6 Ways to AVOID the FRIEND ZONE in the PHILIPPINES

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @lindenh2014
    @lindenh2014 5 месяцев назад +25

    One good thing about the friendzone is that you can make it the no-peso zone.

    • @arizonafarang4034
      @arizonafarang4034 5 месяцев назад +3

      Even though most will try by complaining about certain predicaments they are in to get you to offer money.

    • @lindenh2014
      @lindenh2014 5 месяцев назад

      @@arizonafarang4034 Yes... if they are trying to get you to offer money, then that is arguably a good reason to make it a no-peso zone. The reason why I said: "you *can* make it...", is because it is an option that is open to you. Ultimately, it is up to you and how you feel. No two friend-zones are exactly the same, so all you can do is use your own judgement, in your own situation.
      There are a few things to consider, though. If she requests financial help on a fairly regular basis, and without reticence, then you could justifiably view that as disrespectful. She might well think of you as more of a source of cash, than a person with feelings.
      Also, if she knows you are attracted to her and she keeps you at a distance, it is likely because she is keeping her options open, or keeping herself available for someone she already knows.
      In a relatively short space of time, you could end up paying out the equivalent of hundreds of dollars, rescuing her from various "predicaments". Then all of a sudden, this guy could swoop in, take the #1 spot and make her unavailable to you. And he wouldn't have had to pay a single penny. In fact, she could end up using the money you gave her to pay for dates with him.
      Withholding pesos can actually be a great test of her friendship. If she values you, she will respect your decision, and continue being your friend. If she responds with coldness and distance, then you are better off without her, because she was never a friend in the first place.

  • @dacritter8397
    @dacritter8397 4 месяца назад +2

    This is true for dating anywhere in the world. Confidence, scarcity, and being a "rock" who can neither be pushed around nor womanipulated. Attraction is attraction everywhere (and women worldwide are attracted to the same essential traits). And, of course, being extra weird! If she's not highly attracted to you from the start -- move on immediately.

  • @aisforapple9968
    @aisforapple9968 4 месяца назад +2

    Yes black is definitely your color Reine!

  • @SpankyHanky-w5n
    @SpankyHanky-w5n 5 месяцев назад +1

    Your young and I'm 66 yrs old lived her 37 yrs you can come out of the friend zone but it takes a special skill with words I did a few times with great success. The best skill I have is I speak Tagalog fluently

  • @Kadaitchi
    @Kadaitchi 5 месяцев назад +3

    Reine, black is definitely your colour. You look so beautiful honestly.

  • @douglasmichel1000
    @douglasmichel1000 5 месяцев назад +1

    Reine the correct word for #3 is PRIORITIZE . Polarize means divide , PRIOITIZE means to make things a priority ( such as number one task ) . Good video dear, your English is excellent. I look forward to making mistakes in Tagalog.

    • @MickeyMousePark
      @MickeyMousePark 4 месяца назад

      i was confused about that also ..trying to figure out how polarization would fit...PRIORITIZE makes a lot more sense..

    • @douglasmichel1000
      @douglasmichel1000 4 месяца назад

      @@MickeyMousePark English is her second language. She does very well overall. A lot of Americans do not understand the meaning of this word.

  • @quentinbroom5844
    @quentinbroom5844 5 месяцев назад +1

    Reine spot on teacher! Likeable and humble.

  • @DawnJ86
    @DawnJ86 3 месяца назад

    Straight to The Forward !!! damn good advice ! 🍺

  • @markanthonypetra
    @markanthonypetra 5 месяцев назад +1

    Pretty insightful stuff young lady......good job Reine.

  • @sg1fan75
    @sg1fan75 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the video Reine.

  • @MitchC357
    @MitchC357 5 месяцев назад +1

    You are so right. You can’t get out of the friend zone.

  • @zerocarbdoc
    @zerocarbdoc 5 месяцев назад +3

    I'll dance dance dance, with my hands hands hands.......Wednesday Reine

  • @cpt.ahab_it7044
    @cpt.ahab_it7044 5 месяцев назад +1

    Always great advice.

  • @bobbruce4135
    @bobbruce4135 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great points. If you say you're there or arriving in a few days many will flake as their husband or BF doesn't want her to bang you and don't send money to her to meet you. Then bring her to a love-motel (4 hour with privacy). It's all P4P anyway.

  • @harryalan2460
    @harryalan2460 5 месяцев назад

    Much better, Reine! You kept it much simpler and shorter. Covering 10-12 tips is just too much. Not that I want to be your "friend", but I want to see you again! 🎉

  • @tubewatcher3100
    @tubewatcher3100 5 месяцев назад

    Good advice.

  • @Ravenswhisper
    @Ravenswhisper 5 месяцев назад +9

    Rules are fickle, if a hot stud shows up, the females will immediately throw out their rules at a whim.

    • @jaredolson6189
      @jaredolson6189 5 месяцев назад

      That's true but if the guy doesn't have game she will lose interest and leave it doesn't matter how attractive the guy is

  • @koufax174
    @koufax174 5 месяцев назад

    Excellent excellent excellent 🎊🎉Great content and presentation. You age 20x better than the Pea. ❤️

  • @GoldBunnyEntertainment
    @GoldBunnyEntertainment 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hair looks great, Reine!

  • @uBenji1234
    @uBenji1234 2 месяца назад

    Be clear about what you want and keep looking always. If she's not interested in being with you physically just keep looking elsewhere! Right?

  • @RayH-
    @RayH- 5 месяцев назад +3

    If you're in the friend zone date her friends

  • @johnv5156
    @johnv5156 5 месяцев назад +3

    If you're not occassionally hooking up with her, what's the point of even chatting? If I want a buddy, I will get a dog.

  • @bouchecaldwell330
    @bouchecaldwell330 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks

  • @tacothunder2298
    @tacothunder2298 5 месяцев назад

    I just noticed that is the same room and white board where Ace Bachelor Cool records his guide video too.

  • @CPO-Snarky
    @CPO-Snarky 5 месяцев назад +1

    Discretely displaying a wad of PHP is a very effective Friend Zone repellent.

  • @free2roam674
    @free2roam674 5 месяцев назад

    Best advice I have heard here is this, if you have to ask if a Filipina really likes you, she doesn't. If she really likes you she will make it very obvious. As Reine correctly says, just move on, there are lots of wonderful women here.

  • @BeeSans444
    @BeeSans444 5 месяцев назад

    American guys get to the Philippines and decide to live in tank tops, cargo shorts, and either flip-flops or Jesus sandals. It's so funny to me because Filipinas are typically into style and fashion. So yes, dress well!

  • @JamesHickman-g5c
    @JamesHickman-g5c 5 месяцев назад +1

    It seems almost impossible to get locked in the 'friend zone' here in the Philippines, at least if everything is working right (cough, cough).

  • @josephzito1574
    @josephzito1574 5 месяцев назад

    Reine is awesome listen to her . Joe

  • @danhunt3652
    @danhunt3652 5 месяцев назад

    🌴 🥥 Reina even if the woman is attracted to the foreigner, if he doesn’t feel the chemistry and is not attracted to her It’s not going to work most women can’t handle just being friends That’s why divorced foreigners are remaining single Let’s be real it’s a two-way relationship where you meet each other halfway where the woman has to stop trying to be too controlling What kind of guy shows up for a date and dirty clothes holes in their jeans, unshaven no shower and smelly He has no respect for himself or a female If the woman is going to be sloppy and dirty, she will never meet a nice guy 🌴 🥥 💕

  • @MaikiStarwood
    @MaikiStarwood 5 месяцев назад

    I don't care if she friend zones me, it's her loss. I'll move on & find someone else who truly appreciates me.
    Some women think they are the only woman in the world, well. you're not.
    There's millions more who want me, I'm the catch, not you.

  • @BigDogsRUSS
    @BigDogsRUSS 5 месяцев назад

    Great advice Reine! Love you Smart Girls! 😊

  • @jefferywinchester5830
    @jefferywinchester5830 5 месяцев назад +1

    How about if i emphasize how totally desperate i am??? That'll make her love me more right? right?

  • @narpasword
    @narpasword 3 месяца назад

    What does it look like when she's showing interest? What if you have been friends for a long time and her approaches seem somewhat flirty at times? Or if she comes to you asking for advice or other things? How can you tell she is interested?

  • @mauricepatterson9558
    @mauricepatterson9558 5 месяцев назад

    If one filipina is not interested another will be interested. Just move on and worry about your needs.

  • @johnteill_
    @johnteill_ 4 месяца назад

    Im not saying that your wrong...im just saying that these are the things to do with an immature girl....im WAY past these mind games...ill just move onto the next girl without any hesitation and live my life.

  • @gerardocordero5788
    @gerardocordero5788 5 месяцев назад

    Sometimes it’s an advantage to be in the friend zone

    • @chrism4008
      @chrism4008 5 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂
      No, no it's not

  • @nows1567
    @nows1567 5 месяцев назад +1

    Man, so complicated, I thought suckin' up to her family 'n send 5 k to her on GCash every now 'n then would do. I have to avoid becomin' "just friends" now too 😆, maybe I'll just get a maid instead 😁

  • @coffeebotography
    @coffeebotography 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for teaching me to lie😉

  • @Paulnhawes
    @Paulnhawes 4 месяца назад

    I’ve never been in the friend zone 😂😂😂

  • @AmericanExpatInThePhilippines
    @AmericanExpatInThePhilippines 5 месяцев назад

    Watching this video reminds me of 8th grade.

  • @chaunceyadams870
    @chaunceyadams870 5 месяцев назад +1

    I wonder how many guys reine has in the friend zone

  • @sting1111
    @sting1111 5 месяцев назад +1

    good topic but if you are in the friend zone you are a sad simp.

  • @JpPlemmons
    @JpPlemmons 4 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Rusty-Brown_
    @Rusty-Brown_ 5 месяцев назад +1

    ******** HELL I HAVE PLENTY OF FRIENDS I DONT NEED NO MORE

  • @pantherman8719
    @pantherman8719 5 месяцев назад

    You can remove yourself from the friend zone by talking to other girls

  • @PingYmsum
    @PingYmsum 5 месяцев назад

    If she never asks you for money and wants sex everyday your not in the "friend zone". Your in "marriage zone"!

  • @toolman2364
    @toolman2364 5 месяцев назад

    What is a "regular"? Does that mean someone who is a regular at the bar? Seeing the girl that works at the bar?

  • @Jaykp123aol
    @Jaykp123aol 5 месяцев назад

    Rene can we be friends 😂

  • @madpeace1764
    @madpeace1764 2 месяца назад

    When I Come To The Philippines
    And If I Happen To Run Into To YOU
    You Better NOT "Friend Zone" Me!!!!
    💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

  • @ss-sz3xi
    @ss-sz3xi 5 месяцев назад +1

    too hot for anything besides shorts and sleeveless shirts jaja I wore jeans and a ppolo 1 night and was soaked head to toe all night long.

  • @douglasmichel1000
    @douglasmichel1000 5 месяцев назад +4

    # 7 don't date a woman with a You Tube channel

    • @lindenh2014
      @lindenh2014 5 месяцев назад +1

      I will always associate that advice with Gio in The Philippines. He was the first person I heard say it. He had a girlfriend around that time who was a RUclipsr.

    • @pantherman8719
      @pantherman8719 5 месяцев назад +1

      They seem to always have a tattoo....lol

  • @JamesMitchell-iq5vy
    @JamesMitchell-iq5vy 5 месяцев назад +1

    WHERE THE COOKING VIDEOS?

  • @jesusblessthesecommentsamen
    @jesusblessthesecommentsamen 5 месяцев назад

    This is all bad advice I dated a girl like this when I was young she was a game player friend zoned her straight away then found a God fearing women!

  • @bobkelley8291
    @bobkelley8291 5 месяцев назад

    A man must have a friend zone.

  • @kvnndvn
    @kvnndvn 5 месяцев назад +1

    Where's Ace?

  • @brentsutherland6385
    @brentsutherland6385 5 месяцев назад

    Sleeves and a collar I can do.

  • @douglasmichel1000
    @douglasmichel1000 5 месяцев назад

    Polarize ? To polarize means to divide , I hope you meant to say bond.

    • @SmartGirlPhilippines
      @SmartGirlPhilippines  5 месяцев назад +3

      No. I mean polarize. You have to get her to decide if she likes you right away. If you don't polarize her quickly, you'll probably end up in the friend zone.

    • @douglasmichel1000
      @douglasmichel1000 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@SmartGirlPhilippines My dear lady the correct word is PRIORITIZE . It's ok English is not your first language.

    • @ryanbentley1322
      @ryanbentley1322 5 месяцев назад +1

      I, think polarise is fine to use in this situation dear man Douglas Michael

    • @chrism4008
      @chrism4008 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@douglasmichel1000no, you simply don't understand buddy

    • @douglasmichel1000
      @douglasmichel1000 5 месяцев назад

      @@chrism4008 My knowledge of Webster is superior to yours.

  • @GeoffsPhilsInfo
    @GeoffsPhilsInfo 5 месяцев назад

    Miss Rein are you single and free?

  • @darrelstevens9707
    @darrelstevens9707 5 месяцев назад

    Boracy?

  • @ProfessorCopperfield
    @ProfessorCopperfield 5 месяцев назад +2

    A waitress told me about the “don’t be a regular” one a long time ago.

    • @heofthebee
      @heofthebee 5 месяцев назад +1

      keep your attention on her best parts, you are not there to
      pump her ego-you are there to pump something else

  • @goatman3828
    @goatman3828 5 месяцев назад

    Your whole premise is flawed. You assume only beauty matters. It does not. What is on the inside is far more important than a pretty face. If all a man aims for is to get with pretty gals he will never find what he is looking for in a relationship.

  • @davidpuente1368
    @davidpuente1368 5 месяцев назад

    It’s to hot to dress up 🥵