When a woman continually overworks herself for her family with little or no support from her partner, exhaustion is inevitable. How long can anyone sustain such a load? Some women have even lost their lives due to the toll of fatigue and stress. This can be a valid reason for divorce, as it may allow her the rest she needs to rejuvenate and face each day with renewed strength (in Brandon’s words ‘when there will be no man to lift her pants’). Many men will simply chillax while the woman handles the household chores-even when she’s contributing 50/50 financially. And yes, Brandon, there are plenty of “tics” out there. Very interesting topic guys. 30 minutes over small for discussion this topic. 😂
I feel like women need men to be emotionally available, if we are in a relationship and have children we both need to do alot together. A man can also clean his home ,help his woman in the kitchen as well as take part physically, emotionally in the lives of their children. Communication is key. Every couple should be to adapt to situations and circumstances that will work for them both❤❤❤well done. I feel like we need a part 2🎉
I agree with Zina. In Africa we have access to family who can help the lady to take care of babies and home. they can easily share their issues. But when they go abroad that lady is stripped off that support. Hence the mans mindset is to change and support the wife since they have to work in proving for the family. But Men mostly don't shift their African mindset of "the woman is meant to take care of the home and everything". Secondly women are made to stay quiet in Africa and hence they stomach a lot of pain and maltreatment. complaining and the family will say its marriage support. But the western world has given these ladies and outlet and an option to leave. One mistake and she lets the anger surface and she acts accordingly. its a two way thing
"Unmet expectations are the mother of resentments" Walking in expecting one thing or another from your partner is bound to cause frustration. Walk in with principles and values that apply to you both is how life-long commitment happens. If you not fit drive the car, wear the cap🤣🤣🤣
There are situations where women are abusive toward their husbands or partners, but the rate of men abusing their wives or partners is notably higher. Often, a woman will choose to leave for her peace of mind. And Zina, let me just add: “What will people think? People will laugh at us! The devil is a liar; don’t bring shame upon us!” That is what parents will tell their children to keep them in an abusive relationship. We need more time to discuss this topic fully. Times have changed, and women are more aware and empowered. It’s not our fault that we now understand how we deserve to be treated.
I beg Brandon can you let Zina finish her point before interjecting.... I di loss train of tough then di go back and forth... Maybe I am just slow 😂😂... That aside comminuication is key to every relationship and although some Women have taken this to sn extreme, I think it is time that our Men learn how to lead... Great leaders lead by example ie actions and in my opinion the leading us not just financially (There is Spiritual, emotional, intellectual and Physically) Okay let us alm start to do the work and be Accountable.... Love the podcast
Most men are of the view that a woman should be the one to do everything at home Gone are those days Most women now are working class and so just imagine if a woman has to go to work and do everything at home.Just this fatigue can damage a woman's health due to inadequate time to rest.
Mama see ehh, I am not saying that you are wrong in any way but with the way women have made it in today's world a lot of guys are scared to get married. They'd rather have baby mamas than settle. Let her stay with her family. Even in the Africa, it's the same thing. Guys don't want to get married because they'll lose. Happy wife happy home. Imagine it was happy husband, happy home, all the gistic will be out there
The narrative is that women are bad and i get it. We all just look at the end action not the root of the problem. Most women are reacting to things they have endured from men thus it would seem as if women are bad for doing doing things. Let's just pause for a minute and ask ourselves sometimes, what did the man do to the woman?
@@todaysdiary01A black woman that calls the police and authorities on her husband is a wrong candidate for marriage. As long as a man does not physically assault his husband then there’s no need to call the police and authorities…, this is one thing they don’t understand
@@Michael.P247 Calling the police is not good but remember that abuse is not only physical... there is financial, emotional and spiritual abuse (this goes both ways) and much like some men do not want to acknowledge they do not satisfy their partners physical needs (I mean in the bedrooom) and do not make attempts to make it better
My dear all these forms of abuse you mentioned happen in relationships (not good, they’re part of what being with someone entails) both from women be men. Now lemme ask you; what will calling the police 👮♀️ and authorities on your spouse do to help the situation or solve the problem? Look around you in the uk 🇬🇧….too many lone parent who were formerly married, too many single dads and single moms….are they happier? No! No person should physically assault their spouse….emotional games come with some relationships….i ain’t saying it’s right but there are no rules in the game of love….you protect yourself in way best for you. The situation is very bad among Africans in the uk 🇬🇧….. @franka
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When a woman continually overworks herself for her family with little or no support from her partner, exhaustion is inevitable. How long can anyone sustain such a load? Some women have even lost their lives due to the toll of fatigue and stress. This can be a valid reason for divorce, as it may allow her the rest she needs to rejuvenate and face each day with renewed strength (in Brandon’s words ‘when there will be no man to lift her pants’).
Many men will simply chillax while the woman handles the household chores-even when she’s contributing 50/50 financially. And yes, Brandon, there are plenty of “tics” out there.
Very interesting topic guys. 30 minutes over small for discussion this topic. 😂
Wow!!. This is superb!!
thank you
I feel like women need men to be emotionally available, if we are in a relationship and have children we both need to do alot together. A man can also clean his home ,help his woman in the kitchen as well as take part physically, emotionally in the lives of their children. Communication is key. Every couple should be to adapt to situations and circumstances that will work for them both❤❤❤well done. I feel like we need a part 2🎉
Well spoken.💯
Good job guys. This is an amazing piece but African men try to support us oo😂
we love our African men
I agree with Zina. In Africa we have access to family who can help the lady to take care of babies and home. they can easily share their issues. But when they go abroad that lady is stripped off that support. Hence the mans mindset is to change and support the wife since they have to work in proving for the family. But Men mostly don't shift their African mindset of "the woman is meant to take care of the home and everything". Secondly women are made to stay quiet in Africa and hence they stomach a lot of pain and maltreatment. complaining and the family will say its marriage support. But the western world has given these ladies and outlet and an option to leave. One mistake and she lets the anger surface and she acts accordingly. its a two way thing
"Unmet expectations are the mother of resentments"
Walking in expecting one thing or another from your partner is bound to cause frustration. Walk in with principles and values that apply to you both is how life-long commitment happens.
If you not fit drive the car, wear the cap🤣🤣🤣
hahahaha .. very strong proverb
There are situations where women are abusive toward their husbands or partners, but the rate of men abusing their wives or partners is notably higher.
Often, a woman will choose to leave for her peace of mind.
And Zina, let me just add: “What will people think? People will laugh at us! The devil is a liar; don’t bring shame upon us!” That is what parents will tell their children to keep them in an abusive relationship.
We need more time to discuss this topic fully.
Times have changed, and women are more aware and empowered. It’s not our fault that we now understand how we deserve to be treated.
this insight is great, we need to bring you on for a good conversation .......
I beg Brandon can you let Zina finish her point before interjecting....
I di loss train of tough then di go back and forth... Maybe I am just slow 😂😂...
That aside comminuication is key to every relationship and although some Women have taken this to sn extreme, I think it is time that our Men learn how to lead...
Great leaders lead by example ie actions and in my opinion the leading us not just financially (There is Spiritual, emotional, intellectual and Physically)
Okay let us alm start to do the work and be Accountable....
Love the podcast
thank you ..will fix that in next episode
Most men are of the view that a woman should be the one to do everything at home Gone are those days Most women now are working class and so just imagine if a woman has to go to work and do everything at home.Just this fatigue can damage a woman's health due to inadequate time to rest.
I will buy a printer just for dollars 😂😂😂
❤amazing
thank you
@@todaysdiary01please provide an email address I can reach you on ?
Mama see ehh, I am not saying that you are wrong in any way but with the way women have made it in today's world a lot of guys are scared to get married. They'd rather have baby mamas than settle. Let her stay with her family. Even in the Africa, it's the same thing. Guys don't want to get married because they'll lose. Happy wife happy home. Imagine it was happy husband, happy home, all the gistic will be out there
The narrative is that women are bad and i get it. We all just look at the end action not the root of the problem. Most women are reacting to things they have endured from men thus it would seem as if women are bad for doing doing things. Let's just pause for a minute and ask ourselves sometimes, what did the man do to the woman?
@@todaysdiary01A black woman that calls the police and authorities on her husband is a wrong candidate for marriage. As long as a man does not physically assault his husband then there’s no need to call the police and authorities…, this is one thing they don’t understand
@@Michael.P247 Calling the police is not good but remember that abuse is not only physical... there is financial, emotional and spiritual abuse (this goes both ways) and much like some men do not want to acknowledge they do not satisfy their partners physical needs (I mean in the bedrooom) and do not make attempts to make it better
My dear all these forms of abuse you mentioned happen in relationships (not good, they’re part of what being with someone entails) both from women be men. Now lemme ask you; what will calling the police 👮♀️ and authorities on your spouse do to help the situation or solve the problem? Look around you in the uk 🇬🇧….too many lone parent who were formerly married, too many single dads and single moms….are they happier? No! No person should physically assault their spouse….emotional games come with some relationships….i ain’t saying it’s right but there are no rules in the game of love….you protect yourself in way best for you. The situation is very bad among Africans in the uk 🇬🇧…..
@franka