Childfree By Choice | Selfish or SelfLove?

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
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Комментарии • 99

  • @harrisindustries314
    @harrisindustries314 2 года назад +42

    Sadly, some women think that having kids is the only thing they're capable of - the only thing they can achieve.

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  2 года назад +11

      Profound statement 🎯

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 2 года назад +4

      Thats very sad indeed. Its horrible actually.

    • @PraveenSrJ01
      @PraveenSrJ01 2 года назад +4

      Very deep and profound statement

    • @daniella8400
      @daniella8400 2 года назад +5

      For some it is…

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +4

      How can exercising a basic bodily function be called an achievement? Cockroaches do the same by the billions.

  • @biobelewilliam-west1310
    @biobelewilliam-west1310 3 года назад +21

    August 1 Happy International CHILDFREE Day

  • @007Aura
    @007Aura 3 года назад +45

    Childfree and stress free! 😊💜

  • @Artfaithrich
    @Artfaithrich 2 года назад +37

    29 and childfree! Loving it!

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  2 года назад +1

      Ayeeee! The world is ours❤️❤️

    • @briannalightfoot7761
      @briannalightfoot7761 7 месяцев назад

      Heyyy I am 28 and childfree the best decision I have ever made 🎉🎉🎉

  • @thechildfreefree-thinkerACE
    @thechildfreefree-thinkerACE 2 года назад +22

    CHILDFREE & Self Love... We are not Incubators or Economic Breeding Slaves
    Love the Video & SUBBED👌🏽💯🚫🍼

  • @exoticjanene
    @exoticjanene 3 года назад +40

    I’m a childfree young lady too!! A lot of people ask me why don’t you want kids or a boyfriend? Well first off, I don’t need a man to make me feel good, I can make myself happy through God, and second if I have a child my life is technically over cause I gotta make sacrifices and can’t do certain things anymore if I had a child now and I’m only 19 years old I have a whole life ahead of me!

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 3 года назад +12

      Same here. Can't imagine sacrificing my life, goals, money, and happiness to be a wife and mother. 🤢🤮

    • @cheyennemurray4491
      @cheyennemurray4491 2 года назад +6

      I agree 100% , I’m 20 and I’m focusing on graduating for university. By the time I pay off all my debt (school and some medical)I don’t want to have kids , and go back to living with thousands of dollars in debt again.

    • @cheyennemurray4491
      @cheyennemurray4491 2 года назад +8

      @@Childfree334 same here , not ever woman’s job title is “Mom” or “Wife”

  • @sparklyunicorn5431
    @sparklyunicorn5431 2 года назад +16

    It really is self-love sis. I love being at peace not having to worry about anyone else but me. What a blessing, thank you God for allowing us this experience. You are beautiful sis!

  • @ebonyw5042
    @ebonyw5042 3 года назад +62

    You were preaching, Sis. I'm 40 and child free by choice and loving it! Let's be friends 😊😂😊😂

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  3 года назад +16

      OMG, HEY BESTIE HEY!!!

    • @ebonyw5042
      @ebonyw5042 3 года назад +14

      @@TeraChantelle If you could have witnessed me watching your video; you had me clapping, stomping my feet, and slapping the desk. The next time someone tries to lecture me about being selfish or tell me how they know deep down that I really want a kid, I'll send them your video.

    • @makedalittles3123
      @makedalittles3123 3 года назад +11

      I've been childfree for yearsssssssss and i've been obbesed with being single and childfree and i love it i'm loving my freedom and my indepence.....

    • @thechildfreefree-thinkerACE
      @thechildfreefree-thinkerACE 2 года назад +6

      Same 40 now LOL I MADE IT! LOL
      (And I am Asexual) 👌🏽🚫🍼

    • @honoreejennings1998
      @honoreejennings1998 Год назад

      Same!!! I chose myself too!!

  • @lr2ldn
    @lr2ldn 3 года назад +33

    I love your energy!! Childfree is the best!! I love it!

  • @pla4825
    @pla4825 3 месяца назад +5

    37 not married and children free I actually enjoy my life the way it is. Although I do like kids I’m not desperate for them or even companionship. I just truly want to be happy in life

  • @Duncman92
    @Duncman92 2 года назад +10

    29 almost 30 and childfree and couldn’t be happier!!!!!

  • @moyndebs6759
    @moyndebs6759 3 года назад +48

    I’m a Child Free guy here 👍

  • @Andrea-jf7sz
    @Andrea-jf7sz 3 года назад +62

    Love your statements, Tera! I'm childfree because I don't want the responsibility of being a parent. What's more selfish than creating a life for your own satisfaction?
    Do you notice all reasons for having children begin with "I want/wanted..."?

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  3 года назад +8

      Wow! You just spoke to my soul. The “I” is always the ego speaking. Once you get to a place of awaken you lose all that desire from the ego driven logic🌹

    • @yavenay
      @yavenay 3 года назад +7

      intentionally having children is about the most selfish thing one can do.

    • @ElaineLoyd
      @ElaineLoyd 2 года назад

      They want someone to love them unconditionally and take care of them when older those are the main totally unselfish reasons people have children 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ElaineLoyd
    @ElaineLoyd 2 года назад +4

    Childfree means by choice childless means involuntary.
    I think the pressure of having children needs to stop telling women who say I don't feel that way that they will figure it out when they give birth that is such a negative thing to tell people with so many abused children people need to be encouraged to say no if they don't want it they should feel free to say that. I am so dedicated to being child-free that I have never had sex and plan to continue that practice. I have 15 nieces and nephews, and I can be my best self for them whenever I am with them cause I have my me time and my clean house and quiet house to relax in, and they love me for it cause I am not stressed when I am with them.

  • @wmarch88
    @wmarch88 2 года назад +9

    My nephew born three months before covid, I'm happy because I'm childfree, I'm 33.

  • @scottsummersreloaded4618
    @scottsummersreloaded4618 2 года назад +8

    Yea I always thought about the small inconveniences that you have to deal with with kid. More laundry to fold, cooking for more people etc. Just cooking for myself is time consuming. Also everybody else I know who has kids regrets it whether they admit it or not. I seen male friends in the past really struggle with child support. It looked absolutely soul crushing!

  • @Melly16yr10
    @Melly16yr10 3 года назад +17

    Child free here and loving it 😍

  • @MyNicole59
    @MyNicole59 3 года назад +11

    Girl I had to watch this twice! U were speaking to me!!!!

  • @dral22
    @dral22 Год назад +2

    My wife and I just decided to choose freedom over stress. Childfree by choice and happy 😊👑✊🏾

  • @notamommalifepodcasthostra2581
    @notamommalifepodcasthostra2581 3 года назад +14

    Love your energy 🤩 love to see current childfree content 🙌🏾

  • @attitudeproblem6462
    @attitudeproblem6462 2 года назад +9

    My thoughts exactly! I’m very grateful to all my siblings and cousins for having kids, b/c *I* can’t DO it!!😂

  • @frummel403
    @frummel403 3 года назад +11

    Yes lady!!! You are amazing!!! So happy to see people that feel the same way.

  • @ChildfreeFamily
    @ChildfreeFamily 2 года назад +7

    Thank you for making this video! We need more Childfree voices.

  • @mackenzieslattery919
    @mackenzieslattery919 3 года назад +9

    Wow I really love your enthusiasm. You have a really good point here. I love it.

  • @TruePathLiving
    @TruePathLiving Год назад +2

    I feel the exact same way, everything about having kids is laborious, from pushing it out, to literally shaping and forming their mind and soul !!!! I am 28, not married, no kids, still have a LOTTTTT of healing to do. Raised by an alcoholic mom (who did her best) and a dad who cheated on my mom growing up, sometimes wish I wasn't here, but then I found God!!

  • @monikaholtsmark5508
    @monikaholtsmark5508 9 месяцев назад

    I like the word balance in this clip. Thankyou for being an awesome role model for the next generation! Shine bright!❤

  • @CocoLane
    @CocoLane 2 месяца назад +1

    36 & Childfree!!!! I’m very Happy in this Space ♥️

  • @nskyline1156
    @nskyline1156 2 года назад +4

    Childfree and loving it! 🌺 Thank you for the video!

  • @MPD_dogmom
    @MPD_dogmom Год назад +4

    I do feel a higher calling but still trying to find out what it is. I know motherhood isn’t it.

  • @patricia-ik3gw
    @patricia-ik3gw Год назад +2

    Thats right....girl CHOOSE YOU..yes step away from the matrix...elevate

  • @arreyahnicholson2601
    @arreyahnicholson2601 3 года назад +7

    ❤️God bless your soul sis 🙏🏾

  • @sixteen.candles.4644
    @sixteen.candles.4644 2 года назад +15

    Not selfish at all! Im a mom of 2 and it is hard. Its not like the same people that told you youre selfish will help with the baby at night or watch them while you work so fk them.

  • @gothichippielovechild3198
    @gothichippielovechild3198 2 года назад +3

    I love your glow ✨🥰

  • @PraveenSrJ01
    @PraveenSrJ01 2 года назад +2

    Love ❤️ your humor and energy and would love to see more of your videos. You definitely gained a new suscriber.

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  2 года назад

      Yay! Thank you so much! Looking forward to building with ya!

  • @petisadavis7518
    @petisadavis7518 2 года назад +3

    You are very liberating thanks for the advice!

  • @notamommalifepodcasthostra2581
    @notamommalifepodcasthostra2581 3 года назад +4

    Saving this to share with my community and podcast community 💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @myegomyrespect3190
    @myegomyrespect3190 2 года назад +3

    U r awesome

  • @tenaja
    @tenaja Год назад

    Child free and loving it☺️

  • @Art_Dilees
    @Art_Dilees 2 года назад +2

    Agree 💯 ❤️

  • @paulcornell3155
    @paulcornell3155 Год назад

    Mother Teresa needed to perform a Merical to be canonized a Saint so all you need is a POPE to go through your Town to make you one.
    GOD Bless You!😊

  • @Centimilli
    @Centimilli Год назад

    I love it 🫶🏽moving different ❤️

  • @ankra12
    @ankra12 2 года назад +1

    Totally agree.

  • @moniquejohnson2465
    @moniquejohnson2465 Год назад

    SELFLOVE

  • @chadguindon6909
    @chadguindon6909 Год назад +1

    I'm childfree at 39 years old and I have also never been married. I would rather sing in clubs, drink beer and smoke weed rather than doing the husband and father things. Am I a selfish deadbeat for not wanting those responsibilities?

  • @notamommalifepodcasthostra2581
    @notamommalifepodcasthostra2581 3 года назад +2

    @Tera Ohmystars I feel like I found a new childfree BFF

  • @briannalightfoot7761
    @briannalightfoot7761 Год назад

    Heyy I totally agree 🎉🎉

  • @Centimilli
    @Centimilli Год назад

    That opening..😆

  • @fanders44
    @fanders44 8 месяцев назад +1

    "Choosing to be single and childfree. My time and energy belong to me." Please don't stop promoting this lifestyle. Everybody needs to know they have a choice not to get caught up in bad relationships and getting pregnant just because....... (fill in the blank) people struggle more with responsibility ( having a family)

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  8 месяцев назад +2

      I’m just getting started stay tuned😂

  • @scottsummersreloaded4618
    @scottsummersreloaded4618 2 года назад

    all makes sense to me

  • @TruePathLiving
    @TruePathLiving Год назад

    hahaahaha i love this lol

  • @love__and__hope__
    @love__and__hope__ 3 года назад +4

    Children are number 1 job for any women. That is their added value.

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  3 года назад +11

      🤯🤯🤯🤯

    • @agees924
      @agees924 3 года назад +29

      It takes 2 to make a baby but you never hear that attitude towards men.

    • @yavenay
      @yavenay 3 года назад +20

      I am so glad that your opinion doesn't matter to me......I love being child free. And I have immense value to my 4 neices.

    • @yavenay
      @yavenay 3 года назад +12

      @@agees924 the planet is dying from over population and some people are still pushing this nonsense that women must have kids. We gonna procreate ourselves right into extinction listening to fools like this.

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 3 года назад +29

      WRONG. My number 1 job is loving MYSELF.

  • @isaidwhatisaid.1012
    @isaidwhatisaid.1012 Год назад

    It's the self love for me hunty😂❤