Facing Tough Choices and Life's Challenges
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Life is more than sharing wins and beautiful moments. In this video, I am talking about a very difficult decision I had to make, how I made it, why it's important to talk about these tough challenges and moving forward.
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Oh sweety, I'm so sorry. Remember, it's never goodbye but more....I'll see you again someday. He knew you loved him, and he thanks you for letting him go.🤍💜💙💚💛🧡❤
Thank you! Your words mean a lot to me 💛 ~ Anja
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I’m sorry about your horse. Our animals are such a gift from God and give us so much joy.
They do and thank you so much 💛 ~ Anja
I'm so sorry. They really are part of the family no matter what the animal is.
Thank you💛 ~ Anja
I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful being. RIP 💙💙
My daughter is going through it as her 26 year old horse needed to pass over because the pain was too severe for the horse to continue. She is having the hardest time. Yes, the support is super important.
So hard for us, hope she can make the best decision for her horse 💛 ~ Anja
Hi, Anja. I just saw this video today (YT says it was posted 3 months ago). I am so sad that you lost your beloved horse friend and partner. I am glad you shared about it and that you are allowing yourself to take time to grieve. I remember when I had a puppy when I was 12 years old who, sadly, followed her mother onto a country road to chase a truck carrying chickens to a nearby processing plant. Sadly, while her mother was fine, my puppy was hit by the truck and died instantly. I still remember how strongly the grief and sadness of losing her hit me, and I am sure there are more feelings when one has to consciously make a decision to let an animal be put to sleep. You were brave to do the right thing to release your beautiful horse from pain and disability. Many blessings to you. Be kind and nurturing to yourself. I love your channel for your regular content, and I am glad that you felt you could share on it about something so personal and difficult, as well.
I am so very sorry, Anja. I believe animals are a gift from God and I miss those I’ve had the honor to have terribly. Let yourself grieve as you need to and know you gave him a wonderful home❤
When i was a very young girl I brought home a kitty and wanted to keep it. Ok. The kitty had to live outside. It was my responsibility. I had to be the one to feed it, be kind to it, make sure it had shelter etc. And if it was injured, or old, or seriously ill, I had to have it 'put down'.
Now at 80 I still remember what my dad said. "Remember, our animals are not volunteers."
Well said and thank you so much for sharing 💛 ~ Anja
I’m sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse. I grew up on a ranch with many horses and cattle and it’s always hard to lose them. Allow yourself time to grieve and cherish the memories you have.❤
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
this is our world. a mixture of bliss and sorrow. nothing is eternal. touched so much by your courage and perseverance.
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you. This was very timely for me personally. Last Monday, I went through a very similar situation with my beloved dog. He had a wonderful life and was constantly at my side. Very suddenly, last Monday, I noticed he started to have extreme pain. I took him immediately to the vet. Tests, x-rays, then finally surgery. Expecting a good report, after 3 hours in surgery, I received the devastating news. I'm thankful I could be there to tell him good bye, wrap him in his favorite blankets and take him home to be buried. Emotionally, it may have been easier to let the vet handle everything, but he was such a loyal, loving companion, I felt I needed to do that final service to him. As hard as it is, I'm allowing myself the room to cry and grieve. My family and friends have all been wonderful and supportive. I'm so thankful God has blessed us with animal companions. I know one day, I will have another dog, but it's important to take the time to grieve. Thank you for your openness to share even the hard times. That is real life.
Yes, animals enrich our life and making the best decision for them is the least we can do 💛 ~ Anja
Oh Anja I’m so sorry. Horses are truly the best animals. Prayers for you my sweet friend.
Thank you so much for your sweet comment, Brie 💛 ~ Anja
Sorry for your loss. It’s a hard decision but you took care of your family member.🙏🙏🙏
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse. I feel sad for you but overjoyed for the wonderful life you gave to him and the treasured memories he has given to you. Bless you 💔❤
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse. May God heal your heart. Blessings and prayers for you. ❤
So sorry for your loss, animals add so much joy to our lives.
I'm sorry for your loss. I know how your feeling. We had to make that decision with one of your dogs last Oct. Allowing yourself time to grieve is key you are right.
The hardest but the right decision. Thank you for your nice comment 💛 ~ Anja
I am so sorry for your loss, Anja. Such a beautiful, sweet boy. I lost my boy, Sandro, almost 10 years ago in similar circumstances. One week he was learning canter pirouette, the next he was leaning against the wall, any wall, so that he wouldn’t fall down. When the vet and trainer both are telling you that there is only one compassionate way forward, you do that. He was my boy for 14 years and I miss him always. Listening to you tell your story makes me realize that I haven’t fully faced this loss. And I need another horse in my life. Thank you for sharing.
If only all animal owners were as kind, devoted and responsible as you. You did everything humanly possible to help your horse which I hope gives you some comfort. And most of all, you gave him your love!! 💗 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
My deepest condolences to you with your parting of your beautiful horse; you did all you could to for him & loved him. Blessings to all 🤗🇨🇦
You were very responsible and did what you felt was best! Prayers with you, and try to remember the great times with him!!!
I know this feeling. We always have had Blue Heelers.
My soul dog, Gunther, had compression as well. We went for months with him. He finally lost all function in his hind legs and we HAD to make that decision.
Thank you for being real. And I’m so sorry. ♥️
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
May God bless you and be your comfort in your grief.
My husband says that horses are like large dogs and we've lost a number of our dogs over the years. It's hard. Our last elderly husky past on the day after I entered hospital for my emergency spine surgery in 2022. My husband coped alone. That was hard to not be there for him and for our dog. If I wasn't four hours away from our home I would have checked out of the hospital and walked home to comfort my husband.
I send you love and hugs. May your memories of your horse always make you smile, even amidst your tears.
Thank you for sharing your story! It's hard not to be able to be there for them but I am sure up until then you always had been 💛🤗 ~ Anja
So sorry for the loss of your guy. I'm a horse owner as well and most of mine are in their late 20's. They have a home with me as long as they are alive.
I’m very sorry for your loss. I hope you can find comfort knowing you did well by him and also in sweet memories you have of time spent with him.
Very sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my prayers for strength and peace during this transition of life. God speed
I have been to your channel over the years, I love you as a good friend. I admire you for showing your grief and show us the whole circle of it. I have had to put down animals before and it’s no fun for us, then we grieve. And we remember them forever. Hopefully we will see our animals again when we go to heaven. I love your apron and pattern for it. Thanks for showing us this side of you.
Take time for your grief. Let it unfold naturally.
God bless you and your family.
We see the goodness, fun, the Care and humility within you that’s why you have 100,00 subscribers 🤗❤️
Thank you so much!
So sorry for your loss. Our animals are in our heart. Prayers for your family🙏
Oh, I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved horse Donny. I've got tears in my eyes for you.
Your words of wisdom about the loss of our beloved animals are on point. I've had to make "final decisions" for several pets throughout my life. It's NEVER an easy decision.
God Bless you and your journey.
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
Your beautiful horse is gone but not forgotten. Take all the time you need to heal as you move on. God bless.
Thank you! Your words mean a lot to me ~ Anja
I feel for you. I had to put down one of my horses because they developed a severe case of EPM I had to make the decision quickly. The horse could not feel his feet. He couldn’t hold his head up, but when he was laying on the ground was sort of OK, but I knew that he couldn’t live his life like that. Other people in my Barn had used medication‘s to quiet the EPM, but it seemed like it only lasted for a few months and then they were putting the horse down. The Vet did not think that was think that was an option for my horse due to the severity of the case. I do not regret putting him down, but I miss him terribly and frequently will still cry even though it’s been over two years I believe horses have a special place in our hearts we ride them. We work as partners and they keep us safe and we trust them,I think you did the right thing and it’s obvious that you really loved your animal.❤
Beautifully spoken! I’m so sorry for your loss. Our animals are our very best friends. ❤😢
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
My deepest condolences for the loss of such a magnificent creature. It must have been so difficult and heart wrenching for you 💔
I so appreciate you doing this video. We also lost a very precious kitty a few months ago. I can't imagine losing such a special animal. He knew you loved him, and you will see him again.
So sorry! My heart breaks for you. Take care of yourself right now. He was family and your decision was very hard. Bless you
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
I can't even begin to think what you're feeling. I'm so sorry that you're having to go through that and I wish you healing and love and comfort.
So sorry for your loss. These tough decisions really hurt, but, they also come with a sense of peace from doing what is right. You are in my prayers.
I wish I could give you a big hug full of comfort. It's so hard to lose a pet. They are family. I had to put my 32 year old Paso Fino down on my birthday in 2020. My two other boys were mourning his loss and each dealing with it in a different way. My 30 year old Quarter horse stopped eating. To get nourishment in his body, I had to hand feed him and fill him full of oils and supplements to help his appetite and to put weight on. He was losing weight so quickly and muscle of course. My vet and I tried best we could but he just didn't want to live. He was such a silly and funny horse and because of that his nickname was Monkey. But after the loss of his buddy, he became mean and angry toward our other Quarter horse. It was such a sad time. On my birthday 2021, exactly a year after I loss my Paso. As soon as I got up I looked out the window to check on my boys as I always do and Monkey was down. My vet, my husband and I tried for over an hour to get him up. He didn't want to get up. My vet told me what he thought was best for him and I agreed. So he passed on the same day, a year later as his buddy. It was a tough year because in September of 2020, I had to put my 16 year old Dachshund down and in November 2020, I had to put my 14 year old Dachshund down. Only nine weeks apart. I had lost four of my babies in exactly a year. It's still hard to deal with as I cry and type this. I'm thankful for each of them. They brought so much joy to my life. I miss them so and I am reminded of them each day. Thankful for the memories. My heart will be with you. I'm very sorry for your pain. ❤
Wow, you have been through the wringer but thank you so much for sharing and for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
First of all, thank you for sharing this hard decision to put down your beautiful horse. Just found you for your bread making. The fact that you are also a horse enthusiast is an unexpected bonus! Just today I have hired a trainer to assess my 20-ish year old Percheron who has fallen to his knees twice with me and his vet check when I purchased him 5 years ago warned me that he may have neurological issues wherein he could fall on me. Your process of deciding the safe outcome to your situation with your horse has helped me immensely. Thank you for sharing your loss, and inspiring me with your strength. 🙏
Oh, Anya, I'm so sorry to hear about your beautiful sweet horse . They are part of the family, and he looked wonderful. Each day gets better, and it's important to allow our feelings to come through. Keep those precious memories in your heart. Big hugs to you! ❤️🙏🤗
Oh so very sorry. Our friends are precious, both human and animal and it's so painful to part with them. Hugs and prayers, Anja.
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
Your love for Donnie will live forever. You have my deepest condolences as you grieve.
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
I’m so sorry. I had to make that decision with my handsome 9 1/2 year old German Shepherd on 1/17/24. He was losing his legs and come to find out he had cancer. I’m still grieving. Give yourself time to grieve. I try to just remember or the good times. 💕
I am so sorry... It is so hard to let our dear animal friends go. But I am absolutely sure you made the right decision and did what is best for him 💗
Thank you so much 💛 ~ Anja
My deep condolences. It's so hard to give up our dear animal friends.
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
Losing an animal you've bonded with is a heartache and can leave you just as devastated as losing a family member. People who have owned pets only to have this happen go through the same thing. You did the right thing; otherwise, what you said just might have been that way, and your decision was the best one for the horse and everybody else even though it was a sad decision to make. He lived a very good life. The replacement horse sounds like a very good.idea.
Thank you for being real and transparent. I am a horse girl, too. Sometimes the best way to love is to let go so they do not suffer. What you did was beautiful! You loved him well!! Yah bless you, sweetie! HUGS
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Such articulate thoughts about your difficult decisions. You are precious~!💖 I love the frank words and thankfulness you express of your stewardship we all owe our animals. He knew and felt your love, now he is enjoying the green pastures of his dreams.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My little sister has always been a horse woman. Her first word was “horsey”. When she was diagnosed with scoliosis it was equestrian riding that was her solace. As soon as she was making her own money to support the expenses of a horse she acquired a retired blue ribbon pacer horse that would not allow herself to be bred. The owner was her then boyfriend’s uncle’s horse and he told my sister to get the horse off his land or she’s glue.
She retrained her to equestrian ride and was the national champion in 1988. She would have one two or three horses at a time. It was very painful to have to say goodbye to each and every one. Especially when it was due to illness.
Then the having horses after 38 years she said goodbye to her last horse. She chose not to continue with horses as the bond is so strong that the loss is great.
Keep your boy in your memories and rejoice in each moment you had with him. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your sister's story and your nice comment! Sounds like she is quite the horse woman 💛 ~ Anja
Thank you for sharing your heart and your difficult decision about your beloved horse. Our pets are blessings from the Lord and I know how you feel. May the Lord comfort you. ❤
So sorry to hear about your loss. I'm praying you will know God's comforting hand.
Dear Miss. I really understand what you feel, having myself lost a dog recently due to disease. What I learned from this experience and others before this one, and being myself a retired physician, is not to trust veterinarians and their diagnoses treatments, risk assessments etc. I would not have arrived at the same decision as you.
Oh, boy. Such difficult times. But, yes, grieve and then, like you said, know that life does move on and you can also enjoy future animals while keeping your beautiful memories close. 💗💗
Liebe Anja, das tut mir unendlich Leid für dich und deinen wunderbaren Freund. Den richtigen Zeitpunkt zu finden und eine Entscheidung zu treffen, ist sehr hart. Es ist immer so ein schwerer Gang. Aus Respekt für die grenzenlose Liebe, die wir von unserem geliebten Tier erhalten, ist es wichtig, es ebenso liebe-und respektvoll loszulassen. Ich musste gerade meinen geliebten alten Kater, den ich vor 16 Jahren aus dem Tierschutz übernommen habe, einschläfern lassen. Ich hoffe, dass unsere Tiere wissen, wie sehr sie geliebt werden. In Gedanken bei Dir, Deine Marlies aus dem Norden Deutschlands
I'm so sorry you had to make that very difficult decision. I think most of us have gone through this with a beloved pet. So heartbreaking 💔. We are glad you can share your grief journey and heal in a healthy way. Big warm hugs to you friend.
Horses are close partners- much sympathy for the horrible and necessary decision.
For me, it was the cat who was born on my lap and lived on my shoulder. She looked fine, but unrecognised kidney failure had already taken her sight.
She’s under the apple tree now, since she was obsessed with round things, surrounded by pebbles inscribed with loving words and all her favourite things, placed by all who attended her funeral. This seemed to help all those who loved her.
My thoughts and condolences are with you. I definitely understand having to deal with the hard pats of being the one to make the tough decisions about your horse. My family in Germany always had horses so they are dear to my heart. I wish you the best in this difficult time.
Liebe Anja,
es tut mir so leid 😢.
Den Schmerz, ein geliebtes Tier gehen lassen zu müssen, kenne ich.
Hut ab, daß du den Mut und die Stärke hast, auch solch traurige Dinge anzusprechen, und nicht nur die
"heile Welt" zu zeigen.
Und das trotz deines Schmerzes über deinen plötzlichen Verlust, denn den kann man in deinem Video gut heraushören.
Ich wünsche dir viel Kraft bei deiner Trauerbewältigung .
Ganz liebe Grüße aus Hessen ❤️
I am so sorry for your loss...I can relate as I grew up with horses, many horses, many experiences, many joys and some sadness. I am also grateful to UCDavis, we may be in the same area! I would never leave my animals during those last moments as I watched the breath of life leave them. The connections with those special animals are such a treasure!
I am sorry for your loss, I know how difficult it's to lose a pet. They're part of our life. It's so difficult ❤
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, Anja! We are animal lovers too & it IS DIFFICULT to loose them! They're like our children! Praying for you!
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
I’m so sorry you had to go through this. A few years ago we had to put our favorite horse down because he had cancer. Such a hard decision to make. Sending love
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
I deal with death a lot because my brother died in 2021 at 35. Life cut very short. There are lots of deaths we are certainly oblivious to. There is no amount of guilt for not being sad or sadness itself that can compete with your ability to bring the thought of them being alive back into your mind. When you realize how that state of mind was and what it gave to you, you can take it with you.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend and partner prayers are coming on Angels Wings!🐴💕🙏
Wow, I’m not a horse owner, but as a person who has her own and loves all animals I certainly understand your grief and loss. I have tears already. To lessen Donny’s pain & suffering, you had to make the right and painful choice for him. You did a very unselfish thing for him. It is an acceptance of life’s gifts . Hugs to you! Congratulations on 100!
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
I am so sorry for your loss, Anja. I, too, had to tell my sweet Troubadour good-bye 3 years ago. It is very hard and the decisions are made in great agony. I pray the Lord's comfort and healing for your heart in the coming days. Thank you for being real and sharing such a vulnerable and difficult piece of your life. May God bless you! 🙏💕
Thank you so much for your heartfelt comment 💛 ~ Anja
So very sorry Anya for the loss of your dear horse. Pets are part of the family and I can relate with your feelings.
As you say Life is not always easy especially when we have to take difficult decisions. I am sure you did the unthinkable to keep Donnie at your side but came to the right decision as painful as it could be.
Keep the happy moments Anya, there is a lot to be thankful for.
Big hug for you.
I am so very sorry for your loss. It’s so hard when we , as pet owners, have to make those decisions . I have been through this MANY times. I have had dogs and cats my whole life and am in my 60’s.
We fostered. And many were elderly… in poor health to begin with. My children sadly had to learn this is part of being a pet owner. And when they are blessed to go on their own in their sleep… it is heartbreaking, but also can be a blessing. It’s much harder when you have to decide… 💔💔😢
Again, I’m so very sorry.
So sorry for your loss. I’ve had animals in my life always & therefore have lost many too. They are a part of our family & hard to let go of them when the time comes.
It's so hard to make those choices. It sure hurts. Our animals are family. We love them. You made a decision for the best. Have a good cry. You need to do that. Take care. ❤ I had a cat the family adored, just a cat, but a big part of our lives. He got very sick, we spent a lot of money but it couldn't cure him. We made the decision and we were with him at the vets when he died. Probably brain tumour. Two weeks later my husband was diagnosed with a brain tumour. He died 2 years later. Devastating. Soon after we adopted 2 kittens. We have found them the best therapy. ❤
I am so very sorry for your loss, Anja. The pain of having to say goodbye too soon to a beloved pet is almost unendurable. I am going through the same thing as you, I will soon have to make a decision about my little cat who has cancer, although she has had 14 good years, but I am just waiting for her to fail. Healing will come in time, as I am sure you know, I am thinking of you.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am not a horse owner but I am an animal owner. Losing an animal is heartbreaking and there is a very real grieving process. We make the very best decisions that we can. I agree with you regarding the responsibility - it is a privilege to own an animal and part of that privilege includes making the difficult decisions. I have been through this a number of times with my children and I so firmly believe that caring for an animal teaches children kindness, empathy and responsibility and it also teaches that there will be difficult times during life Bless You!
Oh honey.... I'm so sorry for your loss.
Take all the time you need, and we'll for sure be here when you feel like returning. Grief takes time, and we certainly understand that.
The love you have for your horse was unmatched, and that clearly shows what a beautiful life he lived with you. Blessings and peace to you, dear friend. 🙏 ✨️ ❤
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
I'm sorry for the loss of your horse. Our animals are such an important part of our lives.
Thank you so much ~ Anja
Dearest Anya, I am so sorry a piece of your heart is missing right now. I know very well how deeply painful it is to lose an animal, especially one years before their time. But, please know, that if every animal had this kind of care and love, what a wonderful world this would be. Take the time you need, cry whenever it calls you to, and revel in the happy memories. Hugs to you sweet lady. (BTW, congrats on 100K subscribers. You deserve it with your lovely channel.)
I am so sorry for your loss, yes we do need to grieve because they aren’t just animals they are apart of our family. Lots of prayers and hugs to you! I appreciate your message and all that you do!
Oh my gosh! I just "met you" this afternoon, for the very first time (searching for QUINCE JELLY!!..and now I hear your very sad video! A BIG hugs from brisbane Australia, from a Chilean/Australian/Hungarian/Italian/Croatian 68 yr old!..you sound like you loved your horse so much (I've only have my first and only dog at age 68, my husband bought him 3 1/2 years ago and I adore him..I've learnt about loving animals so much since we got our pet Rafael (in Spanish I insisted!) only 3 1/2 yrs ago...so we all understand your need for wanting space, and time..looking forward to your next time and a hopefully happier time here..now to catch up with more of your cooking videos! Love and hugs from Australia! Marietta (Gartner Kindermann- my full name in my native country of Chile
I feel your pain and I am sorry for your loss. We recently lost our pomeranian Houdini and occasionally we still hear his bark. He died of natural causes, but it makes no difference, although we didn't have the pain you had in making the choice. That is truly painful, stay strong and remember the times you had together.
I’m so sorry. It’s always hard to let our pets and animals go. But you’re so right it looking after his best interest and to be brave enough to allow him to go before his condition got any worse and caused him pain. Absolutely go through your grief, that’s very important to move forward. 🤗
I am so sorry about your horse, Anja. I’ve owned several horses and multiple cats and dogs over my lifetime, so I know the pain you are facing with this huge loss. Sending you hugs and prayers for your comfort. Thank you for sharing this beautiful boy with us. ❤️
Thank you so much!
I'm so sorry for your loss, and I pray that your pain is eased with each passing day 🙏...know that he's no longer in pain 💙
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
My heart goes out to you!!😢😢
Allow yourself to grieve and feel it fully and over time things will lessen and become less harsh. We suffered the loss of our beloved cat about 2 years ago who died from cancer of the spleen and it came on very suddenly so we made the decision and it was all for the better of her not for us.
What you did was a kindness and a blessing. Such a hard decision. I’ve had to do that several times with pets. Sending prayers of healing and peace.❤
Your beautiful attitude about life & the end of life, will pull you forward. Please cry when you need to. It's a process in time🙏📿
Thank you for your kind comment!
I am so sorry I know your pain as we had to say goodbye to our rescue Great Pyrenees. I laid on her bed with her as we said goodbye. It hurts so much. Many blessings to you as you go through the grieving process. I am still crying every day
I am so sorry, you did a brave thing for your sweet horse. I have had to face putting pets to sleep, I know it is a difficult decision to make. I am sending you a hug, and you take care.💗
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
Thank you for sharing this sensitive story. Healing takes time, your time. Blessings
Dearest Anja,
I am truly so sorry. You tried your best and your big guy knew it. You will never forget Donny. You will have that grief and feelings it’s okay. The beautiful love you shared with your big guy. I had a great horse once. My mare had him on April 23,1972. I broke him , showed him and loved him. My big baby was a big bay QH. I loved him so much when I had my daughter, he would let her walk all around him and even under him for a stallion. He was very calm. His dad was just like that also , bloodline from the kings ranch in Texas. My daughter rode him also and he was always gentle with her. I guess he knew she was my baby. My husband on the other hand tried to ride him a few times and he did very well with him. Only thing is I had to hold his head for him to get up on him. He didn’t seem to like Males. But only a few people rode Sundance beside myself. I wouldn’t let them ride him or miss treat him in anyway. I had him till he got sick at 28 years I had him. I had to make that decision to put him down. He had congestive heart failure, and there was no cure for him now in helping him, but he lived a good life. I hated I did that, but he was suffering so much he looked into my eyes as I was holding his Head I could tell he was telling me it was time for him to go, and he would be OK. I still cry I still miss him. You have that one , and for one time only! I think.. and I was blessed to have him in my life. It’s OK to grieve And your heart will still ache sometimes. I had three horses, but I have a road many many many horses in my time. I can no longer ride due to a BAD back. But that doesn’t stop me from loving horse events, or watching them on TV or in person. I can relate!❤❤❤❤❤ to you and the family.
I am so sorry for your loss Anja. I too have lost working partners and for some reason, they are much more difficult to let go than the average pet. (having lost many beloved pets over the years, I do not negate the pain of losing a companion animal, just that a working partner has usually involved a lot more time and effort on my part) All the time spent working and improving and in my case, finally reaching that point of great partnership and trust... There is terrible loss involved. Although it is some time after the fact, I hope you are managing your grief better every day. You are absolutely correct, we have a responsibility to the creatures we decide to have in our lives. I am glad you were able to make an informed decision and do what you knew to be the right thing for your horse. It is one of the most difficult decisions we ever have. Thank you for bravely sharing your story. Thinking of you and your lovely boy. Nancy in Canada
Massive hug to you. I have two horses right now and they are wonderful.
I’m sorry for your loss, I truly understand how you feel.
I recently started watching your RUclips channel and I really like everything you share with us.
I am a believer and believe that God made me click on your video today.
We lost our dog a week ago, we had to put him to sleep, he was 12 years old and got him when he was a puppy 🐶 , we bought it for our son who was a child then.
All the emotions that you are going through, we feel as well, and even though our pet was a small dog, no comparison at all with a horse, which I know are very special animals, he was the joy of our household.
I’m glad you talk about grieve because I think we all need that time to heal . I wish you the best , you are an intelligent person and although I am not German, my mother in law is of German descent and in some ways you remind me of her.
Take care of yourself, God bless.
May God hold you in his embrace more than he usually does, and may you feel Donny's hapiness and thankfulness now that he is free from pain. Life will move on -when you are good and ready. Dont rush. ❤❤
Im so sorry, at the same day i also let my horse go. We have been together for 22 years she was 28 years old. I really miss her and the daily routine. I am also so greatfull for the great times we had. I wish you strength and hope good memories will help you.❤
You're right. When we bring animals into our lives we open ourselves to heartbreak when certain times come. We then have to focus on the fact that we did the best it was possible to do under really tough circumstances and they knew they were loved and cared for. Take care of yourself and when you're ready, you'll begin again 🥰
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
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I’m So Very Sorry for the loss of your dear furry friend. May God’s Grace bring Peace and Healing to Your Heart. It is such a difficult decision to have had to make but do know it is also a Blessing that we are able to help our dear pets in this way as to relieve their suffering and bring them Peace. Your beautiful Donny will be waiting for you when you meet again.
Hugs and Love to You and Your Family.
I’m so sorry you lost your beautiful boy!! It’s so hard saying goodbye…thinking of you in this hard time😢💜
Grief can be so unbearable at times. There is a bond that seems to happen that turns into mental telepathy. It is something that becomes spiritual and it is what I call a Blessing from the Great Power of our God. That bond is Love ❤️. It goes beyond speech, of any language between the two involved. Continue to grieve, take walks on your land, cry your heart out. But deep down you know you did the right thing and that should give you Relief. It was a lot to bear so when you feel the relief, release yourself slowly from your beloved horse and eventually God will let you know by bringing in another sweet horse. You will start thinking about it until you can’t stand it. Then you’ll know the time is right to become a good steward to take care and love one of God’s sweet horses again.
By the way, I gave up on making sourdough bread for the time being. But I’ll never say never.
My heart goes out to you. As you said, it is never an easy decision to make. We absolutely must put our emotions aside and do what is best for a pets. Thank you for sharing and a bigger thank you for doing what was best for your horse. 💔
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know the deep loss of a beloved fur baby. My pom/chi, (Diamond) was an 8 week old puppy, when we chose each other, and was by my side for nearly 13 years, when i lost her in 2016 to a failed cancer surgery. My heart still aches.
Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja
So sorry for your loss. I'm sure he had a beautiful life and you gave him as much joy as he did to you. Blessings to you from another animal lover