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Im just reaching here of course, but on the off chance it is a break up: I’m 33 and had to confront myself last year with the fact that I kept going for men that lovebombed me and that I felt a really strong connection with from the get to. These lastet a few years but they also never committed fully and always made me feel like I had to be on my a game constantly to be worth sticking around. The spark was my guide and I’ve learned now that that’s just not right.
So I took it easy and really held off with wanting to feel anything and giving it time when I met someone. I looked at him and judged not what I felt but whether or not he was an actual match. It made me discover that he’s so soft spoken even when he’s upset, he’s so considerate, kind and helpful. He loves animals and kids and is honestly such a great human and a pleasure to be around. Only after months of getting to know him did I fall in love and this feels so much more real and not hormone flooded. This feel like peace, like something that I don’t have to fight for.
Maybe you’ve let your feelings guide you too so far instead of actual compatibility. I hope this helps and if it doesn’t, I’m sorry for the unsolicited advice
I'm living for this comment... always so easy to blame the other person, but this is some amazing self reflection!
@@mackie911 Another youtuber talk about chemistry vs compatibility, after her break up. This makes sense.
❤🎉🙌🙌 THIS 🙌Comment 🙌. As a wedding photographer for 17 years- the couples who stay together and are happy were simply BEST FRIENDS. They don’t perform , there usually isn’t crazy chemistry from the start because it’s friendship- but the love grows and the teamwork grows. ❤ I wish more people truly focused on deep soulful friendships for years- and then having a mature discussion on dating. I’ve been single for 5 years and it’s because no guy wants to be friends for years first 😅but at least I’m loving my life and not wasting any time… I just simply know in my heart from my job what works and what doesn’t. And immediate chemistry never works. It’s all ego and superficial.
👏 This ❤Comment right here. As a wedding photographer for almost 2 decades I can tell you the best couples who are happily married and stay together long term- are the ones who become friends first. They were not the ones with flaming passion from the start and high chemistry. Rather, the chemistry happened later after years of nourishing one another’s goals and being genuine friends with no seGGual intent. ❤
This is why they say to marry your best friend!And there is so much truth in that.
This right here! So we'll said!
He didn’t help her move. Enough said. NEXT.
Surprised creators are still accepting sponsorships with Better Help ☹️ please look into the company, several deep dives can be found on RUclips to support it’s a problematic company unfortunately. Happy to see advocation for therapy but making sure it’s an ethical recommendation is just as important ♥️
This! If only more people realized what a terrible company they are
She keeps deleting comment like this
She's a capitalist, so she doesn't care
Influencers literally only care what brings them money :( terrible bc better help IS scammy
I think influencers look at it as commercials and don't accept accountability for researching the companies they choose to work with
I was kinda lukewarm on that guy anyway. LOL
I was not a fan either.
@@bobjoseph7051 We didn't get the chance to really know him.
@@Debbie_George I agree.
LOL
He was giving hxc fuckboy but I was happy she was happy lol
You flexed cause your showing off and proud of the work you’ve been putting in for your body 💯 2:08
Keep your head up Nikki. Don’t let trolls keep you from making videos. I’m sorry that you are hurting, but it is nice to see the ups and downs. It reminds us that we are all going through things. 💕
The only bad comments I ever see is regarding this sponsorship and rightfully so. They illegally sold all their clients medical records and Nikki is fully aware and always just deletes comments trying to warn others. She should definitely take the constructive criticism on that one!
Sending you peace with whatever you’ve been going through. Thanks for the fun vid queen! Heartstrings
Nikkkki I have been on a long trek of getting over a break up that actually just really crushed me. It was super short lived (the relationship) but it hurt real bad haha. I've been doing a shit ton of soul searching, solo camping/hiking trips, and everything in that realm and it has been life changing for me. I wish you all the best on the journey. Some days are great, some days are horrible but you learn to appreciate all of them and ride the damn wave... all the best xx
Hair looks amazing! It’s the little things. Keep going girl!
Great video! Wish they were longer though. Best part is the premier watching getting to chat with you!! Thanks for entertaining us ❤
The Bridge to Nowhere hike is actually SO amazing!!! BUT!!! You should do the bungee jump version. There’s literally a crew that will take you on the hike and then at the end you bungee jump off the bridge and hike back. It was one of the most fun things I’ve ever done, you have to!!!
Better Help cuts you influencers some BIG checks I see😢😢
Nikki I follow your channel since the beginning of it and I love your vibe. Even though I’m just one of your viewers I seen you go through so many different stages of your life on all the stuff you have shared on RUclips….. so with that say I told you this ones and will say it again you are like a pineapple 🍍….you stand tall (through the bs life throws at you), you wear a crown (yes because you are a queen, never forget that!) and you are sweet on the inside! 🍍❤
I really like the wavy hair, even if it’s not perfect
Miranda is really sweet. Very pleasant company.
The ant story had me rolling! 😂
Love the hair ❤
Nothing more annoying than not being told the annoying thing 😅 hope all is good ❤
I thought you were wearing your Nikki b grey hat for a minute that I bought years ago and loveeee it 🥹🥹🥹
Sending you love Nikki ❤
Did the SECRET AGENTS WORK. She’s no longer with her bf 😢 you’re welcome guys 😂
What happened?!
Nikki's like a Phoenix...she always rises above...
Their relationship was so new.
Really, sighhhh. If this is true i really hope she keeps working on herself and finds a good guy.
Better that she found out who he really is sooner than later! Keep trekin, Nikki!!
i thought she was billie eilish for a split sec! hahahaahaha
Sending you all the good vibes!!🫶🏽
Whatever it is that has you going through all the emotions, hope you're doing well and you feel better soon.
Sometimes you just gotta pee off the side of a mountain and call it a day.
Everytime I hear West Covina I think about the Netflix show Crazy Ex Girlfriend. Love that show. 😂
Haha me too
After all the comments Nikki has seen and deleted regarding BetterHelp, i genuinely wonder about her morales. How can you in good conscience continuously promote this company knowing full well they illegally sold their clients medical records, and much more awful stuff about this company. Not making videos would be better at this point than the big f*ck you your saying to your viewers with this sponsorship.
Your hair looks so good! Actually just you in general 😂 🔥
As always, Nikki, you’re a source of inspiration because of your strength, positivity, and toughness. Much love! 🖤
Your friend freaking out about the sun on her in the car! I’m LIVING. Esthetician and fitz 2 and I FEEL HER lolllloll
I love the use of “into the thick of it”. So accurate! Chin up Nikki
For anyone with mental health...unless you have money you won't get help ..I love Nikki and how transparent she is. Better help us not cheap. So I struggle alone and it sucks. My son does as well and I hate that I can't help him. Mental health is so important, yet you have to pay so much for it. I know because I've been there A LOT. It feels like you have no choice honestly. Pay or die. People don't care like they used to
Please tell me why you think it’s ok to keep using this sponsor? I see you always deleting comments about it. If you’re going to continue to promote them at least give your viewers some respect and address the situation
Exactly!!
Non capitalist capitalism. The hypocrisy is palpable
What’s the tea?!
@@MsJujubee3 they illegally sold all their clients medical records
I feel like she must have signed some contract early on
Awww... sorry about the bad stretch. Hopefully it's now past you. Maybe you got all that bad luck out of the way for a few months of nothing but the best of luck! Good luck!
You look at yourself and you accept yourself for who you are, and once you accept yourself for who you are you become a better person.
-Oprah Winfrey.
You’re looking very pretty Nikki !
Your hair looks amazing!! Looking good 🔥🔥🔥
How can you pretend to care about your viewers but continue to use a sponsor that illegally sold all its clients medical records and then delete all the comments trying to warn others so you can continue to cash in from the sponsorship. At this point it feels like your just scamming your viewers
Maybe because she will address it and doesn't want her entire comment section to be filled with negativity?
Are you still friends with Jazmin?
lol I forgot about her
Ok get a spray bottle fill it with water then get some peppermint oil put a couple drops in the water and spray that stuff all around the doors and walls of your house and watch the ants say see ya 😳💯 7:49
I'm sorry many things are not going well. When it rains it pours. You are strong and will make it out better than you went in.
your hair looks soo good i mean the blonde highlights. i thought your natural hair is to dark for your skin tone
You look absolutely stunning Nikki 😍
Yours and Miranda's ability to maintain a positive attitude through it all is admirable! But, girl, give Miranda her privacy! Doesn't she at least deserve that much? We didn't need to know all that. You are good enough to create content on your own. We come to your channel to watch you. Commentating your friends every action is unnecessary. Good for you for getting out there and in touch with nature despite your tough week. Take as much time as you need. You never owe us an explanation. There's a video called " how to actually stop obsessing over men wanting you" by Jasmyne Theodora that may be helpful to you.
We love you Nikki!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Love the highlights!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Still waiting for the bad news. Thought it was a break up video.
That’s probably what’s to come 🥲
after a breakup there is a glow up, so no bad news at all
:(
@@cieloabatido i actually love that :)
He likely contacted her so everything may have either been resolved or tensions could have been eased. There’s a reason something was really upsetting her and then it was abruptly dropped.
Sometimes I am just honestly impressed how bad your luck is.
I knew it wouldn’t last lol
Nikki B 🐝 with the video upload let’s gooooo!
Wonder what he did.
Or what she did?
She promised she would tell us? What happened to William Or Hunt or whatever his name was which I was never clear.
Another "whelp we broke up" video?!
Great video Nikki !!!!!
Laughing is good it relieves stress 8:52
Awesome! Thank you for your hard work and talent! 🍓🌺
I’m so sorry Nikki I hope you have good days ahead 😳💯 7:10
I'm OBSESSED with your curled hair in the beginning 😍❤
Woah. Better Help? Really!? Come on Nikki.
We’re headed into Retrograde, it’s going to get messy, keep a careful eye and be safe.
Love the happiness though ❤
Ok but why are we always going through things at the same time?! I’m sorry things didn’t work out but I’m also happy that we’re kinda going through this together and I get more vlogs! Yayy LOL
Love your vlogs ❤❤❤
We got stuck at that same road closure in Azusa. Sucked!!!! At least you still found a hike somewhere though.
Okay so this happened to me MANY times haha 🤣 can i just say I miss your videos and secondly why not have a girls hike this would be actually fun😭
Love you too Nikki ❤
I’m sure when all was said and done ruby and squish tried to comfort you 😳💯 9:12
The bridge to nowhere is a nice hike. Just wear proper hiking boots as most of the hike you will be walking on rocks. The hike itself is easy there are no inclines. Good job remaining positive and finding a place to hike.
Why can’t Nikki just find a good man!?
Dating sucks!
Did the relationship end? I hope not as she seemed content in it🙏
Because it's California
She likes the bad boys! They're always trouble lol
@@byyoursideentombed im from canada and can confirm, it is the same everywhere hahaha sos
Looking lovely Nikki!
Ilysm 4:49
Nothing beats gas cars sorry Tesla so overrated
The cars were probably Latto’s. She is filming videos with her cars recently.
I’m so glad you laughed and did not cry see that shows how strong 💪🏼your becoming 😳💯 8:30
I know where West Covina is lol
Redirection 👀 I hope you’re holding up well Nikki! 💕
Have fun girls
🤣🤣🤣🙌omg..to funny🙌
Don’t self drive I really hate self drive vehicles I don’t trust them because what if the computer malfunctions and it does something it wasn’t programmed to do 😳💯 10:38
Just remember Nikki if he didn’t have bad days we wouldn’t appreciate the good days 😳💯 6:49
OMG! SAME lmao 😂😂😂😂😂😂 My week has been INSANE! lolol
I’m from West Covina 😂
Be brave but also wise 11:43
Girls please get a gun for protection wild animals and people live in the wilderness.. people are always getting attacked on hikes by animals or people .. just stay protected
Sometimes you gotta kiss a frogs girl ❤
Wise words 💯 13:57
Girl all love but get some soul surgery. Maybe a good church instead becauss this has been years of therapy and years of the same kind of guy. But you are also there. So get soul deep. YOU GOT THIS!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 praying for you :))
Healing is a process that is never linear and just because it’s been years doesn’t mean she has to find God. Lol. Not the answer for everyone and pushing religion on people rarely ever works 💛
I like it looks good 👏👏👏💯 1:43
West Covina is not too far from me lol 😆 😂 🤣 The ant debacle is something that would have happened to meh.🎉
Anyone who’s ever watched crazy ex-girlfriend knows where West Covina is 🤪
Are you single again? It’s ok if that’s the situation.
I’m from West Covina! 😅
My best friend lives in West Covina 😂😂
Omg i would never trust a testa especially going up on a mountain 🥲u should consider buy a more sporty car to drive up.
❤️❤️
No Audio?
It’s ok Nikki we’re here for you or I’m here for you 😳💯 3:04
Fires🔥 in California also Fires🔥 in Canada ... Global warming 😢
It's usually arson or people being careless with fire
I thought maybe it was an unexpected pregnancy?! But probably not
That was my thought as well
Hmm I don’t think that’s something she’d be angry about
Prob just a breakup/relationship woes lol
Sounds like a breakup
Awwww mannn i hope its not fabiooo😬 in the case it was, better now than later 💜🙏🏻
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