Hey all, be sure to drop your questions for the next minimalism q&a video (and include your name please!) or suggestions for the next topic. Perhaps gifting for the holiday season? Let me know (: It's good to be back!
How do you make time for decluttering? (While balancing it with your family giving you more and more new stuff and you're trying to move on from your childhood room)
Tell your husband he’s lucky to have a minimalist wife who cleans and organizes; Much better than being married to a shopaholic wife who constantly gets packages delivered and having to park cars outside of garage.
It's good to have you back, Christine :) I love the idea of talking about gifts for the holiday season and minimalism. Also, about decorations and how to create a festive atmosphere in the house without losing one's minimalist perspective.
I feel as if I'm the worst person to ask when it comes to holiday decor because we never had a heavy emphasis on holiday decor since I grew up haha! Here's my latest video on our minimalist holiday season though: ruclips.net/video/joG3XQA5F98/видео.html
@@simplybychristine I know what you mean. I used to not put up any décor for the holidays, but then my daughter was begging for a Christmas tree and so the whole process of buying décor for the holidays begun. The only solution I have found, is that we use the stuff we already have and maybe -just maybe- add 1 new ornament every year. :)
*"Life is much simpler when you stop explaining yourself to people and just do what works for you."* To literally 1% who saw this comment, I hope you have an amazing day.
My spouse has noticed since I have been practicing minimalism that our home is so much easier to clean. His friend came over the other day and said that our house was looking good and that shocked my husband that his friend noticed. O f course my husband liked that and I feel he is on his way to embracing minimalism more.
I love your approach. The only thing I find disappointing is that even in this video about living with a non-minimalist - you take the point of view that you are always right and everyone else is wrong. My question is "Has a non-minimalist (your husband maybe) taught you anything about not taking it to such an extreme or do you just dismiss everyone else's opinion and demand that they eventually come around to your opinion?
I love minimalism and my husband of forty two years has been slow to adopt the change, especially in his garage but during lockdown here in Australia he decluttered it with the realisation that things he did twenty years ago he probably wouldn’t do now so it was easier to let go of stuff, yes he’s still got a long a long way to go but he sees the benefit and loves how spacious our home feels. A big stumbling block for him were his treasures bits and bobs from earlier career, I suggested instead of getting rid of them we reuse a large plastic tub and if it could all fit in then it was up to him what he kept, he was delighted with the idea and knows if it can’t fit in he has to make some hard decisions and it’s all in one place, win win I say
I am in Australia too and our constant lockdowns made my husband embrace selling off his lesser loved Lego and just recently he suggested that we edit the house down to what we would keep if we move. I felt so encouraged to hear this!
@@inspiringsimple sounds like a great plan, we too have that in the back of our minds, one day we will probably downsize, it’s wonderful when partners start to see the real benefits of living simply. We are off to regional Nsw to see family, it’s been a long wait
I really want to go Minimal, I want to use less and stop using plastic! But it seems so hard for me! Your so inspirational tho you make me keep pushing for the Minimalist lifestyle! Your so calming and clean and aesthetic 👏🏻👏🏻
The realty is I'm stuck with the stuff that belongs to my son and boyfriend LOL I have no control over that and would never take there stuff. I can only take care of my stuff but it is frustrating sometimes to see so much clutter and stuff around.
How do you suggest having a minimalist wardrobe if you live in a state with seasons (like super cold in the winter and very warm in the summer) it’s harder for me to minimize my winter wardrobe
It’s not that hard unless you want it to be 😊 I’m from Buffalo NY. You can literally winterize any outfit! Down to rompers lol. ie. jeans white tank top in summer--winterize it with a cardigan, blazer, or oversized sweater and simple pair of boots. Boom done. Skirt? a pair of cable knit tights and tall boots. If you have solid outdoor essentials/footwear for transitioning through the seasons to keep warm, you shouldn’t have to do much of anything in terms of clothing. Especially if you drive. Also Pinterest “all season outfit” ideas or of the like to get more ideas as well. Winter clothing was the easiest thing for me to minimize since I’m a hermit once it starts to get cold and I wear scrubs at work😵💫.
Yes I need this!!! I live with non minimalists and my step dad doesn’t think that I can’t wear a uniform outfit each day, that I need variety or lots of clothes for different occasions! Not true! Haha also the minimalist lifestyle helps me keep up on my room being neat snd orderly! And helps me with my mental health!
This was such a good video, Christine! My partner is definitely a non-minimalist. Your comments and remarks were well expressed. Being patient I find difficult at times but that's the way to go for me!
I'm glad to see another video on your channel! I'm somewhere in between a minimalist and someone who enjoys to have what might appear to be more things than necessary, depending on my mood but I would lie to transition to having fewer things, especially clothes lol.
Hi Christine, Nicole here. I love this topic, I live in a multigenerational home and have trouble with trying to simplify with others in the home. Any tips for living simply when you have to keep many different items in one space? Our main bedroom closet holds clothes, linens, craft supplies, and physical therapy gear.
I like to keep everything contained and organized by using boxes and clear labeling! We uses boxes to sort our electronic accessories, stationery, cards, etc. in one of our closets and have found that the best way to keep things somewhat tidy. (:
Hey Christine! I'm wondering whether you've considered attending counselling together with Peter? In my experience, bringing a third party into a difficult relationship can massively help you gain insight into to the way one another are feeling and lead to a much deeper connection. I sense that Peter may not feel respected, which could be inhibiting his willingness to embrace minimalism. And perhaps you might feel frustrated that you are trying so hard to do the right thing in life but really what you're needing is a deeper connection with Peter. I could be wrong about all this, of course. Anyway, I really enjoy your videos, you're very talented! Peace and good wishes to you both.
Hello! Yes we have pursued counseling when my anxiety was at it's peak - so not necessarily for minimalism, but totally agree that a third person perspective helps (:
Hey all, be sure to drop your questions for the next minimalism q&a video (and include your name please!) or suggestions for the next topic. Perhaps gifting for the holiday season? Let me know (: It's good to be back!
Hey! Are you vegan? 🌱🌱
How do you make time for decluttering? (While balancing it with your family giving you more and more new stuff and you're trying to move on from your childhood room)
I would love a video on gifting at Christmas time to non minimalist friend please Christine 😊 (my name is Laura btw)
Welcome back! I enjoy your holiday tips, including sustainable gifts, wrapping, and celebrating as a minimalist! ~ Jada
I would love to see a video (a practical and specific video) on minimalism and anxiety. Thank you, Christine :)
Tell your husband he’s lucky to have a minimalist wife who cleans and organizes; Much better than being married to a shopaholic wife who constantly gets packages delivered and having to park cars outside of garage.
Yikes sounds like you might need counseling 🥴
I'll pass on the message to Peter that he's a lucky guy 😎
@@sophiachacon2957 realy 😂
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It's good to have you back, Christine :) I love the idea of talking about gifts for the holiday season and minimalism. Also, about decorations and how to create a festive atmosphere in the house without losing one's minimalist perspective.
I feel as if I'm the worst person to ask when it comes to holiday decor because we never had a heavy emphasis on holiday decor since I grew up haha! Here's my latest video on our minimalist holiday season though: ruclips.net/video/joG3XQA5F98/видео.html
@@simplybychristine I know what you mean. I used to not put up any décor for the holidays, but then my daughter was begging for a Christmas tree and so the whole process of buying décor for the holidays begun. The only solution I have found, is that we use the stuff we already have and maybe -just maybe- add 1 new ornament every year. :)
*“Have nothing in your homes that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.” - William Morris*
*"Life is much simpler when you stop explaining yourself to people and just do what works for you."*
To literally 1% who saw this comment, I hope you have an amazing day.
My spouse has noticed since I have been practicing minimalism that our home is so much easier to clean. His friend came over the other day and said that our house was looking good and that shocked my husband that his friend noticed. O f course my husband liked that and I feel he is on his way to embracing minimalism more.
Love that! (:
I love your approach. The only thing I find disappointing is that even in this video about living with a non-minimalist - you take the point of view that you are always right and everyone else is wrong. My question is "Has a non-minimalist (your husband maybe) taught you anything about not taking it to such an extreme or do you just dismiss everyone else's opinion and demand that they eventually come around to your opinion?
I love minimalism and my husband of forty two years has been slow to adopt the change, especially in his garage but during lockdown here in Australia he decluttered it with the realisation that things he did twenty years ago he probably wouldn’t do now so it was easier to let go of stuff, yes he’s still got a long a long way to go but he sees the benefit and loves how spacious our home feels. A big stumbling block for him were his treasures bits and bobs from earlier career, I suggested instead of getting rid of them we reuse a large plastic tub and if it could all fit in then it was up to him what he kept, he was delighted with the idea and knows if it can’t fit in he has to make some hard decisions and it’s all in one place, win win I say
Love the small steps forward (:
I am in Australia too and our constant lockdowns made my husband embrace selling off his lesser loved Lego and just recently he suggested that we edit the house down to what we would keep if we move. I felt so encouraged to hear this!
@@inspiringsimple sounds like a great plan, we too have that in the back of our minds, one day we will probably downsize, it’s wonderful when partners start to see the real benefits of living simply. We are off to regional Nsw to see family, it’s been a long wait
I really want to go Minimal, I want to use less and stop using plastic! But it seems so hard for me! Your so inspirational tho you make me keep pushing for the Minimalist lifestyle! Your so calming and clean and aesthetic 👏🏻👏🏻
Thanks Ruth! Keep at it with small steps (:
I’ve missed you Christine, so good to have you back! 🙌🏻🥳
The realty is I'm stuck with the stuff that belongs to my son and boyfriend LOL I have no control over that and would never take there stuff. I can only take care of my stuff but it is frustrating sometimes to see so much clutter and stuff around.
Totally understand. Hopefully it'll clear up in time (:
Hi!
Question for next time:
What are some helpful questions (or reminders) to ask yourself while you are decluttering?
I’m new here👋and I like your channel👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
How do you suggest having a minimalist wardrobe if you live in a state with seasons (like super cold in the winter and very warm in the summer) it’s harder for me to minimize my winter wardrobe
It’s not that hard unless you want it to be 😊 I’m from Buffalo NY. You can literally winterize any outfit! Down to rompers lol. ie. jeans white tank top in summer--winterize it with a cardigan, blazer, or oversized sweater and simple pair of boots. Boom done. Skirt? a pair of cable knit tights and tall boots. If you have solid outdoor essentials/footwear for transitioning through the seasons to keep warm, you shouldn’t have to do much of anything in terms of clothing. Especially if you drive. Also Pinterest “all season outfit” ideas or of the like to get more ideas as well. Winter clothing was the easiest thing for me to minimize since I’m a hermit once it starts to get cold and I wear scrubs at work😵💫.
Thank youuu!! This helps!!
Thank you, Christine. This video's very helpful.
so happy to have you back!
Yes I need this!!! I live with non minimalists and my step dad doesn’t think that I can’t wear a uniform outfit each day, that I need variety or lots of clothes for different occasions! Not true! Haha also the minimalist lifestyle helps me keep up on my room being neat snd orderly! And helps me with my mental health!
Great advice. I too live with a nonminimalst. We've been married for 21 years.
Excellent video. Truly helpful. Thank you! 🌻
Sustainability.
*You can't always wait for the perfect time. Sometimes you have to dare to do it because life is too short to wonder what could have been...*
This was such a good video, Christine! My partner is definitely a non-minimalist. Your comments and remarks were well expressed. Being patient I find difficult at times but that's the way to go for me!
I'm glad to see another video on your channel! I'm somewhere in between a minimalist and someone who enjoys to have what might appear to be more things than necessary, depending on my mood but I would lie to transition to having fewer things, especially clothes lol.
Excellent video and so good to have you back!
Hi Christine, Nicole here. I love this topic, I live in a multigenerational home and have trouble with trying to simplify with others in the home. Any tips for living simply when you have to keep many different items in one space? Our main bedroom closet holds clothes, linens, craft supplies, and physical therapy gear.
I like to keep everything contained and organized by using boxes and clear labeling! We uses boxes to sort our electronic accessories, stationery, cards, etc. in one of our closets and have found that the best way to keep things somewhat tidy. (:
Hey Christine! I'm wondering whether you've considered attending counselling together with Peter? In my experience, bringing a third party into a difficult relationship can massively help you gain insight into to the way one another are feeling and lead to a much deeper connection. I sense that Peter may not feel respected, which could be inhibiting his willingness to embrace minimalism. And perhaps you might feel frustrated that you are trying so hard to do the right thing in life but really what you're needing is a deeper connection with Peter. I could be wrong about all this, of course. Anyway, I really enjoy your videos, you're very talented! Peace and good wishes to you both.
Hello! Yes we have pursued counseling when my anxiety was at it's peak - so not necessarily for minimalism, but totally agree that a third person perspective helps (:
Just visited your online shop it’s be great to know where you get your clothes from 😊
Latest wardrobe tour is here! simplybychristine.com/journal/2020/my-minimalist-wardrobe
My bf is not a minimalist as well
Sometimes you just have to accept that only certain areas in your home will be maintained minimally...just how it is.
Totally agree. It's hard but sometimes that's reality,
enjoying 💖😗