clayton: "question: has anyone ever taken back a rose before" jesse palmer: *flashes back to 2004 when he gave the wrong girl a rose in a rose ceremony and let said girl stay regardless*
@@rand0mgirly lol yes!!! back in 2004! for perspective on how far back that was: sarah (the youngest contestant on this season) would have been in kindergarten when jesse's season was airing!
2004 is the year I got married… I used to make fun of my mom for watching the bachelor back then! I used to be all “oh they don’t love him! They are lying! This is crazy! How do you believe it?” Lol
I was extremely upset with how Shanae was treating Elizabeth. Mocking her ADHD and saying she had it as well as kids have was extremely triggering for me. I work with kids who have ADHD and it's far from an excuse to what Shanae is saying. Also mocking someone else's mental health and trauma really upsetted me since I had people in my past mock my mental illness. Any way I wish everyone is taking care of themselves.
same here, it made me so upset. i have adhd and auditory processing is a huge struggle for me. to see her invalidated like that made me angry beyond words
I have auditory processing issues as a side effect of chemotherapy. It's really similar to Elizabeth. If two people talk at the same time I can't understand for some reason. She's being rude as hell. Nobody with auditory processing issues likes it. It's embarrassing because it's "invisible" and people are so much less than understanding. They don't get how you can hear them but your brain can't attach meaning. Or how when you have difficulty processing multiple streams of input how you can not understand one but get the other. It's just really hard to describe if you don't experience it.
shanae questioning ADHD and saying “it’s something little kids have” made me extremely upset. it’s something i’ve heard my whole life and it brought up so many unpleasant memories. it’s so stigmatised in women and it’s so hard to get a diagnosis. and how she broadcasted someone’s disorder just sat so wrong with me. i hope she doesn’t stay long.
Right?! Also, how she totally discounted the sensory overload issue. Lots of folks get that, its not just ADHD, its also an issue with autism spectrum, PTSD, anxiety disorder (etc). Her reaction to Elizabeth being vulnerable with her is startlingly devoid of empathy, compassion and kindness.
@@jessicaturecek9446 absolutely. i struggle with sensory issues and that environment seems overwhelming for anyone! not just someone who is neurodivergent.
Yes, very ignorant, but not surprising. She seemed to be gassing up for insult talk. I'm sure she'll have a sob story and fake apologizes at the Women Tell All. Hope the tapes! 😊
Yeah, I didn’t think it could get worse than the season when they called someone a call girl with absolutely zero basis. But this is way worse. At this point they are mocking medical diagnoses. Utterly terrible
Clayton just lacks so much social awareness. He spent his group date talking to one girl all day, wouldn’t he think about how the other girls would feel?
Ugh, Clayton is becoming one of my least favorite leads. All these women are mad about Cassidy pulling him away from the party but seem to forget that he also chose to be absent for his group date to make out with her. I don't think he listened to a word Serene said instead he just licked his lips waiting to make out with her. Such a gross goon...
I didn't even notice the lip licking, but he tweeted about it saying he got a new chapstick or something after that episode so hopefully no more lip licking 😂
The weird part is he didn’t even look like he wanted to be making out with Cassidy. Looked like he just went with it. His lack of backbone is seriously unattractive 🥴
@@brianc1309 Elizabeth I wayyy prettier than Shanae. Even Shanae herself knows it which is why she laser focused on making her miserable. I can agree that Shanae is sexier ☝🏻
How could Clayton give Cassidy a rose after how terribly she interacted with the kids? He always says he wants to be a father and have a family, so didn’t he recognize that she didn’t like being around the kids at all?
This might be TMI but around dogs and kids (I have neither) my personality is similar to Cassidys. Putting myself in her shoes I kind of get it. I don’t dislike kids and dogs, and I will jump out and put my life on the line if they were in danger in my presence but I am sarcastic (like Cassidy and not too playful or engaging) around them. With that said for what Clayton is looking for, that’s not a good look for Cassidy. She would be perfect for someone who didn’t have nor want kids IMO.
Exactly!! He even said in his little speech before handing out the rose that he appreciated the effort of all the women on the date, so I thought that meant he was gonna give the rose to someone who actually put in effort during the date. And Cassidy had the nerve to be all cocky about how she thought the was gonna get the rose. I was shocked he actually picked her 😤
I don't know man, should we really be happy that anybody is destroyed on national TV for just being kind of shitty? Haven't we all been kind of shitty in our lives
@@mojos7 from my experience, only horrible people use your mental health issues against you to try to hurt you, and/or tell others about it when it's not theirs to tell. Mostly, when someone slips up, they say something insensitive, realize they have said something insensitive, and apologize profusely. It's still not great, but it's a whole lot better than what happened on this show.
As someone not watching this season, you legit got me with that Hannah B/Susie edit. I couldn't tell the difference for a hot second. I can't believe they sent Clayton on the same first one-on-one as He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named.
Omg Shanae makes Cassidy and Matt James’s women look like a group of angels. Everything she did was so uncalled for, immature, and inappropriate. Like that’s not even good drama. Cassidy not vibing with children is funny, drama but this is straight up ableism, high school mean girl, and manipulation. There’s no redemption for Shanae.
agreed. While I don't think Cassidy is here for the right reasons, nothing she's doing is harming anyone except for her own relationship. Plus Clayton is enabling her by just making out with her instead of putting a stop to that. On the flip side though, Shanae is making fun of Elizabeth's mental disorder and that's not OK.
Shanae's whole explanation of her more "dominant and overconfident" persona, who is being named after a stereotype of Black women that is "loud" and "ghetto" is uncomfortable (look up: Shanaynay). Then, going on to blast someone's mental health battles out loud without their permission made me so sick. BOOOOOO! She needs to leave asap!
I am definitely not a fan of Cassidy but I feel some of the anger the women have towards her should be directed to Clayton for knowing he was on GROUP date and chose to spend majority of the time with Cassidy.
You are probably right. I don’t mind her sarcasm around them. I would have been pissed if she was a complete jerk to them. I don’t think she was but I can totally understand if someone disagrees with me.
@@SinaSoh Imo not liking kids is totally fine. I don't dislike kids, they aren't my thing. But I would never idk tell them that or be rude about having to spend time with them in a one on one.
Cassidy is smart but got too confident. She came in day one with the one intention of gaining a following. She had no intention of winning (high competition, high chance of failure) but knows that previous villains get screen time, paradise slots, and a decent following. She decided to go for the villain role instead knowing that no one else would want that spot. I guarantee she told her sidepiece secret to feed producers a storyline that would cement the villain spot for her. Her mistake was doing too much to fast, by pulling out all the villain moves Week 1. Had she slowed down, she would have scored Demi Burnett 2.0. Good play Cass, but you flew too close to the sun. 👏🏻 Edit: Shanae however, is not playing the villain, and is in fact a sour mess of a bitch. 🤮
First of all, the Hannah/Suzy and Colton/Clayton part was so so good 😂😂. But also the clips that you manage to pull from the most random shows that fit PERFECTLY crack me up every single time!! I hope you know we apprISSciate the effort you put in to these videos ❤
Sierra telling Clayton about what Cassidy is probably the only time in the whole show where I approve of someone going to the lead and telling them about another contestant. She still probably shot herself in the foot though.
I don’t know. She said she had a friend with benefits on and off again, that’s not a boyfriend. She also said he was messaging her about things. Who knows how she responded. It seems like it’s not that big a deal.
That “I’m not the bachelor, I’m a happily married man” line comes from the first ever episode of the bachelor! Chris Harrison said it night one. Idk why they’re making him repeat it though, the Game of Roses podcast has a whole thing about it haha
I have so many thoughts, but the argument that because someone "doesn't look at you when they talk, is a red flag", is so frustrating. Some of us are like wounded puppies in this world, that have trauma, or ADHD, or other behavior disorders, that can make it very uncomfortable, and intimidating to maintain eye contact with someone. Especially if they are right in your face😕
Clayton is just so oblivious. He seems emotionally immature. And the way he interacts with the women just feels off. It’s like he’s trying to flirt and idk, tease them?? But he doesn’t seem to build genuine connections with anyone specifically, it just all seems very surface-level?? I don’t know what it is but something is just giving me weird vibes. Maybe it’ll improve in later weeks as he spends more time with everyone but idk.
Yeah, I agree. He seems to me like he hasn’t had enough relationship/life experience to be genuinely be ready to settle down. Doesn’t seem like he knows what he wants at all 😬
Why the show handles the serious issues discussed on The Bachelorette seasons with a decent amount of seriousness (ex: providing information about organizations and helplines about those issues), but then in Bachelor seasons it airs stuff like sex worker accusations being callously tossed around and using ADHD just for drama's sake?
This! Part of the reason it’s painful for me to watch the bachelor. I watch for the love story, sure a sprinkle of drama here and there is great but I hated peters season because of how dramatic and annoying they all were…I see this season is headed in that direction, I really really hope he gets rid of the drama girls soon. I can’t handle this much drama every single week.
Me and my family had no idea who Hilary duff was, so all of us were like, “why tf is everyone screaming about this rando woman” and it was hilarious. Also I like how we all hated Cassidy at the beginning of the episode, and then by the time shanae got done with her antics nobody cared about Cassidy anymore lmfao
I know they’ll keep Shanae around for extra drama but can we talk about how much pick me energy that comes off from her. I’m so annoyed how she literally victimizes herself when Elizabeth is the one being constantly attacked by her. Someone needs to check her!
omg I was just looking at Peter in the hottub thinking: "oh Clayton looks different from this angle" and only when you switched I realized that wasn't Suzy and Clayton. And then the whole time I wasn't sure which clip was the correct one 😅
I think the unnecessary noise was brought on by the placement of Clayton's mic ..I don't like all that smacking noise either..but evidently the producers do.
I don’t even want to watch this season, but I’m so invested in the franchise lol I appreciate these recap videos, bc this is the only way I’m going to keep up with this season 🙄
Cassidy’s behavior for me was really appalling because she used her group date time to go and talk to Clayton as if this was her one on one date. She’s totally selfish about not caring about the kids either.
i’ve only been watching these recaps so far so it’s all the info i have on these women, but Cassidy gave me THE heaviest “blonde stepmom from The Parent Trap” vibe with those kids 😭
Red Flag by Shanae 🤣🤣🤣 But really some of these girls are red flag central. So. Much. Drama. Honest question: does anyone else think Shanae and Cassidy look a lot alike? Twin villains.
I thought I'd give Clayton a chance because I do believe he is a good person, but omg he's so spineless and uninteresting, and on top of that is now encouraging toxic behavior and drama and it's too many Colton/Peter flashbacks for me.
Shanae treating that girls ADHD as if it was an STD. That is really disappointing. I possibly have mild ADHD because I have trouble looking at people when they speak to me. Shanae getting mad because girls don’t look at her throughout the whole conversation is just petty.
Having trouble looking at people while they speak is far from an only adhd thing. Its also extremely prevalent with trauma and autism. Its not very reasonable to suspect you have a disorder based off relating to a single symptom./nm
I got the feeling that Shanae truly did not understand (or maybe just didn’t want to understand) what ADHD is. Elizabeth was explaining things so clearly and calmly, but it may as well have been a foreign language to Shanae 😬 lol. Awkward to watch.
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 try telling that to my stepdad who grew up without phones and has had it his entire life lol (also me, who didn't have access to electronics at all as a kid either and grew up on books- adhd the whole time) also adhd is much more than just an inability to concentrate, it's really disappointing to see such a shallow perspective these days edit: and i don't really care if you think me and my family are the "2%" or whatever, people like you who say ADHD is largely made up and most people are faking it are the reason it is so hard for me to get treatment so I'm able to function day to day and why people don't believe me when i tell them basic shit about how my brain works. and even if for 98% it were "brought upon themselves" they would still deserve help. it's NOT, but as a layperson i don't know how to convince you of that. you people exhaust me. grow up.
I hate sharing a name with Cassidy LOL. And the Shanae stuff… was really really hard to watch. The Bachelor needs to make a statement about that behavior.
Absolutely unacceptable behavior from Shanae and it was honestly so hard to watch. I don't think Cassidy or Shanae will stay in the show very long and I hope they don't get invited to BIP. Props to Elizabeth for handling the situation as well as she did honestly.
Thank you for doing all this hard work and editing! I truly appreciate your effort to sit through this hot garbage of a show and edit and giving us some quality content for us to watch and laugh together. Thank you
so many adults with ADHD, and PARTICULARLY women, have to grapple with an insane amount of stigma surrounding their diagnosis as it is, and that’s before even beginning to take into account how many barriers there are to adequate and effective long-term treatment. the myth that ADHD is something “only kids have” and that you “grow out of it” as an adult is unbelievably damaging, and I know firsthand how tremendously isolating it feels to be dismissed and mocked by your peers, colleagues, and even doctors the way that Shanae so callously did so to Elizabeth. and she did so out of nothing more than pure spite and jealousy, i mean how low of a person do you have to be to inflict that kind of abuse on someone you barely even know??? literally sickening 🤧
I appreciate you BachFanktake because you are literally breaking this down so well for all of us who haven't bothered to watch so much as 2 seconds of this season.
I feel like each panel of girls for the Bachelor gets cattier and cattier.. I started watching during Colton's season and thought that was bad... then Peters season came and I was like "okay now that's really bad... what could top that? And then Matt's season came and I was like "Okay I'm sure NOTHING can top this. These girls are the most cattiest ever." but this season is starting to top all of those other seasons now...
Can’t imagine what next season will be like 😩 although, I will say that I thought the contestants for Matt’s season were at least better than Peter’s, imo
I feel this group of contestants (with the obvious exceptions of Cassidy and Shanae) are way better than in Peter and Matt's seasons, so far at least. At least the entire house seemed to be on Elizabeth's side rather than siding with the villains, like what happened in Matt's season, where pretty much all of them were awful people
I personally love this show and we love you bachelor fantake! My husband doesn't watch the show but I can get him all caught up with your content! So thank you so much for posting every week.
Like any "reality TV" show, this franchise has to be taken with a grain of salt. Lately, these episodes have begun to look suspiciously scripted. Cassidy and Shanae are over-the-top in the "Bad Girl" department, and I am finding it difficult to believe that anyone would brag to a fellow contestant that they had a boyfriend waiting for them back home, while she was miked-up. Some of these women may be sincere, but I think a lot of this drama was intentionally written in.
I also feel like some parts have to be scripted in some ways (ironic that it’s called “reality tv”). But I do really wonder how producers would go about convincing someone to go along with a specific storyline, particularly one that will make them look bad and get lots of public backlash. I wonder if those contestants get paid extra or are promised a spot on Paradise possibly? 🤔
I thought they were bringing Hilary Duff in for a huge HIMYF promotion, as they’ve done in other seasons for movies/shows. I’m honestly so happy they went this route. It’s a loophole for promotion - makes people think “hmm what’s Hilary up to these days,” look it up, and BAM … new show in a few days. P.S. I bet I’m more of a Hilary Duff super fan than Cassidy ;)
I'm fucking pissed at how Shanae treated Elizabeth. And I'm even more pissed at how none producers stepped forward to stop her. Or even edit those scenes out. They should've removed Shanae the moment she started making light of Elizabeth's ADHD. So much for caring about contestants mental health. Also Clayton sucks as a lead. He's like a lost puppy but not as cute to watch
Ewww, I can’t believe he gave the rose to Cassidy after her aggressive kissing. I would be SO turned off by someone forcing themselves on me like that AND after her behavior at the party. Makes me very doubtful about his decision-making abilities. Yuck.
I don't know how Elizabeth handled Shanae being so disrespectful about her ADHD. I would have lost it if someone said that to me and I'm a pretty level headed person.
Why do Bachelor Men get over the top seasons, and the Bachelorette’s don’t?! Matt had a whole guest house, Clayton has a celebrity. I understand the whole Pandemic but no it’s not fair.
I really want to know what people like Cassidy coming on the show are thinking. Like what is your goal? How are you going to talk about your person at home while having a mic on you and expect to get a good edit?
The Bachelor specifically goes out of their way to look for girls exactly like Sha-Nae-Nae. So if you wanna be on the Bachelor/Bachelorette: The more *EMOTIONAL DAMAGE* you are, the better your chances.
I love ur recaps! I am from Germany and don‘t have access to the whole episodes and therefore love watching your recapes, since the American Bachelor is so much more interesting than the german one
PSA: No episode next week. Week 3 will be the Monday after next. But I'll still have a bonus video out to fill the void!
Because of the nfc wild card game.
Noo! Still one hundred percent looking forward to your bonus video @Bachelor Fantake! Tin foil hats are at the ready!
You da best 👍🏼
you’re literally a savior
If you can, you should grade Michelle’s season!!
"do you watch the bachelor?" No, I watch bachelor fantake. thanks for sorting through all the tea and watering it down for us
This, this is me also.
same lmao
I don’t have time so bachelor fantake is the only way to watch it and I love his commentary!
same!
Omg me too I’ve been trying to make my friends stop watching this toxic show and just enjoy the short version here
clayton: "question: has anyone ever taken back a rose before"
jesse palmer: *flashes back to 2004 when he gave the wrong girl a rose in a rose ceremony and let said girl stay regardless*
Wait he was the bachelor that long ago. OMG
@@rand0mgirly lol yes!!! back in 2004! for perspective on how far back that was: sarah (the youngest contestant on this season) would have been in kindergarten when jesse's season was airing!
@@smarterperson16 🙀
@@smarterperson16 I feel old and young because that means she’s a year younger than me
2004 is the year I got married… I used to make fun of my mom for watching the bachelor back then! I used to be all “oh they don’t love him! They are lying! This is crazy! How do you believe it?” Lol
I was extremely upset with how Shanae was treating Elizabeth. Mocking her ADHD and saying she had it as well as kids have was extremely triggering for me. I work with kids who have ADHD and it's far from an excuse to what Shanae is saying. Also mocking someone else's mental health and trauma really upsetted me since I had people in my past mock my mental illness.
Any way I wish everyone is taking care of themselves.
same here, it made me so upset. i have adhd and auditory processing is a huge struggle for me. to see her invalidated like that made me angry beyond words
🙌💯💐
I have auditory processing issues as a side effect of chemotherapy. It's really similar to Elizabeth. If two people talk at the same time I can't understand for some reason. She's being rude as hell. Nobody with auditory processing issues likes it. It's embarrassing because it's "invisible" and people are so much less than understanding. They don't get how you can hear them but your brain can't attach meaning. Or how when you have difficulty processing multiple streams of input how you can not understand one but get the other.
It's just really hard to describe if you don't experience it.
that was horrifying to watch🥴
I have adhd and I’m only 13 but I love bachelor and my mom is very mad at them for airing that
shanae questioning ADHD and saying “it’s something little kids have” made me extremely upset. it’s something i’ve heard my whole life and it brought up so many unpleasant memories. it’s so stigmatised in women and it’s so hard to get a diagnosis. and how she broadcasted someone’s disorder just sat so wrong with me. i hope she doesn’t stay long.
Right?! Also, how she totally discounted the sensory overload issue. Lots of folks get that, its not just ADHD, its also an issue with autism spectrum, PTSD, anxiety disorder (etc). Her reaction to Elizabeth being vulnerable with her is startlingly devoid of empathy, compassion and kindness.
@@jessicaturecek9446 absolutely. i struggle with sensory issues and that environment seems overwhelming for anyone! not just someone who is neurodivergent.
Yes, very ignorant, but not surprising. She seemed to be gassing up for insult talk. I'm sure she'll have a sob story and fake apologizes at the Women Tell All. Hope the tapes! 😊
Exactly my thoughts and my experience too!!!
Yeah, I didn’t think it could get worse than the season when they called someone a call girl with absolutely zero basis. But this is way worse. At this point they are mocking medical diagnoses. Utterly terrible
Clayton just lacks so much social awareness. He spent his group date talking to one girl all day, wouldn’t he think about how the other girls would feel?
The guy gave a rose to the engaged lady.....
Right? I'd be mad at him for letting himself be pulled away and ignoring the rest of us. Step up dude.
Yeah there’s a reason I’m not watching this season but I’ll stay tuned for BFT.
He doesn't seem very intelligent. He is nice but dumb, like a golden retriever kinda
He’s a red flag!
"The process can work" says the guy that the process didn't work for.
doesnt work for most of them....lol..
Ugh, Clayton is becoming one of my least favorite leads. All these women are mad about Cassidy pulling him away from the party but seem to forget that he also chose to be absent for his group date to make out with her. I don't think he listened to a word Serene said instead he just licked his lips waiting to make out with her. Such a gross goon...
I didn't even notice the lip licking, but he tweeted about it saying he got a new chapstick or something after that episode so hopefully no more lip licking 😂
The weird part is he didn’t even look like he wanted to be making out with Cassidy. Looked like he just went with it. His lack of backbone is seriously unattractive 🥴
@@parrisnia72 his lip licking is the least of my concerns tbh.
Are you telling me Elizabeth, Cassidy, and Shanae aren't all the same person? I cannot tell these women apart like whatttt
Blonde white girls, too many
Sameee lmao
Shanda and Cassidy are 100% the same person. You can’t convince me otherwise
@@auspicious93 in what world is Elizabeth prettier than Shanae!? Yeah Shanae is psychotic but she is hands down prettier than Elizabeth.
@@brianc1309 Elizabeth I wayyy prettier than Shanae. Even Shanae herself knows it which is why she laser focused on making her miserable. I can agree that Shanae is sexier ☝🏻
How could Clayton give Cassidy a rose after how terribly she interacted with the kids? He always says he wants to be a father and have a family, so didn’t he recognize that she didn’t like being around the kids at all?
classic case of the peter-victoria f dynamic lol
This might be TMI but around dogs and kids (I have neither) my personality is similar to Cassidys. Putting myself in her shoes I kind of get it.
I don’t dislike kids and dogs, and I will jump out and put my life on the line if they were in danger in my presence but I am sarcastic (like Cassidy and not too playful or engaging) around them. With that said for what Clayton is looking for, that’s not a good look for Cassidy. She would be perfect for someone who didn’t have nor want kids IMO.
Has producer manipulation written on it to. Obviously is was going to ruffle every girls feathers to have her get it storyline wise,
@@spideysim3892 exactly is so obvious
Exactly!! He even said in his little speech before handing out the rose that he appreciated the effort of all the women on the date, so I thought that meant he was gonna give the rose to someone who actually put in effort during the date. And Cassidy had the nerve to be all cocky about how she thought the was gonna get the rose. I was shocked he actually picked her 😤
Shanae is the WORST and I'm so glad her toxic personality is being blasted on national TV. I can't believe she did all that.
I don't know man, should we really be happy that anybody is destroyed on national TV for just being kind of shitty? Haven't we all been kind of shitty in our lives
@@mojos7 to that degree? Absolutely not. And if that's what she's willing to do on camera imagine how she is normally.
@@mojos7 could you be more of a simp lol. She knows she’s on tv and agreed to being recorded so that’s literally on her
@@mojos7 from my experience, only horrible people use your mental health issues against you to try to hurt you, and/or tell others about it when it's not theirs to tell. Mostly, when someone slips up, they say something insensitive, realize they have said something insensitive, and apologize profusely. It's still not great, but it's a whole lot better than what happened on this show.
@@josteau9849 remembering everyone is a human is simping? Da fuk is wrong with you.
As someone not watching this season, you legit got me with that Hannah B/Susie edit. I couldn't tell the difference for a hot second. I can't believe they sent Clayton on the same first one-on-one as He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named.
@@auspicious93 Me too. I don't get the constant comparing of her and Hannah.
@@auspicious93 she reminds me of Debbie Ryan haha
Susie was my favorite from the start. I hope she loses so she can actually go on to find a real, genuine, healthy relationship.
I couldn't tell the different either. Susie and Hannah are almost twins and it's at times hard for me to tell them apart.
That birthday party was NOT what dreams are made of.
😂😂😂😂😂 when she dropped the cake I went oh oh oh 😳
Best comment 😂👏
@@cassie-cm I think the kid standing next to her was in on the cake dropping lol 😂
Lol
Lol it's more like what nightmares are made of
i’m so glad someone else noticed the “apprishitive” 😭
i'm guessing it's a midwest thing cause i've heard some people from the region pronounce "picture" as "pitcher" asgdhfjghj
Omg Shanae makes Cassidy and Matt James’s women look like a group of angels. Everything she did was so uncalled for, immature, and inappropriate. Like that’s not even good drama. Cassidy not vibing with children is funny, drama but this is straight up ableism, high school mean girl, and manipulation. There’s no redemption for Shanae.
agreed. While I don't think Cassidy is here for the right reasons, nothing she's doing is harming anyone except for her own relationship. Plus Clayton is enabling her by just making out with her instead of putting a stop to that. On the flip side though, Shanae is making fun of Elizabeth's mental disorder and that's not OK.
I bet Anna from Matt James season is loving this season 😂😅
Clayton is the worst. Rewarding aggressive behavior/drama among contestants is one of my biggest pet peeves.
@@auspicious93 Peter was a freaking disaster! That season was the most frustrating I've ever seen
Cassidy: “I did nothing wrong”
Also Cassidy: *ruins a little girl’s birthday party by dropping her cake on the ground*
That cake looked like shit let's be real.
Shanae's whole explanation of her more "dominant and overconfident" persona, who is being named after a stereotype of Black women that is "loud" and "ghetto" is uncomfortable (look up: Shanaynay). Then, going on to blast someone's mental health battles out loud without their permission made me so sick. BOOOOOO! She needs to leave asap!
I am definitely not a fan of Cassidy but I feel some of the anger the women have towards her should be directed to Clayton for knowing he was on GROUP date and chose to spend majority of the time with Cassidy.
You can tell a lot about a person by how they treat others, particularly young children.
You are probably right. I don’t mind her sarcasm around them. I would have been pissed if she was a complete jerk to them. I don’t think she was but I can totally understand if someone disagrees with me.
@@SinaSoh Imo not liking kids is totally fine. I don't dislike kids, they aren't my thing. But I would never idk tell them that or be rude about having to spend time with them in a one on one.
Cassidy is smart but got too confident. She came in day one with the one intention of gaining a following. She had no intention of winning (high competition, high chance of failure) but knows that previous villains get screen time, paradise slots, and a decent following. She decided to go for the villain role instead knowing that no one else would want that spot. I guarantee she told her sidepiece secret to feed producers a storyline that would cement the villain spot for her. Her mistake was doing too much to fast, by pulling out all the villain moves Week 1. Had she slowed down, she would have scored Demi Burnett 2.0.
Good play Cass, but you flew too close to the sun. 👏🏻
Edit: Shanae however, is not playing the villain, and is in fact a sour mess of a bitch. 🤮
First of all, the Hannah/Suzy and Colton/Clayton part was so so good 😂😂. But also the clips that you manage to pull from the most random shows that fit PERFECTLY crack me up every single time!! I hope you know we apprISSciate the effort you put in to these videos ❤
When I saw her (Suzy) it reminded me so much of Hannah lol seems I wasn't the only one who noticed.
I have ADHD and I understand Elizabeth frustration. Great Recap videos you do such a great job.
She really did handle herself so well.
@@AnimaKinz agreed
Sierra telling Clayton about what Cassidy is probably the only time in the whole show where I approve of someone going to the lead and telling them about another contestant. She still probably shot herself in the foot though.
I don’t know. She said she had a friend with benefits on and off again, that’s not a boyfriend. She also said he was messaging her about things. Who knows how she responded. It seems like it’s not that big a deal.
@@blueshoes915 if it’s not a deal why would she still be talking about him or mess aging him?
I'm liking Gabby so far, she seems really fun and funny, but every time she talks she sounds absolutely wasted.
Oh her breathy voice revs my heart ❤
She sounds just like Krystal from Arie's season
Sha-no-no's nae-nae was hilariously bad 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 She even stuck her tongue out like she thought she was killing it 💀
That “I’m not the bachelor, I’m a happily married man” line comes from the first ever episode of the bachelor! Chris Harrison said it night one. Idk why they’re making him repeat it though, the Game of Roses podcast has a whole thing about it haha
Praise be Dark Lord Palmer
Yeah but she asks if he’s a *happily* married man, what’s that matter?!? He’s a married man, period.
I have so many thoughts, but the argument that because someone "doesn't look at you when they talk, is a red flag", is so frustrating. Some of us are like wounded puppies in this world, that have trauma, or ADHD, or other behavior disorders, that can make it very uncomfortable, and intimidating to maintain eye contact with someone. Especially if they are right in your face😕
I completely agree. I have poor eye contact myself. It is very intimidating to keep looking at someone in conversation. I have ADD and asperger.
My sibling is autistic and they have a hard time with eye contact.
Clayton is just so oblivious. He seems emotionally immature. And the way he interacts with the women just feels off. It’s like he’s trying to flirt and idk, tease them?? But he doesn’t seem to build genuine connections with anyone specifically, it just all seems very surface-level?? I don’t know what it is but something is just giving me weird vibes. Maybe it’ll improve in later weeks as he spends more time with everyone but idk.
Yeah, I agree. He seems to me like he hasn’t had enough relationship/life experience to be genuinely be ready to settle down. Doesn’t seem like he knows what he wants at all 😬
Why the show handles the serious issues discussed on The Bachelorette seasons with a decent amount of seriousness (ex: providing information about organizations and helplines about those issues), but then in Bachelor seasons it airs stuff like sex worker accusations being callously tossed around and using ADHD just for drama's sake?
This! Part of the reason it’s painful for me to watch the bachelor. I watch for the love story, sure a sprinkle of drama here and there is great but I hated peters season because of how dramatic and annoying they all were…I see this season is headed in that direction, I really really hope he gets rid of the drama girls soon. I can’t handle this much drama every single week.
@H. A. Not to mention that the woman in question was not a sex worker but got attached to that stigma irl.
Me and my family had no idea who Hilary duff was, so all of us were like, “why tf is everyone screaming about this rando woman” and it was hilarious. Also I like how we all hated Cassidy at the beginning of the episode, and then by the time shanae got done with her antics nobody cared about Cassidy anymore lmfao
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 when did I brag? Maybe check what bragging actually means
I know they’ll keep Shanae around for extra drama but can we talk about how much pick me energy that comes off from her. I’m so annoyed how she literally victimizes herself when Elizabeth is the one being constantly attacked by her. Someone needs to check her!
That tricky "Susie" editing had me literally questioning my sanity 🤣
omg I was just looking at Peter in the hottub thinking: "oh Clayton looks different from this angle" and only when you switched I realized that wasn't Suzy and Clayton. And then the whole time I wasn't sure which clip was the correct one 😅
*Colton you mean? lol not Peter
Choose your fighter: Matt James, kissing with his eyes open or Clayton making out with all that unnecessary noise.
Option 3?
@@Oceangirl_505 Pilot Pete, but Barb is within a five foot radius of you? 😂
@@cerisebiscuit51 🤣🤣🤣
I think the unnecessary noise was brought on by the placement of Clayton's mic ..I don't like all that smacking noise either..but evidently the producers do.
Is this comment completely out of pocket or too deep in it? Yes and yes.
THAT LIZZIE MCGUIRE CARTOON MEME WAS SO PERFECT I CANNOT. 💀🤣
I hate that they give soooo much air time to the petty villain drama… I want to get to know the girls who are actually nice!!
Yes, especially to the point where they have to cut out the rose ceremony!
SAME
For shanae to talk about Elizabeth lying about her not having adhd was so wrong😡
I completely MISSED the fact you used hannah brown’s footage as a joke!! They (including clayton and colton) look too similar lol
It was the Lizzie McGuire cartoon that got you the like from me
Also more evidence that Serene is reminiscent of Michelle? She’s also a teacher!
I said this too!
@@Checkplusplus I feel like they resemble each other so much, it’s wild.
Anyone else confuses Shanae with Cassidy?? I literally struggle to understand they're two different people :/
Yes, they are super similar. If I don’t see their names sometimes I get them mixed up 😅
No. But only because “shanae-nae” reeks of insecurity through her behavior and Cassidy has too much confidence and clearly doesn’t give af.
This was the best recap yet! Love the perfume ad insert!
I don’t even want to watch this season, but I’m so invested in the franchise lol I appreciate these recap videos, bc this is the only way I’m going to keep up with this season 🙄
Cassidy’s behavior for me was really appalling because she used her group date time to go and talk to Clayton as if this was her one on one date. She’s totally selfish about not caring about the kids either.
Some people don’t want kids and that is all right but I imagine Clayton does so she’s probably not the one
i’ve only been watching these recaps so far so it’s all the info i have on these women, but Cassidy gave me THE heaviest “blonde stepmom from The Parent Trap” vibe with those kids 😭
All the blondes on this season look like sisters and it's making it hard to keep who's having drama with who straight.
It’s wild how good you add these random clips that fit in SO WELL lol 👏🏽
I was really hoping ziwe would ask the girls some really good questions. I was so bummed when that didn’t happen
“I guess 1/3 isn’t so bad” damn Bachelor Fantake went for it lol. But that fit…
I love that Sierra went ,and told Cassidy that she told Clayton 🤣
Where’s Bennett and his emotional intelligence book to give Shanae when you need it? 😂
Red Flag by Shanae 🤣🤣🤣
But really some of these girls are red flag central. So. Much. Drama.
Honest question: does anyone else think Shanae and Cassidy look a lot alike? Twin villains.
yes until they started talking side by side I really thought they were the same girl. they even have the same job title! yikes
@@annalouiseplease yes! So alike, I can't remember two girls that alike on the show who weren't actually twins, like the twins on Ben's season.
Like a WWF tag team from the 1980s and early 1990s. Too similar.
They remind me of the 2 sisters from White Chicks 😂😂
@@jenny_447 hahaha what a brilliant analogy!!
I thought I'd give Clayton a chance because I do believe he is a good person, but omg he's so spineless and uninteresting, and on top of that is now encouraging toxic behavior and drama and it's too many Colton/Peter flashbacks for me.
Sha-no-no doing the Sha-nay-nay 🤣
Lol
Never have I ever seen a bachelor crack down on this type of girl drama.
Peter?
Shanae treating that girls ADHD as if it was an STD. That is really disappointing. I possibly have mild ADHD because I have trouble looking at people when they speak to me. Shanae getting mad because girls don’t look at her throughout the whole conversation is just petty.
Having trouble looking at people while they speak is far from an only adhd thing. Its also extremely prevalent with trauma and autism. Its not very reasonable to suspect you have a disorder based off relating to a single symptom./nm
I got the feeling that Shanae truly did not understand (or maybe just didn’t want to understand) what ADHD is. Elizabeth was explaining things so clearly and calmly, but it may as well have been a foreign language to Shanae 😬 lol. Awkward to watch.
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 try telling that to my stepdad who grew up without phones and has had it his entire life lol (also me, who didn't have access to electronics at all as a kid either and grew up on books- adhd the whole time)
also adhd is much more than just an inability to concentrate, it's really disappointing to see such a shallow perspective these days
edit: and i don't really care if you think me and my family are the "2%" or whatever, people like you who say ADHD is largely made up and most people are faking it are the reason it is so hard for me to get treatment so I'm able to function day to day and why people don't believe me when i tell them basic shit about how my brain works. and even if for 98% it were "brought upon themselves" they would still deserve help. it's NOT, but as a layperson i don't know how to convince you of that. you people exhaust me. grow up.
I hate sharing a name with Cassidy LOL. And the Shanae stuff… was really really hard to watch. The Bachelor needs to make a statement about that behavior.
Very bummed that not only did we not even get to the rose ceremony this week but that they also left us hanging for two weeks! Why??????
Absolutely unacceptable behavior from Shanae and it was honestly so hard to watch. I don't think Cassidy or Shanae will stay in the show very long and I hope they don't get invited to BIP. Props to Elizabeth for handling the situation as well as she did honestly.
Thank you for doing all this hard work and editing! I truly appreciate your effort to sit through this hot garbage of a show and edit and giving us some quality content for us to watch and laugh together. Thank you
Skipping this season because I am really not about it being so drama focused, but filling the void with these recaps! You're awesome!
So “appricitive” that I have chosen not to fully watch this season with girls like Cassidy and Shanae 🙄
Omg how do you get funnier and funnier every video. This was better than the episode. Thanks
so many adults with ADHD, and PARTICULARLY women, have to grapple with an insane amount of stigma surrounding their diagnosis as it is, and that’s before even beginning to take into account how many barriers there are to adequate and effective long-term treatment. the myth that ADHD is something “only kids have” and that you “grow out of it” as an adult is unbelievably damaging, and I know firsthand how tremendously isolating it feels to be dismissed and mocked by your peers, colleagues, and even doctors the way that Shanae so callously did so to Elizabeth. and she did so out of nothing more than pure spite and jealousy, i mean how low of a person do you have to be to inflict that kind of abuse on someone you barely even know??? literally sickening 🤧
You killed it with the editing in the intro. Some of the women's behavior in this episode was ridiculous though.
DUDEEEE LMAO. That Colton, Hannah cut was spot on!!! It is really like re-living them
Why did I totally not notice that he switched the dates until he said it 🤣
I appreciate you BachFanktake because you are literally breaking this down so well for all of us who haven't bothered to watch so much as 2 seconds of this season.
I feel like each panel of girls for the Bachelor gets cattier and cattier.. I started watching during Colton's season and thought that was bad... then Peters season came and I was like "okay now that's really bad... what could top that? And then Matt's season came and I was like "Okay I'm sure NOTHING can top this. These girls are the most cattiest ever." but this season is starting to top all of those other seasons now...
Can’t imagine what next season will be like 😩 although, I will say that I thought the contestants for Matt’s season were at least better than Peter’s, imo
It's a cringe fest
I feel this group of contestants (with the obvious exceptions of Cassidy and Shanae) are way better than in Peter and Matt's seasons, so far at least. At least the entire house seemed to be on Elizabeth's side rather than siding with the villains, like what happened in Matt's season, where pretty much all of them were awful people
What a lame party. Seemed geared toward much younger "kids" than the ones they had there.
I personally love this show and we love you bachelor fantake! My husband doesn't watch the show but I can get him all caught up with your content! So thank you so much for posting every week.
This video is a piece of art.
Like any "reality TV" show, this franchise has to be taken with a grain of salt. Lately, these episodes have begun to look suspiciously scripted. Cassidy and Shanae are over-the-top in the "Bad Girl" department, and I am finding it difficult to believe that anyone would brag to a fellow contestant that they had a boyfriend waiting for them back home, while she was miked-up. Some of these women may be sincere, but I think a lot of this drama was intentionally written in.
I also feel like some parts have to be scripted in some ways (ironic that it’s called “reality tv”).
But I do really wonder how producers would go about convincing someone to go along with a specific storyline, particularly one that will make them look bad and get lots of public backlash. I wonder if those contestants get paid extra or are promised a spot on Paradise possibly? 🤔
Hooray! The only Bachelor update I need!
Side note…Cassidy’s children moment
sorta spoke to me lol.
#BeenMarkedSelfishByThePope
There is one thing I always wait for more than a new Bachelor episode and that is its Bachelor Fantake’s recap
I thought they were bringing Hilary Duff in for a huge HIMYF promotion, as they’ve done in other seasons for movies/shows. I’m honestly so happy they went this route. It’s a loophole for promotion - makes people think “hmm what’s Hilary up to these days,” look it up, and BAM … new show in a few days.
P.S. I bet I’m more of a Hilary Duff super fan than Cassidy ;)
They had a long commercial of HIMYF right after her part on the show….guess it worked cause now I’m going to watch it haha
@@jenny_447 Oh, gotcha! I didn’t watch it live. Still, I like that the date wasn’t centered around it.
I'm fucking pissed at how Shanae treated Elizabeth. And I'm even more pissed at how none producers stepped forward to stop her. Or even edit those scenes out. They should've removed Shanae the moment she started making light of Elizabeth's ADHD. So much for caring about contestants mental health. Also Clayton sucks as a lead. He's like a lost puppy but not as cute to watch
Yes the content I have been waiting for. I can’t also wait for your reasoning as to why you think Rachel is the final pick.
Cassidy, I can't stand thee. Shenae, shashay away.
I loooove the SNL part… it goes great with the theme of the episode ! You’re a genius !
I broke the 100 meter dash world record running to this video
This was literally the best. I laughed so hard!
Ewww, I can’t believe he gave the rose to Cassidy after her aggressive kissing. I would be SO turned off by someone forcing themselves on me like that AND after her behavior at the party. Makes me very doubtful about his decision-making abilities. Yuck.
You really outdid yourself on this one. As always, thanks!
I don’t think I’ve ever seen two girls this unhinged on the show ever. And it doesn’t seem to be the editing
I don't know how Elizabeth handled Shanae being so disrespectful about her ADHD. I would have lost it if someone said that to me and I'm a pretty level headed person.
Why do Bachelor Men get over the top seasons, and the Bachelorette’s don’t?! Matt had a whole guest house, Clayton has a celebrity. I understand the whole Pandemic but no it’s not fair.
I think the way he says "appreciative" is a Midwestern thing because my boyfriend from Iowa says it like that too...
Really wish Elizabeth got a chance to explain this to Clayton, it's so frustrating that Shanae is just getting away with this
That Lizzie McGuire roast was the best thing I've seen so far this week 😂
Also, I really don't appreciate the way Clayton says 'appreciate."
I really want to know what people like Cassidy coming on the show are thinking. Like what is your goal? How are you going to talk about your person at home while having a mic on you and expect to get a good edit?
This introduction is my favorite so far!!! Love Red Flag from SNL
Your ability to differentiate these women is remarkable, the blondes all look the same, I cannot tell the villain and the nice girl apart lol
Yoooooo I can’t breathe! hahahaha Suzie “Hannah B.” ***inserts actual picture*** Oh sorry Suzie. I’m crying. You’re very funny.
I'm so excited to watch this! I love your content way more than the actual show.
The Bachelor specifically goes out of their way to look for girls exactly like Sha-Nae-Nae.
So if you wanna be on the Bachelor/Bachelorette: The more *EMOTIONAL DAMAGE* you are, the better your chances.
I love ur recaps! I am from Germany and don‘t have access to the whole episodes and therefore love watching your recapes, since the American Bachelor is so much more interesting than the german one
The Red Flag SNL part had be hollering.... omg
OMG the lizzie mcguirre insert!! 😂😂😂 its perfect!! love it 💖💖