The Dark Side of Helping Others | 13 Surprising Ways It Can Harm You | STOICISM
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📖 Overview: Helping others is often seen as the epitome of kindness and compassion. However, what if this noble act sometimes leads to unexpected harm? Today, we delve into the darker side of altruism, uncovering 13 surprising ways that helping others can hurt us. From emotional burnout to the erosion of personal boundaries, we explore insights that will challenge your understanding of kindness. Learn how to balance compassion with rational self-care, and discover more effective, sustainable ways to support others while taking care of yourself.
🎯 Key Moments
00:00 - Introduction
02:10 - Martyr Syndrome
05:45 - Dependency Issues
09:20 - Emotional Drain
13:30 - Enabling Destructive Behavior
17:00 - Loss of Identity
20:40 - Financial Strain
23:50 - Neglecting Personal Needs
27:00 - Resentment and Bitterness
29:30 - Impact on Relationships
31:45 - Compassion Fatigue
33:55 - Unrealistic Expectations
35:40 - Self-Neglect
37:00 - Overlooking Red Flags
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This video is a must-watch for anyone who cares about others, because it brilliantly shines a light on the hidden pitfalls of altruism. The insights shared here are both eye-opening and deeply practical - a perfect blend of philosophical wisdom and real-world application. I especially appreciate how the narrator draws on Stoic principles to emphasize the crucial role of self-care and balanced boundaries in sustaining our capacity for genuine, impactful help. It's a powerful reminder that true compassion starts from within. Bravo to the team for creating such a thoughtful and valuable resource! I'll be sharing this far and wide.
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I gave zero fuck, i do my job and leave, people underestimate you all the way, only care that most important to you (family, best friend etc) be kind and professional don't overshare
So tired of being the last link on the chain of others problems. It’s as simple as a math ethical equation. Number 1-people = problems, 2-more people =more problems 3-fewer people =less problems 4-No people = the fewest possible problems. My statement to the world “what the fuck do you expect me to do about it”
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