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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  3 года назад +701

    Watch "16 Personalities as Moms" next! 👉 ruclips.net/video/9vLvI291UE0/видео.html

    • @ࢪودَيناا-ض2ق
      @ࢪودَيناا-ض2ق 3 года назад +3

      Okay .

    • @christianaudiobooks2023
      @christianaudiobooks2023 3 года назад +16

      16 personalities as Hogwarts students. Which house would they be in?

    • @a-dwi
      @a-dwi 3 года назад +4

      That was fun Frank. Don't think I'll ever wanna be one tho 😂😌

    • @四方八方
      @四方八方 3 года назад +2

      more outtakes please lol

    • @cosmo4288
      @cosmo4288 3 года назад +2

      I saw that Frank and the intj one was extremely accurate. Whoever keeps quite more, gets my love more lol.

  • @Trixie_Lavender
    @Trixie_Lavender 3 года назад +4689

    "Being a big kid sucks!"
    Don't worry, kid. It gets worse!

    • @whocares4607
      @whocares4607 3 года назад +18

      Lol

    • @Emily_Cookie
      @Emily_Cookie 3 года назад +46

      That's Like the only Thing my dad tought me

    • @stevethea5250
      @stevethea5250 3 года назад +30

      @@whocares4607 INFJ ONE SO TRUE
      2:38 WAS FUNNY

    • @mcmike4144
      @mcmike4144 3 года назад +9

      Sounds like me.

    • @labyrinthine444
      @labyrinthine444 3 года назад +13

      just because adults have to pay bills and have jobs doesn’t mean that they have harder lives

  • @khushkhan4343
    @khushkhan4343 3 года назад +3411

    ESTP 0:01
    ISFJ 0:09
    ISTP 0:14
    ESFP 0:27
    ISTJ 0:34
    ESTJ 0:53
    ISFP 1:03
    ESFJ 1:12
    ENFJ 1:28
    ENTJ 1:40
    INTP 1:51
    ENFP 2:05
    ENTP 2:20
    INFP 2:37
    INTJ 3:00
    INFJ 3:06
    Edit- Thank u everyone i have never got this much appreciation for a comment ❤️🤗

  • @equestrianrosie
    @equestrianrosie 3 года назад +5060

    Oh. My. God. The accuracy of INTJ. I am still mocked to this day for telling my mother as a 7-year old “you don’t discipline me enough.” (Her response, reasonably, was “Would you like me to start now?” 🤣)

    • @Jooney91
      @Jooney91 3 года назад +258

      About two years ago my father told me I criticized him for years. Although I know he has his issues (narcissist 🤦‍♀️), it shocked me 🤣 Obviously as an INTJ I was always strict judge for my parents.

    • @tralaritralarajiju2652
      @tralaritralarajiju2652 3 года назад +196

      Intj female here. I had to keep it to myself, because if I said that to my parents, belt marks appear in my butt🥲🥲🥲
      so I though it, but I had to think about a way to avoid the punisjment, so I was a "good" and "quiet" kid
      Sigh... Later I needed therapy, but not because of my parents using discipline, because other issues😌
      now, I am healthier that when I was a teenager🌿🌿

    • @bonedisease9209
      @bonedisease9209 3 года назад +207

      INTJ female as well- as a little kid I was once crying for something to my mum and she eventually gave in and gave it to me only for me to tell her: “If I was your mommy I wouldn’t have given you that”... needless to say I audibly laughed at the accuracy of this video.

    • @OzonatedOil
      @OzonatedOil 3 года назад +130

      Having to stay silent otherwise I'm "disrespectful". Then I'm portrayed as a sweet quiet, very 'shy' person who wishes the best upon everyone.

    • @Jooney91
      @Jooney91 3 года назад +95

      @@tralaritralarajiju2652 I know how you feel sister. Teenage years are I believe hard for most INTJs since in that age you need to fit in but as INTJ you actually cannot. Thinking a lot and overthinking issues make that even worse. However in our adulthood we are very motivated to develop and overcome whatever was and is thrown at us. At my 30 I can say I have never been so mentally healthy as today. ❤️

  • @macy.r8
    @macy.r8 Год назад +261

    The INTJ one hit hard. When I was young, my mother complained to me about how I wasn’t affectionate enough. Even at 12, I was flabbergasted at her audacity. I said something along the lines of, “How could I be someone you didn’t teach me to be?” How could I give something I don’t have or show affection I’m not used to? She didn’t know what to say or do. She didn’t change her ways.
    To this day, I’m still uncomfortable whenever she’d be too emotional in front of me or during the rare times she’d show me affection.

    • @MaliMaslacak526
      @MaliMaslacak526 11 месяцев назад +3

      Hehe and even if you were taught to be more affectionate through your family setting example and literally teaching you that, as an INTJ you wouldn't be an affectionate kid. Just admit this already. 😅
      With love your enfp 🤭😛

    • @macy.r8
      @macy.r8 11 месяцев назад +7

      @@MaliMaslacak526 Perhaps, but it definitely wouldn’t be as uncomfortable. You get used to affection. I may not give it freely, but I can at least receive it well if I’m used to someone affectionate (like my fiancé). With my parents, I don’t know how to act the rare times they’d hug me or say they love me. 😅

    • @ishakak147
      @ishakak147 19 дней назад

      My mom was always annoyed how I was "talking back to her" (according to her). Because I was not yelling, I was not throwing tauntrum. I was calmly saying something maybe too "wit" for my age AND THAT annoyed her so much. She did not know what to say, so she was always telling me to just not talk.

    • @macy.r8
      @macy.r8 18 дней назад

      @@ishakak147 Do we have the same mother? Haha. I also “talk back” when I can no longer just let something go or ignore it. Thankfully, she no longer pulls rank when it comes to that and simply listens. She knows that I don’t typically engage or take the bait unless I’m certain I’m correct. I don’t have the energy to always argue, but my patience is not unlimited. When I was a minor, it wasn’t as effective. It would just cause an argument about disrespect instead. I don’t know your particular circumstance, but I think it’s generally beneficial to learn how to navigate situations and phrase things in a way that your parent will understand/prefer without losing your original meaning, if you want to diffuse a situation. Knowing my mother prefers words of comfort over solutions, when she has a problem I say a quick comforting thing (her preference) and then give her a solution (my preference). If I dived straight into the solution, I’d be insensitive in her perspective. You adjust.

  • @frostyhannah
    @frostyhannah 2 года назад +751

    The realization that growing up sucks, and that it's happening too fast. The INFJ is so relatable

    • @Naurdagnor
      @Naurdagnor 2 года назад +34

      We grew up a little too fast mentally, then the body followed and the hormones made us question what the hell was happening.
      After that rollercoaster, we continued observing people and learning even more about how puberty affects others, further deepening our understanding of what we went through.

    • @junemacauley6813
      @junemacauley6813 2 года назад +24

      ❤ INFJ, here. Idk what happened; somehow I just went from living to old…🤔

    • @frostyhannah
      @frostyhannah 2 года назад +14

      @@junemacauley6813 Some how I went from age 4 to a teenager in minutes

    • @frostyhannah
      @frostyhannah 2 года назад +4

      @Fluffei I'm sorry

    • @Naurdagnor
      @Naurdagnor 2 года назад +15

      @@frostyhannah
      I can't tell you how many times as a young child that teachers, other parents, and general adults heard me talking about life questions and told me to "never change", and I still ask deep questions whenever prompted to this day.
      The only problem is people find these questions as either annoying, useless, or otherwise bothersome, and that makes me sad that those others do not just simply discuss about them, but would rather ignore them out of whatever reason they have.
      I have so little people to talk to other than simple pleasantries and emotional unpleasantness at work...I'm kinda drowning in it all.

  • @likitadevi
    @likitadevi 3 года назад +2521

    INFJ is the child giving motherly (emotional) support to the mother.
    Edit: 😅 I didn't expect this one to get so many likes. All of you deserve a virtual hug 🤗.

    • @SekRanger
      @SekRanger 3 года назад +152

      I just realized when I grown up that my family was not well functioned.

    • @tasenova2717
      @tasenova2717 3 года назад +83

      yea, there were a lot of times she wanted to talk about her personal life and how she was falling apart, even about her boyfriends, we don't really talk anymore now

    • @ami..7414
      @ami..7414 3 года назад +30

      Why that's so true-

    • @mtdestinyc
      @mtdestinyc 3 года назад +13

      YUP. Lol

    • @jackcolson4745
      @jackcolson4745 3 года назад +17

      Dude, you read my mind.

  • @jackcolson4745
    @jackcolson4745 3 года назад +1019

    Infj: questioning whether their childhood was a 'normal' childhood.

    • @Hamanfeu
      @Hamanfeu 3 года назад +57

      I can't even remember my childhood Lmao
      It's just remembering that one time I shouted at someone for the first time at school and lashed out. After that it's AAAAAAAAALLL blank, 10-16 blank.
      Anyways INFJ is def like
      8-15 -> a kid
      "why are you secluded from the rest of the world"
      16+ -> "what in the fk happened, why are you reading non-fiction books? Why are you already looking at stocks? What happened to that sweet kid I knew a few years ago"
      Dealeo

    • @EclypseXx
      @EclypseXx 3 года назад +15

      @@Hamanfeu I read non fiction at the age of 7.. and watched non fiction on TV at the age of 5 lol

    • @Hamanfeu
      @Hamanfeu 3 года назад +32

      Yeah IG that could happen. What I mean here is
      at the age of 16+ Infjs start obsessing over self improvement stuff,
      and also how they're gonna survive in the future because they don't even know what they want to take in college, let alone a job (especially since they haven't been paying attention in class because they ace them).
      For me at least XD

    • @EclypseXx
      @EclypseXx 3 года назад +1

      @@Hamanfeu yeah same

    • @tasenova2717
      @tasenova2717 3 года назад +11

      then realizing there is no difference in a normal childhood if you want to achieve a dream

  • @_DeadlyNightshade_
    @_DeadlyNightshade_ 3 года назад +1545

    That's cute 🥰 Hugs to the INFPs
    ~ INFJ who's always observing people as a child

    • @CBcakebatterfr
      @CBcakebatterfr 3 года назад +58

      Me who is an INFP but kinda an INFJ : *hugs myself*

    • @rukiddinmep7794
      @rukiddinmep7794 3 года назад +17

      Yes I can confirm it’s very accurate ‘cause I’m an INFJ and my sister is INFP and she’s exactly like that lol

    • @Rhyolite-hyena
      @Rhyolite-hyena 3 года назад +3

      mm I was responsive, only proactive in where to be as well

    • @AarushiKrishna
      @AarushiKrishna 3 года назад +9

      Well I AM an INFP but somehow felt more relatable with the ENFJ type rn

    • @tasnimauroni9383
      @tasnimauroni9383 3 года назад +6

      Hugs taken🥰🥰

  • @kathanprajapati8956
    @kathanprajapati8956 3 года назад +243

    I am an INTJ, and when I was nine years old, I lectured my own mother on the science behind a happy marriage.

    • @lavenderiris9744
      @lavenderiris9744 Год назад +8

      Please, INTJs, give me your nonchalant vibe and confidence!- an INFP who is way too self-conscious

    • @ak9335
      @ak9335 Год назад +6

      Same, i was around that age when i helped me poor indecisive mother to divorce my useless father. And yes it was not easy but I literally gave her a one-on-one serious talk. Years later when people knew about it and they asked me what happened, i responded by saying: ‘Only dumb people stays in that kind of marriage’ and they all shut the fuck up😂

  • @shwetanavani480
    @shwetanavani480 3 года назад +111

    As an INFJ I remember as a child looking up at the stars and contemplating life and why I'm here. I seemed to attract people who needed help. I remember from an early age being kind and lending a hand. And its still true today

    • @renksizucurtma
      @renksizucurtma 2 года назад +3

      me too ✋🏻

    • @angelanicholson951
      @angelanicholson951 Год назад +1

      Same, haha

    • @gailnichols842
      @gailnichols842 Год назад +3

      Growing up INFJ, astronomy was my hobby. I learned to read studying a book about the stars. My father gave me a telescope when I was 7 and I "discovered" Jupiter and Saturn. I still contemplate life and seek out people who need help.

    • @lindseyreyes983
      @lindseyreyes983 Год назад +5

      I love late night summer conversations about “why” everything is the way it is. I also remember having a similar yet different experience, somehow knowing that I was here on purpose (I would have died at birth without medical intervention).

    • @shwetanavani480
      @shwetanavani480 Год назад +1

      @@lindseyreyes983 😁 im glad that you were saved. You must have a really special purpose for your life. ❤

  • @Multitudes_
    @Multitudes_ 3 года назад +2100

    As an INFP, my childhood was mostly a mix of being lost in my own world, observing the world of adults, and getting caught up in family drama, often playing the stereotypically NFJ counselor role.

    • @LissaMarais
      @LissaMarais 3 года назад +58

      couldn't agree moreee

    • @vinayabhat6174
      @vinayabhat6174 3 года назад +17

      True

    • @LeeLeeBellePBJLee
      @LeeLeeBellePBJLee 3 года назад +24

      Ditto here. INFP 9W1 over here.

    • @yaseminylmaz6291
      @yaseminylmaz6291 3 года назад +19

      sh*t this was me too.

    • @redlyns153
      @redlyns153 3 года назад +13

      Sheesshhh......
      I can relate-
      But sometimes(often actually) when I'm sad I just don't care what's happening around me

  • @melodyconte
    @melodyconte 3 года назад +921

    "I'll never love again!" Proceeds to love everyone and everything with the passion of a thousand suns that will never be reciprocated 😭😭😭

    • @glueball214
      @glueball214 3 года назад +9

      💙

    • @Celalec
      @Celalec 3 года назад +63

      Fuuuuuuuck this is literally my whole childhood. It was a constant stream of pining then getting heartbroken and repeat. Now I cant form emotional attachments to save my life.

    • @kierstenlh
      @kierstenlh 3 года назад +7

      Yessssss 😭😭😭

    • @uzi710
      @uzi710 3 года назад +56

      This comment is so poetic, I would never doubt that you're an INFP

    • @ladyviolu3924
      @ladyviolu3924 3 года назад +17

      You shut the fuck up I dont need to be called out like this

  • @Lizard14
    @Lizard14 3 года назад +488

    INTP here, my most vivid memory of 1st grade is the moment I started thinking my whole class was super dumb. Like, the teacher was asking the class if something was an animal product or vegetable product and asked about cocoa powder. Literally everyone except me raised their hands saying it was an animal product and I got to tell everyone that no because cocoa comes from a tree. That single moment made my year.
    ...it also made me an insufferable little child.

    • @geniamarvelian5845
      @geniamarvelian5845 3 года назад +41

      INTP too. Did you feel "genius" after that🤣. I did something similar in my 1st grade. And i felt like a genius. I also tried to learn things that no kid would know, to be cooler.

    • @piraattipupu
      @piraattipupu 3 года назад +25

      As INTP my first grade mission was to teach everybody else to read so we can start to actually learn something. 😅

    • @drunkkillerwhalesdriving
      @drunkkillerwhalesdriving 3 года назад +28

      oh my teachers HATED me. i always corrected them and my peers. it just urked me so much. tbh i was very irritating. i remember in pre-k being so confused and annoyed at the fact the kids in my class couldn't spell "because". like, there's even a song for it c'mon.

    • @Shalalalala_666
      @Shalalalala_666 3 года назад +7

      Lmao I'm an ENTP and I go to a religious school where intellect is basically a crime and I still can't get over how god complexy I sounded in Elementary school 😭. I used to correct every single teacher ALL THE TIME and then bombard them with a million questions and I genuinely wish I could try again but in the same there are some things I really don't regret lmao

    • @Shalalalala_666
      @Shalalalala_666 3 года назад +4

      @@drunkkillerwhalesdriving
      The agony

  • @sannapremisser
    @sannapremisser Год назад +355

    As an INFJ child I remember feeling sad and guilty all the time, crying myself to sleep worrying about stuff (mainly feeling different or bad, or both). I was always eager to please everyone around me. A teacher told me to be less nice because the other children were taking advantage of me. But I also remember being weirdly independant. Like assembeling IKEA furniture for my room, cooking my own dinners, planning my ”economy” (ie my allowance) and reading books for grown ups!

    • @user-nt6vb5il1h
      @user-nt6vb5il1h Год назад +8

      Sigma infj?

    • @juliel.3672
      @juliel.3672 Год назад +28

      I can totally relate to this. I kept crying throughout the childhood, because I didn't understand why people sometimes behave so selfishly and badly. Then, at the age of six, I left kindergarten to enroll myself in school (my parents wanted to give me a year's delay).

    • @oki134
      @oki134 Год назад +3

      Omg same.

    • @akferren1
      @akferren1 Год назад +3

      😂 sounds like me.. I’m also a sigma which makes it worse.. tough times for a kid

    • @TamunaTsertsvadze
      @TamunaTsertsvadze Год назад +3

      I'm ENTP-T but I can relate a lot to that :') Except my teachers hated me because I wasn't nice enough to other kids xD

  • @abidastudent9534
    @abidastudent9534 2 года назад +372

    As an INTJ with severe trust issues, I can confirm it was a parenting issue

  • @Jennie8684
    @Jennie8684 3 года назад +1148

    As an ENTP parent to an ENTP child I can totally relate. As a child I was very angry with my parents’ arbitrary bedtimes and even as a young child, I swore I’d never inflict that on my child. Once my daughter started school and we had initial tussles over going to bed, I implemented a different strategy. The “rule” in our house was that she could stay up as late as she liked providing she could get up without a fuss the next morning in time to be ready for school, and not complain she was tired. We gave her an alarm clock to help her. It worked a treat. Within 2 days, she was taking herself off to bed quite early in order to be awake bright and early the following day. Even at 5 years old, she was happy to have the autonomy to manage her own bedtimes and became a classroom advocate for early nights and sufficient sleep.

    • @Jennie8684
      @Jennie8684 3 года назад +103

      @Messy Tz I read that the ENTP mum’s gift to her child is the gift of independence. It’s so true and I can’t think of a better gift. She’s now in her 20s, has always been highly independent and we are very close. 🥰. On a side note, at the ripe old age of 6, she couldn’t understand why we wouldn’t buy the house next door for her to live in, alone. She figured she could manage most things and we’d be next door if she needed our help. 🙄

    • @Jennie8684
      @Jennie8684 3 года назад +12

      @Messy Tz Thanks for your lovely words

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 3 года назад +37

      @Messy Tz It's like kids already have a good idea about what they need, they just need the proper guidance to get there.

    • @lishayost44
      @lishayost44 3 года назад +12

      Nice! I never fought my parents on going to bed. I went to bed voluntarily at 8PM every night, and then in 9th grade I started going to bed at 9PM, only to stay up later if there was a really interesting episode of 60 Minutes, 48 Hours, or 20/20.

    • @earlonaweary9155
      @earlonaweary9155 3 года назад +8

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Now she knows why she needs it! That was great! 👍🏼

  • @Nina21_
    @Nina21_ 3 года назад +1208

    ''being a big kid sucks'' sums up the INFJ's whole life basically 😂

    • @slosh177
      @slosh177 3 года назад +53

      I couldn't agree more!!! I still tell teenagers not to be in such a rush to grow up, it's not as awesome as you think it is!

    • @Charles-sg9zu
      @Charles-sg9zu 3 года назад +46

      I want to be a child again.

    • @adilbek.ermekov
      @adilbek.ermekov 3 года назад +10

      True

    • @adilbek.ermekov
      @adilbek.ermekov 3 года назад +11

      @@Charles-sg9zu u are reading my mind

    • @Charles-sg9zu
      @Charles-sg9zu 3 года назад +17

      Being an adult means you have more responsibility and you will care more about the others.

  • @TheSimpisReal
    @TheSimpisReal 3 года назад +631

    Okay so...funny story. (I’m an INFP) Back in first grade, I bought (more like begged my parents to buy it) a ring for my 1st grade teacher, Mrs.Courtney. It was a fantasy ring, but I treated it like the REAL DEAL.
    I took it to school, and everyone laughed and teased me all day, that I “wanted to marry Mrs. Courtney” or “You’re a girl. You can’t marry Mrs. Courtney!”
    In the end, I hesitate throughout the whole day wether to give her the ring, but in the end, I grew the courage to do it.
    She DID accept the ring. 💖☺️

    • @julyol119
      @julyol119 3 года назад +70

      This is so wholesome! Cudos to little you!

    • @Ananalias
      @Ananalias 3 года назад +48

      And now you are married?

    • @BiRainbow29
      @BiRainbow29 3 года назад +26

      PERIOD!!!! YASSS

    • @rymerium
      @rymerium 3 года назад +5

      Then she sleeps with you
      Ara ara
      Jk JK

    • @haswordmaster1497
      @haswordmaster1497 3 года назад +15

      That's adorable!

  • @notavailable403
    @notavailable403 3 года назад +91

    The INFJ one is so accurate 😭 i already had this self-awareness and sense of existential dread as a child

  • @w1sp_3r
    @w1sp_3r 2 года назад +73

    as an INFP my childhood was like head in the clouds but grounded. i would observe the world around me and just chill. although i was scared of anyone who would practically speak to me i was a good child who basically raised themselves.

    • @inspirationalys
      @inspirationalys Год назад +5

      I can totally relate. When I was a child it was easy to be present and I could reconcile that with my imagination very well. But from the moment life started to hurt me I put my focus in imaginary thoughts and never paid attention to life like I used to ever again.

    • @shelovesrealmadrid
      @shelovesrealmadrid 11 месяцев назад +1

      Same

    • @AmazingJane137
      @AmazingJane137 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yep,

  • @blackhoodie6082
    @blackhoodie6082 3 года назад +664

    As a child I was almost robotic. My mom still talks about how she used to find me at the same spot/position as she left me hours ago. I was not making any sound. I was not crying when receiving an injection. I remember how I was viewing myself as a third person and my inner voice would narrate things as if I'm in a documentary like "The parent did/said ... to the child and seeming that was not effective. Instead they could've tried ... to get what they want without making the child feel ... "
    -intp

    • @TheLuca2001
      @TheLuca2001 3 года назад +32

      Michael Myers.

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 3 года назад +49

      Dude I relate to ya my mom always says I am a robot(INFP)😂😂

    • @i3ignorantidelweb43
      @i3ignorantidelweb43 3 года назад +10

      I was like that too but I was also making games I invented sometimes

    • @unclemoriarty1436
      @unclemoriarty1436 3 года назад +135

      sounds like dissociation. you good bro?

    • @lucasf4rt523
      @lucasf4rt523 3 года назад +50

      I am an intp but I was not at all like that as a child I was almost iperactive and a troublemaker fighting all form of autority

  • @zintlemtikitiki6491
    @zintlemtikitiki6491 3 года назад +504

    The fact that the INFP is crying in the thumbnail kinda brings back sour memories.

  • @MrMellow2289
    @MrMellow2289 3 года назад +336

    I’m an infp and as a kid I would literally spend hours a day just wandering around my backyard imagining new worlds. Acting out conversations and fights from different characters perspectives. My teacher put a little chart on my desk and every time I would zone out she would put a little dinosaur sticker on there. I know that’s pretty weird but I’m wondering if any other infps can relate.

    • @NintenGril101
      @NintenGril101 3 года назад +24

      As a fellow INFP, yep - I definitely relate XD

    • @5idi
      @5idi 3 года назад +17

      No one gave me dinosaur stickers, but I'm ISFP, and at 30 I still have a different world in my head and act out the characters

    • @Emily_Cookie
      @Emily_Cookie 3 года назад +12

      I kinda relate when my friends came over we would Act Out Storys With my Toys and Swings Like pretending they were eagles

    • @mt.4445
      @mt.4445 3 года назад +18

      I preffer playing alone in the woods or at our backyard too when I was a kid.

    • @SplashBeor
      @SplashBeor 3 года назад +14

      No one gave me stickers but I still zone out all the time. 😵‍💫

  • @yubyubforendor7335
    @yubyubforendor7335 2 года назад +259

    Honestly, as an INTJ, I think I related most to the INFJ. I remember in first grade, when we were all being asked what we wanted to be when we grew up, everyone seemed to be excited to rush to adulthood and not be a kid anymore. Whereas I looked around at how we were getting more responsibility every year, looked at everything my parents had to do, and decided I didn't really want to grow up in a hurry--we had it pretty good, then.
    The only thing that I thought seemed good about growing up was that adults could drive.

    • @Hezkun
      @Hezkun 2 года назад +17

      As an INTJ in an awful home, I felt the exact opposite, I wanted to grow up as fast as I can because I hated day to day life, hatched a plan, moved out, it forced me to grow up way too fast
      Now that I'm an adult, I'm gonna enjoy life and just be myself XD

    • @colnel1291
      @colnel1291 2 года назад +10

      I'm an INFJ and when I went to kindergarten, I wanted to go to primary school. In primary school, I wanted to go to secondary. In secondary, I wanted to go to university. In university, I wanted to work. Now that I work, I wish I would never have come to existence at all.

    • @Hezkun
      @Hezkun 2 года назад +5

      @@colnel1291 life speedrun

    • @dominikmagnus
      @dominikmagnus 2 года назад

      Yeah, same. And then I planned out my whole life from that point onward so as to take as little responsibilities as possible prolonging my "childlike" state as long as possible. Truly, a planning ability used to it's full potential. Who cares about world domination plans...

    • @the_5th_night
      @the_5th_night Год назад

      This INFP relates a lot to that INFJ child. Even as a little kid I was scared of getting older.

  • @falklanday
    @falklanday 3 года назад +37

    My INFP husband as a child used to hug the chickens so tightly that he strangled them, than he cried very much. Endless suffering 😁

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 3 года назад +413

    My daughter (not an INTJ) used to do the two legs in one pant leg thing pretty regularly. Then she'd just say, "Oops! I mermaided myself."
    Kids are hilarious.

  • @ChillyCholo_
    @ChillyCholo_ 3 года назад +948

    The INFJ “being a big kid sucks” made me literally choke. My cat looked so concerned at me…. 😵😹😵 I’ve even said that when I was a little INFJ couldn’t be more accurate 😭💖😹

    • @lynseegottfried8226
      @lynseegottfried8226 3 года назад +37

      Me too! I would even get a little moody on my birthdays because I would be thinking how fast my childhood was going!

    • @justanerdyhobbitgirl
      @justanerdyhobbitgirl 3 года назад +17

      Same; Here I am saying the same thing about being an adult. I wish I was a kid again.

    • @ritikaroy3376
      @ritikaroy3376 3 года назад +18

      This INFJ: Sometimes I cannot even believe that I'm growing everyday! And I'm not that soft hearted kid anymore (well... She is inside me still now and I will not let her hurt anymore) These 18 years of my life And I've started thinking I'm very old rn 👵😂😭😂.

    • @luks303
      @luks303 3 года назад +5

      Most kids probably think being a kid sucks lol

    • @Sophie-cm2un
      @Sophie-cm2un 3 года назад +3

      haha I’m ENTP and I thought and still think life sucks when you’re younger. I was so happy when I hit the age of twelve. Being treated like a little kid sucks and I thought it was kinda awkward or embarrassing you still needed help, I don’t like it when people help me. Also elementary school was boring as fuck.

  • @jay5010
    @jay5010 3 года назад +1299

    As an INTP, my main goal as a 6 year old was to make everyone in my class realise that Santa couldn't possibly exist. Straight up got into an argument with a teacher who pretended to call him to get the class to behave. I eventually got a handfull to begrudgingly face the truth. Ah yes, the aroma of crushed hopes and dreams, bet the parents weren't too happy.

    • @drunkkillerwhalesdriving
      @drunkkillerwhalesdriving 3 года назад +91

      i got in trouble for making kids cry when i told them the tooth fairy was fake. got into even more trouble when i told them to pretend she was real to milk money out of their parents until they become too old and their parents stop giving them money.

    • @sierrahultgren945
      @sierrahultgren945 3 года назад +22

      ENXP here and I told my class the Easter bunny was fake and all the neighbor kids Santa wasn’t real. Some kids were very angry with me for bursting their bubble XD

    • @lishayost44
      @lishayost44 3 года назад +45

      INTP here. When I was 7, my Aunt told me there was no Santa and I acted surprised lol.

    • @abcdefg2174
      @abcdefg2174 3 года назад +53

      I'm an INTP and I was the same lol. I also definitely thought everyone around me was stupid.

    • @lishayost44
      @lishayost44 3 года назад +44

      @eggs benedict For some reason I liked to pretend about Santa and kind of go along with the idea for fun, but I do not have a memory of actually thinking there was a fat old bearded man dressed in red who came to our house to give us presents every Christmas Eve. There was way too much evidence against it.

  • @RainbowUnicorn.-.
    @RainbowUnicorn.-. 3 года назад +19

    My INFP childhood in a nutshell:
    *I was strictly obedient and followed all the rules and got annoyed when others didn't (I was a teacher's pet until the end of middle school)
    *I got in trouble more times than I can count from my teachers in elementary school for crying
    *I was often in my own imaginary world, and would often play along with my best friend during recess in elementary school creating stories in said world

  • @infj7126
    @infj7126 Год назад +24

    My hubby is an ISTP, can confirm the accuracy. He told me when he was 6, he pushed his little brother down some steps just to see what would happen next. The audacity! 😂 His brother is fine and a fierce ESTJ. They’re quite a dynamic duo lol

  • @minniechase
    @minniechase 3 года назад +199

    The INFJ “being a big kid sucks” is SO true... when I was about 6 y/o I cried while I was whatching my 2 y/o vídeo, because I was feeling upset about growing up, and how my life had become so complicated so fast

    • @angeramirez25
      @angeramirez25 2 года назад +2

      Omg same here. Infj too lol

    • @thisisprivatebro
      @thisisprivatebro 2 года назад

      At 6 ? 😭 The only complicated thing when you’re 6 is how to collect every pokemon card in one week

  • @Kasia_Luna
    @Kasia_Luna 3 года назад +305

    Me as an INFJ Child:
    **Asked very mature almost disturbingly adult questions, usually featuring "why is this like this" at the age of 4 and then my innocent mind being haunted by the findings**
    **Not being able to sleep and asking my mom if I can't sleep until midnight, can I stay home from school**
    **Dreaded any school collaborative activity, always felt inferior in group games and sports**

    • @JohnWolfrik
      @JohnWolfrik 3 года назад +6

      same!
      but... I did enjoy company and playing in groups.. ENFJ here :D

    • @miahan8988
      @miahan8988 3 года назад +4

      It was the same for me :)
      (ENFP 9w1)

    • @Charlotte8591
      @Charlotte8591 3 года назад +2

      Same... ENFJ here. I was extroverted, but bullied. Total misery. Luckily I had some good friends.

    • @kellynch
      @kellynch 3 года назад +6

      I'm an ISTJ who hates groups (ticks me off that everyone else benefits from my hard work), and who was the kid who told mom to "send it to them" when she told me to eat my veggies because of starving children in [insert name of poor country here]. Also, I have to know WHY she's telling me to do/not do something. Being told "because I said so!" never worked. I was the next-to-last kid picked (because the fat kid was last) but I never cared because I'd rather have been up in my room reading anyway.

    • @Kasia_Luna
      @Kasia_Luna 3 года назад +3

      @@kellynch hahaha sounds very similar to me actually! :)

  • @Rexus0705
    @Rexus0705 3 года назад +77

    0:00 ESTP
    0:08 ISFJ
    0:15 ISTP
    0:28 ESFP
    0:33 ISTJ (lol)
    0:53 ESTJ
    1:04 ISFP ( this timestamps were provided by your local ISFP)
    1:13 ESFJ
    1:28 ENFJ
    1:41 ENTJ
    1:49 INTP
    2:05 ENFP
    2:21 ENTP
    2:37 INFP
    2:59 INTJ
    3:06 INFJ

    • @Rexus0705
      @Rexus0705 3 года назад +1

      @@hassan8116me mean

  • @noname-zd6wu
    @noname-zd6wu 2 года назад +16

    Infp here. My mom and aunt said I was a very calm and quiet child, never disturbing anyone and playing by myself imagining other children with me. I was also very stubborn and cried a lot if parents didn't get me what I wanted. I never really expressed myself or talked at school which worried the teachers and I was also my teachers' favorite. When my parents left me in the kindergarten first time I held on to the gate and cried like a monkey. I was afraid of unfamiliar situations and environment. It took me quite long enough to talk and express. I think at least age 7.

  • @jarnotrulli849
    @jarnotrulli849 11 месяцев назад +2

    As an ISFJ, that one is true with understanding how your loved ones feel and trying to make them feel better/forget about their problems

  • @gracefullychaos
    @gracefullychaos 3 года назад +438

    "Seems like a parenting issue"
    My INTJ ass is laughing abt how accurate this is.
    XD
    Good video!

    • @spirulinagirl4307
      @spirulinagirl4307 3 года назад +16

      I was also that kid who stared like Wednesday Addams, 8-9 years before the 1991 movie came out.

    • @gracefullychaos
      @gracefullychaos 3 года назад +12

      @@spirulinagirl4307 same, ppl think I'm cold or smth. I give off a "don't come near or I will kill you" Vibe.

    • @kaydenbreak4283
      @kaydenbreak4283 3 года назад +42

      We INTJs been parenting our parents instead of parents parenting us since we have old souls as a child I didn't throw much tantrum and never even have much toys I'd never say to buy one bc they're useless and waste of money I knew we were middle class family we can't afford too many things but they're the one being childist wasting money and being chaotic in public, social gatherings which kinda make me embarrassed......life is hard being an INTJ living with Extroverted Sensing Family 😂at least I'm Glad I have an INFP sister

    • @spirulinagirl4307
      @spirulinagirl4307 3 года назад +16

      @@gracefullychaos Yes. We have this fully unprovoked death glare as our neutral expression.

    • @OzonatedOil
      @OzonatedOil 3 года назад +9

      @@spirulinagirl4307 Yes. Then they ask you if you're ok countless times.

  • @taylorhoward8896
    @taylorhoward8896 3 года назад +119

    One time I asked both of my parents separately what their love languages were and ask them to write it down on a piece of paper. Then I showed what they wrote down to the other parent. Marriage counseling from their teenager. Couldn't handle their lack of harmony.
    - ENFJ

    • @gogocreep681
      @gogocreep681 3 года назад +12

      That's brilliant (says an infj :)

    • @ivyom4392
      @ivyom4392 3 года назад +7

      Impressive indeed 👏

    • @lishayost44
      @lishayost44 3 года назад +4

      Lol! Nice! And sad... lol

    • @lishayost44
      @lishayost44 3 года назад +6

      I did individual counseling for my mom after my parents separated... even sadder. -intp

    • @hassan8116me
      @hassan8116me 3 года назад +3

      wow. impressive, that absolutely terrifies me but still good job. i tried to help others but instead i do too much and make them feel insecure :)
      -INFJ who is an NF spaggetti

  • @poliandr
    @poliandr 3 года назад +1039

    INFP here:
    I actually was a pretty calm and happy child. My parents say I never cried as a kid. I remember living in my own imagenery world, so marvelous and colorful. It was a really hard time for me to get out of it into this sad, crushing reality

    • @michellebyrom6551
      @michellebyrom6551 2 года назад +77

      Yeah, I always loved my own world - everyone understood me there. Lol

    • @quetzal4505
      @quetzal4505 2 года назад +24

      Same, but also I'm sure that as an INFP you are painfully aware that every comment is an "As a #### comma space kind of comment. How did you muster up the courage to make one of your own?

    • @honeytea9620
      @honeytea9620 2 года назад +22

      I was pretty chill aswell, I loved to be creative and go outside, and if I do say so myself I was pretty smart. Which of course means that now the pressure to always get all A's is here

    • @isaacsepicytchannel2708
      @isaacsepicytchannel2708 2 года назад +5

      Ok you're not one

    • @flowerpatchtoons1101
      @flowerpatchtoons1101 2 года назад +2

      Yeah me too!

  • @jillharrison3924
    @jillharrison3924 3 года назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @mapelianbutton4954
    @mapelianbutton4954 Год назад +43

    As an INTJ I judged my parents quietly just so to avoid conflict and dramas. But yes I blamed them continuously when they messed up especially when they failed to work on their marriage at some point.

  • @therisashow
    @therisashow 3 года назад +546

    I was literally the INTP kid. I finished all the “phonics” books in kindergarten, so I always got free time to play since I already knew everything they tried to teach me. Grade one wasn’t any better, I was teaching my classmates how to read and the teacher got pissed off because the kids came to me to ask how to read a word before they went to her 😂

    • @ivyom4392
      @ivyom4392 3 года назад +29

      You can be the new teacher 😌👌

    • @jsmith317
      @jsmith317 3 года назад +11

      Same here in math. Teacher made me his assistant teacher, though.

    • @monopolizedopamine
      @monopolizedopamine 2 года назад +15

      I don't remember being interested in helping other kids until middle school? Elementary I just wanted to be the first to freetime and would feel dejected if I wasn't. Like how tf you finish before me, the class genius? Does this make me not the class genius anymore? Ofc I am cause half their work is likely wrong, that's why they finished so fast. 😤

    • @AlicornHana
      @AlicornHana 2 года назад +4

      @@monopolizedopamine JeAlOuSy iN A nUtShElL

    • @juliep1122
      @juliep1122 2 года назад +3

      All I remember about phonics was I thought it was pointless and boring lol

  • @emanuelmayer
    @emanuelmayer 3 года назад +171

    as INFJ-kid I felt the whole responsibilty to keep my family alive and well. Which means I had terrible sleep and nightmares ... often.

    • @JonasAnandaKristiansson
      @JonasAnandaKristiansson 3 года назад +9

      Yes.. TIme to process our traumas my man!

    • @orangx8575
      @orangx8575 3 года назад +4

      I never allowed me to ask anyone to do or give something for/to me cuz I knew very fast that I would just annoy them. .. My guys this is how u go Soloplayer irl

    • @isidoragonzalez23
      @isidoragonzalez23 3 года назад +1

      Soo true for me

    • @isidoragonzalez23
      @isidoragonzalez23 3 года назад +3

      @@orangx8575 that is literally my life

    • @tinaperez7393
      @tinaperez7393 3 года назад +2

      Yup. Had those nightmares too.

  • @evafluck4837
    @evafluck4837 3 года назад +162

    As an ENFP (raised by a ESFJ mom and a (real) INTJ dad), we moved a lot when I was a kid and I LOVED it. My parents once sat me down to ask me if I'd be okay to move cities again now that I was older, cause they were worried it'd mess up my socialization, but I was done packing my stuff that very evening.

    • @Takisan111
      @Takisan111 3 года назад +6

      I did wish my family would move more when I was little but that was mostly due to me hating the grade school I had to attend.

    • @omomo202
      @omomo202 3 года назад +13

      I have an ESFJ mom and an ISTP stepdad. We moved a lot too and I have no regrets, just more friends!
      I even volunteered to live in Romania for a year. I ended up meeting someone and staying another year so he could emigrate to Canada with me.
      Now I’m married to a Japanese man and we’re thinking of going to Japan!

    • @pamisachan
      @pamisachan 3 года назад +10

      That's interesting cuz I'm an ENFP and I had a really hard time with the two times I had to move to another city. First because I moved far from my dad and later cuz I moved far from my friends.

    • @noemita494
      @noemita494 3 года назад +3

      That would've been me! We moved a lot when I was a child but in the same town. I wanted us to move to another city or even another country so bad! You were living the life my Ne friend -INFP

    • @rebecaosterberg5016
      @rebecaosterberg5016 3 года назад +2

      ENFP, mom ESFJ, dad ISTP. Yeah. I love the fact that I lived in seven different houses and five cities. Four schools. A lot of friends and stories to tell. ❤

  • @dakotawurtz7204
    @dakotawurtz7204 2 года назад +73

    Infj was so accurate. I remember being so young and being aware of things like time management, "seeing into the future" which allowed me to learn the difference between right and wrong rather quickly. Grasping the concept of money. The cost of living and how it was hard for large families, so I ate less so the others could have more. Always putting others first even if it meant I was last. I'm 32....that's changing and I'm putting myself first! Yay progress!! 😍🥰

    • @tozonekere9891
      @tozonekere9891 2 года назад +7

      As an INFJ
      The “putting others first…” is always a priority for me,
      Even when there was like turns for entering the bathroom to shower,
      I waited till everyone pick a turn and i was the last one,
      I mean I don’t regret it but it feels like everyone should go before me idk why xD

    • @llamasugar5478
      @llamasugar5478 Год назад +5

      There’s a tipping point, though.
      As an INFJ who was also the elder child, I took it on myself to look after myself to 1) make life easier for Mom, and 2) have the things I wanted. I got my first clock-in-clock-out job at 12 (illegal, but I didn’t care), working 8-12 hours on the weekend. I was proud to be looking after myself a bit.
      Fast-forward a few years, and “I have to take care of myself” had hardened into “I have to look out for Number One.” Which was, of course, me. I do not like the person I was between 15 and 35 (or so). My own mom called me mercenary, and she was right.

  • @catrinaaddams-sinclair
    @catrinaaddams-sinclair Год назад +23

    I'm an INFP and that was super relatable, but the ENFP was even more relatable (I was definitely an extrovert when I was younger). I would get bored so easily and I always wanted to move somewhere else lmao

    • @manasac3102
      @manasac3102 2 месяца назад

      The difference between infp and enfp is not just extroversion. Infps dominant function is F while ENFPs dominant function is their N. That's the main reason why they are so different. Enfps are one of the happiest MBTI type while Infps are one of the most depressed. Just by being extrovert, they can't change their dominant function! ENFPs and ENTPs are more close to each other. Same dominant N and inferior S. Infps inferior function is T

  • @julyol119
    @julyol119 3 года назад +239

    So, I'm ENTP and my dad is an INTJ. If I asked for a logical reason, I always got one. Nothing was dumbed down, ever. I love my dad. And my ISFJ mom, who consoled me, when I cried after understanding the reason, but still not being okay with it.

    • @Shalalalala_666
      @Shalalalala_666 3 года назад +9

      Ayo same dude. My mom is an ISFJ and she's basically a walking pillow and my mom being ISFJey is pretty understanding but also unbearably traditional and is way too serious about rules and how things are "supposed to be" and my dad used to be an INTJ, now INFJ and is pretty similar. There's always a logical explanation for everything but also massive empathy.

    • @raquelmyers9159
      @raquelmyers9159 2 года назад +17

      I always asked for a reason but my parents would just do the "because I said so," if I ever asked what the logical reason was they would say I was talking back. So annoying.

    • @julyol119
      @julyol119 2 года назад +12

      @@raquelmyers9159 Ugh. Some aunts of mine did that and it was confusing and frustrating. Children are not stupid. They aren't small adults, so you can't expect the same stuff from them, but they are capable of logic.

  • @catharsiSara
    @catharsiSara 3 года назад +619

    "I don't wanna grow up because I've already predicted how awful and exhausting being an adult and having to carry adulthood responsibilities is" INFJ me said this as a kid 😂😭

    • @solancreates4535
      @solancreates4535 2 года назад +17

      Bro this is literally me right now 🥲

    • @nikkip683
      @nikkip683 2 года назад +9

      @@solancreates4535 right. Me too. And I’m 50 yo. Adulting sucks.

    • @solancreates4535
      @solancreates4535 2 года назад +1

      @@nikkip683 🖖🫡

    • @AlicornHana
      @AlicornHana 2 года назад +5

      Dang i have my first step to adulthood (teen btw), i never wanted to be one-

    • @nikkip683
      @nikkip683 2 года назад +8

      @@AlicornHana trick is to find the one thing that reminds you of being a kid. For me it’s dancing. For awhile I can take a break and just be the kid me. Spinning, shaking, and generally getting into the groove. It’s my happy place. Figure out where your happy kid place is and you’ll have an escape hatch from adulting.

  • @lifeisnotalmondtofu8629
    @lifeisnotalmondtofu8629 3 года назад +75

    Frank James working hard on the video because he has to repeat INFP speech for hundred times... My big respect.

  • @FannyMDominguez
    @FannyMDominguez 3 года назад +37

    As an 1:28 ENFJ, this really resonates with me in my childhood. Many times I would worry for those older me as I watched them sad, stressed, or angry based on what my gut and feelings were telling me. I wanted to help but since I was small, all I could do is have conversations with the ones in need. To this date I kinda enjoy being able to listen to other's problems and concerns and try to help. Although, I have to understand that some just want to be heard, not me trying to come up with solutions.
    In brief, I enjoy the dialogue that forms. BUT There's a disadvantage to this habit; I tend to put myself and problems aside as I put others first.

    • @Esteronja
      @Esteronja 2 года назад

      What if you decided to think hat you too are one of the "others"?

    • @indodinoyoutube
      @indodinoyoutube Год назад +1

      SAME!!!

  • @mellooobruhhh9281
    @mellooobruhhh9281 2 года назад +115

    As an INFP, when I was young I used to be upset and mad after seeing wedding pictures of my parents and realized I didn’t get invited to their wedding so I thought they don’t love me anymore 😂

  • @snwngl2261
    @snwngl2261 3 года назад +147

    As an INFP, yes, I have realized early on that life is such torment. Waking up early to go to school was pure torment 😪 Now going to my job is 😆 Also, as a kid, I remember feeling sad at times and then I would cry and I didn't really know why 😅

  • @The-Devils-Advocate
    @The-Devils-Advocate 3 года назад +151

    1:52 as an INTP, this is extremely relatable. I had someone try to convince me that milk allergy and lactose intolerance were the same thing

    • @Eldritch-thing
      @Eldritch-thing 2 года назад +12

      I'm also an INTP and when I was five my sister's friend tried to convince me chocolate milk came from brown cows and that made me hate him
      Although even now I'd probably be fooled by the lactose intolerant thing

    • @The-Devils-Advocate
      @The-Devils-Advocate 2 года назад +6

      @@Eldritch-thing I’m pretty sure they actually thought that milk allergy and lactose intolerance were the same thing, but I can relate with that

  • @larasita11
    @larasita11 3 года назад +93

    ENFJ & INFJ "child" were perfect!
    Actually, FJ, you must have mastered every facet of being a kid!
    Each type seemed to be someone I know and can call by name...
    Spot on, very enjoyable! 😄

  • @hfortenberry
    @hfortenberry 2 года назад +43

    INTJ here. The one for ENTP being annoyed by arbitrary bedtime was totally me. I did not go along with stupid rules unless forced. I always tried to question and understand them and if they were stupid I said so. My ESFJ stepmom did not appreciate that but my INFJ mom liked that I was learning to negotiate. ☺️

  • @yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm8274
    @yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm8274 2 года назад +44

    INFJ here: as a 10 year old I mapped out curriculum for my future children and for myself. I had those same thoughts at FJ as a child. It only took a few short years. 😂

  • @nathanreedy4380
    @nathanreedy4380 3 года назад +131

    The ESTJ, ENFJ, ENTJ, ENTP & of course the INFJ were all Me when I was a kid. ESPECIALLY the ENTJ. My "childhood home" was FULL of Double Standards & considering how FIERCELY & INTENSELY STRONG I feel & (have always felt) about justice, justness & just standards, to me, it's no wonder why the ENTJ was my favorite/the most relatable.

    • @lena_xxxc
      @lena_xxxc 3 года назад +4

      SAME omg

    • @fitmotheyap
      @fitmotheyap 3 года назад +8

      Double standards were so common for me as well I hated them so badly

    • @lishayost44
      @lishayost44 3 года назад +1

      I have always felt very strongly about things being as fair as possible, probably because that was not my experience as a child.

  • @katiebell1873
    @katiebell1873 3 года назад +87

    I'm an INFJ, and I've always been a pretty serious person. When I was a baby, I never smiled at people, and there were some old ladies at our church who were rather upset that I just stared at them while they tried to make me smile. I love that I acted similarly to how I do when when I was little. I do smile at people now, but just to be nice. I'm still serious.

  • @ananyawable5728
    @ananyawable5728 3 года назад +45

    As an INTJ, I still keep telling my parents that they've got parenting issues.

    • @HisameArtwork
      @HisameArtwork 3 года назад +13

      SAME. my parents lost me 3 times, almost got me killed 5 times...fortunately they had the laziness and money to get a nanny for my siblings so they were never lost or in the hospital. Some people shouldn't have kids...unless they can afford to outsource it. I am INTJ, my siblings are INFJ and INTP.

    • @ananyawable5728
      @ananyawable5728 3 года назад +4

      @@HisameArtworkOh, I'm sorry to hear that! I hope you and your siblings are safe now. Well, my parents are really toxic and make me feel like burden. More power to us though...💪✨

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 3 года назад +2

      I just internalize it and learn from their mistakes.

    • @ananyawable5728
      @ananyawable5728 3 года назад +2

      @@greatwavefan397 Exactly ! Need to break those generational cycles!

    • @HisameArtwork
      @HisameArtwork 3 года назад +2

      @@ananyawable5728 they are not as bad as my friends' parents who most were alcoholics. but we did get kinda neglected. I suspect my mom is an esfp or estp and my dad some kind of jerk TJ. I'm surprised they are still married.

  • @caitlinreedy7878
    @caitlinreedy7878 3 года назад +56

    Crying hysterically..."I am really sad..." As an INFP, I related to this. At least this kid was able to identify his feelings...for me it takes hours to process and identify all my emotions...

    • @Izabela-ek5nh
      @Izabela-ek5nh 2 года назад +2

      I'm 40 and if something really makes me feel bad I cannot express it or understand because there is so much of it, so close to me and overwhelming...! After few days I am able to express what I felt. But too late. My ISTJ love is already comvinced I was just trying to escape a conversation instead of telling him clearly what I feel and/or need... what a crappy life 😑

  • @dayhi3844
    @dayhi3844 2 года назад +17

    HOW DID YOU KNOW??? I'm an INFJ and the accuracy of your childhood thing is INSANE. I always thought I was a weirdo observing ppl and what they did to help me fit in better. Even when I was little I would know the EXACT outcome of a convo depending on the person I was talking to.

  • @kaitinvis7456
    @kaitinvis7456 3 года назад +50

    Every time I see INFP in the thumbnail it makes me feel noticed and special 😊, so thank you for that happiness boost.

  • @Ennpey
    @Ennpey 3 года назад +212

    I died 😂😂😂 It wasn't just the jokes which are hilarious, but the acting, the making FJ look smaller, the editing... It all came perfectly together 😂

    • @Ananalias
      @Ananalias 3 года назад +10

      He really did look like a child, that was really cute!

    • @lishayost44
      @lishayost44 3 года назад +1

      I totally agree! This was the best. He should do the personalities as kids more!

    • @lishayost44
      @lishayost44 3 года назад +1

      @@Ananalias yes, he did!!!

  • @jacobellis5822
    @jacobellis5822 3 года назад +92

    Infj is so true lmao. I remember when mum told me she was enrolling me in kindergarten and all I could think about was how quickly I was approaching adulthood and how soon I'd be like the teenagers on Disney channel, with their lockers and piles of books
    Except instead of "being a big kid sucks" it was more like "I'm going to be a big kid so soon, how can I make it stop!!"

    • @harshitaverma4576
      @harshitaverma4576 Год назад

      I remember like in 1st class I was looking out of the window it was the end of the year I was thinking ohh I am gonna be in 2nd soon then I'll graduate then I'll have a job like what I am an INXJ Btw

  • @ev.ervisual
    @ev.ervisual Год назад +57

    As an INFJ, I remember my cousins talking excitedly about growing boobs and getting their period and I definitely did not agree. I thought they were crazy periods seemed painful and not fun to wear bras.

    • @rironarirona
      @rironarirona Год назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
      The same thing happened to me. I used to wear very baggy clothes so I wouldn't have to wear a bra

    • @thru-4061
      @thru-4061 Год назад

      That's true🤣

    • @lindseyreyes983
      @lindseyreyes983 Год назад +2

      I wished for so long that I could just never grow up. Puberty sucked 😢

    • @Nothingbutdust_
      @Nothingbutdust_ 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@lindseyreyes983 Same

  • @theserenebook
    @theserenebook Год назад +45

    As a ENFJ, that was literally the most spot-on thing ever. 😂
    I once sat my parents down with a clipboard and asked them to share their opinions on each other. Needless to say they both left pretty quickly… 😂❤

    • @FaceIsNotMyName
      @FaceIsNotMyName 9 месяцев назад +1

      😭 as an ENFJ I basically did the same thing too like last year (15 yo rn) and the exact same thing happened.

    • @theserenebook
      @theserenebook 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@FaceIsNotMyName ✊✊😭

    • @FaceIsNotMyName
      @FaceIsNotMyName 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@theserenebook 😭

  • @lararys7765
    @lararys7765 3 года назад +78

    As a kid I got upset alot cause I don't think my parents gave me the emotional attention I needed as an INFP. Even as a kid I really struggled making friends. I just don't know and still don't know how people do it and what they talk about. I was also and still am extremely quiet. And apparently I used to talk to imaginary people and make up imaginary scenarios for play time but I don't remember that at all now 🤷🏾‍♀️ My mom always says I had "anger" issues. I used to get beaten so obviously I had issues.
    Btw I still have long conversations with nobody. lmao. I swear I'm not insane.

    • @naginiriddle7091
      @naginiriddle7091 3 года назад +10

      Honestly.....same. Although I wasn't exactly quiet and shy, the rest of this was 100% me. Still don't know how people make friends so easily, and I definitely had imaginary conversations and still do lol

    • @charlotteq8460
      @charlotteq8460 3 года назад +9

      I had lots of imaginary friends as well!! Also, I still talk to myself and I'm 47 lol. I think unless a parent is an INFP, they can't understand us at all. I didn't get the emotional support from my parents either. I got told I was "secretive", and not in a good way, more in a "what are you hiding" kind of way. I wasn't hiding anything, I just wanted to be left alone. My mother is ESFJ so there is NO way she could possibly understand lol. I have a lot of emotional issues and I can't figure out if its just who I am or if it had something to do with my childhood. Most of the time I wish I wasn't INFP.

    • @gamercj3682
      @gamercj3682 3 года назад +6

      100% same case with me, except I'm called a "cold hearted" and a "bad" boy by both my parents. Just IMAGINE calling an infp cold hearted or bad

    • @haswordmaster1497
      @haswordmaster1497 3 года назад +6

      Same here as well. One of my favorite past times as a kid was...talking to imaginary people. I still talk to myself all the time, and I've gotten so deep into this inner monologue within my head that I sometimes forget whether I'm thinking my thoughts or actually speaking them out loud. It can be a bit awkward having just been around other people and suddenly can't remember if you actually said what you were thinking. Also there have been times when I can be invited to sit at a table with a group of people who know me in college, and, after several minutes where I just listen to them somehow doing that mysterious thing called socializing, I would forget that I was even their. Btw, I'm not insane 😂.

    • @sunflower590
      @sunflower590 3 года назад +2

      INFJ but same. Except the anger issue. My mom tells me that when I was 3-4years I had an imaginary fairy friend I used to talk to. I even have monologue now. It often happens that my one aquaintance meet my another aquaintance through me and soon they become friends and I am excluded. Concluded socialising is an art I am not good at.

  • @PVolkovX
    @PVolkovX 3 года назад +191

    The INTJ is literally me. One day when I was an adult already my mother suggested that we should buy a pair of bikes so we can take them to the new park that opened nearby and I told her “That’d be nice but I don’t know how to ride a bicycle”, she was shocked and asked me how was that even possible. I simply answered “Because you denaturalized parents never taught me to???”. (To this day I still can’t ride a bike, lol)

    • @kuramacabre
      @kuramacabre 3 года назад +38

      Every time my dad complains about how the world is doomed I say "but you made the irresponsible choice to have offspring".

    • @Inessights
      @Inessights 3 года назад +3

      Saame I'm intj and I don't know how.

    • @alexeysaranchev6118
      @alexeysaranchev6118 3 года назад +2

      Same. But after I've met a couple of people who could not swim I feel much better.

    • @isiajahhhahahababblvjylvjy1034
      @isiajahhhahahababblvjylvjy1034 3 года назад +2

      I am here to learn about the frienemy, seems they don't know bicycle. Nice. I don't either.
      -An esfp jumping into the convertation to make it small talk

    • @kuramacabre
      @kuramacabre 3 года назад

      @@isiajahhhahahababblvjylvjy1034 I know how to ride a bicycle and also how to swim.

  • @thepaintedpoppies1010
    @thepaintedpoppies1010 8 месяцев назад +2

    Yep, INFJ and having an existential crisis even before we've barely lived is spot on.

  • @lillianbarker2728
    @lillianbarker2728 3 года назад +4

    i really wish i could convey the reaction that every infp must have when watching your videos... we always know its us... cause we are always crying... or looking at clouds... or talking about clouds... or taking pictures of clouds

  • @blackhoodie6082
    @blackhoodie6082 3 года назад +239

    As an INTP I feel like I'm stuck in a certain age mentally. When I was a child I was too mature and smart for my age and after puberty it's the opposite. I'm stuck at 8-10 or something

    • @nova-a7404
      @nova-a7404 3 года назад +24

      You're not alone, bro. Same here.

    • @saatvikkrishnam9905
      @saatvikkrishnam9905 3 года назад +24

      Bro are you my clone?

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel 3 года назад +6

      Must be too much industrial waste in the tap water or something

    • @phoenix5054
      @phoenix5054 3 года назад +29

      ENTP here. I think it’s just you don’t meet the arbitrary social standards of “maturity” and your interests are considered childish. Probably anime, video games, etc.? Don’t mind them. Go with what makes you happy.

    • @Inka_Morrisson
      @Inka_Morrisson 3 года назад +9

      Definitely, i feel like i've become stupid

  • @andianderson3017
    @andianderson3017 3 года назад +123

    I (ENFJ) clearly remember sitting in the back seat of our car on family vacation, telling my brother that we should fake a stupid argument so that my parents would see how silly it was and stop fighting.
    I was already planning my own episodes of Daniel Tiger to instruct others in conflict. My ENTP brother was not down for it.😆

    • @eileen2978
      @eileen2978 2 года назад +7

      Can relate to that sooo much!! Me as an ENFJ to have to admit, I also had tons of these kinda situations!! Sometimes I also tried to write letters, so they don't keep fighting and so on. But probably also did it with other people and not just my parent (#childhoodfamilytherapist)

    • @manasac3102
      @manasac3102 2 месяца назад

      Entp wasn't down to debate/argue??

    • @andianderson3017
      @andianderson3017 2 месяца назад

      @@manasac3102 Not as a means to convince our parents it was bad, no.

  • @federicanardi7227
    @federicanardi7227 3 года назад +75

    Me as a child
    "Fede, what are you doing"
    "I'm here reading my book"
    "Fede, what are you doing"
    "I'm hiding in this bush, trying to read my book in peace"
    "Fede, what are you doing"
    *Closes the closet door quietly trying to end this endless tragedy of being disturbed WHILE READING MY BOOK*
    (INTP life)

    • @federicanardi7227
      @federicanardi7227 3 года назад +6

      @xraf32 I'll try to live up to your expectations

    • @hassan8116me
      @hassan8116me 3 года назад +4

      well i relate but im an INFP

    • @AlexanderGieg
      @AlexanderGieg 3 года назад +9

      INTP here too. I used to be ordered to go to bed, but I had *a book* to finish. So I got my flashlight and went to read under the blankets until 3 am, paying attention if someone got up, turning it off, waiting until I heard no sound, and turning it on again. I was caught only twice, I think. 😁

    • @susysnakegirl
      @susysnakegirl 2 года назад +2

      @@hassan8116me My son is an INFP and my husband is INTP. Since my son grew out of the crying phase, they've been best friends. (Very similar)

  • @ellenpereira9521
    @ellenpereira9521 2 года назад +56

    As an ENFP who grew up moving around, life was never boring... for my ISTJ little brother, it was a nightmare, but for me, the moving around to weird places are some of my absolute favorite childhood memories. Pretty accurate video, maybe I should move to Antartica next lol

    • @Nono3112.
      @Nono3112. Год назад

      Pareil pour moi. Mes parents allaient toujours au même endroit en vacances mais je voulais changer et j'insistais pour aller dans une colo différente à chaque fois.

    • @LadyIarConnacht
      @LadyIarConnacht Год назад

      For once I agree with FJ's depiction of ENFP. I wish he would realize that we aren't always "positive" and that we sometimes become pretty unpopular because we debate and argue as much as ENTP (even while wishing everybody would get along).

    • @prettylittlemeeeeeee
      @prettylittlemeeeeeee Год назад

      thats so true im a nefp but im not really popular and really that extroverted as see myself kinda in the middle but in this video i related bc i always wanted to move to see if life is better somewhere else@@LadyIarConnacht

  • @asfsdfh
    @asfsdfh 2 года назад +46

    As an INTJ kid, my mom never told me that we were Catholic, so when my teacher in first grade asked what religion I had, I told him I didn't know. He gave me options in case my parents already told me and I just forgot, so I picked Iglesia. Fast forward to 4th grade and my mom asked me why my teachers were claiming that our family was Iglesia when we were Catholic. I told her coz she never told me we were Catholic.

    • @AlicornHana
      @AlicornHana 2 года назад +3

      Wow im very lucky because i knew i have a religion from an earlier age than that

    • @thomasdoyle9748
      @thomasdoyle9748 2 года назад +1

      Isn't that the word church in Spanish?

    • @Sheer37111
      @Sheer37111 2 года назад

      @@thomasdoyle9748 yes

  • @QuotesArticles
    @QuotesArticles 3 года назад +50

    Ah yes, we INFPs do get so emotional about almost everything! Even more so if they happen to be someone who has impacted our lives! I remember feeling so bad and completely lost for a few day when I came to know that my best friend will one day leave school! (I didn't realize back then that we can still be in contact 😂) Now, thanks for making me realize that my feelings are not so strong as they used to be! Not sure if it's a good thing or not but as we grow up, we do tend to start limiting the possibility of encountering negative emotions to protect our vulnerability. 😇
    Great video as always Frank, thanks! 😊

  • @kimberlycuthbert2510
    @kimberlycuthbert2510 3 года назад +257

    *Mom* Is sharing her pain in excruciating detail
    *Mom* suddenly pauses
    *Mom* “I shouldn’t be having this conversation with you... you should not be giving me advice.”
    *My 8 year old INFJ self drinking a Capri Sun* “it’s okay mommy! I’m happy to give you marriage advice!” ☺️

    • @Alexandar358
      @Alexandar358 3 года назад +28

      That's adorable... And a little weird.

    • @arumspulunggono9066
      @arumspulunggono9066 3 года назад +21

      For me usually she doesn't even realize that.
      And then Dad comes to me (different time of course) to tell his side of story.

    • @kimberlycuthbert2510
      @kimberlycuthbert2510 3 года назад +22

      @@Alexandar358 it didn’t seem strange at the time, but as an adult I’m super weirded out by the number of adults who had these types of conversations with me.

    • @Alexandar358
      @Alexandar358 3 года назад +10

      @@kimberlycuthbert2510 Classic INFJ. That's why it's my favorite type outside my own. (INTP)

    • @lishayost44
      @lishayost44 3 года назад +8

      This was me except my mom never understood that she shouldnt' be weighing me down with all her emotional issues. -intp female

  • @NotInMYName_AntiZionistJew
    @NotInMYName_AntiZionistJew 3 года назад +137

    I usually test as INTP but in this video, ENTP describes me perfectly. I would constantly drive teachers crazy with pointing out the logical flaws in their arguments.

    • @kaenimates813
      @kaenimates813 2 года назад +14

      "You are a science teacher, you look for proofs! Why should you tell us to do this without telling us why?"
      ...Except that's in my imagination, and I can't stand up for myself.

    • @feralsgoose
      @feralsgoose 2 года назад +1

      Hehe ssme

    • @PixelionRules
      @PixelionRules 2 года назад +3

      Same here. But I am an INTP because I used to do that earlier, not anymore.

    • @thehealthnut121
      @thehealthnut121 Год назад +5

      Oh yes. This was exactly what every interaction went like when asked to do something. I argued purely for the sake of it- without realizing that I stood in the way often of very simple requests

    • @FunwithEmily
      @FunwithEmily Год назад +1

      ENTP is likely nicer, kinder, and never shot someone pointing out their logical flaws. ENTP prever to joke about others failing logic using their intuition. Im thinking that ENTP here, is more likely to be an INTP

  • @Enfjscrolling
    @Enfjscrolling 2 года назад +54

    STORY TIME!
    I'm an ENFJ and this is so true. My parents divorced when I was 3 and a half and I remember my brother who's 7 years older than me, running away, crying because our parents were fighting (he is the oldest and they would do it nonstop -- it was the hardest for him). I've always been like the family therapist, listening to everyone's side and trying to at least validate everyone's feelings.
    Even now, I am treated mostly like my mom's best friend and therapist, rather than a daughter, because she refuses help and she's too busy to work on herself :(

    • @hallelrofe2555
      @hallelrofe2555 2 года назад +4

      As ENFJ myself I totaly relate, my parents also divorced and even befor I was always the one making sure they don't fight and that everythings ok but after for a very long time it was just me keeping things in chek

    • @shematite
      @shematite Год назад +3

      OOF i gotta say, getting the double whammy stick of ENFJ on top of "oldest child/daughter syndrome"... Y'all making me unspeakably happy that my parents' marriage is still going strong!

    • @indodinoyoutube
      @indodinoyoutube Год назад

      Also an ENFJ who went through my parents divorcing (even though they eventually got back together)... I didn't realize this was such an ENFJ thing...

    • @indodinoyoutube
      @indodinoyoutube Год назад

      @@shematite Me, an only-child daughter who is an ENFJ: 🥲

  • @ayesha_shah9
    @ayesha_shah9 2 года назад +8

    INFJ_ I was the most emotional kid alive. As a little kid, I wanted bonding with my family at a highly emotional level. I'd cry often because I always felt like no one was understanding me. I'd become pessimistic. I wanted to be social but social interactions would hurt me alot. I'd write little depressing poems too. I just wanted alot of empathy. It was like I was filled with too many emotions and had no control. I was also always worried about doing something incredibly wrong. I was too sensitive and I didn't wanted to grow any older because everything was so scary.
    The good things about me, I was really kind and caring and would wish for presents to my parents like little kids do.

  • @friend757
    @friend757 3 года назад +30

    ENFP- Yes even as a child I wanted to travel. I did not go into the travel industry, but became an expert at booking insanely cool overseas travel trips for myself getting maximum bang for the buck. Travel truly is a big deal to my type. Experiencing life in far off places can’t be beat.

    • @simplykathrynrebeca
      @simplykathrynrebeca 3 года назад +2

      Omygosh you have my life

    • @ninaportoc
      @ninaportoc 3 года назад +2

      That is the tea fellow ENFP, the desire to be far awayyyyyy is inate hahahaha

    • @friend757
      @friend757 3 года назад +1

      @@margaretkeillor6312 You must go during the summer and tour national park and hike at an ice cave near a glacier. Worth every cent!!!!

  • @evie6533
    @evie6533 3 года назад +38

    2:57 - that pretty much sums up how I feel in my adult life as well.
    ~ INFP

  • @miriamw.
    @miriamw. 3 года назад +256

    My INFP childhood in a nutshell:
    Very concerned with doing the right thing and making sure everyone else is doing the right thing (aka being a tattletale)
    Combined with extreme sensitivity to correction or criticism of any kind (aka being a crybaby)
    It was great 🥺 😂

    • @RoroRoro-yp3bt
      @RoroRoro-yp3bt 3 года назад +7

      OMG on point I was the biggest crybaby and many kids did not like it saying you can not take a joke.

    • @candyberry7620
      @candyberry7620 3 года назад +5

      It wasn't great at all 😭 Actually I'm happy I grow up to be more aware of my actions and my feelings.. I got throw a lot to be here :)
      Infp

    • @emilylauraa
      @emilylauraa 3 года назад +5

      Lol my exact experience. I was the most shy, sensitive kid in my class and would cry at the mere thought that I might have done something wrong, and yet would fight people if I thought their morals weren't right.
      I like to think I was cute and innocent as a child but in reality I was probably really annoying

    • @johnathanballard1304
      @johnathanballard1304 3 года назад +1

      Sounds in kind of a way like myself as a older version in high school and kind of like the crush ( older version in high school) that gave me the hardest rejection possible ( I have ever gotten) ( one week ago) my friend says I was being overboard by never ever wanting to have a crush or date agian. It would be perfectly fine if they friend zoned me but it really hurt them throwing me out of there life like yesterdays garbage, blocking my number after telling me not to contact them anymore and them running from me when they see me in school perhaps texting them " I see you as someone I am really close with but yours is different in a way that confuses me" was not the best way to tell them that I like them.
      My 2 of my close friends (half) that knew since November 2021 (2 months) said I should tell them they said the worst thing was they would just see you has a friend, but they ran from me so I don't text or approach them anymore. I realised I liked them back in August 2021 after getting to know them and have them in some of my classes since August 2020. ( I don't know what to do and hate someone finds me creepy but don't want to push it.) I didn't choose to like them one day it happened over a year. By there mind, personality, face that drew me toward them not there body. I don't want to have a crush again after this ( I told them in January 2022 after two close friends told me I should since November 2021) I told one how bad it went and they said sometimes it goes bad sorry for convincing you to tell them. But I just don't know what to do if I should tell one friend I have who is friends with both of us that it was a mistake I forgot that sentence was at the end of my five paragraph text with little grammar. ( I copied and pasted them the wrong text not seeing that text at the bottom) need some advice please ( I know I liked them since I would think about them feel my heart start racing, and my stomach get butterflies around them.( this doesn't happen with any of my close friends) I just enjoy there company want to be there for them and talk to them.

    • @unionunicorn6776
      @unionunicorn6776 3 года назад

      Sameeeeeeee

  • @solancreates4535
    @solancreates4535 2 года назад +15

    I can confirm that the INFJ one is very accurate. I knew even when I was a kid that I didn’t wanna grow up because of the responsibilities and complications of being older

  • @ghost.ink.
    @ghost.ink. 2 года назад +51

    INTP is just yes.
    Like I never said it, but I always thought everyone else was dumb because they all kept literally waiting in line to go to my desk and ask what was the answer to math exercise #4 or something 😂

    • @zELDApaya1989
      @zELDApaya1989 2 года назад +2

      I remember this time in elementary school when I told my friends “Some people’s humour is broken!” and then they made an entire argument, telling me “People’s isn’t a word, there’s no s and the end, it’s literally just people🤓🤓🤓” and it took me and entire 20 minutes to make them understand that THE S AT THE END WAS TO MAKE IT A PLURAL!!! And they acted like I was the dumb one! I still never forgot that day, and I still think they’re dumb af
      - An INTP that hates everybody

    • @ghost.ink.
      @ghost.ink. 2 года назад +2

      @@zELDApaya1989 oh my god. It's them that didn't even realize peoples isn't a word and wouldn't get people's which is a real word meaning something people possess. Now THAT is dumb.

    • @ThemoustachedJock
      @ThemoustachedJock 2 года назад +1

      I hate being an idiot
      -ENTP

    • @sams_enfp
      @sams_enfp Год назад

      @@zELDApaya1989 um ackshually 🤓the S at the end makes it possessive (along with the apostrophe)

  • @skyjeanne7232
    @skyjeanne7232 3 года назад +26

    When i was a child i didn't understand myself, and no one understand me. but now as an adult i love the world, i understand myself, and i'd like to be the one who understands other INFPs. Mostly my childhood memories are fights, i fight back those who bullied me, and I thought I was a princess disney lmao

  • @solviviflores2904
    @solviviflores2904 3 года назад +30

    *Ohh, this reminds me when I was a kid and I used to fell in love with celebrities way older than me, and I would cry because I couldn't have them 😂*
    I don't think I have changed yet
    -INFP

  • @ࢪودَيناا-ض2ق
    @ࢪودَيناا-ض2ق 3 года назад +18

    I'm so excited for this ♥️.

  • @evasccl7846
    @evasccl7846 2 года назад +13

    As a teacher and having worked with children... i found this video SO relatable accurate AND adorably sweet!! I had a child bringing me his collection of bugs 😆😆😆 i was excited because of his excitement and pride so I learnt how important it is to embrace each child's uniqueness as they navegate through life. It has also helped me see some of my own childhood quircks and how my parents' response damaged me so i chose to appreciate what is important to the child as they grow!! Children are a blessing and full of fun when we try not to force them be who we want them to be!! Much love to you FJ!! beautiful video ❤

  • @eunikekarosas1335
    @eunikekarosas1335 2 года назад +9

    as an isfp i had a similar conversation with my mom. I was like: mom, you are beautiful! not REALLY beautiful, but still beautiful lol. In coclusion, the isfp was accurate.

  • @getlucky7452
    @getlucky7452 3 года назад +51

    I expected ESTJ to fight with Timmy cuz he doesn't listen to him while playing...😂

  • @julietteferrars3097
    @julietteferrars3097 3 года назад +44

    Was I ever really a child? The juvenile mind eluded me endlessly as a young person and I found it quite difficult to relate with other children. -INFJ

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 2 года назад

      I was wondering the exact same thing. I don't think INFJs have a real or typical state of infancy. They're just too aware and not carefree whatsoever.

    • @mayleespann4552
      @mayleespann4552 2 года назад

      Haha, same
      -INTJ female

  • @tomtomspa
    @tomtomspa 3 года назад +17

    as an intp once i was standing at the wall for punishment and i just stood there for hours in silence, so that when my mother saw me she asked what was i doing.
    She forgot i was in punishment and she had left me there assuming i would have left the punishment of standing at the wall all by myself.
    She was wrong.

    • @jlu3ai
      @jlu3ai 3 года назад +5

      My parents keep telling this story over and over again: allegedly, once they found me standing at the wall for punishment (in kindergarten), but I couldn't tell why I'd got the punishment. When they asked the teacher, she didn't know what they were talking about, because she said she hadn't had reason to punish me for anything. So this is a big mystery to this day. I don't remember much of the case, only that the pattern of the wall was interesting...
      -- INTP (of course 😅)

  • @lanaleber5480
    @lanaleber5480 3 года назад +1

    my enfp-ass related a lot to the estp character.. A LOT. Like the time I used lemonade to mop the floor, or started to paint a wall in my bedroom blue because I didn't like the white, but then changed my mind about the colour quite a few times, or the time I glued all the snacks in the house together to create a really big snack since I only could have one, or the time I threw a bucket of cold water into my bed before sleeping because I was too hot during summer, or when I had put a whole bunch of press-on tattoos on myself, became disappointed because almost none were visible and then obviously cut many holes in my clothes to show them. I could go on for a while, but I think I made a fair point

  • @cobimulder2433
    @cobimulder2433 2 года назад +31

    I work with kids and as an INFJ myself I find this video extremley funny and relatable. I'm already connecting some kids at my work with the types FJ is portraying here 🤣I can change from one minute being a kid myself and play with the kids on the same level and next minute eloborate complete analyses about their behaviour and feelings. Love my job🤣

    • @rupinderh01
      @rupinderh01 Год назад +1

      infj here, what job do you do, sounds great!

    • @cobimulder2433
      @cobimulder2433 Год назад +2

      @@rupinderh01 I work in childcare, with kids the age of 7-8, in the Netherlands. After school they come to us, so it's basically a second home to them. Sometimes i feel like a teacher, sometimes I feel like a mom, or a psychologist. And sometimes a police officer 🤣i love that you get to know each of these personalities as time goes by and find out what they need to develop. I'm actually qualified to be a art teacher in museums or in high schools but I ended up in childcare. But in child care there's a lot of activities you can do with the kids, such as cooking, painting etc. :) What job do you do?

    • @rupinderh01
      @rupinderh01 Год назад

      @@cobimulder2433 that sounds great! It sounds like you are really happy :) Im an infj, enneogram 1w9, but have been confused about everthing my whole life. I qualified as a doctor but it was not for me at all, too stressful, I kept going when I should have left the studying the medicine degree 1 year into it, my self gaslighting confused me. This is so random, as I then I tried accounting which was so dry and boring, I left after 6 months. I tried diifferent jobs, latest is medical coding which is ok but not completely fulfilling. Im 43 now and still not sure lol! But I think I want to teach and mentor kids English-maybe older kids?, write stories, and I also want love art so maybe teach art too, or do art as a hobby-I feel like my imagination can't be contained lol, I have so many ideas. Coming from an South Asian family, money was always a worry, so I tried to find safe respectable careers. But I think I would finally like to do a job for me now but I m still concerned about pay though tbh:)

    • @muskafaiz3813
      @muskafaiz3813 11 месяцев назад

      Pro 😎

  • @MsAytanay
    @MsAytanay 3 года назад +33

    INTP here and I don't really remember much from my childhood but I do remember that I loved school as long as I had something to learn and I hated pretty much all my classmates because they were always getting in the way by being loud and messy. Then when my teachers started not being able to teach me anything I started to completely hate school.
    Also, I broke a lot of flashlights, remote controllers and a piano toy by trying to learn how it functioned when I was about 6 years old. My parents weren't happy.

  • @lightlumiere2335
    @lightlumiere2335 3 года назад +24

    Can we all appreciate this man's acting skills and dedication to his channel?!👏👏

  • @mysterycat351
    @mysterycat351 3 года назад +48

    0:17 Me as an ISTP, and me as a kid, I can certainly relate to this. I was literally surprised by how accurate it was.

    • @omomo202
      @omomo202 3 года назад +12

      You’re the first ISTP I’ve ever seen comment on a FJ video.

    • @mysterycat351
      @mysterycat351 3 года назад +3

      @@omomo202 Lol 🤣

    • @Lolirock971
      @Lolirock971 Год назад +1

      I did this to my cat I feel really bad about it now

    • @mysterycat351
      @mysterycat351 Год назад +2

      @@omomo202I was introduced to mbti from my brother, who's an INTJ. And FJ was the one who I learnt mbti from. so, yeah, I don't really care about my own type, but rather just other people's personality types.

  • @marycornwell2818
    @marycornwell2818 3 года назад +18

    i am an intp, and my childhood was me being extremely asocial to the point that most people thought i couldn't talk.
    i was shy around older people, but not with people around my age, i just didn't want anything to do with them lol. i was content with imagining myself in a different world like all the time and not spending a lot of time or energy on friends. it was so weird, i could imaing myself in all sorts of scenarios, but i got mad at people when they said anything illogical because it didn't make sense.

    • @Nanacoy-Nimo
      @Nanacoy-Nimo 2 года назад

      Correction: Antisocial are like or just like a Sociopath. Meaning- they can be selfish, not talkative, manipulative, and averse to the society of others.

    • @marycornwell2818
      @marycornwell2818 2 года назад +1

      @@Nanacoy-Nimo yeah i guess i just mean asocial rather than antisocial, from what i understand asocial is just not wanting to engage with people
      thank you for the correction

  • @lillgreenfield
    @lillgreenfield 2 года назад +2

    INTJ - When my mom started teaching my older sister how to read, I insisted that she taught me too, when I was three.