Wait, she had anxiety and he (her ex) was chipping away at her, then she gave in to him the night before her wedding? Never thought to tell anyone about his behaviour, or just stop contacting him? Sounds like she was actually having a full-blown emotional affair with him and the physical part would have continued.
OP handled it the only way it should be handled, except for staying in touch with her. He should have blocked her on everything, instead of her getting to act like she didn't do anything wrong, because it was just a "Mistake".
Is their ever a cheating wife story where the wife takes responsibility for and is accountable for her actions? I've never heard one. I was drunk, it was a mistake, it just happened, my friends made me do it, I was seduced, I don't know why I did it....all straight out of the Cheater's Handbook.
@@dinkyd1533 no, the rule is that it's necessary to be able to read the person. How long it takes is immaterial. It can be as quick as a year, depending on the skill and cool head of the reader. If someone wilfully ignores warning signs, a decade won't be enough.
She had a solo Bachelorette party! She was excited about the wedding but not the life after that. That's were the anxiety is coming from and her practically just saying "yeah I'm sorry, my bad. I'll just go to therapy". 6 months ex-bf hounded and pestered her. I guess her phone doesn't have blocking option. If its true that ex-bf set out to sabotage not only her wedding but her life and her future, if I were her father I'd be drooling over the idea of hunting him down and doing things to him that he'd wish he was never born. I'd even let the ex-son in law in on it. Sadly the story never gave this satisfaction.
The fact she spread so easily makes me think had he never found out the first child would have been the ex boyfriends.
Wait, she had anxiety and he (her ex) was chipping away at her, then she gave in to him the night before her wedding? Never thought to tell anyone about his behaviour, or just stop contacting him? Sounds like she was actually having a full-blown emotional affair with him and the physical part would have continued.
According to the timeline she set the wedding date and then started cheating. Wow
thats how you wreak a marriage in one night.SAD.
Congratulations Susan !! You can have your ex back ,
This story is incredible. Does your ex show up on the wedding day and you sleep with him? Congratulations for the poor morality
OP handled it the only way it should be handled, except for staying in touch with her.
He should have blocked her on everything, instead of her getting to act like she didn't do anything wrong, because it was just a "Mistake".
Is their ever a cheating wife story where the wife takes responsibility for and is accountable for her actions? I've never heard one. I was drunk, it was a mistake, it just happened, my friends made me do it, I was seduced, I don't know why I did it....all straight out of the Cheater's Handbook.
Bloody hell.....this dude will never wanna marry again. And i can't blame him one bit. What a crap show
Proposed after a year ??? Dumb !
If you don’t know after a year either way you’re not doing relationships right.
@@neillgowans4350Rubbish, you don't know someone after one year, it takes at least 4-5 years.
@@dinkyd1533 you have to be a good judge of character. Plenty of late proposals ended in divorce, and plenty of quick ones are still going strong.
@@kirillstp So what? There are always exceptions to the rule.
@@dinkyd1533 no, the rule is that it's necessary to be able to read the person. How long it takes is immaterial. It can be as quick as a year, depending on the skill and cool head of the reader. If someone wilfully ignores warning signs, a decade won't be enough.
She had a solo Bachelorette party! She was excited about the wedding but not the life after that. That's were the anxiety is coming from and her practically just saying "yeah I'm sorry, my bad. I'll just go to therapy". 6 months ex-bf hounded and pestered her. I guess her phone doesn't have blocking option. If its true that ex-bf set out to sabotage not only her wedding but her life and her future, if I were her father I'd be drooling over the idea of hunting him down and doing things to him that he'd wish he was never born. I'd even let the ex-son in law in on it. Sadly the story never gave this satisfaction.
Different story . Sad and realistic
Shouldn’t be Man & Wife should be Husband & Wife
Woke enough?
@ you want it to be husband and woman?
Sad very sad