i know this vid has a looot of info but i learned a lot this year & i hope i can help you loves in some type of way with this vid:)) i love you guys sm
1. Trust your gut 2. Not everyone has the same heart as you 3. Change your behaviour towards someone vs. changing them 4. Know your treatment 5. Remove the toxic/fakeness from your life 6. Be truthful/say how you feel 7. Be appreciative of your parents 8. Do what you want to do 9. Live everyday like it's your last 10. Don't care what people think of you 11. Wake up early 12. It's your life, be there for yourself! (i think i might've missed a few..?)
harkirat k saying how you feel isn't easier said then done and it's no ones business to know how I feel,but my business to know how I feel every single day.
harkirat k I didn't mean to snap,but it's just that I am really tired of people wasting my time and not even making an effort to keep in touch with me.
OMG I'm being a bit silly here but I can't believe I've had this many like on s comment !!! Yayyyy would anyone like to subscribe to my channel aswell in thinking to post some vids maybe not sure and I still ly MEL!!!n xxx
THIS VIDEO JUST MADE ME LOVE YOU LIKE 10 TIMES MORE (if that's even possible) but I love how much you've grown this past year it really shows how amazing you really are as a person ❤️❤️❤️
Mel I literally love u sm , and it's kinda crazy to say but u have inspired me and changed my life and made me realize sm it's kinda weird to think how a random person on the internet can change ur mentality on life ily b 💛
U helped me find out who I was, ur literally one of the reason I went vegan 😂 Mel u r legit one of the dopest RUclipsrs ever ur so chill and genuine and I love it , I cannot stress this enough but you made me just realize sm and ahhhh I'm crying now but u r by far my favorite RUclipsr ily again !!
watching this hours after losing my great grandfather and i couldn't agree more with some of the things you've said in this video. tell people you love them & live every day like it's your last. i really needed this video today
Mel, I know that you won't see this, but I'm so glad that you are who you are. You are so special and you should never forget that. Thanks for being awesome and so genuinely real.
i've watched you grow into such an unbelievably amazing person inside and out. i'm so so proud of you and everything you've achieved. you truly deserve everything you get. keep being you. ♥
You look beautiful Mel, loved the video, loved the messaged you shared throughout the video, this a video everyone SHOULD WATCH. you should do a high school advice video
Honestly, this video really spoke to me. I saw in my mind what I should be doing in my head. So I started off small. I turned off notifications for social media. (Not deleting) I'm just going to let it be there for when I want it to be there, not when the notifications tell me to be there. I've started working out, eating healthier, and my self respect is so much higher.
Ilysm mel literally you are such an amazing wonderful person you inspire me to be a better person each day keep doing what you are doing you are such a GORGEOUS person you brighten my day I love you mel💕
Mel lately I have noticed that I haven't been happy and this video helped me realize that I need to stop putting everyone before me ,not over think everything,say what I'm feeeling,and just enjoy life ..Thank you so much
Mel, you literally have no idea how much of an impact you have made in my life. I'm about to turn 17 and this video helped me realize so much. I've been watching you for a long time and every time that you upload I get so excited. I love you so so much and keep doing you. Congrats on your new apartment!!
Omg i love mel so much she says like a really serious truthful sentence and then adds bro to the end of it. Just love that mel brings herself and her personality into everything, especially her vids!!
I love you so much Mel 💕 I've been here since the beginning and I will ALWAYS support you. You are beautiful and an amazing person ✨ thank you for always being such an inspiration. I LOVE YOUUUU
Mel, I have been watching your videos for over a year now. In that time I have become inspired to love myself more, love and appreciate my life more. I hope you truly know how much you matter to me and how you have given me so much advice about everything. Thank you Mel for being you.
I love this new Mel,you've changed a lot (in a positive way) and you seem really happy right now. Btw i really liked the video,even if i'm younger,i can relate to a lot of stuff that i learn in this 15 years.I know that i have also a lot to learn yet but i think that all this time that i passed lately hangin' out with myself has thought me a lot.
mel you're beautiful inside and out! you're like the friend I always wanted, everything is o my God so good your mind is like art girl! I will love to talk with you someday and have deep conversations about everything! keep doing what u do cuz u girl are amazin'!
wow. literally wow. i'm blown away noebne i'm honestly so happy that you use the audience and platform that you have to spread these kinds of energy. you have 1.3 million people who you can influence on becoming a better person and living a better life and the fact that you do so is absolutely amazing. i love you for it
I have to say that this video made me realize alot of things omg I love you sooo much your the best youtuber ever like your so different and real!♡♡♡♡much love
Ahh I'm so glad that you could get your apartment and idk. I can tell the opportunities you get from RUclips really change you in a GOOD way and have helped you find who you are. And your confidence level has grown. So happy for you honestly
i love how despite how big you're channel is getting, you still do things to show appreciation to your fans/subscribers :) ps. you remind me so much of jojo!!
"it's hard to care for someone when you don't care for yourself" that makes perfect sense and is so true because you think like why would i go out of my way to do this for this person when i wouldn't even do it for myself
This video really felt like Mel wasn't even talking through a video but as if she were right here just talking like friends do and I feel like not many people can achieve that on yt through a camera so thanks sm!!!!
I really needed to hear this at the moment so thank you for your words, I relate and understand with what you talked about and I'm really glad you made this video and used your platform to talk about important and meaningful topics that can help others, even if not everyone agrees with one another's opinions and views of life and just other things we can all learn from other people and our differences, so thank you
You're absolutely wise beyond your years, Mel. This video was incredibly insightful, coming from someone in her 20s. Thank you for being such a great role model and friend to your viewers! Much love xx
You have literally no idea of how much this video has helped me out and is going to help me out in the future! Thank you so much, Mel! You are really pure sunshine!❤
MEL DO A VIDEO OR IN A Q&A TALK ABOUT HOW MAKE FRIENDS AND KEEP STRONG BONDS WITH THEM my friends always betray me or stop talking to me or sometimes we just drift apart and i literally only have 1 friend but she lives on the other side of the country
This is my favorite video of Mel's so far. At first, when I saw this video in my subscriptions, I was like"nah it sounds too cheesy". However, now that I've just finished watching it, it opened my eyes and made me understand more about life. Thank you Mel for this video
mel you are such a beauty, such an inspiration and role model and honestly one of the kindest and most humble youtuber i watch. please keep making videos for us because they make me soo happy, ily💫
I want to thank you so much just for being you and making this video, I'm 17 going to be 18 in October and ive been going through such a hard time and I just feel like I haven't been able to get a break from it all like bad things just come left and right but just listening to everything you had to say really has a huge impact on me d gives me more hope in life and for that I thank you soooooo much and I I love you so much
I don't know you personally (like in real life or anything), but I've watched your videos for a little bit over a year now. And from the past months I can tell that you've grown so much as a person, and I am just so proud of you. And I just felt the need to share that with you, so you do you boo! ❤
Everything you said is literally me!! I wish we could be friends in real life and talk about our struggles and stuff cause I swear we are the same person. Love u
I literally wrote my college essay on how much I believed making other people happy made me happy and it's wild how much I've grown & changed since then. I feel totally different about that now and I think a lot of that has to do with my personal growth. I don't see people & situations the same as I did before and I let go of some really good friends to put myself first and it was really hard for me but like Mel said, at the end of the day I just had to go with my gut & what felt right and put myself first so I could focus on my own growth. Mel gets it #leogang
Mel you are one of my favorite RUclipsrs. You are so pure as a person and are an amazing person. You are so beautiful. You inspire me too, thank you for being a role model and inspiration
I loved this video, everything you said really hit me hard because I've been caring about what people think about me and telling myself I'm not pretty and spending so much time on social media looking at what other people look like instead of focusing on my self and dealing with the people who care for me the most I loved this video thank you for making it😊💘
Thank you so much for uploading this video.I've been learning all of this stuff specially recently when I realized that I'm just not getting any happiness from all the love that I've been putting out to people maybe I was putting it out the wrong way but people werent treating me like I was supposed to be treated because I was too good to them and so they were taking advantage of it. You have a good rest of your day now!
It's crazy how proud I am of you :') you're my favorite person on this world. literally. thank u for this & 4 being such a light on my life. i love you so much 💞
LITERALLY FEEL THE SAME WAY. I learned so much this year, which just so happens to be the year I turned 17 as well haha. I'm sure there'll more to learn when I turn 18 and come full circle. Loved the video Mel!
i know this vid has a looot of info but i learned a lot this year & i hope i can help you loves in some type of way with this vid:)) i love you guys sm
I love how honest you were in this video! It really means a lot to me!
Mel Joy I love you so much!!
gosh it really makes you think i mean what if i die tomorrow? how would i have wanted to live today?
we love you toooo!!!💕💕🖤🖤🖤💖💖💖💖
Love it
1. Trust your gut
2. Not everyone has the same heart as you
3. Change your behaviour towards someone vs. changing them
4. Know your treatment
5. Remove the toxic/fakeness from your life
6. Be truthful/say how you feel
7. Be appreciative of your parents
8. Do what you want to do
9. Live everyday like it's your last
10. Don't care what people think of you
11. Wake up early
12. It's your life, be there for yourself!
(i think i might've missed a few..?)
Yeah you did skip/miss a few
harkirat k she has 17 buu
harkirat k saying how you feel isn't easier said then done and it's no ones business to know how I feel,but my business to know how I feel every single day.
harkirat k I already do some of the things listed,but I don't do all of them at all.
harkirat k I didn't mean to snap,but it's just that I am really tired of people wasting my time and not even making an effort to keep in touch with me.
U DONT EVEN KNOW HOW EXCITED I GOT WHEN I SAW U UPLOADED
AHH ILYYY
LOL I WASNT EXPECTING THAT ILYYLYLY
"the year of like... realising stuff" HAHAAHHA PEEP KYLIE REFERENCE I LOVE YOU MEL LMAO
Heyit'smaya IT REALLY WAS DOE 😩 2016/2017 man
I SAID IT AT THE SAME TIME AS HER
Luv u Mel ur so inspirational ur name Joy really spreads that word around the channel 😊😊😊😊😊😊
stawp you're so sweet thank you sm love
Mel Joy eeekkk np Mel !!! 💕💓ly xxx
OMG I'm being a bit silly here but I can't believe I've had this many like on s comment !!! Yayyyy would anyone like to subscribe to my channel aswell in thinking to post some vids maybe not sure and I still ly MEL!!!n xxx
Omg Mel's personality from all of her vids made me subscribe and become my fave RUclipsr
You're so pretty
I love ur username
same^^
THIS VIDEO JUST MADE ME LOVE YOU LIKE 10 TIMES MORE (if that's even possible) but I love how much you've grown this past year it really shows how amazing you really are as a person ❤️❤️❤️
so so true :)) alsoo just subbed to u! sub back pls xx
wow people are literally so negative but i loved this vid so much, like how honest and genuine you were,,, lots of love
your beauty shines brighter in each new video, ily
you're such an amazing, beautiful, and pure person mel
who else wants to see an apartment tour?😍
savannah nicole yess
kate hamilton I've just subbed to you
Pleaseeeeeeee
MEEEE
PLEASE
Mel I literally love u sm , and it's kinda crazy to say but u have inspired me and changed my life and made me realize sm it's kinda weird to think how a random person on the internet can change ur mentality on life ily b 💛
U helped me find out who I was, ur literally one of the reason I went vegan 😂 Mel u r legit one of the dopest RUclipsrs ever ur so chill and genuine and I love it , I cannot stress this enough but you made me just realize sm and ahhhh I'm crying now but u r by far my favorite RUclipsr ily again !!
Mel your hair always looks gorgeous!
watching this hours after losing my great grandfather and i couldn't agree more with some of the things you've said in this video. tell people you love them & live every day like it's your last. i really needed this video today
Honestly you're such a beautiful person in & out and I'm really excited to see more of your apartment vlogs 💯💁
Mel, I know that you won't see this, but I'm so glad that you are who you are. You are so special and you should never forget that. Thanks for being awesome and so genuinely real.
I feel like all of the things she is saying r so helpful because they literally can fit in any situation, thx so much mel❤️
i've watched you grow into such an unbelievably amazing person inside and out. i'm so so proud of you and everything you've achieved. you truly deserve everything you get. keep being you. ♥
You look beautiful Mel, loved the video, loved the messaged you shared throughout the video, this a video everyone SHOULD WATCH. you should do a high school advice video
Honestly, this video really spoke to me. I saw in my mind what I should be doing in my head. So I started off small. I turned off notifications for social media. (Not deleting) I'm just going to let it be there for when I want it to be there, not when the notifications tell me to be there. I've started working out, eating healthier, and my self respect is so much higher.
Ilysm mel literally you are such an amazing wonderful person you inspire me to be a better person each day keep doing what you are doing you are such a GORGEOUS person you brighten my day I love you mel💕
Mel lately I have noticed that I haven't been happy and this video helped me realize that I need to stop putting everyone before me ,not over think everything,say what I'm feeeling,and just enjoy life ..Thank you so much
I can't believe your 18😱😱😱 you definitely have become a mature young adult and I can't wait to see where life takes you
Mel, you literally have no idea how much of an impact you have made in my life. I'm about to turn 17 and this video helped me realize so much. I've been watching you for a long time and every time that you upload I get so excited. I love you so so much and keep doing you. Congrats on your new apartment!!
I relate to you so much Mel.
Mel Joy love you!
Love You Mel
Omg i love mel so much she says like a really serious truthful sentence and then adds bro to the end of it. Just love that mel brings herself and her personality into everything, especially her vids!!
I love you so much Mel 💕 I've been here since the beginning and I will ALWAYS support you. You are beautiful and an amazing person ✨ thank you for always being such an inspiration. I LOVE YOUUUU
Mel, I have been watching your videos for over a year now. In that time I have become inspired to love myself more, love and appreciate my life more. I hope you truly know how much you matter to me and how you have given me so much advice about everything. Thank you Mel for being you.
This video made me realize a lot and now I wanna do all these things! Thanks beautiful
You're honestly the most down to earth and most relatable person on the internet. Even at 21, I look up to you so much!xxx
please do another video on self love/self confidence!!‼️❣️
I love this new Mel,you've changed a lot (in a positive way) and you seem really happy right now.
Btw i really liked the video,even if i'm younger,i can relate to a lot of stuff that i learn in this 15 years.I know that i have also a lot to learn yet but i think that all this time that i passed lately hangin' out with myself has thought me a lot.
mel you're beautiful inside and out! you're like the friend I always wanted, everything is o my God so good your mind is like art girl! I will love to talk with you someday and have deep conversations about everything! keep doing what u do cuz u girl are amazin'!
the amount of things you have taught me about life in your videos have really helped , love ya mel you are always here for us
Love you Mel
love you moreee!
Omg you responded I'm actually dead love you so much your such an inspiration ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
It makes me cry, I was with her from day number one and to watch someone grow up through just videos makes me happy. I love you so much.
Ilysm!! Congrats on turning 18 ❤️
ily more & thank you lova!
wow. literally wow. i'm blown away noebne i'm honestly so happy that you use the audience and platform that you have to spread these kinds of energy. you have 1.3 million people who you can influence on becoming a better person and living a better life and the fact that you do so is absolutely amazing. i love you for it
I love how excited you get whenever you bring up your apartment 💗😂
Night time routine in your new apartment??? So happy and proud of you mel. You're literally goals. You're my inspo🌻
I have to say that this video made me realize alot of things omg I love you sooo much your the best youtuber ever like your so different and real!♡♡♡♡much love
Ahh I'm so glad that you could get your apartment and idk. I can tell the opportunities you get from RUclips really change you in a GOOD way and have helped you find who you are. And your confidence level has grown. So happy for you honestly
She said some real shit 💯
ilyy Mel !!! ❤️
i love how despite how big you're channel is getting, you still do things to show appreciation to your fans/subscribers :) ps. you remind me so much of jojo!!
EARLY SQAUD WHERE YOU AT?
BABESSS
Mel Joy ilyyy
Emma Roberts noooo ): I was at knotts when she uploaded this
WHO ELSE NEEDED THISSSSSS , I'm half way through being 17 and needed this so bad to check myself ❤️ love you
Woooow your hair just grew so much all of a sudden, nice tho :*
"it's hard to care for someone when you don't care for yourself" that makes perfect sense and is so true because you think like why would i go out of my way to do this for this person when i wouldn't even do it for myself
Loovee you Mel! You make me so happy💕
This video really felt like Mel wasn't even talking through a video but as if she were right here just talking like friends do and I feel like not many people can achieve that on yt through a camera so thanks sm!!!!
I'm literally 20 years old and haven't learned these things yet lmao, you go girl! Love you! ❤️
video ideas:
-back to school makeup
-hauls
-apartment tour
-more vlogs!!
I'm turning 18 in november and this video was really helpfull, thank you mel! I'm going to think like this and this will help me alot 😊
Seriously one of my favorite RUclips, you're so kind, so honest, so genuine, you're the best I love you !
I really needed to hear this at the moment so thank you for your words, I relate and understand with what you talked about and I'm really glad you made this video and used your platform to talk about important and meaningful topics that can help others, even if not everyone agrees with one another's opinions and views of life and just other things we can all learn from other people and our differences, so thank you
You're absolutely wise beyond your years, Mel. This video was incredibly insightful, coming from someone in her 20s. Thank you for being such a great role model and friend to your viewers! Much love xx
Here before 900 comments... love u Mel your so beautiful and inspiring❤️
One of the best videos in youtube.I'm realy proud Mel!
Who else wants to see an apartment tour?!!?
You have literally no idea of how much this video has helped me out and is going to help me out in the future! Thank you so much, Mel! You are really pure sunshine!❤
MEL DO A VIDEO OR IN A Q&A TALK ABOUT HOW MAKE FRIENDS AND KEEP STRONG BONDS WITH THEM my friends always betray me or stop talking to me or sometimes we just drift apart and i literally only have 1 friend but she lives on the other side of the country
thank you for being you and being truthful with how life is and how you got through it all! I love you Mel !
Awe love you SM babe 💚💚
This is my favorite video of Mel's so far. At first, when I saw this video in my subscriptions, I was like"nah it sounds too cheesy". However, now that I've just finished watching it, it opened my eyes and made me understand more about life. Thank you Mel for this video
I love these types of videos. Love you Mel
mel you are such a beauty, such an inspiration and role model and honestly one of the kindest and most humble youtuber i watch. please keep making videos for us because they make me soo happy, ily💫
can you do a bts makeup tutorial.?? ilysm mel.!!!!!! 😭❤️
bangtan?
a bee omf i thought of them immediately when i saw bts as well
back to school
you have grown so much as person and i am so happy for you. you are so genuine and seem so genuinely happy now. I love that :)
mel are you going to college?
she dropped out of high school cus people would come to the school to see her
She didn't drop out she just does online school now.
She used to go to my high school I'm sorry I didnt know
+Andrew Shaw what high school?
You don't know how much you inspire me Mel!! I can't tell you how much I love you you're absolutely amazing don't ever forget that;)
Do you ever read a comment and think " dammit that's clever"?
MEL I think your DEFINETLY in my top five favorite RUclipsrs. I love ya mel. please keep being you to the fullest.
this was so cute aw
I want to thank you so much just for being you and making this video, I'm 17 going to be 18 in October and ive been going through such a hard time and I just feel like I haven't been able to get a break from it all like bad things just come left and right but just listening to everything you had to say really has a huge impact on me d gives me more hope in life and for that I thank you soooooo much and I I love you so much
My mother's name is also Melody.. just thought I'd throw it out there. HAHA love u Mel💗💗
You've grown so much and I love the person you are and what you stand for! I'm so happy for you. Love you!
I love this video sooooo inspirational
ilysm mel! thank you so much for caring about your supporters, and i admire you!
you need to make a shirt that says "you know what I mean" 😂😂😂
Laneyann _ oh my gosh yess!!!
Laneyann _ Haha! Yes!😂 or a shirt that says "You feel me??" Lol 😂
I don't know you personally (like in real life or anything), but I've watched your videos for a little bit over a year now. And from the past months I can tell that you've grown so much as a person, and I am just so proud of you. And I just felt the need to share that with you, so you do you boo! ❤
Thank you for the advice. You are amazing
you're gorgeous!! & so smart for 17
You look so gorgeous xxxxx 💕💕💕💕
Hi Mel, you just spread so much positivity and it's so good to see and hear people like you. I love youu
how r u so pretty😭😭😭
Everything you said is literally me!! I wish we could be friends in real life and talk about our struggles and stuff cause I swear we are the same person. Love u
I love you so much Mel!!!!!!⚡️💕🙈
I literally wrote my college essay on how much I believed making other people happy made me happy and it's wild how much I've grown & changed since then. I feel totally different about that now and I think a lot of that has to do with my personal growth. I don't see people & situations the same as I did before and I let go of some really good friends to put myself first and it was really hard for me but like Mel said, at the end of the day I just had to go with my gut & what felt right and put myself first so I could focus on my own growth. Mel gets it #leogang
I love you smmm♡!
Mel you are one of my favorite RUclipsrs. You are so pure as a person and are an amazing person. You are so beautiful. You inspire me too, thank you for being a role model and inspiration
Υοu are amazing...Keep calm making amazing videos..Many things.. I AM FROM GREECE.. kisses from greece
georgia vrioni you're from Greece!?! That's amazing!!!
Chloe Cray thank you. ♥♥
I loved this video, everything you said really hit me hard because I've been caring about what people think about me and telling myself I'm not pretty and spending so much time on social media looking at what other people look like instead of focusing on my self and dealing with the people who care for me the most I loved this video thank you for making it😊💘
YOUR PRETTY💘😻😻😻 SELF💛💘😻😻
NicE VIDEO💘😻😻😻
Kute💘😍😍 hoop earrings
Thank you so much for uploading this video.I've been learning all of this stuff specially recently when I realized that I'm just not getting any happiness from all the love that I've been putting out to people maybe I was putting it out the wrong way but people werent treating me like I was supposed to be treated because I was too good to them and so they were taking advantage of it. You have a good rest of your day now!
#notificationsquad where are u?♡♡
It's crazy how proud I am of you :') you're my favorite person on this world. literally. thank u for this & 4 being such a light on my life. i love you so much 💞
I really wanna know when did you got pipped for the first time.
Keshava Montas b ok but same LMAO
Keshava Montas b I think she's still a virgin idk why
Pipped?
LITERALLY FEEL THE SAME WAY. I learned so much this year, which just so happens to be the year I turned 17 as well haha. I'm sure there'll more to learn when I turn 18 and come full circle. Loved the video Mel!
omg I love I want to be you so much
Nutella Noella thanks!!! U r tooooo
Nutella Noella thank you so much!!! So are you!!!
Mel you literally have inspired me since day one... Thank you from the bottom of my heart!