Mr Nice Is Changed Man After Cheating On Ex | First Dates
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- Опубликовано: 31 май 2018
- After confessing his guilt over cheating on his ex, Ben is eager for love. How would you react if your date confessed to cheating?
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It takes a strong man to accept all the flaws he made in the past, I adore him for being honest and for trying to become a better person.
LoveMe,com it takes a weak, beta male man to supplicate himself within 30 minutes. He's a spoon. 🤦🏼♂️😁
That's a lovely sentiment but if the guy ends up cheating on her, at least she was warned. The best predictor of the future is the past.
That dude is a stud
Once a cheater always a cheater
somehow i doubt we'd see comments like this if a woman admitted to cheating on her boyfriend
I don't understand why people have to indulge their innermost failures with a complete stranger, even if soft piano music is playing in the background I wouldnt do it.
Lol!
Jack Jordan there told to by the producers they need the ratings
😂😂😂
@G Found the incel
theyre on a show u idiot
Yes I dont trust him.
Thats because you have a brain.
“He’s the mr nice guy I’ve been looking for “ after he tells her he’s cheated is she wrong in the head ?😂
people change we all make mistakes and tbh he was only 19
Sometimes you gotta just try it before you know you won’t do it again. Kind of like meth. Try it see if it’s for you, and then decide nha im only doing it once.
@@alishax3399 sorry that's still not an excuse. I mean, sure, maybe he feels bad about it now but what's to stop him from doing that again? It's hardwired in his DNA.
@@ladistar cheating isnt a component of DNA, not is it a genetic trait passed down through generations. *smh*
@@bealong8718 cheating is heavily influenced by brain chemistry and biological instincts aka genetics. there are numerous studies you can look up online which support this. basically, people who cheat tend to produce higher levels of dopamine than that of the overall population and get hooked to the high of cheating. statistically-speaking, past infidelity/promiscuity is highly correlated with the inability to pair bond and future infidelity.
Some hefty manipulative vibes coming off this dude and the immediate possession of her after saying that he’d see her again was the confirmation...
COMPLETELY! I think he's telling her about cheating to make sure he only finds himself women who think they'll be the ones to get make him a better man~~ Absolute vultures
Never cheated again, yeah been single since thats why. Best 1st date he's ever had, last and only other one was when he was 15 at school, probably walked around the school with his girlfriend. Guy seems well off, saying everything he thinks he should, he's not right and she's gonna get hurt.
Reading all these comments with an English accent as I'm sitting in my room in America
What's up gorgeous
same and I am sitting here in Saudi lol
As I read them in America sounding American.
Didn’t he say before the date that one girl broke up with him because he was “too nice”. Now he’s saying he’s only ever had one relationship, which ended because he cheated on her. I doubt she was describing him as too nice after discovering his infidelity. Something’s a bit off there.
Synthesizer Patel wow I never realised but yes!!!! Previous cheater, also a liar....not great
Synthesizer Patel maybe he meant he had a date and she rejected him because he was "too nice". Must check that out to be sure though
If he confessed to me that he cheated on an ex, that would be our first and last date. I’m not putting my time into someone like that. I don’t feel sorry for him.
And, and... to make it worse, he has sisters as he stated. That didn't stop him back then. Why did he volunteer all that info as if it was a positive? I don't get it.
2:29 the famous hovering hand
2,15 can see clearly
It’s so nice to see a girl without lip fillers. Makes her stand out from the crowd- in a good way!
He was very young when he cheated. His confusion and acknowledgement seemed genuine to me.
"The ppl around me that know me really well would stand by the fact that that's not me" lmao well...clearly it is
no, human beings make mistakes. Your life has to be quite sad....
He’s desperate, supplicating and feels he has to justify and explain himself to a girl he’s never met to gain intimacy...she’s ‘happy’ because he’s admitted his past guilt and treated her like a princess for simply being a woman...instant power!
Ace Face10 it's a dating show so obviously he's gonna try
The way he was touching her shoulder! It felt like he was trying to convince her otherwise to go on another date with him.. I have mixed feelings about this guy..
He said he was super young when he made the mistake and obviously didn't understand the consequences of what it feels like to be betrayed by the person you're most intimate with. He has clearly grown up and come to terms with who he is and what his mistakes were.
John 87 um, there’s not one person on this planet who HAS TO indulge in their past or do anything really, seriously it’s not a law. If you don’t want to answer - simply don’t! Its just that men lack the backbone to say no.
Preach it brother! Red pill in full effect 🙌
Yeah , he’ll cheat again !!
SuetSuet Chan Um, I’m not sure about that. Give him a chance.
チャーリー once a cheater always a cheater.
Yup - it's obvious, but there'll always be ton of galls dumb enough to fall for such act.
I don't agree. I think people can change by age. Say he cheated at 25 or below he could be a whole different person by let's say... death.
@@gfriend4ever939 People can change their bad habits if they're motivated enough, but they can't change their personality (unless they have mental disease) and what they are prone to do. Sure he may struggle and not cheat for a while when he'd want to "impress" somebody, but that's similar to alcoholism - you may never have a drink anymore, but you are still an alcoholic. It's much easier to stop drinking though - you can avoid being with contact with alcohol altogether - you can't really avoid other people (unless you're introvert, but I havent heard of an introverted cheater before). But if you're one that likes to play the saviour and try to correct somebody by all means go for it.
I won't say, "once a cheater always a cheater." I'll say that once a cheater is caught and they go through the depression of break-up, they know they can survive it if it happens again so cheating is still and will always be in the playbook.
Assuming her reactions were genuine, which I think they were, his choice to share his "lesson learned" story seems to have opened up some great possibilities for both of them. Cute couple.
Oh my God...They're CODEPENDENT!!!!
Lmaooo Rick and Morty reference
🤣😂🤣😂🤣
He’s trying to absolve guilt by doing something that is inappropriate on a first date
Leave him be, he was a teenager all throughout his past relationship.
Everyone knows teens make mistakes.
They'll have a few dates then be best friends shopping at pottery barn.
he gone smash n dash
That hover hand at the end 😂
People, you don't have to reveal your dirty laundry when you meet someone. Not *everything* must be revealed. Sometimes it's even better to start afresh, leave the past behind - just learn from your mistakes and don't do them again.
Yeah but he did it almost as if to brag
I think i should know if my partner participated in a gangbang or not
Yeah I got some really bad vibes from this guy. Something about him screamed possessive and toxic. Maybe I'm just jaded.
I feel so happy for them, instant chemistry wow!
Awww....they are cute together. I hope you guys stay together forever.
They complement each other well
What a man for noticing that problem and surrendering it so he can change, that's one trait of what definitely makes a real man! Admittance!
He owned up to it. Respect. People can and do change.
A, They're so Sweet 😍 I really like them 👍👍 and that's what' love or mutual admiration, looks like 💖😊
Beautiful...he's learned from his experience of cheating!
The ending was beautiful
He's a liar. Early signs of a toxic relationship are when a partner states his negatives right at the start and says they will change. Red flag!!!
source(s): trust me bro
Not always but o get wat ur saying
Hash tag psychologist aged 12
I disagree with you.
lol faux-psychologist here in youtube
My heart is smiling and I'm so happy for these two lovely individuals! I think that they are perfect for each other ❤️ When I see such a genuine connection like this wowww...it really gives me hope and makes believe in true love. Never give up! And most of all, trust God's timing. 🙏❤️❤️❤️
Luv your positivity. Haha
She was gone six weeks !! Like it's not like she went off to war for 4 years .
Good one
i liked them but it was a bit weird he was rubbing her shoulder with his thumb at the end
Victor Slabb I know I saw that and it made me cringe..
That guy's way too horny...:')
Victor Slabb the way he was kissing her when they were walking down the street just looked desperate and leery. It was obvious she just wanted a peck, tried to turn away, and he kept sniffing her. The guy’s a cringefest.
Why did he even tell her😂😂
He looks like Fix It Felix from Wreck it Ralph
Hahaha duuuuude he sho does!!!!!!
She seems lovely and he seemed really sweet until the end when he went in and put his arm around her and kind of straight away said he'd go out with her again. idk what it is something about it seemed odd but I can't put my finger on it, he could still be really genuine and sweet but something about watching that moment from the outside didn't click
Yeahhhhhh buddy. Hoping for a success story down the line
I'm dying how CUTEEE!!!
They deserve each other .hope it works out
i dont if 15 can be a proper age for a mature relationship at all..haha
The point I am trying to make is 'cheating' at the age of 15 has hardly any significance in a person's character. Love at 15 meant to break down.
Kabla21 think he said 15-19 so he would of been 19 when he cheated
@@Valkyri3Z he was 19 and even by the age of 15 non sociopathic humans have empathy.
he clearly just wanted to brag about cheating on tv. then the whole 'poor me, i feel so guilty' act was to make viewers feel sorry for him and root for him. and given some of the comments, it seems like its working on some.
good on him for being honest though, that way most women can avoid him like the plague
Once a cheater , always a cheater
always
Why can't that ever happen to me!?
Some cheaters never learn their lesson, like my ex, but this guy seems like a changed man
What a natural beauty she is. Her eyes remind me of Elizabeth Taylor 's eyes
She’s adorable
Lovely couple 👫! 😊 👍 👌 She's adorable! 😊
I don’t trust this guy. He’s too good to be true.
Too good to be true? Because he's handsome, or because he cheated on his ex?
Marlies Kroon he’s too smooth and convincing. His story is too sweet to be true. He knows that women like a sensitive man and he’s using it to his advantage.
Yes, coming across as too Mr. Perfect, getting some sociopathic vibes for sure
What a desperate pleb know the girl 30 mins and already fallen in love and she's easy as anything end in tear I telling you. 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Drew Gumbs-yisrael shhiiddd might as well go on that show where they get married when they barely first met lmaoo
Sometimes it takes one glance to fall in love 30 minutes is just sometimes 30 minutes long for some people. The problem with today's day and age is that they need a few years of sleeping with each other to know if they are right for each other. Maybe I just think more old skool for this new generation even though I'm still in my 20s
I respect the actions when a person confesses to cheating because they feel guilty and made a terrible mistake rather than get caught cheating and has to admit it such a big difference in whether to continue a in the relationship.
Which, episode and season is this?
Series 10 Episode 9 - www.channel4.com/programmes/first-dates/on-demand/66298-013
Thank u xxx
Super sweet
And they even played Ed Sheeran's perfect
Gotta give the girl credit,I think she was blushing
I would like to see what happened. When people on cam say all the "right" stuff it makes me interested in seeing how honest it was.
I'm available if you need a better translator for your norwegian titles ^^ (it's barely understandable)
He's like a young Christian Grey 😍
My heart 😍😍
He cheated when his girl was only gone six weeks .
This chick is screwed if she gets up to go to the bathroom
2:02 They look good together!
Once a cheater always a cheater
Beautiful
At least he is honest
Shes beautiful, he better not hurt her❤️❤️
Nice boy, like him a lot, would make a great couple, aah......
I saw the whole episode. She was completely into him, they were holding hands and kissing at the end. Probably the strongest and most positive date I've seen on the show.
I respect a guy who comes out and say I cheated unlike a like who's gonna act like his God only to find that his cheated more than Multiple times..It takes more than just two balls for a guy to be that open..My Opinion 🤷
Both cute 😘😘
Every cheater should be branded so nobody touches them ever again
I am this boy kinda, people really can hurt themselves and grow immensely from it
I wonder if they stayed together
That’s not me? Didn’t you just say you cheated on your girl?
I’m all for second chances, but he really didn’t need to reveal all of that on a first date. That’s something you discuss properly, not casually over five minutes.
What’s his name? I love him 😍😍
This guy is too good to be true.
So cute
Beautiful girl
Not sure if I’m saying this right but can you remove a spot out of a cheetah just like that? That makes no sense lol This guy is smooth and knows it. I smell trouble. But benefit of the doubt eh?
Cheating shouldn’t be teacher you a lesson it should be common sense
I dont trust him
Women love players
He is a gentleman
Hook, line and......sinker!!!! My God!
"It taught me a lesson when I was very young"
Dude I learned that lesson when i was 9, not 19. You also had one of the most pathetic excuses. "Didn't see her for 6 weeks so I decided to look elsewhere". oof is this just a 1st worlder mindset?
At 19 you old enough to know better. If that logic can convince you to do it once, literally any other idea can convince you to do it again.
Shes crazy for even considering him lol
Is there any way I can contact the admin / producer ?
I would like to join the program if there’s any in Asia
❤️
She looks like Sarah Urie, Brendon's wife lol
Awwwww
Oh, he makes himself out to be a victim.
But at 1.42, how comes she didn't turn around and say right that's it your in the friend zone. To him.
2:25 hover hand
But it is you now
He FORGOT to tell her he picks his nose and eats it. #HONESTY
Melt
Aaaah cute as
He should not be saying that stuff on a first date.
On tv
He told on himself on first date. If a girl told me that I'd be leary of her. He should have learned his lesson, and start fresh with her. No need to be so dirty laundry airing so soon.