because parents don't teach their kids manners anymore, starting with things like sharing and taking turns.
These people are literally incapable of feeling shame. That's part of the problem.
Exactly. That's why people complained weddings were expensive because the people throwing the wedding pay for everything......I also thought that was the ONLY reason they got to pick out color themes and the bridesmaid's dresses was because they were paying for it all so that allowed them to make those demands.
“THAT DRESS IS HIDEOUS” im dying 🤣🤣🤣
I wouldn't wear that to go to my bathroom.
It seriously is. I don't get Bridezillas, I helped with my sister in laws wedding, they made a a three day holiday for everyone one in a beautiful place. Everyone had fun. I can't imagine someone wanting to dye and cut my hair (also 11lb is pretty skinny unless you are naturally that size, you can't lose a load of weight that quickly and nor should you). Kind of wondering if she actually ended up with any people turning up to the wedding at all.
Even in the 80's that style wasn't popular, the color maybe but you'd never catch Lisa Lisa or Heart wearing that ugly thing
@@quizzabella Gosh. I hate saying this, but I kind of hope not. That's absurd to act that way. Just pathetic.
@@marieknight9385 Yes. True story, Girl!! ♥️
I volunteer at an animal shelter and I once had this girl come in with fabric samples because she wanted a cat who would match her couch. Honestly, she went from cat to cat seeing which one would best match the fabric sample. I wondered what her husband thought about this because it was the craziest thing I had ever dealt with, but he looked as proud of her as he could be, possibly because she was absolutely beautiful. They ended up not adopting from my shelter, which actually made me very happy. Some people are just not normal, whether it's their wedding or not!!
More likely to neglect a cat if it doesn't fit their aesthetic AND the reality shock at owning a cat
That should have immediately disqualified them from adopting!!! That would not be a loving and appropriate home for a precious cat!
I dont think this is so awful. Wanting to at least lower a bit of constantly cleaning up all the cat fur seems pretty smart.
I support a dog rescue and they often refuse people because of weird stuff they say, or just a bad vibe.
Omg, I am 59 years old and I lived in the 80’s obviously. No one wore a dress like that!!🤣
I was thinking that maybe she meant the 1880s, in a saloon in the Wild West...
That's some Party City steampunk bullshit.
@@lenkacfk7155 I was gonna say the same thing. that looks like 1880s style dresses
@@ontxtteredwxngs I wrote the same before reading your reply
I just commented the same thing!! 🤣 I would definitely remember if something like THAT had ever been a fashion trend. 🤣
I had a friend who turned into a bridezilla. She wanted everyone to empty their bank accounts for her "big day". She wouldn't even be there if you had a death in your family let alone to be there as me and my friends were for her wedding. In the end, I gave up and 3 weeks to her wedding cut her off firstly because my bank account was starting to look pretty bad, and secondly because I was neglecting my own personal stuff to be there for her with no appreciation. I went on her wedding day and her whole family was giving me the evils as I did her wrong. Anyway, a year later she got divorced and she turned into a divorcedilla if there is such a thing. We are no longer friends and this experience put me off weddings for life.
Simple ceremonies are the best. Let rich people and wannabe rich people throw massive weddings. I'd be all about organizing a massive reception, with food and drink for a small army. But the big ceremony in fancy clothes is not for me.
@@harrymills2770 I agree. I myself had a really nice wedding. We went to Mexico with only the immediate family who were able to attend plus 4 extra friends. I had a beautiful dress courtesy of my mum and dad. I’m not a fussy gal and I told my resort assigned wedding planner to chose what he liked and what he would chose if his sister were getting married. He picked deep deep red roses and gladiolus, and chocolate cake with white icing. My hair and makeup was done by a really cool girl at the resort’s salon with my exact name from Mexico City, I said ‘do what you do sis!’, it turned out stunning and I felt amazing. We had some delicious steaks, and a killer pumpkin soup Im given to understand is a much loved regional dish which we still talk about to this day. There was other food, but the soup stole the show. I showed up with pretty crystal seahorses from Swarovski which I thought would look nice on my cake maybe, also a gift from my mum who is a collector. I don’t know who it was, the culinary people or the planner, but they took the seahorses and ran with the theme and when I walked into the little restaurant for our group’s private dinner, the cake was stood decorated with shells and flowers; it was stunning. I didn’t choose music, I didn’t choose refreshments, I didn’t chose decorations and everything about it was the best. That night was traditional Mexican themed entertainment with music and dancing everywhere, and the group spent the night walking from little cluster of singers and dancers to the next. It cost us about 6 thousand bucks, which included mine and my husband’s 7 day all inclusive vacay. I think back to our wedding and I remember an absolutely wonderful family vacation where I also got married and had a kick ass time. Zero regrets. I’m obviously on the other end of the spectrum in terms of caring, but It’s my belief that when people place too many expectations on their experiences they are only opening the door to disappointment. Your vision will never match the result.
This would be a great series too: divorce devils?!
@@harrymills2770 my sister had a beautiful big wedding when I was like 12, and there I learned that I didn’t now want a big wedding. I got married two months ago and there were literally like 10 ppl (also thanks Covid i guess) and it was beautiful, with so much less stress cx I loved our wedding, even tho the guests couldn’t stay for the party portion that was to take place at my parents backyard 😅 it was short simple, and beautiful ♥️ very happy with my choice c: (p.s. I feel like an angel watching all these bridezila videos 😂😂😂)
@@theirmanager5204 This, and artists know what they're doing. I love going to artists with just a speck of an idea (like your crystal seahorses) and let them run with it. It always turns out more magical than you can ever imagine. Glad to hear you had a wonderful wedding, it sounds absolutely perfect!
The first one sounds like she didn’t want her friend there and just wanted a free cake. SEVEN FREAKING DAYS.
Yeah, the fact that she said maids would have to be 115 pounds 7 days before the wedding seemed like a really round about way of saying the friend should opt out and wasn't expecting to be called out for all the other crazy sh*t.
And what if a bridesmaid had super short hair? That aint gonna grow to the shoulders in 7 days guaranteed.
Yeah & who asks someone to be a bridesmaid 7 days out from a wedding anyway?!
That was a pure ‘panic invite’ right there, I guarantee another bridesmaid backed out & needed a replacement asap.
Those dresses! They looked like something from a horror film!
Honestly, the first sounds a little suspicious. I think someone sent a bit of fanciful tale to Charlotte. A parody of bridezilla correspondence, if you will... :3
If I were the 3D-printing guy's best friend, I'd be sooooo sorry for giving that bride his contact (and I probably wouldn't attend her wedding and try to get away from her ASAP).
“Your friends and family aren’t your personal piggy banks.” On a beautifully executed and framed embroidery sampler. Perfect wedding present. What to do when you receive a smallish wedding present? Send them a gracious thank you note.
I specifically chose a good bunch of things under $25, for those with tight budgets, on my registry.
Things I definitely wanted.
@@kitty62862 The one complaining about Towels made me self conscious. For my Brothers wedding I braided him and my SIL a paracord thing. I was also about 14. I didn't really have cash.
@@melmiamisfit trust me I would have loved and cherished it any actual human specially family would love it! Handmade gifts are in the tops of special gifts they have a little of the person making them in them tied up with love.
Agreed - but we don’t know the whole story... if those friends were well off, then that would have felt like an insult- like they were being passive aggressive or making some kind of point or something...🤷🏻♀️
Sounds like when the friends used to go to their place, they noticed the towels in the bathroom were looking a bit shaggy.
The bridesmaid of the psycho with the long list of rules is a queen. I love that she said no to everything. Way to stick up for yourself.
Right? Who expects someone to spend over $700 to be in their wedding? Who charges their bridal party for food at the reception?
That psycho is seriously outer limits and has no idea how a wedding works. She basically wants a self-funding pageant, not a wedding.
Next question : Who are friends with the psycho bride? How did they bear with her psycho tendencies?
How she was even friends with this person in the first place is beyond me. Unless she suddenly suffered a massive head injury and thus became a totally different person, THIS IS MY DAY would have been a constant hallmark of her personality/character.
Right? I mean, don't dance or talk to anyone? WTF? Who the hell says that? Don't wear make-up? Weigh 115 lbs? I really hope "her day" was ruined and no one showed up.
I can’t believe these brides found people who want to marry them.
Most bridezillas aren’t like this all the time, they are normally pretty nice, but the stress of their wedding makes them like this.
Also there’s the Karen’s.
@Shannon R. You are speaking the truth. This kind of sick behavior is one of their character traits that is hidden (or not) and will always be there but disguised. There is no excuse for their actions and demands. I am glad I don't have friends like that....
Ikr, I’m like how…
As a Brazilian that all her life went to marriages from middle-class to lower-class from people that are from the same church as me, hearing these stories is a ride, in good part because of the cultural clash. Like... Bridesmaids and groomsmen here are very frequently children from the bride and groom families or from close friends, usually around six-year-old, that literally just walk down the aisle to announce the bride and carry the rings, dressed as little brides and grooms (a brazilian wedding without any kids is literally impossible for me to imagine) (the last one I went three little boys were dressed as security and carrying a briefcase with the rings, it was so freaking cute). Gifts, specially if the couple is more lower-class, very commonly are things for the house, like... Clothes washing machine, beds and so on (once my parents gifted an iron frame bed to a couple because the groom was a really big man and wood ones would not be able to handle his weight). It's very common for the talk between guests and the couple to go along "have someone already gifted x thing? no? That's what I'm bringing!". Marriages here usually have what we call "godparents" or "witnesses", they are usually married couples that mean something to the ones marrying (like uncles and aunts, cousins and so on) that walk down the aisle before the bride; usually it's only color-coded, with the witnesses dressing as they are able to. Also, probably because most of these were church-related and lower-class, a lot of the times people from the family and the church pitch in to cook lunch/dinner for the party, instead of a professional buffet.
That first bride, if her fiance calls off the wedding, I can picture her in a straight jacket, rocking back and forth screaming "It's My DAY"!! Lol
I don't see how anyone could actually love these women and want to marry them. They all seem so horrible and selfish!
The sad thing is, I think in at least some of these cases these women were probably perfectly normal until they got engaged, and then suddenly everyone from society, to their families, to predatory industries that makes wedding items is putting all kinds of pressure on them to have the "perfect" day and it just breaks them. Not saying they shouldn't be held accountable for the bad things they do after breaking, for the record. Just that it's kind of sad all around.
**some** of them, especially the lesser cases, are probably fairly normal people acting out of Character who have had people in their lives, and various wedding industries, and shows and magazines, and just the insane stress of trying to plan a wedding
Toss them into a CRAZY but temporary place.
(Planning a big formal wedding is a major effort, and some people dream of that event all their lives, so pressure can be high)
BUT BUT BUT
Some of these women have personality disorders, and the men marrying them are likely codependent, or also have a personality disorder, or are otherwise the product of household where a parent had a personality disorders/was otherwise abusive that, on a deep level, they don't know what a healthy relationship or boundaries would even look like.
It's a frightening thought.
You want to just send everyone concerned to some emergency intervention therapy.
melissa saint
You have no idea if any of these females have any disorders or if any of these males are codependent or have any other issues. That is a massive accusation and assumption!! Did you psychologically evaluate them? No, you didn't and you cannot do any form of evaluation over one thing that was brought up in this video or any other video. In order to evaluate them you would need to run numerous neurocognitive tests, psychological evaluation tests, have medical and family history as well as talk to them in person.
Just because people are being disrespectful, outrageous, entitled and an over all a b**ch does not mean they actually have mental health issues and nor does it mean that the males they are going to marry are codependent or have any issues either. Do not spit out false judgments based off of no real evidence other then these females are being b**ches. That is the problem with society today. Everyone wants to claim someone has mental health issues when they don't. So unless you actually have a license to practice psychology and have personally properly evaluated any of these people do not assume they are anything more then b**chy people and that their partners have issues at all.
By the way yes, some could have mental health issues but you do not know if they do and there is no way to know.
@@jessicapearson9479 that last paragraph kinda seems to negate the rest 🤔
Im not "diagnosing" anyone in particular, I mean extreme "bridezillas" in general.
Sometimes, we're seeing just stressed out people.
But sometimes, what we are seeing are untreated malignant narcissists who always walk all over people,
Or people with untreated borderline personality disorder who are being horribly abusive (while inside they are likely in intense emotional distress because of the situation)
Statistically, people who marry malignant narcissists are just a lot more likely to have grown up in a home with a narcissistic parent...and they have trauma from that which often manifests in some predictable ways.
melissa saint
No, the last paragraph only points out that some people do have issues but you cannot say they do without proof. Also, while yes, there are people with mental health issues all over, to assume that these people and especially their husbands to have metal health issues and such serious mental health issues is wrong and actually further stigmatizes mental health.
Are you licensed in any mental health field? If so, then you know there is absolutely no information here to even come close to say that any of these people have such serious mental health disorders. Also, you should know that most of the statistics you are more then likely referring too are also based of assumptions. They can only be considered "best guess" at best. Due to the fact that they are based on very very small groups of people taken from the census reports. Most people lie on those reports for fear of the government. Not to mention without people actually going in and being diagnosed the statics are only assuming they have those issue. By the way, if you are curious the symptoms for BPD(Bipolar Disorder), BLD (Borderline Personality Disorders), PTSD all have the same symptoms when it comes to diagnosis and all usually come from having trauma happen to them as children like you mention with a few genetic exceptions. So, according to your assumptions these bridezillas would also most likely have been traumatized.
Also, of the people who have gone in and been evaluated and diagnosed about 85% of the diagnosis is wrong and solely based on averages and not the individual themselves. This causes problems in treatment plans and thet often have to go get evaluated multiple times often getting different results.
Long story short you cannot trust any statist that assumes the amount of people walking around with mental health issues. You can only trust the percentages done on real people who have actually been tested.
Every single one of these basically works out to: "I guess I won't be attending your wedding, have a nice day."
Some people really get offended if you don't attend their wedding. Speaking from experience :)
A friend of mine once got invited to a wedding and the couple expected him to buy for a gift that was over $400. or he wouldn’t be allowed to attend the wedding if he didn’t comply with their gift requirements. So he did he bought $400 worth of cow manure and sent a note ‘enjoy your new shit’ plus he didn’t attend the wedding as well.
My friend works in farming.
Omgosh 😂😅
See now if that was me, a keen permie, id be delighted with 400$ of fine garden fertiliser. 😂❤
the fact that people like this exist is just concerning
seriously
and they found someone to marry them 😭😭😭
@@namemiddle And that is even more concerning. The fiancé of every bridezilla do even know what they are asking for the wedding?? (Unless they are like them... this is sad)
I was thinking the same thing. Holy shit, how does someone even start out as friends with people like this?
Another concerning feature -- is that there seem to be so many of them.
No one:
Bridezilla: "THIS IS MY DAY!!!"
Wait is it?
whose?
Groom: "erm, I'm sitting right here!" 🤨
@@datgaydangernoodle1315 Yes. Apparently they've been waiting & preparing for that day their entire life ever since they came out the womb
@@JohnDoe-tx8lq lol
I'd charge 5000$ just to spite her. The rates she was charging were totally fair.
and she broke down the cost and explained it. like a lot of people would ask why the amount and people dont really explain it so you just get x amount/ y pieces so here's the cost/piece.
@@shalakaj523 I'm not sure if there's an obligation, but it's fairly common that if someone is asked for an overview of the costs, that they break it down like that so people can see the costs. The sad thing is that a lot of artists don't charge worker's time. They only charge materials and other costs. And if they do charge for worker's time, it's usually dirt cheap.
additional to the costs she quoted, i would add $3 per word that she had to type in those texts to get the job
Yes! PITA cost (poison in the a**)
There is no amount of money that would make me willing to do business with someone who has such a terrible attitude.
To the bride with alllllll those rules: I would have convinced all the bridesmaids to all show up late wearing and looking whatever they like. Or possibly all wearing those blowup T-Rex costumes.🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bridezilla: 80s Wedding
Also Bridezilla: No makeup
hun you know that the 80s had the most ludicrous hair and makeup styles, right? like wtf
I can NOT imagine wearing that dress with no makeup with bleached blond hair cut to my shoulders without any styling (because you know she wouldn’t have accepted that) like I’d HATE that
@@shewolfinubaka judging from that text I wouldn’t be surprised if she purposely suggested no make up and bleached hair for her bridesmaids so she can be the only one to look good because ITS HER DAY! Lol 😂
Lol I thought the same thing 😂😂
I wonder if she really was having an 80s themed wedding or if that was just a cover story to make the bridesmaids wear those hideous dresses.
Did anyone see Working Girl? The wedding she was in? Even the clothes and hair for going to work, unless you were in more of the higher echelons of the conservative business world, were insane (albeit exaggerated somewhat for comedic effect in the movie, but not too much)! I started working there in the mid-80's. Worked in those buildings right there on Wall Street down by the SI Ferry! Luckily, I toned down the hair, clothes and make-up, and never had to be a bridesmaid except by friends I knew in the same field, but come on!
I only just realised how brilliant is Charlotte’s impersonations while reading a dialogue
Yes! That's why we are all here, after all. :)
Makes me glad that the two weddings I was a bridesmaid at weren't like this: Both of them knew I wasn't big fan of wearing dresses, I'm also sensitive to certain fabrics (slight sensory issues).
But they basically just said "Here's the color, pick the dress you want" I ended up picking the same style of dress for both weddings (long dress, not too formfitting, short sleeves, almost completely covers the chest area but not touching my neck, comfortable fabric). The two brides (my brother's wife, and my sister) approved of it.
They also both had a registries but everything on it was decently priced.
Makes me glad that I know down-to-earth people
When a friend of mine got married I had yet to met her husband, so I wasn't sure what to get. I checked on their list and saw they asked for pillows and at the time was exactly the amount I could afford. We joke to this day about this, saying I got a gift for them to get laid (quite literally) lol
A wedding it's about celebrating the union of a couple, while I do think it's one special day for them, it's about the couple and they should celebrate however they want, if they need help, they will be glad with anything given to help (I did my aunt invitations for basically free and in exchange she helped me get the dress to wear on the ceremony as the flower girl)
Being a bride doesn't give free pass to give shit to everyone around you. If I ever get a friend going like that I would be cutting off without a second thought
That "this is my day" crazy person is clearly marrying herself as she is only talking about HER day & not her & hubs. What a lucky man to get out of that one!
Don't know how she managed to get someone to the altar with her with that appalling attitude, sounds like a self entitled princess who has got everything she's wanted all her life (probably from daddy) and expects everyone to bow to her.
@@angelicone181 In the UK it's traditional for the bride's father to pay for the wedding. I've never been asked to pay for my own food and bring an expensive gift at any wedding I've been to. What worries me is that people here tend to copy all American trends, so I expect that entitled behaviour will appear over here before long.
@@BoingBB why are people expected to pay for food at another's wedding? arent the couple getting married/ whoever pays for the wedding supposed to cover the f&b, the space where it happens, the cost quoted by the priest etc etc?
@@shalakaj523 That's my point. Over here we aren't expected to pay anything. The bride's father usually foots the bill. All that's asked of the guests is their attendance.
@@BoingBB It's the same here in the states. That Bridezilla's... DEMANDS... are absolutely tacky, ill-mannered, NOT the custom, and must be an absolute embarrassment to the poor guy who is marrying her (or... hopefully not after he learned about her disgraceful behavior).
I didn't expect any gifts when I got married, I just wanted people who loved me and my husband to be there on our special day, I got things I really needed which included TOWELS, and we were happy with it.
@@maggiemae9099 I got household necessities, I got towels, a sheet set, even a bathroom shower curtain set with bath mats! I was especially excited about more towels because at the time, my now husband and I only had a few towels and none of them were new when we got them...There really isn't anything better than a brand new towel after a shower!!
I'm still using the towels my sweet Aunt Earline bought me when I got married. Indeed, they came from Kmart, 30 years ago.
My precious aunt is no longer with us, but using her towels is like a hug from her.
One of the towels is buried with my son's cat. He knew it was a towel she gave me, and special, but he wanted his beloved kitty to be wrapped in love too.
She loved animals, so I think she would have approved.
In all honesty the cake that got tracked down seems to be better aesthetically than what was wanted. Just my thought. #watchanadforcharlottesdad
You're not the only one! I was stunned by how much better it looked than the source, no joke.
Lovely cake.
People should play a drinking game for these wedding vids. Every time someone says the phase “this. Is. MY. day!!!”
We’d be screwed. Just make sure y’all home for the night. Lol
This may come as a shock, but everyone attending your wedding knows you are the bride....... no one can steal your spotlight, they literally came to your wedding to look at you....... we also know it's your day.
We had a next day brunch after our wedding and I was blown away by how generous people were. There were gifts ranging all over the place, and I was so surprised and delighted by their thoughtfulness. Some of the things were not things we registered for, but you could tell a lot of thought went into them, and some were made by the gifter, which I loved. I could no imagine having such an entitled attitude toward friends and family. I did fight a lot with my mom about the wedding, but mainly because she made it about herself...
I wonder if there are Mother Of Bridezilla stories out there.
I asked for recipes as gifts… my family cooks a lot and it was so sweet to get these hand written recipe cards for the family favorites from my childhood. My mom gave me a really pretty recipe box. But I mostly did that because I knew my family wouldn’t go for no gifts, it was my second marriage, I was a homeowner in my 30’s and needed nothing really. I still got some gifts and I do cherish them but it was really just about having them there.
When I got married we had a very nice ceremony, upscale I guess you would say. Not crazy expensive but well above cheap...lol. Anyway we got some very nice (expensive) gifts along with notable cash gifts. My favorite/most touching gift was a manual can opener. Why? Because it was from a male, single 20 year old co-worker. He cared enough to come AND brought a gift!! It was a nice can opener in a small sweet wedding gift bag! I teared up when I opened it. Money doesn't make the gift and gifts don't make the wedding, people. This guy was shy and awkward but he came to my wedding where he only knew a couple people to show his friendship and support to me! It's been 20 years and I don't remember a single gift now, except that lovely can opener!
On the last story, the guy with the printer forgot to mention at the end, that payment is due IN FULL, UP FRONT.
EXACTLY!!
I would have been out of that first wedding the second she said “you have to dye your hair blonde”… I have jet black hair. Nope not happening haha. What a bunch of crazies
in a week too! You literally can't get jet black hair to blonde in a week, you will have no hair left
Yeah I'd be like "I have problems with all of these, but since several are physically impossible we're obviously done here, bye"
Saaaame. My hair is soft black (#2 on that human hair scale) and I haven't been a bottle blonde in a number of years, but the last time I did it, it took literally 8 weeks and 3 passes to go from black to platinum, and that was with a professional's help.
If I was going to be in the wedding, had that kind of advance notice, and the bride helped pay for the bleaching then I'd probably say yes, but on a week's notice she's gonna have a bunch of bald bridesmaids if any at all.
Who wants their bridesmaids to look the same as them anyway. Such a weird request. As the bride, don’t you want to stand out as unique?
my hair being dark brown and not easy to bleach
I seriously doubt that the first bride has any real friends. Her bridesmaids are probably the poor girls who were unlucky enough to be in the same sorority with her.
I used to work at a private club that had weddings. The ugliest cake I ever saw looked like it was iced with sand and had blobs of red all over it. The blobs were roses and the icing was slivered, candied almonds on a delicious icing.
While we were setting up, we were a bit confused because we were using red ribbons on the tables. It was June and we thought red was a weird color for a June wedding. Turns out the bridesmaids wore tea length white lace dresses with red bouquets. The groomsmen wore white tuxedos with red bowties and red rose boutonnieres. The bride was in full length white with a white rose bouquet dotted with a few red roses, groom white tux, white bowtie and red rose boutonniere. Flower girl and ring bearer dressed like bride and groom. It was the most beautiful and elegant wedding I'd ever seen. The cake was absolutely delicious.
No 1. If this is real, I'm genuinely wondering how many people actually showed up to HER DAY.
(Or actually, if the wedding wasn't cancelled in the first place.)
I kind of want to believe she was stood up at the altar because it was HER DAY so she could have it all to herself.
I’m guessing it’s not real…… at least I hope ppl like that don’t exist
I guess she must have a really f...able body, since she has a fiance. As for her friends - she must have been a popular highscool girl (hot), like in those highscool movies.
@@highdefinition5724 I also wish it wasn’t real. Sadly it probably is.
New drinking game: Drink every time the first bridezilla wrote “THIS IS MY DAY”
Btw, love your videos ❤️
i was doing it with coffee. i think i am having an angina attack. totally kidding of course.
Great idea. *note to self* do not watch at 10am or you will be hammered for the rest of the day.
It's a bit early to blackout
I’m in the hospital for alcohol poisoning
🎤🎼Wasted away again in magaritaville
That 3D printer person is literally SO kind and professional 😭
Yeah I would have told her off after the first snotty comment 😂
My approach would have been to be vague about whether or not I was available to do it, asking for clarification and stating my price so that in case I found out about the attitude of the client I could decline them easily. People like this are not worth the time and are more likely to not pay at all, try to "negotiate" at the last second, cancel their order the day before, or try to claim once finished it's "not what they wanted" no matter how much clarification they are given.
I had a niece who got married many years ago and she sent out invitations saying totally casual - shorts, jeans whatever we wanted. So we all figured it was a cookout type day and the weddding would also be casual. When we all arrived in our comfy clothes the bride and groom and the attendants were all dressed up formally. They had the wedding at the groom's aunt's house which had a magnificent view of the mountains. There was a large deck on the house and the bride and groom etc were up there and the rest of us were on the lawn below - they had speakers so we could all hear. The day could not have been more perfect. The attendants all wore the same color but different styles and the groomsmen all had vests the same color with white shirts.The pictures were perfect and the bride and groom changed in to casual clothing and joined us all on the lawn. They had the dinner catered. No stress for them and it was so perfect for the two of them.
What the fuck?
That cake made with 2days notice by the friend in training was STUNNING!!!
Hit them with the maths, show brides how decent these vendors/craftspeople are and what an incredible deal they are offering... Just so bridezillas can kick them in the teeth, throw it back and ask for it at a further discount or for free when they are already making losses and losing 2months of their life to one order! 😰🤨😔🤢
The audacity makes me sick
We have a 3D printer, and it takes forever…and the materials are quite expensive. That’s legit.
Ahhh so cool!!! I hope to own one someday too! ✌️💚
Didn't she do that one on an earlier video? Am I crazy
Plot twist: there was a cheque sandwiched in between the towels but they never took the gift out of the bag
Imagine if they donated them, and some humble deserving person found the money 💸
Brilliant twist, thank you for the laugh.
@@stephaniemathieson9910 That's what an Indian man (I believe it was India, could have been Bangladesh) did, he offered free small bags of food, that would only be worth the effort for people that really needed it, inside he hid money (not a shocking amount, but enough to feed them for like 2 months). That way it only landed with those that needed it.
I was thinking along the same line: There was probably a really nice gift card or cash folded inside one of the towels.
If I were taking shots for every time that bridezilla said "it's my day" I would be totally smashed. lol
When she said the wedding was on a 80's theme the dress looks like 1780's theme.
Haha same. When Charlotte showed the picture of the dress I was like "Wich 80s? Cause that dress definetly isnt from the 1980s and definetly not looking like that either."
Yeah, i was kinda cought offguard with that 80's dress. )))))))
Perhaps the bride is a vampire and was just remembering the way they dressed in the 1700s!
I got Rocky Horror Show vibes. Green and black dress, blonde hair, no makeup. 😳
@@hodgeelmwood8677 Yup, serious death vibe!
I went to school with a girl that I could imagine acting this way if/when she were getting married. She was a late-in-life only child of two gentle souls who gave her everything and never said "no." It was heartbreaking to see how they were always trying to placate her, and see the hurt look on their faces when she'd reject their gifts. I finally had to stop hanging out with her because it was depressing to see the way she treated them.
It's going to be "her day" all right, hers and hers alone because I can't imagine anybody wanting to spend more than sixty seconds in a room with that one
This makes me realize how laid back we were. We picked out the dress color, and the bridesmaids picked the style. They did their hair and makeup the way they want. Jewelry and shoes were whatever they want. We just wanted all of them comfortable with what they were wearing.
Same. My matron of honor was pg at the time and there was No Way I was going to ask her to wear something uncomfortable. My other bridesmaids were different shapes and heights...so just said wear what makes you feel pretty. They all looked gorgeous 😍
Same with my wedding and every wedding I have been in. We get a color swatch of material to match and that's it! I was quite happy with my wedding pictures, and was thrilled to spend my wedding day with my friends of all shapes and sizes.
Quote: "In the United States, couples marrying for the first time have approximately a fifty percent chance of divorcing." Hmm. I wonder why?
That quote's not true. Following weddings divorce at a high rate, though.
My parents never had a wedding lol, they straight up went “there’s the certificate, we’re married goodbye”
How it should be done. The wedding industry is a scam.
My husband and I did the same thing 13 years ago. No wedding at all. We didn’t even bother to dress up 😂 It was such a stress free day
@@Torfindra wedding receptions are capitalist culture at it's best😂
@@Torfindra : but how will women get to feel like a special princess - adult version?
For my wedding, my family and husband’s family went to a Mexican restaurant for dinner and that’s it. Super simple and everyone was happy 😊
Oh. My. Goodness. I can't believe people would agree to that list of demands and ordering someone to make 4000 of stuff free WHEN YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW THEM!
For #2. Use the towels to dry your tears and suck it up. When my wife and I got married we were poor enough that we asked people who could to bring a potluck dish. But we made it clear that NO present was therefore expected and certainly not required. Even the potluck dish wasn't required, just helpful. Oh, and weddings aren't just for the bride. They are for the community of friends to share in and affirm the marriage. If you have found someone you really truly love then you have all the reward you need when you "tie the knot". Don't look to others to make your relationship with the one you love any more special. If you need that you are marrying the wrong person.
My bridesmaids dresses were like $40.00, and something they could wear for other occasions, and I the shoes were flats so they wouldn't be in pain for the whole wedding. I was (and still am) a fairly practical and frugal person.
Same. I actually just had them wear dresses they had or purchased for the day. I had too many bridesmaid dresses that just got immediately sent to Goodwill.
I only had 1 matron of honor, no bridemaids. She wore a dress my mom had made for me herself the year before for the Marine Corp Birthday Ball. My husband was in the Marines. He wore his dress uniform. His best friend was his best man and wore a suit, not a tux and we were fine with that. I wore a borrowed wedding dress from a friend of my mother. We did our entire wedding for less than $200, and while it wasn't the greatest, I was just happy to be marrying the man I loved. I'm like you, practical and frugal.
I made my ex best friend and her husband a dream catcher for their wedding gift, something very meaningful in my culture. I even told them beforehand and they said that they would love a handmade dreamcatcher. They pretended to be appreciative, then turned around to their other friends saying I was a "a cheap and lazy so called friend."
They're completely out of my life now, and I've never been happier.
Damn! I’m sorry, they don’t deserve it! I would honestly find that neat. Especially since you handmade it. I also think it’s cool to learn about other cultures and the seemingly little things that are greatly valued among them. That is a really sweet gift!!
Bro handmade gifts are the best imo, it shows how much you care about the other person, you can't just simply buy it cz it's made personally for you. I would prefer a handmade gift over a 1000$ gift any day
I would love something handmade as a present. Anyone can buy stuff but making something themselves takes time and effort on another level. The present gets even more special. 😁
Handmade stuff is the best! I don't understand why people want specific gifts. If you are paying so much for a wedding I'm sure you can afford a George Foreman or whatever lol. Thoughtful gifts are way nicer
I feel for you, especially as it was part of your culture. They sound superficial. You don't need them in your life.
I can't believe people like this really exist, this world is a scary place lol
I love how people expect artists to just give everything for free because “it’s a wedding” or “for exposure”… ok I want my teeth done for free, I want free college, free clothes and a free mansion😂. Seriously wtf is up with these entitled brides!
THIS IS MY DAY! The way she's acting, she might not be seeing too many more days.
Side note: Can 3D printers create substantial birth control? I don't think we need her procreating.
If you're thinking more mechanical means of birth control, I'm sure something can be made.
Yeah like a pair of resin granny panties printed right on her that could never come off 😂😂😂
HAHAHAHAHHAHA!!!! Amen!
i pity her poor husband.
If "THIS IS MY DAY" bridezilla is real, I can't believe there is someone that had actually asked to marry her! 🤣 Unless he's a groomzilla himself hahaha
he probably is. any normal person would think she’s ridiculous 🙈
He's probably a beta male who's been abused for so long, he just does what he's told.
There's no way she's real. There's no way someone can be so out of touch...is there???? O_O
How can that 1st story even be real?
Also that dress looks like it would be for a madam at an old west brothel in the 1880s. Was it an 1880s themed wedding?
Cheep gifts: grin and bear it!
You are the hosts and being gracious is expected of you!
Be happy that they brought anything at all!
And think about your frinds wirh love, whenever you use them! ❤😊
Charlotte quoting bridzilla n°1: "THIS.IS...
Me: "SPARTAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!"
Sorry, I just couldn't help it.
I love this series 😂
Omg nat!! Didn't expect to find you here
🤩😘😍🥰👩🦰👱♀️👩
#loveit
"... squeeze your friends and family out of money.." These weddings are sounding like an MLM.
My 5 year old laughed at the screaming man art moment and watched it several times. lol, I love how funny your sarcasm is, and it seems so dose my mini. 😂🎉
Like Charlotte said, “ how did they find anyone to marry me them” 🤦♀️🤦♀️
If you were a girl and you were told not to wear makeup at a wedding ceremony because the bride wants all the spotlight on herself, then ignore the invitation and don't go. That's like inviting us guys to a wedding and telling us not to wear suits.
...or inviting you but telling you you must wear a bin bag 😄
@@catgrrrl5666 yeah, I'm surprised she didn't tell all the women they had to wear potato sacks!
@@catgrrrl5666, you say that to the groom's friends and their reply will most likely be "Challenge Accepted!" 😅
@@VirtuaDesign Barney Stinson
Or telling the Groom to not wear a Tux.
Subtext of the first bride: “i am hella insecure and so bland that everyone could outshine me by even existing. That's why i make their life a hell. I am also absolutely toxic snd will bodyshame you if you don't fulfill my body and beauty standarts“
She sounds like she has narcissistic personality disorder
Lol my response to that first one would be "Well, then I guess I'm not invited. Enjoy YOUR DAY!"
Drinking game: take a shot for every "THIS IS MY DAY".
I'm piss drunk now... Thanks!
A sip every time she says "THIS IS MY DAY!" I'm game, I'll start over. Rum and Koolaid 😁
@@candicemonique5927 How'd it go? Did you get drink? :)
Re: “slap in the face towels”. I mean, this is the problem that solves itself! Towel slap each other in the face with the towels until you become a decent member of society again! (It could take a while so maybe grab a couple of extra sets of the towels to have on hand..!)
pro-tip - Wet the towel first for maximum efficiency.
I think her husband should wrap a brick in his towel.
It’s not the guests problem that the BRIDE and GROOM chose to pay for the all inclusive experience.
Yeah if they are too poor to buy something expensive okay. But, who gives towels as a gift for any occasion? They could of gotten candles or something else. Even a lovely picture frame with a picture of the bride and groom from when they first started dating,
@@tsubakiofmelancholy6297 There are his and hers towel sets you can get as wedding gifts. They always come up when shopping for wedding gifts. I think they're sweet.
Plus when 2 people get married, you expect kind of like housewarming type gifts to help them build their home together. It is a good gift. She's just a gold digging, unappreciative brat.
Let's just imagine she is able to convince them to do what she wants... imagine the gigantic hissy fit that bridezilla would have later upon seeing all the wedding photos of her bridesmaids without makeup and with fried blond hair. Obviously, it would be all their fault for not stopping her, right?
Just buy a cheap party wig and look hella crazy!
@@staceykersting705 but isn't that breaking THE RULES? She wrote to dye the hair, and anyone who wont will be uninvited, because as we know - THIS IS HER DAY! 🤣🤣🤣 i am seriously wondering how many bridesmaids agreed on that insane terms.
She wants the bridesmaids to look bad in order to make herself look great. Bet she won't even want them in the pictures, because after all, it is HER DAY.
The green and black 80s dress 😂 I had a dress with that material when I was 5 and in a school performance in 1989 lol. Talk about flashbacks lol