Why We Aren’t Remodeling The Farmhouse | And Other Questions Answered

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  • Опубликовано: 29 янв 2025

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  • @tessalabuda7468
    @tessalabuda7468 4 года назад +1

    I watch all your videos but I missed this one. That was almost a year ago. Look how much you have done! You are a sweet family. Keep going.

  • @galeharris6696
    @galeharris6696 Год назад +1

    I rattled around in my early days, until my mid 20's, with stupid low-paying jobs, until I met my first husband. Then we started a band that was mainly country, new country, country rock and rock and roll (older rock and roll, dance music, so to speak). This was late 1970's, and that band, Nightingale, got very popular here in Vermont, played all the bars, made a 45 record, and made a lot of money. Then the band and husband melted down, and I joined another band, met my 2nd husband after awhile, and he and I started a lawncare business, played in the band, sometimes had our mowers AND our music equipment stacked up in the back of our pick-up truck when we were working both jobs in the same area! Husband 2 went the way of all things, but I paid my mortgage and ran my farm with those side jobs, and music has been my main gig for almost 40 years. At 73, I don't often get up anymore and sing in front of an audience, but I totally understand what you are talking about. I couldn't live another way, have a regular 9-5 job, so getting out from under crushing debt is numero uno.
    Dolly Parton was right: "Working 9 to 5, that's no way to make a living, barely getting by with all taking and no giving..." Thanks for your thoughtful video, guys!

  • @susanwoo466
    @susanwoo466 4 года назад +1

    Oh one thing.. my #3 son could be Bens twin, except he's had a buzz cut since ~8 and he is 26 now... He's a knife maker, metal worker, and nubie welder. Put it on hold a bit to build a 40 foot container shop and a tiny home on our property. Learning as he goes....

  • @at347est
    @at347est 4 года назад +1

    Awesome ! Yesterday I thought to myself , " This girl must be a Church Girl " !

  • @bobbyfishcancerandamyloido6112
    @bobbyfishcancerandamyloido6112 5 лет назад +45

    Do it while you are young and able. I had plans to work until I retired and then I was going to do a lot. Then, at 53 I was diagnosed with bone marrow cancer and the doctor said you better start enjoying like because we can’t cure you. The rest of your life will be treatments to stay alive. I’m 56 and I just raft the Grand Canyon last month. I’m trying to buy me some time...don’t wait!

    • @immap5709
      @immap5709 5 лет назад +7

      Bobby Fish May you receive a healing miracle from God ,I will be praying for you , don’t let go of hope, I’ll send you much love.

    • @suenorton873
      @suenorton873 5 лет назад +2

      Bobby Fish, I will keep you in my prayers. Cancer sucks! Keep a good attitude, trust in GOD. No one can really say how long we have so go empty that bucket of yours...GOD bless

    • @melaniewrinkle4814
      @melaniewrinkle4814 5 лет назад +4

      Bobby, many prayers too you and for you. I am a twenty year survivor.

    • @auntielaura5
      @auntielaura5 5 лет назад +6

      Bobby Fish I’m in the same boat. I’m 59, and my doctor told me 3 years ago that they couldn’t cure my breast cancer. After 2.5 years of chemo I am doing exceptionally well - my doctor is amazed and I’ve got a 9 month break from chemo! You just never know what God has planned for you. It is wonderful to hear that you are choosing to live life to the fullest! I have a friend who talks about the blessings of cancer (she is on year 12 of the same journey). One of those blessings is that you appreciate every day as the gift that it is. I have had 3 years of gratitude; even when it was bad, it could have been so much worse! I truly believe that this can be the most wonderful time of both of our lives. God bless you!

    • @souzahome6960
      @souzahome6960 5 лет назад +4

      KEEP UP THE FIGHT GOD BLESS

  • @larryfeeks6620
    @larryfeeks6620 Год назад +1

    Great Q&A. I'd been wondering about the farm house, and why you weren't using it, but not anymore. Thank you!

  • @beeearthyhomestead8174
    @beeearthyhomestead8174 5 лет назад +141

    Im almost 50 and jusy now starting this dream...never too old

    • @Eyes2C.
      @Eyes2C. 5 лет назад +15

      BeeEarthy Homestead 👋🏼 56 here and starting 💖🙏🏻

    • @PlanetMojo
      @PlanetMojo 5 лет назад +13

      Started after 50, and have been at it since 2011.

    • @fiffihoneyblossom5891
      @fiffihoneyblossom5891 5 лет назад +21

      Life doesnt end until it stops, and that can be when you're 21 or 101. Nah, never too late to start or work on dreams. And dreams are constantly changing. My mother, 54, likes to say, you bring death closer when you you stop living with dreams. Smart woman!

    • @peacelovehomestead8361
      @peacelovehomestead8361 5 лет назад +21

      64 here and starting!

    • @cabinlifeatedensprings1710
      @cabinlifeatedensprings1710 5 лет назад +9

      BeeEarthy Homestead good for you! It feels so good to set on your land by a fire. You will feel a peace come over you. It’s a great feeling knowing you will never be homeless. Definitely go for your dreams. It’s worth it. Leslye

  • @doinacampean9132
    @doinacampean9132 Год назад +1

    "Do your kids ever fight?" - I'm laughing so hard, I think I'm scaring the neighbours... :)))))))))))))))))

  • @susanwoo466
    @susanwoo466 4 года назад +1

    Lived in Northern Virginia(NOVA) For 16 years!! Beautiful area, but turned so blue now!!!! CA.2.

  • @faithrada
    @faithrada 4 года назад +1

    You guys are amazing... like even your "side hussles" have side hussles. LOL.. Good for you!

  • @jacquelineiversen969
    @jacquelineiversen969 5 лет назад +8

    You guys remind me of the story of the two farmers praying for rain. The one farmer prayed and prayed looked up to the sky and waited. The other farmer got out in the field and readied the field for the rain and prayed for the rain and then when the rain came he was ready. ( something like that) It starts with a desire/ dream/ hope. It moves forward with preparation. And yes, pray pray pray. Your DOING it is an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your learning and experience. "TOGETHER"!

  • @nearlyorganicnoshing2798
    @nearlyorganicnoshing2798 5 лет назад

    Being debt free, is such a game changer. We are two years away. Chris is so much more the planner, and dedicated than me. I am impatient, and a "let's do everything now", kind of person, and he reigns me back in. One day, I will make it to the conference, but coming from Florida, it is a long drive. You guys are making huge progress. Looks amazing!

  • @clarelove3738
    @clarelove3738 5 лет назад +39

    That aerial footage shows just how much you have already done since you arrived there. Fantastic. Keep on going, one day at a time.

  • @stevie_jean1953
    @stevie_jean1953 2 года назад +1

    I have really enjoyed your guys channel. I'm new here and I'm glad I found this even though it two year old. I love how you guys look at eachother and I don't even think I know your guy name. Lol 😆 please keep making video!

  • @scclif
    @scclif 5 лет назад +1

    Your place is more and more beautiful all the time ..Good job guys . Im 62 years old you guys have plenty of time but it's going to pass before you know it . I'm so wishing I could be your age again . You're so blessed to have each other working towards the same goals you can do anything. I was invincible until my late fifties with recurring breast cancer my bones ache like crazy taking this medicine but you guys and your friends have been such an inspiration. I planted a fall garden. Just like you working with what I had.

  • @vickierickson3402
    @vickierickson3402 5 лет назад +48

    Darling,you feel like you will run out of time, I am coming up seventy four and I would love to have the years you have left for more adventures! But we have to take time to value and be grateful for what we HAVE done. Health issues are forcing us to leave our homestead but no one can take away the wonderful years including leaky walls, Mold issues cleaning barns at 11 pm after working a full time job all day, losing three goats to a cougar attack, countless chickens lost to mink, bear and dog attacks on the sheep, a horse injured in the fence and the list goes on. However, there are always the ups. Grandchildren loving being here, horse riding in the hills, new farm babies and it goes on and on and every moment worth it. Laughter and tears, it is all part of the journey. Take time and embrace it. God bless

    • @debibarrington8348
      @debibarrington8348 5 лет назад +5

      Sounds like a wonderful blessed journey you have had

    • @amylynn2365
      @amylynn2365 5 лет назад +4

      I would have watched your RUclips family farm back in the day if there’d been one! :)

  • @cathygreen3483
    @cathygreen3483 5 лет назад

    You two are such a breath of fresh air to me...I am probably the same age as your parents and it's awesome to see you two raising your children be able to live happily and survive in our unknown future...well done Hollers!

  • @batpherlangkharkrang7976
    @batpherlangkharkrang7976 5 лет назад +1

    Hi. .....Ben and Meg, thank you for sharing your video homestead 👋 bye 👋 bye 👋 bye 👋 🎥👍👍👍

  • @sroberts605
    @sroberts605 5 лет назад

    You guys are sorted! Everything you said made complete sense. All the time I was thinking that you don't need to justify yourselves, but actually the way you set out how you have prioritised, assessed, balanced and kept great good humour is in itself a masterclass in how to step outside 'norms'. And make it work. Lovely people!!

  • @GeekboyNC
    @GeekboyNC 5 лет назад +134

    How did we get to a point where living below your means was so odd? Our grandparents did that as well as most of our ancestors. Everyone is looking at their credit score rather than their ability to live free from debt. I'm not a fan of Dave Ramsey, but he is right about a lot of financial things. I will never go into debt again willingly.
    Growing up in western NC, it seemed like everyone had at least one side gig. People were building things or generating income some way after their normal job. People would buy some land and just build a basement to live in. You would see these basements all over. Years later, they would build a house on top when they had the money. Friends and family showed up to frame it up and everyone knew someone in all the trades so it was affordable. Now we have to get all sorts of planning permission to build a chicken coop in a lot of areas.

    • @angelshaven8920
      @angelshaven8920 5 лет назад +10

      These times are forgotten now. It seems to me to be the best way to live. Getting away from this way of life has been what has caused the financial instability of the world.

    • @dorisberry1334
      @dorisberry1334 5 лет назад +1

      GeekboyNC y

    • @boohoo5750
      @boohoo5750 5 лет назад +4

      GeekboyNC truly very well written, well sad! 👍👍 love what you are building, Hollar Homestead, you rock!

  • @rosieradcliffe5578
    @rosieradcliffe5578 5 лет назад

    Have a wonderful time at the Homesteaders Conference and look forward to sharing some of it with you. Stay strong, be brave, you are on the right path - YOUR path! Love from the UK.

  • @susanwoo466
    @susanwoo466 4 года назад +1

    I lol when the question of kids fighting came up.....duh!!!! Growing up with 8 brothers( only 2 of us girls, but we ruled!!!!😂) and having 4 sons of my own! Their kids!! More fights than i would like to remember, but God knows what he's doing because my mom was the perfect boys mom. Im #5 of the 10 so i have 5 younger brothers 2 being twins!!!! When i would stress b/c of my boys, i would remember, " mom raised 8 of these! We all grew up, none are in jail, all self sufficient, and they are great guys, i can do this. My youngest is now 23, oldest will be 37 on July 5th.( yes 4 and 5 years apart, but thats how God gave them to me)!!!! You keep doing what your doing, because i know good parents when i see them!!!! Love you guys. Know this is way long ago, but i went back and started the journey of yalls from the beginning.....OH SORRY ABOUT HOUSTON...GREW UP THERE AND IT IS AVOIDED AT ALL COST!!! LIVE UP NEAR SAN ANTONIO NOW ( after traveling with hubby job, Navy and secret service, 34 year) BUT DUE TO INFLUX (SORRY MOSTLY FROM CA) OF SO MANY PEOPLE IT HAS CHANGED ALL OVER TEXAS!!! We love people to come here, but we want them to become Texan, not keep attitudes from states from which they ran!!!!!! Again loven yall!!!

  • @leslieMClass80
    @leslieMClass80 5 лет назад +1

    Hey guys, just want you to know I am praying for safe travels for you. Have a wonderful time!

  • @paulraezer2253
    @paulraezer2253 5 лет назад

    I have been debt free for 4 yrs. now. Started saving to purchase land in central Ga. 3yrs. and counting! You guys keep up the awesome work! You are an inspiration to so many!

  • @peterellis5626
    @peterellis5626 5 лет назад +14

    As a sort of footnote for the person who is "afraid I'll be too old by the time it happens". I retired at age 60 and my wife and I relocated onto 20 acres of woodland that we bought about four months before I retired. I'm building our house and our homestead. It's hard work and it's slow going, we're heading into three years and the house foundation isn't in yet - but - Don't think you're "too old" to make it happen ;) Think about what it's going to be when you build it ;)

  • @singleman1986
    @singleman1986 5 лет назад +5

    Along with other young couples such are yourselves, YOU 2 are truly an inspiration and hope for our future. Honestly, I HAVE TO follow these types of channels to mitigate my fears for my grandkids' futures. Thank you for putting up with me. Best of success and God Bless....Eli.

  • @zetacon4
    @zetacon4 5 лет назад

    I have grown to love your fireside chats. You give such sound and down to earth answers to real valuable questions. Thanks! Your trailer is looking fabulous! You guys have done such a wonderful job revamping a rotting shell. The roof is my favorite color and material! I don't miss a single one of your videos. You guys rock! Thank you.

  • @cherilynlarsen8104
    @cherilynlarsen8104 5 лет назад +1

    You guys are so pleasant! It relaxes me to watch your interactions.

  • @michealdraconis6179
    @michealdraconis6179 4 года назад +1

    I am 56 and I am getting ready to head to Alaska to find where I want my homestead to be

  • @donnadunlop
    @donnadunlop 5 лет назад +7

    Thanks for being so open with us, I love your videos. Thanks for sharing your life's ups and downs.

  • @Kim-n-Brian
    @Kim-n-Brian 5 лет назад +80

    When you read the question about Do your kids ever fight and you both looked into the camera....omg I darn near spit my coffee out LOL !!! 😁

    • @margaretbedwell58
      @margaretbedwell58 5 лет назад +11

      You're right there. That look was priceless.

    • @kathleenmccall2671
      @kathleenmccall2671 5 лет назад +4

      He is breathing, lol!

    • @maryallen6334
      @maryallen6334 5 лет назад +5

      Me too. I am wondering what kind of alternate reality some people visualize!!

    • @maggienixon1312
      @maggienixon1312 5 лет назад +4

      Kim-n-Brian ...our saying was “ she’s looking at me” or “ she’s breathing my air” now we laugh about it

    • @angelshaven8920
      @angelshaven8920 5 лет назад +2

      Haha, me too!

  • @wordlesswonder
    @wordlesswonder 5 лет назад

    You both are young enough to accomplish all your goals with homesteading. You are on the fast track now and doing great. I'm proud for you if that helps.

  • @pameladecicco6509
    @pameladecicco6509 5 лет назад

    Glad to hear you are playing the guitar. Reading is a great way to relax. I have kids your age, and older. Proud of y'all. So glad to see young people not following the herd. I up and left the U.S in 2002, moved to Ireland. Leaving my family was hard. Now, at 59, I am in transition, at a crossroads. Your message is very much appreciated. Energy goes where attention flows, and I believe we attract blessings by keeping the glass full, not empty. That said, life can be trying. It is how we deal with it that matters. Thanks, guys. Much love. Have fun at the HOA.❤🇨🇮🇺🇸

  • @alazychristian232
    @alazychristian232 5 лет назад +1

    Y'all are legit - love it. Thanks for the amazing content. I've been on a homesteading video binge for the past few days and while I'm disappointed not to find anyone who resembles myself, I'm extremely grateful and blessed to have access to wonderful creators like you guys, Roots and Refuge, Sow the Land and so many others who are sharing your skills and experiences. God bless you! And if you know of any homesteaders near Fayetteville with a YT channel or who are willing to share some advice, please drop their info. Thank you!

  • @lorypeterson5502
    @lorypeterson5502 5 лет назад

    One thing at a time! The home your building is better, then the home that is already built! You heart is always in the home you building! Love and hugs from Texas!

  • @daviddonnawilliams4357
    @daviddonnawilliams4357 4 года назад

    We LOVE the way you have managed this Q&A...so many times others make it into this ponderous thing with it's own life and it takes over the Dialogue...Good Job, keep on keepin on.

  • @TheMacs1
    @TheMacs1 5 лет назад

    Love the fact of meeting at bible study. Way to be centered in faith in marriage. Can’t wait to see y’all at HOA. Homeschoolers also! Thanks for this fun video.

  • @vietnameraveteran8207
    @vietnameraveteran8207 5 лет назад +1

    I really don't think you know how much God has bless you guys.

  • @Jodi9810
    @Jodi9810 5 лет назад +1

    Hi Meg and Ben. I'm a suburbanite from northern Virginia, and going to HOA because it's within reasonable driving distance from my home. I am a homestead fantasizer rather than homesteader, but I hope to learn more about things I can do like improve my back yard garden, preserve food, etc. And hopefully have real-live conversations with some of you all who are really doing it -- a step beyond watching RUclips videos. :) I hope to meet you there! -Jodi

  • @BostonRocks76_Carmen
    @BostonRocks76_Carmen 5 лет назад

    Yes! I will be at the conference. I am so excited to meet you both as well as others that I follow on RUclips. Can't wait! This will be my first conference. I love your attitude about life! You are so right on!! Debt free and one day at the time. Rock on!!

  • @beaubeauchamp8477
    @beaubeauchamp8477 5 лет назад +3

    Omgorsh I love you guys so much!!
    Do your kids ever fight, they're always so well behaved.....
    The look on your faces was priceless!!
    He's breathing... Agghhh lol
    Y'all rawk!! Warms my heart to see you prosper and grow your family and homestead. Love the love you have for each other. Peace and blessings!! :)

  • @dougwebb6193
    @dougwebb6193 5 лет назад +1

    I am 64 years old and got dept free last year. I live on a homestead and started building an airplane and an airbnb teepee at my place. It is all getting done, just a little every day. Things are going smoother now than at any time in my life. "Steady Eddy", a little each day!

  • @dianehall5345
    @dianehall5345 5 лет назад +1

    Yes it is amazing what you have, Homesteading wise and Partnership wise. You both are early 30s and that is when I was originally farmsteading. Now I'm about to turn 70 and STILL farmsteading. We garden, we hay, we log, we raise grass fed beef. To be 31 again... You have the potential at your feet. Maybe we Original Mother Earthers were a crazy lot, but we had the blueprint for living off the land. Elliot Coleman is still going strong in Maine. Please check out his life and books. You can do it!

  • @sabrinabarnes4697
    @sabrinabarnes4697 5 лет назад

    Wanted to meet and talk with you so badly at the HOA conference this weekend but there were always so many people waiting! Next year for sure. Thank you for the wonderful adventure you've begun. You're an inspiration for me to fight harder for my dream of leaving the city and starting my forever homestead! I homestead as much as you can in the Metro Detroit area working around all the nonsense laws and ordinances. Originally from a family farm and cattle ranch in Central FL.

  • @margaretmatteson-hammer7911
    @margaretmatteson-hammer7911 5 лет назад

    Hang in. You should be proud of your accomplishments. Your family is delightful, I really enjoy spending time with you

  • @ValscreationsStudio
    @ValscreationsStudio 5 лет назад

    Have fun this weekend and be good. lol Thanks for answering the questions. Enjoy your homestead. I have really enjoyed watching all that you have done with the place and look forward to seeing it become more and more fabulous. Hugs and blessings to you always ~Val~

  • @0Hillbilly
    @0Hillbilly 5 лет назад

    Your not just people, your amazing people. Keep being you.

  • @havefaithfarms96
    @havefaithfarms96 5 лет назад

    We are in our 60s starting over and finally got our farm and starting to get animals and starting a garden. Yes we may run out of time before it's all done but you know what we are enjoying every moment of it day by day. It's never too late. You always have something to stress over so just take one day at a time one hour at a time and just do what you can and enjoy the rest of your life. I wouldn't change it for anything.

  • @justinebling8354
    @justinebling8354 5 лет назад

    Hope to see you guys on Saturday. You have been a great inspiration to me and I love watching your videos.

  • @crystalolson4497
    @crystalolson4497 5 лет назад

    U guys r just amazing people...dont ever change...ur positive attitude is so inspiring to me...thank u so much

  • @pamstout
    @pamstout 5 лет назад

    Goals are so important, but it's your attitude that makes it work. I'm 76 and still wish I could do more,.

  • @ericjohnson1008
    @ericjohnson1008 5 лет назад +15

    Please consider adding the outdoor electrical boxes (lights, plugs) before you get to far with the siding.

  • @sgtrickards5683
    @sgtrickards5683 5 лет назад

    This type of life aint easy. We started our food forest last year on three acres. Also, have a freshwater creek. We had home repairs that needed to be done just like you guys. I'm a disabled Vet and its hard to move around sometimes, but channels like yours keep my motivation up. Next year we're planning for chickens and or ducks. Stay motivated guys and get those perennials in.

  • @dianehill9353
    @dianehill9353 5 лет назад

    A very heart warming video! You've got it right living a wholesome sustainable life debt free..it's exciting.I'm glad to hear about the pre order for the soaps coming up.Have fun this weekend!

  • @tracygarns9611
    @tracygarns9611 5 лет назад

    I am excited to meet you guys at HOA! We moved to a VERY run down 51.5 acre farm 6 years ago when I was 47 and my husband was 44. It's never too late! It has been much more work than we could have ever imagined and also much joy! We are often tempted to look at financial things and "retirement" age looming and question whether we should be doing this, but we always come back to yes.

  • @lindenschneider9872
    @lindenschneider9872 5 лет назад

    Praying for you Tonight ..god bless and may his face shine upon you ..love to see your progress and your dynamic ..thank you

  • @IShallNotBeSilent
    @IShallNotBeSilent 5 лет назад

    The place looks so amazing from when you started. Keep up the good work. Baby steps. We did Dave Ramsey also. January of this year we were debt free and was starting to build the 3-6 months Emergency fund and the truck died. So we did what he said and bought an older model. So now the only debt is our used truck. After the fully funded emergency is complete, we want to look for our little homestead. We are saving so we can pay cash this time. It's our dream anyway. Be Blessed!

  • @farmgirl201
    @farmgirl201 5 лет назад

    My kids and I absolutely love you guys we just recently got internet so we have been watching your journey on our tv which doesn’t allow for comments or notifications so I thought we would let you know that you’re inspiring us to start making preparations to move towards homesteading

  • @chamilton9182
    @chamilton9182 5 лет назад +4

    I love, love, LOVE your positivity. You were both raised right and when you have the Holy Spirit in your heart, gratitude
    is always first. You guys have that and you are thankful for where you are and all you have, and that just lends to
    positivity. The Lord is blessing you and I am blessed to watch HIM work through you to show all your viewers. Same thing
    with being debt free.... that, (I believe) comes from the Holy Spirit .... you are being obedient to what you know is right and
    sharing it. THANK YOU!! God Bless.

  • @judytaylor8248
    @judytaylor8248 5 лет назад

    I just want to know how you guys got to be so wise at such a young age. When you are debt free, you no longer are a slave to the system and that truly makes you free. You control your life, what great lessons for those sweet young men. They are watching and learning from you lessons that most adults haven’t gotten. Thanks to the answers to questions! Oh and by the way, why wouldn’t we want to watch you in your daily chores? Don’t we all watch Justin Rhodes milk his cows, move his chickens and feed his sheep every ..single ,,day? And I haven’t missed one episode of Doug and Stacey since I found them. You guys are doing what a lot of people would love to have the courage to do. Ten years ago we became debt free and bought a farm in East Texas but my husband was diagnosed with Parkinson’s and I could not do it all so we sold the farm. You guys are such an inspiration to so many and you give courage to those wanting to leave the rat race. Thank you for the videos you put out. Love them all.

  • @jemmiestone3496
    @jemmiestone3496 5 лет назад

    Awesome video. Y'all did a great job answering as many questions as you could. I think that Y'all are doing a great job. I know that sometimes it gets discouraging, but the way Y'all are handling it is awesome. One day at a time, One thing at a time. God Bless Y'all.

  • @AtHomeWithAmandaWallis
    @AtHomeWithAmandaWallis 5 лет назад

    Totally understand why the farmhouse is on hold but that’s going to be a BEAUTIFUL project when you guys get to it!!!!! Can’t wait to see what you do with it! 😍

  • @hopechannelcat5462
    @hopechannelcat5462 5 лет назад

    have followed you for a long time and always enjoy your videos. hope and pray the blessings keep coming, even when life if difficult.

  • @fredachase5193
    @fredachase5193 5 лет назад

    You both are awesome.....so very sensible and taking it project by project!!! Simply amazing to see!! One bite at a time!!!

  • @MRSPIKTHALL
    @MRSPIKTHALL 5 лет назад +1

    You guys are such an inspiration! I’m also a Dave Ramsey follower. Now a homestead dreamer. I’ve been watching all of your videos. I wish you all the best!

  • @elfwoodadventures2103
    @elfwoodadventures2103 5 лет назад

    Agree with BeeEarthy Homestead...You are NEVER too old. I'm 61, debt free now, and looking at properties in Maine near family in New England. One step at a time and enjoy every day of life!

  • @donnadunn6831
    @donnadunn6831 5 лет назад

    I found this thought you would be interested.
    Edible parts: The lower parts of the leaves can be used in a salad; the young stems can be eaten raw or boiled; the young flowers (cattails) can be roasted. Yellow pollen (appears mid-summer) of the cattail can be added to pancakes for added nutrients.

  • @AfterTheRains
    @AfterTheRains 5 лет назад

    You have a beautiful family and wonderful attitude to life. I am astonished that you sometimes have more views on an episode than you have subscribers. I wish more people would click that button.

  • @lenellamaxwell6934
    @lenellamaxwell6934 5 лет назад

    I think rebuilding your mobile home is the best decision you could make. You have a shell and you are beefing up the frame. It will be much better and more sturdy. Also, you will know everything about your mobile home and be able to feel peaceful about it. And I personally believe that living in a smaller home is better for families because it makes you interact with one another, and you always know what your kids are up to. I know your audience is curious and wanting to know, and that is fine, but I am enjoying sitting back and watching what you bring to the table. You will get done what you need to do in the time it takes you. It is exciting to watch your life unfold as it unfolds. And yes, it is true...you are regular people just like the rest of us. :-) Love and blessings to you both along with your family and homestead.

  • @auntielaura5
    @auntielaura5 5 лет назад +1

    Thanks for taking the time to give me my Hollar fix before you head out. How do you stay positive? One big way is to surround yourself with positive people. You guys help me stay positive. 😊❤️. Much love and good wishes from your home town.

  • @Mandy-cn5cl
    @Mandy-cn5cl 5 лет назад

    You are my go to optimism channel ☺so whatever you do it works .I agree one step at a time it's soo easy to get overwhelmed

  • @margarettt7675
    @margarettt7675 5 лет назад

    My big goal is my journey. I took on a "tear down" building in my senior years, and I am not in the least bit worried about achieving a goal, but I am incredibly grateful when a new window goes in, or insulation gets updated, or the garden yields enough tomatoes to can for the year. I doubt the place will ever be in a state anyone would refer to as "achieved", but it is home, and I am grateful for a dry, warm, safe place to live, with enough food, and with lots of interesting things to think about and do every single day. I hope you enjoy your journey in reality as much as you seem to in your videos, which I enjoy watching.

  • @pattiwhite9575
    @pattiwhite9575 5 лет назад

    You two are at a perfect age to be doing this. You are wiser, with more life experiences to handle it , emotionally. Hell a lot of people are still building homes into there 80's just for hobbies. One step a day and pray.

  • @davet.4945
    @davet.4945 5 лет назад +2

    Plant corn in blocks. It is wind pollinated and it's more about the corn being pushed against each other by the wind rather than just wind blowing the pollen. I was the only person in the neighbourhood that a decent crop. Try it, you'll like it! :-)

  • @intownlimits159
    @intownlimits159 5 лет назад

    We will be there this weekend! My youngest (5 years old) is so excited to possibly meet yall! Have a safe trip and see you soon!

  • @raulramirez64
    @raulramirez64 5 лет назад +2

    I just wanted to say all your videos have been very inspiring. I am currently in the paying off debt phase in my life. Five years down the road, my goal is to be doing same thing as you guys.

  • @complicated09
    @complicated09 5 лет назад

    Looking forward to meeting you all at Homesteaders of America!

  • @darylcampbell3244
    @darylcampbell3244 5 лет назад +3

    The drone footage of your place is great. It is hard to believe how much better looks from the first time you gave us a look.

    • @amyhendricks3627
      @amyhendricks3627 5 лет назад +1

      This is what I was thinking, as well...and it's amazing to see the progress and the beauty all their hard work has added. What an awesome thing to have as time goes on!

  • @Rockin8Farm
    @Rockin8Farm 5 лет назад +6

    I think y'all's timing was perfect! I say this because most of us can admit we weren't responsible enough to really put effort into a dream this big in our early 20s. Some could and do...but I know I needed to grow up and earn some battle scars. On the flip side...I decided to start living my homestead dream one year ago at the age of 42. Aside from my wife and kids the farm is my everything, but what I wouldn't give to have a body that was 10 years younger. Your timing is perfect for the channel too. I have fun with my channel (a lot of fun) but I think the vast majority of RUclips viewers related much better to the "born in the 80s" crowd. So...just keep pushing because your timing couldn't have been better.

  • @JanColdwater
    @JanColdwater 5 лет назад +1

    I like that... Live like no one else now so you could live like no one else later! It's nice to see you guys having the courage to live out what has inspired you. That inspires everyone else! Thank you and Godspeed! ❤️

  • @JB-pd4ni
    @JB-pd4ni 5 лет назад +72

    Staying debt-free, when ever possible, must be the wise path. Good for you!

    • @trwsandford
      @trwsandford 5 лет назад

      That poop is Biblical

    • @faithrada
      @faithrada 4 года назад

      Yup... being debt-free IS the answer. We had our house built in stages... doing what we could ourselves. With our 4 boys that was an adventure.
      We kept saying... "some day we'll look back at all this and have a good laugh." So.. NOW we're laughing but it took some hard work and a lot of 'doin without'... but MAN... was it worth it. Yup... one step at a time gets you there.
      You Hollars have The Best attitude. That is the most important ingredient.

  • @judysmith5777
    @judysmith5777 5 лет назад

    I enjoy you guys so much and wish you all the best on your homestead ! Everything comes in good time, no need to rush into things until you're ready and prepared, no matter what others may think they know what you should be doing and when you should be doing it !! Hehe, some ppl always know what to do in somebody else's yard ..but they're not in your shoes and only you know what works for you and your family, def don't take pressures on from others. You're doing so much work in such a short time there, so impressed !!! There's so much that goes into living the lifestyle and how ever-changing it is, be it weather, the seasons, animals that have minds of their own no matter how good the fences are and things just in general that pop up and need attention before anything you might have planned for that day. And it IS exhausting, it takes a certain kind of fortitude to enjoy the homesteading life but for those who have that fortitude, it is so very very rewarding. I grew up in the 60's on a farm but it was very much the homesteading way, not like the big or corporate farming of today, we raised our kids on a family farm as well and they loved it, we wouldn't have traded those days for anything. Now I'm where I love to be, in a small city, I'm in heaven but my husband def misses the farm/ animals and big gardens, we do garden here but it's def not the same. I love where I am best right now but SOOOO enjoy watching your journey and it does bring back great memories of my younger life. I wish you so much happiness in the midst of all your hard work in all your ventures. Big hugs from Canada and .....oh Ben, plz don't cut your hair !!!

  • @jcostanzo63
    @jcostanzo63 5 лет назад

    You never know how much time you have. My second son died at 30. I thought I was not going to live past 16 yrs when I was younger. Now I am going to be 73. My husband and I just moved to a ranch to live on 2 yrs ago. I am just trying to grow trees and vegetables. We do have 4 chickens and some worms. Still looking forward. You are great people and are about the same age as my Grandchildren.

  • @lisakniceley8488
    @lisakniceley8488 5 лет назад

    You two and your family are soo darn cute! Wishing you all the best of luck in your new endeavors!

  • @jeaniepartridge6701
    @jeaniepartridge6701 5 лет назад

    I agree with all you are saying about the goals you have. My husband was 42 and I was 33 when we decided to get out of debt using Crown ministries budget plan that was 35 years ago and we haven't regretted it for a moment we own 2 homes paid for. I started last month to teach a life skills class at our local pregnancy resource center and am praying I can help these families to become financially stable if not debt free. So many family problems are caused by mismanaged finances. Please say a prayer for the families in my class>

  • @joannmahaffey1068
    @joannmahaffey1068 5 лет назад +1

    Your place is looking fantastic.......Look at how far you have come not how far you have to go when you feel overwhelmed. You MUST take time for yourselves.

  • @altonwren7890
    @altonwren7890 5 лет назад

    I love you guys so down-to-earth you're the type of people that has success because you work hard but you work smart and you're willing to take a chance and because of that you're living the life that both of you want to live

  • @geraldkooienga8699
    @geraldkooienga8699 5 лет назад

    You two and Justen inspired me to get chickens and sell the eggs. I now have 15 layers and another 15 that are a week old. It’s a hobby that pays for its self and thin some and I sell out every week!

  • @acornhomestead3575
    @acornhomestead3575 5 лет назад

    I'm pushing 51 and I feel that too. I got what? 30 years left to keeping a small homestead, I feel sad I've waited until my 50th year to start. But having said that I got chickens and quail, planted loads of vegetables this year. I want 3 acres, but realistically I cannot do the work on 3 acres (I'm just learning to use my time wisely) so I've decided to stay in my already paid off house, I want a big polytunnel at some point. I'd like a few sheds/work space. I used to make kids toys but I have no space now. So my 0.2 (one fifth) of an acre will have to do. You are my inspiration and I wish to go to HOA next year so I can meet you beautiful ppl and the rest of my tribe! 💕 From NI

  • @Silvermoonhomestead
    @Silvermoonhomestead 5 лет назад +1

    I actually 'saw' you guys a couple months back at the NC get together at the park. I was the weirdo sitting on the wall by herself. I wish now that I had at least said hi because y'all just seem so genuine. I crochet and I understand what it's like just trying to find the time. My advice is to just keep your hands busy any time you're sitting down. For instance, I'm sitting in my car at work crocheting while on my lunch. I also dream of being debt free. Not going to happen any time soon. But working at it day by day.

  • @mommabear8673
    @mommabear8673 5 лет назад +1

    I just love you guys. Your so down to earth and my kind of people.

  • @CalvaryLeatherworks
    @CalvaryLeatherworks 5 лет назад

    So Glad your Comments is back, just wanted to say Hey and We are Praying for yalls Trip to HOA We hope yo meet y’all soon!!

  • @simpleperrydiselife
    @simpleperrydiselife 5 лет назад

    You are right. Being a youtuber can be hard. You have to work really hard, brain storm, filming and editing.... is exhausting.
    But I still enjoy it... most of the time😊❤
    Thank you!!!

  • @tanapittsford5067
    @tanapittsford5067 5 лет назад

    You have been so blessed. Watching you gives me more of the push I need. I like the taking one thing at a time idea. I tend to over do it. Thanks for the update on your family back ground also. I'm glad you are a family of faith, and that your boys are normal, ornery boys. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏👍Have a great time at the Homesteaders conference. Be safe.

  • @suzanneguiho4882
    @suzanneguiho4882 4 года назад +1

    Are you thinking of going off grid...any plans in that regard? Where I found that we were most vulnerable is the dependency on the grid. Thank you for your video? I am new to your channel and perhaps you have already answered this.

  • @nancycowan6109
    @nancycowan6109 5 лет назад

    I love watching a lot of homesteading channels. I think I once was a pioneer woman in a past life ... or that I just love your philosophy... and I’ve learned to can and preserve like my mother did. Life just leads us on a personal path. Thanks for sharing yours. (My dad was a welder - that was his skill, his trade and we lived with sparks flying out of the garage all our lives. So love that about you, Ben. Also, after 41 years of marriage, I’ve never seen my husband without his beard.) Your channel makes me so happy. ❤️

  • @kdallen1234
    @kdallen1234 5 лет назад

    I just finished crocheting a blanket. Yeah. I also like to knit but my shoulder is messed up. Knitting makes it hurt. So crocheting it is. It makes me happy that you are so positive and enjoy knitting. Wish more young people were doing it.

  • @my3howards
    @my3howards 5 лет назад

    Totally gonna come say hi. Loved meeting you at the Spring Planting Festival but this time I'm bringing my oldest daughter. It's gonna be so much fun!

  • @NickGrimshawe
    @NickGrimshawe 5 лет назад

    Love you guys. Love your wisdom and sensible ideas about how to move forward one step at a time.

  • @cherylwilliams81
    @cherylwilliams81 5 лет назад +2

    This was a fun video! Thanks! Have fun this weekend!💕