Gaslighting makes you feel crazy. Not just because of the apparent lying, but the fact that we thought our partner was mentally intact, come to find they dont grasp morality, decency, common sense and unaware of hypocritical double standards. The fact that the partner would rather appear immoral and hypocritical then choosing to either be honest or stop behaving in ways that pushes them to lie. I finally grasped that this is insanity. Lying is also false portrayal of self. Then the individual has no moral ground to stand upon, they become hypocrites, almost delusional in appearanceYou start thinking about the moments you were intimate, and how now knowing what you know that attaches to the false intimate connection
We start to become investigators, damn good ones too. Documenting everything. We never knew we would become psychologist in the mean time. Lol Although completely toxic, through my discovery I found my true self, reflecting where I was in my beliefs, fears and past trauma. My entanglement with the NPD set me on the journey to my purpose. Now certified advocate i am able to educate others. Grateful!
I personally know and feel your pain ❣️🙏 🥂 to both of our complete healing, restoration and freedom any and all forms of psychological abuse and often associated, trauma and❣️🎁🗝️🕊️
Amazing! I keep watching it to boost me up now that I've found out my husband has been doing me wrong for yearssss. Anyone know the link to the full episode?
This is a good characterization. However, believing everything is a lie is sometimes true. Sometimes the perpetrator is more than *just* a “sex Addict”. Sometimes there is no recovery or healing. Sometimes the perpetrator is an abuser and sexual predator, perhaps even personality disordered. Getting clarity about which is key. Otherwise, you are setting yourself up for a lifetime of deceit, abuse, and misery.
Gaslighting makes you feel crazy. Not just because of the apparent lying, but the fact that we thought our partner was mentally intact, come to find they dont grasp morality, decency, common sense and unaware of hypocritical double standards. The fact that the partner would rather appear immoral and hypocritical then choosing to either be honest or stop behaving in ways that pushes them to lie. I finally grasped that this is insanity.
Lying is also false portrayal of self. Then the individual has no moral ground to stand upon, they become hypocrites, almost delusional in appearanceYou start thinking about the moments you were intimate, and how now knowing what you know that attaches to the false intimate connection
We start to become investigators, damn good ones too. Documenting everything. We never knew we would become psychologist in the mean time. Lol Although completely toxic, through my discovery I found my true self, reflecting where I was in my beliefs, fears and past trauma. My entanglement with the NPD set me on the journey to my purpose. Now certified advocate i am able to educate others. Grateful!
It’s always she’s just a friend
I took pictures of the messages before I confronted him. So he could erase them, but I had the evidence on my phone.
I personally know and feel your pain ❣️🙏
🥂 to both of our complete healing, restoration and freedom any and all forms of psychological abuse and often associated, trauma and❣️🎁🗝️🕊️
Amazing! I keep watching it to boost me up now that I've found out my husband has been doing me wrong for yearssss. Anyone know the link to the full episode?
Thank you this information was very clear and helpful!
There is no hope with a Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist
Thank you.
This is a good characterization. However, believing everything is a lie is sometimes true. Sometimes the perpetrator is more than *just* a “sex Addict”. Sometimes there is no recovery or healing. Sometimes the perpetrator is an abuser and sexual predator, perhaps even personality disordered. Getting clarity about which is key. Otherwise, you are setting yourself up for a lifetime of deceit, abuse, and misery.
how does one get clarify about that?
Amazing and validating video!!!