Jesus Delivered Me From Promiscuity, Low Self-Esteem, Shame & No Self-Control

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  • Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
  • Thank you for listening to my testimony! I share how a deep root of rejection, longing for acceptance and unconditional love, led me into a cycle of sexual sin and deep insecurity.
    It wasn't my intention to do an episode on the podcast exploring my own story, in truth ten episodes wouldn't be enough to accurately share the multiple victories I've experienced as a follower of Jesus! But I'm grateful God warranted me to share some of my journey. I hope it encourages someone to say "Yes" to Jesus and start their journey to freedom. God's love is able to cover every sin and break every cycle!
    Does any of what was shared resonate with you? I would love to read your thoughts in the comments!
    If you'd like to hear the back story of why I left my day job and started this podcast, the video is on my Instagram page.
    Socials:
    IG / TikTok: @ComeSeePodcast
    IG: @DamilolaOkeke
    Chapters:
    00:00 Coming Up
    00:59 Intro
    02:06 Not showing up for myself
    03:29 Self love is biblical
    05:24 What is the Come See Podcast
    05:46 The Woman By The Well
    06:55 My Testimony / Coming to the UK
    08:24 Desiring male attention
    11:38 Promiscuity and negative cycles
    13:20 That terrible train ride
    14:00 God's ultimatum
    14:55 "Pursuing" Jesus
    15:53 Falling in love with Jesus
    16:59 God is invested in your journey
    20:00 Promise of transformation in Christ
    22:20 Forgiveness and salvation
    #testimony #salvation #faith #selflove #christianyoutube #christianpodcast #relatable
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Комментарии • 61

  • @Wawa-kn8sd
    @Wawa-kn8sd Месяц назад +22

    This is soooo me...at 37yrs. When a guy says you beautiful it is easy for me to slip with them. I jus decided last week that this is ENOUGH!! I WANT SOMETHING BEST 4 MY FUTURE. Jus started fasting n m scared that id mess it up. But iv had enough of myself hate. Thank you soooo much for letting me know am not an evil person n i am goin to overcome this self hate once snd for all through Jesus

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  Месяц назад +1

      Amen! Praying for you sis, you can do all things through Christ who gives you strength! Philippians 4:13 ✨️ ‭
      Take courage in this truth sis! Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! 2 Cor 5:17

    • @hellenkekana5544
      @hellenkekana5544 Месяц назад +2

      You will overcome it through Christ, and always remember that God loves you more than any of the people you have slept with,
      It's a difficult road but you will get through and the peace and love that God gives is unmatched and all worth it
      All the best 🤗

    • @maame_sl
      @maame_sl 15 дней назад +1

      Dear sister, you have a community of women praying with nand for you.
      You will overcome.
      And, whenever you feel your strength waning, please read Hebrews 12:22-24 and meditate on it.
      "You have come to Mount Zion."

  • @RuwhuomachiAmadi-h3e
    @RuwhuomachiAmadi-h3e 2 дня назад +1

    Thank you so much ma. Just 16 years old still trying to find my self in CHRIST. Thank you making me love my self more. May GOD continually Bless You

  • @hellenkekana5544
    @hellenkekana5544 Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for your testimony
    I realized that i used to feel used by men and would feel shame and inadequate...but since o have my life to God, if i sin i just feel conviction and my feelings aren't cotrolled by some random guy
    Thank you for the train ride part, it resonates with most

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  Месяц назад

      Thank you for sharing, His grace is sufficient for us, praying you continue to overcome in Jesus name 🙌

  • @michelletdieu
    @michelletdieu Месяц назад +5

    I resonate heavily with almost every single thing you said🥺. The Lord also led me to this exact story today of the Woman at the Well. Thank you for being obedient. 💓

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  Месяц назад +1

      Praise God sis He is faithful 🙌

    • @francaagada8574
      @francaagada8574 16 дней назад

      God is good he'll deliver me and teach my hands to war

  • @cerenasejour
    @cerenasejour 16 дней назад +2

    Amen this is my singleness season after being in relationships back to back and yes it’s uncomfortable but Ik God is really making me whole and molding me to who he is calling me to be🦋

  • @ogbueshalom7893
    @ogbueshalom7893 6 дней назад +2

    This is so beautiful and I’ve been struggling with leaving an ungodly relationship. This has blessed me and encouraged me so much😭

  • @shalomakaelu
    @shalomakaelu 9 дней назад

    So relatable. Thanks for sharing❤

  • @MeloBeGreat
    @MeloBeGreat Месяц назад +1

    So glad I came across this..thank you for sharing..needed to watch this

  • @adetunjibabatunde6604
    @adetunjibabatunde6604 2 месяца назад +1

    Praise God for his mercies upon your life Dammy. He is truly still the same as of old lifting up the low and rejected from their lowly states to higher positions nobody ever taught possible. Thanks for sharing

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  2 месяца назад

      Thank you. Yes He is that same faithful God 🙌🏾

  • @Zoeys_treasures
    @Zoeys_treasures 24 дня назад +1

    I love your channel already. Your story resonates so well with me. God bless you, sis!

  • @FunmiOdedoyin
    @FunmiOdedoyin Месяц назад +1

    This is amazing.
    It’s clear God has done an amazing work in you.
    I love your message, voice and look.
    Well done and keep it going!

  • @baintowngyal
    @baintowngyal 2 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful testimony. There is power in defeating the shame. All glory to God. Keep going sis!

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  2 месяца назад

      There is! Thank you 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @MissssTai
    @MissssTai 24 дня назад +1

    Dami! I remember you from back in the day ❤ thank God you are saved so glad to see another sister in Christ!

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  24 дня назад

      Oooo now I'm curious! GOD is so good 🙌🏾

  • @misskay-zs2ow
    @misskay-zs2ow 13 дней назад +2

    Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. Currently I'm single and celibate but I started dating in my late teens and I remember being ashamed of being a virgin because the first guy I dated told me he was cheating on me because we weren't having sex. I also couldn't differentiate between a man that loves me and a man that just wanted me in his bed because I wasn't picking people based on God's word and the Holy spirit guiding me but based on what I liked and thought was good for me. It destroyed my self esteem, after some failed relationships even my own sister in a fit of anger tells me how men only want me for sex and that statement stayed with me for so long tormenting my sanity and making me even more devalued but yhooooo. God came through for me in such an amazing way because the healing the Lord has done in my soul humbles me. I feel so humbled by God's love and forgiveness. All this while I have been protected by the Lord and I'm so grateful now for all my experiences because everything I went through allowed God to be exalted in my life. Glory be to God. Amen

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  12 дней назад

      Wow thank you for sharing ❤️ glory to God! His love is heals, transforms, delivers!

  • @beautybychaela
    @beautybychaela 13 дней назад +1

    Love your testimony, your bravery to share. ❤

  • @taebrown384
    @taebrown384 Месяц назад +1

    Amazing testimony sis. Praising God for you 🎉

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much! He is faithful 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @sonilejere4316
    @sonilejere4316 24 дня назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this! ❤ i have a similar testimony God saved me for centering my life around men last year.

  • @pastorbimfolayan4705
    @pastorbimfolayan4705 2 месяца назад +3

    Yes D! You show up for others. God’s got a plan just has it’s happened with this episode.

  • @AudAkos
    @AudAkos 2 месяца назад

    This was a wonderful testimony. Wishing you blessings on your journey ❤🙏🏽

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much! Praise God 🙌🏾❤️

  • @user-bf6ir1ho1v
    @user-bf6ir1ho1v 9 дней назад +1

    Thank you for sharing, I am being helped❤❤❤❤

  • @misspoks1550
    @misspoks1550 23 дня назад +1

    All I can say is Thank you and God bless you.

  • @cherrym471
    @cherrym471 11 дней назад +2

    Currently depressed. I feel undesirable and not worthied to be married. Thx for this video

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  11 дней назад +1

      If any man be in Christ he is a new creation, old things are passed away, all things have become new! You are not your past! I pray God reveals the beauty, the worth, the great value He placed in you and the LOVE He has for you, that He gave His life for you! Praying for you sis 🙏 ❤️

  • @anelisamadwe1724
    @anelisamadwe1724 15 дней назад

    My heart when I think of my own experiences. But I am happy to have chosen to work on my relationship with God.

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  15 дней назад

      When we repent and are in Christ, He no longer remembers our past sins 🙌

  • @victorianameneverner8922
    @victorianameneverner8922 12 дней назад

    I can relate ❤❤❤

  • @IsuraoluwaSings
    @IsuraoluwaSings 2 дня назад

    Hello
    Thank you so much for sharing this
    Could you please shed more light on how to battle low self-esteem?

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  День назад +1

      Hi! Rebuilding low self-esteem is quite layered. I'm no expert by any means, but in my experience, it is important to identify the root causes of that low self-esteem. You may realise certain individuals, environments, past events have contributed. There may be need for practical changes, forgiveness etc. But also, a deeply personal, inner work needs to take place with the Father in prayer and in His Word. Address every lie with God's Truth as confirmed by His Word and Holy Spirit. For example if you struggle with low self-esteem especially around your physical appearance, then Psalm 139 would be a great passage to meditate over as you pray for God's healing - He says I am fearfully and wonderfully made, every feeling of "ugliness" is a lie! I hope that helps 🙏 🥰

  • @sarahletsoalo9668
    @sarahletsoalo9668 3 дня назад

    Amen and amen ❤🥹

  • @antoniaizuebe7228
    @antoniaizuebe7228 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @abenaabena6183
    @abenaabena6183 19 дней назад +2

    I feel this Christ journey isn't working for me. I'm tired of the lows

    • @ComeSeePodcast
      @ComeSeePodcast  19 дней назад +2

      Oh no sis! There is hope - joy comes in the morning, hold on, praying for you 🙏

    • @brendanamirembe4488
      @brendanamirembe4488 17 дней назад +1

      Hold on my dear. There is victory at the end of the battle. Sending you love ❤.

    • @bimbolaw
      @bimbolaw 10 дней назад

      I pray God will give you understanding and revelation that God is ever with you at all times..Walking the journey with you

    • @shalomakaelu
      @shalomakaelu 9 дней назад +1

      Hey, Abena! Don't be discouraged. We all get tired, but we have to go on. Wanna talk?

    • @allthings_araba23
      @allthings_araba23 7 дней назад

      Sending hugs and prayers girl! This too shall pass, you’ll see. Joy is coming! Hold on! 🤗