Yo Todd, Can you go deeper in the system about alpha traits in social groups? I'm very good at "1 on 1" but when it comes to groups wether it's new friends/co-workers I just feel like I lose myself and I don't really know what I'm doing.. I will happily pay for an extra package about how to truly stand out as an alpha within a group, the do and don't, how to express yourself in a relatable way.
Yes !! And can you also clarify if alpha traits are relevant in differents types of interractions ? For us to know if we need to developp alpha traits or how to fit perfectly in social situations.Thank you todd and take care. V. Ps : if you didnt buy the system. you've wasted a major opportunity in the whole PUA community.
I think in social scenes you just keep expressing the best version of you and they will be attracted. Dont flirt but you can tease and banter and challenge and talk real. Talk funny talk serious. And choose which one you want to game. Do a cold read to show premise. Ask her to hangout juat the two of you get to know her deeper then when connection is made escalate.
So crucial to game and as Todd said "so misunderstood"! This is like learning how to ride a bicycle - not leaning too much to the right or left, but keeping the balance right in the middle.
On one hand, this is just a simple change in definition. On the other hand, it's the thing I've seen solve more game sticking points than any other... so I think it's rather important. Watch the video and decide for yourself, and then find out more about this concept at: systembytodd.com
Watch the video again until you nail it. It happen to me also, it was confusing but I finally got it. Intent is part of premise. Intent is a low level premise. So as a beginner, intent is a good way to start but as you progress you want to improve the way you show interest to a girl, a way that doesn't give all your power away.
This is why I like todd. These concepts are almost like math, where i actually have to wrap my head around it for a while before I truly understand. Really feels like I'm expanding my mind.
I feel like a hot girl. Girls who love me I get board with and the ones who don't I plot my way to sleep with them. The girl I've felt the most attraction for ever would would tell me she hated me. It works! :)
Hey, thanks for putting in the hard work and paving the way to make it easier for us. QUESTION: when will you and your crew create a podcast? You can start by taking the audio of your video and making that into a podcast.
Hey Todd, I just want to say that I've been following your content for about a year now and just your free stuff is amazing and I feel like I've come along way from where I was a year ago. Your definitely the most solid PUA in game. I want to make a suggestion for this RUclips channel because i noticed that you have two of them. One where you post infields which is amazing because seeing the infield visually definitely helps us learn out sticking points. But for this channel, since your just answering questions on Game Theory, I was thinking it would be a great idea to create a podcast. Unfortunately, I find myself much more busy with work and a business I just started on the side and no longer have time to watch all the videos. If you had a podcast, it would be great because I could listen to your content in the morning when I'm making breakfast, on the way to work or at the gym. If there are subscribers who want Todd to create a podcast, give your feedback, send messages, like the post. Keep on husltin'! Josh.
Would love to see you break down beginner/intermediate/advanced by the numbers! Rather than always by the behaviors and skills/principles that are associated with those levels B/c it’s hard to self appraise with such qualitative measures
From millions of simulations on a computer. I've noticed that once your talking to a girl, she pretty much knows your showing intention. Then she's working out whether its for a ONS, friendship or marriage.
Hey Todd: Can you elaborate on this topic that I am seeing in the pickup community quite a bit. Note: I do not mean to offend anyone with my question, it is just something that i have been seeing. What do you think about " western guys" moving to developing countries ( Most commonly South America and Eastern Europe) to practice game. Usually it seems if a guy somewhat knows the culture and the language, he is able to have more success with women than locals. It is almost as if he doesn't have to work as hard because he is a foreigner and might be seen as having a higher social value. Pros and Cons?
Todd the idea of “ premise” would be to further the “ tent value once intent has been clearly established. Another words; “ here’s what I have in mind for both of us this evening{Navy- lol} , here’s why” all “ Premise “ is , expanding on original intent which then allows the flirting{ &/or-teasing to beginning in the set. Right or wrong lol ??
Hi Todd, it seems that a recent video of yours, "Why Cold Approach Is A Cheat Code " was taken down. I thought there was alot of value in that video and was wondering if you would reupload it. Thanks as always for the great content!
How to maintain a leading frame in a foreign city when you're travelling. I'd imagine you'd have a lot of experience with this doing bootcamps. It's tough to not default to the 'this is your city, I'm just a guest who doesn't really know where the cool spots are' when bouncing to venues / setting up Day 2's etc.
showing intent is honesty not only honesty but it is objective ive always showed intent but not so much where i use most of my energy. anyone who uses objective-reality to pick up girls cant loose playing like ur not that into her is avoiding reality just be honest and everything will fit into place
Beginner question. Can it be useful to make of game of rejection? Not like intentionally trying to get rejected, but being kind of eager to see where and how it happens in a set, kind of like a murder mystery, and as a process of elimination/prediction in gaining reference experience. And using that internal game to approach in a playful mood where you're more willing to escalate verbally/physically. Maybe almost internally daring her to reject you, even if that ultimately comes after sex or from yourself. Is that even a workable frame, at least for a beginner?
It's always about rejection her slightly, she never wins you over completely, but not rejecting her per se, more so the act of sex from occuring. Escalation + qualifier
Mikki Mouse I'm only suggesting it as a mindset to make the blowouts a win, while practicing real skills. Isn't there equal value in learning what not to do as there is learning what to do?
Hey Todd love your stuff about premise and intent. A question though, how does one transition showing disinterest into sleeping with a girl within this same frame? At some point it's going to become pretty hard to hide that you are actually interested. Do you have to hold this somewhat 'push' frame until she's absolutely determined in her mind that she will convince you to have sex, and be yourself somewhat unconvinced right up until the very moment? And how does this affect things such as inviting her back to your place? i.e If I wasn't that interested why would I invite her along?
Hey Todd, thanks so much for the great content you´re putting out! What are your tips or recomendations for opening foreing girls or just doing game in countries that don´t speak english
In short: showing interest gives power. Premise is also showing interest, but by taking power from her through teasing, disqualifying, etc. (BOTH DISPLAY MAN-WOMAN INTERACTION!).
Todd, can you make a video on what to do when you're in a set with a high caliber girl (nightgame), you keep throwing your game and she simply doesn't react very much nor flirts back, but at the same time keeps smiling and doesn't leave you? It happened to me a couple of times and I reach a point where I have no idea what's happening and I don't know what to do. It's very intiguing. Specific story: Last time I open the set with a friend (2-2), I flirt and play my game with my girl, she smiles but does not flirt back and doesn't give big reactions to me. I try to escalate physically, she is OK with it but kind of pushes back a little bit. When I say more polarizing stuff she stays non-reactive. I eventually reached a point where I gave up because it seemed to go nowhere, but at the same time I was intrigued because she stayed all the time and I was the one leaving. My friend was with her friend and kind of in the same situation as me, but at least he could kiss his girl.
Hey Todd, love the channel and love that you're back doing your own thing the way you want to do it. Recently I was out talking to a girl I knew who was flirting with another guy. Thing is I wanted her for my self. They weren't in a relationship, but alas, he got the girl and not me, Any tips for what to do when another guy is showing interest in the same girl you're interested in?
Rick Sinclair step in the conversation and only acknowledge the guy if the girl does so. Game the girl 90% and the guy 10%, if she acknowledges him, if she doesn't, pretend he isn't there, be the less reactive and the last dick standing
I would like to know more about meeting with a girls parents. Whether to agree to meet them or disagree. Also, if I am meeting them, things to do/say and dont do/dont say. It tends to happen a lot with guys and girls that they like and or vice versa.
Premise and frame is essentially the same thing. But premise is more like the underlying assumption while frame is the structure of the interaction, or the dynamic that dictates the interaction which also carries a subtext of a romantic narrative. On my view.
Todd i have a very major recurring problem : Say you start talking to a girl that have no interest in you , she is cold unresponsive or when you ask her to qualify herself she doesn't care what should we do ?
Be busier doing other things that will add to your overall confidence and skill in game. You’re probably burned out because you’re getting the same results and not improving
ben buckingham In game, qualifying happens when the girl is trying to justify herself, or better yet, make u perceive her in a better way. And they mostly do it to try to receive your validation, glad if I helped
how many tries does it take you to pull in a normal day game or night game? I'm not sure what would be a realistic number/percentage for advanced game.
Premise... Is "implied" intent. Intent is a baldfaced statement of interest. Premise is a statement that has, embedded within it, an assumption that includes intent. Intent = you are beautiful (Direct) Premise = there are some beauty pageants that I bet you'd do well in. (I'm thinking about your appearance, and think you are pretty) Premise with push pull = if you had a button nose, I'm pretty sure you'd get into every club in town for free (I'm thinking about your appearance, I think you are pretty, but I'm not fully sold on you being the hottest girl ever)
Todd it is my understanding that once the experience lol is over, there is “ no” follow-up phone calls{or text} thanking the girls for it. How do you feel about that???
What about the divorced girls? I just tried for a few months now to hook up with a divorced girl. She shows that she likes my presence, she talks to me everytime, but she can't offer me more. I tried to escalate a little bit as much as I could do it, but it didn't work and after I just went on being the very nice guy and play it safe. This strategy isn't going anywhere, what's your advice?
How would you go about texting a girl that either you met, kinda talked to, but haven't talked to in a while or a girl that you maybe were friends or acquaintances but just haven't talked to in a while? Like how would you message her to get back to the point where it isn't weird and it doesn't seem like you are suddenly coming out of nowhere so you can then proceed as normal?
todd, you spoke about the girls being really nervous around you sometimes. It happened that the girl was really centered and wasn't confortable with that relation. i showed intent and gave the power to her so she would be more confortable. can you talk a little about how to build confort without needing to show intent?
it goes the same way for guys. I feel more interested in putting effort to a woman that's challenging rather than an easy girl I know I can get any day.
This is the most important thing in game. I can't think of anything more crucial than this. That being said, what is the key to being a master of premise vs intent?
SeouL the key of being master of *premise* is knowing how to set the dynamic, subtly. Not overtly sexual or too indirect but finding the sweet spot. Knowing when to push, listening to those cues throughout the process. That's why premise is not a beginner thing. *Intent:* on the other hand is a concept reserved exclusively for those who have trouble establishing the men-female dynamic(the guys who have half-hour conversations to nowhere, to be rejected as nice guys), so it is advised for them to basically be direct and hope for the best(because that's the first hurdle). Assume high value, and if their frame is persistent enough and/or the woman is lower in social value then it is likely that things will proceed well. You are welcome
I don’t agree, Todd said it himself in one of his videos. Premise = Masculine + Feminine The fact that you are asking the question means that you haven’t fully tapped into your core/ center of gravity/ masculinity Once you find your center of gravity you will find your masculinity, and once you find your masculinity many doors will open my friend
The funny thing is: my saying I'm interested only means literally that. If they say yes to a date, it doesn't mean I'll still be interested after the first date, or the 4th.
What is the best way to establish a premise if you've already met the girl several times (for other reasons) and you missed the opportunity to do that initially?
Note that you're not in the friend zone yet (you're not friends at all), but you simply didn't work on premise initially, for whatever reasons. How do you recover from that initial mistake?
To get the top hottest best women you basically have to "pitch a perfect game". One wrong move like showing too much intent too early and you are done for.
This is great advice. I know now 20/20 that this is true and a big thing I was doing wrong. I'd be with a hot girl having fun just hanging out getting to know. As soon as I showed that I liked her and really wanted her and acted like she was a prize. She would flake or all of a sudden fuck some other guy. Then the B would have the nerve to tell you that she just didn't want to ruin your friendship and didn't think of you like that. But now just wants to be your friend for favors and someone to be their emotional tampon. F that!!! They will never do you any solids. However they will act like they are entitled to your loyalty and honesty and friendship. I'm good just go away then. I thought you were a prize but not anymore.
Hey Todd!There is a girl and I think she really likes me but for no reason she hits me lot with punches even for little stupid things..and it hurts..tell me how to deal with this..
Can you explain how to behave with girl who we slept already and want to sleep a few more times without start serious relationship.1st how to tell her i want to have sex with her not relationship ,should we give her more validation, like more pure compliments and less push- pulls,should we again start text her like first time before we slept or be more direct and tell her i want to do it again,should we spike her emotions or just vibe with her.
Rico 497 I had this situation happened to me a couple weeks ago. Here is how I go about it, reward her by being physicall aswell and when she is kind'a stopping with the scalation, pull her away
Thank you for your method. Sometimes, some girls who escalate, do not qualify or disqualifies you, just for the shit-test. They may be interested at an emotional level but not yet at a logical level. That's how I understand this paradox.
He should be noted however Todd that Owen has said “ I love you” on set BEFORE tent has been given clearly established. Direct contradiction to what you teach. Please explain.
i think when owen says that infield he is saying it in an absurd, non needy way...todd is describing a situation where guys say "i love you" in a obvious/needy/giving away your power way
PETER CECCARELLI one single thing isnt going to make the girl uninterested. Eliminate these easy weaknesses discussed in the videos and make your game stronger little by little. Also comfortable guys who have natural game will say and do things that are big “no-no’s” in game, but they make it work because it’s congruent with who they really are. It matches what they’ve said and done so far in front of the girl. Similarly, Some of the magic lines that pull for other guys may not work for everyone because it sends a red flag to the girl if it doesn’t match what you have said and done so far. Girls are basically designed and groomed to look signs in bullshit guys. Even 5s get approached all the time. they can pick out a lame dude really quickly.
How can i be percieved as a sexual dude instead of a little friendly non-sexual nice guy? I try getting physical but the physicality feels like it’s missing something (most likely sexual energy) and it just comes off as this very robotic thing that i’m doing for the sole purpose of following the right game rules.
Eventually it's all about calibration in real time. When you are with a girl, you get ideas of what you want to do that will work. It's never black or white.
Intent : showing interest in the girl , good it show intent man to a woman but it’s bad cus it gives your power away. premise : give the idea man to a woman but avoid giving your power away. Not telling direkt that hey i like you, kind of showing disinterest in playful way. if it goes to somewhere it will be man to man and almost sex will be involved.
Hey Todd If you want to become successful with women in night game, do you have to pay hundreds of dollars for drinks and food? Because there's nothing that turns me off more than a gold digger, and don't get me wrong I don't have a problem to pay, but sometimes it's too much..... Thanks in advance
Yo Todd, Can you go deeper in the system about alpha traits in social groups?
I'm very good at "1 on 1" but when it comes to groups wether it's new friends/co-workers I just feel like I lose myself and I don't really know what I'm doing..
I will happily pay for an extra package about how to truly stand out as an alpha within a group, the do and don't, how to express yourself in a relatable way.
Yes !! And can you also clarify if alpha traits are relevant in differents types of interractions ? For us to know if we need to developp alpha traits or how to fit perfectly in social situations.Thank you todd and take care. V.
Ps : if you didnt buy the system. you've wasted a major opportunity in the whole PUA community.
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I think in social scenes you just keep expressing the best version of you and they will be attracted. Dont flirt but you can tease and banter and challenge and talk real. Talk funny talk serious. And choose which one you want to game. Do a cold read to show premise. Ask her to hangout juat the two of you get to know her deeper then when connection is made escalate.
So crucial to game and as Todd said "so misunderstood"! This is like learning how to ride a bicycle - not leaning too much to the right or left, but keeping the balance right in the middle.
On one hand, this is just a simple change in definition. On the other hand, it's the thing I've seen solve more game sticking points than any other... so I think it's rather important. Watch the video and decide for yourself, and then find out more about this concept at: systembytodd.com
Damn this difference is really difficult to grasp. It looks like it's an art more than a science
Watch the video again until you nail it. It happen to me also, it was confusing but I finally got it. Intent is part of premise. Intent is a low level premise. So as a beginner, intent is a good way to start but as you progress you want to improve the way you show interest to a girl, a way that doesn't give all your power away.
That's why we're called pickup *artists*
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Premise: Hot guy I'm going to sleep with
Intent: Meh guy with whom the prospect of sex is unappealing
Well, as mentalists, we can differentiate between these social concepts
This is why I like todd. These concepts are almost like math, where i actually have to wrap my head around it for a while before I truly understand. Really feels like I'm expanding my mind.
Pls release “eliminating leveling behavior” video on The System already!! It’s been long enough.
I feel like a hot girl. Girls who love me I get board with and the ones who don't I plot my way to sleep with them. The girl I've felt the most attraction for ever would would tell me she hated me. It works! :)
Hey, thanks for putting in the hard work and paving the way to make it easier for us.
QUESTION: when will you and your crew create a podcast? You can start by taking the audio of your video and making that into a podcast.
Hey Todd,
I just want to say that I've been following your content for about a year now and just your free stuff is amazing and I feel like I've come along way from where I was a year ago. Your definitely the most solid PUA in game. I want to make a suggestion for this RUclips channel because i noticed that you have two of them. One where you post infields which is amazing because seeing the infield visually definitely helps us learn out sticking points. But for this channel, since your just answering questions on Game Theory, I was thinking it would be a great idea to create a podcast. Unfortunately, I find myself much more busy with work and a business I just started on the side and no longer have time to watch all the videos. If you had a podcast, it would be great because I could listen to your content in the morning when I'm making breakfast, on the way to work or at the gym. If there are subscribers who want Todd to create a podcast, give your feedback, send messages, like the post.
Keep on husltin'!
Josh.
Would love to see you break down beginner/intermediate/advanced by the numbers! Rather than always by the behaviors and skills/principles that are associated with those levels
B/c it’s hard to self appraise with such qualitative measures
From millions of simulations on a computer. I've noticed that once your talking to a girl, she pretty much knows your showing intention. Then she's working out whether its for a ONS, friendship or marriage.
Todd, is it okay to seek external validation to feel good about yourself, and where is the right place to get your sense of self-worth?
What do you think about statements of empathy? Also how would you give one?
Hey Todd: Can you elaborate on this topic that I am seeing in the pickup community quite a bit.
Note: I do not mean to offend anyone with my question, it is just something that i have been seeing.
What do you think about " western guys" moving to developing countries ( Most commonly South America and Eastern Europe) to practice game. Usually it seems if a guy somewhat knows the culture and the language, he is able to have more success with women than locals. It is almost as if he doesn't have to work as hard because he is a foreigner and might be seen as having a higher social value. Pros and Cons?
What are you top 5 books and how can it help someone ?
Dude, I love your content however this vid s confused the shit out of me. Would you elaborate on this or make it clearer? Thanks
Todd the idea of “ premise” would be to further the “ tent value once intent has been clearly established. Another words; “ here’s what I have in mind for both of us this evening{Navy- lol} , here’s why” all “ Premise “ is , expanding on original intent which then allows the flirting{ &/or-teasing to beginning in the set. Right or wrong lol ??
Hi Todd, it seems that a recent video of yours, "Why Cold Approach Is A Cheat Code " was taken down. I thought there was alot of value in that video and was wondering if you would reupload it. Thanks as always for the great content!
How to maintain a leading frame in a foreign city when you're travelling.
I'd imagine you'd have a lot of experience with this doing bootcamps. It's tough to not default to the 'this is your city, I'm just a guest who doesn't really know where the cool spots are' when bouncing to venues / setting up Day 2's etc.
How else can you set the right premise without showing too much intent besides push-pull?
showing intent is honesty not only honesty but it is objective ive always showed intent but not so much where i use most of my energy. anyone who uses objective-reality to pick up girls cant loose playing like ur not that into her is avoiding reality just be honest and everything will fit into place
It would be nice to have an exemple of a premise sentence !
QUESTION: how important is having platonic attractive female/women friends to improving your game?
Beginner question. Can it be useful to make of game of rejection? Not like intentionally trying to get rejected, but being kind of eager to see where and how it happens in a set, kind of like a murder mystery, and as a process of elimination/prediction in gaining reference experience. And using that internal game to approach in a playful mood where you're more willing to escalate verbally/physically. Maybe almost internally daring her to reject you, even if that ultimately comes after sex or from yourself.
Is that even a workable frame, at least for a beginner?
It's always about rejection her slightly, she never wins you over completely, but not rejecting her per se, more so the act of sex from occuring. Escalation + qualifier
Mikki Mouse
I'm only suggesting it as a mindset to make the blowouts a win, while practicing real skills. Isn't there equal value in learning what not to do as there is learning what to do?
Hello, Todd. How you stay active during the night? It's very hard for me because I usually sleep during this time.
Hey Todd love your stuff about premise and intent. A question though, how does one transition showing disinterest into sleeping with a girl within this same frame? At some point it's going to become pretty hard to hide that you are actually interested. Do you have to hold this somewhat 'push' frame until she's absolutely determined in her mind that she will convince you to have sex, and be yourself somewhat unconvinced right up until the very moment? And how does this affect things such as inviting her back to your place? i.e If I wasn't that interested why would I invite her along?
Hey Todd, thanks so much for the great content you´re putting out!
What are your tips or recomendations for opening foreing girls or just doing game in countries that don´t speak english
In short: showing interest gives power. Premise is also showing interest, but by taking power from her through teasing, disqualifying, etc. (BOTH DISPLAY MAN-WOMAN INTERACTION!).
Todd, can you make a video on what to do when you're in a set with a high caliber girl (nightgame), you keep throwing your game and she simply doesn't react very much nor flirts back, but at the same time keeps smiling and doesn't leave you? It happened to me a couple of times and I reach a point where I have no idea what's happening and I don't know what to do. It's very intiguing.
Specific story: Last time I open the set with a friend (2-2), I flirt and play my game with my girl, she smiles but does not flirt back and doesn't give big reactions to me. I try to escalate physically, she is OK with it but kind of pushes back a little bit. When I say more polarizing stuff she stays non-reactive. I eventually reached a point where I gave up because it seemed to go nowhere, but at the same time I was intrigued because she stayed all the time and I was the one leaving. My friend was with her friend and kind of in the same situation as me, but at least he could kiss his girl.
Hey Todd, love the channel and love that you're back doing your own thing the way you want to do it.
Recently I was out talking to a girl I knew who was flirting with another guy. Thing is I wanted her for my self. They weren't in a relationship, but alas, he got the girl and not me, Any tips for what to do when another guy is showing interest in the same girl you're interested in?
Rick Sinclair step in the conversation and only acknowledge the guy if the girl does so. Game the girl 90% and the guy 10%, if she acknowledges him, if she doesn't, pretend he isn't there, be the less reactive and the last dick standing
Here for the Venn diagram
I would like to know more about meeting with a girls parents. Whether to agree to meet them or disagree. Also, if I am meeting them, things to do/say and dont do/dont say. It tends to happen a lot with guys and girls that they like and or vice versa.
In terms of being Entertaining vs Polarizing. Which one will help you attract the girls who have better game than you do?
Premise and frame is essentially the same thing. But premise is more like the underlying assumption while frame is the structure of the interaction, or the dynamic that dictates the interaction which also carries a subtext of a romantic narrative. On my view.
White genocide....Lol wtf?
SeouL you didn't get it? Or you don't like the response
My bad that was overtly complicated
No no, you gave a wonderful answer. Just your user name ID haha
SeouL I see you often in comments, out of all people.
Of course, to engage with others.
Todd i have a very major recurring problem :
Say you start talking to a girl that have no interest in you , she is cold unresponsive or when you ask her to qualify herself she doesn't care what should we do ?
How to avoid Daygame burn out?
Be busier doing other things that will add to your overall confidence and skill in game. You’re probably burned out because you’re getting the same results and not improving
So important!
Hey Todd, how would you cater your game when at a dive bar? Say there was only one attractive woman and the other 10 or so people were male.
What is the difference between qualifying and validation?
ben buckingham In game, qualifying happens when the girl is trying to justify herself, or better yet, make u perceive her in a better way. And they mostly do it to try to receive your validation, glad if I helped
how many tries does it take you to pull in a normal day game or night game? I'm not sure what would be a realistic number/percentage for advanced game.
Premise... Is "implied" intent.
Intent is a baldfaced statement of interest.
Premise is a statement that has, embedded within it, an assumption that includes intent.
Intent = you are beautiful
(Direct)
Premise = there are some beauty pageants that I bet you'd do well in.
(I'm thinking about your appearance, and think you are pretty)
Premise with push pull = if you had a button nose, I'm pretty sure you'd get into every club in town for free
(I'm thinking about your appearance, I think you are pretty, but I'm not fully sold on you being the hottest girl ever)
Thanks dude for great explanation. Can you do the same for difference between premise and frame ?
How do you show premise during night game? Crowded loud nightclub for example
Todd it is my understanding that once the experience lol is over, there is “ no” follow-up phone calls{or text} thanking the girls for it. How do you feel about that???
short and amazing. thank you todd
有前提的表達意圖 跟 直接 表達意圖 有何不同 ?
表達意圖 代表 你和女生說 你對她有興趣 代表你會想和她約會 上床
直接表達意圖 ，像是你很可愛，你是我喜歡的類型
會有一個風險是你會把你的框架交出來給對方
對比較高價值的女生來說，這樣會很快讓對方對你失去興趣
這樣會讓女生覺得她不用做甚麼就能得到你
有前提的表達意圖 是讓女生不確定你對她是有興趣 還是 沒興趣
像是我喜歡你 但有時候我也有點討厭你
要是你沒那麼呆的話 我可能會喜歡你
兩種不同的表達意圖方式會影響你認識女生的數量 素質
初學者一般就是學習如何直接表達意圖
但進階學習的話，就是要做有前提的表達意圖
What about the divorced girls? I just tried for a few months now to hook up with a divorced girl. She shows that she likes my presence, she talks to me everytime, but she can't offer me more. I tried to escalate a little bit as much as I could do it, but it didn't work and after I just went on being the very nice guy and play it safe. This strategy isn't going anywhere, what's your advice?
How would you go about texting a girl that either you met, kinda talked to, but haven't talked to in a while or a girl that you maybe were friends or acquaintances but just haven't talked to in a while? Like how would you message her to get back to the point where it isn't weird and it doesn't seem like you are suddenly coming out of nowhere so you can then proceed as normal?
You should definitely invest in Todd's program, it'll change your life. This key distinction of the intent versus premise totally changed my game!!
todd, you spoke about the girls being really nervous around you sometimes. It happened that the girl was really centered and wasn't confortable with that relation. i showed intent and gave the power to her so she would be more confortable. can you talk a little about how to build confort without needing to show intent?
Very insightful question. What answer did you arrive at?
@@FlowPhase1 Just being corfortable and slow down is enough haha, who would guess
it goes the same way for guys. I feel more interested in putting effort to a woman that's challenging rather than an easy girl I know I can get any day.
This is the most important thing in game. I can't think of anything more crucial than this.
That being said, what is the key to being a master of premise vs intent?
SeouL the key of being master of *premise* is knowing how to set the dynamic, subtly. Not overtly sexual or too indirect but finding the sweet spot. Knowing when to push, listening to those cues throughout the process. That's why premise is not a beginner thing.
*Intent:* on the other hand is a concept reserved exclusively for those who have trouble establishing the men-female dynamic(the guys who have half-hour conversations to nowhere, to be rejected as nice guys), so it is advised for them to basically be direct and hope for the best(because that's the first hurdle). Assume high value, and if their frame is persistent enough and/or the woman is lower in social value then it is likely that things will proceed well.
You are welcome
Thank you
I don’t agree, Todd said it himself in one of his videos. Premise = Masculine + Feminine
The fact that you are asking the question means that you haven’t fully tapped into your core/ center of gravity/ masculinity
Once you find your center of gravity you will find your masculinity, and once you find your masculinity many doors will open my friend
What is the best way to build perceived value? Please add examples
The funny thing is: my saying I'm interested only means literally that. If they say yes to a date, it doesn't mean I'll still be interested after the first date, or the 4th.
Where can I ask you questions?
What is the best way to establish a premise if you've already met the girl several times (for other reasons) and you missed the opportunity to do that initially?
Note that you're not in the friend zone yet (you're not friends at all), but you simply didn't work on premise initially, for whatever reasons. How do you recover from that initial mistake?
Hello Todd. How is it in terms of efficiency to try get women who might be married or have boyfriend and how to make path toward sex more possible?
How do you show no intent when asking for numbers?
QUESTION: Is it possible to do humor without getting into your head? (As getting into your head = Tracking your own thought processes)
i think the word you're looking for is "every comedian in the world"
To get the top hottest best women you basically have to "pitch a perfect game". One wrong move like showing too much intent too early and you are done for.
Could you make a video on how to respond to and turn around a rejection.
Todd is definitely the textbook of game.
How the hell do you open a random girl without showing intent. You cant start a convo with push pull
Can you use this in text messages?
This is great advice. I know now 20/20 that this is true and a big thing I was doing wrong. I'd be with a hot girl having fun just hanging out getting to know. As soon as I showed that I liked her and really wanted her and acted like she was a prize. She would flake or all of a sudden fuck some other guy. Then the B would have the nerve to tell you that she just didn't want to ruin your friendship and didn't think of you like that. But now just wants to be your friend for favors and someone to be their emotional tampon. F that!!! They will never do you any solids. However they will act like they are entitled to your loyalty and honesty and friendship. I'm good just go away then. I thought you were a prize but not anymore.
hi todd , how can you pull a girl properly in order for her to chase you?
Hey Todd!There is a girl and I think she really likes me but for no reason she hits me lot with punches even for little stupid things..and it hurts..tell me how to deal with this..
Shes fiesty
How long do you recommend to wait before proposing a second date to a girl, if you did not have sex on the first date?
Can you explain how to behave with girl who we slept already and want to sleep a few more times without start serious relationship.1st how to tell her i want to have sex with her not relationship ,should we give her more validation, like more pure compliments and less push- pulls,should we again start text her like first time before we slept or be more direct and tell her i want to do it again,should we spike her emotions or just vibe with her.
How to manage girls who act in opposition to the principles of the System ? Example: she does not qualify verbally but she escalates at the same time.
Rico 497 I had this situation happened to me a couple weeks ago. Here is how I go about it, reward her by being physicall aswell and when she is kind'a stopping with the scalation, pull her away
Thank you for your method. Sometimes, some girls who escalate, do not qualify or disqualifies you, just for the shit-test. They may be interested at an emotional level but not yet at a logical level. That's how I understand this paradox.
Todd how do you know if your giving a girl to much s*** or to many challenges to jump through, if the girl is 9 or 10
How to create big amounts of investment and let her chase you.. i can't find decent information about this
Can you talk about the differemce of gaming older and younger women.
Social circle?
He should be noted however Todd that Owen has said “ I love you” on set BEFORE tent has been given clearly established. Direct contradiction to what you teach. Please explain.
i think when owen says that infield he is saying it in an absurd, non needy way...todd is describing a situation where guys say "i love you" in a obvious/needy/giving away your power way
PETER CECCARELLI one single thing isnt going to make the girl uninterested. Eliminate these easy weaknesses discussed in the videos and make your game stronger little by little. Also comfortable guys who have natural game will say and do things that are big “no-no’s” in game, but they make it work because it’s congruent with who they really are. It matches what they’ve said and done so far in front of the girl. Similarly, Some of the magic lines that pull for other guys may not work for everyone because it sends a red flag to the girl if it doesn’t match what you have said and done so far. Girls are basically designed and groomed to look signs in bullshit guys. Even 5s get approached all the time. they can pick out a lame dude really quickly.
@@mixologistrobertcarnes797 5s get approached?
we must live in diff universes bro
@@justagenosfan Lol that’s cold. I get what you’re saying, but I was saying even a 5 can pick out the BS.
How do you tell a Good DHV story without coming Across as tryhard or Bragging?
Hey Todd, what are some of your worst experiences in your game journey?
How can i be percieved as a sexual dude instead of a little friendly non-sexual nice guy? I try getting physical but the physicality feels like it’s missing something (most likely sexual energy) and it just comes off as this very robotic thing that i’m doing for the sole purpose of following the right game rules.
what matters the most in the first 10-20 second in the interaction ?
Yes
can u give us a "std 101" .. whenever i make out with a girl i always have that shit in the back of my mind :S
How do you tell a Good DHV story?
Opening to group situations and engaging the whole group before taking the girl who I want 1 on 1?
Todd, how would you go about with an attractive girl that you see at a street without going to direct?
i have this problem a lot i want to fix it.
Eventually it's all about calibration in real time. When you are with a girl, you get ideas of what you want to do that will work. It's never black or white.
What To Say When She Says "I Have A Boyfriend"
Just move on cuz thats a rejection
"Thats cool , lets just be friends then"
No, it may be a shit test.
Say " he can keep busy when you're not with me"
Say it like James Bond would, conveying that the other guy is less of a catch than yourself
lets say i fucked up somehow and lost some power and the girl uses that against me is it normal or i should be 100% dominant all the fucking time
She says I love you first 6 months into the relationship. Isn't this a bit dogmatic? Can you please make a video on this topic. Thank you.
Intent : showing interest in the girl , good it show intent man to a woman but it’s bad cus it gives your power away.
premise : give the idea man to a woman but avoid giving your power away. Not telling direkt that hey i like you, kind of showing disinterest in playful way. if it goes to somewhere it will be man to man and almost sex will be involved.
What about having 100% intent in the way you say it? Not in what you say? You are my Jesus
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Can “Fuck you for being so cute" be a push pull if said in the right way?
I facepalmed throughout the whole video as I made every single mistake he mentions, oh man...
what will you do differently now
By this logic Justin Wayne would be a beginner, yet has hotter girlfriends than Todd...
Palladium.
Hey Todd
If you want to become successful with women in night game, do you have to pay hundreds of dollars for drinks and food? Because there's nothing that turns me off more than a gold digger, and don't get me wrong I don't have a problem to pay, but sometimes it's too much.....
Thanks in advance
The thing is how in a very limited conversation Environment
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Change the thumbnail for this one man hahaha
Hey you got a follow from me today
Todd, your videos are pretty good.. but they'd be AMAZING if....... : P
j/k, they're really good
they'd be AMAZING if you stopped commenting on them
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