I just had a meltdown and cried so much cause im going through this... and a few hours later this video pops up ! Subhanallah! Subhanallah! Subhanallah! Allah is always listening! Subhanallah!
What a coincidence is this SUBHAN ALLAH I’m having my marriage discussion at my home and this khutba came up to me right around the time. May Allah make marriage and all the other matters of life easy for everyone. AAMEEN
@Maruf Bin Murtuza we will, *In Shaa Allah* 😊 hang in there, man ☺ the reward for patience is well worth it 😁 and *Allah* purifies us with difficult trials 😊
I am aged 29 and wallahi i haven't learned anything better from my parents or teachers etc except for you ustad nouman ali khan wallahi you are one out if few that is letting me hold on to the rope of Allah indeed you are choosen and I can't imagine myself surviving without teacher like you ..may Allah bless you foremost and enable us to spend life and die in the most better state of our emaan .Ameen
I am Latina and I am American. Allah has brought me back to who I been all my life.This lecture can be on a Christian stain point too. because I can understand my family has brought me up on there religion and all there too, only to find out in life that I was doing things they asked me to do and it was all wrong. Love is something that should truly come from the heart. Amazing to hear he is on point.
Brothers and sisters, Men and Women the scriptures say 1 Corinthians 7 King James Version 7 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 6 But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment. 7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. 8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. 9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. 10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. 12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. 15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace. 16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife? 17 But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches. 18 Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised. 19 Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God. 20 Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called. 21 Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather. 22 For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord's freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ's servant. 23 Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men. 24 Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God. 25 Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful. 26 I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be. 27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. 28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you. 29 But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none; 30 And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not; 31 And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away. 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. 36 But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry. 37 Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well. 38 So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better. 39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. 40 But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God. Matthew 5:32 King James Version 32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
@@zurzakne-etra7069 If you are not an eye witness to his actions that you claim he has done. That what source or evidence do you have expect Online/inet news about him. Since we don't really know what happend, we must focus on what he is trying to teach ( Quran ) rather than his personal life.
@@zurzakne-etra7069 No, it was a false allegation which when investigated was deemed false. He did not tell ppl he was divorced (for privacy reasons) , so when he started looking for a new wife the rumour mills started. Please do the proper investigations before starting more rumours, or you will find yourself in that position.
My barrier was ethnicity... But alhamdulillah after some really tough decisions and praying keeping my trust in Allah it actually happened albeit haven't really got an extended family anymore but I got married to whom I wanted to
hey can you please tell me what has happened, id appreciate it because it would give others hope. I am going through the same thing and making so much dua every day to open my parent's hearts it's such a difficult test
Going through the same thing and for me it isn't even about race. It's all about family reputation. Culture is so messed up. May Allah azza wal guise them
@@hamssatoumaiga5085 but there's nothing much we can do about it because we are confined in our culture. But what astonishes me more is that they wanna practice Deen but tell them this then u see how they react..dating or going out with someone with dad's money then there's no problem but all the problems arises when it comes to Halal.
Our great religion made everything easy and simple for us but unfortunately we complicate things, may ALLAH lead us to the right path and grant us happiness in this life and afterlife
when I saw the title of the khutbah I remembered the hadith when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her religious commitment. Seek the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”
Reference? Plus, I strongly recommend you use the exact wording when quoting a hadith instead of just relying on the memory of what you heard in the past. Jazak Allah
@@blackbear1781 This hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4802) and Muslim (1466) from Abu Hurayrah and the actual words are ( تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لِأَرْبَعٍ : لِمَالِهَا ، وَلِحَسَبِهَا ، وَلِجَمَالِهَا ، وَلِدِينِهَا ، فَاظْفَرْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ ). I remembred it in arabic and I checked the English translation, in hadethe we can just say the meaning but we can't do that with the quarn, thanks for the advice brother
All you need is common sense values of understanding..and kindness towards another soul.. prophet married loved and had family even before he was called to prophethood.think above that.
@@mixulike1437 hadith compiled by hands of men, almost three hundred years after prophets death, it's an example of a source of knowledge, it's open to interpretation,
Someone should monitor the sound, nchaAllah, I think those videos are watched by lots of young muslims who sadly expect and are used to the quality sound. I know it sounds like I'm being a bratt, but I think it's important, because some might skip the video because of stuff like this. Thank you for this beautiful video one again bayyinah ❤
SubhanAllah, the other khutbas do have a pretty good sound quality. But we can bear with this one inshaAllah. Tbh i'm already thankful that they bring these khutbas online in the first place heheh May Allah reward them for it!!!
this is one of thousand videos from Bayyinah that had gone wrong with their audio. I always feel amazed with their quality, except this.. very disappointing.
being his follower, from fetus sheikh nouman to this... you'd realize how time flies so fast. he's one of my favorite islamic preachers and seerah tellers. May Allah gives him long life, and bless him fid Dunya wal Akhirah. Ameen.
JazakAllah i have three boys and my intentions are same InshAllah according to Islam I will get them married I am not going to make them my bank my relatives are already laughing at my intentions but Islam comes first
its very true many men also get depressed due to the constant battle inside them to supress the feeling and not getting into Haram. fighting ones nafs is hard.
there was a man who wanted to be serious with me and just because I am not the same nationality as him and not be able to speak his language, his parents not giving the blessing. this hurts me so much, we're Muslims and same human yet because of the nationality, things got so complicated. Life is easy but somehow people create rule over the religion. May Allah have people are more open-minded regardless to nationality, Aameen.
I understand, cuz I’ve also been in this situation but he’s from same country but different state (it’s a whole different story) he’s so serious that he propose me ( for Nikah) without even seeing me 🥺 Thou it’s on ig & am not someone who talks to boys an all but I said no cuz firstly am just high school passed & ik my parents never allowed me to get marry to someone from that state! Idk why people & culture made Nikah so hard in reality it’s very easy……!
You're not alone dear.. i feel u coz im in the same situation. But bear in mind that the power of dua would change your destiny.. everything will be okay at the end of the day.. Insha'Allah
@@ryuxalexei6096 thank you for your respond. Alhamdulillah I have found the love of my life and we got married this year. He's truly what I've been praying for. Indeed Allah's plan is better than anything else ☺️
Very relevant Kuthba.I am a divorced Muslim Bangali woman.I have to face lot of misconception s from surroundings.It seems we belongs to different ethnicity.Most embarrassing thing when people disrespect us.But our religion perfectly respect the women irrespective of status.
Subhan’Allahi wa bihamdihi Subhan’Allahil Azweem❤️ Subhan’Allah❤️ Alhamdu lellah❤️ Laa ilaaha illaa Allah❤️ Allahu Akbar❤️ Laa hawla wa laa kuwwata illaa billah❤️ May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household Aameen❤️
At some point living in the dfw so many single Muslims being confused by their parents and commit zina subuhanallah thx Shiekh and may Allah bring hedayah to us Ameen ya rabb
They need to make these videos word for word in every CULTURAL language so the elders who are part time forefathers worshippers can re education themselves in the TRUE RELIGION They are responsible for making the haram easy and halal difficult for all the generations after them!
@Labib al-Barr They get that from the analytics of the video. People don't need to comment their country. I too am from Bangladesh and this current wave of trend "..watching from whoCaresFromWherever" or, "..who's watching from someplaceNobodyCares" just disgusts me, specially when I see people of my own country doing it. It's idiotic and, seems to me, kinda attention seeking approach.
SOMEONE PLEASE ADD TURKISH SUBTITLES AND SEND THIS TO MY MOM especially the sentence at 15:42 "If Allah has no problem with it, then you and I don't get to have a problem with it" since she thinks that my future husband has to be turkish
Just a advice sister I am not saying you should you know hurt your parents but if you know the guy is alright and you checked him thoroughly because it's really important why because I have heard cases when love marraiges happen and the husband dose not give food to his wife. Trust me this happens look if you are sure of the guy go for it but then you made the decision and it's not like it's the end of that decision May ALLAH make you happy. ALL I am saying is think about the decision and if you think it is right decision for you go for it. Look It's completely halal and you should not be bound by your parents to do something haram.
Nouman bhai i respect you very much. May allah SWT bless you and your entire family in numerous ways. Your are one of the few muslim speakers out in this world who put effort and stress on subjects that need attention. I am going through the exact situation, Jazakallah Khair may allah reward you.
I’m a Muslim American that is from an interfaith marriage and I have struggled with my faith and this viewpoint and that there’s many scholars who have reassured my beliefs as made me be able to understand actual Islam and not cultural Islam
How can he know the exact conversations within my family. But this vedio has been made my opinion more strong in my family. Jajakallah khair NAK. May ALLAH subhanatala make easy for us to stay in HIS path.
Having that extra pair of eyes from fatherly oversight can't be emphasized enough. Get a good Wali first. He will also protect your interests even after you are married. GO SLOW. CHOOSE WISELY.
Asc sister may Allah grant you a pious husbund and at the time of marrige you wount luck one its the obligation of fellow Muslims in deed were all brothers
Aslam o alikum, I know someone who is in need of getting married. If you wish to let me be the mediator, please feel free to contact at azfarazi123@gmail.com. Walikum Salam
why it make me sad when i note that he got old love all my brothers and sisters May ALLAH (SWT) bless us with good iman and make his soldiers and gave us a good death ameen Asalamualaikum
Age in his case means wisdom. No reason to be sad. Masha'Allah. Alhamdulillah that Allah blessed us with Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan, Munti Menk, Yasir Khadhi and other brothers who we learn so much from. These are just the signs that Allah wanted us to understand before it's too late. That is another sign of His Mercy☝️
May Allah SWT make this issue easy for all the youth and grant the parents the ability to understand this important topic according to our religion Islam Ameen
Well, I am almost 36 still not married as well, I am also a practicing Muslim since childhood. Our time will come insha Allah, we have to put our faith and trust in Allah.
As Salam Alaikum brother Nouman JazakAllah khair for the khutba, plz also add/ discuss/ talk about the extravagant spending in weddings, decreasing barakah due to it. Encourage simplicity 🤲🏼🤲🏼
Desi culture is quite opposite to what Quran is saying and still, people put culture over Islam making nikah very difficult. May Allah make it easy for all of us and guide us on a straight path!
Salam evreone I want to ask someone a question . I was married 9 years with Muslim men in English law we no have Islamic marriage . After divorce we decided to married again this time Islamic marriage to doing Nikha But his father said we no can married until I'm going myself married and doing divorce and after married again . That is true if we no was have first time islamic marriage ?
14:30 Not on resume but prophets alayhimussalaam were blessed with very impressive physical qualities. Wouldn't be surprising if he was a very powerfully built and extremely handsome man, so there's that too.
Beautiful khutbah. May Allah make it easy for us and grant us a deeper understanding, amen. I'm excited for future khutbahs inshaAllah from Brother Nouman Ali Khan regarding marriage and the capability for it.
Its mind blowing how u always talk about my problems, makes me realize that r a lot of ppl r going thro the same thing im going thro. My family is exactly like that, they will not allow us to get married and i have 2 sisters who got pregnant out of wedlock bcuz of this issue. My family is ok with haram but when i wanted to get married they had so many demands from the man that he left and never came back. Only allah is keeping me steadfast, i cry to him and beg him to not let me fall into haram. And being in saudi arabia where u cant get married unless u have a wali and my father could care less about me. Im gonna have to go to a western non muslim country where i dont need my father or a brother to get married. As long as im here i wont be able to do the halal way and im left to commit haram and no one would care.
Please do your next lecture on that. Please let us know what are the qualities. “Are you capable” what do we need to look in that. Many family are ok with mixing of cultures and class. But the problem that comes in now is “Is he capable?” Yes I did hear the story of Musa (AS) that you just narrated so beautifully. Thank you for opening our minds for that. But Please do continue with this lecture in detail because we all need this
Allah swt made Them in pairs. He didn't make them in families. Children are ornaments in the Dunya. But husband and wife is forever. Romantic love is a gift from Allah swt.
I just had a meltdown and cried so much cause im going through this... and a few hours later this video pops up ! Subhanallah! Subhanallah! Subhanallah! Allah is always listening! Subhanallah!
Im 20 and turning 21... still going through alot.. may allah make it easy for all us muslims .. ameen
:)
Affan Islam lol that’s haram bro. Leave her alone
@@sohailalexander4681 how
I’m 24 and I’m going through the same thing.
He’s got grey hairs in his beard now, time flies. May Allah guide us
yes... i noticed that too. it's sad and scary because we need these 'aalims in our lives.
Busyra 'Afif indeed, especially now when everything is getting worse.
U pplz comments hv made me sad
ramsha malik sorry for that, I’ll make dua that you go to Jannah as compensation.
May Allah give him long life enabling him to keep guiding us .. 😭😭😭 we are sooo distracted and out of way of Allah's path
What a coincidence is this
SUBHAN ALLAH
I’m having my marriage discussion at my home and this khutba came up to me right around the time. May Allah make marriage and all the other matters of life easy for everyone. AAMEEN
I am getting married next month. Alhamdulillah
@@farehakhan5634 اميييين
*Allah* is the best of planners, *Allahoo Akbar* 😁
@Maruf Bin Murtuza we will, *In Shaa Allah* 😊 hang in there, man ☺ the reward for patience is well worth it 😁 and *Allah* purifies us with difficult trials 😊
Aamen Ya Rabb
May Allah Grant everyone a righteous spouse!! Pray that I do too. Ameen :)
Ameen 🤲
Amin ya Allah
ameen summa ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Appreciate how you highlight the problems of society. You always bring ease to the hearts. Allah doesnt burden anyone, its the people who do so.
@rabia you always pop up on these types of videos
Yes💯
I am aged 29 and wallahi i haven't learned anything better from my parents or teachers etc except for you ustad nouman ali khan wallahi you are one out if few that is letting me hold on to the rope of Allah indeed you are choosen and I can't imagine myself surviving without teacher like you ..may Allah bless you foremost and enable us to spend life and die in the most better state of our emaan .Ameen
I am Latina and I am American. Allah has brought me back to who I been all my life.This lecture can be on a Christian stain point too. because I can understand my family has brought me up on there religion and all there too, only to find out in life that I was doing things they asked me to do and it was all wrong. Love is something that should truly come from the heart. Amazing to hear he is on point.
Brothers and sisters, Men and Women the scriptures say
1 Corinthians 7
King James Version
7 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
6 But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.
7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.
8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I.
9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?
17 But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches.
18 Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised.
19 Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.
20 Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called.
21 Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather.
22 For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord's freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ's servant.
23 Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men.
24 Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.
25 Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.
26 I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be.
27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.
28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.
29 But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;
30 And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not;
31 And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away.
32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
36 But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.
37 Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well.
38 So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better.
39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
40 But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.
Matthew 5:32
King James Version
32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Really happy for your sister just giving you a advice please don't take offence in it but I think you should wear a scarf in this profile photo.
THIS MAN IS GOOOOOOOOLLLDDD!!!!
Gold
Gold, Jerry, Gold!
isn't this the guy that tricked women into marrying them? can't trust those who pretend to be pious these days
@@zurzakne-etra7069 If you are not an eye witness to his actions that you claim he has done. That what source or evidence do you have expect Online/inet news about him. Since we don't really know what happend, we must focus on what he is trying to teach ( Quran ) rather than his personal life.
@@zurzakne-etra7069 No, it was a false allegation which when investigated was deemed false. He did not tell ppl he was divorced (for privacy reasons) , so when he started looking for a new wife the rumour mills started. Please do the proper investigations before starting more rumours, or you will find yourself in that position.
My barrier was ethnicity... But alhamdulillah after some really tough decisions and praying keeping my trust in Allah it actually happened albeit haven't really got an extended family anymore but I got married to whom I wanted to
hey can you please tell me what has happened, id appreciate it because it would give others hope. I am going through the same thing and making so much dua every day to open my parent's hearts it's such a difficult test
Going through the same thing and for me it isn't even about race. It's all about family reputation. Culture is so messed up. May Allah azza wal guise them
@@sugarchick09 same here :(
@@lubna7653did it work out sister? Going through the same rn 😔
A lecture like this very much needed, every time I listen to NAK I wish my parents understood English..
I can feel u
😂😂😂
So true
Same here
@@hamssatoumaiga5085 but there's nothing much we can do about it because we are confined in our culture. But what astonishes me more is that they wanna practice Deen but tell them this then u see how they react..dating or going out with someone with dad's money then there's no problem but all the problems arises when it comes to Halal.
Our great religion made everything easy and simple for us but unfortunately we complicate things, may ALLAH lead us to the right path and grant us happiness in this life and afterlife
when I saw the title of the khutbah I remembered the hadith when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her religious commitment. Seek the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”
Reference?
Plus, I strongly recommend you use the exact wording when quoting a hadith instead of just relying on the memory of what you heard in the past.
Jazak Allah
@@blackbear1781 This hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4802) and Muslim (1466) from Abu Hurayrah and the actual words are ( تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لِأَرْبَعٍ : لِمَالِهَا ، وَلِحَسَبِهَا ، وَلِجَمَالِهَا ، وَلِدِينِهَا ، فَاظْفَرْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ ). I remembred it in arabic and I checked the English translation, in hadethe we can just say the meaning but we can't do that with the quarn, thanks for the advice brother
All you need is common sense values of understanding..and kindness towards another soul.. prophet married loved and had family even before he was called to prophethood.think above that.
@@mixulike1437 love how you replied... mashallah may Allah reward and have mercy on you ameen.
@@mixulike1437 hadith compiled by hands of men, almost three hundred years after prophets death, it's an example of a source of knowledge, it's open to interpretation,
we need one NAK in every community❤️Love❤️Nouman❤️Ali❤️Khan💜
His old video on marriage saved my life. Allah helped me so much and made him , his lecture , my help. This is amazing.
Someone should monitor the sound, nchaAllah, I think those videos are watched by lots of young muslims who sadly expect and are used to the quality sound. I know it sounds like I'm being a bratt, but I think it's important, because some might skip the video because of stuff like this. Thank you for this beautiful video one again bayyinah ❤
Good point the background noise was distracting.
And all the static between his voice and the emission.
SubhanAllah, the other khutbas do have a pretty good sound quality. But we can bear with this one inshaAllah. Tbh i'm already thankful that they bring these khutbas online in the first place heheh May Allah reward them for it!!!
this is one of thousand videos from Bayyinah that had gone wrong with their audio. I always feel amazed with their quality, except this.. very disappointing.
@@rikhwanuddin yes I know I dont want to critisize negatively tho its just like that lol I LOVE BAYYINAH
What a co-incidence, I just finished reading Surah Nur and also praying to convince the guy's family to approve of me
being his follower, from fetus sheikh nouman to this... you'd realize how time flies so fast. he's one of my favorite islamic preachers and seerah tellers.
May Allah gives him long life, and bless him fid Dunya wal Akhirah. Ameen.
The 44 dislikes were probably from desi parents worried that he’s gonna brainwash their kids 😂
Lets not be racist
Isn't that racist against Desi people? smh
I’m desi I’m not offended
Not Desi but Prophet's lovers
Whats desi?
Islam is beautiful pure simplicity and very straightforward. 🤲🏻❤️ People should not complicated but they do.
I’ve waited years to see Numan look like this. MashAllah
You are a huge inspiration for me sir. Your lectures really motivated me to open a channel on islamic contents. kepp praying for me & my family
khutbas of Ustadh Nouman are no coincidence, it's just that he KNOWS what's going on in today's Islamic word really well.
I'm happy to see him like every week, jazakAllahu khairan akhi for your reminder.
JazakAllah i have three boys and my intentions are same InshAllah according to Islam I will get them married I am not going to make them my bank my relatives are already laughing at my intentions but Islam comes first
Good for you, i wish you all the best.
NAK best Quran teacher ever
He can't even pronounce ain or ghain lol
RealDeal441 don’t advise her in front of everyone.
I thought that this is a new style of Ustad Nouman, then I realized that the style relates to the topic. Outstanding lecture, masyaa Allah 💐
i will make dua in tahajjud for every single stuck in this bad fitna age too get best spouses who will be the coolness of their eyes ameen
A much needed Khutba indeed. May Allah swt protect you and your family
I really like this man he is honest in his speech
its very true many men also get depressed due to the constant battle inside them to supress the feeling and not getting into Haram. fighting ones nafs is hard.
there was a man who wanted to be serious with me and just because I am not the same nationality as him and not be able to speak his language, his parents not giving the blessing.
this hurts me so much, we're Muslims and same human yet because of the nationality, things got so complicated.
Life is easy but somehow people create rule over the religion.
May Allah have people are more open-minded regardless to nationality, Aameen.
I understand, cuz I’ve also been in this situation but he’s from same country but different state (it’s a whole different story) he’s so serious that he propose me ( for Nikah) without even seeing me 🥺
Thou it’s on ig & am not someone who talks to boys an all but I said no cuz firstly am just high school passed & ik my parents never allowed me to get marry to someone from that state! Idk why people & culture made Nikah so hard in reality it’s very easy……!
You're not alone dear.. i feel u coz im in the same situation. But bear in mind that the power of dua would change your destiny.. everything will be okay at the end of the day.. Insha'Allah
@@ryuxalexei6096 thank you for your respond. Alhamdulillah I have found the love of my life and we got married this year. He's truly what I've been praying for. Indeed Allah's plan is better than anything else ☺️
My Gosh this is so on point! I wish albanian people would understand this lecture!!!! May Allah always bless you with His light.
Very relevant Kuthba.I am a divorced Muslim Bangali woman.I have to face lot of misconception s from surroundings.It seems we belongs to different ethnicity.Most embarrassing thing when people disrespect us.But our religion perfectly respect the women irrespective of status.
I am never going to explain my faith in Allah ever. It’s between me and my Rahmanur Rahim! May Allah bless you with knowledge and understanding.
Will we get married with shia ?? Plz answer
Maa shaa Allah.
This is a nice lecture, and yow, by the way, nice swagg sheikh.
Alright. I'm gonna stroll into the masjid next time with my cowboy hat. Hahaha. Kidding
Wonderful topic !! MashaAllah !!
😂 😂
Subhan’Allahi wa bihamdihi Subhan’Allahil Azweem❤️
Subhan’Allah❤️
Alhamdu lellah❤️
Laa ilaaha illaa Allah❤️
Allahu Akbar❤️
Laa hawla wa laa kuwwata illaa billah❤️
May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household Aameen❤️
Is it because of my love for Ustaad or he actually talks gems? ❤
I was also wondering the same!!🙄
whats talking gems mean??
I was in tears minutes ago cause of this and all the sudden the solution pops up alhamdulillah I got comfort ♥️...
SubhanAllah may Allah give us more scholars like you in every community..Ameen
At some point living in the dfw so many single Muslims being confused by their parents and commit zina subuhanallah thx Shiekh and may Allah bring hedayah to us Ameen ya rabb
بالتوفيق للجميع
بارك الله لي ولكم في القرآن العظيم ونفعني وإياكم بما فيه من الآيات وذكر الحكيم
MashaaAllah. Great khutbah from our Ustadh. May Allah grant him and his family Jannah. Aamiiin
Like the new style!!
Abduwahab Abdikadir yeah new style bro
They need to make these videos word for word in every CULTURAL language so the elders who are part time forefathers worshippers can re education themselves in the TRUE RELIGION
They are responsible for making the haram easy and halal difficult for all the generations after them!
Pique NY part time forefathers 😂
Exactly 👍
💯 percent true
The sisters also face temptation at the university.
ofc all humans do but its harder for men than women.
Yes the ayah before the marriage ayah states both men and women should guard their gazes. It therefore applies equally to men and women
Olivia Rodrigues that’s why in Jesus, we have power over sin.
Seek the truth and the truth will set u free what power?
athirah sufyan power to say no to sin and walk in holiness. Without the Holy Spirit in us, it’s our nature to walk in sin.
Masha Allah Nouman sir Allah bless you with Jannah Ameen
Brother NOman you are the best Teacher in the world.... Always Love from Pakistan, Real Proud of Pakistan.
Watching from Bangladesh.
Me too
Good to know that you are watching. but from where, who care?
@Labib al-Barr They get that from the analytics of the video. People don't need to comment their country. I too am from Bangladesh and this current wave of trend "..watching from whoCaresFromWherever" or, "..who's watching from someplaceNobodyCares" just disgusts me, specially when I see people of my own country doing it. It's idiotic and, seems to me, kinda attention seeking approach.
Thank you Nouman! GOD BLESS YOU
Aameen
You are the best. May Allah grant you jannatul ferdaws. Ameen
Aameen
Jazakallah for always keeping us grounded in our Islam, no matter how hectic life gets
Ustad ???
I Love You For Allah❤❤☝
May Allah Blessing You InhaAllah
From Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩 To🇵🇰🇺🇲
Aameen Ya Rabb ul Aalameen!
May Allah Make it easy for us to follow Halal instead of Haram and Bless us with the Best... Aaameen Ya Rabb ul Aalameen!
im going through this, may allah (swt) make it ease for us 😭
Very interesting post. I support marrying who you love and want to live the rest of your life with. Thank you for this post.
Yaa Allah grant janahtul Firdous to my ustad
Ya Allah., a thoughtful husband like brother Nouman Ali Khan. Ya Allah please🧕🧔🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🏼
SOMEONE PLEASE ADD TURKISH SUBTITLES AND SEND THIS TO MY MOM
especially the sentence at 15:42 "If Allah has no problem with it, then you and I don't get to have a problem with it" since she thinks that my future husband has to be turkish
And arabe one 😭 same situation
Just a advice sister I am not saying you should you know hurt your parents but if you know the guy is alright and you checked him thoroughly because it's really important why because I have heard cases when love marraiges happen and the husband dose not give food to his wife. Trust me this happens look if you are sure of the guy go for it but then you made the decision and it's not like it's the end of that decision May ALLAH make you happy. ALL I am saying is think about the decision and if you think it is right decision for you go for it. Look It's completely halal and you should not be bound by your parents to do something haram.
May Allah guide us all through these troubling times.
Ustad Nouman should also do this lecture in Urdu to get the message across to desi parents. Can totally understand if you can't.
SubhanAllah Alhamdulillah AllahuAkbar
🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽
Nouman bhai i respect you very much. May allah SWT bless you and your entire family in numerous ways. Your are one of the few muslim speakers out in this world who put effort and stress on subjects that need attention. I am going through the exact situation, Jazakallah Khair may allah reward you.
15:00 onwards ... thankyou for saying it out loud ! More emphasis needs to be on this.
Much needed!
I’m a Muslim American that is from an interfaith marriage and I have struggled with my faith and this viewpoint and that there’s many scholars who have reassured my beliefs as made me be able to understand actual Islam and not cultural Islam
@Romeo •12 years ago• do your research. Being a Muslim woman is liberating.
@Romeo •12 years ago• Did you watch the video at all? It’s not up to you, only up to Allah.
Nouman ali khan is such a wonderful sheikh . Lots of love for my brother
When he said "They don't have a home to their name, they don't have a property to their name, they have nothing..."
I felt that
You have one thing. That could be guidance. May be that's why you are guided for this Khutbah....
How can he know the exact conversations within my family. But this vedio has been made my opinion more strong in my family.
Jajakallah khair NAK.
May ALLAH subhanatala make easy for us to stay in HIS path.
Dear Bayyinah Team
Please work on audio sound quality it's hard to hear properly
Bayyinah team doesn't approve free subscription for bayyinah tv I applied for twice while ago
Just sent this to my family group.
JazakAllah Khair, Ustad Noman Ali Khan♥️
Masha’Allah TabarakAllah Ustadh Nouman the turban looks beautiful. Jazakallah khair for your very beneficial talks
Well, I am looking for a husband right now and I don't have a wali because I am a revert. May Allah help us all.
Mami Mom
:)
Your Wali would be your Qazi (Muslim judge) or Haakim (Muslim ruler)
Having that extra pair of eyes from fatherly oversight can't be emphasized enough. Get a good Wali first. He will also protect your interests even after you are married. GO SLOW. CHOOSE WISELY.
Asc sister may Allah grant you a pious husbund and at the time of marrige you wount luck one its the obligation of fellow Muslims in deed were all brothers
Aslam o alikum, I know someone who is in need of getting married. If you wish to let me be the mediator, please feel free to contact at azfarazi123@gmail.com.
Walikum Salam
why it make me sad when i note that he got old
love all my brothers and sisters May ALLAH (SWT) bless us with good iman and make his soldiers and gave us a good death ameen
Asalamualaikum
Jamsheer Jamsheer
wallah Akhi. time flies..i have also noticed this ;(
Alhamdulillah he is aging while creating a good strong legacy. That's the premium way of living in this world mashaaAllah, may Allah accept it.
@@Butterflyefffect Masha Allah Ameen
@@khanjaane9446 Masha Allah
Age in his case means wisdom. No reason to be sad. Masha'Allah. Alhamdulillah that Allah blessed us with Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan, Munti Menk, Yasir Khadhi and other brothers who we learn so much from. These are just the signs that Allah wanted us to understand before it's too late. That is another sign of His Mercy☝️
May Allah SWT make this issue easy for all the youth and grant the parents the ability to understand this important topic according to our religion Islam Ameen
I am 30 still not married, and I am a practicing Muslim since my childhood.
Well, I am almost 36 still not married as well, I am also a practicing Muslim since childhood. Our time will come insha Allah, we have to put our faith and trust in Allah.
Ma sha Allah! May Allah keep you steadfast and protected from fitnahs.
This Khuthba Is Too meaningful MASHA ALLAH I'll memories it inSha Allah
As Salam Alaikum brother Nouman
JazakAllah khair for the khutba, plz also add/ discuss/ talk about the extravagant spending in weddings, decreasing barakah due to it. Encourage simplicity
🤲🏼🤲🏼
Already delivered a speech on this
Always a beautiful reminder from NAK. May Allah bless.
Desi culture is quite opposite to what Quran is saying and still, people put culture over Islam making nikah very difficult. May Allah make it easy for all of us and guide us on a straight path!
Yaa Salam! Can't tell how beautifully this matter is explicitly explained.
Ma shaa Allah!!
Jazakhumullahu khair🤝🏽!!!
Salam evreone I want to ask someone a question . I was married 9 years with Muslim men in English law we no have Islamic marriage . After divorce we decided to married again this time Islamic marriage to doing Nikha But his father said we no can married until I'm going myself married and doing divorce and after married again . That is true if we no was have first time islamic marriage ?
14:30 Not on resume but prophets alayhimussalaam were blessed with very impressive physical qualities.
Wouldn't be surprising if he was a very powerfully built and extremely handsome man, so there's that too.
Where did you hear that?
Beautiful Lecture and a Nice Turban. Masha Allah
Thank you ustadz nouman,, please pray for me to meet my imam soon and get married. Hehe,, luv! 💜🤗
Aaminn...
Beautiful khutbah. May Allah make it easy for us and grant us a deeper understanding, amen. I'm excited for future khutbahs inshaAllah from Brother Nouman Ali Khan regarding marriage and the capability for it.
When there's bâraka in a khutba, it benefits you. There's a change in your heart.
You’re so funny ustadh.....love your khutbahs, with so much meaning in sentences which sound so ordinary and simple.
MashaAllah Jazzak Allah khair
Its mind blowing how u always talk about my problems, makes me realize that r a lot of ppl r going thro the same thing im going thro. My family is exactly like that, they will not allow us to get married and i have 2 sisters who got pregnant out of wedlock bcuz of this issue. My family is ok with haram but when i wanted to get married they had so many demands from the man that he left and never came back. Only allah is keeping me steadfast, i cry to him and beg him to not let me fall into haram. And being in saudi arabia where u cant get married unless u have a wali and my father could care less about me. Im gonna have to go to a western non muslim country where i dont need my father or a brother to get married. As long as im here i wont be able to do the halal way and im left to commit haram and no one would care.
Sorry for your situation. Are you Somali?
Please do your next lecture on that.
Please let us know what are the qualities. “Are you capable” what do we need to look in that. Many family are ok with mixing of cultures and class. But the problem that comes in now is “Is he capable?” Yes I did hear the story of Musa (AS) that you just narrated so beautifully. Thank you for opening our minds for that.
But Please do continue with this lecture in detail because we all need this
He knows who He created 😭😭😭❤❤
Million thanks may allah grant us all jannah ammeeenn
Excellent reminder - who would have guessed this would be a popular video...
I'm always amazed by your Arabic, your pronunciation is so good
All the teens instantly clicked 😂
Yeyy🤤😂
Sulaiman Westbrook 😂
I really did xD
This is not something to laugh about its a serious problem
Yea lol
what a beautiful sermon brother nouman jezeakhillahu kheyren jeza
Allah swt made Them in pairs. He didn't make them in families. Children are ornaments in the Dunya. But husband and wife is forever. Romantic love is a gift from Allah swt.
Can't wait for next week, Nouman Ali is the best
Subhan Allah your lecture very nice