My Miscarriage.

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024

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  • @MrsCheyne18
    @MrsCheyne18 2 года назад +54

    Your honesty is so refreshing and so brave, specifically about this topic. We’re on a break from trying for a baby but I’m still sending thoughts and love and kindness to you. Everyone’s life is so different and what we want and need is so different. Look after yourself ❤️ Sending love from Edinburgh Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @kellyparker1444
    @kellyparker1444 2 года назад +22

    I’m so sorry you have been through this. I tried for many, many years to have a baby but it was not meant to be. You should never feel bad about wanting or not wanting a baby. I’m sending huge hugs, even if you don’t want to be pregnant, miscarriages are tough. Take care x x 😘

  • @KateLately
    @KateLately 2 года назад +34

    We’re currently one year into our fertility journey and even though it wasn’t hard for you to get pregnant, I applaud your honesty. This journey is different for everyone and we need to support each other no matter what. ♥️

  • @LeonieParker
    @LeonieParker 2 года назад +17

    Love how honest this video is! Everyone deserves there own choice and how to feel what they feel ❤

  • @charisxo6380
    @charisxo6380 2 года назад +14

    This is such a personal thing to talk about, thank you for sharing with us and being so honest. You’re so brave ❤️

  • @ZackRekeSkjell
    @ZackRekeSkjell Год назад +1

    Thank you for opening up about this topic. Miscarriage is really hard and it can feel unexplainable. I am pretty sure i had one very early on years and years ago because I had a very weird period and then that effected the period after it as well. I never told my partner at the time because I didn’t see it as something important to involve him in, but I would definitely have asked for support from people around me if it had happened now.

  • @SuperBubblybubz
    @SuperBubblybubz 2 года назад +9

    Thank you for sharing. It's lovely to hear your honest thoughts. I miscarried at 9 weeks with my first. I didn't really know how I was supposed to feel about it. However it still lingers in my mind every day. We have a 3 year old child now. But will always remember the first. Love your true honest thoughts. Xx

  • @faithmoraga5864
    @faithmoraga5864 2 года назад +28

    I also miscarried around 8 weeks. I didn’t know I was pregnant until I went to the ER because of bleeding. Never be ashamed!! It’s not your fault. There is a reason for everything. Love you Carly!

  • @errinmcisaac799
    @errinmcisaac799 2 года назад +2

    I can not put into word how MUCh I LOVE and VALUE your transparency and honesty and vulnerability in such a difficult and conflicting time. It’s amazing and strong to be honest that you werent sure and it was still extremely hard and heartbreaking .. It is brave and I live my life the same and I love you so much for this entire video 💕💕💕 I’ve followed you for a long time Carly and this is exactly why. You and your family are the definition of beautiful to me. Real, authentic and love.

  • @juliaperry9925
    @juliaperry9925 2 года назад +2

    I’ve just seen this. You’re so honest and speak so beautifully. We saw how emotional you sounded when you mentioned those words you uttered on the phone but please don’t feel guilty for that. You’re allowed to feel, and I know how loved that baby would be/is. Sending love and hugs and congrats on next year’s plans! xxx

  • @jenna8262
    @jenna8262 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for sharing. I had a miscarriage when I was about 7 weeks when I was 17. I look back now and I know it wasn't the right time but it was still painful and is still traumatic and I still feel grief. I'll never get over the nurse/midwife who scanned me and confirmed there was no heartbeat and telling me to get over it and "go out and live my life"... the thing is this was my life and regardless I loved that baby and wanted it and just because I was young didn't mean I would just "get over it". The way people speak to you makes all the difference.

  • @sydneybaldwin3514
    @sydneybaldwin3514 2 года назад +11

    I had a miscarriage in November at 10 weeks, although tragic and very painful, I was in awe of what my body can do. I chose to miscarry at home and my tips would be to keep warm, hydrated, buy period pants and pads that can take the blood and seek support for sure. There are brighter days ahead. Sending ❤️

  • @eralovesyou
    @eralovesyou 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for this. I needed this after finding out we lost our baby yesterday. Sending love to anyone struggling 💕

  • @anabluecordeiro
    @anabluecordeiro 2 года назад +1

    You are so brave! Having the support around you is what can make the difference in your healing journey. When I miscarried my 1st time i told people about my pregnancy, my husband could not be with me in the a&e, my mum dropped everything and came to me. I cried on her shoulder. The doctor that saw me looked me in the eyes and told me that this wasn't my fault. He looked after me so well. I wish you the best of luck 😘

  • @crazychipclip
    @crazychipclip 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. It is so kind of you to use your story to uplift others even though I can imagine it wasn’t easy. Sending a big hug right back

  • @troubletheottb
    @troubletheottb 2 года назад +6

    I don't think it's selfish to think about everything you would lose if you had another child at that specific moment in time. You do lose something when you have children, whether we want to admit it or not. And some people feel it's worth it and some people don't. And that's totally ok. Thank you for sharing!

  • @jenij1287
    @jenij1287 2 года назад +1

    So sorry you had to go through this. I myself have just had a chemical pregnancy last week after my first round of Solo IVF. Ive never really related to anyone over something so hearbreaking and its still such a taboo subject so I thank you for having the courage to speak about your loss. It does help, it has helped me xxx

  • @rachellefeuvre75
    @rachellefeuvre75 2 года назад +1

    There is just something about your honesty and vulnerability in this video that speaks volumes. I have never spoken about my own miscarriage with anyone but my husband. I feel like so many of my thoughts and feeling have been validated by your story. I didn’t know I needed that. Thank you for sharing. Sending many kind thoughts your way ❤️

  • @serriitta
    @serriitta 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for making this video❤️ I don't have children yet, but my husband and I for a while didn't want kids, then realised we only wanted one. I miscarried a month ago, and was so relieved because it meant that we couldn't move to London next year, and it wasn't selfish. I was so scared, I wasn't excited and I started to panic. I do believe that everything that happens in my life is for a reason. This video was amazing❤️

  • @hannahleech2900
    @hannahleech2900 2 года назад +1

    I absolutely love your honesty. I recently had a baby and I found out I was pregnant at 31 weeks! It was the scariest moment of my life, you're not selfish at all for thinking it was wrong timing because I absolutely felt that when I found out and was not ready for a baby at all, I am also 21 years old, similarly to you after a few days/week I got used to the idea and love my little man now more than anything. We need more people like you in this world

  • @annkathrin2802
    @annkathrin2802 2 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for always being so open and honest Carly! I‘m just glad that you are well and it brought you the insight it did. Support is so important in our daily life, I‘m totally with you about telling people. Even if it’s scary but only then do we actually realise how many people we know have gone though the same thing or know someone who did. Everyone is allowed to grief - whether that be for a lost baby or for not being able to fall pregnant. I‘m sending a massive hug to you and everyone who‘s in need of a little comfort right now 🤍

  • @zoelamb1462
    @zoelamb1462 2 года назад +3

    I am so proud and grateful for you sharing this with us Carly. It is such an important topic and effects so many of us and we are expected to just not talk about it. We need to break this mold and you are doing amazing work to help change this. Sending all my love ❤️

  • @alicebevis704
    @alicebevis704 2 года назад +1

    This is very honest and raw. But it is the reality of what we, as women go through whether we have no children, 1 child or multiple children. No shame. Be proud. We have the right and our bodies have the right to make these decisions. Sending love.

  • @Everycloudgold
    @Everycloudgold 2 года назад +2

    I’m so sorry this happened to you Carly, sending you hugs 💖. I went through something and never had anybody to speak to. So important that we raise awareness, miscarriage seems to be a bit of a taboo. Your story will help so many people xx

  • @essbee5882
    @essbee5882 2 года назад +1

    Sorry to hear this Carly. Please don't feel sad about what you said before the miscarriage, it was just not meant to be for now. Your a beautiful soul. I'm excited to see your move, use your app and watch your family grow in the future. Big hugs to you xxx

  • @ellenawhitaker2046
    @ellenawhitaker2046 2 года назад +1

    You have always been amazing and refreshing. Never stop being you! I find at 41 that my baby days are over (menopause and no periods) I have two teenagers and love them. But I do wish we’d have tried for a third. It’s always the what ifs. We all have the right to feel how we need too. Xx

  • @Nixed_66
    @Nixed_66 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing, it's refreshing to hear someone be honest about the full range of emotions that pregnancy and miscarriage can bring. You can feel multiple conflicting feelings at once and that is totally valid. Sending you love 💗

  • @valerynunez8739
    @valerynunez8739 2 года назад +1

    Don’t worry, I just recently had a miscarriage. It was a brighten ovum. There was no fetal pole in the sac but I had all the symptoms- it wasn’t fun and very emotional and depressing. Thank you for being very open and you’re not alone💛

  • @imsokeiko
    @imsokeiko 2 года назад +2

    Carly, you are so strong for working to sort through your emotions and sharing them with everyone. Sending you so much love!

  • @effie5238
    @effie5238 2 года назад +1

    When you said you hoped your body would decide for you, my heart just broke. For no other reason really but the pain of having to make such a decision. As you said, it was all bad timing, and it's so hard to know what to do when you're so conflicted or not ready. I wish you & your family nothing but the best! Can't wait to see where the new year takes you & hope that if & when the time is right...maybe a family of 4 will become a family of 5. 🤍

  • @vh4667
    @vh4667 2 года назад

    Thanks for beeing so honest! It's sadly really rare that woman are talking so honest about that whole topic altough it would be so helpful for the most of us! Sending you love! ❤️

  • @pretentiousmoi6953
    @pretentiousmoi6953 2 года назад +2

    So sorry you had to go through this. Thanks for being so open and honest - you are strong💕

  • @veesvoyages
    @veesvoyages Год назад

    So brave of you to talk so openly about what you've been through. Sending lots of love❤

  • @smallperson91
    @smallperson91 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video.
    I’ve had two miscarriages, one before my 18 month daughter and one last week.
    I actually miscarried at 6 weeks and I was at a baby shower. I decided not to say anything because I didn’t want to ruin anyone else day. I will tell my friends soon but not just yet.

  • @mbubbles4808
    @mbubbles4808 Год назад +1

    I had a missed miscarriage. I was told the baby had died at 9wks at my 12week scan. I had to go to hospital to have the medication to bring on the miscarriage. It was so emotional and upsetting and I will never forget that time. I am 36weeks pregnant now but i think miscarriages are not talked about enough and are so life altering 😔

  • @mishuge100
    @mishuge100 2 года назад +2

    :(( i am so sorry to hear that:/ i know you are happy with Jax as an only child but still, i can’t imagine the pain in the thought process. I remember your video about you wanting just one baby. I feel the same. And i can’t imagine getting pregnant again. Honestly, it might be one of the reasons i can’t enjoy sex anymore:/

  • @kayleighsheridon2587
    @kayleighsheridon2587 2 года назад +3

    💗💗💗
    Thank you for bring us all one step closer to normalising topics of this nature.

  • @vidz953
    @vidz953 2 года назад +1

    Love you. It's so brave that you talk about these sensitive/vulnerable topics.

  • @jessbrown24
    @jessbrown24 2 года назад

    Aw Carly. I don't know you of course, but I loved your soothing voice in all of your old videos (your voice is still top tier HA but I was mostly active on your YT page 4 years ago so I'm simply reminiscing). I'm sorry that you are hurting and feeling any kind of guilt or shame for uttering those words. Our minds are so powerful but also can hurt us deeply at the same time (I have PTSD and learning more about my brain over time is both amazing and terrifying).
    Thank you for always being so refreshingly honest. And I wish you so much gentleness and understanding with yourself during this time.

  • @KG-ul7nx
    @KG-ul7nx 2 года назад +2

    Excellent video. Thank you for being brave and honest and sharing your story. It helps others so much

  • @Laknouz
    @Laknouz 2 года назад +1

    All the love Carly 💗 you are such an inspiration to sooo many of us here. Thank you thank you thank you.
    Anyone going through... Well life.. Going through any experience,
    ✨ you are not alone ✨

  • @sarahmartin91
    @sarahmartin91 2 года назад +4

    You are so brave. Sending you all love x

  • @Becky-p1n
    @Becky-p1n 2 года назад

    sorry you had to go through this hard experience ❤ like you say, you have learnt more about yourself which is all growth. sending love and healing energy your way x

  • @tracysidney-jones8170
    @tracysidney-jones8170 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for such honesty Carly❤️ Not easy to share, it was not meant to be - for whatever reason. You and Leon will figure it out, of that I’m sure. Sending you so much love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @3Poppyyyxx
    @3Poppyyyxx 2 года назад +1

    1. Carly please don't ever apologise for your feelings they are completely valid and no one should be offended by your own personal experience it is nothing on them.
    2. I appreciate your honesty, I feel so confused about what I want sometimes it's nice to candidly hear others discuss this conflict of wants/thoughts/needs.

  • @claragibson9281
    @claragibson9281 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing and being so honest. Sending lots of love 💕

  • @Daniela._.Monteiro
    @Daniela._.Monteiro 2 года назад

    Dont apologize for your feelings 💞 thank you for sharing your story! Its so important... In some way it normalizes something that happens a lot but we are taught to suffer in silence... Thank you for doing this ❤️

  • @rebekahlawrence4246
    @rebekahlawrence4246 2 года назад +4

    This is a really powerful and humbling video, thank you Carly. I’m excited to start a family one day and feel so strongly about sharing those early stages with loved ones for support and this fully affirms the difference that can make. Thank you for opening that conversation x

  • @jessicamarsilio3304
    @jessicamarsilio3304 2 года назад

    I really appreciate your honesty. This is so refreshing and much needed

  • @cutiewinks88
    @cutiewinks88 2 года назад +1

    I also miscarried really early, and i thought that my "Period" was really weird. That was in second month as we begann to try for a baby. Later on i found out that it was miscarriage. I didn't feel bad or anything cause i know it happens a lot, but it was like sh*t it is hard to try for a baby 🤦‍♀️ i likeeverything what you said in the video. ❤️ i am glad that this situation gave you some new perspective. That is always nice to hear. Lots of love,stay strong ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @carlyjenkins1912
    @carlyjenkins1912 2 года назад

    You are a beautiful human... I'm sorry you have had to go through such heartache. A big hug back to you 💛

  • @shardae5219
    @shardae5219 2 года назад

    Thank you for being so brave Carly. This video was so transparent and honest. Sending you loads of hugs x

  • @rossomak71
    @rossomak71 2 года назад

    thank you so much for sharing this. I'm lucky enough to never have miscarried so it's hard for me to put myself in that perspective, but few of my friends did, at the early stage, and that's what I have told them, that it is nature's way of saying that it is better this way, that the baby might be sick and not developing correctly. And when it comes to timing, yes it's almost never good time to have a baby, you can always find milion reasons why not now, but at the same time having a baby is just amazing and if you want to you can always make it work. Good luck on what ever your future may bring to you and your lovely family :)

  • @kathrynsutter6753
    @kathrynsutter6753 2 года назад

    Thanks so much for sharing this. I'm not pregnant and have never tried to be but your honesty was lovely to hear. Sending hugs x

  • @RosieBennetGuitar
    @RosieBennetGuitar 2 года назад

    What a video Carly, sending you both a huge hug - what a whirlwind of emotions. Thank you for sharing, as always. Lots of love xxxx

  • @louisemccarthy3375
    @louisemccarthy3375 2 года назад

    Thank you for being so honest & sharing so personal to you! Sending you all the love right now ❤️

  • @K1MB3RL3Y88
    @K1MB3RL3Y88 2 года назад +1

    I don't believe you should feel bad for having a 'negative' initial reaction, or for wishing your body to make the decision. Children are a lot of work and disruption. You have a wonderful child and husband. It's ok to be content with what you already have.

  • @agnszp
    @agnszp 2 года назад +1

    I’m so sorry you went through that :( I also get what you’re saying about it not being the right time….I’m so scared about getting pregnant again (i have two boys and it’s so hard!) because I just see the light at the end of the tunel!

  • @dutchblondee
    @dutchblondee 2 года назад

    I’m not sure what to comment.. just a big hug for you & Leon!

  • @daniellesarony9468
    @daniellesarony9468 2 года назад

    Thank you thank you for sharing this video. I follow you anyway but it was so helpful to see a person I respect share honestly their experience of this. Sending you hugs at this particularly difficult time for you xxx

  • @Joolzie76
    @Joolzie76 2 года назад

    I am so sorry. How you felt was totally normal. Its ok to feel conflicted and every emotion. Please don't feel any guilt about what you said. We all say things every day we might not mean. xx

  • @qualcosa88
    @qualcosa88 2 года назад

    thank you for talking about the stigma, so it will change and people can talk about it more easily!

  • @ronjakh
    @ronjakh 2 года назад +1

    The thing is that there is so much shame for women. Out bodies, fertility, sexuality- just about everything in our lives is tinged with shame. Therefore important subjects are hush-hush and we end up feeling so lonely and as if there is something wrong with us. As you say, miscarriage is so incredibly common and it’s important that we keep that in mind, but also understand that for those who want children a miscarriage can be very painful and traumatising 🙏🏻

  • @jillc413
    @jillc413 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for your honesty an sending gentle hugs xx

  • @Kat_1490
    @Kat_1490 2 года назад

    Sending love and compassion to you, Carly

  • @lilaliveslife4846
    @lilaliveslife4846 2 года назад

    Thank you for your honesty, Carly!

  • @melaniemurphyofficial
    @melaniemurphyofficial 2 года назад +8

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you are so, so right

  • @lucymason9434
    @lucymason9434 2 года назад +2

    I had an ectopic in Feb, It was honestly the most emotionally painful thing I’ve ever been through.

    • @j-tastic
      @j-tastic 10 месяцев назад

      I had an ectopic pregnancy 10/28/2021. I still grieve the thought of my baby and what s/he would have been. I know this comment is old, but I'm sending you peace, love, light and hope.

  • @teresedavis8594
    @teresedavis8594 2 года назад

    I'm very sorry for your loss. Take care.

  • @nicolawitty__
    @nicolawitty__ 2 года назад

    You are so brave! Stay strong Carly 💪 ✨️

  • @jodiebean_
    @jodiebean_ 2 года назад

    Sending you so much love, really brave video to share xxx

  • @MissGypsy294
    @MissGypsy294 2 года назад

    Thanks so much for this video & sharing your story 🤍

  • @cupcake93971
    @cupcake93971 2 года назад

    Carly sending hugs back ❤❤❤❤

  • @Rachel-pu8ix
    @Rachel-pu8ix 2 года назад

    This was really brave. Thank you 💕

  • @brihannonstrathern8801
    @brihannonstrathern8801 2 года назад

    This is such a beautiful video. Thank you ❤️

  • @hulk45479
    @hulk45479 2 года назад

    This was beautiful, i had a miscarriage last year at 5 weeks and worried to try again because i feel like i will go through it again especially at 35 years old

  • @caralum
    @caralum 2 года назад

    Carly, thank you for sharing 💛

  • @sophiethrower6564
    @sophiethrower6564 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing so honestly ❤️

  • @jadoresteph
    @jadoresteph 2 года назад

    💗💗💗 sending you all the love

  • @sarahlake3862
    @sarahlake3862 2 года назад

    Sending lots of love and hugs xxx

  • @hollymanchester9194
    @hollymanchester9194 2 года назад

    I don’t think your thoughts were selfish at all. There’s no way you should feel about anything, there is just how you feel. If that makes sense. Much love xx

  • @molliequilt3077
    @molliequilt3077 2 года назад +1

    I needed this. I lost my first baby 2 weeks ago at 8 weeks 💔

  • @tanyatvrdik334
    @tanyatvrdik334 2 года назад

    ❤ thank you for sharing your story

  • @chloe2289
    @chloe2289 2 года назад

    Sending love so much love 💙💙💙

  • @brihannonstrathern8801
    @brihannonstrathern8801 2 года назад

    Oh honey. All my love ❤️

  • @CirrenaMarie
    @CirrenaMarie 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your experience

  • @melsakole341
    @melsakole341 2 года назад

    such a good message!!

  • @rosiew8-fenn
    @rosiew8-fenn 2 года назад

    Sending you lots of hugs xxx

  • @danagodfrey2979
    @danagodfrey2979 2 года назад

    Take care sending lots off support your way and understand totally take care 🌈🌻💕

  • @chrisbrownbridge6118
    @chrisbrownbridge6118 2 года назад

    Thinking of you.

  • @kellybaxter3715
    @kellybaxter3715 2 года назад

    I am so sorry this happened u 😢

  • @amy-janekelsey7550
    @amy-janekelsey7550 2 года назад

    💛💛💛

  • @alisharenwick1175
    @alisharenwick1175 2 года назад

    Love you ❤

  • @anniechamber8995
    @anniechamber8995 2 года назад

    ❤️

  • @solvisionx9965
    @solvisionx9965 2 года назад

    Of course it is NOT possible to make your body misscarry a baby by just wishing for it to do so. If it was possible then no woman who has been raped would ever have to carry out a child that has resulted from that situation. Everyone is always fully entiteled to what ever they feel because you can not control your feelings nor your thoughts. So don't be ashamed if you think something is bad timing.

  • @shannonmcgill6402
    @shannonmcgill6402 2 года назад

    💛

  • @gemmaamclean
    @gemmaamclean 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @haileycooper6252
    @haileycooper6252 2 года назад

  • @carlybenarbia9193
    @carlybenarbia9193 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheNorfolkGirl
    @TheNorfolkGirl 2 года назад