Tony Robbins explains how to not let opinions of others affect you
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- Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
- Author and newly-named member of the Worth Power 100 List, Tony Robbins recently visited Business Insider for a Facebook Live chat about personal finance, politics, and strategy.
Here he talks about not letting the judgement and opinions of others affect you.
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I hate when ppl drain my happy spirit from me. Especially when I'm just trying to survive and s***. It's like leave me tf alone & let me do my thing.
Are u living my life 😢
Nobody can do anything to u unless u allow them .....Water enters boat & it sinks only if there's a hole in that boat
As a Japanese mutant rat man once said: I could’ve let his words wash over me like water over stone
But I let him ANGERME. It was I who turned his words into weapons.
@@MammyPopperAll this philosophical stuff seems pointless to me because it’s all aimed at others telling you to change yourself in order to please them. Tony Robbins wants to sell his seminars and books so he tells people they are gutless if they don’t follow his advice. Which benefits him not them.
@@cultfiction3865 I’m afraid I don’t follow, could you elaborate, I would like to understand
I'm not the biggest Tony Robbins fan, but everything he said in this video is dead-on accurate and true. Valuable words to live by whoever you are.
You’re not? U should watch more
Now this is a different angle to not giving a sh*t, which is correct but infront of toxic people , not giving a sh*t is a cure.
Tony Robbins u r the best motivational speaker.....u r unique ☺❤
confidence purpose intent and goal. as long as you have a reason that works *for you* to do the things you do, and trust disagreements or being wrong is fine, learning is something that continues in life, dont be afraid to try and learn and share with basic respect.
Life on easy mode
Having something that makes you excited and feel alive everyday is key - the proof is watching retirees degrade so quickly after leaving what they love and not having a substitute -
Nice video Tony. Well said. God to see and hear your human inflection. I agree having a mission is our guiding light! Thank you Business Insider too!
Goodness! Blessing full of blessings. 🌲🌳🌴
Just what I wanted to hear!
Good for you those who want to work with you will always find you those who dont. You need to listen to them when they say NO going against their free will is suffocating stop.
"don't let other people influence you"But... it's why we subscribed...
LOL 😂👍🏼Youre right though.
@BobRockBaby it was a joke, you dumbass. Grow up and stick a tampon in it
I live by one rule that branches like a tree depending on the area of life im dealing with.
Any advice is good if you use it correctly you can in maths get a correct answer as long as you have some base data the trick is to put things into a context valid to you and your situation.
also remembering to love yourself like you love a naughty but adorable child or animal you love but respect.
treat yourself when you are excellent and exceed your average attempts but dont expect excellence as normal happiness contentment is a choice based on the mode of life you want to live but any version is valid and worthy
You don't ever stop caring, or become numb or disassociate completely...unless you are void of all emotions feelings and thoughts and without constantly medicating or meditating (choose your pleasure/poison) the only way that makes logical sense (we can use logic to create habits tools rituals to be make non logical mental and emotional phenomenon healthy and positive) you learn to put things into context and recycle emotions and energy correctly/efficiently.
one hurdle ive gotten over is loving family that doesnt know how to love without causing damage.
i have more love than ever for this person because i understand them more than they do and carry no more pain but the expectation they are who they are and i can love them without needing to take on the negativity.
an example. we sometimes have friends that we can dependably not depend on, or only depend on them being there at certain times or for certain things we can do this easily at work with animals and children but find it hard when our emotional intent isnt defined or given context.
are you expecting something you know full well the person is not capable of? are you insulted that they behave the way you knew they would? does that now not seem like something you could have turned to your advantage?
Learning to choose who fits what and learning people are individual and will do things the way they feel best is important. basically getting to actually know someone and showing them who you are and being honest with yourself and them.
doing that and having that understanding of yourself is another step i am currently working on. I am faster to judge myself than others. if i just do the minimum of what i expect of myself a passing grade or dont over achieve past my expectation i will feel some way about it till i think about how hard and unrealistic i'm being on myself. that its silly, and how amazing simply being alive in the world then i laugh about it and accept the world as it is.
lots of things we would like but most of it isnt real or isnt as good as what we already have thats amazing but dont think of as often since we are used to it.
emotional pains and set backs are all learning experiences i compare to when i stub my toe or hit my funny bone it always hurts, thats no surprise but you have to laugh it out (not the end of the world) and sit while you consider the solutions (put it in context and veiw it outside of the situation) its never as severe as it feels at first and **time is yours and free take as much as you need to come to the solutions that work for you with minimal external impact** live physically and ethically/morally in balance and harmony
pain can be motivation, shame can be the truth and a lesson rarely given hard to overcome but amazing once growth can occur.
simple small steps to lead to not invulnerability but the ability to think rationally have a debate deal with pressure and fire but with grace for the best.
live life like a emergency surgeon or firefighter or high risk profession or a peak athlete.
using the skills these people use to think and act in fast high risk impact situations all crossover to other aspects of life.
you dont have to be a pro boxer to know to "roll with the punches" emotional or physical to lower damage
you dont have to be a public speaker or singer to learn breathing speaking techniques that help with confidence and expression or body language and how to use it to communicate. you dont have to be an athelete/singer actor performer to understand or enter flow state we do this often while unaware but when things surprise us we get thrown out of our natural flow. the trick is to consider it part of the same as a singer mistakes happen in music or vocally a trick that is valid with many things repetition of an accident makes it intentional can add interest and is still in symmetry, space/taking your time and silence are powerful when used. Anything done with intention and confidence, but with honesty and openness; will always be respected more than inauthentic perfection
people only know you are wrong if they can prove it in which case be open to learn and grow or if you show them you are wrong with your energy lack of confidence or follow through.
Remember to love yourself like you love your favourite animals or people. they have boundaries and are not always free or perfect but you know to expect them to be them and you love them for it.
likewise love yourself for your imperfections and praise yourself more when you exceed yourself instead of self excellence being the standard
Excellent advice. Thanks for the time & effort you put into this to help others.
Commas are also good
Just what I needed
I was just looking for inspiration...how oversimplified and unimaginative this was
Short and sweet :D
Stay strong
Well said
What if you don't have a mission or something that excites you. :/ even after searching for decades.
You'll not find it by searching.
You decide your mission! Otherwise life is meaningless and without any goal...!
@@brianschulze114Read your own damn comment! You literally did NOT answer anything but repeated the same bs he sked answers for! 🤦♂️
Another way to block opinions is know that only you and god knows everything about you. Parents as well but not for everyone. I hope this helps people realize and start to keep a positive mind in them forever.
*God*
Love it.
The hipsters I see are actually the *most* caring people.
0:51
I hate when People mistake Demons for being people as well.
Care why? That's a good place to start,
Idk, ask sum easier! 🤷♂️
Your perception
Handsome guy
Oh my goodness...when people say "I don't care" they mean they won't let the things like other people not liking them for example, stop them from living their lives. It doesn't mean "I'm indifferent to everything" or "I'm too scared to try".
This has to be explained?!
When people say "I don't care" it is toxic af! Don't say that, to anyone. EVER! Unless you want a slap on the face right away 🤷♂️
Nice..
This mindset always backfires
Tony robins or the people he is talking about?
I must have less needs than the others
NO, giving any amount of shit IS a way to have a terrible life!
Wow
banana hands
Whoa, chill out Banana Hands
Banana hands haha
Kobain did it best. He just put it out of his brain...
Tony Robbins tells us how to stop letting the opinions of others affect us, yet here he wants us to become affected by his opinions. What a hypocrite
People live in the moment but at the end of the day people are afraid. Of the unknown. People lie to themselves just so they can cope with their past and present. But we all our afraid of tomorrow And that fear doesn’t care if your poor or the richest man. And I know that there will be people who wants to put their god complex hat on And too all of you who want to be negative about my comment. This all I have to say. Open your eyes look in the mirror. You’re not a god. Sorry to tell you You’re human Have a great day
People live in their phones or in their heads! Definitely NOT in the moment! Can't even interact with these NPC's anymore 😒
:D
SECOND comment!!!!
Bullshit. Caring is the way to have a miserable life.
Sellout
Opinions are meant to let people fight.