as one myself i would relate to the intp but id rather try to do/say something, be as little embarassing as possible and wait for them to move on so i dont get horrible reputation among the group (and i only wish i could do what they did there without consequences)
It’s like I am a plate spinner, from the circus. You know the ones that spin the plates on poles? I do my best to keep everything spinning, but the plates all fall eventually. 😂
I'll do you one better, went in my first vacation in over 10 years the other day, to Ibiza. Was not worth it, but was free and my husband promised it would be fun, I was lied to by my soul mate. (I am intj, he's infj)
Not sure the INTJ thing is why you're not leaving the house for years at a time. I leave my house all the time. I do have to eat and take care of my personal business. Even if I could buy everything online I would still need to leave my house at least once a month just for my sanity.
@@cjwillz When I get my own place, I'd actually like to check out certain events when I have the time. Oof, there'll be so much to do that's not necessarily work, like playing videogames, watching shows, reading articles or books, cooking for the week, or anything like that.
As an INFJ, I'd probably be thinking and practicing how I'm going to present a quirky and succinct introduction but what comes out of my mouth would be something like; "Hi! My name is read and I like to Jennifer for fun." 😀
Just to avoid that kind of scenario, I actually had to write down the things I need to say when we had the "introduce yourself" portion this school year. Omg
"MY NAME IS TONY!" ESTJ here. I'm a Math professor... and I seriously do talk like that. I want the students to have no choice but to remember everything I say. No one has fallen asleep during lecture in years. I'm actually losing my voice right now, because we're 2 weeks into the semester. As always, mad props to Frank James for holding a mirror to society.
Oi ESTJ, é muito estranho como o Frank consegue nos descrever tanto, grito muito é sempre quero que todos se esforcem para aprender e fazer tudo o que eu digo.
INTP here and YES. Also, you know what? I completely agree that we need name tags! That way no one has to introduce themselves and I can actually remember someone's name. I suck at remembering names...
yes, the most embarrassing thing is when they tell you their name once and you forget it, and then know them for like a year without knowing their name and you can't just ask for it because you've known them for ages.......
16 personalities: At church In The Backrooms In a horror movie or watching a horror movie As emos Suggesting books, games, movies, or other media Listening to music Doing homework When they have computer problems When they're late When they're car breaks down Ordering a coffee Shopping Deciding what to wear
@@AlanaPostsCrap ENTJ: Damn, were locked in! How are we gonna get out? ISFJ: There's a room over there, but there's a table in the way. ISTP: Well, just go over it. ENTJ: Why would anyone put a table in the middle of the damn kitchen? INFP: Calm down, everyone! Let's think this through. ENFJ: INFP's right. Let's just take a moment to breathe in... *inhales* Come on, do it with me! ISFP: Uh, there's something behind you. ESTJ: She said "Breathe!", you du-holy shit, you're right. ENTP: ...ESFP? ESFP: Aww, dude! Why? I thought it would be funny. ENTP: Ghosts wait until we're alone. INFJ: Alone... alone! WHERE'S INTP? ESTP: He said he had to piss. INTJ: I'll go check. ENTP, ISTP, come with me. ISTP: Sure, whatever.
As an INFP, I would only introduce myself simply like the INTP did. The "Please move your attention from me" and "You can't truly know me both in a short group and one-on-one introduction" thing will go on simultaneously and sub-consciously in my mind
I went to a group therapy session where we sat in a circle and the leader had a "talking stick." This stick was passed around and when it was given to you, you had to introduce yourself and say why you were there. I was 9th in a circle of 12 people... That was one of the worst evenings of my life. It was over a year ago, I still think about it.
@@safim8217 I've never been to so I can't comment on that. Talking it out with friends feels safer if u trust em. Or get a personal therapist the communication is better
@@safim8217 I feel your pain. They did that to me once. A group therapy thing. Actually I had to go once a week for a while, which means I had to practice being proactively silent once a week. Silence skills ++
@Psykylogist 👍 I relate to INFJ in this one. The difference is that someone else will go before me, say what I was going to say, and leave me to scramble at the last minute to come up with a second-choice introductory sentence. Meanwhile, I’ll be low-grade panicking and chiding myself for being so anxious. The good thing is, since finding this channel, I now know I‘m not the only one.☺️
INTP here and damn this hit me like a truck. I hate introductions, I hate attention, matter of fact I hate existing in the same room with more than 2 people anyway so yeah 😂
INFJ is soooo accurate. I remember a time when our professor asked us to introduced ourselves. and as an INFJ, I was just thinking of the things I should say. I was like an instant scriptwriter huhu
INFJ is spot on as usual. And as an INFJ myself I‘d also feel instantly contected to the ENFJ, the ENFP and the INFP. Just saying. It’s all coming together #kronk
Funnily enough, growing up that is all I would say to my INTJ mother--you just don't understand me. Now I wonder why I believe that when I am pretty sure I am not THAT hard to understand lol. #infp
I used to spend lots of time saying almost nothing about myself and then feeling shocked at not being understood. But I had a friend who was a bit like that as well; would not talk to me for months and then got mad at me for not knowing every updated detail about her life (like a stalker?) and why I can't read her mind.
People who know us can't even understand us! This was spot on. (Also, I always knew Trump was an ESTP, and he was clearly Frank's inspiration here. It explains so much to me as an INFP.)
@@unmitigatedgall8732 I resolve that no matter how many details about your life or personality people know, it doesn't mean they understand. But I've heard the phrase "air of msytery" and I think it's pretentious.
Frank James, here's a sick suggestion I have for you. Turn this 'meeting group' right here into some kind of series, and they can have conversations about all sorts of things within the room. You could use the same settings and just have different topics. Just a thought! Love your work :)
As an ISTP I can honestly say that that was a very long introduction compared to how I do it. I usually just say my name and move on. "I'm *my name, that's all" is a common one.
@@tikent-snulfwoer exactly. I'd think that, but never ever EVER would I say that. I'd just go with a friendly smile, my name and something about me that is obvious anyways.
I would have anxiety that people would think that I have a low attention span (I do) so I would memorise everything they say until I go home. Also here’s a hack for introducing yourself that is plainly obvious *insert troom troom intro here* just say your name and a random colour you like dummy.
INTP here. It was such a comfort to hear ENTP defy the instructions, for ENTJ to suggest a non-interactive alternative, and for INTJ to speak out what's also in my mind. NT homies!
1:03 This is what every introvert has in mind and wishes to say it loud during introductions. 2:45 This is so true, I always want to fade into the background so that there's no spotlight on me and I can be comfortable again. 3:10 This is how philosophical I get about things at times and end up oversharing (which I obviously regret later). 3:33 This is so relatable. Once I had to offer vote of thanks during an internship programme after the session and I was so worried about structuring everything that I wasn't able to focus on the session and at the end I had to struggle to frame everything appropriately. P.S. :- I'm an INFJ, still related to others, I don't know why, maybe we resonate with everyone's thoughts. 😂 But seriously, I don't comment on videos usually but yours are an exception because I love your channel. This is the only place where I feel understood. Thank you for making such relatable videos. ❤️
Wow I was also thinking to myself I relate to INTP because I don’t want people to look at me; INFP because I don’t think one introduction is enough ; INFJ because I’ll be trying to figure out what I’m going to say. And yes if I had guts, I’d say what the ENTP said……. INFP here
1:03 I thought to myself "this guy is saying exactly what I'm thinking lol" then a little later: baaam "ENTP". I'm ENTP, or at least I think I am. U welcome, for ENTP being the voice of introverts LOL
I think I'm ENTP - because this [1:04] is what I think during the group, but I don't because I just think it will probably cause too much trouble for what its worth and I just end up just saying something random like... "I'm ... , umm, I like ..." and moving on. I wish the teachers who usually do this stuff wouldn't target me for every thing afterwards if I said [1:04]. :/
ISTJ: Greetings. My name is Yoshikage Kira. I'm 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don't smoke, but I occasionally drink. I'm in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I'm trying to explain that I'm a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning and losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how I deal with society, and I know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if I were to fight I wouldn't lose to anyone.
As an INTP, the ISFJ is one of the few people there that doesn’t quietly terrify me. I feel like you can’t go wrong interacting with an ISFJ. Just so much warm fuzzy stuff in that vibe.
As an ENFP I feel both extremely well represented and increasingly uncomfortable remembering past conversations in which I may or may not have overshared and/or been overly honest about certain feelings... A lot. Like, way too much. Which surely leads to great connections at first cause "wow this person is so confident they open up really fast :D" but then turns awkward real quick cause I talk about shit I probably shouldn't talk about with almost-strangers and I'm quite convinced about 90%of them end up thinking "whoa whoa whoa okay calm down, a simple one-sentence-answer would've been enough I don't want to know everything about the identity crisis you had last night, but yeah that adventure you talked about 5 minutes ago was cool, can we get back to that? Okay cool, thanks" at some point
ENFP here and I am also embarrassed and very uncomfortable now looking at how uncomfortable I must’ve made others- like one time in fourth grade we had to write poetry and share it to a classmate and I always wrote the saddest one. Literally everybody’s reaction was “Uhm ok-“
Yeah, totally agree. I feel like we're so non-judgmentally curious about all aspects of life and human existence that we don't have the same boundaries other types have, regarding extreme topics, like existential dread or trauma, birth, death or stuff like that. It's all part of life and inlcuded in the stuff we talk and think about.
INFP here, and totally relate. I wouldn't say it out loud though, i think. I usually introduce myself, but then regret it cause the way I presented myself is how everyone see me now and it almost never scratches the surface of who I am as a living being, well I don't really know myself too well but I can't help but feeling like I'm living in a lie after introductions like that.. and sorta fake. It's this loop I go through, I think of the perfect introduction that would make people like me and most of the times know exactly what I have to say to make people look at me in the way I want them to, but after all that.. I just end up with this 'empty husk' feeling. Anyways, I'm going too in dept- Thanks for reading!
Yay another INFP good thing I don't have to introduce myself much but even my friends don't know who I truly am heck I don't ego I truly am there is no way I can introduce myself without giving people the wrong impression about who I am or people thinking that I'm boring nobody has enough time in an introduction to introduce themselves properly which is likely why I don't pay attention in introductions so I get to know the person properly without explanations because I'll either think they are extremely awesome and fun when their not or think that their boring and not talk to them when they could of been a good friend
very true.. I'm an INFJ and every time we we're asked to introduce ourselves, i often go last or near last, thinking what i should be saying, etc, and not listening and remembering anything
As an INTJ I relate to this 100%. at 3:05, that was me when I attended our college farewell party 2 days ago. Definitely not worth leaving my house at all!😬
I think not remembering names is an ENTJ thing, because we think of people as their function, not as people. As a teacher, it's something I work on so all the F types aren't offended. But of course, the name tags are exactly what they need, and I would have called them out on it...in a fake nice way that wouldn't fool anyone!
The INFJ one is very accurate. I remember everytime we introduced ourselves, I always think of what to say that would make a good impression and would not embarrassed me, forgetting almost everyone's self-introduction except for those that pique my interest.
I'm INTP and I hate attention of anything. I don't like rounds of introductions and I react 1:1 like this. INFP have better sensitivity in this regard.
INFPs have high Fi, so they can generally tell something about themselves. For INTPs, introducing themselves may only consist of saying their name, but since the people started mentioning personal stuff in the beginning, the INTP's Fe is on a panic here
Yeah, he is finally relying less in stereotypes and it is great. As an ENTP, before even playing the video I said "I bet the ENTP would just say he loves to argue and that is it" .... and almost every single video that was the case... like the ENTP was not even arguing, just mentioned he was going to argue. So it is nice to finally see something an ENTP would actually say.
the coolest thing is to get to the point where you know which personality is showing up, not only because of stereotypes but also because of language addictions (such as value transfer, definitions by examples, etc.) Fun and educational at the same time, nice job
As an ISFJ, the INFJ one at the end was the most relatable. I get a bit anxious with these types of things, so thinking of my response the whole time is what I would do in a situation like this one in the video.
The INTJ one was very accurate to me. I acted similarly last time I had to introduce myself to a group, which was itself around 9 months ago as I haven't been out since.
The INFJ one was spot on!!! I always did this whenever I went to summer camp or school and had to introduce myself, and then I'd feel bad cause I didn't remember anything anyone said cause I spent 20 minutes anxiously stressing over and mentally rehearsing what I'd say 😭😂😭😂😭🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
As an INFJ I relate 100%. I never listen to anyone whenever I want to say something about myself. I just replay my speech in my head over and over to sound like I didn't spend 3 hours figuring out what to say. LOL
I am an INFJ and it scares me a little how accurate you portray them in your videos. This one was spot on 100% for me. I guess it pays to be one yourself, FJ.
The ISFP was so accurate. When people ask me about myself I tend to rattle off my diverse interests, likes, hobbies and passions and they’re usually left starting at me like, “yeah ok that’s nice”. And I’m like, “oh right sorry that was too much 😅”
Me as an INTP I totally relate to the ENTP and INTJ ones 😂 1- I really won't remember the names 2- I find it worthless to get out from home to go to a stubid meeting
I swear, I'm an infj but in the inside I'm more of an entp. Like, I think of weird stuff and weird things but then I say "nah keep it for yourself that's not socially acceptable"
hahaha my INFJ friend is actually very quirky (ofc in a cute way) and I (ENFP) feel so happy that she feels comfortable enough to show me that side of her. 🥰
Or maybe when sth is bothering them, they wanna talk about it but don't want to transfer the negativity to others, or even they might be afraid that others will misunderstand them so they joke about it while actually implying sth deeper (that might be obvious to the listener at times or hard to notice at all)... Talking from personal experience... That might not always go through the way you want so you should be clear too. That could in a way explain why ENFPs tend to be stereotypically indecisive now that I think of it
Yes, but what type is the moderator? From the glasses and moustache and from his genuine disinterest in anything other than moving through the program despite the absurdity before him, I'd guess he's another ISTJ.
I am INFP I overthink. Get attachted to people nice to me who dont want me. Pro procrastinator . Friendless but want friends. Very depressed. Help everyone, no one help me. Insecure. Will be happy only in our imagination. Can't say no to anyone. Sorry if i missed anything.
@@godabandonedmesoibecameaba8984 I can say that I am my brother is INTP however while being the most introverted of the types he's more extroverted than me an INFP
I don’t entirely agree with ISFP (I think they would rather like to say it that way but then end up saying much less), but INTP was ON POINT, as well as INFP. 😂 Also I agree with ENTJ! Name tags would be so much better. I always focus so much at what I’m about to say that I don’t listen at all to the other introductions and thus don’t remember every single name. Which is sooo awkward afterwards.
the infp is ON POINT. just a while ago i had that exact thought about us infp having so many layers of ourselves which makes it hard for people to truly know us. 😂😂😂 thanks frank!
@Whimsicle The firefly of course this doesn't apply to all of infp 😄 for me, i don't actually say it during an introduction 😂 just this thought is what mostly always popped in my mind when a person wanna try to know me.
Thats so true. I’m also an infp and one time in school we had to form groups of two and draw the personality of our classmate. My partner drew a lake as my personality and explained that he thought my personality is as deep as a lake. I was so touched by it 😭
My gut laugh when ENFP started introducing themselves. I was thinking, "is this what I sound like whenever I try to make a joke off my struggles? Nah it's probabably not me." Then BOOM ENFP 🤣🤣 You've got us down pat !
INFP is soooo accurate! I literally said something along the lines like that when I starting this surfing club 😂 I still remember every single second of it.
"So far not worth it" that's exactly what I'm thinking most of the time. Or what I'm afraid of thinking if I went, so I don't actually go in the first place.
"Hey, what's this meet-up group about anyway?" "Nothing, really. It's just a contrived plot device to give you all reason to introduce yourselves." And the real question- How did the moderator get them all to come if they didn't know why they were meeting up? Inquiring minds want to know.
@@virginiacreasy5956 Good question. These are the kind of people that will set you up on a blind date with someone unsuitable. I need to know who they are so I can avoid them.
Weirdly, the INTP reminded me of my son. He's still too young to type, but given that he is already the spawn of two INTPs, it would be really weird to add a third into the mix. His big sister in an ENFP, and she is exactly as chaotic (if not more) as all of the ENFP sketches would lead you to believe this type to be.
I am an INFP and work as a social worker. My work usually goes really well as long as I can listen to and take care of others. But there are also situations where I have to introduce myself in groups or school classes, these are the worst situations in my life. You end up with a silly grin, a lot of sweat, a red face and a stutter.
Frank - I genuinely believe the INFJ would be the guy in the moustache moderating everything. I literally just had to do an assignment with moderating as part of my masters of social work studies degree haha sidenote: I was analysing all the personalities as they were talking and trying to guess which one was which personality (before you gave the answer) and I got a fair few of them correct, especially ENFP, ENTJ, ISFP, ISFJ, ENFJ, INTJ & INFP I guessed those ones correctly. I'm getting better at this thanks to your videos haha
OMG the ENFP part has me crying laughing. I'm actually going through a divorce and recently lost my job, but it has led to huge lifestyle changes and life has never been better. We're walking contradictions 😎
How would you introduce yourself?
Quickly😜
@@StephanieJeanne haha
Hi my name is abir…
I say " hi and bye" 😁, I just kidding 😂
Oh gosh , introductions are the worst lol
Still haven't figured out what to say😂
😆 INFJs pay extra attention to those who seem to have problems, smh!
Lol, ineffective against large groups. Frank is exposing our weakness!
Very true
Big groups, my one weakness!
INFJ noticed ENFP smh
It was an ENFP. That's why the INFJ's attention was available
INTP: Please stop looking at me
ENFPs: awwwwww cute **smiles**
Me an intp, pls no
@@djdragons69420 We'll probably try again three days later, but for now, okay~☺️
That's 100% me and my INTP best friend lmao
Crap! some people find this cute?
as one myself i would relate to the intp but id rather try to do/say something, be as little embarassing as possible and wait for them to move on so i dont get horrible reputation among the group (and i only wish i could do what they did there without consequences)
ENFP's life secretly falling apart behind the scenes, but not wanting to bum everyone out so turning it into a joke is 100% accurate!
Yessssss
Absolutely
seriously I relate sooo much!
It’s like I am a plate spinner, from the circus. You know the ones that spin the plates on poles? I do my best to keep everything spinning, but the plates all fall eventually. 😂
Ikr 😭😭😭
INFP: *Introduces themself and says you can't get to know them truly*
ENFJ: Do I hear... A challenge? *Pulls out therapist pad*
INFP Lays on the next couch and points to ENFJ: YOU’RE ON!
This is so accurate lmaooo🤣🤣🤣
Yes lol
INTJ: That was me last night at a mandatory in person work meeting. Definitely not worth leaving the house!
I'll do you one better, went in my first vacation in over 10 years the other day, to Ibiza. Was not worth it, but was free and my husband promised it would be fun, I was lied to by my soul mate.
(I am intj, he's infj)
.Me too
That's me, too. When INTJ said he hadn't left the house in six months, I cheered and applauded.
Finally an ENFP that shows the needlessly macabre side of endless authenticity
Yes man that is quite accurate
Yeah totally..... or is it? 🤣🤔😂
That was such a perfectly ENFP aesthetic sentence, I would get that tattooed onto me lmao
Why is it me though 👽
I feel so validated xD
Why INTJ's always about never going outside for months?
Me personally doesn't leave my house for years
I haven't left my house in two years. I am not kidding
Pfft! You're practically a social butterfly.
Not sure the INTJ thing is why you're not leaving the house for years at a time. I leave my house all the time. I do have to eat and take care of my personal business. Even if I could buy everything online I would still need to leave my house at least once a month just for my sanity.
@@BlackJesus8463 Online.
@@cjwillz When I get my own place, I'd actually like to check out certain events when I have the time.
Oof, there'll be so much to do that's not necessarily work, like playing videogames, watching shows, reading articles or books, cooking for the week, or anything like that.
As an INFJ, I'd probably be thinking and practicing how I'm going to present a quirky and succinct introduction but what comes out of my mouth would be something like; "Hi! My name is read and I like to Jennifer for fun." 😀
LMAO you made me choke on my on saliva 😂🤚
LMAO i can relate and that happened to me once
I actually laughed out loud 🤣 oh dear God why are we like this!?!!😂😂😭
Relatable
Just to avoid that kind of scenario, I actually had to write down the things I need to say when we had the "introduce yourself" portion this school year. Omg
"MY NAME IS TONY!" ESTJ here. I'm a Math professor... and I seriously do talk like that. I want the students to have no choice but to remember everything I say. No one has fallen asleep during lecture in years. I'm actually losing my voice right now, because we're 2 weeks into the semester. As always, mad props to Frank James for holding a mirror to society.
Get vocal coaching! Your breathing is probably off.
Ahahahah take care of your voice .
Oi ESTJ, é muito estranho como o Frank consegue nos descrever tanto, grito muito é sempre quero que todos se esforcem para aprender e fazer tudo o que eu digo.
I read this with Frank Jame's voice with the loud tone of an ESTJ 😂☝🏻
I do like how the ESTJ has his own theme music, but as an ESTJ I went from a really quiet voice as a kid to a normal voice so I don't quite relate.
INTP here and YES. Also, you know what? I completely agree that we need name tags! That way no one has to introduce themselves and I can actually remember someone's name. I suck at remembering names...
Same here...so that we don't have to remember anyone's name
Lol how are you going to learn their name if you don't know how to pronounce it then ?
yes, the most embarrassing thing is when they tell you their name once and you forget it, and then know them for like a year without knowing their name and you can't just ask for it because you've known them for ages.......
as an ENFP you know you’re not joking about what’s going on but you’re joking about being serious about it lmao
on point
Yeah I hate lying but I noticed if I just say the truth with a sarcastic undetone everyone laughs and I get away with it.
Well, INFJs can notice that and try to help you if you accept their help.
@@TheFren i do that most of the time. I exist out of it
@@exolimoon1814 I like that so much about this personality types. That's also why we can talk so good with one another ❤️
16 Personalities:
Doing an escape room.
Doing a haunted house.
At Hogwarts.
16 personalities:
At church
In The Backrooms
In a horror movie or watching a horror movie
As emos
Suggesting books, games, movies, or other media
Listening to music
Doing homework
When they have computer problems
When they're late
When they're car breaks down
Ordering a coffee
Shopping
Deciding what to wear
I need to see them in a horror movie!
16 Personalities as Karens
At Hogwarts sounds awesome!
@@AlanaPostsCrap
ENTJ: Damn, were locked in! How are we gonna get out?
ISFJ: There's a room over there, but there's a table in the way.
ISTP: Well, just go over it.
ENTJ: Why would anyone put a table in the middle of the damn kitchen?
INFP: Calm down, everyone! Let's think this through.
ENFJ: INFP's right. Let's just take a moment to breathe in... *inhales* Come on, do it with me!
ISFP: Uh, there's something behind you.
ESTJ: She said "Breathe!", you du-holy shit, you're right.
ENTP: ...ESFP?
ESFP: Aww, dude! Why? I thought it would be funny.
ENTP: Ghosts wait until we're alone.
INFJ: Alone... alone! WHERE'S INTP?
ESTP: He said he had to piss.
INTJ: I'll go check. ENTP, ISTP, come with me.
ISTP: Sure, whatever.
When life gives you lemons, squeeze them for all the comedic juice they provide 🍋 😂
-ENFP
Who is this person named "Life",and why are they giving you lemons?
I thought you would squeeze it in theirs eyes 😬. Just to say kidding 😬
True
Sprinkle spontaneity
specially if it lands in your eyes
pain has a great comedic effect on people
“I’m Ron, don’t speak to me unless it’s absolutely necessary” I’m going to sit with Ron judging everyone without saying a word to eachother
The best side character
😂
Me too..
As an INFP, I would only introduce myself simply like the INTP did. The "Please move your attention from me" and "You can't truly know me both in a short group and one-on-one introduction" thing will go on simultaneously and sub-consciously in my mind
I completely agree
The INFP and INFJ ones were so relatable, this guy literally took my words out of my head
What's funny is, the INFP in me is kept to myself, but what I really end up saying in this situation is what comes out of the INFJ's mouth.
@@jackcolson4745 wow, with me it's the exact opposite
yay, I'm not the only borderline around. Hello tribe. 3 is a tribe, isn't it?
This actually has to be a group therapy session. Or as I call it the INTP personal hell.
I went to a group therapy session where we sat in a circle and the leader had a "talking stick." This stick was passed around and when it was given to you, you had to introduce yourself and say why you were there. I was 9th in a circle of 12 people...
That was one of the worst evenings of my life.
It was over a year ago, I still think about it.
@@safim8217 I've never been to so I can't comment on that. Talking it out with friends feels safer if u trust em. Or get a personal therapist the communication is better
I thought this channel was group therapy?
@@safim8217 So lame
@@safim8217 I feel your pain. They did that to me once. A group therapy thing. Actually I had to go once a week for a while, which means I had to practice being proactively silent once a week.
Silence skills ++
@Psykylogist 👍
I relate to INFJ in this one. The difference is that someone else will go before me, say what I was going to say, and leave me to scramble at the last minute to come up with a second-choice introductory sentence. Meanwhile, I’ll be low-grade panicking and chiding myself for being so anxious.
The good thing is, since finding this channel, I now know I‘m not the only one.☺️
Same and I'm not INFJ either XD
I hear ya, sister! It's the downside of going 2nd, third, or whatever😜 has happened to me many times.😂
every single self-introduction before my own shrinks the pool of interesting answers about myself. Which is bad.
Probably more like Psy *KYLE* ogist
I relate too but I'm INFP
I was waiting for the INFP.
“There is no way for me to meaningfully scratch the surface of who I am in this short introduction.”
Ah yes…there it is.
INTP here and damn this hit me like a truck. I hate introductions, I hate attention, matter of fact I hate existing in the same room with more than 2 people anyway so yeah 😂
Totally relatable 😂
If there's more person then the attention won't come to us easily.. I also hate attention
Ron Swanson is Frank's ISTP inspiration confirmed.
That's who I picture when I think ISTP as well.
100%
Also ben from parks is an istj, possible connection???? 🤔
@@Takisan111 But then, what type is Ron Dunn?
Tony Robbins ESTJ
Enfp revealing their true feelings through humour is too accurate 😂
🤣🤣
As an ENFP I can relate
literally me
Basically me
YESS
0:00 ESFJ
0:15 ISTP
0:20 ENFJ
0:39 ISFP
0:54 ESTP
1:03 ENTP
1:18 ISFJ
1:31 ISTJ
1:40 ENFP
1:56 ESFP
2:14 ESTJ
2:29 ENTJ
2:44 INTP
2:58 INTJ
3:08 INFP
3:32 INFJ
3:56 ESFJ
really enjoyable skit, I didn't see the timestamp thingies so here you go qwq
Thx
Thank you, hooman :D
Thank you 🤩🤩
What do the letters stand for?
@@clarejennings5049 it's different personality types!
INFJ is soooo accurate. I remember a time when our professor asked us to introduced ourselves. and as an INFJ, I was just thinking of the things I should say. I was like an instant scriptwriter huhu
That sounds like me during introductions 🤣
Sounds about right
Wooow, brilliant. As an INTJ I confirm accuracy a 100%. You just showed my life. Thank You, Frank.
This is obviously false, the infp managed to string together something halfway coherent without puking
I like to think that was just their thought process and they really left for the bathroom.
Hey, not all of us INFPs struggle with public speaking to that point lol.
@@naginiriddle7091 well I do hahaha
Yeah the coherent part part was overly so lol. Of course we are all thinking this but then like 2 words come out of our mouths.
@@loisrabies8713 yeah I can't introduce myself
INFJ is spot on as usual. And as an INFJ myself I‘d also feel instantly contected to the ENFJ, the ENFP and the INFP. Just saying. It’s all coming together #kronk
So true As an INFJ feels like I am connected to an enfp they are extroverted intelligent funny people with morales who need fixing perfect for us.😅
Truly remarkable how us INFPs can never feel like we said enough about ourselves to get people to really understand us.
Funnily enough, growing up that is all I would say to my INTJ mother--you just don't understand me.
Now I wonder why I believe that when I am pretty sure I am not THAT hard to understand lol. #infp
I used to spend lots of time saying almost nothing about myself and then feeling shocked at not being understood. But I had a friend who was a bit like that as well; would not talk to me for months and then got mad at me for not knowing every updated detail about her life (like a stalker?) and why I can't read her mind.
I get that from my firend sometimes xd
People who know us can't even understand us! This was spot on. (Also, I always knew Trump was an ESTP, and he was clearly Frank's inspiration here. It explains so much to me as an INFP.)
@@unmitigatedgall8732 I resolve that no matter how many details about your life or personality people know, it doesn't mean they understand. But I've heard the phrase "air of msytery" and I think it's pretentious.
Frank James, here's a sick suggestion I have for you. Turn this 'meeting group' right here into some kind of series, and they can have conversations about all sorts of things within the room. You could use the same settings and just have different topics. Just a thought! Love your work :)
Like community
As an ISTP I can honestly say that that was a very long introduction compared to how I do it.
I usually just say my name and move on.
"I'm *my name, that's all" is a common one.
INFP should just be Daydreaming and not following the conversation
Exactly. I'd be thinking the things that the infp says in the video, but wouldn't say it because I'd be afraid of people thinking I'm weird 😅
Nah..we could..doesn't mean we should
INFP Squad 🔥
@@tikent-snulfwoer exactly. I'd think that, but never ever EVER would I say that. I'd just go with a friendly smile, my name and something about me that is obvious anyways.
I would have anxiety that people would think that I have a low attention span (I do) so I would memorise everything they say until I go home. Also here’s a hack for introducing yourself that is plainly obvious *insert troom troom intro here* just say your name and a random colour you like dummy.
Was waiting for INTJ to show up to see if I could relate.
Wasn't disappointed.
Indeed.
Same.
As an INTJ I wouldn't have said so much. Only my name.
@@cjwillz Same. I would have kept the "So far not worth it" to myself. Don't say anything that might cause the conversation to drag on more.
@@dhisufiroafrozenseraphimdragon Because then you will become awkward because you weren't prepared for a conversation.
Hilarious. As an ISTP / INTP who has forced himself to improve my social skills, I can confirm I still just want to be left alone.
Same 😁
INTP here. It was such a comfort to hear ENTP defy the instructions, for ENTJ to suggest a non-interactive alternative, and for INTJ to speak out what's also in my mind. NT homies!
1:03 This is what every introvert has in mind and wishes to say it loud during introductions.
2:45 This is so true, I always want to fade into the background so that there's no spotlight on me and I can be comfortable again.
3:10 This is how philosophical I get about things at times and end up oversharing (which I obviously regret later).
3:33 This is so relatable. Once I had to offer vote of thanks during an internship programme after the session and I was so worried about structuring everything that I wasn't able to focus on the session and at the end I had to struggle to frame everything appropriately.
P.S. :- I'm an INFJ, still related to others, I don't know why, maybe we resonate with everyone's thoughts. 😂 But seriously, I don't comment on videos usually but yours are an exception because I love your channel. This is the only place where I feel understood. Thank you for making such relatable videos. ❤️
Wow
I was also thinking to myself I relate to INTP because I don’t want people to look at me; INFP because I don’t think one introduction is enough ; INFJ because I’ll be trying to figure out what I’m going to say. And yes if I had guts, I’d say what the ENTP said…….
INFP here
@introvert INFJ here too and this is exactly how my train of thought was as well watching the video. Spot on 👍🏻😂
1:03 I thought to myself "this guy is saying exactly what I'm thinking lol" then a little later: baaam "ENTP". I'm ENTP, or at least I think I am. U welcome, for ENTP being the voice of introverts LOL
I think I'm ENTP - because this [1:04] is what I think during the group, but I don't because I just think it will probably cause too much trouble for what its worth and I just end up just saying something random like... "I'm ... , umm, I like ..." and moving on. I wish the teachers who usually do this stuff wouldn't target me for every thing afterwards if I said [1:04]. :/
ISTJ: Greetings. My name is Yoshikage Kira. I'm 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don't smoke, but I occasionally drink. I'm in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I'm trying to explain that I'm a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning and losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how I deal with society, and I know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if I were to fight I wouldn't lose to anyone.
I see your a man of culture as well
Funny thing is your not an ISTJ, we would never share that much information on social media willingly.
A fellow ISTJ you are a person of culture
*proud ISTJ noises*
@@briaharris183 hello fellow ISTJ 😌
The ISFJ practiced that whole bit for a week and it was cute that he got validation for it.
Also ISFJ is probably secretly worried about the ENFP lmao
I love the sweet ISFJ - he's excited to tell everyone about his affinity for Netflix!
Yes. -an ISFJ
as an ISFJ, you know it!!
As an INTP, the ISFJ is one of the few people there that doesn’t quietly terrify me. I feel like you can’t go wrong interacting with an ISFJ. Just so much warm fuzzy stuff in that vibe.
My mom is an ISFJ and it's too accurate
As an ENFP I feel both extremely well represented and increasingly uncomfortable remembering past conversations in which I may or may not have overshared and/or been overly honest about certain feelings... A lot. Like, way too much. Which surely leads to great connections at first cause "wow this person is so confident they open up really fast :D" but then turns awkward real quick cause I talk about shit I probably shouldn't talk about with almost-strangers and I'm quite convinced about 90%of them end up thinking "whoa whoa whoa okay calm down, a simple one-sentence-answer would've been enough I don't want to know everything about the identity crisis you had last night, but yeah that adventure you talked about 5 minutes ago was cool, can we get back to that? Okay cool, thanks" at some point
ENFP here and I am also embarrassed and very uncomfortable now looking at how uncomfortable I must’ve made others- like one time in fourth grade we had to write poetry and share it to a classmate and I always wrote the saddest one. Literally everybody’s reaction was
“Uhm ok-“
“Don’t speak to me unless it’s absolutely necessary” As an ISTP that is terrifyingly accurate
Hope Tony won't be mad that INFJ remembered some alcoholic guy over him
😂😂😂
Tony will have to find a way to get over himself. This might take a few lifetimes though. Lol
Oh don't worry - as an ESTJ he'll *find* a reason to be mad lol
😆😆
Timmy origin story.
I love watching the 16 personalities all interacting together
This kinda matches your profile pic.
I'm an INFP and I've had these thoughts before so it's very accurate. No one might know who we truly are but at least we have ourselves, right? 😅
Yeah when I heard it I knew it was me
1st personality video I've seen that nailed the offbeat macabre side of ENFP humor. Well done, sir!
Yeah, totally agree. I feel like we're so non-judgmentally curious about all aspects of life and human existence that we don't have the same boundaries other types have, regarding extreme topics, like existential dread or trauma, birth, death or stuff like that. It's all part of life and inlcuded in the stuff we talk and think about.
@@mandarinadreux9572 hmm, that's an interesting thought
Totally INTP, and I concur with the ENTJ on the necessity of name tags.
I’m Josh
I’m INTJ
Just realized I haven’t left the house in 6 months. I have no plans to change this.
It‘s just depressing that this was the ENFP representation I’ve most identified with so far lol
sending virtual hugs for you
Hiding your feelings with jokes and self depreciating humor 👍
Don’t worry, we all do it (all the ENFPs, I think)
It's depressing, but honestly I think most ENFPs shown here were more like ESFPs
Sending you lots of love and support
INFP here, and totally relate. I wouldn't say it out loud though, i think.
I usually introduce myself, but then regret it cause the way I presented myself is how everyone see me now and it almost never scratches the surface of who I am as a living being, well I don't really know myself too well but I can't help but feeling like I'm living in a lie after introductions like that.. and sorta fake.
It's this loop I go through, I think of the perfect introduction that would make people like me and most of the times know exactly what I have to say to make people look at me in the way I want them to, but after all that.. I just end up with this 'empty husk' feeling. Anyways, I'm going too in dept-
Thanks for reading!
Yay another INFP good thing I don't have to introduce myself much but even my friends don't know who I truly am heck I don't ego I truly am there is no way I can introduce myself without giving people the wrong impression about who I am or people thinking that I'm boring nobody has enough time in an introduction to introduce themselves properly which is likely why I don't pay attention in introductions so I get to know the person properly without explanations because I'll either think they are extremely awesome and fun when their not or think that their boring and not talk to them when they could of been a good friend
this hits hard, that's why giving introductions about myself are the worst and exciting feeling whenever i have to do it 🥲
bro bro bro bro wtffff this is LITERALLY COMPLETELY *ME*
very true..
I'm an INFJ and every time we we're asked to introduce ourselves, i often go last or near last, thinking what i should be saying, etc, and not listening and remembering anything
As an INTJ I relate to this 100%. at 3:05, that was me when I attended our college farewell party 2 days ago. Definitely not worth leaving my house at all!😬
Me when introducing myself: “Ok, keep calm, just follow the pattern…”
Yes! "Ok, everyone said name, job, and a hobby. I just have to fill those 3 slots and I'm good" lol
That nosy ESFx: wHaT pAtTeRn?
I actually remembered Tony's name... It worked...
I gotta agree with the ENTJ on this one, man. But, only because I'm really bad at remembering names and then I feel really bad.
Yep. I am usually too nervous to remember all the names coming up to my turn in the circle
I think not remembering names is an ENTJ thing, because we think of people as their function, not as people. As a teacher, it's something I work on so all the F types aren't offended. But of course, the name tags are exactly what they need, and I would have called them out on it...in a fake nice way that wouldn't fool anyone!
As an INTP I totally agree I love when people overlook my existence and leave me to myself😂
The INFJ one is very accurate. I remember everytime we introduced ourselves, I always think of what to say that would make a good impression and would not embarrassed me, forgetting almost everyone's self-introduction except for those that pique my interest.
ENTJ here, I approve the name tags. Also, I kinda feel the INTP one could be an INFP as well.
I'm INTP and I hate attention of anything. I don't like rounds of introductions and I react 1:1 like this. INFP have better sensitivity in this regard.
INFPs have high Fi, so they can generally tell something about themselves. For INTPs, introducing themselves may only consist of saying their name, but since the people started mentioning personal stuff in the beginning, the INTP's Fe is on a panic here
Thank you for not using clichés for ENTJ and be creative about this type as well as other popular types, I am really greatful
Yeah, he is finally relying less in stereotypes and it is great. As an ENTP, before even playing the video I said "I bet the ENTP would just say he loves to argue and that is it" .... and almost every single video that was the case... like the ENTP was not even arguing, just mentioned he was going to argue.
So it is nice to finally see something an ENTP would actually say.
the coolest thing is to get to the point where you know which personality is showing up, not only because of stereotypes but also because of language addictions (such as value transfer, definitions by examples, etc.)
Fun and educational at the same time, nice job
As an ISFJ, the INFJ one at the end was the most relatable. I get a bit anxious with these types of things, so thinking of my response the whole time is what I would do in a situation like this one in the video.
Ahhh LOVE it!!!!! The dark ENFP. Who can handle it? Only an INFP, and then it can get super deep and emotional!
The INTJ one was very accurate to me. I acted similarly last time I had to introduce myself to a group, which was itself around 9 months ago as I haven't been out since.
The INFJ one was spot on!!! I always did this whenever I went to summer camp or school and had to introduce myself, and then I'd feel bad cause I didn't remember anything anyone said cause I spent 20 minutes anxiously stressing over and mentally rehearsing what I'd say 😭😂😭😂😭🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Ikr😭😂😭
I can relate 😂
That INTJ sounds pretty wise.
As an INFJ I relate 100%. I never listen to anyone whenever I want to say something about myself. I just replay my speech in my head over and over to sound like I didn't spend 3 hours figuring out what to say. LOL
I am an INFJ and it scares me a little how accurate you portray them in your videos. This one was spot on 100% for me. I guess it pays to be one yourself, FJ.
The ISFP was so accurate. When people ask me about myself I tend to rattle off my diverse interests, likes, hobbies and passions and they’re usually left starting at me like, “yeah ok that’s nice”. And I’m like, “oh right sorry that was too much 😅”
Same
Hahaha yess, so true!
True
Me as an INTP I totally relate to the ENTP and INTJ ones 😂
1- I really won't remember the names
2- I find it worthless to get out from home to go to a stubid meeting
ENFJ is spot on: Sharing a deep and profound insight and waiting nervously for validation.
damn, if that ain't me lol
@@mollusckscramp4124 Awkward isn't it? 😆
I stopped sharing those thoughts, since I'm afraid that people will think I'm a weirdo😅
@@shafarahmanifaza I totally relate. I've spent my life being weirdo.
I’m an older ENFJ and I still say the weirdly profound stuff but now I don’t really give a shit if it’s validated!
that enfp nod at 3:50 was some of the best acting i've seen on this channel
' This is the first time I've left the house in over 6 months, and so far, it hasn't been worth it at all.'
-INTJ
I knew you were listening to me, INFJ! Thanks for remembering my story! 🥺 Let's be friends! - ENFP
After all of these, I only recall Tony. So his approach does work.
The real question is:
What personality type is the group moderator??
Estj?
My first guess was ISTJ because of the glasses and shirt.
ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ
Hmm..ISTx?
Definitely not an ENTJ … take it from an ENTJ
Assuming Timmy was in the room and no one lied, he's either ENTP or ENTJ, the two people who didn't say their name.
Entj can’t be Timmy. Entj never screws up. They’re too street smart and EsTj would sniff the timmy out from that group.
@@Yo-pz1em what do u mean by street smart??
I love the variety of Ohs at the ENFP 😄 there's too many good lines in this one to mention lol, your acting is getting better and better as well 😊
I swear, I'm an infj but in the inside I'm more of an entp. Like, I think of weird stuff and weird things but then I say "nah keep it for yourself that's not socially acceptable"
hahaha my INFJ friend is actually very quirky (ofc in a cute way) and I (ENFP) feel so happy that she feels comfortable enough to show me that side of her. 🥰
1:49 the three different 'Oh's 😂😂😂
Your acting as the moderator is so good btw!!
Enfps do overshare and then try to crack a joke to look charming. It doesn't always work though. This video was delightful.
Or maybe when sth is bothering them, they wanna talk about it but don't want to transfer the negativity to others, or even they might be afraid that others will misunderstand them so they joke about it while actually implying sth deeper (that might be obvious to the listener at times or hard to notice at all)... Talking from personal experience... That might not always go through the way you want so you should be clear too. That could in a way explain why ENFPs tend to be stereotypically indecisive now that I think of it
0:54 This is Trumps personality type and that's spot on
As an INTJ this was spot on 😂
Yes, but what type is the moderator? From the glasses and moustache and from his genuine disinterest in anything other than moving through the program despite the absurdity before him, I'd guess he's another ISTJ.
I am INFP
I overthink.
Get attachted to people nice to me who dont want me.
Pro procrastinator .
Friendless but want friends.
Very depressed.
Help everyone, no one help me.
Insecure.
Will be happy only in our imagination.
Can't say no to anyone.
Sorry if i missed anything.
are you ok with intp's (the most introvert in introverts)
@@godabandonedmesoibecameaba8984 yeah.
You just described me fellow INFP
@@godabandonedmesoibecameaba8984 I can say that I am my brother is INTP however while being the most introverted of the types he's more extroverted than me an INFP
He was right about remembering his name, because the only name I remember is Tony
That's the Tony Robbins effect ,obviously it works 😉
I don’t entirely agree with ISFP (I think they would rather like to say it that way but then end up saying much less), but INTP was ON POINT, as well as INFP. 😂
Also I agree with ENTJ! Name tags would be so much better. I always focus so much at what I’m about to say that I don’t listen at all to the other introductions and thus don’t remember every single name. Which is sooo awkward afterwards.
“Nothing really, it’s just a contrived plot device…”
I do so enjoy tongue in cheek humor. This one put a smile on my face.
The moderator's reply was epic if it were anything other than INTJ cause INTJs don't get offended if the other person try to counter offend them ...
the infp is ON POINT.
just a while ago i had that exact thought about us infp having so many layers of ourselves which makes it hard for people to truly know us.
😂😂😂
thanks frank!
@Whimsicle The firefly of course this doesn't apply to all of infp 😄 for me, i don't actually say it during an introduction 😂 just this thought is what mostly always popped in my mind when a person wanna try to know me.
I wouldn’t talk so damn much in the intro, tbh. Relate more to the intp and intj intros 🤣
Thats so true. I’m also an infp and one time in school we had to form groups of two and draw the personality of our classmate. My partner drew a lake as my personality and explained that he thought my personality is as deep as a lake. I was so touched by it 😭
My gut laugh when ENFP started introducing themselves. I was thinking, "is this what I sound like whenever I try to make a joke off my struggles? Nah it's probabably not me." Then BOOM ENFP 🤣🤣 You've got us down pat !
INFP is soooo accurate! I literally said something along the lines like that when I starting this surfing club 😂
I still remember every single second of it.
"So far not worth it" that's exactly what I'm thinking most of the time.
Or what I'm afraid of thinking if I went, so I don't actually go in the first place.
"Hey, what's this meet-up group about anyway?"
"Nothing, really. It's just a contrived plot device to give you all reason to introduce yourselves."
And the real question- How did the moderator get them all to come if they didn't know why they were meeting up?
Inquiring minds want to know.
Pizza must have been promised, why else would you go?
They had to turn up for work-related reasons. There is no reason not to do this online where the INTP can stay in the dark
@@TheYamiJK Only if it's woodfire would I turn up, oh and preferably gluten-free
And what personality is the moderator?!
@@virginiacreasy5956 Good question. These are the kind of people that will set you up on a blind date with someone unsuitable. I need to know who they are so I can avoid them.
I feel for INTP on this one 👀
Weirdly, the INTP reminded me of my son. He's still too young to type, but given that he is already the spawn of two INTPs, it would be really weird to add a third into the mix. His big sister in an ENFP, and she is exactly as chaotic (if not more) as all of the ENFP sketches would lead you to believe this type to be.
I mean there is only 25% chance that he will have different type, so pretty slim if you ask me
Family is weird sometimes. In mine, an IxTP and an ESFJ had an INFP (me), an ESTP, an ENTP, and an ISTP.
I am an INFP and work as a social worker. My work usually goes really well as long as I can listen to and take care of others. But there are also situations where I have to introduce myself in groups or school classes, these are the worst situations in my life. You end up with a silly grin, a lot of sweat, a red face and a stutter.
Was major blusher. Ugh
Frank - I genuinely believe the INFJ would be the guy in the moustache moderating everything. I literally just had to do an assignment with moderating as part of my masters of social work studies degree haha
sidenote: I was analysing all the personalities as they were talking and trying to guess which one was which personality (before you gave the answer) and I got a fair few of them correct, especially ENFP, ENTJ, ISFP, ISFJ, ENFJ, INTJ & INFP I guessed those ones correctly. I'm getting better at this thanks to your videos haha
The way the Avengers theme starting playing for ESTJ and then he says 'I'M TONY'
When I heard the 100 “I like/don’t like” I knew it was an isfp lol. Also that slight pause and move on is a classic response to an infp.
As a teacher, I NEVER make my students do this.
You must be an IT type.
@@greenlimabean infj. I do less anxiety inducing ice breakers that are more organic. Make them fun so students don't think about themselves.
Your a great teacher when I was in school we had to introduce ourselves and it was a nightmare
@@dharmadharma3960 you inspire me. (I'm intp.)
@@greenlimabean 🥰
OMG the ENFP part has me crying laughing. I'm actually going through a divorce and recently lost my job, but it has led to huge lifestyle changes and life has never been better. We're walking contradictions 😎
OMG! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ESFJ spot on. That's exactly me introducing myself. I saw me as soon as you started it.