My learnings from 5 UPSC attempts| Backup Plan| Watch this before you begin your UPSC journey…

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  • Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
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Комментарии • 49

  • @sampat1804
    @sampat1804 3 дня назад +15

    I'm at the same stage as you, and to be honest I've also been on that stage where it was never a thought to think for a Plan B, it always felt discouraging, but now when I've lost 5 attempts, I genuinely feel that a Plan B brings a lot of mental relaxation and freedom to perform better in UPSC, it release the burden and helps you ace this exam. Took me a while to understand this.
    Thank you for being so honest and helpful.
    All the best.
    PS - Never lower your dreams, just make some arrangements for yourself to fly high.
    A small piece of advice, try to refrain from telling people about your preparation. 🧿

    • @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC
      @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC  3 дня назад +6

      So true! Let’s be hopeful for something good. Life is bigger than this, this was just a part of it. This journey has taught me much about life.
      Well Put across “ never lower your dreams……..”👏🏻👏🏻
      Thank you for the advice!

  • @user-ud6rz4lh8c
    @user-ud6rz4lh8c 3 дня назад +8

    Whatever you said completely resonates with what I have been thinking over from my last 2 attempts. In my past 4 years, I have felt like being trapped in a vicious cycle from which there is no exit. You are totally a different individual with a lot of self doubt and low self esteem if you face repeated failures. Thank you for giving a clarity on this.

  • @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC
    @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC  3 дня назад +5

    This is a thought that I wanted to share with you all. I hope your confusion is resolved a little after watching this. Irrespective of your stage of preparation, it is for all. Watch it and let me know your opinion on this.

  • @amitozsingh8754
    @amitozsingh8754 3 дня назад +5

    Keep it up you are guiding right
    1) kissi aur exam k liye bhi 6 mahine mehnat chahiye … aaj kal group C ki bhi pre mains hai
    2) self doubt
    3) ego ko kill karna koi aur exam dekhna
    4) plan B
    Your video all of the above correct

  • @akanshagaur3895
    @akanshagaur3895 2 дня назад +3

    Truly said yr...isolation itna ho jata h ki man hi ni karta kisi se bat karne ka , jab logo se milte h to ajeeb lagta h ...samaj hi ni aata bat kya kare...This was my 3rd attempt ...and now I will start my plan B ....because mentally itna exhaust ho chuki hu...ab himmat nhi h ....and lastly kudos to you girl...I can understand the situation in which u r...I m also on the same boat.... don't know what to do....how to do...just searching for some light to come and take me away from darkness.....

    • @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC
      @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC  2 дня назад +1

      Thank you.
      I wish you find your light soon! This journey is a roller coaster, there is a lot be learnt. This is a temporary phase but that should not stop you from pursuing your goal.
      All the best!🙌🏻

  • @abhayshukla2664
    @abhayshukla2664 3 дня назад +5

    Yeh mera 1st attempt tha graduation se he padhna suru kr diya now 4 saal chale gye.88 marks bn rhe the pr nhi hua .now i will also prepare for bpsc and uppsc. Mam i can totally relate with you.

  • @ABHISHEKSingh-hs5ds
    @ABHISHEKSingh-hs5ds 3 дня назад +2

    Hats off to how you touched every relevant point,
    Can’t be more apt.
    Thanks🙌

  • @ismritigupta-19
    @ismritigupta-19 3 дня назад +3

    That's why I have also plan b but also trying next year thanku dii because 1 st attempt 24 I can't clear it so this time gave my best .

  • @Bibliophile699
    @Bibliophile699 3 дня назад +4

    True but harsh! Ma'am it was my 3rd attempt with proper guidance and classes but couldn't make it.. I'm trying for state pcs this time as plan B. Thankyou for your valuable guidance ma'am❤

  • @MetalKnight0
    @MetalKnight0 3 дня назад +6

    This was my 1st attempt, but really sitting 2 years without any social interaction has destroyed my mental health. All these sacrifices resulted in nothing. Now I am going to look for other exams, sitting inside a room for next 2 years is not my cup of tea.

    • @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC
      @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC  3 дня назад +1

      Your mental health is the utmost priority. I believe every form of hardwork is returned by the universe in a certain way, if not in this , in some other form it will be reciprocated. And have faith, you will make it sooner or later. It was your first attempt, there is much more to it. All the best!

  • @djbiswal206
    @djbiswal206 3 дня назад +2

    Thank you😊..

  • @aalpha_romeo
    @aalpha_romeo 3 дня назад +1

    Thank you for this

  • @RahulSingh-eq2uj
    @RahulSingh-eq2uj 3 дня назад +2

    So true yr thank u so much ...so happy to find u earliest😊❤❤❤

  • @happyking6604
    @happyking6604 День назад +3

    Btech-IIIT; MBA-IIM; have 3 years of work experience post mba, have given 2024 pre with 6 months preparation without job. Will give my 2nd and last attempt at 2025. If not successful will return to corporate.

  • @rdivyanshu20
    @rdivyanshu20 День назад +1

    Yeah its really important...thnks for the advice being a final year gradute and giving my 2025 as first attempt..and I have this perspective from beginning..
    And I'm limiting myself to 2 attempts best of my abilities.....❤❤...

  • @mahik590.
    @mahik590. 3 дня назад +3

    Yes ma'am, I'm also on same stage nd it was my 3rd attempt. From now I'll work on plan B.

  • @samrandhawa3604
    @samrandhawa3604 3 дня назад +2

    Very well explained and thank you you are doing amazing work 😊

  • @suketumandaodhare7660
    @suketumandaodhare7660 3 дня назад +3

  • @dushyantsingh2920
    @dushyantsingh2920 3 дня назад +1

    Thx u maam

  • @tsts1050
    @tsts1050 2 дня назад +2

    "I generally do not reply to any RUclips videos, but in this video, everything you said is 100 percent correct. I felt your pain, and I am going through that same pain. I don't know with whom to share it, but at the same time, I found your video. It made me feel less burdened. Thank you for sharing; it literally brought tears to my eyes."😟😟😟

    • @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC
      @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC  2 дня назад +1

      I can understand. But at the same time, this preparation has taught me much. I have seen myself evolving. It’s just a low time and not the end. So have faith and be hopeful, it’s just a matter of right time and right opportunity. I wish you find it at the earliest!!
      You can share on my telegram channel, I would be happy to help! I can understand the mental pressure and anxiety that comes the way all through the preparation.

  • @ViratS55566
    @ViratS55566 2 дня назад +2

    Same as u 5th attempt, but age is 25.. no career future or guidance..
    Right koi bhi exam easy nahi hai sab alag hai UPSC se..
    Or sab chije bar bar padhne me Mann nahi lagta , ek peak par aake performance and mindset bhi lower down ho jata hai. 😊

    • @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC
      @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC  2 дня назад

      But still it’s not late. Utilise your crucial time, make the decision that’s best for you. It’s just a matter of right time and it will be your day!🙌🏻

    • @nawazalam5919
      @nawazalam5919 2 дня назад

      Go with assistant professor as a plan b

  • @almightyhimself9284
    @almightyhimself9284 2 дня назад

    Kudos to you, sch btane k liye 🎉. Thank you

  • @synonymous8821
    @synonymous8821 2 дня назад

    You are right
    This was my 3rd attempt and last year i have reached till interview stage but didn't make it into the list
    and now pre hi nhi hua..
    So it's advisable to go for a safety
    net 🎉
    It's better to plan wisely but at the same time keep pursuing your goal

  • @chethankumar6547
    @chethankumar6547 20 часов назад

    What if someone ST, unlimited attempts till 37..??

  • @VipulChander
    @VipulChander 2 дня назад

    You are the one jinhone history prdhaya h hyrise understand upsc pe?

  • @almightyhimself9284
    @almightyhimself9284 2 дня назад

    Can I talk to you personally, i need to talk to you about it

  • @almightyhimself9284
    @almightyhimself9284 2 дня назад

    Can u make constant reality check vids, 2 attempts gone especially this time ruk gaya with 1 mark. I had numb eyes, was expecting to write mains. But now I realized I studied but time pass krte krte, i never studied more than 6 hr effectively. Ab itna bda dhakka laga h ki, trying to put 10 hr plus effective study

    • @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC
      @SelfhelpgroupforUPSC  2 дня назад

      No worries. You can have productivity apps like ypt, forest. They track down the time that you really put to study. In the next video, I would address how to maintain accountability.Right now maintain 8-10 hrs, which is enough otherwise you’ll have burnout. And the no. Of hours we put increases as the exam approaches.
      You can contact me on my telegram Id: t.me/selfhelpgroupforupsc
      Happy learning!!!