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Each One Teach One 5 - Eps 14: Forgiving your abusive parent

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  • Опубликовано: 26 май 2019
  • Today Each One Teach One shares a story of how a childhood of abuse can lead to unresolved anger and self-esteem challenges as the child enters their teens and young adulthood. Mamello has had a particularly rough time and although still only 24 has been the child of a teen mother who was never ready for the responsibility of a child and suffered because of it. Today she is trying to get her life together through studying while her son is raised by his father’s family in Lesotho. She does not want to be an absent or neglectful mother but still has many unresolved issues over her relationship with her own mother. With Sis Pula’s help Mamello wishes to break this cycle of children raising children and release the anger she feels about what happened to her so that she can have a clean start with her son untainted by her lingering feelings of hurt and rejection from her own mother.
    Join us as Each One Teach One returns with Life Coach Pula Matsaung as our guide and mentor on a shared journey of learning, for learners, parents and educators as we face the challenges reaching our best selves, learning from one another on a new season Each One Teach One.
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Комментарии • 76

  • @kananelomajoro5416
    @kananelomajoro5416 4 года назад +35

    She went through a lot. She is a strong woman and may she break the chain of absent mothers in her family. i hope she works on herself, stay strong and goes to get her child.

  • @miss_phudding3804
    @miss_phudding3804 4 года назад +39

    “If you don’t want to be a mother or don’t love children pleases do anything possible to prevent having a child” 💔💔. This is so hurtful 😭😭. Let’s protect our children please 😭💔

  • @siyandamakeleni5945
    @siyandamakeleni5945 4 года назад +20

    I can relate to this story I'm also a victim of an abusive and negligent mother.

  • @mihlalimatanzima6642
    @mihlalimatanzima6642 4 года назад +45

    This made me realize that I have a lot to be grateful for. I'm so sorry you went through all this love ♥️

  • @nozikhumalo8076
    @nozikhumalo8076 4 года назад +10

    Parenting is not for everyone. Please, people, if you do not want kids, don't have them. Nobody is forced to have children.

    • @mookhoposo371
      @mookhoposo371 4 года назад

      Tse bohloko litaba tsena Mamello Morena Modimo oa o rata dear ke ea tseba oa rapela ka mehla. Etla fihla nako eo otla lebala ka pain tsena kaofela. Oa fuman seo se batlang loanela ngoana onale tokelo hore obe karolo bophelong ba hae. Modimo a bele oena ngoaneso ka nako tsohle.

  • @isaacmolefenyokong7776
    @isaacmolefenyokong7776 4 года назад +11

    I know many strong people, including myself, but this beautiful soul is the strongest human being ever that I have seen. Please stay blessed, you're the light that shines for centuries to come. ❤️

  • @paulinaspogter3931
    @paulinaspogter3931 4 года назад +18

    Oh sisi sorry u remind me of my mother who is also treating me the same way ur mom did she is still alive she does not want me until this day I am married now with two cute boys she does not want my kids but I have learn one thing in life is to serve God he helped my through my pain he can also help u I telling u he is the way the life he is my strength God bless.

    • @mode4084
      @mode4084 4 года назад

      hey Paulina. I can relate with your story and the one of the lady that was being interviewed. God has done marvellous things for me as well.

    • @musamoses261
      @musamoses261 3 года назад

      Keep well dear

    • @nthabykhabanyane8868
      @nthabykhabanyane8868 2 года назад

      I also have the same experience 😥😥i wish everyone to recover as im and treat their kids in a proper way.

  • @sinenhlahlamachiane1982
    @sinenhlahlamachiane1982 4 года назад +9

    My sister you are a CHAMPION,and you are strong

  • @lehakwelesetla1631
    @lehakwelesetla1631 4 года назад +16

    At the same time is what You Decide makes a difference in your life regardless of what you’ve been through!!

  • @ntombifuthinkosi3085
    @ntombifuthinkosi3085 4 года назад +21

    God help me to be a good mother

  • @ZaneleTsibiyana
    @ZaneleTsibiyana 2 месяца назад

    Its a circle of women who suffered abuse Nd pain am glad wena sisi u choose the right way I wish u to heal❤

  • @ladylover.tladylove1160
    @ladylover.tladylove1160 4 года назад +13

    Cc u strong . udlule ebunzimeni kodwa inkosi iyakuthanda my dear, coz abanye abantu bayazibulala kodwa wena ukhona , uyilwe lempi for ingane yakho, God bless you my dear.😢😢

  • @fikiletshabalala6265
    @fikiletshabalala6265 4 года назад +8

    You have been through a lot sisi... I hope you find peace and more love. You are so beautiful ❤️

  • @thokodilebo8098
    @thokodilebo8098 4 года назад +6

    The presenter is such a wonderful and full of life experience woman. This is a very sad story bathong. I'm deeply sorry for what happened in your life my sister. Hang in there and and act the women's advice, all will be well.

  • @sweetcandy834
    @sweetcandy834 4 года назад +10

    you went through a lot sis but you came out stronger

  • @HilariaMbono
    @HilariaMbono 4 года назад +6

    Love the presenter, love mamello. Her name says it all. She is a perseverer. What a strong woman and she will be great and her coming generations will learn a lot from her. So, proud of you

  • @deltaradiance9034
    @deltaradiance9034 4 года назад +1

    Good job to the presenter. She mentioned a lot of important things that most people Dont know dont have. Amazing. I had to create my identity. Black people we go through a lot of messed up backgrounds.

  • @nomusapreciousbuthelezi22
    @nomusapreciousbuthelezi22 4 года назад +6

    Thank you for this episode, I am going through alot at the minutes with my own mother and i am glad that i have been constantly forgiving her but there comes a time where only letting go will make life better.

    • @lordthatomosoma8162
      @lordthatomosoma8162 4 года назад

      Get beta

    • @gamegamu7382
      @gamegamu7382 4 года назад +1

      sorry to hear this love. l went through the same with my mother and l managed to move out of the house and now she cant control me, l know how it feels to be abused by your own mother. This is real but our society shy this away and live in silence. Depression is real.

    • @kealebogaramarumo4891
      @kealebogaramarumo4891 4 года назад

      @@gamegamu7382 an we always wrong in their eyes hey #breaking

  • @kealebogaramarumo4891
    @kealebogaramarumo4891 4 года назад +8

    she just opened a wound im finding it hard to heal i mean forgiveness is not immediate not forced

  • @zenandesicwebu2380
    @zenandesicwebu2380 4 года назад +1

    I'm so sorry my sister for what u went through it's so painfull,God plz help me to love my kids and learn to forgive

  • @lumkambulali9056
    @lumkambulali9056 4 года назад +2

    Ya cc be strong abazali abaninzi abasinaki kodwa unkulunkulu ubanathi nakum impilo iyaqhubeka

  • @ipmotlele1187
    @ipmotlele1187 4 года назад +3

    I admire you my sister, you’re very strong(and beautiful 🙂)
    I wish I could meet you...

  • @nomsamajor1701
    @nomsamajor1701 4 года назад +4

    Aish this is reminds me of my cousin after her father and mother divorced

  • @thulimsimanga4281
    @thulimsimanga4281 4 года назад +7

    This is very sad 😰😭

  • @lisaamoyo2378
    @lisaamoyo2378 4 года назад +5

    She’s pretty, stay strong 💪

  • @ntuwisenimafune2797
    @ntuwisenimafune2797 4 года назад +3

    God loves you

  • @user-ee7rp2uf5e
    @user-ee7rp2uf5e Месяц назад

    Askies mmata hln o patuwe bohloko😢jwan uve been through alot ole mnyane askies iyooo e bhloko

  • @kgomotsocomfort1750
    @kgomotsocomfort1750 4 года назад +8

    she went through alot xem mamello

  • @the_backstreet_boys_bw815
    @the_backstreet_boys_bw815 3 года назад

    Ah life in RSA Is not so simple like we thought. This is too much. I can relate this. I thought we are strugling here Botswana but i can c were are ok

  • @mthokozisithokzan3343
    @mthokozisithokzan3343 3 года назад +1

    Wish l could meet Mamello

  • @jaftammalegodipilusa4253
    @jaftammalegodipilusa4253 5 лет назад +7

    Ooooh my GOD 😢😢😢😢

  • @Karabo_Mokori
    @Karabo_Mokori 3 года назад +1

    Yooooh this is so heartbreaking 💔😭

  • @user-ee7rp2uf5e
    @user-ee7rp2uf5e Месяц назад

    Mme oo hana kelello a kgola ha utlwa peini ya hao bthon lyk really 😮😮😮hake btle nx ka ngwanaka nx mme oo hano bna lehodimo iyeeer

  • @user-ee7rp2uf5e
    @user-ee7rp2uf5e Месяц назад

    😢😢😢😢😢lebitso la hao le buwa tsohle mommy 😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @kwenzakwenkosimkhize9715
    @kwenzakwenkosimkhize9715 4 года назад

    Each one teach one is COSAS what is being said about the COSAS and the ANC in this broadcast

  • @matselisompasi6222
    @matselisompasi6222 4 года назад

    Sad the poor lady went through a lot.....

  • @sanelisiwelurai6031
    @sanelisiwelurai6031 4 года назад

    This is painful to listen to so sorry sisi yhoo😭💔

  • @tsungaimukarati9737
    @tsungaimukarati9737 4 года назад +2

    Eish so painful

  • @nomsasongela3716
    @nomsasongela3716 4 года назад

    😭😭m very sorry dear yooooooh🥵💔💔💔💔it breaks my heart m so torn

  • @thabomotatinyane5774
    @thabomotatinyane5774 4 года назад +1

    Very painful

  • @dorothymookeletsi4498
    @dorothymookeletsi4498 4 года назад +2

    Aowww 😰😰the only child bathong

  • @winniesitholesithole563
    @winniesitholesithole563 4 года назад +1

    Strong women

  • @user-vw7ip7zl7m
    @user-vw7ip7zl7m 10 месяцев назад

    💔💔💔💔ppl are heartlesss

  • @agnesmkhuzangwe7308
    @agnesmkhuzangwe7308 4 года назад +8

    Mamello dm me

  • @user-sw1vl4cn2w
    @user-sw1vl4cn2w 8 месяцев назад

    Sorry

  • @sibongiledladla8206
    @sibongiledladla8206 4 года назад +5

    this is so depressing

  • @vusmuzidavid8370
    @vusmuzidavid8370 4 года назад +2

    Jha kubuhlungu xem

  • @ayamhlongo2765
    @ayamhlongo2765 3 года назад

    Yho 😭

  • @smangelemsibi4607
    @smangelemsibi4607 4 года назад

    Ayiiiiii Cc kunzima

  • @sillyme8185
    @sillyme8185 3 года назад

    Stop forgiving. Cut them off for the rest of their lives. You have to get even that’s the only way to make the karmic slate even.

    • @phumulambhamali5077
      @phumulambhamali5077 2 года назад

      There's nothing wrong with forgiving, it' a good thing and it will heal her. However, it's good practice to cut toxic off people out of your life no matter how much you love them and have forgiven them

  • @obakenglehutso4214
    @obakenglehutso4214 4 года назад +1

    😢😢😢

  • @karabothaba124
    @karabothaba124 4 года назад +1

    😢😢😢😢😢

  • @comfortsadieq
    @comfortsadieq 4 года назад

    Very sad hei

  • @koketsomolatela8787
    @koketsomolatela8787 4 года назад

    💔💔😭😭

  • @thekamercury7150
    @thekamercury7150 5 лет назад +1

    i want his lady

  • @thekamercury7150
    @thekamercury7150 5 лет назад

    this

  • @clarionphilips2556
    @clarionphilips2556 4 года назад

    Speak English