Is Divorce Allowed in Christianity? Mar Mari Emmanuel
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My mother is a Catholic. I grew up watching how abusive my dad was towards her. But she never asked for divorce even when my dad cheated on her numerous times. Her focus was on us kids and her faith. Years later my dad became sick and mom took care of him until he eventually passed away. Now she is enjoying her old age with her grown up children, traveling and attending religious trips. I admire her for her strength and I don’t know if I can be as forgiving as her if I am put in her situation. But I hope my love and faith for the Lord will be as strong as hers.
Wish I had a wife like that, not to be abusive to her of course but just to know I would have a God fearing woman that is loyal and knows real love but I could find none in life and decided to become celibate.
I understand. But it was not just your mom's duty to stay faithful in the marriage but also your dads. She could focus on kids and house being separated from him.
Also once you have cheated on ur spouse, your marriage is defiled or invalid already.
Bless her🙏🏻✝️❤️
This is my case too. Exactly the same. Living with a classical NPD man. I was completely broken at many times. But the holly spirit strengthened me every time. It wasn't easy at all.
Hanging on here for my children 's sake. I hope i too could enjoy my older days with my lovely children. They are my gems.
@@Sneha-vk7nb Jesus is your spouse my dear. His heart beats in you and runs after His lost sheep thru you. My friend lived in an abusive marriage for years and I myself wish to thrash that man. She used to hate him. One day at a prayer meeting she was in tears and she saw the trinity like 3 entities surround her and move at lightening speed around her in a closed triangle and she was healed. She understood she was theirs and only theirs and she felt so enveloped in this binding to her that thereafter her husband's verbal abuse fell on deaf ears.
My sister died because she stayed in an abusive marriage, she had broken ribs and had been strangled. Please pray for us Bishop Mar Mari we want justice, we are trusting our Lord Jesus for justice, the South African police force is corrupt, we have given loads of evidence to the police even the videos and voice notes of her crying which are solid proof of the abuse but still, no justice.
Please note that God himself will give you your justice. You will see it.
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Christ, Jesus is Lord and Savior and I pray the lovingkiness of the Holy Ghost be with you and Father ABBA’s perfect love enrich your existence showing you God is good. Amen.
When I met my soul mate and best friend.... she was married to an abusive drunk who wouldn't work and beat her. She was stuck. There was no funny business going on. No cheating. But I warned him, we don't hit girls. I warned him. One night I heard her cry out as he was abusing her. I snapped. I went in.... I handled him. Told her she could sleep on my couch. She was 19, I was 27. Her husband was 25. She immediately filed for divorce. We were married 4 years later. Soul mates in every since of the word. We work together, we read the Bible together, go to church together and play guitars together. We've been together 15 years now and still madly in love. We both thank the lord every day for uniting us.
Hallelujah. So wonderful🥰🙏🏻✝️
Beautiful love story. Glad she got out alive
Amen!
I was widowed in 2021. Covid took him. Healrhy vibrant man, whom I miss with every breath I take. I had 10 years with him. I'll wait to reunite 🙏
God bless you. I hope on your darkest days you have good friends and family around you to keep you standing and strong.
May the time you shared keep you moving forward and may God grant you peace. No doubt you will be reunited again. ❤️🙏🏻
Don't take the vaccine
I ❤Love you be a sheep heaven is for the sheeps and it is very close now you have to decide to be a sheep
Lmao he was your dream droid.. All i have to say is tgat he would survive covid if real old spirit man..
If the partner you married is abusive and not willing to stop and change his or her ways and physically harmful towards their spouse,then the other individual should exit the marriage before it gets worse.
Marriage is great if it's a healthy marriage and two people are both willing to actually love each other,put in the work ,trust God and not hurt each other.
According to Bible, there is 2 reasons to divorce Adultry & Abandonment (Abuse is Abandonment) it says in 1Cor 7: 14-15
Yes!🙌
Do you happen to have the passages where this is written?
@@rinawagner4544 I will get back to you in couple of days. I've it written down in one of my diaries.
@@rinawagner4544 it's based on 1 Cor 7: 14- 15. An abuser is an unbeliever & he already abandoned the marriage when he is abusive. There is also guidance in the Bible Matt 18: 12-14 ( but this is not between husband & wife, if the person is a narcissist he won't change but if he is being abusive because he is ignorant he might ) try talking to him, then with family present then with priest & few people in the community & if he doesn't change u can leave. I tried sharing a link but it disappeared. RUclips might have removed it. Just Google if abandment or abuse grounds for divorce plenty of article online.
@@rinawagner4544 it's strange my comments are getting removed. Do some research. I'm a survivor of abuse . The main basis is 1 Cor 7: 14-15 but there is a lot of other references all U got to do is search online.
I was married for ten years to a physically abusive man. I prayed and prayed for things to get better. It got to a point where I distinctly heard God say that I had to get out. I did, and my life has been so much better. We need to be very careful about what we tell people to do or not do. I do not think I would be alive today if I had stayed.
But being married doesn't mean that you still have to be around them.
Divorce is still wrong!!!
CHRIST IS KING!!!❤❤❤✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
TURN TO CHRIST, OUR ONE, AND ONLY LORD, SAVIOUR, AND GOD, AND TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SINS!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ IN JESUS CHRISTS HOLY NAME I PRAY THAT YOU TURN TO CHRIST, AMEN!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@@Jonas_Albert
Judge yourself for your own sin...
I found after 15 yrs that my husband never loved me, used me for his own personal gain financially, never stood up for me, chose his family above me, lied constantly and deceived me. While i was on my knees praying and begging for my marriage, he opened the door for other women. Kept on belittling me in front of others and accused me falsely of things i never did and things that never even crossed my mind. I loved him with my soul, gave my everything, lifted him out of the mud, gave him a life he could only dream off, and this is the thanks i received from an ungrateful human being pretending to love me, until the mask fell off. I divorced him, could not bear it any longer
I’m so sorry you went through so much. You absolutely did not deserve that. It sounds like you gave so much and he took a lot from you. I, too, am in the very position you are in. May God bring healing, restoration and beauty into your life.
@@HeismyShepard Thank you. Betrayal is one of the hardest things to overcome. I wish you healing, peace and joy too!
@@HeismyShepard Best thing you did for your mental health...
Sometimes it is best to walk away. Look to God for your help.
My husband doesn’t love me either. I’m starting to find my way out. It’s so hard to endure years of sacrifice for someone that never cared.
I'm watching from India I'm blessed becouse your wonderful speech thank you Lord Amen
I have aunts who had husbands who left them for another women. Being the devoted Catholic women that they are, they never remarried, had another relationship or consented to annulment. They said, God put them together, no one can change it. The husbands died as sinners. My aunts are still alive . I know their sacrifice in their lifetime pleases God.
Hallelujah!!! Praise God!! 🙌 10:08 Everything Bishop Mar Mari said was 💯 spot on!! It's the TRUTH.
To anyone who is facing divorce for whatever reason, I would like to give you some hope. I was facing divorce and I didn't know what to do. My head was everywhere 😭 and it was very emotionally draining, BUT GOD/JESUS turned it all around once I put my trust in HIM. I prayed day and night, went to speak to the Priest at my church asked him to pray for me and my marriage, followed his advice and prayed the rosary and the scriptures he gave me ❤ BUT MOST OF ALL IT WAS MY UNWAVERING FAITH and TRUST IN JESUS NO MATTER WHAT was said or how bad it looked that ultimately got me through and brought us back together as a FAMILY!!! ALL GLORY BE TO OUR LORD 👑 JESUS CHRIST!!! So be strong and courageous read Gods Word daily pray 🙏 pray, pray!! And most importantly KEEP YOUR EYES ON JESUS NO MATTER WHAT AND HAVE FAITH THAT MOVES MOUNTAINS 🏔️ and see the FAITHFULNESS of The LORD work in your marriage and your family!!! God bless you all brothers and sisters ❤🕊️✨✝️
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 you sound confused
@@user-jw9lq5ib6g What's confusing about trusting in the LORD?
TRUST in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding ❤️ Proverbs 3:5
Hebrew 12 :1-2-3
Born again church also they are doing well in preventing such case by canceiling
@@ereynacarde-borre6803 naa.. as I don't believe in the EasterBunny or Santa-C.. forget it..
Some people donot seek counsel. They go straight to court.. if the man or woman dont want you. , dont force them it would not work out. The church cannot help you. Only God can change the heart of any human.
They see councilling as an opportunity for you to bad mouth them, not for the solution it can bring. What is the use of it if you cannot speak your mind
@@sonjaleroux4377 You speak your mind while in the marriage not for counsellor who need counselling also.
When said counsel is advising the woman to remain, reject that counsel.
I hate divorce too. I asked my ex-husband to get help. He kept making excuses. I became depressed and developed anxiety from the situation. He embarrassed me in public and flirted with women. Heavily consumed alcohol. He threatened me. I prayed and sought help. I chose God and life. I left and got a divorce. 😔
My ex husband had a whole child with someone else. Committed adulterous with at least 5 different women. Abused me physically and sexually. I don’t believe that was Gods plan for me to stay in that situation
Good you left. Jesus is Prince of Peace. He SAID follow Him ... peace.
I've been through it, I've have seeked advice from my orthodox church and only advice i was given to make it up to my ex wife was to buy her a present and surprise her with materialistic things. It wasn't till i picked up the Bible and looked in to marriage only then I found out who went wrong where. Regardless of being married the ex was always reserved instead of leaving the parents behind and focussing on our household there was always influence coming from the sidelines. Another problem was she had a issue with submission I never had the chance to lead the family financially etc. If ever I enter another relationship I will always make sure it's biblical will never unequally yoke myself with Godless people.
You just gave yourself the best advice ever ! Keep seeking God and allow Him to rebuild your life . Prayers for your complete restoration !
The Bible clearly states that 2 become 1 when married, and that parents should step aside. Me again, his family was above me, and i moved away from the marriage
Nice speech making clear on Divorce
Yes. I think if you do divorce and stay on your own for the rest of your life, it is Ok, much better
With abusive husband and wife... even in the expense of loosing one's life, divorce is not an option? I'm a faithful Christian follower and i think there should be in any way that divorce can be morally accepted realities in life.
No you can't divorce
Talk to the church they will find a solution, attend retreats etc
God will help you
I agree. I was mentally and psychically abused by my ex-husband, he told me to get out of our home or else he would put me out. We got married at the justice of the peace. Not at a church.
Civil institutions dont care about marriage, if dont care about ten commandments we dont care further about marriage, all people say it was, Now is different time, of course fail try if excuse, there are no healthy programms for spouses, what is there is to laugh, church aswell can not heal marriage, they can not prepare, they can do ceremony, thats Simple and easy, they are ineffectice before and during and rather most of them say do next trial go into next marriage, but what if the Mistake is in YOU and of course CHURCH too.
As a first step, the best is to separate physically from him or her. Second, the Church will give you a go ahead or not, this marriage is not the godly marriage God expected.
Third, if the marriage is where your well-being is challenged and in no way you can survive then best is to take divorce as the final step.
That answered so many questions. Thank you.
I divorced my wife long ago but she had been sleeping with a coworker and said she was moving out and went to live with her new boyfriend but she did the same thing to him.
You can leave your marriage for 3 reasons, according to The Most High. Let Yahuah choose your spouse and you cannot go wrong, but be warned, the enemy will have everyone around you trying to sabotage what Elohim | God blessed, your covenant.
Amen❤
The original language Jesus used in Mathew 5:31 was to 'put away' not divorce...I have a 60 + year old bible and it says...'whoever puts away his wife' ....this is why Moses introduced a certificate of divorce so the man couldn't just abandon her because it left her in the vulnerable position of committing adultery if she entered another relationship.
With the certificate of divorce she was free to remarry.
Yes...God hates divorce...so does anyone that has had no choice but to go through it.
So yes, the certificate of divorce was there to protect her.
Free to remarry? 1st Corinthians 7 tells you to remain single. Please read it.
@@SM-rq6ke 1st Corinthians 7:10 a wife must not depart (separate) from her husband but if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband and let not the husband put away his wife.
Correct...because they're only separated here (not divorced).
@rominaf4901 Now, read down to verse 39.
@@SM-rq6ke Correct, the wife had no right by law to divorce her husband which is why she was bound to him as long as he lives and was free to remarry if he died.
The husband on the other hand could just put her away if he wished, that is why Moses allowed a certificate of divorce...she was then legally not bound to him because now the separation is official.
@rominaf4901 I encourage you to fast and pray, the Bible can not be read as a book. God gives discernment.
Never leave your marriage (to your spirit and life) keep your mind and spirit intact. Leave your toxic, abusive partners. God is strength . Stay strong. 😂 . Tell your story from the beginning so people get inspired.
It is refreshing to hear the scripture in the life from whence it was spoken. 🙏🏽
JFC... all this bable-booklet stuff is man-made... get an education and learn science
@@user-jw9lq5ib6g You assume I don't have an education...what an uneducated statement to make. Science is magnificent, and the more they discover, the more evidence they find to support the Holy scripture.
@@ifixeditmyself1926 you don't have one single piece of scientifically validated proof.. none... zero... nada... get an education.. JFC
@@user-jw9lq5ib6g Scientific proof of what? Don't let your ignorance turn you into an imbecile. That would be such a tragedy.
Bless You Our Precious Bishop Mari Mari!!!! Bless you
My husband ghosted me 10 years ago, I never left the marriage and remained faithful all these years. Now I realize that I just destroyed my whole life by doing that....
Not your whole life
Forgive him and the circumstances, trust the Lord, look up, look forward
He will lead you to green pasture
Don't look at it that way. You stayed clean and should be proud of yourself. God certainly is. I would rather stay alone for the rest of my life with God as my Heavenly husband, than living with constant fights and pain
Nothing is destroyed. Jesus is restores all. It’s only time to truly live through him and glorify him.
@@catherinesummers5057Forgiveness can only be given by God.
Thank you JESUS
My husband left me after 33 years for another (so called) woman. I had to divorce him to recieve alimony. I simply could not trust him to anything morally right. I did not want this, it was forced upon me.
I by no means am trying to be ugly but I don’t think alimony is something that should have been considered in the decision. Sometimes these things are temporary. Not that you deserve that. It’s individually assets but in a way we have all been adulterous towards our God.
Peace be with you sister
Well you were divorced because of your husbandbsexual immorality. Si it is okay
@@Spawn08th That's their main reason for divorce
Mostly husbands are pushing the wife for adultry coz they need more women.that 8s the most reason for family divorces.
If the parties are Catholics still they do and wife is helpless.😢
I have always had a problem with divorce because of God’s word. I took my vale’s literally but my husband wants to treat me like a child! I’m not stupid! He is not a Christian so that was my first mistake!
My child if your husband treat you like a child then you must be so beautiful inside God treat his sheep as children so do not be offended by your husband be greatful to God
@@user-wk9pl7qe9g Her husband is not god.
You did to forgive and keep forgiving also do not be bitter or angery let that go keep praying
Yes. Abuse and adultery. Emotional abuse and mental abuse and sexual abuse and physical abuse and spiritual abuse are all good enough reasons to divorce your spouse. And of course affairs or living a double life of deceit.
No one is without sin...We need to repent, ask for forgiveness and make the changes.
AMEN GLORY TO GOD
I've been verbally and emotionally abused. I was kicked out of the home. She does not want me. I'm divorcing and getting annulment.
Amen!
Amen!It’s not a joke!It’s a dreadful word!
Wow! Such deep theology.
Praise the Lord ,: Bishop pls pray for my family
Very very seldom do you hear in this world that divorce is a sin. Bless you father. There are a few exceptions.
Very simple . . . If you are a Born Again Christian of any Christian denomination, the Holy Spirit will testify to you that God hates divorce and therefore you will hate divorce. You do not need to go to any priest for this. However, nowhere does it say that you cannot separate especially if your spouse is abusive. If you do end up getting a divorce, you cannot remarry since that is adultery and that is a damnable sin. You must stay single the rest of your life, if ex spouse is still alive . . . Until death do you part. This is why it is important to work hard on your marriage or even have a separation with the intent of reconciliation if need be.
So if a woman divorces and then remarries, is she damned to hell? Or is she forgiven by accepting Christ? I need to know
@@susankievman642 look up the video . . . "David Pawson Divorce and Remarriage." He does a very good teaching about it. It is something that the churches should be teaching and they aren't.
God hate divorce but he also hate domestic violence when partner abuse their wife or husband beating them . God wants us to live in peace with one another . God told Moses he allow divorce among the Israelites in the old testament if they are hard to teach refusing to live in peace with their partners.
Give Biblical reference for it. Nowhere the Bible says divorce is okay in case of domestic violence. Bible does allow you to stay and live away from your spouse if they abuse or abandon you but NO DIVORCE is allowed and definitely no remarriage.
Christ allowed remarriage only in the case of death of a spouse that would free you from the marriage Oath.
@@sushilsalins3576 Yes Moses was permitted to allow divorce in the old testament. Read Mathew 19. Jesus spoke of this because of the hardness of peoples hearts but you cannot remarry, that is considered adultery. Also read Mathew 5:31-32.
What this person is probably referring to is Deuteronomy 24:1-4 which states if there is some indecency found in his wife a man will write her a certificate of divorce and send her away but if she remarries and tries to come back to original husband she is defiled and is an abomination. I'm pretty sure this goes both ways. Point is Divorce is allowed but you cannot remarry. Domestic violence can fall under the indecency category.
@Leftcrowproductions you can remarry but only under certain circumstances. If a women marries a non believer and he divorces her than she can remarry. If she divorces him she can not remarry. A man can remarry if he divorced the women if she cheated. Personly, I'd say that only real acceptable causes for divorce are adultery and abuse.
@HoneyButter_Biscuit Yup. You nailed it. Very true.
@@sushilsalins3576”do no harm against your neighbour who lives trustfully near you”( neighbour=one who helps you)”Do not cast your pearls before swine,.lest they abuse you and trample you underfoot”. If they do not welcome you or accept my loving words then you are to shake the dust off your feet and leave”.
If i would of stayed with my x i would be dead by now
Yes I to was strangled and my ribs broken. He divorced me after nearly killing me. I have peace. I know God does not blame me. Often churches do not understand. God sees heart. I did not want to divorce it was out of my control. He would have killed me. I believe God hardened his heart to save me🙏🏻✝️
I too was mentally and physically abused by my ex-husband. He told me to get out of the home or he would put me out. We weren't married in a church. We were married at the justice of the peace. I'm happily married now to my 2nd husband and life is so peaceful for me now.
Absolutely 💯 right
My understanding is 3 reasons for divorce/ ending marriage. Death, abandonment, and adultery.
That’s why we have to find a God fearing person.
Absolutely; we shall only marry for the glory of the Lord, not for our own lust like this world does. Saint Paul tells us to live as celibates (1 Corinthians 7), but those who cannot do it should find a partner who truly fears the Lord and honors Him, if not, be alone. The Psalms tell us many times that is better to be alone than with someone who's gonna make you miserable or sin.
Divorce is never allowed; it is a disrespect to the sacrament of marriage and a offense to the Lord.
I am in you and you are in me period!
It is well with my soul
"Minun sitä katsellessani valtaistuimet asetettiin, ja Vanhaikäinen istuutui. Hänen vaatteensa olivat valkeat kuin lumi ja hänen päänsä hiukset kuin puhdas villa. Hänen valtaistuimensa oli tulen liekkejä, ja sen pyörät olivat palavaa tulta. Tulivirta vuoti, se kävi ulos hänestä; tuhannen tuhatta palveli häntä, ja kymmenen tuhatta kertaa kymmenen tuhatta seisoi hänen edessänsä. Oikeus istui tuomiolle, ja kirjat avattiin. Minä katselin, ja silloin, niiden herjaavien sanojen tähden, joita sarvi puhui, minun katsellessani peto tapettiin, ja sen ruumis hävitettiin ja heitettiin tuleen palamaan. Ja muiltakin pedoilta otettiin valta pois; niiden elämän pituus oli määrätty aikaa ja hetkeä myöten. Minä näin yöllisessä näyssä, ja katso, taivaan pilvissä tuli Ihmisen Pojan kaltainen; ja hän saapui Vanhaikäisen tykö, ja hänet saatettiin tämän eteen. Ja hänelle annettiin valta, kunnia ja valtakunta, ja kaikki kansat, kansakunnat ja kielet palvelivat häntä. Hänen valtansa on iankaikkinen valta, joka ei lakkaa, ja hänen valtakuntansa on valtakunta, joka ei häviä." - Daniel 7:9-14 - Raamattu 1933/1938
How can you live in holy matrimony when she wants out making it unholy matrimony ? 😢
I am going through it Bishop.He is a non Christian.I wish Lord Jesus helps us.Please pray for my marriage.
Know very well the person and their valuea before even thinking about starting a relationship. If you are not willing to sacrifice commitment and service to others. Then you better be single. No worries
God can
Find everyones sin flaws
Amin
My husband says in india certain community people only go to church n pastors are also favoring their community in the church. He always says Jesus christ is good so pray n read the bible in the house itself
Dear Bishop Emmanuel,is a Catholic marriage valid if a couple who to be married have entered into a pre nuptial agreement about settlement in a divorce?
Even the most holy person on earth God can find sin flaws in giuy that's fact truth 😊😊
Plz pray for the christians of Pakistan 😢
YES, you CAN leave your marriage. If your spouse abuses you and/or your children and is a life threat for you and/or your childre, it's your obligation to leave to protect them and yourself. In this case God will not be angry with you, so you CAN leave. The thing you CANNOT do though is remarry till the spouse is still alive or sleep around with others.
Right👌❤
Blessings from Pakistan
My husband had multiple affairs so he told me to.leave so he could marry the other woman.
Hmmmmm you have the right to leave. If you wanna do it right offer reconciliation through the church if he declines not only is he the non believer he committed adultery. Let him remarry first too.
@@HangWithCruz I prayed for a year for us to reconcile but he wouldn't have a bar of it.
@@lisalefleur2977 you already did all the right things then. Try Mike winger for a better understanding
Goodriddons!! 😊😊
What if the man who divorces his wife is the one quietly commit adultery? Is the divorce valid? Can the woman remarry another man? By the way they were not married by the church because the man was non believer and only converted after having a few kids with his wife.
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the Bible does allow for divorce when there is infidelity
Yesterday almost walk a way
You should never stay in an abusive situation for religious religious . If you are being hurt or corroded then you cannot stay.
As far as I know you can give your partner a paper of divorcement if they commit adultery. Says it right in the bible.
Amen!It’s not a joke!It’s a dreadfful word!
true
It is unclear if you are saying yes or no. If a man is mentally ill or demonically attacking and abusing his wife, it is ok? She should wait untill he agrees to let her go??? It is a piece of paper who gives him the right for unGodly acts against any human being, let alone a wife that should be cherished???😢
i do not actually listen to this preist video. But am replying to this comment to tell you i love you and be a sheep God loves those people so much.. and be smart about who you hang out with
I’m trying with god but she already moved in and we only were married two years through church I get suicidal every time I try and she says she is talking to other men so yea I can’t take her back but I forgive her
If she cheats she is done as my wife
Correct 💯
100
Same for husband
My wife and I are going through a divorce. I didn’t cheat or abuse her. I’ve been going through a spiritual journey and my faith is stronger than ever. I asked her let’s reconcile and go to church she said no. I don’t know what to do?
Try win her over with gifts, love and affection
Ask God for wisdom, with prayer and fasting. And ask God to change your wife's heart. I will pray for you too.
The bible stated it is okay to get divorced when you have to deal with estranged spouse. I know so many religious people who got divorced.
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Ive been stuck on this topic for about 20 years and i have prayed about it and talked to a pastor and seeked multiple different christan advice. And am still list and confused. I maried my ex wife in a park by a jp, long story short we were both unfaithful to each other, I tried tochaing things and reconciliate, she was sleeping with one of my coworkers and told me she wanted nothing to do with me she told me she dint care if she saw me again or not, i told her we could seek counseling and try to fix it and she refused but then she told me she wouldn't divorce me. She told me she didn't want me anymore but she wasnt gowing to divorce me and told if i want a divorce to divorce her she wasnt gowing to. But she didn't want me and was sleeping around. So i divorce here after several attempts ot save the marriage. I remairried and am still with her 20 years later. I fear i am living in sin???? Thats not the whole story but short version.
Hmmmm I’d say you are okay. You two were one flesh. No matter who started what it was one flesh. You tired to reconcile. Hopefully through the church. If she said no it’s okay to have treated her as the non believer.
So being in a physical and mentally abusive marriage isnt acceptable to leave? Pretty sure Jesus did not want me to stay in a marriage that makes me feel unsafe and mirrors my childhood abuser. God wasnt in our first marriage because he said "before he met me he thought marriage was stupid." At the time i was into new age spirituality and since have been born again on my path to becoming a Chaplain. I know God has forgiven me and will send me someone who is for the Lord.
Some of these comments contradict what he is teaching and goes against what god says… you are missing the teaching of this lesson and I would advise that you stop making comments that alter the people’s minds through this lesson.
well I would say it doesn't necessary have to be a priest. It can be a pastor too.
What does it mean that man is the head and woman is the body? The man’s body is not as sacred as the woman’s? So if he divorces and remarries, he is NOT an adulterer? Please explain
You know. I think something that’s not brought up enough. What about when someone isn’t saved, marries someone God didn’t create for them, they become saved, their spouse refuses to. Now they’re unequally yoked.
Maybe in a perfect world
Well not the sins but in Righteousness yes
Divorce is needed sometime if the man or the women is abusive crazy sometimes no other answer
Divorce is allowed if there is infidelity.
You can’t stay in a Marriage when you get beat on like my Fiancé got beat by her last Husband and Husband before that plus first one cheated on her
Divorce is only allowed in sexual mortality but what if the husband is physically abusive and one's afraid of her children's life and hers? Is it still a sin to divorce?
I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”
Mathew 19:9
Father mar mari has explain about divorce certificate frim moses law. Remember the new testament was written to make old one complete not trying to replace it
You have a duty to yourself and as a mother to protect your children. Marriage is a union for procreation. Obviously if a man is now a real threat to your life and that of the children the man is also a lier from the very beginning. Which means your where deceived about the person you married from the beginning. Marriage was based upon a lie.
Yes of course God doesn't want anyone to live in a domestic abuse situation.
Jesus also says to love your wife the same as he loves the church. I divorced my ex husband because he was abusive towards me and we were also different in terms of religion. He was a JW and was taught that he can do whatever to me including being abusive and will still have His grace. I left and remarried and my marriage now is better and the way God intended. Abuse and adultery, even addiction can be real reasons for divorce. I have repented and know that my marriage is not a sin.
I love my wife and my children, I have been blessed by god in this regards. I pray for those who are not in my situation I could not imagine such a thing. Marry once and forever. There is nothing stronger than a large unbroken Catholic family. This is why the west hates more than anything the traditional large catholic family.
What about the woman who seeks for divorce due to selfishness...
My grandma stayed married to a guy even after he constantly beat her and ultimately went to prison for other things. He was in prison for 5 years before she finally divorced him because she did not want to sin. 20 years later some detectives cracked a cold case murder and as it turns out, it was this guy. He was sentenced to death.
Praise the Lord that she was able to escape. I pray she is doing better now 💛
❤❤ God does want divorce if adultery
what about if you got Married for citizenship matters to help “husband” the father of my 8 mon old son, and on his behalf no love whatsoever but interest only which was the citizenship matter?
What if your ex husband took out a gun during and argument, cheated on you with different people, and emotionally abused and physically threatened you? Do you still stay?
No
If he cheated. No
No
@@irisroda9655 Honey I don't care if he never cheated she needs to leave. She was threatened with a gun. That is damn dangerous. It's totally unsafe and a good reason to leave. Jesus nor God would think it just to force her to stay just because the man didn't cheat.
Do not be unequally yoke. If you need to leave a violent husband if your life is at risk. Many people do not divorce but live apart. Very complex.
That is bs not true
divorced and marry new spause is adultery sins. according to Jesus
But what if their partner always cheats and then treats their partner as a personal assistant…?
Im only christian in the family. My husband doesn't want me to go to church hereafter. He says me to pray n read the bible in the house itself.
Go to Church. A real man doesn't keep his wife from the body and blood of our Lord.
My divorce was a blessing. 🎉
My wife left me and wants a divorce what should I do to make her come back? Please help!!!
Yoi cannot force her. You can suggest counselling. If she wants the divorce , you cannot stop her. Pray and ask God divine intervention.
Let her go, it will be tough at first but you will find yourself and inner strength. Have respect for yourself and don’t be a door mat for her to wipe her muddy feet all over. God Bless.
1st Corinthians 7 says if the spouse leaves, let them leave, believers are called to peace.
Offer reconciliation through the church. If she declines she’s the non believer. But you will have to really dig in brother. Give your life to Jesus and trust him. Please put all your emotions in his hands. Give it to him and relax.
only in a court and with no fault divorce today even when the women was having affairs she got everything go figure this country so messed up
love is beautiful hahah
We are all God's sons and daughters. Jesus is not the only son of God. The father created us all.
that's why before marriage ,you have to think so many times ,are you sure about your partner?
Wish I had realized this before I got married. 😩
Thank the Lord im not married. Its better. Relationships complicate life. Had 2 boy friends. They were a head ache. Mever again.