INTJ interviewed by INTP (relationships search for meaning and personal philosophy)

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @Sarcasmtomasksadness
    @Sarcasmtomasksadness 2 года назад +9

    Luke is cool. As an INTJ woman its weird but fascinating to watch someone so similar to you.

  • @cyberneticbutterfly8506
    @cyberneticbutterfly8506 4 года назад +31

    I love his reaction to Nietzsche being an INTJ! It's like in his mind suddenly one jigsaw piece connected between two totally different jigsaw puzzles 😂😂😂

  • @shad6933
    @shad6933 4 года назад +17

    He's a healthy intj.... Nice

  • @yanival8760
    @yanival8760 4 года назад +20

    This is so accurate to me as an Intj is like listening to me talking almost to using the same words 🙈 thanks for having this talks it helps

  • @intjill
    @intjill 4 года назад +10

    I know I bottle things up, and surprisingly discover it about myself at a young age (in my opinion); probably in my early to mid 20’s. Also, “people can’t hurt you if they don’t know you”... YES! I can undoubtably sympathize with that statement.

  • @giomar89
    @giomar89 2 года назад +3

    These interviews are amazing, just comparing the body language between, say, INTJ and ENTJ is incredibly informative.

  • @intjill
    @intjill 4 года назад +22

    It’s funny to watch how he is trying to figure out how to describe the INTJ thinking pattern. I have a pretty clear idea of how he is trying to process and convey it. It’s not something that is easy to do as an INTJ.

  • @kevrokka.d.9749
    @kevrokka.d.9749 4 года назад +15

    Another great video. The INTJ thought process is interesting to me as an INTP. This interview has helped to 'humanize' them for me. :-D

    • @rileydunn2832
      @rileydunn2832  4 года назад +1

      Thanks! that is awesome to hear

    • @goyboy14
      @goyboy14 4 года назад +5

      Kevrokk Kills Someone sees me as an actual human being 😂 my thanks

    • @kevrokka.d.9749
      @kevrokka.d.9749 4 года назад +1

      @@goyboy14 ha, no problem.

  • @snudgegalbraith3447
    @snudgegalbraith3447 4 года назад +27

    Entj and intj learning chess, they would learn certain successful sequences to win fast. They are satisfied by achieving a goal.
    Intp learning chess, they would learn how each figure moves and then learn via trial and error as they take more satisfaction in understanding the game as a whole.
    For a year the intj beats the intp at chess daily until the intp has a deeper understanding of patterns within the game then the intp starts winning.

    • @snudgegalbraith3447
      @snudgegalbraith3447 4 года назад +5

      The above is merely an "educated guess theory" or "ed geory" if you will. Feel free to tear it to peices. I think on average intps are late bloomers (elon musk and einstein are outliers).Even more so if they learned bad habits from their care givers. I think the intp starts to fine tune their Si habits and health in general in their thirties. This leads to more financial success in their 40's. On a graph which showed type and income per age. The intp shows a large jump in income from the 30s bar to the 40s bar. This could ofcourse be the development of Fe also as success at a company for example requires socialising and keeping up appearances to some extent aswell as fitting in within a heirarchical structure.

    • @Ignasimp
      @Ignasimp 4 года назад +1

      @@snudgegalbraith3447 where can I find this graph?

    • @JamesWithee
      @JamesWithee 3 года назад +3

      Gary Kasparov is the best chess player of all time. He’s an entj. In competitive chess entjs have a big advantage because the matches have a time limit. Entjs are good decision makers under pressure and can bounce back and forth between general strategic goals (Ni), reading the board in the moment (Se), and efficient problem solving (Te).
      People often times say that intj is the chess player in life, and that may be true metaphorically, but really it’s the entj thats best suited for the game. In my experience intjs and intps are surprisingly bad at the game when I play them, and they just sit there overthinking things and making obvious mistakes after taking forever to move. I’ve played a lot of sensors that give me a better challenge, probably because they are learning patterns and using proven tactics more readily than the intuitives I’ve beaten. Isn’t that a strange occurrence? Dummies tend to be better than smarties at chess, at least at a casual level of play.

    • @chingchingbling2145
      @chingchingbling2145 3 года назад +2

      @@snudgegalbraith3447 Decent guess when it comes to ENTJ. However, I would say that INTJs can be as bad, if not worse than INTPs initially.
      Te doms are going to be effectiveness focused and therefore, like you said, would likely pickup and apply the most effective Te strategies immediately. An ESTJ (Te/Si) would perhaps be the quickest in implementing in the manner you described.
      The Ni dom INTJ only starts getting better at things as the Ni learns the underlying patterns, and it as it starts becoming "second nature" to intuition. This can often manifest as being a "late bloomer" - overthinking, stumbling and grunting along the way.
      Te simply "assists" in actualizing Ni outwardly.
      If long term chess mastery and understanding is the Ni goal, then in no manner would Ni/Te shy away from winging it, experimenting and making mistakes in the beginning.
      I can't also imagine Ni relying wholly on immediate win strategies and not "living" in the long term future. This would of course, entail giving importance to getting better and better and focusing on deepening understanding as time goes on. Your analysis seems to assume that the goal is going to be "immediate win".
      Both INJs (INTJs and INFJs) are often late blooming in a lot of different contexts. Ni can take a long time in coming up with customized systems to cope or thrive in a world that doesn't really understand Ni dom.
      In comparison to the INTP, the INTJ also has to overcome challenges related to Fe (Fe polr).
      It seems like early blooming (generalized) would be the domain of Si/Te or Te/Si.
      Generally, it seems like there is a lot of conflation between the strategies adopted by ISTJs and INTJs. The former has Si, whereas the latter uses no Si at all and relies on Ni developing it's own patterns. The learned bad habits problem can be even more acute than INTPs.

    • @snudgegalbraith3447
      @snudgegalbraith3447 3 года назад

      @ChingChing Bling pattern recognition is more Ne Si than Ni Se

  • @MM-te1kk
    @MM-te1kk 4 года назад +12

    Hi. I’m an Infj. Here are a few facts about me that literally nobody asked for.
    I have a complicated relationship with planning. I am a bit neurotic of a person and I tend to plan everything through as much as possible so that I always know what is going to happen. But looking at my experience so far, planning can get you very close to the finish line but not over it. In the end it always depends on spontaneity and compromises, which can be frustrating at times when you have been looking forward to something being a very specific way. (Edit: Btw do you know that meme "The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math"? As much time as I invest in planning, I am not actually that good at it.)
    This is kind of ironic because I am genuinely in favor of change. Rather than being afraid of new stuff causing profound change I am horrified by the idea of things staying the exact way they are. So I guess my complicated planning habits definitely stem from my immaturity… Well, I'm learning.
    I actually do not care much about reputation. People think of you what they want to think of you. Reputation is a bubble. It’s insignificant. I once got into a little debate with people because I think that what people think of you says less about you than about those people.
    I’m not concerned about other people’s feeling in a sense of „Who do people want me to be“ (because dude, f*** off already :P) but in a sense of „What vibes caused by which circumstances affect people in what way“.
    I wouldn’t say I jump to conclusions morally. I think I make a point of looking at issues beneath the surface and from different perspectives - ideally continuously, because basically everything non-material is dynamic within itself (but I have to admit it depends on how crucial the issue is because effort as well is a resource that wants to be managed mindfully, after all).
    Lastly, I like working with intjs because I feel like we just „get“ each other without having to talk a lot. Plus I think if an infj and an intj have similar values on a topic, they could team up to one big solution-oriented wonder machine.
    Apologies for my improvable English.

    • @hend-3192
      @hend-3192 3 года назад

      Tell me about your imaginary friend, do you have one? Is he or she?.
      One of my guy friend that INTJ still have his imaginary friend, and i am guessing as "her"

  • @cynthiapereira8403
    @cynthiapereira8403 2 года назад +5

    INTJs always have the same eyes to me. Like dragon eyes - Smaug!! They somehow shoot beams of light out of them. The child like laugh that breaks up that intense face is so adorable. ❤️ENFP

  • @grumpyschnauzer
    @grumpyschnauzer 3 года назад +10

    I (INTJ) see people as catalogues with information to sort through so I can find the quickest route through life unscathed. That’s how I use Te to support Ni.

  • @gokurockstar07
    @gokurockstar07 3 года назад +5

    I'm 27 unsuccessful INTJ, I'm depressed

  • @robgoodsight6216
    @robgoodsight6216 3 года назад +5

    Alan Watts, Jung, Nietzsche...the way of the Dao, Zen...
    Personal discovery of own feelings...we Do have feelings...but we still try to explain with logic. Understanding "what" we are is paramount as the knowledge of how the universe works...so that we can "flow" with "universal" efficiency.

  • @cyberneticbutterfly8506
    @cyberneticbutterfly8506 4 года назад +6

    I feel like I can read INTJ perosonality from the cadence of speaking and spesific type or version of their eloquence.

  • @miszczklasykuw3025
    @miszczklasykuw3025 4 года назад +7

    nice channel man, keep it going : ) i very like fact that u invited intj and entj (+ u are intp)

  • @Hermanssen
    @Hermanssen 3 месяца назад

    One interesting thing that I noticed is that INTJ males often wear that type of shirt more that other types

  • @aisthesis_
    @aisthesis_ 3 года назад +7

    The seconds of silence between 5:16 and 5:20 said a lot lol

  • @Cherrypopppp
    @Cherrypopppp 8 месяцев назад

    I’d love to be interviewed! I am an INFP

  • @bellarodriguez3249
    @bellarodriguez3249 2 года назад +2

    I would like to see an interview with a female intj, next.

    • @athens31415
      @athens31415 6 месяцев назад

      Yes! And a female ENTJ. Also would be interesting to see ENTP representation.

  • @Love_her_so_much
    @Love_her_so_much 5 месяцев назад

    I could relate to all these intj perspective, but i'm an intp. I'm feeling really toxic right now. I'm more looping with Ti - Ni, Ti - Fi. But somehow i kinda realize that this has something to do with the concerns that in order to achieve better goal definition of the future that i want(Ni), i gotta work on knowing what i want deeply ( working on Fi) (Te process). This part is one of the hardest process that i feel i need to work on in my life. I hope i don't get too suicidal.
    Being the intp though, i'm mostly relax being intp, but i just felt not satisfy with this life, so i always drawn to work on dream that i envision(Ni) , achieve goal (Te).
    I don't know why i can feel this toxic life style is something necessary. Yeah i don't know. let's see in the end am i gonna survive this life? Am i gonna be happy? Am i gonna be refretful? Idk.

    • @Love_her_so_much
      @Love_her_so_much 5 месяцев назад

      One thing that i know for sure, people will see me as cheerful in the beginning, but see me sad in the end. I'm an unhealthy one. I just be myself though. I wonder when or where this all gonna end.

    • @asheghefarsi
      @asheghefarsi 29 дней назад

      hey how're you? Are you okay now?​@@Love_her_so_much

  • @kellikakes81
    @kellikakes81 4 месяца назад

    All INFJs i know care very much about their reputations. I guess context plays part

  • @lourenssianturi4373
    @lourenssianturi4373 3 года назад

    First time i see Luke. Hhmm,, just so so guys.
    Then hearing him talking, instantly infatuated.
    Oh God, what a sexy human being he is.
    INTP

  • @gabrielmontenegro-ny3ng
    @gabrielmontenegro-ny3ng 2 месяца назад

    intj and intp together? nice

  • @dereklemoine397
    @dereklemoine397 3 года назад +4

    nvm, found it, some Riley Dunn guy on youtube

  • @icingcake
    @icingcake 4 года назад +3

    28:25 😆 true to type

  • @lourenssianturi4373
    @lourenssianturi4373 3 года назад +2

    How can you be INTP from ESTJ father?
    INTP

    • @rileydunn2832
      @rileydunn2832  3 года назад +3

      It actually wasnt too bad since Te dom understand Ti logic really well and we were emotionally compatible with Fe inferior to Fi inferior. The only thing that would get annoying is the Si traditionalism and Ne child trying to tell me to cover all my based when obviously Ne parent of INTP thinks of every possibility before he would try and advise me. On an emotional level though INTPs and ESTJs are perfectly compatible which was nice to grow up with.

    • @lourenssianturi4373
      @lourenssianturi4373 3 года назад +1

      @@rileydunn2832 wow.
      I know it will sucks in the Si
      I just get the insight, maybe your perceiver nature come because your judgement parents.
      My mom is INFJ or ISFJ
      She control basically everything about my life.
      Hearing Luke really insightfull.
      Being around INTJ always insightfull for me.

    • @lourenssianturi4373
      @lourenssianturi4373 3 года назад +1

      @@rileydunn2832 thank you for the great video,,

  • @leavethelighton1155
    @leavethelighton1155 2 года назад +1

    I think society as a whole is too focused on Fe, and I think 2020 was a big wake up call for us to start being more Ni-Te.

  • @2sunalibar
    @2sunalibar 3 года назад

    Fe Si is more developed that Fe Ne. So the mother ESFJ is more developed than the the daughter ESFJ right?

  • @maykelyzz
    @maykelyzz 3 года назад

    How old Luke was at this interview? Im 22 yo intj too and I came to many same conclusions. I wanna compare myself to him.

  • @lourenssianturi4373
    @lourenssianturi4373 3 года назад +1

    INTJ definitely not botle things up.
    I think INTJs prones to be bullied but still just brushes it off
    INTP is more scary than INTJ if someone tried to disturbing them and INTP said enough is enough.
    INTP more prone to bottle things up.