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  • Опубликовано: 9 июн 2022
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    A TIKTOK star’s confidence has grown thanks to her speaking challenge videos. Jessie Davies, 29, from South Wales could not speak until she was about four years old due to a delay in her speech development and this progressed into a stammer. In November last year, Jessie started sharing videos about her stammer on TikTok including ‘speaking challenge’ videos where she would put herself in situations that she found difficult such as drive-thrus and talking on the phone. She has now garnered over three million followers on TikTok and is raising awareness about speech impediments. Jessie told Truly: “I just feel I now want to be the woman I needed as a little girl.” Today, Jessie is doing a speaking challenge in her local town carrying a sign that reads ‘I have a stammer, let's talk.’ Jessie said: “Even though it is only a few words on a piece of card, I feel it is really powerful and hopefully we can spread awareness today.”
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Комментарии • 476

  • @lunamaharuni
    @lunamaharuni 2 года назад +289

    My brother is just like this woman. He's now 50 and just gets on with life. He used to carry around a notepad and pencil in his pocket to get words across. Now he mostly uses his phone if it gets really bad. It started at age 3 for him and it's never changed, the same severity of stuttering now as a child. He's married, has two children, owns his own business and is a chill dude.
    I love this woman! She rocks

  • @jdzencelowcz
    @jdzencelowcz 2 года назад +660

    I'm not a talker, so when I do talk, I do stumble; even forgetting words & phrases I've known for years. But the fact that SHE keeps going, despite having it far worse than me, pretty gutsy; cheers. \m/

    • @user-vj4ih9pp9z
      @user-vj4ih9pp9z 2 года назад

      Ggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg GOd bbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb bless yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy you

    • @omak544
      @omak544 2 года назад +11

      Honestly, ditto and it low-key scares me.

    • @hun_bee
      @hun_bee 2 года назад +10

      I do forget words too ❤️ sometimes im afraid to talk

    • @dnieto1466
      @dnieto1466 2 года назад +2

      Happens to me too sometimes

    • @jennybeanSMC
      @jennybeanSMC 2 года назад +9

      I don't have a stutter but my severe social anxiety makes my stumble with my words and I'll also have trouble finding the words I want to say. I feel like it makes people think that I am a lot less intelligent than I really am. 😕

  • @micahstealyogirlbell8010
    @micahstealyogirlbell8010 2 года назад +482

    I honestly find this so heartwarming to see her try hard, even tho she struggles she still tries and doesn’t give up, it’s so nice to see her doing her best ❤️

  • @taurussun2228
    @taurussun2228 2 года назад +379

    For the American folks a "stammer" is considered a "stutter". She's lovely 🌹

    • @jaiylahjaii
      @jaiylahjaii 2 года назад +36

      we know that

    • @apara2005
      @apara2005 2 года назад +8

      @@jaiylahjaii exactly 🙄

    • @MsLilacLover1
      @MsLilacLover1 2 года назад +15

      It's quite obvious ;)

    • @loricurbo
      @loricurbo 2 года назад +24

      We actually use stammer and stutter interchangeably. ;)

    • @LivingDeadGirl_096
      @LivingDeadGirl_096 2 года назад +11

      In the uk/ England we normally call it a stutter but stammer is the medical term for it

  • @elizabethdonahue4191
    @elizabethdonahue4191 2 года назад +202

    Aw my goodness…when she was standing there with her fiancé and they talked about being in their 12th year…
    The way she scrunched her shoulders and smiled ear to ear!!
    I want that kinda love ♥️♥️

  • @IAmSuzyQ
    @IAmSuzyQ 2 года назад +268

    HEY GIRL! We actually chatted on TikTok one day and I'm so glad to see you here on "Born Different". Stammering is what makes you STAND OUT, and screw anyone who has a problem with it; they just wish they were interesting in some way like you! 😉
    KEEP IT UP... You're awesome, strong, brave, and beautiful, and we're all here for you! 😘✌️💜

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +115

    Wow what an incredible woman. I’m so happy she found love 💜

  • @julianacromey7151
    @julianacromey7151 2 года назад +65

    She lights up with her fiance. U can tell they really love eachother. Also anyone notice how her stammer became significantly less when she was talking to him or infront of him. When she was looking at him while speaking she improved significantly. I love that they found eachother & have eachother. Many blessings to them both🥰❤

    • @estherbright7855
      @estherbright7855 Год назад +4

      Yes! I noticed! Isn't that so cool and awesome?!

    • @ttthegr8
      @ttthegr8 Год назад +1

      She's more relaxed with him. Her breathing is balanced so her words just flow.
      Notice how when her situation became a tad more stressful, everything locked in.

  • @arialstemm8316
    @arialstemm8316 2 года назад +45

    i have had a stammer since i could talk, my mum put me through speech therapy but that somehow made it worse. drive throughs have always been my worst nightmare but seeing this Gorgeous woman push through it, helped me push through it too. thankyou for just being you and sharing it with the world. youre helping more than you know!

    • @safiya1363
      @safiya1363 2 года назад +3

      Aww you’ve got this 💕

    • @sofiakathleen2354
      @sofiakathleen2354 2 года назад +5

      You can do it girl! I'm so proud of you, keep going Arial ❤❤❤

  • @realxistic
    @realxistic 2 года назад +50

    Issa glow up I see you girl. Confidence and self love is everything. 😍

  • @theclownsystem9429
    @theclownsystem9429 2 года назад +54

    She's one strong lady! I have anxiety and when I talk to people, especially someone I don't know, I forget words or I stumble or just forget altogether what we were talking about. She just keeps on trucking! I really admire her strength. I'm sure her story will inspire many people. I wish her all the best in life!

    • @jamesinameti6184
      @jamesinameti6184 Год назад

      Hahahahahaha

    • @XxxSHxxX2024
      @XxxSHxxX2024 Год назад

      This happens to me all the time, I thought I was just distracted (my anxiety telling me that)

  • @Nyimabadjie98
    @Nyimabadjie98 2 года назад +21

    Being someone who stammer I really can relate how difficult it can be sometimes.
    I'm proud of you dear.

  • @jamiedutcher1004
    @jamiedutcher1004 2 года назад +28

    I love that she stepped out of her comfort zone and has done so many public speaking events it definitely helps others who have a stutter know they aren’t alone 💕

  • @Schizophrenic_void
    @Schizophrenic_void 2 года назад +45

    This is amazing
    I’m 18 years old and semi verbal autistic, I most likely have a speech disorder. I struggle a lot with my verbal communication, it’s something I feel self conscious about. I often use my iPad to talk, or communication cards. I think they are really amazing, I am inspired :)

  • @cookinghealthy8049
    @cookinghealthy8049 2 года назад +25

    I used to stammer as a child. My family made me read aloud from books and encyclopedia which forced my brain to slow down. When I am in a stressful environment I start to stammer . She is beautiful inside and out and we understand 🙏🏾❤️

  • @MsLilacLover1
    @MsLilacLover1 2 года назад +14

    She's the sweetest. I loved that she recently tried talking in mirror and her stutter was almost gone

  • @fruitypopwhickle6806
    @fruitypopwhickle6806 2 года назад +17

    How many people can say they're this brave? Confronting something they find difficult everyday. She's inspiring! I've got work to do!

  • @flowerchild9672
    @flowerchild9672 2 года назад +9

    Beautiful young lady. So glad she was so brave to speak out and get awareness for people who stammer. Congratulations on the upcoming wedding.

  • @Ms.Wndrlnd
    @Ms.Wndrlnd Год назад +4

    This looks like it hurts physically as well as emotionally! What a beautiful woman & couple! ❤

  • @melaniedwyer6270
    @melaniedwyer6270 2 года назад +11

    I absolutely loved this video. She is amazing. She's such a role model for anyone struggling. She absolutely rocks. I admire her so much.

  • @Cupcake4me
    @Cupcake4me 2 года назад +16

    I love Jessie for her bravery and perseverance ❤️ Stammering and the struggles around it is such a close thing to my heart. My uncle suffered from a stammer. He hid in his house because of his anxiety and never lived the life he deserved or wanted to.

  • @sophielong7775
    @sophielong7775 2 года назад +9

    I was lucky enough to meet Jessie when she was doing random acts of kindness in Pontypridd, South Wales. She's a human ray of sunshine and super lovely 😍😍

  • @unicornmadness6286
    @unicornmadness6286 Год назад +12

    This was a good one, kudos to her for putting herself out there, especially in a world that's so ill-mannered.

  • @victoriab09117
    @victoriab09117 2 года назад +2

    I am so proud of her! You go gorgeous!

  • @tiaryan1350
    @tiaryan1350 2 года назад +6

    I'm so happy she's in a good place & came to terms with herself even at a young age. Such an amazing advocate for others... She's beautiful inside and out. 😭💜

  • @omak544
    @omak544 2 года назад +8

    I don’t know her personally but I felt so much pride watching her conquer her fears 🥹❤️

  • @catherinemumbua8251
    @catherinemumbua8251 2 года назад +3

    You're a strong woman never feel otherwise!! Keep going you're great and motivation to many.

  • @apara2005
    @apara2005 2 года назад +31

    Im glad shes spreading awareness!!!!! I use to stutter as a child, so badly my school suggested that my parents put me in speech therapy for a year. Back in my days this was offered in elementary school for free in my district. As an adult I still do it when I'm nervous, but not to the extent it was before the therapy.

    • @chempanda6388
      @chempanda6388 2 года назад +1

      That's so cool your school district had it. I can't recall when I started stuttering but it happens to me too randomly most especially when I get super nervous and try to express myself within a short time frame frame.

    • @apara2005
      @apara2005 2 года назад +1

      @@chempanda6388 yeah it sad schools remove things like this from their budget. I don't know where I'll be if I didn't get this therapy in school (back in the 90s). I wish public schools invested more again in children's physical and mental health like they did when I was a kid... it all ties in with a proper learning environment.
      Have a great day ❤️

  • @Maria-ed3jo
    @Maria-ed3jo 2 года назад +14

    I’ve seen her a few times on tiktok! She’s such an amazing person

  • @eden-caledoniajohn3168
    @eden-caledoniajohn3168 2 года назад +3

    Jessie you are amazing, as an autistic Mum to two autistic teens I find your courage and determination so inspiring! God bless you both, I pray you will have a long, happy and healthy marriage and life!

  • @ChristineInNornia
    @ChristineInNornia 2 года назад +1

    I’ve a stammer too, it’s so tough sometimes. Jessica you are marvellous, sending empathy and love♥️

  • @samiidumdum
    @samiidumdum 2 года назад +20

    you can tell that she's rlly trying to say the words. she is so pretty and wholesome. sending lots of love. as someone who used to stutter i know how it feels to say smth but it just wouldnt come out. i eventually grew out of it but gurl u r a role model!!

    • @sophiethelk9557
      @sophiethelk9557 Месяц назад

      How did you overcome it? I’m 24 and stutter but it seems like it’s gotten better over the years. I’m always looking for new techniques and strategies though!

  • @messynessy1485
    @messynessy1485 2 года назад

    To put yourself out there is so courageous! Amazing because while people can be very mean they can also be incredibly kind

  • @tracydeniser.n.1432
    @tracydeniser.n.1432 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful.. 12 years together ❤ congrats!

  • @stephanieskidmore655
    @stephanieskidmore655 Год назад

    absolutely amazing, so strong! keep being you xxxx

  • @Baloneysamwich
    @Baloneysamwich Год назад

    I love when she messes up see goes back and corrects it ! She is such and inspiration

  • @kalimaterry3113
    @kalimaterry3113 Год назад +4

    Feels like he gave her the confidence she needed was a lot better then when she was speaking alone I love it

  • @issavirgogyal1250
    @issavirgogyal1250 2 года назад +1

    I love her energy, go girl!✨

  • @Debbie_obasi
    @Debbie_obasi 2 года назад +5

    Growing up as a child I stammered alot and this affected my self esteem, but I as grew I noticed the stammering reduced drastically, I'm so proud of you Jessie, people don't understand what it means and how it feels to be a stammerer. I'm proud of you Jessie

  • @cookegreene4729
    @cookegreene4729 2 года назад +4

    Wow this really hit my heart.
    As a child I stuttered from age 10 to my late 20s early 30s. It was extremely frustrating to communicate with people. Sometimes I would just shut down and not speak to anyone for weeks. Coming from a dysfunctional house hold I believe caused my stuttering. The anxiety. The nervousness. The verbal violent out burst from both parents at any given time would set off the condition. They thought I would just grow out of it but them and the environment I was living in was the main reason it lasted so long. I feared talking to people. Even saying Hello was a challenge at times. I'm in my 50s now and my stuttering is under control.

  • @vcadoree193
    @vcadoree193 2 года назад +4

    You seem like a great person.!That's all that matters. Just do the best that you can, and don't worry about the rest. We all have problems. Bless you

  • @aubreydanae3637
    @aubreydanae3637 2 года назад +1

    Way to go, Jessie! I am so glad you’re feeling more and more confident to share your wonderful self with the world :) You seem to totally light up the room when you speak and smile! Please don’t ever stop!! xo

  • @garyallen1473
    @garyallen1473 2 года назад +2

    I am so proud of you, thank you for sharing this. I have stuttered all my life, it's inherited from my great grandmother and grandfather to many relatives of varying degrees. Since age 8 or 9 I have been in speech therapy and, unfortunately, regular therapy since kids can be so mean and that left me, at the time, with self esteem issues. Today I speak more fluently, but there are still words that I cannot say well, communication does not always flow easily, and I prefer to be a listener than a talker, but at least I do feel less anxious about speaking and not being judge or laughed at like when I was younger.

  • @ottelisezipporah-isadora8070
    @ottelisezipporah-isadora8070 2 года назад

    I am so proud of this lady. It takes alot of courage to step out and be so vulnerable with a stammer. She did so well.

  • @nongthombamloyanganba4765
    @nongthombamloyanganba4765 2 года назад +8

    I remember my younger days. I was just like her every time I used to speak. Due to stammering, I was unable to participate in any school competition due to my speech issues as school mates laugh at me every time I utter a word. I used to cry a lot in front of them too. My math teacher (private one) asked me to speak slower than usual speed then things got better. I can speak better slowly and I am now almost 95% free from my speaking condition. No more tears. In case, if you find a stammer, please encourage to speak slowly and give confidence to him/her!!!

    • @apara2005
      @apara2005 2 года назад

      Ugh. Hate these BOT accounts. Especially when they comment on things that are serious.
      Please ignore this comment. Any comment created a year ago or less are bots.

    • @nongthombamloyanganba4765
      @nongthombamloyanganba4765 2 года назад

      @@apara2005 why don’t you put same comments on other???? If you don’t have anything good to say, please keep quite

  • @arikamathis2790
    @arikamathis2790 2 года назад +1

    She's amazing!! What a role model!!

  • @alexisisaacson7773
    @alexisisaacson7773 2 года назад

    She’s so lovely, keep going beautiful!

  • @maxinemissworldatkinson5195
    @maxinemissworldatkinson5195 2 года назад +1

    I love you so much Jessie
    You're so brave girl. This is an accomplishment.

  • @tanikajames513
    @tanikajames513 2 года назад +6

    She is the sweetest girl such an angel on Earth keeping being you and inspiring others God bless you beautiful 🥹💖

  • @beverlydominguez3233
    @beverlydominguez3233 Год назад +1

    That's awesome she has no fear she loves life and she isn't afraid of being herself ....just inspirational

  • @kelviengodoy3169
    @kelviengodoy3169 2 года назад

    She's so cheerful and sweet ♥️

  • @andywallzworld4432
    @andywallzworld4432 2 года назад +1

    This is so beautiful 💫💫💫💫 so proud of you

  • @emmytatox3784
    @emmytatox3784 2 года назад +4

    I’ve seen her TikTok’s she is such a lovely lady I absolutely love her and she’s killing it 🥰

  • @alexmad04
    @alexmad04 2 года назад +1

    Such an incredible girl with a brilliant supportive partner, I follow you on TikTok Jessie you have no idea how much you shine xx

  • @NBC09
    @NBC09 2 года назад +5

    I stutter so I totally understand. She’s amazing

  • @kjpiper8398
    @kjpiper8398 2 года назад

    More power to you!!Keep on keeping on ❤️

  • @allisonwalker4205
    @allisonwalker4205 2 года назад +1

    You are awesome. Your personality, laugh and smile have made my day. You meet your daily challenges like a warrior and slay every time. Thank you for sharing so much of your journey with us. Keep living your best life sis.

  • @podcast1560
    @podcast1560 Год назад +1

    You’re a whole inspiration 🥰

  • @quimaniere
    @quimaniere 2 года назад

    you rock girl!! love your attitude ❤

  • @thealanford4780
    @thealanford4780 2 года назад

    Stay positive such an inspiration!!💜

  • @mariaya1891
    @mariaya1891 2 года назад

    I love the patience her man is, like that is love. I am so happy for her. And her videos are so pure. Sending love to her 💕

  • @lalaginaaa
    @lalaginaaa Год назад +2

    She is amazing !!!!

  • @Marey2060
    @Marey2060 2 года назад +2

    I found Jessie’s determination and fantastic outlook in later life amazing I got upset at how her childhood had been and a mother of children that have been bullied I just thought how hard it must of been for her as children are cruel
    Never judge a book by its cover as you will more than likely see that that isn’t truely the book you’ve read
    I think Jessie and her partner will have a fantastic future he is clearly so supportive and patient well done young lady you are beautiful inside and out ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @aprilshorty4094
    @aprilshorty4094 2 года назад +3

    You are absolutely beautiful and have the most amazing eyebrows, I'm definitely gonna follow you on TikTok you're such a inspiration ❤

  • @antoinettebrown8517
    @antoinettebrown8517 2 года назад

    What a beautiful woman!!! You are an inspiration!!!

  • @kea_mpete
    @kea_mpete 2 года назад +1

    This man is such a patient man,I am proud of you Jessie

  • @MichelleKiwiGirlCrawfordvocals
    @MichelleKiwiGirlCrawfordvocals 2 года назад +1

    Good for you Jessie! 🙂

  • @blackwomanblog
    @blackwomanblog 2 года назад

    I love her, her spirit is amazing! Keep pushing love.. bravo

  • @jessicadriscoll4948
    @jessicadriscoll4948 2 года назад

    This woman's light shines so bright. She's just so sweet and exudes positivity.

  • @ellepayne7906
    @ellepayne7906 2 года назад

    I'm so thankful for you and I love you!

  • @voniansah3997
    @voniansah3997 2 года назад

    jessie you are phenomenal and you are an inspiration

  • @anitafelton9293
    @anitafelton9293 2 года назад +1

    Pardon me if I don't phrase this properly but I would absolutely enjoy talking to her all the time as I could stay focused and have the strong desire to hold the conversation. I don't hear well at all and I am easily discouraged having to ask ppl to repeat themselves. She makes me smile inside as she has admirable courage that we all can learn from & encourage each other to possess. Thank you for spreading your light with the world. 💙😁

  • @friendlyfiresyeah
    @friendlyfiresyeah 2 года назад +1

    she's amazing!

  • @preethikhanna5938
    @preethikhanna5938 2 года назад +2

    Your partner is a very good listener..he is just awesome ❤️

  • @PyT4LiFe1
    @PyT4LiFe1 2 года назад

    Soooooo brave and inspiring❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for capturing her story. Simply beautiful

  • @jacquelinevillarreal657
    @jacquelinevillarreal657 2 года назад

    Love her!!! An embodiment of resilience…

  • @iamalex8457
    @iamalex8457 2 года назад +1

    Her laugh is absolutely beautiful. I don't have a stammer but I have tourettes. This makes me feel alot better with my own self confidence. Thank you for posting this 🙏❤️

  • @lindseymcmullen2532
    @lindseymcmullen2532 2 года назад

    You go girl ! You are fantastic. X

  • @AlwaysTubin9213
    @AlwaysTubin9213 2 года назад

    What an inspiration. So glad she decided to start using her voice. It deserves and needs to be heard.

  • @JG-co5nx
    @JG-co5nx 2 года назад

    AMAZING woman… she is truly beautiful inside and out and so inspiring.

  • @isthatyoursandwich
    @isthatyoursandwich 2 года назад +1

    Your beautiful and your so brave and admirable. Keep doing what your doing. Your courageous and you are amazing and never give up ❤

  • @mizzhllywd
    @mizzhllywd 2 года назад +1

    I'm happy she has someone who loves her unconditionally.

  • @automaticparadise
    @automaticparadise 2 года назад

    Love her and her bravery so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @yyg4632
    @yyg4632 2 года назад

    I loveeeeeeee how she's pushing and pushing herself. A lot of people would give up, and I get that its hard especially if you grew up shy and insecure.

  • @angelquintana131
    @angelquintana131 2 года назад +1

    She has a wonderful heart ❤️. SHE THE BEST.

  • @Neikybear
    @Neikybear 2 года назад +1

    Jessie you’re amazing, gorgeous and inspirational 💖 I LOVE your confidence and you’re doing really well,❤️ and girlllll you are killing those outfitssss🔥🔥🔥 I’m obsesseddd😍

  • @jessicabailey2717
    @jessicabailey2717 2 года назад

    You are a beautiful healer and role model, a natural brave leader.
    Sending gratitude and appreciation for you showing up and sharing your truth xx❤️💖💜💝🌸

  • @josephcharles9406
    @josephcharles9406 2 года назад +2

    Sending my prayers to u..
    Love from a fellow stammer

  • @_am.ber_
    @_am.ber_ 2 года назад

    You are awesome!! You should always use your voice, you're absolutely an inspiration!!

  • @yyg4632
    @yyg4632 2 года назад +2

    Her goal to help others is freaking adorable

  • @madmartigankilmer89
    @madmartigankilmer89 2 года назад +20

    I wanna be friends with her! 🤍 What a stunningly gorgeous personality, heart, and human 🤍

  • @Nahaira8098
    @Nahaira8098 2 года назад

    Such A Beautiful Soul ❤️

  • @RainWalking
    @RainWalking 2 года назад +1

    That sign, I have a stammer lets talk. That is so heart warming 💗

  • @MellieB514
    @MellieB514 2 года назад +1

    YOU ARE THE BEST!

  • @cywilliams473
    @cywilliams473 2 года назад

    Much love girl...you got this👌

  • @laurab6687
    @laurab6687 Год назад

    This video is amazing Jessie! I have a stutter too and understand how it feels xx you are so brave and it was amazing how confident you were throughout the video, especially towards the end! Keep it up, you are a true inspiration! Xx

  • @Bojardmommy
    @Bojardmommy Год назад

    She is my hero. So strong and brave!🤩

  • @CrackberryMe
    @CrackberryMe 2 года назад +4

    Keep being and doing you. You’re perfectly fine the way You are 🥰

  • @macbeth221
    @macbeth221 2 года назад

    Oh i love her i've been following her for a long time on tiktok. She's so sweet. She amazing :)

  • @LiveForever13
    @LiveForever13 2 года назад +1

    I have really bad social anxiety. One day I hope to do something like Jessie is doing. Amazing what she’s doing ❤️