This is so relatable.😢 I remember my late Tito while watching this. He also lived alone most of his life as a single gay man. I can’t blame him and now as a gay man in my 30s mas naiintindihan ko na sya why he chose that path. How I wish we spent more time with him, Making he feel na di sya nag-iisa. Na di lang sya maaalala kapag may kailangan, problema, kapag uutang ng pera. Na everytime pinu-push nya palayo yung kamag-anak nila, it doesn’t mean na ayaw nila. Most gays lived independently, with pride and self-sufficient. But it doesn’t mean na we don’t need love, company and affection. Small things like random visit, asking him how is he doing, bringing fruits or little stuff will mean a lot. He is in eternal peace and joined our Almighty last 2012. Your life taught me a lot and thank you for everything Tito Nards.😘
Isa ito sa pinaka scary na mangyari sa isang bading. Peru for sure naman may mga partner na bading na for life din. I agree also sa iba na mas mabuti na mag ampon para atleast may maituturing na anak.
Kwentong may kurot sa puso. Nakaantig ng damdamin. Love to watch this. Nice project my dear and BIG ANGEL KUYA BOY. More Boy Abunda Originals please. This is Bernardo Betnardo last project I think, ang husay niya. ❤❤❤❤
One of the most painful thing is to let go your feelings for someone na hindi mo masabi Sabi directly Yong nararamdaman mo. Iba Yong sakit lalong higit na mas masakit dahil sa lalim ng pinag samahan ninyong dalawa. Another things is the reality in most of the gays. They live alone, being left behind. They are one of the best lover that I ever know, they can give all. But real love is hard for them to find.. This is another best work that carries such beautiful story and knowledge.
Hindi po Malungkot Mag isa, punuin mo ng Pagmamahal ng DYOS ang sarili mo kung naghahanap ka ng Pag ibig. sya lang ang makakapag completo sayo ng totoo at buo. para pag tanda mo hindi mo mararamdaman ang kakulangan sa sarili mo, dahil pag medyo dumating na ang time na katandaan naten nagiging emosyonal tayo. Lapit lang sa DYOS, guaranteed.😉❤️
Blessings ang thankful. Whether single or in a relationship, lgbt or straight, basta ibigay mo din ang iyong sarili sa pagmamahal ng Diyos, siya po ay napakatunay, napakawagas, napaka-nakakapagpasalamat ng puso, walang kapantay.
Totoo wag nating pahirapan Ang ating sarili...normal Naman na nang yayare Yan may dumating ..may bagong mag papasaya SA ating mundo..Hindi lang Naman lalake Ang mag papasaya pa sa atin kundi Yung pag..mamahal mo sa sarili...mo dahil pag Mahal mo Ang sarili mo may kusang makakapansin sayo...na tatanggapin ka...Ang totoo atat kase..Tayo...Kaya maliilap..Ang bonus.....mag uumpisa...sayo....Ang pag babago..amen...laging nanjan si Lord para mahalin Tayo...
ika nga wala naman perfect formula pero magiiba siguro ang story kung pinayagan niya lang ang 'pamangkin' niya hanapin at tuparin ang mga pangarap nito. maging masaya siya para dito at may peace of mind pa siya. sa story kinain siya ng fear! Outstanding performance of the late Bernardo Bernardo.
now at my age 19 lagi ko sinasabi sa self ko na "di ako mag aanak" "di ako mag aasawa" then when I realized after I watched this video na mag sisisi ka pala sa huli even though sabihin natin na nanjan yung relatives natin for helping us and support pero hindi stable for a lifetime kase they will have also a path na hindi kana kasama, a path na pangarap naman nila ang bubuuin. kaya this video helped me so much to think and to realize who I am pag ako nalang ang mag isa☹️
I had an experienced this kind of love ❤️ happy lang naman ako na minahal sya ng totoo at wala akong pinagsisihan, atleast he knows that i love him at sapat na yun! I’ve learned my lessons na naman kahit papaano 😊
Nasa part ako ng buhay ko na kahit wala akong partner habang buhay ay masaya nako, if magkaroon, bonus nalang yun. Acceptance mga kapatid. Makuntento nalang tayo sa kung ano ang meron for us to be happy. Huuugs!!
Grabi yung dedikasyon nya. Mahirap pero totoo. Sana lang kpg nangyari yung ganun masabi kong kaya ko. Sarap ng may feeling ng may minamahal bukod sa pamilya mo.
This movie is very sad. Sana mapanood ito ng lahat ng gays para mapaghandaan nila ang pagtanda nila. Save, save, save. Chances you will end up alone. Pero kung may pera ka, nanjan vicky Belo para di ka pangit na matanda. Kung iwanan ka man, naku dami jan. Wag magmahal ng sobra sobra. mag iwan ng isang katutak para sa sarili. After all it s always our choice to be happy or sad regardless of age. I am 67 and gay. I travel the world.
I'm now 40 and I know I will grow old by myself and yes, it could be lonely at times even for an independent and mentally and emotionally strong person like me but it's how we live life and our outlook towards it that will get us through the struggles. After all, living by yourself does not mean you are alone and should be lonely as society has always labeled the fate of people growing old without a partner. You just have to realize that there is so much more to life than just being with a partner and focus on those things for you to be happy.
40 is not that old, go meet somebody, it may turn out like a fuck buddy or the love of your life, the possibilities are endless, take it like a numbers game, of course expect a few rotten apples, sex is good but plays a small role in a relationship, do things together, it strengthens the bond and you get to spend quality time, of course get somebody with a job or income.
still naalala ko c mr. bernardo bernardo s home along the riles at ibang comedy sitcom at movie dati.... galing p din umarte... grabe ung dulo... walang words but all emotions only mahirap un s artista ah.... more project for him pls.....
This is the sad part of being a gay you can't always ask for a love give back to you even you dedicated all your attention and life to your loved ones cause there's always thing at the back of your mind what if everything will change and you cant control all of it, you'll just get old alone and be sad for your whole life forever. 😥😥😥
It is not just an ordinary film, but a reality. It is relatable to the point that may bring inspiration to other people. We need more films like this to promote acceptance and tolerance to the people around us regardless of age, sexuality, race.
Sabi nila the greatest love of all is to love yourself! Sa kabilang banda maaring maging sapat na yun para mabuhay ka ng matagal sa mundo! Ang kabiyak o partner ba ang sagot sa pag iisa at kabiguan? Pag mag isa kalang ba sa buhay malungkot kana agad? Ang kasintahan ba tlga ang sagot para masabing kumpleto kana? Choices natin ang lahat ng mangyayari sa buhay natin masaya man o malungkot.. kaya dapt hindi lang sa pag ibig ibaling ang atensyon madami pa pede gawin kesa sa umibig! Ang bago tumanda ngayon frens “mag ipon” na tayo para kahit nag iisa hindi mahirap mabuhay dahil may pang tustus ka! 👏🏻😊 sa mga ka 30s jan magsimula na tayo ngaun palang!!
- Pwd kanaman magmahal habang kumikita. O Kumikita habang nagmamahal. Ang pag-ibig ay kusang dumarating at kusang umaalis, nakakalimot ngunit kahit mawala na ang lahat ito parin ay mananatili. Naghahandang bumalik, magpatawad at magsimula muli. Ibig ko sabihin. Wag ka susuko. My nakalaan para sayo. Magtiwala ka lang. ☺
This is what I fear the most, growing old and alone. Never been in a relationship, I'm 26 now, parang Mas magiging impossible para sakin makahanap ngayon ng partner, kasi ako na lang naiwan to take care of my parents, yung 2 ate ko may mga asawa na, yung bunsong kapatid ko na lalaki mag papakasal na din. Ako na lang single samin.
Haha same here, pero what matters most is nakakatulong tayo sa mahal natin sa buhay. God has plans for us, continue helping your fam and other people. Di tayo pababayaan ni papa jesus. 😊
We Miss Youu Bernardo Bernardo The legendary Comedy Queen ng Pinas huhu sila ni Roderick Paulate ang bumubuhay sa Ngalan ng Karangalan ng LGBT noong Dekada 80 at 90 ♥
i hated the first (kase mejo sloppy ng pag amin ng mga bata). i loved the second (the hiv). and this is top notch.... complicated plot. ang complex at open ended ng ending. sobrang daming feels and questions that leave you at the end. veryvery good work 💖
For now enjoy life to the fullest, I am thankful for the memories, good and bad shaped me for what I am today, I know I will pass on first as my partner is 22 years younger.
Ginoong Bernardo Bernardo. Naging mapalad akong makatrabaho sya kahit sandali. Ang kanyang talento at ambag sa industriya ay hindi mapapantayan at matatawaran, kaya isa syang tunay na haligi ng pelikula, teatro, at pagtatanghal. Ngunit may ihihigit pa pala sya sa lahat ng 'yan. Napaka mapagbigay at matulungin niya pala sa mga artistang maliliit, o kahit sa nangangarap pa lamang na matuto. Bilang isang napakahusay na direktor at guro, buong puso at tyaga syang nagbahagi ng kayang nalalaman at panahon, at hindi humingi o tumanggap ng kapalit, kahit marahil ay may pangangailangan siya nuong panahon na iyon. Naiparamdam niya sa amin na may halaga ang anumang talino at pagpupunyagi namin, may pangalan man kami o wala. Maikling panahong nagkasama, ngunit panghabambuhay na mabuting epekto at alaala ang ami'y dala dala. Maraming-maraming salamat po, Tito Bernie!
When you gave your 101% acting ability to give justice to the character you are portraying for. And to make a world class short film. Congratulations Sir Bernardo Bernardo you are truly a great actor. You made me cry. You are a masterpiece. Salute to the people in front and behind the camera.
Am I the only one that finds this a little weird? He got Karlo as a teen it seems and Karlo seems to look at him as a father figure. It doesn't seem right to "fall in love" with someone he should have been seeing as an adopted child from the start....i get the whole aspect of loneliness....pretty much all gay men go through it but that doesn't excuse us to fall in love with kids that we were given to raise.... having said that loneliness can affect almost all of us, gay or straight, because when we get old, our friends & spouses may pass before us and leave us alone. This is why I think it's extremely important to have other sources of happiness and not just from 1 single unrequited love. Pick up a hobby that really makes you feel good when you practise; whether its art, music, making things or fixing things, travelling or whatever you can take part in that doesnt involve you being dependent on a single human being. I am sure if we do this then even in our old age, if we are alone then we will still have other sources of happiness. I pray & wish that each and everyone one of us that feel this man's loneliness find the happiness that we deserve.
Yeah weird pero i think its reality din. It will exist kahit weird sya. What's more nice about this film is that even with the feelings, walang taking of advantage na nangyari. The urge is there but he will resist it kasi yun nga he knows na hindi pwede
I am already 37 and i also experience it.that i fell in love with someone whos to young for me. We already separated, it hurts but it's our God's will. I know someone out there is really meant for me.❤🥺❤
Reason kung bakit ako single at age of 28 and gay....simple....sasamahan ko mga magulang ko gang pagtanda nla.. at tatanggapin ung realidad na mag iisa din ako..at wla akong pagsisisihan doon...dahil nailaan ko ang oras ko saknla...
I'm 47 living alone alam ko na sa sarili ko na tatanda akong mag isa .Pero hoping and praying na bigyan ako ng Dios ng taong maging kaagapay ko. #1. LoveYourself #2.Accept and Embrace na pag Bakla ka mahirap mag hanap ng Partner sa Buhay. Kaya sa ngayon I enjoy my life sa mga anong Bagay na ikakasaya ko. Pero bago ako matulog kina kausap ko si God di ako takot mawala sa Mundo . Kinakausap ko si God siya na ang Bahala sa akin. Kasi sa mga past Relationship ko andun yung sakit at stress sa Buhay. Kaya ito muna ako mag-isa lang Na sana darating yung taong maiintidihan ako. At iintindihin ko rin siya. At masaya kami sa daloy ng Buhay.
Go out and meet somebody, get to know the person. I am 57, my partner is 35, we met when he was 26, I was already chubby and balding, I was in an escalator and the guy was smiling, he said he smiled because I was smiling hahaha.
It’s a very true story . Loneliness and rejection are worst feelings. Happy ever couples are minority . Better we prepare for our future ourselves rather than being dependent on others . If love comes by it’s fine . I have realised this at my age of 52 and learning to live alone . Hope I succeed
Mali din naman yung matanda. Ndi dapat makasarili ang pagibig. Dapat sana ang ipinabaon mo ay lakas ng loob at kumpiyansa sa sarili hinde yung inaway mo pa dahil lang sa pagiging makasarili mo. Sana hinayaan mo syang abutin ang mga pangarap nya at binigyan mo ng kasiguraduhan na kung anut ano man ang mangyari ay meron xang mababalikan. Ang tunay na pagibig ay hinde sakim at inuuna lagi ang kapakanan ng mahal mo. Hinde mo sya dapat ikulong lang sa iniilusyon mong mundo.
There's only a weird thing among the young-old familiar relation (I understand what you're trying to express... I'm afraid it sounds weird to me). Definitely is a good short film. Shows an accurate vision about getting old, caring others and the fear of ending alone. Interesting. Time to think in such topics after watched. A hug from... Spain!.
Maybe they are right... I have never been in love, Yung solid . Ung intense. Ung magpapatanga sa akin Ng sobra . I'm 33 now, growing old alone., That's one of my fears.. yet ngaun pa Lang..I'm getting myself ready for that situation. Still praying and hoping for that "someone" Pero Kung ndi Niya talaga ibibigay.. I know He has a better plans for me .
In my 35 years of existence, I only felt these loneliness when my my mom died last 2015 (the day before my bday) and my father this August 2021 (due to covid). But having that said, even though it’s easy for us to say that we feel lonely I still look the bright side of every situation. Currently, (September 21, 2021) I had tested positive for Covid but I never felt that fear and loneliness because of my Family (specially my sister and her Family) who’s with me right now in our ancestral house. For me, It should be us finding the ways how to avoid to feel that loneliness, do those things that would make you happy. I never look/ask for love from anybody else, because I know that no one could ever love us back the way we do to them! It’s hard to be gay, but It’s really nice to be one. Mahigpit na yakap sa inyong lahat! Cheers 🥂
35 is young. I am 57 now, 2 years ago I took care of my mom, bathing, feeding, changing diapers, my partner is 35 now, we met when he was 26, a relationship takes work. When mom was sick, I was crying a lot, I lost 20 lbs. in 2 months, oftentimes I would bathe after lunch as I was always busy, going to the market, preparing food, doing her activities of daily living, I worked as a nursing aide for many years so it came easy for me but taking care of a family member is super hard, very exhausting mentally.
If ako nagpalaki sa bata I wont ask for a partner's love in return. Aariin ko siya as a son. Kasi habang tumatanda ka nawawala ang desire sa katawan but na rere direct sa ibang klase ng love, mas masarap talaga yung feeling na may kasama ka, oo. But, matututunan mo rin mag let go lalo na kung mahal mo talga yung tao na yun.
I am turning 38 in 2 months. These weird fears have just started taking over me. My brother is also single in his 50's. Been wise with my decisions but I couldn't find what would truly make me happy. I never had serious relationship because been so cynical and got some trust issue. I am also afraid of responsibilities.
Hindi importanti ang mamahaling bagay at maraming salapi. Ang pinaka importanti sa lahat ay yung tiwala sa sarili mo at sa ibang tao. Kaya huwag kang basta basta magtitiwala sa ka kilala mo lang. Higit sa lahat ay marunong kang kumilatis ng tao para hindi ka maluko at masaktan.
God's unconditional love expressed through each and one of us. God Bless Us All no matter what and who we choose to become. We are all to learn what unconditional love trully means to remain open to any outcome because we are allowing this great Source Energy to just flow through us💚🌈
The reason why im still single.bcuz i still have feelings with my ex.i still love him untill now...takot akung ma in love ulit..at my age now turning 37 hoping to meet someone to have me for the rest of my life..
@@vlognibenja3303 kaya hinanda ko na sarili ko. Ang wish ko lang Sana wAg nako tumanda ng kagaya nanay At tatay ko. Yan Kasi ang fear ko baka mainlove pako sa bata. Sana Di na lang ako beki. I’m 62 never have any relationship I’m Ok for another 8 years to live
@@erwincagampan5777 Hi I just want you to know po. Live your life to the fullest and cherish every hour and day to do something good for you and to all the people around you po. Lahat po tayo takot tumanda lalo na sa mga katulad ho nating parte ng lgbtqia. But enjoyin hu natin kong anong meron tayo at kung ano man ang purpose natin Dito sa mundo.
This is so relatable.😢 I remember my late Tito while watching this. He also lived alone most of his life as a single gay man. I can’t blame him and now as a gay man in my 30s mas naiintindihan ko na sya why he chose that path. How I wish we spent more time with him, Making he feel na di sya nag-iisa. Na di lang sya maaalala kapag may kailangan, problema, kapag uutang ng pera. Na everytime pinu-push nya palayo yung kamag-anak nila, it doesn’t mean na ayaw nila. Most gays lived independently, with pride and self-sufficient. But it doesn’t mean na we don’t need love, company and affection. Small things like random visit, asking him how is he doing, bringing fruits or little stuff will mean a lot. He is in eternal peace and joined our Almighty last 2012. Your life taught me a lot and thank you for everything Tito Nards.😘
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Rip to your tito! 💖🙏
Hi Mark! 😘
We all need a friend.
Que Dieu accorde la paix et la sérénité à Tito. 🙏
Bernardo Bernardo is, and will ever be a National Treasure. His artistry and talent is a narrative that we will always sing about.
As a gay man living in my 30s, I find this very heartwarming. Alone, may sariling sahod, independent and longing for love and happiness.
You should look for a long term partner or adopt kid. I can relate with your story
Im already 32 years of age. I can relate with your story. Im alone for so many years and lonely.
Isa ito sa pinaka scary na mangyari sa isang bading. Peru for sure naman may mga partner na bading na for life din. I agree also sa iba na mas mabuti na mag ampon para atleast may maituturing na anak.
Iam 33 and also looking for someone who can love and accept me, and me to him,
Same here I'm at 30's living alone, working as a nurse and still looking for right person
Kwentong may kurot sa puso. Nakaantig ng damdamin. Love to watch this. Nice project my dear and BIG ANGEL KUYA BOY. More Boy Abunda Originals please. This is Bernardo Betnardo last project I think, ang husay niya. ❤❤❤❤
One of the most painful thing is to let go your feelings for someone na hindi mo masabi Sabi directly Yong nararamdaman mo. Iba Yong sakit lalong higit na mas masakit dahil sa lalim ng pinag samahan ninyong dalawa. Another things is the reality in most of the gays. They live alone, being left behind. They are one of the best lover that I ever know, they can give all. But real love is hard for them to find..
This is another best work that carries such beautiful story and knowledge.
Hindi po Malungkot Mag isa, punuin mo ng Pagmamahal ng DYOS ang sarili mo kung naghahanap ka ng Pag ibig. sya lang ang makakapag completo sayo ng totoo at buo. para pag tanda mo hindi mo mararamdaman ang kakulangan sa sarili mo, dahil pag medyo dumating na ang time na katandaan naten nagiging emosyonal tayo. Lapit lang sa DYOS, guaranteed.😉❤️
This is the best comment I've seen from this short film. I agree with you sir. 🙏❤️
Blessings ang thankful. Whether single or in a relationship, lgbt or straight, basta ibigay mo din ang iyong sarili sa pagmamahal ng Diyos, siya po ay napakatunay, napakawagas, napaka-nakakapagpasalamat ng puso, walang kapantay.
Totoo wag nating pahirapan Ang ating sarili...normal Naman na nang yayare Yan may dumating ..may bagong mag papasaya SA ating mundo..Hindi lang Naman lalake Ang mag papasaya pa sa atin kundi Yung pag..mamahal mo sa sarili...mo dahil pag Mahal mo Ang sarili mo may kusang makakapansin sayo...na tatanggapin ka...Ang totoo atat kase..Tayo...Kaya maliilap..Ang bonus.....mag uumpisa...sayo....Ang pag babago..amen...laging nanjan si Lord para mahalin Tayo...
This is true you cannot find happiness to someone but in Gods Love. ❤️🙏🏻😊
Damdamin na di maaaring ipaalam pero maaaring iparamdam na lang.👍
ika nga wala naman perfect formula pero magiiba siguro ang story kung pinayagan niya lang ang 'pamangkin' niya hanapin at tuparin ang mga pangarap nito. maging masaya siya para dito at may peace of mind pa siya. sa story kinain siya ng fear! Outstanding performance of the late Bernardo Bernardo.
One of a few master pieces film that was made and never been forgotten, a true reality of life for some, painful but true!😞💐
now at my age 19 lagi ko sinasabi sa self ko na "di ako mag aanak" "di ako mag aasawa" then when I realized after I watched this video na mag sisisi ka pala sa huli even though sabihin natin na nanjan yung relatives natin for helping us and support pero hindi stable for a lifetime kase they will have also a path na hindi kana kasama, a path na pangarap naman nila ang bubuuin. kaya this video helped me so much to think and to realize who I am pag ako nalang ang mag isa☹️
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Yes
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I feel u coz now I'm 30. Natatakot narin ako
Mag asawa ka at mag anak dahil mahal mo sila hindi para gawin mo lang investment. Just saying
Wow. Magmahal tayo na walang hinihintay na kapalit. Masakit pero darating naman kapag nagkataon mas mabuti ng handa😔
Another series for Eian Tito Boy!! We love this guy! Madami na syang supporters after Pbb.
Wow! I feel the pain! And the mood of the whole film is painful.
An excellent portrayal of Mr. Bernardo Bernardo.
I had an experienced this kind of love ❤️ happy lang naman ako na minahal sya ng totoo at wala akong pinagsisihan, atleast he knows that i love him at sapat na yun! I’ve learned my lessons na naman kahit papaano 😊
Sabi nga ni Whitney, "Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all. ❤️"
"Huwag masyadong magtiwala sa pangako baka mapako". ✔️
sames
Being single and old must be the most painful phase of life.
Are you old ?
why did you say so? are you old, alone and single?
It depends. Some people enjoy solitude no matter how old they are
If you’re Poor yes! But if you’re rich NAHHHH
assumption mo lang yan
I salute Bernard Bernardo he is famous artist and professional comedian to home alone da riles.. Thumbs up this story😘
OMGGGG SYA PALA YUN!?? 😯😭💗💗💗💗
Nasa part ako ng buhay ko na kahit wala akong partner habang buhay ay masaya nako, if magkaroon, bonus nalang yun. Acceptance mga kapatid. Makuntento nalang tayo sa kung ano ang meron for us to be happy. Huuugs!!
Grabi yung dedikasyon nya. Mahirap pero totoo. Sana lang kpg nangyari yung ganun masabi kong kaya ko. Sarap ng may feeling ng may minamahal bukod sa pamilya mo.
This movie is very sad. Sana mapanood ito ng lahat ng gays para mapaghandaan nila ang pagtanda nila. Save, save, save. Chances you will end up alone. Pero kung may pera ka, nanjan vicky Belo para di ka pangit na matanda. Kung iwanan ka man, naku dami jan. Wag magmahal ng sobra sobra. mag iwan ng isang katutak para sa sarili. After all it s always our choice to be happy or sad regardless of age. I am 67 and gay. I travel the world.
ano po fb or ig nyo hehehhe joke lng po :)
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Bless you po
@@TheCutiekool hi
I'm now 40 and I know I will grow old by myself and yes, it could be lonely at times even for an independent and mentally and emotionally strong person like me but it's how we live life and our outlook towards it that will get us through the struggles. After all, living by yourself does not mean you are alone and should be lonely as society has always labeled the fate of people growing old without a partner. You just have to realize that there is so much more to life than just being with a partner and focus on those things for you to be happy.
Me too
40 is not that old, go meet somebody, it may turn out like a fuck buddy or the love of your life, the possibilities are endless, take it like a numbers game, of course expect a few rotten apples, sex is good but plays a small role in a relationship, do things together, it strengthens the bond and you get to spend quality time, of course get somebody with a job or income.
still naalala ko c mr. bernardo bernardo s home along the riles at ibang comedy sitcom at movie dati.... galing p din umarte... grabe ung dulo... walang words but all emotions only mahirap un s artista ah.... more project for him pls.....
This is the sad part of being a gay you can't always ask for a love give back to you even you dedicated all your attention and life to your loved ones cause there's always thing at the back of your mind what if everything will change and you cant control all of it, you'll just get old alone and be sad for your whole life forever. 😥😥😥
We can be gay and happy. Some like to be alone and still be happy. You have to change your mindset. Gay or straight, life throws us many variables.
Excellent. The bitter truth of every gay person who is still single.
It is not just an ordinary film, but a reality. It is relatable to the point that may bring inspiration to other people. We need more films like this to promote acceptance and tolerance to the people around us regardless of age, sexuality, race.
I m straight gay at 52 now for me Acceptance sa lahat na mga pangyayari ang makapagpasaya sa tao at magpakatotoo sa sarili
Hey are you there ?
Sabi nila the greatest love of all is to love yourself! Sa kabilang banda maaring maging sapat na yun para mabuhay ka ng matagal sa mundo! Ang kabiyak o partner ba ang sagot sa pag iisa at kabiguan? Pag mag isa kalang ba sa buhay malungkot kana agad? Ang kasintahan ba tlga ang sagot para masabing kumpleto kana? Choices natin ang lahat ng mangyayari sa buhay natin masaya man o malungkot.. kaya dapt hindi lang sa pag ibig ibaling ang atensyon madami pa pede gawin kesa sa umibig! Ang bago tumanda ngayon frens “mag ipon” na tayo para kahit nag iisa hindi mahirap mabuhay dahil may pang tustus ka! 👏🏻😊 sa mga ka 30s jan magsimula na tayo ngaun palang!!
Haha. Tama pero minsan kaylangan din natin maramdaman ang yakap and holding hands lalo na sa lalaking para sayo.
- Pwd kanaman magmahal habang kumikita. O Kumikita habang nagmamahal. Ang pag-ibig ay kusang dumarating at kusang umaalis, nakakalimot ngunit kahit mawala na ang lahat ito parin ay mananatili. Naghahandang bumalik, magpatawad at magsimula muli. Ibig ko sabihin. Wag ka susuko. My nakalaan para sayo. Magtiwala ka lang. ☺
Ang galing naman umacting tagos hanggang puso!
This is what I fear the most, growing old and alone. Never been in a relationship, I'm 26 now, parang Mas magiging impossible para sakin makahanap ngayon ng partner, kasi ako na lang naiwan to take care of my parents, yung 2 ate ko may mga asawa na, yung bunsong kapatid ko na lalaki mag papakasal na din. Ako na lang single samin.
😢😥🥺
Haha same here, pero what matters most is nakakatulong tayo sa mahal natin sa buhay. God has plans for us, continue helping your fam and other people. Di tayo pababayaan ni papa jesus. 😊
Yan din situation ko ngayon... Ang lungkot Ang hirap... Kala nila okay Lang ako...
26 yrs old here!!! Only child and breadwinner ng family. Both parents ko wala ng trabaho. Hayy buhay. Hugss.
Nakakapagod maging matatag para sa pamilya. Tapos sa huli ako na lang din naman mg isa.
They have thier own families.
We Miss Youu Bernardo Bernardo The legendary Comedy Queen ng Pinas huhu sila ni Roderick Paulate ang bumubuhay sa Ngalan ng Karangalan ng LGBT noong Dekada 80 at 90 ♥
Ganito cguro ako after 25years im 35 now and single 🙁
I feel you Buddy ☺️
Di naman sguro
Do not only focus on love that is not there. You have your family and friends. If God permits, someone will look and find you.
Same here
hahaiz.. hanapin nalng natin isat isa charet hehehehe
I will always watch tito Boy. Dame ko natututunan
i hated the first (kase mejo sloppy ng pag amin ng mga bata). i loved the second (the hiv). and this is top notch.... complicated plot. ang complex at open ended ng ending. sobrang daming feels and questions that leave you at the end. veryvery good work 💖
There is something that hurts that make us a noble person!
Grabi ang story nito! 🥺 Ansakittttt!!!! 💔💔
i was very emotional all trough out 😞 salute to the writer and director ❤❤
A masterpiece and truly one of my greatest fears. I fear that I’ll outlive everyone that I love and that I’ll be alone.
For now enjoy life to the fullest, I am thankful for the memories, good and bad shaped me for what I am today, I know I will pass on first as my partner is 22 years younger.
Ang galing nya pala n actor..hoping for Alexa and Eian project 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Buhay pa pala dito si tito Bernardo Bernardo! I've missed him so much. Dahil na paka galing na aktor.
Sobrang bigat. Galing
GAGI.... PROJECT NA AGAD TO ALEXA AND EIAN PAG LABAS NG BNK.. BUSEEET GALING DIN PALA UMARTE NETONG SI EIAN😍
Malungkot, pero yan ang katotohanan. Nagmamahal tayo pero di naman tayo kayang mahalin sa paraang gusto natin. 😔
Maraming klase ng love.
Ginoong Bernardo Bernardo. Naging mapalad akong makatrabaho sya kahit sandali. Ang kanyang talento at ambag sa industriya ay hindi mapapantayan at matatawaran, kaya isa syang tunay na haligi ng pelikula, teatro, at pagtatanghal. Ngunit may ihihigit pa pala sya sa lahat ng 'yan. Napaka mapagbigay at matulungin niya pala sa mga artistang maliliit, o kahit sa nangangarap pa lamang na matuto. Bilang isang napakahusay na direktor at guro, buong puso at tyaga syang nagbahagi ng kayang nalalaman at panahon, at hindi humingi o tumanggap ng kapalit, kahit marahil ay may pangangailangan siya nuong panahon na iyon. Naiparamdam niya sa amin na may halaga ang anumang talino at pagpupunyagi namin, may pangalan man kami o wala. Maikling panahong nagkasama, ngunit panghabambuhay na mabuting epekto at alaala ang ami'y dala dala. Maraming-maraming salamat po, Tito Bernie!
Ang lungkot ng mag isa. Pero ganyan talaga e.
When you gave your 101% acting ability to give justice to the character you are portraying for. And to make a world class short film.
Congratulations Sir Bernardo Bernardo you are truly a great actor. You made me cry. You are a masterpiece.
Salute to the people in front and behind the camera.
Am I the only one that finds this a little weird? He got Karlo as a teen it seems and Karlo seems to look at him as a father figure. It doesn't seem right to "fall in love" with someone he should have been seeing as an adopted child from the start....i get the whole aspect of loneliness....pretty much all gay men go through it but that doesn't excuse us to fall in love with kids that we were given to raise....
having said that loneliness can affect almost all of us, gay or straight, because when we get old, our friends & spouses may pass before us and leave us alone. This is why I think it's extremely important to have other sources of happiness and not just from 1 single unrequited love. Pick up a hobby that really makes you feel good when you practise; whether its art, music, making things or fixing things, travelling or whatever you can take part in that doesnt involve you being dependent on a single human being. I am sure if we do this then even in our old age, if we are alone then we will still have other sources of happiness. I pray & wish that each and everyone one of us that feel this man's loneliness find the happiness that we deserve.
So well said . Falling in love with person who is two generation younger is very weird. Understand loneliness
I also found it to be uncomfortable. But good thing is, he did not take advantage of the boy even though he was in a position to do so.
Yeah weird pero i think its reality din. It will exist kahit weird sya. What's more nice about this film is that even with the feelings, walang taking of advantage na nangyari. The urge is there but he will resist it kasi yun nga he knows na hindi pwede
When I'm not with my partner, I enjoy mahjong and eating out, I like going to the beach too with a travel magazine.
Galing pala talaga ni Eian
Ang Sakit beeeh this is a great master piece ...
Oo nga po ei...ang sakit po
Hello FB friend
Arnel baka naman. 😍 Hehe
@gerald lolz 😝
@@gerard5801 haha lolz 😝
Shocks... Ang sakit, illusion lang pala na bumalik.. 🥺
hello tito boy😚maganda nkakaantig ng damdamin...
Such a nice and great story. Amazing ang videong ito. New friend here and subscriber.
Ako lng ba o kayo rin.. naaawa ako sa matanda🥺🥺
Magaling na artista pala to si Eian
I am already 37 and i also experience it.that i fell in love with someone whos to young for me. We already separated, it hurts but it's our God's will. I know someone out there is really meant for me.❤🥺❤
Young blood is awesome, it makes us feel younger. I am 57, my partner is 35, we met when he was 26.
ang lungkot.
Reason kung bakit ako single at age of 28 and gay....simple....sasamahan ko mga magulang ko gang pagtanda nla.. at tatanggapin ung realidad na mag iisa din ako..at wla akong pagsisisihan doon...dahil nailaan ko ang oras ko saknla...
Basta sa pangarap kayang gawing ang lahat.
Ang sakiiiit haay! Btw, may mali po sa dulo "From all IF us ang nakasulat
mahirap nga mag isa malungkot wala kang makausap pero kapag nakatadhana wala na tayong magagawa pa maliban sa pagdarasal
I'm 47 living alone alam ko na sa sarili ko na tatanda akong mag isa .Pero hoping and praying na bigyan ako ng Dios ng taong maging kaagapay ko.
#1. LoveYourself
#2.Accept and Embrace na pag Bakla ka mahirap mag hanap ng Partner sa Buhay.
Kaya sa ngayon I enjoy my life sa mga anong Bagay na ikakasaya ko.
Pero bago ako matulog kina kausap ko si God di ako takot mawala sa Mundo .
Kinakausap ko si God siya na ang Bahala sa akin.
Kasi sa mga past Relationship ko andun yung sakit at stress sa Buhay.
Kaya ito muna ako mag-isa lang
Na sana darating yung taong maiintidihan ako.
At iintindihin ko rin siya.
At masaya kami sa daloy ng Buhay.
Go out and meet somebody, get to know the person. I am 57, my partner is 35, we met when he was 26, I was already chubby and balding, I was in an escalator and the guy was smiling, he said he smiled because I was smiling hahaha.
Maganda ung story nakaka relate aqu
It’s a very true story . Loneliness and rejection are worst feelings. Happy ever couples are minority . Better we prepare for our future ourselves rather than being dependent on others . If love comes by it’s fine . I have realised this at my age of 52 and learning to live alone . Hope I succeed
I am 57, my partner is 35, we met when he was 26.
@@markledesma2396 so good to hear this. May you be happy ever. 😊 ❤
Mali din naman yung matanda. Ndi dapat makasarili ang pagibig. Dapat sana ang ipinabaon mo ay lakas ng loob at kumpiyansa sa sarili hinde yung inaway mo pa dahil lang sa pagiging makasarili mo. Sana hinayaan mo syang abutin ang mga pangarap nya at binigyan mo ng kasiguraduhan na kung anut ano man ang mangyari ay meron xang mababalikan. Ang tunay na pagibig ay hinde sakim at inuuna lagi ang kapakanan ng mahal mo. Hinde mo sya dapat ikulong lang sa iniilusyon mong mundo.
There's only a weird thing among the young-old familiar relation (I understand what you're trying to express... I'm afraid it sounds weird to me). Definitely is a good short film. Shows an accurate vision about getting old, caring others and the fear of ending alone. Interesting. Time to think in such topics after watched. A hug from... Spain!.
Sometimes our partner would go before us but life has to keep going.
Maybe they are right... I have never been in love, Yung solid . Ung intense. Ung magpapatanga sa akin Ng sobra .
I'm 33 now, growing old alone., That's one of my fears.. yet ngaun pa Lang..I'm getting myself ready for that situation. Still praying and hoping for that "someone"
Pero Kung ndi Niya talaga ibibigay.. I know He has a better plans for me .
In my 35 years of existence, I only felt these loneliness when my my mom died last 2015 (the day before my bday) and my father this August 2021 (due to covid). But having that said, even though it’s easy for us to say that we feel lonely I still look the bright side of every situation.
Currently, (September 21, 2021) I had tested positive for Covid but I never felt that fear and loneliness because of my Family (specially my sister and her Family) who’s with me right now in our ancestral house.
For me, It should be us finding the ways how to avoid to feel that loneliness, do those things that would make you happy. I never look/ask for love from anybody else, because I know that no one could ever love us back the way we do to them! It’s hard to be gay, but It’s really nice to be one. Mahigpit na yakap sa inyong lahat! Cheers 🥂
35 is young. I am 57 now, 2 years ago I took care of my mom, bathing, feeding, changing diapers, my partner is 35 now, we met when he was 26, a relationship takes work. When mom was sick, I was crying a lot, I lost 20 lbs. in 2 months, oftentimes I would bathe after lunch as I was always busy, going to the market, preparing food, doing her activities of daily living, I worked as a nursing aide for many years so it came easy for me but taking care of a family member is super hard, very exhausting mentally.
A sad reality of an old gay falling for a young man.
Ganyan din ako ata :( baklang Tatanda na walang kasama pamilya :( send love..
Kawawang nilalang
Matagal na pala to, bat ngayon lang inupload.
Si tito Bernardo Bernardo ay mabait din at matulungin sa kanyang kapwa.
😭😭😭😭 Parang nakikita ko ang future ko! Huhuhu
Buhay p c Bernardo Bernardo here
If ako nagpalaki sa bata I wont ask for a partner's love in return. Aariin ko siya as a son. Kasi habang tumatanda ka nawawala ang desire sa katawan but na rere direct sa ibang klase ng love, mas masarap talaga yung feeling na may kasama ka, oo. But, matututunan mo rin mag let go lalo na kung mahal mo talga yung tao na yun.
heartwarming film.
Love also means letting go. Love is selfless.
My ex was a Nabong hahaha.
I want Mccoy De Leon and Eian Rances BL series.
Wala na po ba itong karugtong?
Am I the only Indonesian who watch this.?
I'm kinda like the story
What brought you here? Lol
I agree in that adult,he just want to achieve his dream.If your family don't want it to be in your way,then leave them.
More for Eian Rances pls,,
I am turning 38 in 2 months. These weird fears have just started taking over me. My brother is also single in his 50's. Been wise with my decisions but I couldn't find what would truly make me happy. I never had serious relationship because been so cynical and got some trust issue. I am also afraid of responsibilities.
Hindi importanti ang mamahaling bagay at maraming salapi. Ang pinaka importanti sa lahat ay yung tiwala sa sarili mo at sa ibang tao. Kaya huwag kang basta basta magtitiwala sa ka kilala mo lang. Higit sa lahat ay marunong kang kumilatis ng tao para hindi ka maluko at masaktan.
God's unconditional love expressed through each and one of us. God Bless Us All no matter what and who we choose to become. We are all to learn what unconditional love trully means to remain open to any outcome because we are allowing this great Source Energy to just flow through us💚🌈
Nakaka takot tumandang mag isa
☹☹
Can relate being a single gay man in my 30's. Tago pa so ndi ko masabi sa gusto ko ung totoo 😭😭😭
Ang sakit naman 🥺 haaaay
Hello tito boy
watching from Riyadh
Kakalungkot naman ng istorya.
Kala ko wala na si Bernardo Bernardo?
Bat angsakit neto tito boy? 🤧😭
Yon Lang ba un..? O may full movie to .?
My future, all in 17 mins. 😭😭😭
Your not alone 🥰 just keep going ❤️❤️❤️
Oh my god, that was an illusion? That is so sad. 😞
Oh wow! That was sad! :(
The reason why im still single.bcuz i still have feelings with my ex.i still love him untill now...takot akung ma in love ulit..at my age now turning 37 hoping to meet someone to have me for the rest of my life..
You deserve better.
An ex is history, Gusto mo ba kainin yung sinuka mo?
Nkakatakot tumanda ng mag isa😭😭😭😭😭
Cguro mentality yan pag nasa pinas ka. Nasa Amerika ka maraming nagiisa.
@@erwincagampan5777 uso sa america ang home for the aged,,while sa pinas kawawa ka lalo pat mahirap lng,,pag aagawan ka pag may pera ka,,
@@vlognibenja3303 kaya hinanda ko na sarili ko. Ang wish ko lang Sana wAg nako tumanda ng kagaya nanay At tatay ko. Yan Kasi ang fear ko baka mainlove pako sa bata. Sana Di na lang ako beki. I’m 62 never have any relationship I’m
Ok for another 8 years to live
@@erwincagampan5777 Hi I just want you to know po. Live your life to the fullest and cherish every hour and day to do something good for you and to all the people around you po. Lahat po tayo takot tumanda lalo na sa mga katulad ho nating parte ng lgbtqia. But enjoyin hu natin kong anong meron tayo at kung ano man ang purpose natin Dito sa mundo.
@@cristedcone4713 Salamat
Love this❣️
spanish pleasee!
Love these little feel good films !!