Well.... you see, if this Louis is as french as his name suggests, his dad can't wright him out of the will. That will would be void if a french dad tried to do that in France 😅
I've been a professional nanny for 20+ years (often for very wealthy, sign an NDA type families. Don't worry, an NDA doesn't mean I can't anonymously spill the tea, lol.) Unfortunately a large majority of rich parents are so shitty & entitled that their attitudes are passed down to their children. And they're so hands off in terms of parenthood that they literally buy their kid's affection & throw money at everything. It's like if money was the caregiver/babysitter instead of tv/screens. And of course these are the same types of parents who would try to pay me $4/hour, 100+ hours/week to watch all four of their kids. ETA: There are obviously tons of super kind & normal rich &/or famous people too. Some of the most famous people were the kindest, most involved parents. The worst were usually very rich with giant egos, but they weren't famous. It was clear they wanted to be. I'm sure y'all have met them too. It's the "don't you know who I/my father/my aunt/my cousin is?" crowd. (But we don't know your aunt. No one does. Sorry, lol.)
That cancer story is exactly why when our son was diagnosed with cancer at 2.5 years old, we treated him like our daughter? No difference. He was told no when he couldn’t have something, he played outside, he had bed time routines and bath time routines, play dates, regular toddler activities. Obviously there were some unavoidable differences? He was allowed to eat whatever he wanted whenever he wanted. But with cancer/treatments you’re often not hungry. So, he was allowed food anything any time. Otherwise he was raised just like his sister so he wouldn’t be a terrible human as an adolescent/adult. Sadly we never got to see how he would be as a grown up as, just shy of his 4th birthday, his cancer returned and he did not survive. We miss him every day! ❤
I had breast cancer three years ago, and I never asked for anything for free or "played the cancer card" at all! But I do remember when I was trying to pay for groceries and was trying to use my phone on the machine, but it wouldn't go through (too out of it to realise mobile transactions had somehow gotten locked on the app, and only needed to tap a button, duh), so I'm standing there, bald as an egg, pale as a snow covered wedding dress, brain melted from meds/chemo, trying not to cry when the guy in line behind me just tapped his card on the machine and paid the $79 for me. Me and the cashier were almost in tears. He wanted nothing in return, even the money when I asked for his number to pay him back. One of the worst times of my life, and one of the most touching moments! I love you Mr Man, and always will. I hope your life is as wonderful as you deserve, and I have already paid your kindness forward!
Now THIS is true, unconditional love & care. Just genuine kindness in someone’s hour of need. No need of praise, recognition or repayment, just a good person helping someone in their darkest hours. How different the works would be if we could all be like this. I sincerely hope you are/or on the way to good health. Blessings to you! 💕
It’s your choice not to ask for help from your community you never know if you don’t ask and I don’t see it being a evil thing if your asking help from other people as things like cancer are not easy to go threw at all let alone by yourself
@@aliviaclaxton4379 I actually did get a lot of help from a very wonderful community. I just didn't ask for, or feel entitled to it, and never expected anything for free because I was sick! In fact without so many people in our smallish town having my back and endless encouragement and moral support for that period of time I don't know how I would've managed!
The whole "Every birthday is for me" kid thing- I told my girl early on that NOBODY owes her a gift, even on her birthday. If they do we thank them and are happy with what we get, but if they don't bring anything we are so glad they could be with us, because so many people don't have anyone to celebrate their birthday with. It starts there. Then you teach them about how birthdays are about being there for the people celebrating them and we love them and don't make it about us. You start this as soon as they are able to understand language. Honestly if more people were taught this early on we would have a lot fewer bridezillas.
What was wrong with the parents of the little girl and birthday cake! First, don’t let one child ruin another child’s birthday. No matter there age. I was upset with both girls. The little for ruining the older ones but the older one is the same. The little girl is turning four and the older one is happy to make her cry out of revenge. Go after the parents for letting a then three year old act selfish. But no the parents don’t do a thing! To either what is wrong with them!!
I grew up thinking birthdays were commemorated by taking pro photographs, it was only when my mom bought our first tv that I realized there were other ways to celebrate birthdays
So true, I hate it when you have kids being hated for having attitude problems instead of the parents who teach them that. Good on you for raising thankful kids :)
Everything you said about B’days and when it comes to Xmas I have always told my children that they could make their list to Santa as long as they like BUT Santa would only bring you 2 or 3 things at the most and since Santa is always watching you better be grateful for what you did get. Santa never brought everything under the tree in our house. It’s important to learn that other people love you enough to buy you gifts and you also need to learn how to be grateful for those gifts. Another way we reinforced this idea of giving and gratitude was to take them to a charity wishing tree and let them choose and buy a gift for a child who didn’t have other people in their lives to get presents from. As soon as they were old enough to know the truth it made them feel so thankful that they had been able to give gifts to children that otherwise would have received nothing. We are by no means rich so some years that was a struggle and our kids had to learn that it’s still better than nothing when you only get a small gift. And later in life how good it feels to give even you when you don’t have very much yourself. We still do this, sometimes it’s still some children’s gifts under the wishing tree sometimes it’s buy a village a goat, or donate towards a water well etc. It never hurts to be reminded that there are always people that have it harder than you do. Thankfully in Australia Xmas is at the beginning of the summer holidays and our kids were not kids during this age of putting everything on the internet. So there was very little opportunity for them to compare and ask Why Santa bought so and so Everything including - whatever the hottest/most indulgent thing was at the time. Any occasion where a disparity was noticed I would at a quite and private moment say to them that it is incredibly sad that so and so didn’t have anyone else in their life that loved them enough to give them a gift. Or if they were old enough, just to get them thinking, I would say that it sounded like a bit too much, maybe someone is not being entirely truthful about Santa and about how much he actually gives?
That first guy is 100% dangerous. He gets violent and its very obvious. EDIT: Glad it's fake, I'm really not on TikTok, but y'all can relax with the disparaging comments. There are real people who do act like this in the world. Wish y'all well though
18:49 The way that child is angry-upset, not sad-crying, clearly shows that nobody has been teaching her sharing, boundaries, and the beginning of compassion. It's hard for little kids to get when it's not their turn, and to process those feelings. But not coaching them through that is a major parenting failure.
Growing up my parents would give us a $100 limit for Christmas and we thought it was so much. We loved it! After we all had kids they lowered it to $50. My dad was a money saver. When my parents passed they had a house for each child to inherit. Best parents I could've asked for ❤️
Girllll!😢 I started trauma therapy months ago and I finally had the "why am I dulling my shine to make them glitter more" revelation too! You know why? Because our hearts are huge and we don't like casting shadows on others so we bring our shine down to their level instead of expecting them to gtf off their *sses and get brighter like us....🙄😒 Keep shining beautiful! 💜🖤💜
HEY CHARLOTTE. I'm living in the Netherlands and I work in a hospice/nursing home. I have seen many rich people dying in pain and alone in the hospice,so life is more than material things. 🥶 Greetings from the Netherlands 👍😉
When I was still in the nursing profession, we moved to a new area. Hospital patients and nursing home residents, or their families, were always trying to do/get things that weren't allowed. As in JCAHO could shut you down, not allowed. And the first thing everyone said/asked was "Don't you know who I am?!?" Not being from the area, I could always answer honestly that "No, I have no idea who you are."
I had cancer for 3 months on occasion I did play the cancer card with my family but I'm in remission for 6 more months but cancer free nonetheless doing a little spoiling isn't bad but doing it your whole life is a yikes
My nephew had a tumour at the base of his skull when he was 2. There were surgeries and chemo plus radiation. My sister use to use it to get stuff for free or at discounts which I felt uncomfortable about, she would tell people at stores about nephew and then wait expectantly for them to respond. Nephew is almost 27 now, he still gets scans and often they find small tumours throughout his body that they remove and he continues. He is the nicest guy, he doesn’t expect anything from anyone, despite having some deficits caused by the chemo and radiation therapy that damaged his hearing and he will never have children of his own. My sister has always put him first in every way, which has been very hard on the daughter she was pregnant with when the tumour was found. She has always been a good mother to him though, and continues to support him tirelessly, helping him reach his career goals. Congrats on winning your fight! F@*k cancer!
My parents lived paycheque to paycheque when we were growing up. Dad was in the Army and mum stayed home with us until we were all old enough to go to high school. I remember one Christmas i may have been about 9yrs old (1976) I desperately wanted the box set of Elvis 100 Super Rocks cassettes I’d seen advertised on TV. That’s one of the ways we played music back then and they lasted for years! I was down to my last present 🎁 and exploded with joy when I got the Elvis box set. My parents gave us a few small gifts and a big present. I’ve never forgotten that Christmas and how happy I was. It should never be about money only joy. To this day, I love making my family and friends happy with giving them gifts and seeing them smile. ❤️
The girl Albina has a youtube channel and shes great! She talks about growing up extremely wealthy and her family lost everything in the war and she came yo the US and studied computer programming (i think) and now she's extremely wealthy again. She talks about what it was like losing everything and having friends only care about your wealth. She's extremely down to earth 😊
My nephew when he was 8 was gifted a Make a Wish adventure and he went to Disney and swam with Dolphins. His life expectancy was 15. He lived a fairly "normal" life until 26 and he died suddenly.
I'm so sorry. Childhood diseases must be so hard for families no matter the outcome. It's just exhausting. My father died of cancer at 57, which is getting ridiculously young the closer I get to it. 57? I'm almost 52. Yikes. But 7, or 17, 27.. those are just not fair at all.
Same with my niece but passed unexpectedly by 23.... Unfortunately from hospital error... They gave her an antibiotic that had already almost killed her (one nurse who was there & knew what happened advised against it, but wasn't listened to)... She would still be here if not for that... She was born with Spina bifida & several other problems So glad you had those extra years with him 🫂🫂🫂💚
I've seen a lot of makea wish kids where I worked. They gave them a beautiful day, with Barbie herself (model), tea party and toys. One time, this entitled secretary who worked for a top executive got away with walking with her the whole day, crying. Sobbing. It was so awkward.
Charlotte, you have earned, and are so incredibly deserving of, every single ounce of happiness and joy that you have! If you have people in your life who can not see that, than they don't deserve to be in your life at all. I have a whole slew of crappy medical issues and what not going on, but that does not stop me from celebrating and being happy for my friends and family who are doing amazing and exciting things. I choose to live vicariously through them, and I am always one of the first to ask to see their pictures when they travel or their awards when they are rewarded at work and what not. Because they deserve to be supported and cherished, and so do you! Don't accept anything less.
My son was a “Make a Wish” child, having a life threatening medical condition and potentially might not have lived past teenage-hood. He is now 28 and still has the condition - it is not curable and he will always be medically fragile - when he gets sick, it’s always a serious (scary) issue. However, we tried to never treat him differently to our 2 other children (even when working around constant hospitalisation etc), such as when he had his monthly blood infusion at home, would be asked to be part of the normal family routine (eg, clear the table, help with washing up etc), while still attached to his infusion machine/tubes etc. He is now a lovely, well adjusted 29 year old man who never voluntarily discusses his condition - he takes care of himself medically, but never makes a fuss about it and most definitely never tells people he meets that he has a life-threatening illness. It is a part of him, but one he chooses to try to ignore. We have met many other children and parents over the years who make the illness their priority and expect special treatment or sympathy because of it, and we didn’t ever want to be like that, so as a result, my son is NOT one of those people!
I have a chronic illness and choose not to discuss it much either. My brother told me a story where he met a guy with the same illness and tried baiting my bro to get a discount on car parts saying the poor me line. My brother said his sister has the same illness and she doesn't talk about it. Schooled the idiot! It's nice to have a retort like that though fortunately it never comes up. Good on your son for not playing the pity me card!
The "spoiled" girl in the thumbnail is just a normal little girl who is exploited by her mom to act spoiled so her mom can get clout as the girl's internet footprint is ruined by the part her mom is making her play.
Thanks for the info!! I HATE hearing stories like that. Shame on the parents who are doing this to their children!! Absolutely DISGUSTING!!! Ugh!! I hope for the best for her! Parents are supposed to protect their children, not use and abuse them!! Best wishes to you and yours!! To Us ALL!!💖🙏💖🫶
Well...she's not "normal". She's neglected and abused. The mom needs to be investigated and the kids definitely needs therapy to undo the obvious trauma that has damaged her.
As a mom, the video with the little girl breaks my heart!! So sick of these "influencers" basically bullying their children to get an extreme reaction that they can monetize. Also, children can have a hard time understanding and distinguishing birthdays/holidays/etc., and even "non-spoiled" kids can get confused/upset if others get presents or attention when they don't. It's something that they learn through experience, and having responsible adults in their life who take the time to explain things to them (often repeatedly, as young kids learn best from repetition). The girl in the video is clearly lacking the proper guidance in her early life
When my first child became an older sister, we were facing sibling rivalries at birthdays. SO, my mom started bringing special headbands. One for the birthday girl (looks like a crown) and one for the sister (with bright flowers and not as showy as the birthday crown). My girls got excited about wearing them, and even were considerate taking turns! No one needed a gift on her sister's birthday so they didn't feel left out! Thanks, Nana!
Normalize teaching your child tho that there ARE days that are absolutely not about them. If it's someone else's birthday, you don't get anything special except to be privileged to be there and a piece of cake is the 'treat'. Nothing else
I think I had it easy because our birthdays were one month apart in birth order: older brother, me, younger brother. We each had a month to ourselves and only had to wait a few weeks between birthdays.
That is still teaching her that it’s ok for her to impede on her sister’s day. On her sister’s birthday which is NOT ABOUT HER, she doesn’t need a headband because it’s not her birthday. That’s how you raise a girl who thinks it’s ok to get engaged at her sister’s wedding or wear white to it. Nope.
Right?? If that were my kid losing their crap on their birthday and nothing would calm them, I'd be like, "Welp, we're packing up the birthday. We'll do this at a point in the future when you can straighten up and fly right. No one is required to put up with your ugly behavior."
My mom told me a story from when I was little. I really wanted a tickle me elmo toy. When she said no, I threw a fit. She dropped everything and walked me out of the store with nothing. She said sfter that I never did it again.
15 minute party girl’s cardigan is the hero in that story. That snap was holding together like Deadpool and Wolverine with “Like A Prayer” playing in the background.
My sister in law is always the star of the show. When I turned 30 I spent my birthday in hospital having surgery for uterine cancer. After having a total hysterectomy, cervix removed and bilateral removal of both my ovaries, I had a prolapse of my vjj the day after when evil Evelyn turns up at the hospital with my mother in law. EE had a headache and my mother in law insisted that I appreciate how difficult it was for EE to visit me, that I must be quiet and that my nurse should attend to EE's headache and could I get out of bed so she could lay down for a while. I think she was a bit jealous of my cancer attention. Needless to say high on my painkillers I told them what I thought and had duo doom removed. They didn't even get me flowers or a birthday card 😂😂
My friend's kid had a Make-A-Wish and he wasn't terminal (15 years ago).. he was super sick with a blood disorder that they weren't sure they'd be able to control. Thankfully he's 20ish now and thriving.
Not the Ceausescu reference! 💀💀💀🤣🤣 - Also the mom with the kid at the end, I kinda thought, she was gonna turn to him and tell him "OK, this is how much it'll all cost you"
4:33. Every child is different. To her, that prison of gold and diamonds was just that. She actually seemed pretty down to earth, and I can feel bad for someone's situation regardless of how much money they have. Because I grew up poor, and was judged/ not cared about/ neglected because of how much money I didn't have. We're all just humans. Someone always has it better, and someone always has it worse.
Ya know I was thinking the same thing. She wasn't acting entitled, she just wanted a chance to be a normal kid and do stuff with friends/meet people/have fun.
On the opposite side, I grew up having everything I wanted and felt like I was living in a prison too, so ngl I was 100% on her side. I'm dirt broke now that I'm an adult (to the point that we libe in subsidized housing and STILL struggle with rent) but having the freedom really beats not even being able to eat a cookie or something without someone piping up about carbs and how much I weighed, or not even being allowed to go to a football game just out of spite because someone made my dad peeved at work that day. I think we tend to forget that money does not, in fact, buy happiness. It helps a lot and you won't catch me denying that. But my experience is definitely not unique. Rich parents are often awful (though I've known some extremely nice ones too ofc). When bad people with money have kids, it gives them a LOT of power to keep those kids on a chain or abuse them without getting caught.
7:15 when I was 7-18 I would wait till dinner to eat one slice of bread and a cup of yoghurt before going to sleep ( the breakfast was an apple, the lunch was plain white rice) because I grew up poor with drug dealer father who was fortunately always away for months and even years, leaving my mom to single parent with no money, this kind of videos upset me deeply, they don't comprehend how blessed they are, they really can't see it and it's on them but also on the adults on their lives.
I'm sorry to hear about the suffering you had 😢 I grew up poor too, but my circumstances were not the same as yours so I did have 3 meals a day which I am very grateful for and made sure my children had that too. It seems to me that money is a curse for many... I feel very grateful and very blessed to know that there are privileges and gifts one can obtain for free, such as kindness and responsibility and respect. I hope your life is better now and I hope that even though watching stuff like this is upsetting, on the other side like me you can be glad to know that you're free from the curse those spoiled people are under ❤
Also the mom was the one buying those purses and making her daughter pretend she did it, the mom wanted online attention, which was getting her daughter bullied both online and real life, I heard she had to switch schools multiple times. The mom was liking the mean comments made about her daughter. So…. Not everything you see online is as portrayed.
While some were definitely entitled, it doesn’t mean that they have to thankful and not complain about anything because others are poor. I grew up poor as well, not as poor as you (trauma from mom’s abuse is worse than the trauma from poverty.). Others are still allowed to complain about things like the girl who had to scale a fence because she wanted to go to a party. A gold cage is still a cage. We just have to live day to day not caring about others being asses unless it personally affects us. Extreme wealth shouldn’t exist at all but that’s another story for another day.
HELP NOT BOBBY 11:35 😂 dw yall he's not the richest kids in Indonesia, Bobby is just an internet personality bcs i watch his older content about food reviews www
My granny said my mom was bad. So she gave her the mother’s curse “I hope your kids are just like you or worse.”. But I was a better kid than my mom, and my daughter was better than me. All it takes it lots of conversations. Real conversations where you don’t dumb things down. Kids are just mini adults. They understand way more than you think.
Yes! I’m always saying that kids are just little humans learning how to exist, it’s my job to teach them to be decent humans, so I do my best by being as honest as I can, no topic is off limits, but I do make it as age appropriate as I can
My grandma said to my mom, she'd always hoped mom would have a kid as bad as herself, and looking as me, grandma said her wish had come true. She said I was as bad as twenty of my mom. Gee, thanks, grandma!
Ohhhhhh my mom did lol. My middle child is a redhead and she takes all those stereo typically redhead thing to the max. I wasn't that bad as a kid. And I'm always being asked if I'm a natural redhead cuz I'm so calm.... but u mess with my kids, my family or my very close friends and I will show that redhead part
@ lol it’s ok. I was always used as the bad example in the family. Out of 15 siblings my mom said I was her “greatest challenge”. Lol yay for the difficult ones. It’s not my fault I felt the neighbors needed to talk more, so I played scavenger hunt with their lawn ornaments…
Just so you know, the mother & son you see at 20:05 did that as a skit. He’s a great kid & the whole family is a great bunch! I know this because not only do I follow them BUT I’ve also seen that actual video that you shared in THIS video that you made!!!! 🙂🇨🇦👍🥰
I have 3 kids. (Boys if that matters) When they were small, they at first thought it was their birthday even if it wasn’t. I held them and told them that their brother is one year older and that it’s now their turn to blow the candles. But that he can make a card/gift for his brother and show how happy you are for him. Only my middle son is slightly entitled. And only because he had health issues and got more attention because of that. But none were like these kids.
Charlotte Nooooo… The little girl with the Purse is Being Abused by her Mom… The Mom buys all these Expensive Things and Yells at her Daughter on Camera saying the daughter buys it… It’s been talked about on other Reaction Channels I watch…
@@iridium7554 This video was filmed over a month ago, and it was sourced probably a month before that. News publications often release corrections to stories they get wrong. This channel isn't really about journalism; it's for entertainment, but on the rare occasion that things slip through the cracks, I respond immediately and make adjustments. That's the best I can do, I hope you understand!
The little girl with the birthday cake is 100% the product of her parents and the adults around her. She was never taught about sharing, that not everything is about her, and that she can’t have everything she wants. She will continue to struggle with this throughout her life if her parents don’t step in and fix it ASAP.
Sounds like my older sister. On one birthday the neighbors baked me a mini-cake. She threw such a fit that my mom went over and asked them to bake her one too. My whole childhood was like that, and my sister was abusive to me too. We don't speak.
I know a seven year old like this. It's really the parents who can't say no and don't realise it's harmful for children to have no boundaries at all. It's not all necessarily lost, so I hope she'll figure it out somehow.
In my experience, it was honestly not that hard to raise 2 sons who never acted like this. Even when they were little, we just talked with the non-birthday boy the day before and reminded him that it was his brother’s day and when it was his birthday. They never had a problem or acted out. They were just happy that they got cake too.
And that was just her Birthday could you imagine if she was getting married how bad of a bride zillia she'd be oh and let's not forget she'd probably make her bridesmaids wear ugly a** dresses and be horrible to everyone and has to make sure NO ONE looks prettier then her
Only having one child could make matters worse. I had 4 and they never threw tantrums for their birthday or Christmas. Taking time ahead of birthdays and holidays to teach them how to respond to others getting gifts when they don’t get them AND how to show gratitude when they get something they don’t like is so important. I did this several years in a row when my kids were little. Character training is important and possible not to make them into someone else rather to enforce their strengths and help them recognize their weaknesses
The christmas one, dude 😭😭 As the oldest sibling in a poor family, I went a few Christmases without a present so that my younger brothers could have gifts. My dad ended up getting a better job the summer before my senior year of high school and ended up giving me an old beater of a car for Christmas that year. This was 1 of 3 big gifts I got in total after 2008. We were fortunate enough to have family friends that would buy my brother's gifts, and though nobody told me anything, I strongly suspect that the old car was at least partially funded by said family friend.
I feel you, the biggest gift I got was a game console (that I really really wanted so bad) for which I payed half. I saved allowance and chore money for a year for that gift... I was so grateful I only had to pay half and played that sucker for many years to come.
If people are jealous of you Charlotte then it is their problem. You are one of the most kind and understanding people out there. Don't ever change... Always look forward to listening to your comments on different situations. Stay as you are. We love you.....
It’s very possible to teach kids to be happy for others in the spotlight. From a very young age, emphasize celebrating others’ happiness with real enthusiasm. Model it for them. Also, when my son was maybe 4/5, he started doing his own Christmas shopping for others. I taught him one of the most fun things about Christmas is *giving* gifts. We went to the dollar store with a list of close family members, teachers, friends - and he selected the gifts for them all. Some folks received things like a piece of foam poster board or one glass plate. It was great practice thinking of others, and the recipients always loved the gifts and his explanations of why he selected them.
Criteria for Make a Wish: 1. Must be 2.5 and 18. 2. Have an illness that has put their life in danger. 3. Must not have been granted a wish from another organization. There are other criteria, but these are the main 3 requirements.
Yes! I work with kids with cystic fibrosis and I was surprised but they all get to Make a Wish - even though (very thankfully) it isn’t as much of a death sentence present day as it once was.
Exactly. He was probably a Make-a-Wish kid when he actively had cancer likely, and he fortunately beat it. It does happen, but it's still granted to cancer kids before they become super sick as they want them to be able to enjoy it. If they're on their death bed, they can't enjoy it, so it's granted ahead of time in case they get super sick and don't make it.
Absolutely! When I was first granted my wish, I was 15 years old and actively waiting for a transplant. I couldn't up and go on a Make-A-Wish trip because I could get the call for an organ any minute. They let me take the trip two years later when I had recovered from surgery and most of the post-surgical complications.
13:58 As a chef - this is one meal that you could get in a restaurant that costs so much: - light potato mousse with maitake steak under egg flackes. This dish takes 4½ day to make. You get a small portion because you usually get a 5, 7 or 9 course meal, so you can try it all and eat it all. The menu size is 500 to 600g per person, so if you have a 9 course meal you need to divide that quantity of food into 9 plates. That is why the portions are small, but the work that goes behind every bite is what you are actually paying. It doesn't matter if you get one potato or 15, that potato still requires the same amount of knowledge, skill and time to be prepared. 90% of the stuff like marinating/cooking/baking/smoking/rosting/drying takes hours and hours. The techniques that are used, machines that need to be bought, all the science that goes into that kind of cooking is incredible. The kitchen of that kind of chef looks more like a half kitchen and half - mixture of a lab and an art atelier than a traditional kitchen. I have worked in places where you need 15 to 20 min to prepare a dish, but I have also made a dessert for my final exam in cooking school that took me two full days of work. The difference between the texture, quality and taste is unimaginable. I am truly humbled to be able to be a part of that world and understand the complexity behind every bite. It's magic, science and art in its purest form.
5:00 I am fairly certain that this girl and her mom have been proven to be faked. As in, the mom buys expensive things and makes her daughter act as if she (the daughter) stole the card to get it.
It does but in that particular circle, I do understand that those kids can be brutal to others for not having the latest and greatest. I’ve always been comfortable with myself and never allowed others comments to influence me in any way. My big sister was easily influenced. She passed away when she was 25. Rich or poor, there are bullies and ridiculous nonsense. I like that she’s saving her money, someone is teaching her financial literacy!
It does sound ridiculous to us, but among the very rich kids this is a popular reason to bully, unfortunately. The parents of one kind of rich kid who went to a pretty prestigious private school said that the kid's classmates (maybe not all of them, but some for sure) were non-stop discussing who was wearing which clothing brand and trying to make fun of kids who weren't wearing expensive enough brands. So I actually like that the girl in the video also kept her old watch, which means she isn't completely giving in to that bullying.
My friend was pressured into buying a new car by her kids because her kids were endlessly harassed at school because she drove a 5 year old minivan. I can absolutely believe someone was harassed about an Apple Watch. Elitism is a thing
The whole being happy for others is soooo true. I’m always sooo ecstatic when my friends are doing well. When they aren’t it literally hurts my heart. I just want people to happy, healthy, wealthy, and blessed.
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Sometimes it does genuinely take years to arrange a make-a-wish. One of my childhood friends was diagnosed at 6 with leukemia and then again at 12. Her wish was to design a cancer-centric purse with a famous designer. She ended up designing a bag with the late Kate Spade, but only actually did it as a senior in HS, at 18. I think a lot of it depends on the urgency of the diagnosis. Edit: She is one of the sweetest, hardest working, most empathetic humans on this earth and is so far from entitled even thoug, she too, went through cancer during her developmental years.
As someone who had cancer, I became one of those cancer patients taking care of everyone else telling them I was going to be okay. Worried about them around me rather than letting others take care of me.
I know how that is. I hope you are doing well and learning to allow yourself to accept help. You deserve love, care and support. Also, I don’t know if you are familiar with the term “toxic positivity”, but I hope through out your journey and/or processing it post treatment that you also have people who are willing to just hear you and see what you are going though, letting you feel your feelings (while not going into unhealthy wallowing of course) with respond with “well, at least…” or “yeah, but…” every little time you try to express anything but sunny optimism. You deserve that too. ❤️🤞🏾 I feel you…
@HunnyBee-w7r I'm happy to report that I'm a survivor and have been for many years now. I have nothing to complain about. My life is beautiful because I have grandbabies now. Nothing in this world is more beautiful than grandbabies.
Charlotte, don't ever dull your shine for other people's comfort. Those who care will love your shine, and those who don't will remove themselves or fizzle away only to be replaced with more shiny people who love you doing well for yourself! It took me a long while to stop dumbing myself down, and stop looking how I wanted, but after a near death experience and illness I ended up just going for it and I've been joined by people who want to be their best selves and love others being their best as well, and also maintained many friends who just want to see everyone happy too. I only lost the toxic ones or the people who had no drive or goals in life.
When the food is so high-end it becomes a concept 😂 I briefly knew a guy whose dad worked for royalty somewhere in the world and this guy had an assistant. He was at uni! He was lovely but admitted he had no clue about how the rest of the students lived.
I’ve never made a list I always felt bad asking for anything but somehow my grandma and mom always ended up knowing me well enough that whatever I got for Christmas was something I didn’t even know I needed ❤
My son never went through that "mine" brat stage thank God. The first time we played Candy Land when he was like 4, he won and cried because we weren't all together at the Castle as a family. At his 3rd birthday when it was present time he started passing out the gifts to all his little friends not expecting, or enjoying the fact that they were all for him.
My parents didn't have a credit card. I stole paper food stamps (American giving away my old age). All i wanted was a 3 musketeer camdy bar. Less then one dollar. Sad kids now adays wanna spend so much. I wanted a candy bar.
We’re old. lol back in our days they would have tanned our behinds if we even thought about touching their money. We got “toys” like a milk bottle and wooden cloths pins. You held the pins out shoulder high and tried to drop them in the bottle. And you’d better express lots of gratitude for it! My mother used to paint the pins to look like people.
I’m a “happy for others” girl, and I’m proud of it! And don’t get me wrong, I feel envious sometimes, but it typically passes pretty quickly because I’m honestly happy for the other person!❤
I used to deal with a lot of jealousy issues, but after doing a lot of trauma work, I embrace the concept of compersion: finding happiness with other people's joy and supporting that joy. The people in my life also practice compersion with me, so it's been a very positive move that I'm so glad I made.
It's true though. Sometimes the price isn't money, but yes, everything has a price, everything is for sale. Especially morals nowadays. There's no line a human being wouldn't cross if the "price" is right. Saying otherwise is naive. Like, you think you would never steal? Wait till your kid is hungry. You think you wouldn't betray your principles and take bribe money? Wait until someone waves 1 million $ under your nose and you have a spouse and kids to think of at home.
@@edene.4870that’s why you teach your children not everything is for sale. And then you explain what and why. I absolutely would never sell my body, I absolutely would never kill anyone in anger, I absolutely would never be over run by greed and profit off of tax fraud or embezzlement etc. I know myself.
LOL, be thankful you don't think like that. If you think that's true, it means you yourself is available to be bought. Hoping for everyone to remain priceless and happy.
Oh my gosh, thank you for commenting on that. I feel like no one was talking about her eating leaves and poison ivy like it wasn’t the craziest thing that has ever been said.
Don't EVER dull your shine, Charlotte! You are beautiful inside and out! Your shine brings so much light to a dark world. You deserve a lifetime of happiness 🥰Love you, bestie!🤍🫶
As a make a wish kid I'd like to let you know that not every make a wish kid is like that and i honestly agree with the comment seen at 12:08 in the video because I was only given my make a wish trip because i had to have a major surgery ( if anyone would like to know i went to the Harry Potter studio tour in London)
When I was 7, all I wanted in life was the game Mouse Trap. I would have done ANYTHING for it. That was back in 1987...when all I could do is go to Toys-R-Us and dream!
It was overrated and took way too long to set up if it makes you feel better. In 1987 I was starting high school. Dirty Dancing. Bon Jovi. Married with Children and Cheers. Guess jeans. 😂
I genuinely wouldn’t be bothered if I didn’t get gifts, I’m 42 and at this point if I want something I tend to just get it myself, but I will cherish the gifts my kids get me because they want to get me something and it makes them happy - wish I could send you a birthday gift! Sending a virtual one! 🎁
Charlotte, if your friends make you dull your shine, they are not your friends, get rid of them!!!! A true friend accepts you for who you are, how you are, what you are, good, bad, indifference. You should never have to worry about what you say or what you wear or how you act around a friend, that’s a true friend.
That is very much my take on it, too. Tbh, I found it rather charming 😊🥰 To be THAT wealthy, to have BODYGUARDS, it really can be just as damaging as many other childhood challenges and traumas I hope she's as well put together as she seems. EVERY CHILD deserves to have a solid start to a balanced adulthood for themself. 🥲🤞🤞
Right? I thought she was funny, and if it's a true story she was just looking for a little bit of normal. I highly doubt she's the kind of person who expects the world to drop at her feet if she's negotiating with dogs about barking so she can parkour to freedom. You can have money, and even know how to use the leverage it gives you when you need it, without being entitled or a douche,
@KOKO-uu7yd depending where she's from the bodyguards was actually a necessity. I know that in Russia and Ukraine it's a thing to kidnap kids from extremely rich families for ransom. I knew an international student who came from a wealthy family who wasn't allowed to take the metro and his parents paid for a chauffeur to drive him around because of that issue.
Oh Charlotte! I love your shine! You have suffered in the past, and worked hard to make your way to the sassy, funny woman we all love. Enjoy your success, and your cute guy! Mwah! 💋
For Christmas we always did "Something you Want, Something you Need, Something to Wear, and Something to Read." Several things to open, but it keeps it manageable.
As someone who doesn't get birthday presents, nor have I since I was like 16, and who shops at shein just for a chance to kind of be trendy, I can't relate. Just 2 of the items that girl showed in her birthday haul would make me incredibly grateful.
@@ChocoShark-l9j absolutely, it's not her fault at all. Sounds like she's surrounded by privelaged vultures... I was making my comment in response to the comment about the brand not costing THAT much.
18:44 I really don’t know how it’s done, but my only kiddo loves celebrating anybody, and will walk around singing happy birthday and handing out “presents” to whoever they feel like. I think the trick is to explain and be the kind of person yourself who celebrates others and is just happy to be part of the party.
Dear Charlotte i just want to let you know that you have really helped me and my daughter through some really rough nights. She has epilepsy and when she has seizures she is pretty sore in the bed the couple days after and we spend that time watching videos from you and it always makes us laugh and in better moods. ❤ Love from Oklahoma
I am the baby of 8 children but grew up basically as an only child. However, I was that kid that was always SO HAPPY for other people on their special occasions because it was exciting to share their joy or be a part of making their day special. I was also an over considerate child that would put myself last and everyone else first because I just wanted to please everyone. I’m doing so I was constantly losing out. 😅
The lady who tried to escape to attend her first party at age 13 doesn't show she's spoiled. She shows bravery, but also like at 13 not the great judgement as most 13 year olds brains haven't matured yet. But she seems more mature now and realizes what we all realize as we grow up and wonder how we survived childhood.
Ah yes. She, the one who grew up with bodyguards, a garden, dogs with their own house in said garden, wasn’t spoiled. Granted, there is something to be said that wealth =/= healthy home life, but like. Let’s be real. Take a step back. She had body guards who had their own house on the property. You have to come from some kind of wealth to have that in your environment growing up. She was spoiled, had 1k of her money to just drop for a 15 minute party venture. Not all spoiled kids are without boundaries and rules. She was very entertaining though. Lol. Good storyteller.
@@slsthewriter1299 Having wealthy parents doesn't equal being spoiled. Freedom is very valuable, and she doesn't have that! The story could be made up for all we know. I don't see guards that make good money putting the job on the line for $1000.
@@slsthewriter1299 That doesn't mean happiness. Go back in the history of any noble women. They got married to whom they were told to. Queen Victoria was lucky that she loved her husband. Even as recent as Princess Diana this happened, she was deemed appropriate and the age difference was a lot.
@@seeya205 ?? Her parents didn't want her, a 13 year old child, go off to places/homes they don't know. For parties. Which can absolutely mean drugs, alcohol, etc. are present. She is being dramatic about the freedom bit. Again. Take a step back. She had 1k to drop on some little party thing she wanted to go to *at 13.*
Fun facts about the leaves you ate: they may have been loboda. I worked for a guy whose family had immigrated from Romania, and they brought seeds to grow loboda with them. It's one of the first things to come up in his garden every year, and it re seeds itself.
As an aunt with 2 nieces (3 actually but the 2 are sisters) i can confirm they were the “every birthday is my birthday” kid and my god it was so frustrating but thankfully they did break out of it at about 8-9 years old and while i have issues with them (Gen z mentality, sweet girls but man they are full of themselves sometimes) they aren’t those types who don’t care about others when its not about them. Some grow out of that mindset, some have to be taught and others never grow out of it
My ma always told me "if you have a plan don't tell everyone. Some will hate seeing you success and their jealousy will make them wish bad things on you"
6:00 is totally fake, the mom plans it out and makes the poor kid act that way for views. And then seeing how nasty the comments toward her kid are. Irony is since the kid is making the mom the money, she is earning the money.
Did they edit the video? I have gone back through the video twice and I don't see any clip about a purse that these comments are about. The 6:00 mark for me is the girl talking about the make-a-wish kid. I am so confused.
@@KristinHall0918there’s a comment somewhere here (can’t find it anymore) talking about the child and purse video account being problematic and charlotte responded saying they would edit the video now that she knew it was a problematic account
I was restricted too but poor... I don't care what your parenting style is, you have to let your teen learn about partying at basic levels, so they know how to venture into real adult parties later on. Love this channel. Happiest little triggers, LOL.
Yes. It's the over sheltered ones that go hog wild when they first get a taste of freedom and they don't understand how dangerous alcohol poisoning is or being under the influence around dangerous people who don't look dangerous.
Keep your shine SUPER BRIGHT AND SHINY, Charlotte! There is a huge difference between bragging and sharing your excitement over your accomplishments with the people that are important in your life. Your true friends will (and should) ALWAYS be happy and proud of you no matter what position or career or success you have accomplished.
If you’re one of those parents who relights birthday candles for the younger sibling (even though it isn’t their birthday) then you are part of the problem. I once watched a video where a boy was blowing out his birthday candles. But his little brother wanted to blow them out as well. So the dad put a paper plate in front of the younger brothers face every time he tried to blow out a candle. Every time the young child screamed, then when all the candles were out without little boy blowing out a single one, he started crying as if someone told him he gets no dessert. If I’m ever a parent, that’s the kind of father I would be. And if I was at some kids party and saw their parents go to relight the candles, I’d out loud say “don’t you dare”! Edit: I just heard Charlotte actually say “fuck” and this has moved up the list of my favorite channels. Start doing that more. I hate censorship!
"If your daddy's the rich one, you are not rich until dies." Wise words
And sometimes, not even then...
Well.... you see, if this Louis is as french as his name suggests, his dad can't wright him out of the will. That will would be void if a french dad tried to do that in France 😅
Yeah my Dad left us 80sets of tools. We have tools for every engine ever made. And that can of nuts& bolts.
I've been a professional nanny for 20+ years (often for very wealthy, sign an NDA type families. Don't worry, an NDA doesn't mean I can't anonymously spill the tea, lol.) Unfortunately a large majority of rich parents are so shitty & entitled that their attitudes are passed down to their children.
And they're so hands off in terms of parenthood that they literally buy their kid's affection & throw money at everything. It's like if money was the caregiver/babysitter instead of tv/screens.
And of course these are the same types of parents who would try to pay me $4/hour, 100+ hours/week to watch all four of their kids.
ETA: There are obviously tons of super kind & normal rich &/or famous people too. Some of the most famous people were the kindest, most involved parents. The worst were usually very rich with giant egos, but they weren't famous. It was clear they wanted to be. I'm sure y'all have met them too. It's the "don't you know who I/my father/my aunt/my cousin is?" crowd. (But we don't know your aunt. No one does. Sorry, lol.)
IF they leave their money to their spoiled ass kids 😅
That cancer story is exactly why when our son was diagnosed with cancer at 2.5 years old, we treated him like our daughter? No difference. He was told no when he couldn’t have something, he played outside, he had bed time routines and bath time routines, play dates, regular toddler activities. Obviously there were some unavoidable differences? He was allowed to eat whatever he wanted whenever he wanted. But with cancer/treatments you’re often not hungry. So, he was allowed food anything any time. Otherwise he was raised just like his sister so he wouldn’t be a terrible human as an adolescent/adult. Sadly we never got to see how he would be as a grown up as, just shy of his 4th birthday, his cancer returned and he did not survive. We miss him every day! ❤
Sorry for your loss…
I'm sorry for your loss. He would've been a great person with great parents lime yourself. 😘
So sorry for your loss😢
I’m so sorry for your loss.
My heart goes out to you and yours. That has to be one of the hardest things to have happen. My condolences.
I had breast cancer three years ago, and I never asked for anything for free or "played the cancer card" at all!
But I do remember when I was trying to pay for groceries and was trying to use my phone on the machine, but it wouldn't go through (too out of it to realise mobile transactions had somehow gotten locked on the app, and only needed to tap a button, duh), so I'm standing there, bald as an egg, pale as a snow covered wedding dress, brain melted from meds/chemo, trying not to cry when the guy in line behind me just tapped his card on the machine and paid the $79 for me. Me and the cashier were almost in tears. He wanted nothing in return, even the money when I asked for his number to pay him back.
One of the worst times of my life, and one of the most touching moments!
I love you Mr Man, and always will. I hope your life is as wonderful as you deserve, and I have already paid your kindness forward!
Now THIS is true, unconditional love & care. Just genuine kindness in someone’s hour of need. No need of praise, recognition or repayment, just a good person helping someone in their darkest hours. How different the works would be if we could all be like this. I sincerely hope you are/or on the way to good health. Blessings to you! 💕
It’s your choice not to ask for help from your community you never know if you don’t ask and I don’t see it being a evil thing if your asking help from other people as things like cancer are not easy to go threw at all let alone by yourself
Please stay healthy! As if you had a choice, but I pray that you do!
@@aliviaclaxton4379no it’s not always ok to ask because you know they’ll most likely say yes out of sympathy, even if they can’t afford it
@@aliviaclaxton4379 I actually did get a lot of help from a very wonderful community. I just didn't ask for, or feel entitled to it, and never expected anything for free because I was sick!
In fact without so many people in our smallish town having my back and endless encouragement and moral support for that period of time I don't know how I would've managed!
The whole "Every birthday is for me" kid thing- I told my girl early on that NOBODY owes her a gift, even on her birthday. If they do we thank them and are happy with what we get, but if they don't bring anything we are so glad they could be with us, because so many people don't have anyone to celebrate their birthday with. It starts there. Then you teach them about how birthdays are about being there for the people celebrating them and we love them and don't make it about us. You start this as soon as they are able to understand language. Honestly if more people were taught this early on we would have a lot fewer bridezillas.
What was wrong with the parents of the little girl and birthday cake! First, don’t let one child ruin another child’s birthday. No matter there age. I was upset with both girls. The little for ruining the older ones but the older one is the same. The little girl is turning four and the older one is happy to make her cry out of revenge. Go after the parents for letting a then three year old act selfish. But no the parents don’t do a thing! To either what is wrong with them!!
👏👏👏👏👏 I couldn't have said it better myself. Kudos to you!
I grew up thinking birthdays were commemorated by taking pro photographs, it was only when my mom bought our first tv that I realized there were other ways to celebrate birthdays
So true, I hate it when you have kids being hated for having attitude problems instead of the parents who teach them that. Good on you for raising thankful kids :)
Everything you said about B’days and when it comes to Xmas I have always told my children that they could make their list to Santa as long as they like BUT Santa would only bring you 2 or 3 things at the most and since Santa is always watching you better be grateful for what you did get.
Santa never brought everything under the tree in our house. It’s important to learn that other people love you enough to buy you gifts and you also need to learn how to be grateful for those gifts.
Another way we reinforced this idea of giving and gratitude was to take them to a charity wishing tree and let them choose and buy a gift for a child who didn’t have other people in their lives to get presents from. As soon as they were old enough to know the truth it made them feel so thankful that they had been able to give gifts to children that otherwise would have received nothing.
We are by no means rich so some years that was a struggle and our kids had to learn that it’s still better than nothing when you only get a small gift. And later in life how good it feels to give even you when you don’t have very much yourself.
We still do this, sometimes it’s still some children’s gifts under the wishing tree sometimes it’s buy a village a goat, or donate towards a water well etc. It never hurts to be reminded that there are always people that have it harder than you do.
Thankfully in Australia Xmas is at the beginning of the summer holidays and our kids were not kids during this age of putting everything on the internet. So there was very little opportunity for them to compare and ask Why Santa bought so and so Everything including - whatever the hottest/most indulgent thing was at the time.
Any occasion where a disparity was noticed I would at a quite and private moment say to them that it is incredibly sad that so and so didn’t have anyone else in their life that loved them enough to give them a gift.
Or if they were old enough, just to get them thinking, I would say that it sounded like a bit too much, maybe someone is not being entirely truthful about Santa and about how much he actually gives?
That first guy is 100% dangerous. He gets violent and its very obvious.
EDIT: Glad it's fake, I'm really not on TikTok, but y'all can relax with the disparaging comments. There are real people who do act like this in the world. Wish y'all well though
It’s fake
He is a comedian!
His videos are clearly staged lol. I saw another one of him trying to buy an entire wheel of parmesan and the shop owner wouldn't let him (??) 😂
@@icrissa😂😂😂 the whole wheel ? 😂
Richest kid in the world/Europe is actually Will and Kate's daughter Charlotte. This guy does unfunny parody of being rich
15:13 spoiled children like this are "created" not "born"
18:49 The way that child is angry-upset, not sad-crying, clearly shows that nobody has been teaching her sharing, boundaries, and the beginning of compassion. It's hard for little kids to get when it's not their turn, and to process those feelings. But not coaching them through that is a major parenting failure.
what is the older sister saying? I listened to it like ten times but can't understand
Growing up my parents would give us a $100 limit for Christmas and we thought it was so much. We loved it! After we all had kids they lowered it to $50. My dad was a money saver. When my parents passed they had a house for each child to inherit. Best parents I could've asked for ❤️
Girllll!😢 I started trauma therapy months ago and I finally had the "why am I dulling my shine to make them glitter more" revelation too! You know why? Because our hearts are huge and we don't like casting shadows on others so we bring our shine down to their level instead of expecting them to gtf off their *sses and get brighter like us....🙄😒
Keep shining beautiful!
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HEY CHARLOTTE. I'm living in the Netherlands and I work in a hospice/nursing home. I have seen many rich people dying in pain and alone in the hospice,so life is more than material things. 🥶 Greetings from the Netherlands 👍😉
❤I appreciate the little I have & that makes me happy. I provided hospice care for my grandfather & mother. They never mentioned money.
so true, you can't bring things in you other life
When I was still in the nursing profession, we moved to a new area. Hospital patients and nursing home residents, or their families, were always trying to do/get things that weren't allowed. As in JCAHO could shut you down, not allowed. And the first thing everyone said/asked was "Don't you know who I am?!?" Not being from the area, I could always answer honestly that "No, I have no idea who you are."
She never said otherwise. No sweat.
Je hebt helemaal gelijk!!
Being a cancer survivor myself, I find it despicable that some people think that they are owed things because they had and beat cancer!
You are at least owed 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 from a fellow (2x) survivor. May you live a long and happy life!
Bless you both. All my❤❤❤❤ hugs darlings
I had cancer and the only cool free stuff I got was slippers and a tee from my amazing best friend 😂
I had cancer for 3 months on occasion I did play the cancer card with my family but I'm in remission for 6 more months but cancer free nonetheless doing a little spoiling isn't bad but doing it your whole life is a yikes
My nephew had a tumour at the base of his skull when he was 2. There were surgeries and chemo plus radiation. My sister use to use it to get stuff for free or at discounts which I felt uncomfortable about, she would tell people at stores about nephew and then wait expectantly for them to respond. Nephew is almost 27 now, he still gets scans and often they find small tumours throughout his body that they remove and he continues. He is the nicest guy, he doesn’t expect anything from anyone, despite having some deficits caused by the chemo and radiation therapy that damaged his hearing and he will never have children of his own. My sister has always put him first in every way, which has been very hard on the daughter she was pregnant with when the tumour was found. She has always been a good mother to him though, and continues to support him tirelessly, helping him reach his career goals.
Congrats on winning your fight! F@*k cancer!
My parents lived paycheque to paycheque when we were growing up. Dad was in the Army and mum stayed home with us until we were all old enough to go to high school. I remember one Christmas i may have been about 9yrs old (1976) I desperately wanted the box set of Elvis 100 Super Rocks cassettes I’d seen advertised on TV. That’s one of the ways we played music back then and they lasted for years! I was down to my last present 🎁 and exploded with joy when I got the Elvis box set. My parents gave us a few small gifts and a big present. I’ve never forgotten that Christmas and how happy I was. It should never be about money only joy. To this day, I love making my family and friends happy with giving them gifts and seeing them smile. ❤️
The girl Albina has a youtube channel and shes great! She talks about growing up extremely wealthy and her family lost everything in the war and she came yo the US and studied computer programming (i think) and now she's extremely wealthy again. She talks about what it was like losing everything and having friends only care about your wealth. She's extremely down to earth 😊
Lmao you people really think you know someone because you see them in videos
I didn't think, she sounded that entitled at all!
I thought she was hilarious. 13 is 13 no matter how much money you have and that story was SO 13.
Her accent is not very believable
She didn't sound entitled at all, she sounded like a kid just trying to be a kid!
My nephew when he was 8 was gifted a Make a Wish adventure and he went to Disney and swam with Dolphins. His life expectancy was 15. He lived a fairly "normal" life until 26 and he died suddenly.
I'm so sorry. Childhood diseases must be so hard for families no matter the outcome. It's just exhausting.
My father died of cancer at 57, which is getting ridiculously young the closer I get to it. 57? I'm almost 52. Yikes. But 7, or 17, 27.. those are just not fair at all.
My nephew had cancer when he was 5 and Make-a-Wish sent him and his family to Disney World when he was done with treatment. He's now 31. 😊
Same with my niece but passed unexpectedly by 23.... Unfortunately from hospital error... They gave her an antibiotic that had already almost killed her (one nurse who was there & knew what happened advised against it, but wasn't listened to)... She would still be here if not for that...
She was born with Spina bifida & several other problems
So glad you had those extra years with him 🫂🫂🫂💚
I've seen a lot of makea wish kids where I worked. They gave them a beautiful day, with Barbie herself (model), tea party and toys. One time, this entitled secretary who worked for a top executive got away with walking with her the whole day, crying. Sobbing. It was so awkward.
May he rest in peace.
Charlotte, you have earned, and are so incredibly deserving of, every single ounce of happiness and joy that you have! If you have people in your life who can not see that, than they don't deserve to be in your life at all. I have a whole slew of crappy medical issues and what not going on, but that does not stop me from celebrating and being happy for my friends and family who are doing amazing and exciting things. I choose to live vicariously through them, and I am always one of the first to ask to see their pictures when they travel or their awards when they are rewarded at work and what not. Because they deserve to be supported and cherished, and so do you! Don't accept anything less.
My son was a “Make a Wish” child, having a life threatening medical condition and potentially might not have lived past teenage-hood. He is now 28 and still has the condition - it is not curable and he will always be medically fragile - when he gets sick, it’s always a serious (scary) issue. However, we tried to never treat him differently to our 2 other children (even when working around constant hospitalisation etc), such as when he had his monthly blood infusion at home, would be asked to be part of the normal family routine (eg, clear the table, help with washing up etc), while still attached to his infusion machine/tubes etc. He is now a lovely, well adjusted 29 year old man who never voluntarily discusses his condition - he takes care of himself medically, but never makes a fuss about it and most definitely never tells people he meets that he has a life-threatening illness. It is a part of him, but one he chooses to try to ignore. We have met many other children and parents over the years who make the illness their priority and expect special treatment or sympathy because of it, and we didn’t ever want to be like that, so as a result, my son is NOT one of those people!
Sorry, I had 2 different ages for him - he literally just turned 29 a week ago!
I have a chronic illness and choose not to discuss it much either. My brother told me a story where he met a guy with the same illness and tried baiting my bro to get a discount on car parts saying the poor me line.
My brother said his sister has the same illness and she doesn't talk about it. Schooled the idiot!
It's nice to have a retort like that though fortunately it never comes up. Good on your son for not playing the pity me card!
Sounds like you are an outstanding parent
@ Oh, you are so lovely! Thank you!🩷
@ And good for you too! I feel very uncomfortable when people try to use illness to gain advantage- sounds like you have a similar philosophy.🩷
The "spoiled" girl in the thumbnail is just a normal little girl who is exploited by her mom to act spoiled so her mom can get clout as the girl's internet footprint is ruined by the part her mom is making her play.
Yeah it kinda look like a skit. Or just rage bait 😅
Thanks for the info!! I HATE hearing stories like that. Shame on the parents who are doing this to their children!! Absolutely DISGUSTING!!! Ugh!! I hope for the best for her! Parents are supposed to protect their children, not use and abuse them!! Best wishes to you and yours!! To Us ALL!!💖🙏💖🫶
Correct. Just like the other momfluencer, exploiter.
This saddens me.
Well...she's not "normal". She's neglected and abused. The mom needs to be investigated and the kids definitely needs therapy to undo the obvious trauma that has damaged her.
As a mom, the video with the little girl breaks my heart!! So sick of these "influencers" basically bullying their children to get an extreme reaction that they can monetize.
Also, children can have a hard time understanding and distinguishing birthdays/holidays/etc., and even "non-spoiled" kids can get confused/upset if others get presents or attention when they don't. It's something that they learn through experience, and having responsible adults in their life who take the time to explain things to them (often repeatedly, as young kids learn best from repetition). The girl in the video is clearly lacking the proper guidance in her early life
When my first child became an older sister, we were facing sibling rivalries at birthdays. SO, my mom started bringing special headbands. One for the birthday girl (looks like a crown) and one for the sister (with bright flowers and not as showy as the birthday crown). My girls got excited about wearing them, and even were considerate taking turns! No one needed a gift on her sister's birthday so they didn't feel left out! Thanks, Nana!
When we were little (there were 4 of us under 5 years old), we all got presents on someone's birthday.
Normalize teaching your child tho that there ARE days that are absolutely not about them. If it's someone else's birthday, you don't get anything special except to be privileged to be there and a piece of cake is the 'treat'. Nothing else
@@kaileeclevenger3981 finally someone with common sense 👏👏👏
I think I had it easy because our birthdays were one month apart in birth order: older brother, me, younger brother. We each had a month to ourselves and only had to wait a few weeks between birthdays.
That is still teaching her that it’s ok for her to impede on her sister’s day. On her sister’s birthday which is NOT ABOUT HER, she doesn’t need a headband because it’s not her birthday. That’s how you raise a girl who thinks it’s ok to get engaged at her sister’s wedding or wear white to it. Nope.
My parenting advice: “They DONT explode when you tell them no”
Right?? If that were my kid losing their crap on their birthday and nothing would calm them, I'd be like, "Welp, we're packing up the birthday. We'll do this at a point in the future when you can straighten up and fly right. No one is required to put up with your ugly behavior."
Mine was they don't cry tears of blood 😅
Not literally anyway. Lololol
My mom told me a story from when I was little. I really wanted a tickle me elmo toy. When she said no, I threw a fit. She dropped everything and walked me out of the store with nothing. She said sfter that I never did it again.
15 minute party girl’s cardigan is the hero in that story. That snap was holding together like Deadpool and Wolverine with “Like A Prayer” playing in the background.
My sister in law is always the star of the show. When I turned 30 I spent my birthday in hospital having surgery for uterine cancer. After having a total hysterectomy, cervix removed and bilateral removal of both my ovaries, I had a prolapse of my vjj the day after when evil Evelyn turns up at the hospital with my mother in law. EE had a headache and my mother in law insisted that I appreciate how difficult it was for EE to visit me, that I must be quiet and that my nurse should attend to EE's headache and could I get out of bed so she could lay down for a while. I think she was a bit jealous of my cancer attention. Needless to say high on my painkillers I told them what I thought and had duo doom removed. They didn't even get me flowers or a birthday card 😂😂
Omg!!
Your SIL and MIL are evil. I hope you’re feeling better now and are cancer free.
Girl WHAT, i'm so angry for you wtf
I hope the nurse was on your side and she said just take panadol and drink water and you will be fine. 😂😂
They own the "how to be a narcissist handbook."
My friend's kid had a Make-A-Wish and he wasn't terminal (15 years ago).. he was super sick with a blood disorder that they weren't sure they'd be able to control. Thankfully he's 20ish now and thriving.
Not the Ceausescu reference! 💀💀💀🤣🤣 - Also the mom with the kid at the end, I kinda thought, she was gonna turn to him and tell him "OK, this is how much it'll all cost you"
4:33. Every child is different. To her, that prison of gold and diamonds was just that. She actually seemed pretty down to earth, and I can feel bad for someone's situation regardless of how much money they have. Because I grew up poor, and was judged/ not cared about/ neglected because of how much money I didn't have. We're all just humans. Someone always has it better, and someone always has it worse.
Ya know I was thinking the same thing. She wasn't acting entitled, she just wanted a chance to be a normal kid and do stuff with friends/meet people/have fun.
On the opposite side, I grew up having everything I wanted and felt like I was living in a prison too, so ngl I was 100% on her side. I'm dirt broke now that I'm an adult (to the point that we libe in subsidized housing and STILL struggle with rent) but having the freedom really beats not even being able to eat a cookie or something without someone piping up about carbs and how much I weighed, or not even being allowed to go to a football game just out of spite because someone made my dad peeved at work that day. I think we tend to forget that money does not, in fact, buy happiness. It helps a lot and you won't catch me denying that. But my experience is definitely not unique. Rich parents are often awful (though I've known some extremely nice ones too ofc). When bad people with money have kids, it gives them a LOT of power to keep those kids on a chain or abuse them without getting caught.
7:15 when I was 7-18 I would wait till dinner to eat one slice of bread and a cup of yoghurt before going to sleep ( the breakfast was an apple, the lunch was plain white rice) because I grew up poor with drug dealer father who was fortunately always away for months and even years, leaving my mom to single parent with no money, this kind of videos upset me deeply, they don't comprehend how blessed they are, they really can't see it and it's on them but also on the adults on their lives.
I'm sorry to hear about the suffering you had 😢 I grew up poor too, but my circumstances were not the same as yours so I did have 3 meals a day which I am very grateful for and made sure my children had that too. It seems to me that money is a curse for many... I feel very grateful and very blessed to know that there are privileges and gifts one can obtain for free, such as kindness and responsibility and respect. I hope your life is better now and I hope that even though watching stuff like this is upsetting, on the other side like me you can be glad to know that you're free from the curse those spoiled people are under ❤
Also the mom was the one buying those purses and making her daughter pretend she did it, the mom wanted online attention, which was getting her daughter bullied both online and real life, I heard she had to switch schools multiple times.
The mom was liking the mean comments made about her daughter.
So….
Not everything you see online is as portrayed.
You dont know what you dont know 😢
While some were definitely entitled, it doesn’t mean that they have to thankful and not complain about anything because others are poor. I grew up poor as well, not as poor as you (trauma from mom’s abuse is worse than the trauma from poverty.). Others are still allowed to complain about things like the girl who had to scale a fence because she wanted to go to a party. A gold cage is still a cage. We just have to live day to day not caring about others being asses unless it personally affects us.
Extreme wealth shouldn’t exist at all but that’s another story for another day.
HELP NOT BOBBY 11:35 😂 dw yall he's not the richest kids in Indonesia, Bobby is just an internet personality bcs i watch his older content about food reviews www
I never feel more well-adjusted than when watching these videos.
Amen 😂😂😂😂
Lol right
😂😂😂
I used to watch Nanny 911(?) when I felt my kids were out of control. Mine had issues but nothing nanny worthy. Whew.
My granny said my mom was bad. So she gave her the mother’s curse “I hope your kids are just like you or worse.”. But I was a better kid than my mom, and my daughter was better than me. All it takes it lots of conversations. Real conversations where you don’t dumb things down. Kids are just mini adults. They understand way more than you think.
@@Solènelamigonnelicornethat’s very seeet. Thank you
Yes! I’m always saying that kids are just little humans learning how to exist, it’s my job to teach them to be decent humans, so I do my best by being as honest as I can, no topic is off limits, but I do make it as age appropriate as I can
My grandma said to my mom, she'd always hoped mom would have a kid as bad as herself, and looking as me, grandma said her wish had come true. She said I was as bad as twenty of my mom. Gee, thanks, grandma!
Ohhhhhh my mom did lol.
My middle child is a redhead and she takes all those stereo typically redhead thing to the max.
I wasn't that bad as a kid. And I'm always being asked if I'm a natural redhead cuz I'm so calm.... but u mess with my kids, my family or my very close friends and I will show that redhead part
@ lol it’s ok. I was always used as the bad example in the family. Out of 15 siblings my mom said I was her “greatest challenge”. Lol yay for the difficult ones. It’s not my fault I felt the neighbors needed to talk more, so I played scavenger hunt with their lawn ornaments…
Just so you know, the mother & son you see at 20:05 did that as a skit. He’s a great kid & the whole family is a great bunch! I know this because not only do I follow them BUT I’ve also seen that actual video that you shared in THIS video that you made!!!! 🙂🇨🇦👍🥰
I have 3 kids. (Boys if that matters) When they were small, they at first thought it was their birthday even if it wasn’t. I held them and told them that their brother is one year older and that it’s now their turn to blow the candles. But that he can make a card/gift for his brother and show how happy you are for him.
Only my middle son is slightly entitled. And only because he had health issues and got more attention because of that. But none were like these kids.
"You are not rich till he dies" the wake up call by Queen Charlotte 👏
Not only that, but a young person with that mindset has no clue how to replicate his parents' success. He only knows how to spend and buy.
Thanks!
Charlotte Nooooo… The little girl with the Purse is Being Abused by her Mom… The Mom buys all these Expensive Things and Yells at her Daughter on Camera saying the daughter buys it… It’s been talked about on other Reaction Channels I watch…
The state should take her away for a medical diagnosis. An obese 3-year-old was removed and her mother charged with child abuse for overfeeding her!
Thank you guys for the heads up. Will adjust the video right away.
@@CharlotteDobre it's been all around RUclips for weeks. It's weird that You guys didn't know that.
@@iridium7554 This video was filmed over a month ago, and it was sourced probably a month before that. News publications often release corrections to stories they get wrong. This channel isn't really about journalism; it's for entertainment, but on the rare occasion that things slip through the cracks, I respond immediately and make adjustments. That's the best I can do, I hope you understand!
Charlotte works so fast! Love that she listens to her Followers 💕💕💕
The little girl with the birthday cake is 100% the product of her parents and the adults around her. She was never taught about sharing, that not everything is about her, and that she can’t have everything she wants. She will continue to struggle with this throughout her life if her parents don’t step in and fix it ASAP.
Sounds like my older sister. On one birthday the neighbors baked me a mini-cake. She threw such a fit that my mom went over and asked them to bake her one too. My whole childhood was like that, and my sister was abusive to me too. We don't speak.
I know a seven year old like this. It's really the parents who can't say no and don't realise it's harmful for children to have no boundaries at all. It's not all necessarily lost, so I hope she'll figure it out somehow.
Honestly though.. I made that joke to my daughter on her 3rd birthday and she said "okay, mommy! We share! Blow out the candles with me!"
In my experience, it was honestly not that hard to raise 2 sons who never acted like this. Even when they were little, we just talked with the non-birthday boy the day before and reminded him that it was his brother’s day and when it was his birthday. They never had a problem or acted out. They were just happy that they got cake too.
And that was just her Birthday could you imagine if she was getting married how bad of a bride zillia she'd be oh and let's not forget she'd probably make her bridesmaids wear ugly a** dresses and be horrible to everyone and has to make sure NO ONE looks prettier then her
Only having one child could make matters worse. I had 4 and they never threw tantrums for their birthday or Christmas. Taking time ahead of birthdays and holidays to teach them how to respond to others getting gifts when they don’t get them AND how to show gratitude when they get something they don’t like is so important. I did this several years in a row when my kids were little. Character training is important and possible not to make them into someone else rather to enforce their strengths and help them recognize their weaknesses
The christmas one, dude 😭😭
As the oldest sibling in a poor family, I went a few Christmases without a present so that my younger brothers could have gifts. My dad ended up getting a better job the summer before my senior year of high school and ended up giving me an old beater of a car for Christmas that year. This was 1 of 3 big gifts I got in total after 2008. We were fortunate enough to have family friends that would buy my brother's gifts, and though nobody told me anything, I strongly suspect that the old car was at least partially funded by said family friend.
I feel you, the biggest gift I got was a game console (that I really really wanted so bad) for which I payed half. I saved allowance and chore money for a year for that gift...
I was so grateful I only had to pay half and played that sucker for many years to come.
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I didn't feel it was actually real but a skit. The boy was trying not to laugh.
If people are jealous of you Charlotte then it is their problem. You are one of the most kind and understanding people out there. Don't ever change... Always look forward to listening to your comments on different situations. Stay as you are. We love you.....
15:00 that's me to all my little cousins, nieces, and nephews 😂😂😂. "that says it's my birthday!"
It’s very possible to teach kids to be happy for others in the spotlight. From a very young age, emphasize celebrating others’ happiness with real enthusiasm. Model it for them.
Also, when my son was maybe 4/5, he started doing his own Christmas shopping for others. I taught him one of the most fun things about Christmas is *giving* gifts. We went to the dollar store with a list of close family members, teachers, friends - and he selected the gifts for them all. Some folks received things like a piece of foam poster board or one glass plate. It was great practice thinking of others, and the recipients always loved the gifts and his explanations of why he selected them.
Criteria for Make a Wish:
1. Must be 2.5 and 18.
2. Have an illness that has put their life in danger.
3. Must not have been granted a wish from another organization.
There are other criteria, but these are the main 3 requirements.
Yes! I work with kids with cystic fibrosis and I was surprised but they all get to Make a Wish - even though (very thankfully) it isn’t as much of a death sentence present day as it once was.
Exactly. He was probably a Make-a-Wish kid when he actively had cancer likely, and he fortunately beat it. It does happen, but it's still granted to cancer kids before they become super sick as they want them to be able to enjoy it. If they're on their death bed, they can't enjoy it, so it's granted ahead of time in case they get super sick and don't make it.
Also must be a John Cena fan.
Absolutely! When I was first granted my wish, I was 15 years old and actively waiting for a transplant. I couldn't up and go on a Make-A-Wish trip because I could get the call for an organ any minute. They let me take the trip two years later when I had recovered from surgery and most of the post-surgical complications.
13:58 As a chef - this is one meal that you could get in a restaurant that costs so much:
- light potato mousse with maitake steak under egg flackes.
This dish takes 4½ day to make. You get a small portion because you usually get a 5, 7 or 9 course meal, so you can try it all and eat it all. The menu size is 500 to 600g per person, so if you have a 9 course meal you need to divide that quantity of food into 9 plates. That is why the portions are small, but the work that goes behind every bite is what you are actually paying. It doesn't matter if you get one potato or 15, that potato still requires the same amount of knowledge, skill and time to be prepared. 90% of the stuff like marinating/cooking/baking/smoking/rosting/drying takes hours and hours. The techniques that are used, machines that need to be bought, all the science that goes into that kind of cooking is incredible. The kitchen of that kind of chef looks more like a half kitchen and half - mixture of a lab and an art atelier than a traditional kitchen. I have worked in places where you need 15 to 20 min to prepare a dish, but I have also made a dessert for my final exam in cooking school that took me two full days of work. The difference between the texture, quality and taste is unimaginable. I am truly humbled to be able to be a part of that world and understand the complexity behind every bite. It's magic, science and art in its purest form.
5:00 I am fairly certain that this girl and her mom have been proven to be faked. As in, the mom buys expensive things and makes her daughter act as if she (the daughter) stole the card to get it.
Yes she is abusing this girl! She is being harassed by strangers and the mother is liking it 🫥
@jacefromanotherworld I know, it's so sad! This girl is so young and her mom is setting her up to get bullied :/
Thank you for being informative without bashing others at the same time!
It's a future lawsuit. Poor kid is being abused in the home and outside it.😢
@@malka1800She already set her up to get bullied, look at how unhealthy that child is at just 7 yrs old. She’s a bad parent in more than one way
the first guy is a skit. He's hysterical. You should hear his phone calls to his dad. Laugh out loud funny!
Name of channel?
Oh thank god
That’s what I thought!!
That makes it worse. These skits aren't funny and it's getting old.
@@SALshaNomalol okay party pooper
17:15 pay attention to those who support you on your achievements and those who remain silent/ get annoyed. It’ll show who your true friends are.
' Oh, I bought a new apple watch because everyone was making fun of the old one' sounds ridiculous 😂
It does but in that particular circle, I do understand that those kids can be brutal to others for not having the latest and greatest. I’ve always been comfortable with myself and never allowed others comments to influence me in any way. My big sister was easily influenced. She passed away when she was 25. Rich or poor, there are bullies and ridiculous nonsense. I like that she’s saving her money, someone is teaching her financial literacy!
It does sound ridiculous to us, but among the very rich kids this is a popular reason to bully, unfortunately. The parents of one kind of rich kid who went to a pretty prestigious private school said that the kid's classmates (maybe not all of them, but some for sure) were non-stop discussing who was wearing which clothing brand and trying to make fun of kids who weren't wearing expensive enough brands. So I actually like that the girl in the video also kept her old watch, which means she isn't completely giving in to that bullying.
My friend was pressured into buying a new car by her kids because her kids were endlessly harassed at school because she drove a 5 year old minivan. I can absolutely believe someone was harassed about an Apple Watch. Elitism is a thing
The whole being happy for others is soooo true. I’m always sooo ecstatic when my friends are doing well. When they aren’t it literally hurts my heart. I just want people to happy, healthy, wealthy, and blessed.
@
I don’t think you’re bad.
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@@erikarussell1142 twinkel twinkel little star how i wander what you are up apove the world so high like a diamand in the sky good night mommy Érica i love you in wish to meet you 😊❤️🦄🌃
Don't ever dull your shine for anyone girl!
Sometimes it does genuinely take years to arrange a make-a-wish. One of my childhood friends was diagnosed at 6 with leukemia and then again at 12. Her wish was to design a cancer-centric purse with a famous designer.
She ended up designing a bag with the late Kate Spade, but only actually did it as a senior in HS, at 18.
I think a lot of it depends on the urgency of the diagnosis.
Edit: She is one of the sweetest, hardest working, most empathetic humans on this earth and is so far from entitled even thoug, she too, went through cancer during her developmental years.
Money doesn’t get you class.
And your dad’s money doesn’t get you respect 😅
SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND CHARLOTTE ❤❤❤
As someone who had cancer, I became one of those cancer patients taking care of everyone else telling them I was going to be okay. Worried about them around me rather than letting others take care of me.
I know how that is. I hope you are doing well and learning to allow yourself to accept help. You deserve love, care and support.
Also, I don’t know if you are familiar with the term “toxic positivity”, but I hope through out your journey and/or processing it post treatment that you also have people who are willing to just hear you and see what you are going though, letting you feel your feelings (while not going into unhealthy wallowing of course) with respond with “well, at least…” or “yeah, but…” every little time you try to express anything but sunny optimism. You deserve that too. ❤️🤞🏾
I feel you…
@HunnyBee-w7r I'm happy to report that I'm a survivor and have been for many years now. I have nothing to complain about. My life is beautiful because I have grandbabies now. Nothing in this world is more beautiful than grandbabies.
0:57 - Louis needs to listen to his woman.
Charlotte, don't ever dull your shine for other people's comfort. Those who care will love your shine, and those who don't will remove themselves or fizzle away only to be replaced with more shiny people who love you doing well for yourself!
It took me a long while to stop dumbing myself down, and stop looking how I wanted, but after a near death experience and illness I ended up just going for it and I've been joined by people who want to be their best selves and love others being their best as well, and also maintained many friends who just want to see everyone happy too. I only lost the toxic ones or the people who had no drive or goals in life.
3:23 dogs understood the assignment 😂😂😂✅✅✅
Truly 😂😂😂
When the food is so high-end it becomes a concept 😂 I briefly knew a guy whose dad worked for royalty somewhere in the world and this guy had an assistant. He was at uni! He was lovely but admitted he had no clue about how the rest of the students lived.
I’ve never made a list I always felt bad asking for anything but somehow my grandma and mom always ended up knowing me well enough that whatever I got for Christmas was something I didn’t even know I needed ❤
My son never went through that "mine" brat stage thank God. The first time we played Candy Land when he was like 4, he won and cried because we weren't all together at the Castle as a family. At his 3rd birthday when it was present time he started passing out the gifts to all his little friends not expecting, or enjoying the fact that they were all for him.
When I was 7 all I wanted was A snoopy snowcone machine 😂 yes, I am OLD.
The coveting I felt when I read this! 😂 so much yes. ❤❤❤
I wanted an Easy Bake Oven, but my parents were afraid I'd burn the house down. They may have had a point, actually...
@@alyzu4755 burn the house down with a light bulb?
@aduckofsomesort If anyone could, it'd be me. 😊
All I wanted was an ez bake oven. Still waiting
I think around 2020 there was an ask Reddit from former Make A Wish kids. That's when I learned that sometimes they survive.
14:45
... Are we just gonna glaze over the SMALL... 4 BEDROOM APARTMENT!
Him calling it small😅😅
Hearing the words "small 4 bedroom apartment" makes me want to become the living embodiment of Xipe Totec. I'm getting my potato peeler as we speak.
Yes because that’s only one part of the whole joke
I saw that, looked around at my tiny 1 bedroom apartment and was like STFU!
15:21 Listening to murder shows while reading the bible every night at 1am is terrifying behavior
These kids need to realize that their parents are rich, not them 😂. Humble sammich coming soon 🤣
My parents didn't have a credit card.
I stole paper food stamps (American giving away my old age).
All i wanted was a 3 musketeer camdy bar. Less then one dollar.
Sad kids now adays wanna spend so much.
I wanted a candy bar.
Its fake. The girl is being abused to "act" so the mother get exposure. She even likes the comment wishing 💀 to HER DAUGHTER. 😔
My parents didn't have cards then either. But I never felt the need to steal money. But I stole food at night.
We’re old. lol back in our days they would have tanned our behinds if we even thought about touching their money. We got “toys” like a milk bottle and wooden cloths pins. You held the pins out shoulder high and tried to drop them in the bottle. And you’d better express lots of gratitude for it! My mother used to paint the pins to look like people.
I’m a “happy for others” girl, and I’m proud of it!
And don’t get me wrong, I feel envious sometimes, but it typically passes pretty quickly because I’m honestly happy for the other person!❤
I used to deal with a lot of jealousy issues, but after doing a lot of trauma work, I embrace the concept of compersion: finding happiness with other people's joy and supporting that joy. The people in my life also practice compersion with me, so it's been a very positive move that I'm so glad I made.
@ that’s excellent!!!
That little girl screaming at the birthday cake . . . Whew! So glad I didn't have kids!
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
Look, I don't know who that guy is, but I do know who Charlotte is and she's amazing.
Good Morning🎉🎉🎉🎉
Good morning to you!!!
@Neverendingstory78 Instead, this comment is what gives me second hand embarrassment. Someone is being a positive light and you're a negative Nancy..
@@Neverendingstory78yikes
@@Neverendingstory78Who hurt you early in the morning?
"EvErYtHiNg'S fOr SaLe" 😭 i wish I could think like that 🙃
It's true though. Sometimes the price isn't money, but yes, everything has a price, everything is for sale. Especially morals nowadays.
There's no line a human being wouldn't cross if the "price" is right. Saying otherwise is naive.
Like, you think you would never steal? Wait till your kid is hungry. You think you wouldn't betray your principles and take bribe money? Wait until someone waves 1 million $ under your nose and you have a spouse and kids to think of at home.
It's better you don't. Clearly unhinged people behave this wasy
Not everything is for sale. Absolutely not.
@@edene.4870that’s why you teach your children not everything is for sale. And then you explain what and why. I absolutely would never sell my body, I absolutely would never kill anyone in anger, I absolutely would never be over run by greed and profit off of tax fraud or embezzlement etc. I know myself.
LOL, be thankful you don't think like that. If you think that's true, it means you yourself is available to be bought. Hoping for everyone to remain priceless and happy.
🧡 Absolutely love your pattern recommendation videos! 🥰
The story about your dad taking you to Romania and making you eat leaves is hilarious typical dad 😂
Oh my gosh, thank you for commenting on that. I feel like no one was talking about her eating leaves and poison ivy like it wasn’t the craziest thing that has ever been said.
"Why am I dulling my shine to make other people feel comfortable" Yeah, that got me.
Don't EVER dull your shine, Charlotte! You are beautiful inside and out! Your shine brings so much light to a dark world. You deserve a lifetime of happiness 🥰Love you, bestie!🤍🫶
As a make a wish kid I'd like to let you know that not every make a wish kid is like that and i honestly agree with the comment seen at 12:08 in the video because I was only given my make a wish trip because i had to have a major surgery ( if anyone would like to know i went to the Harry Potter studio tour in London)
I actually really like the second woman/story. I think it makes her relatable in a weird way.
Charlotte, everything you have, you've made for yourself. Be proud ❤
When I was 7, all I wanted in life was the game Mouse Trap. I would have done ANYTHING for it. That was back in 1987...when all I could do is go to Toys-R-Us and dream!
It was overrated and took way too long to set up if it makes you feel better. In 1987 I was starting high school. Dirty Dancing. Bon Jovi. Married with Children and Cheers. Guess jeans. 😂
Very REASONABLE birthday haul. 😳 then there is me who has legit not had a single birthday or Christmas present in 6 years. 😅
Same
Same!! I was excited to get a card this year 😅
I genuinely wouldn’t be bothered if I didn’t get gifts, I’m 42 and at this point if I want something I tend to just get it myself, but I will cherish the gifts my kids get me because they want to get me something and it makes them happy - wish I could send you a birthday gift! Sending a virtual one! 🎁
I've learned to settle for someone just REMEMBERING it was my birthday. 😂
Welcome to being an adult! 😂
"I am just existing. " - Charlotte Dobre ❤
["bars"] 😂❤😂
Charlotte, if your friends make you dull your shine, they are not your friends, get rid of them!!!! A true friend accepts you for who you are, how you are, what you are, good, bad, indifference. You should never have to worry about what you say or what you wear or how you act around a friend, that’s a true friend.
3:50 I don't think she is spolied, her family just had money and she was kid that wanted to have fun😂
That is very much my take on it, too. Tbh, I found it rather charming 😊🥰
To be THAT wealthy, to have BODYGUARDS, it really can be just as damaging as many other childhood challenges and traumas
I hope she's as well put together as she seems. EVERY CHILD deserves to have a solid start to a balanced adulthood for themself. 🥲🤞🤞
Right? I thought she was funny, and if it's a true story she was just looking for a little bit of normal. I highly doubt she's the kind of person who expects the world to drop at her feet if she's negotiating with dogs about barking so she can parkour to freedom. You can have money, and even know how to use the leverage it gives you when you need it, without being entitled or a douche,
"I wanted to PAARRTYYY"...so cute. Learnt some keen negotiating skills (dogs and bodyguards!)...it wasn't all bad.
She was funny, relatable and didn't seem spoiled. Just a teen who tried to sneak out. 😂
@KOKO-uu7yd depending where she's from the bodyguards was actually a necessity. I know that in Russia and Ukraine it's a thing to kidnap kids from extremely rich families for ransom. I knew an international student who came from a wealthy family who wasn't allowed to take the metro and his parents paid for a chauffeur to drive him around because of that issue.
Oh Charlotte! I love your shine! You have suffered in the past, and worked hard to make your way to the sassy, funny woman we all love. Enjoy your success, and your cute guy! Mwah! 💋
For Christmas we always did "Something you Want, Something you Need, Something to Wear, and Something to Read." Several things to open, but it keeps it manageable.
I bet those 15 minutes were GLORIOUS!!!
You shouldn't dull your shine you are beautiful. You seem like a genuinely nice and giving person.
As someone who doesn't get birthday presents, nor have I since I was like 16, and who shops at shein just for a chance to kind of be trendy, I can't relate. Just 2 of the items that girl showed in her birthday haul would make me incredibly grateful.
Honestly, I'm just happy for her. Her personality is a little bland though 😅
@@ChocoShark-l9j absolutely, it's not her fault at all. Sounds like she's surrounded by privelaged vultures... I was making my comment in response to the comment about the brand not costing THAT much.
18:44 I really don’t know how it’s done, but my only kiddo loves celebrating anybody, and will walk around singing happy birthday and handing out “presents” to whoever they feel like. I think the trick is to explain and be the kind of person yourself who celebrates others and is just happy to be part of the party.
Dear Charlotte i just want to let you know that you have really helped me and my daughter through some really rough nights. She has epilepsy and when she has seizures she is pretty sore in the bed the couple days after and we spend that time watching videos from you and it always makes us laugh and in better moods. ❤ Love from Oklahoma
The birthday haul girl was honestly funny. The “Everybody keeps telling me they’re fugly 😐” Got me laughing ngl
You teach them from the time they're born, you start teaching them. That's what I did with my kids. My youngest is 19, they learn. Don't be afraid.
Charlotte, surround yourself with people that are truly happy for you and the success you've achieved bestie ❤
I am the baby of 8 children but grew up basically as an only child. However, I was that kid that was always SO HAPPY for other people on their special occasions because it was exciting to share their joy or be a part of making their day special. I was also an over considerate child that would put myself last and everyone else first because I just wanted to please everyone. I’m doing so I was constantly losing out. 😅
The lady who tried to escape to attend her first party at age 13 doesn't show she's spoiled. She shows bravery, but also like at 13 not the great judgement as most 13 year olds brains haven't matured yet. But she seems more mature now and realizes what we all realize as we grow up and wonder how we survived childhood.
Ah yes. She, the one who grew up with bodyguards, a garden, dogs with their own house in said garden, wasn’t spoiled.
Granted, there is something to be said that wealth =/= healthy home life, but like. Let’s be real. Take a step back. She had body guards who had their own house on the property. You have to come from some kind of wealth to have that in your environment growing up. She was spoiled, had 1k of her money to just drop for a 15 minute party venture. Not all spoiled kids are without boundaries and rules.
She was very entertaining though. Lol. Good storyteller.
Yeah. That doesn't sound like a privileged life.
Never getting a moment to yourself really.
@@slsthewriter1299 Having wealthy parents doesn't equal being spoiled. Freedom is very valuable, and she doesn't have that! The story could be made up for all we know. I don't see guards that make good money putting the job on the line for $1000.
@@slsthewriter1299 That doesn't mean happiness. Go back in the history of any noble women. They got married to whom they were told to. Queen Victoria was lucky that she loved her husband. Even as recent as Princess Diana this happened, she was deemed appropriate and the age difference was a lot.
@@seeya205 ?? Her parents didn't want her, a 13 year old child, go off to places/homes they don't know. For parties. Which can absolutely mean drugs, alcohol, etc. are present. She is being dramatic about the freedom bit.
Again. Take a step back. She had 1k to drop on some little party thing she wanted to go to *at 13.*
Charlotte, you’re so funny and your channel is the best! Your editor needs an award and so do you girl.😂🤣🥰
Fun facts about the leaves you ate: they may have been loboda. I worked for a guy whose family had immigrated from Romania, and they brought seeds to grow loboda with them. It's one of the first things to come up in his garden every year, and it re seeds itself.
As an aunt with 2 nieces (3 actually but the 2 are sisters) i can confirm they were the “every birthday is my birthday” kid and my god it was so frustrating but thankfully they did break out of it at about 8-9 years old and while i have issues with them (Gen z mentality, sweet girls but man they are full of themselves sometimes) they aren’t those types who don’t care about others when its not about them.
Some grow out of that mindset, some have to be taught and others never grow out of it
My ma always told me "if you have a plan don't tell everyone. Some will hate seeing you success and their jealousy will make them wish bad things on you"
So tell some people
6:00 is totally fake, the mom plans it out and makes the poor kid act that way for views. And then seeing how nasty the comments toward her kid are. Irony is since the kid is making the mom the money, she is earning the money.
Its not fake
Did they edit the video? I have gone back through the video twice and I don't see any clip about a purse that these comments are about. The 6:00 mark for me is the girl talking about the make-a-wish kid. I am so confused.
@@KristinHall0918there’s a comment somewhere here (can’t find it anymore) talking about the child and purse video account being problematic and charlotte responded saying they would edit the video now that she knew it was a problematic account
@dinofever oh thank you!! I was SO confused lol
I was restricted too but poor... I don't care what your parenting style is, you have to let your teen learn about partying at basic levels, so they know how to venture into real adult parties later on. Love this channel. Happiest little triggers, LOL.
Yes. It's the over sheltered ones that go hog wild when they first get a taste of freedom and they don't understand how dangerous alcohol poisoning is or being under the influence around dangerous people who don't look dangerous.
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Keep your shine SUPER BRIGHT AND SHINY, Charlotte!
There is a huge difference between bragging and sharing your excitement over your accomplishments with the people that are important in your life.
Your true friends will (and should) ALWAYS be happy and proud of you no matter what position or career or success you have accomplished.
"So delusional, fuck."
Exactly.
If you’re one of those parents who relights birthday candles for the younger sibling (even though it isn’t their birthday) then you are part of the problem. I once watched a video where a boy was blowing out his birthday candles. But his little brother wanted to blow them out as well. So the dad put a paper plate in front of the younger brothers face every time he tried to blow out a candle. Every time the young child screamed, then when all the candles were out without little boy blowing out a single one, he started crying as if someone told him he gets no dessert. If I’m ever a parent, that’s the kind of father I would be. And if I was at some kids party and saw their parents go to relight the candles, I’d out loud say “don’t you dare”!
Edit: I just heard Charlotte actually say “fuck” and this has moved up the list of my favorite channels. Start doing that more. I hate censorship!
I agree with this. Never too young to learn to let other people have their birthday without interfering