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The Makings of the Best Apologies; Bathroom Woes in a Relationship
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- Опубликовано: 26 янв 2021
- Is there a right or wrong way to apologize? One report says yes, but do you agree? We also dive into the woes of sharing a bathroom with your man. So we want to know: Does the honeymoon phase end when you move in together?
No lol Adrienne was so toxic here. If you don’t know why you’re apologizing don’t apologize. That makes the whole apology null and void.
It’s crazy to me how water signs claim to be so deep and intuitive, but have such surface level thinking 😂😂
Yup. She's making the other person's feelings invalid. And water signs are a pain in the ass lol.
😭😭 I’m a water sign .. a Scorpio as well .. and I have a hard time apologizing just cause I can be a little prideful but I don’t apologize like that ..
I think she was saying that if a person demands an apology but you don’t think you did anything wrong but still think you should just apologize to end the argument and to make sure they don’t think their feelings are invalid, then just apologize in that way, while you’re also lowkey defending yourself. Idk I don’t see anything wrong w it.
TL;DR : i’m a water sign (scorpio) and i agree with Loni completely!!! by you saying if or but, it tells me that you don’t believe me when i say that my feelings WERE hurt by YOUR words (or actions). it isn’t taking any real sense of accountability by saying if or but and it makes the other person that you’re trying to apologize to seem like a liar or crazy. just tell them that you believe them and apologize for HURTING their feelings cause if you really care about them, then you’re going to take responsibility and OWN it! (for ex. you told me that you are hurt by what i said (or did) and i believe you so I’m sorry (to someone) THAT I hurt your feelings and i will try my best to never do that again.). SIDE NOTE: as someone who suffers with OCD it irked my when ade misused and misrepresented that word. i do understand that people are NOW FINALLY realizing what it actually means but for anyone who doesn’t, ade’s use is completely WRONG! i’m sure she didn’t mean it in a bad way or meant to do and direct harm though and like i said back then that’s what people thought it meant….. ok thank you for coming to my ted talk 😌
I'm a water sign, I'm a cancer and I'd say we're more likely to authentically apologize than Scorpio.
Lol totally with Loni & Jeannie on this! Saying your sorry the other person felt xyz instead of saying youre sorry that you hurt them is gaslighting their feelings and not taking any accountability. You dont have to agree with their reaction but you can always apologize for hurting someone when you didnt mean to!
I agree with Adrienne. If my intentions were positive I will apologize like that. If my intentions were negative then I'll switch it up and apologize like the way Loni wanted to. Because it's not true.
I'm sorry YOU FELT THAT WAY, and I'm sorry IF I MADE YOU FEEL THAT WAY is 2 totally different apologies Adrienne. But I do get where you comin from and maybe that's the scorpio in us, I am not gonna apologize for something I didnt do. Then Loni confused me.
"OHhhh, SNAP!" That's so Raven.
I dont blame people that add "but" of "if" to their apologies , some times people put you in situations where you have to apologise to them even though you genuinly feel like you did nothing wrong and even if they have not acknowledged their own wrong doing.
Miss this combo man . Their energy together is such a vibe
Honestlyyyy 😕
Omg yes!
I’m sorry you feel that way is NOT an apology. Better not to say anything than say that.
Adrienne apologized this way to Naturi when she was on, so I’m not surprised she thinks its ok. She wasn’t sorry in that apology either
She didnt have anything to be sorry for in the first place so
@@pare5108 yes she did. They bullied naturi and were very colorist
@@pare5108 Yes she did idc if it was over 20 years ago she was mean to Naturi.
@@samanthawiggins4134 no they never bullied naturi ,yes they had arguments and fights like every other regular group of teengae girls but adrienne and kiely NEVER said anything derogatory about naturis skin colour or looks (and if they did please show me the proof) .naturi was 2 years older than kiely so i dont understand how a 14 year old can bully a very opinionated 16 year old like turi , the girls had tension like most teenage girls, actually adrienne and naturi were best of friends even more than she was with kiely at first, adrienne and turi fell out cuz adrienne had a boyfriend and naturi was not allowed to have a boyfriend too. She also got tired of playing the hard-core chick in the group cuz whenever they went for appearances or events adrienne got the most attention cuz of her natural sex appeal. Kiely only laid hands on turi cuz she called kielys bipolar mom a bitch(which is a very understandable reaction)... love all the members of 3LW but they have been so many false narratives!
I am Not saying the management was right for playing into stereotypes and not letting all the girl be who they were naturally but that is just how marketing worked back in the day .
@@aleesharenea8565 please read my reply to samantha wiggins above
Realize that some people are going to be hurt no matter what you say. Sometimes, they actually do something to hurt you, dismiss your feelings, and blame you for it hurting you and that they did it in the first place. It sometimes gets to the point that you're always apologizing while nobody ever apologizes to it.
LOOOOL Loni is too much. Adrienne talks too much man but I love her!
@Jen Duncan I agree!
My husband is clean, but MESSY. And then one random day he decides to clean everything and act like I’m the one who hasn’t been cleaning. I’m like...great, 3 weeks later 👀
An apology is taking ownership/responsibility for an offense. Not apologizing for the offended feelings.
I have a real problem with the word ‘if’ in front of an apology!
Loni’s right, that isnt an apology. My ex friend used to apologise like that and never took accountability for her actions. Just say I’m sorry I offended or upset you. Even if you think you didnt do anything because then you still mean it but you’re not saying you meant to.
I disagree , If you think you didn't do anything then dont apologise
@@pare5108 but then what if you never make up with that person, some people just want to apologise to get the peace and friendship back
@@pare5108 some people never "think they did anything wrong though"
Humans are wrong sometimes. It's unavailable.
It's not about what you think or being right, it's about making peace with someone you care about.
💯 it’s very telling of the person who half ass apologizes. When this happens always peep
I swear sometimes the most simple points fly right over Adriennes head lol
I'm too early. I'll come back when folks start remembering what Tamera apologized to Loni about.
saying you are sorry that you felt hurt in not an apology!! you do not acknowledge your wrong behavior and insinuating the other is imagining or crazy... it's not considerate, it's annoying...
Didn't Rob Kardashian say on a episode of kwtk..that Adrienne was sloppy? Now she's OCD🤔
you do know people can change....
Reality TV scripts
I sure do, then their are people that don't change, I know those reality scripts are a mess. She did say on air..( I would of never shared) some things she did that were not very "OCD"
Common case of people thinking that saying “I’m so OCD.” Is just a quirky trait not a mental disorder that deeply affects and can ruin people’s lives and relationships.
Intent doesn't cancel harm. Impact doesn't always match with intent. I can hit someone with my car and "I'm sorry but I didn't mean to" doesn't mean the person wasn't harmed. Intent doesn't always matter, that's more about focusing on yourself. Most people don't intend to hurt others, but we all cause harm and sincere apologies are about accountability not deflecting with your intent. You might not have intended to be racist to someone doesn't mean the impact of your words didn't hurt someone.
That's how I apologize too when I don't feel like I was wrong, BUT also didn't mean to hurt feelings.
The "nice" apology is "I'm sorry that I DID something that hurt/offended/upset/etc. You. I never meant to ..."
I hope your show renews its contract 🚺 Ladies... God Bless You!!
When I met my man he had a flip phone & actually still does. So never mind a iPhone 😂 And for y'all who put who your worth in what type of phone other person has is very telling about your own self esteem 🙏💛💯
Hi edagdwg Miss A.is real she's not sorry pay attention to the way she said it glad you are making her face up to what she does all the time Linda j. Peace
This episode is too long but I still love watching this show.💜💜💜💜💜💜😀.
😅😂🤣 you guys are #Shady, I'm literally watching this episode on my cracked SAMSUNG....... I do just like Loni " ohh i just smashed it last night" but with time i am used to it and don't want it fix no more.
if she falls, who's going to pick her up?
Yes
When did this air?? iPhone 7?
I don’t like clicking sound when I’m typing on my phone. 😆 I find it annoying.
I don’t care if someone has an older or cracked phone. I’m just like why is your phone cracked? You know they make cases and screen protectors right? I personally never use my iPhone and iPad without a case and screen protector.
Good morning.have a great day
Hey I'm a big fan
Just say,I am sorry unless an explanation is needed.
Gosh was this a lesson for Adrienne?
If you have hurt someone just say,I am sorry, then if the receiver needs an explanation just give a simple explanation; otherwise it can be confrontation.
I am surprised, Loni and Tamara have remained friends, because, Loni is always making snide remarks about Adam.
I imagine Tamara cleans after Adam, with Joy.
Wow, everything was Freddy. She really thought he loved her. Sorry. I hope that man she is engaged to works out.
Who is sneezing? 🤧
Their s more to come with that but.
Jspeph and Fiaday 😃🇮🇪
Sorry but not sorry