Any one-sided relationship, be it a relationship, friendship,etc. should be re-evaluated to see if it is what you really want and if it is worth your time and effort.
All Taylor Swift sings about is her crying needs. Why even give her or anyone like her the time of day. If singing about boys is all she's got than obviously her and all the girls and women like her don't need to procreate. Life more inportant to live than crying women
@@stingwcwI pity people like you. Just because you enjoy being miserable doesn't mean you have to push it on everyone else and act like it's normal. Because it's NOT. I have seen both sides. My adoptive parents were married well over 60 years and fostered for 50 YEARS. There absolutely ARE forever relationships. I've been with my partner since I was 20, almost 15 years. And we're still going strong. My sister has been married 25 years. And still going strong. You're supposed to find your person and build your life together. Otherwise your life is meaningless. You're contributing nothing to society. Or our future. Who's going to love and care for you if you get sick... Or when you get old... I uploaded a video of a woman in her 80s with dementia being abused and beaten in an OAP home. They CONSTANTLY mocked her for wasting her life on a career and having nobody to even visit her. Her home and all her assets and savings were stolen to "pay" for her "care" and whatever is left after her death will be taken by the government. All to provide her with daily abuse. And she had been locked in her bedroom alone literally screaming for attention for YEARS. Those with family were treated far better. So even if you don't want family caring for you, just HAVING them around to observe your care make's your living conditions infinitely better. If you don't build a family you're burdening everyone else and forcing them to make all your decisions FOR YOU. You WON'T like the outcome. NOT ONE of the old people at the home that video was taken EVER had a friend visit them. Because by then they were dead, moved on with their lives or in an OAP home of their own if you don't build a family there ISN'T ANYONE. Enjoy reaping what you sow. ☠️🤡☠️🤦♀️🙅🤷♀️
@@fizzyjecadoBasically, it always goes down in flames with that girl. They can't ALL be the problem. And if they are, she shouldn't be dating until she's completed intensive therapy. She's 30 something still writing songs about exes like a teeny bopper.
@@user-jv5pp8pv9l she hasnt written about an ex since 4/5 albums ago. 2 albums were about people she made up, more like a storybook concept. She had an album about finding confidence and dealing with self critique. And this new album has only about 3 songs about her ex of 6 years. A lot of the other songs are about a fling she had afterwards and how that was toxic from both sides and other songs are about her own problems. And when she released this last album she said these songs were written in the moment and after looking back a lot of the pain she felt was selfinflicted.
@@user-jv5pp8pv9llol are you kidding me it sells, you think she's writing soley for funsies 😂 it's all a business strategy. Love songs and break-up songs have always been popular
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm She's not assuming anything. She's evaluating the lyrics that Taylor Swift wrote herself. Brett isn't assuming anything about her as a person, but interperating the lyrics the way she wants to.
guys the video is about staying out of the forever girlfriend trap...obviously she's gonna give her own perspective, if the other guy wanted to come out and give his side that badly he would, it's happened before
But it's TS... poster child of the forever gf, and as far as coming out to defend himself, why? It would only make the guy seem petty, like he still cares and not to mention the cat ladies... I mean TS fans that will attack him
No. If he "wanted to come out" he knows almost exclusively men would listen and even then only a portion of us. Additionally, like Hasan said, it would make him seem petty, bitter, and everyone know Swifties are mental. As much as I am a fan of TS's country pop; she is definitely petty. It's her style and demographic.
I gave 26-33 to someone who turned tail and ran as soon as I wanted him to contribute to the health of the relationship. My number one piece of advice to anyone is, don't wait. If it's not going where you want at the speed you want, leave. Because if you don't, you end up 39 and childless when all you ever wanted was to have a family.
@debayanpal3181 No. I am not. At my age, I will likely become a foster parent instead of having children naturally. This was not my plan. But it is my reality.
@@buxombrowncoat5631 You can easily have children. In Nordic countries women have children so late in late 30s. You may move there. And the society there will not judge unlike USA.
@@debayanpal3181 Thank you for the encouragement. I'm getting healthy now, losing weight and quitting smoking, so I can hang around for the family I do make.
If/When Taylor gets pregnant and writes about pregnancy and motherhood, it's going to be as poetic, validating, and thought-provoking as everything else she has written these last 5 years
Boys. Boys aren't ready for that. My nephew is 22 and recently married. He found a good one and didn't waste her time. Just like he didn't waste the time of the girls before his wife. He's a young man. Boys lead women/girls on with no real intention. If you're not ready, don't date someone who knows what they want. It goes the other way as well.
What are you talking about. Women don't whant men in their early to mid 20's. Men are not encouraged to approach women ether(your mother and sister don't count). Men in their 20's was ready for serious relationship in in the past do to expectations and social pressure. And their children turned out fine. Fun fact: Not owning your own land, home and having a steady income was the biggest reason to why marriage didn't happen. There for, many young men about 50-60% never had their own family and children.
She’s been in at least 17 “committed” relationships and that’s just the famous ones. Who knows how many other men she’s been with. Something tells me it’s her that’s the problem. Almost all of her ex’s have since married except her most recent ones. They are clearly men who what to commit, but she has remained a 38 year old teenager.
So true. I literally just spoke to a guy yesterday and made a joke about him getting a wife. He said no because he's too young. I asked how old he was. Bro is 32! Dude you're not 18! I even asked him if he was expecting to marry a much younger girl since women have a smaller window for children...
Whilst I understand the sentiment of the lyric, it removes any accountability from the writer in the relationship. Both parties are able to leave a relationship if they're not happy. To say that she is pissed off that he let her give all her youth for free would mean she had no choice but to stay which isn't the case.
Unless he wasn't completely honest about what he wants. We'll never know what her and whoever this song is about would discuss behind closed doors, but if he was putting across some idea that he eventually wants kids, and yet continued to let things string on and on, then yes, the blame is mainly all on him. Yes, Taylor could have just called it quits, but she would obviously rather hold on and fight if she truly cares for the guy, and believes he wants kids, only for her to just get led on with no finish line in sight. Leading to her being upset because he then would have wasted her time.
@@OnlineJeeper Respectfully, even if the person she wrote this about was promising her things, the test is in the action. If he was not following through with action and she has stayed in the relationship hoping for change, then she has allowed herself to continue giving him her youth without a return on her investment in him. There is accountability there on her part. I am not saying that he didn't do wrong by her. I am merely saying that we all have choices and she made the choice to stay despite the red flags. It's not easy when you love someone but there are still choices.
@@user-jv5pp8pv9l Wrong...in a monologue Taylor wrote that on proper inspection she found out that most of her wounds were self inflicted....brett even talks abt it in the full video
Let’s not act like people are in love. Women always hope he will change and spend years waiting. It’s not that easy to just give up on someone you love!
And so many guys will just drag you along in a relationship just enough to keep you there with no interest to actually get into a serious relationship/traditional relationship
Yes, all women who want to have kids should be careful who they give time to BUT for those of us that don't want kids it's equally important to not give time to people who don't deserve it.
Well yes, obviously nobody should give time to people that don’t deserve it, but women who want children have to be much more conscious about it because, whether we like it or not, we have a biological clock that won’t wait forever, so we need to be much more careful
And women who don't want children shouldn't date men who do want children. Both parties should be honest and on the same page. If one person wants children and the other doesn't, one person will be disappointed and potentially resentful. Obviously, there are exceptions, but it's rare.
So she tried to force a relationship that she knew he wasn't interested in, but he was the one wasting her time? Sounds like she wasted her own time. Cry me a river.
if u have ever listened or researchced before making a comment will being blind, her other songs in the album mention how he always left enough clues to keep her interested, etc. research loser
Except he told her that he did wanna marry her, she just needed to wait. Women need to learn that they can’t change men, that’s true, that’s part of the reason why Brett does the forever girlfriend videos, she’s constantly warning women to not become one. But if a man is telling you that he’s going to marry you someday, and you are in love with him, that makes it much more difficult. A man telling a woman to just wait a little longer till he’s ready to be married because she’s in love with him and he knows she will wait IS bad, IS wasting her time and as a woman of course you are going to be bitter when you realise that the promises that he made were just lies. I’ve seen it happen with girls older than me in my church, it sucks for them, and it leaves them absolutely discouraged.
Taylor Swift songs that are NOT about romance or breakups: 1.) Ronan: about Ronan Thompson (4 yr old boy) who died because of cancer. 2.) Soon you'll get better: about Andrea Swift (Taylor Swift's mom) who struggled with cancer. 3.) Forever Winter: about Jeff Lang (Taylor Swift's high school friend) who died. He struggled with addiction and depression. 4.) Tied together with a smile: about one of her high school friends who had an eating disorder. 5.) The outside: being an outcast/not fitting in. 6.) A place in this world: about the uncertainty that the future holds (also soundtrack on the film Ramona & Beezus). 7.) The lucky one: her fears that come with fame; told through the story of a celebrity that came before her and left the fame behind. 8.) Nothing new: about how things change when you're older. The standards and expectations of a woman are different than a girl's. 9.) I'm only me when I'm with you: about friends and family. 10.) Fifteen: about her and her friend's experience in high school. 11.) Breathe: about the loss of a friendship. 12.) The best day: about her mother's impact in her life. 13.) Change: about her path to success. 14.) Mean: about a critic who left negative reviews about her (didn't actually critique her music, just how she can't sing and made her feel bad). 15.) Never grow up: wrote it about how she has no idea what's coming. She dedicated it to her friend's baby later on. 16.) Innocent: her response to Kanye West in 2009. 17.) Long live: dedicated to her band and fans. 18.) Castles crumbling: what it's like growing up in the public eye and what you think people think of you. 19.) 22: about turning 22. 20.) Welcome to New York- written when she moved to New York. 21.) Blank Space: a joke song about how the media and public portrays her as a person. 22.) Shake it off: about getting back up on your feet and not paying attention to the negative things people say to you. 23.) Bad blood: about someone she wanted/thought of as a friend. 24.) I did something bad: about the media and public's perception of her. 25.) Look what you made me do: about how she realized you can't trust certain people and appreciating the people you can trust. 26.) This is why we can't have nice things: about people taking friendships for granted. 27.) The last great American dynasty: the story of Rebekah Harkness. Taylor Swift bought her house. 28.) My tears ricochet: rumored to be about the betrayal of Scott Brochetta (founder of big machine records, which was Taylor Swift old record label). 29.) Mirrorball: about someone who reflects the personalities around them and shatters when heartbroken. 30.) Seven: about Taylor Swift's childhood friend who seemed to have an unhappy home life. 31.) Mad woman: about how a woman is expected to just absorb everything. If you get mad you are painted as the villian. 32.) Epiphany: about the experiences of her grandfather diring war and the COVID-19 pandemic. How some things you just can't speak about. 33.) The man: double standards 34.) The archer: about anxiety and unlearning bad lessons of the past. 35.) You need to calm down: talks about negative statements surrounding the LGBTQ+ community. 36.) ME!: about self-love and knowing your worth. 37.) No body, no crime: a fictional true crime story. 38.) Marjorie: about her grandmother who died. 39.) It's time to go- about listening to your gut when it tells you to leave. 40.) Who's afraid of little old me?: Taylor Swift addresses and mocks the rumours surrounding her proffessional and personal life. 41.) Clara Bow: pays homage to the film star Clara Bow. Taylor also addresses the manipulation of Clara's career and other women who came after her. 42.) I hate it here: the song explains the yearning of a different time, place or state of mind. 43.) Cassandra: Taylor Swift relates her life to Cassandra; a princess of Troy who was cursed to tell the truth but never believed. 44.) Robin: about a child's world that is filled wih imagination and innocence. 45.) Anti-Hero: is about Taylor Swift's personal failures and what she hates about herself. 46.) Vigilante shit: about a woman who seeks revenge. 47.) Karma: talks about how karma is living your best life. 48.) Bigger than the whole sky: the loss of a loved one (could be interpreted as any kind of loss). 49.) Dear Reader: giving advice and warning not to trust all advice blindly. 50.) Carolina: movie soundtrack (where the crawdads sing). 51.) Safe & sound: movie soundtrack (Hunger games) 52.) Eyes open: movie soundtrack (hunger games). 53.) Sweeter than fiction: movie soundtrack. 54.) You'll always find your way back home: movie soundtrack (Hannah Montana, performed by Miley Cyrus). 55.) Beautiful ghosts: movie soundtrack (Cats). 56.) Only the young: the younger generation holds the key to the future. 57.) Christmas tree farm: christmas song and how she grew up on a crhistmas tree farm.
100% I was chomping at the bit to get married and have kids at 21...then voila found a man 2 years older who wanted the same thing and we were friends 3 years and together 9 months, married, pregnant 3 months later. Ages 25 and 27. Women must prioritize kids if they plan to have them.
I thought I'd be married with kids by my early 20s. Didn't happen. Guy I was talking to at 16 (2005), we split after all the drama with his ex at our church. While in college, started actually dating a guy at 20. We talked about marriage and kids. I broke up with him after two years due to his mental instability. At 24 I started seeing a much older guy who was my pastor's youngest son (35) who already had a child. I'm a stepchild so I was open to being a stepmom. Turns out the guy only wanted sex and got mad when I wouldn't give it to him outside of marriage. After over a year I found out he was cheating the whole time and ended up getting a other girl pregnant and marrying her (they're separated now). After that (26) I was just working to sustain myself while working with children as a teaching assistant. By 2019 I moved states. So yeah it's not always black and white.
It's not because you prioritize having children that it will happen out of the blue. You still have to be lucky to find the right guy and also, it's not black and white. Life doesn't go always as planned. I have girl friends who want this for years, but haven't found the one yet. Does that make them the problem? Maybe they are to picky. But at the other hand, you sometimes need some luck to meet that person at the roght place at the right time.
I feel this so much, got me thinking and put tears in my eyes as I only have 10 years left to have kids and I see no hope in what years I have left to have any children.
I totally understand what you mean. And if you count in the higer risk of getting a unhealthy baby starting from the age of 25 you even have les time. meanwhile a friend of mine that doesn't want kids says it's not that bad. at 30 years your vertilety is already droping and she is just denying those facts and telling me al kind of things to maye give me doubts. I still have a bad taste in my mouth of the conversation. Her asuming I'm not ready for kids yet dubble hurted me since I already wanted them at the age of 28. I finish my study this sumer that in the end is usles while I postponed my wish to have childrens for it. I'm 30 and kind of stressing out about it. what if we finally are trying it and it doesn't work or it takes me forever to get pregnent.. For that reason alone I reget doing that studie.
@ydejonge9443 Yeah that's unfortunate, I love my boyfriend very much and don't want to leave him, but he's made it very clear that he doesn't want children unless we're financially stable to support kids. We can barely afford things for ourselves, let alone a kid, so I understand where he is coming from. With the economy the way that it is, it just feels hopeless, I bust my butt working and don't have anything to show for it, and that's why with only 10 years left and basically no money I just see no light at the end of the tunnel for any kind of hope at a life with children.
literally not true at all listen to Back to December and even if it was artists can sing about whatever they want and ur just trying to find a reason to hate her. i've never seen anyone say this artist "sings too much about this" for anyone else
Taylor Swift is my age, and I started listening to her when she first came out. She is still singing about the same things. I have outgrown it and her. I got rid of all her early cds. All of her new stuff sounds like everything else out there. It has gotten old and annoying. It makes it worse when the media keeps shoving her in everyone's face regarding her new man. We don't care! I don't care for her, but I wish her all the best.
Stop dating wrong, katt williams said it best... If every guy you date ain't shit, Maybe there's something about YOU that attracts ain't shit men. Women only do half the equation forgetting they're about of the relationship as well.
@@jamesvanderbilt201I don’t believe he missed the point I believe he added on too it how much of those lyrics are true and how much is made up celebrity garbage maybe she’s was too narcissistic to see he was trying and she was also apart of the problem
Except that she's lying. She has not been giving all her time to her relationships. She gives all her time to her brand, tours, music, etc. So those guys are probably taking a queue from her. If she really wanted to be married she would act differently.
not only that but who the hell would want to marry a woman who is literally making a fortune off of writing about her ex's? you would never escape being compared to her past lovers. not by her, and not by her friends, and god help you if the fans find out
she’s a celebrity obviously she’s going to have other stuff to do but so does every other working person. Plus her partner knows what they’re getting into and how tight her schedule is but you always find time for the people you love, it’s not as if she’s shutting everything and everyone out or she’d have nothing to write about 🤷♀️
Taylor Swift is not an OF girl. She's speaking from her own experience, not for all women. And I would prefer if you didn't speak for women either, because a lot of women have fallen into this trap even if they're good, normal people who have not been provocative at all. A lot of good people have been led on, both men and women, and for women, it hurts even worse because of their biological clock
@@frann8002 I wish I could agree with you, but it seems to have caught on like a contagion. The biggest place this process was evident is social media. I had a lot of people I had gone to high school with on my Instagram. The process seemed to follow this trajectory. 1. Boudoir empowerment trend where women decided showing everyone they know their scantily clad bods brought them immense power > 2. Genetically gifted women start OFs and make bank > 3. Everyone and their mother of all shapes and sizes starting the OFs. The next logical step in this cycle is to legalize ladies of the night again and you will see them all selling themselves off as consumer goods.
“all on OF” how many woman have you met who have only fans. It most of the women surrounding you have OF, I’d say you’re most likely the problem. And don’t come after me. I said most likely.
Yea, no..... Maybe the first six times she sang the same bs about different men but they used up garden tool has never been in a serious relationship that wasn't about the attention but I guess if your dumb af it's hard to see
uhh have u listened to her songs whatsoever queen? her songs mention how he always left enough clues to keep her going etc. research before getting mad loser
Nor should you. This is more on the topic of good women ready to be wives and mothers, dating a guy who they expect want that as well, but then just get strung along because the guy says on and on that he's not ready. If your ideal woman is a loving wife and mother, then yes, obviously do not try making it work with a girl who can't decide on what guy she wants. That point of view right there is what the song is talking about from Taylor's perspective, and from women in general as well. Don't try on and on making it work with a guy if he can't decide what he wants
Reading through these comments-- really wishing Brett garnered a more female audience. These dudes get 30 seconds of content they don't like and flip out like they're 10 year olds.
I see a lot of guys like that under many conservatives channels. They blame women for why they're not successful men or why they're not helpers of one another among other crazy comments I've read. Like what the heck
Wow my comment disappeared when I said I've seen guys under conservative videos blame females for why they're locked away at home or not looking out for others. Sad
@hazelwormwood Nah, we aren’t flipping out, it’s just by this point, there are men and women in this comments section smart enough not to believe anything Taylor Swift says until there is proof. No hate towards Swift in any sort of way, but she has a pretty dodgy past when it comes to honesty, versus if Brett wrote this song, then I would believe it, because she has way more integrity than Swift.
To be fair though, T. Swift is literally a serial dater in that she's had how many different relationships in the past decade? Hell, almost all of her biggest hits are esswntially diss tracks directed specifically at the person she most recently broke up with at the time
Last time I checked, Look What You Made Me Do, Shake It Off, Blank Space and Anti-Hero are some of her biggest hits, that aren't about a relationship at all.
i don’t often agree with you, and i get very defensive over Miss Swift, but i completely agree with you here. these lyrics are beautiful and have so much meaning behind them. not just for Taylor but for all women.
Thank you for actually analyzing lyrics and being able to dissect the artist and her apart from each other ! Candace Owen’s and Ben Shapiro need a lesson on that
Taylor Swift has dressed up as a snake and performed witchcraft rituals at her concerts. I don’t separate art from artist because what comes out of the mouth defiles the heart.
I don't think Ms. Swift has ever carried a damn thing in her life, not her relationships, not her own groceries, not a bag full of school books, not even the expensive designer clothes she just bought. 😂😂
@@SamBrockmann u obviously dont know what a nepo baby is then? if thats what u are referring to. she would be a nepo baby if her parents were executives in the music industry which they arent. she was privileged, but not a nepo baby. on the second one, her brand, which is a brand, is a multi-billion dollar one with multiple industries. her cats have a higher net worth than you. buy a helmet
@@leah.leah.leah. she is actually one of the worst people to talk about relationships when she LITERALLY makes money off of them and formed her whole career around her breakups.
@@aoi_susano 1. Only a subset of her songs are about breakups. 2. She makes money from her songs, and the songs that are about breakups are not even her most popular songs.
The only thing the song is about is making Taylor another million. just give it time she’s gonna break up with Kelsey and write an album about him and make millions. It's her MO
She was pretty impressive was she was 15-16yo, but her lyrical ability has never matured and advanced, and now she's just propped up by a ridiculously large and rabid fanbase. If she debuted this music as a new artist today, she'd be little more than an also-ran.
I don’t know if she’ll be an also-ran, but her music resonated with me as a 16 year old when she first debuted. Now I’m in my 30s, it’s a bit pathetic to see a woman in her mid 30s still writing the same type of songs. Emotionally she hasn’t matured. Most of my peers who were also fans as teens are now married with children and steady jobs. She’s still crying about unanswered phone calls and breakups.
@@kkho8408 Perhaps, "also-ran" would be too strong a term, but I strongly doubt that, with exactly the type of content you're referencing, at her age, she would be one of the most popular pop artists, let alone in all of music. I have many friends still in the industry and I can say with certainty that there are a lot who find her very hard to take seriously from a musical standpoint. Marketing? She's very gifted. However, with a fanbase like hers it's tough to differentiate between strong marketing and a product that sells itself.
@@purpleclaws202 They're also 21yo & 24yo, respectively, and while I think Rodrigo could have some staying power because of her talent, the shtick that Carpenter sells likely won't last. More power to them to go prove me wrong, but if they're still writing the same songs about the same things in a decade, I don't think you'll be hearing their name much.
My brother has been in a twenty year relationship with a woman, that began in her late twenties. They have never married (never lived together), no children. He never had a desire for marriage or kids. At times, I think he stole a life she could have had.
🤷♂️ why so many chose a side in a relationship they were not part of, Guarantee no one has a perfect relationship not even the rich. If you don’t like the song don’t listen to it pretty simple.
Nothing to learn here. It's the exact same thing she always does. She tries to divert away from her unwillingness to grow into a woman. Poor kid is going to have so much more trouble
Thank you for providing this knowledge to kids who may not be hearing it at home. My generation never talked about this. We all became doctors, dentists, lawyers and engineers. We sacrificed our 20s to our careers and many of my friends had trouble conceiving
Women, if you are in a relationship that is obviously that one sided then he is just not that into you and it's time to move on. In order to find husband material you may have to lower your standards but at least you can land your man. The #1 reason men won't commit is because in the back of their mind they know they can do better and they don't want to settle.
My favorite lyric is from schism by tool, it is “pure intention juxtaposed will set two lovers’ souls in motion” which (I think) means that when an ideal or intention is contrasted with something so different, it can cause romance or love. For instance in 1984 when the first “scene” with the black hairs girl happens, it is in such contrast that it prompts them to love. Or more like we want what other try so hard to keep us from, and it makes it all the more alluring.
@@leah.leah.leah. if she was as high of an IQ as you believe why hasn’t she retired and used her money to make more ? Kid is a dancing monkey that made her career entertaining tween girls and divorced angry women 🤣 I retired at 27 whats her excuse ?
I was engaged after being in a relationship for 7yrs. He proposed a year before my mom passed away and I then fell into a deep depression and he went and cheated on me multiple times. I left him 2 yrs ago and now I am 34 and I'm so scared I wasted my youth with him and won't meet someone in time to be able to have kids. It scares me so much.
I’m 24 and married and I want children so bad. But we just can’t afford it and it’s so heartbreaking that my years are leaving me I feel so pressured for time. Sometimes it crushes me how fast time goes by.
If you want kids then have them. Reevaluate your finance. Move to a more affordable area. Talk to your parents and ask for assistance. I’m tiered of people saying they can’t afford kids. Kids require sacrifice, are you willing to sacrifice. My husband lost his job during the pandemic and we happened to get pregnant and I was in school. I took no time off had our baby while working an internship and we made it work. We are now having our second and had to cut majority on expenses so we can afford another child.
Yes and no. Buy second hand, don't feel pressured to have whatever the influencer moms are showing, live more modestly if necessary. Kids can be expensive but they don't have to break the bank.
She saw the red flags but choose to carry him up the hill and perform cpr. Women need to take accountability for not letting go of shit relationships. Have boundaries that you uphold and keep it pushing. I did that and I’m married with two kids and many more child bearing years ahead of me.
Geez how many "unrealized so-called relationships" is that for ole Taylor now?...Fifty?.... not sure Swift is capable of having...or..from a professional viewpoint.... needs...a " healthy " relationship.... What in he\\ would she sing about?....failing at relationships seems to keep her professionally relevant....
No, it wasn't just her youth, it was his youth, too. At the time they were together, she wanted to run and hide from her Hollywood, and he gave her safety and solace. If he hadn't been giving in this relationship, if he hadn't been so good of a guy, she wouldn't have been so pissed off when this ended. I'm a girl, and my gut is telling me I'm glad he got away. A huge part of her is the fame and the attention. A life with him was never gonna be enough for her. He was never gonna be enough and she wanted it all.
While a legitimate viewpoint, why do we take anything Taylor Swift says about dating with any degree of seriousness? She made her money, largely, by singing about her terrible taste in men, and how it constantly comes back to bite her.
Taylor Swift songs that are NOT about romance or breakups: 1.) Ronan: about Ronan Thompson (4 yr old boy) who died because of cancer. 2.) Soon you'll get better: about Andrea Swift (Taylor Swift's mom) who struggled with cancer. 3.) Forever Winter: about Jeff Lang (Taylor Swift's high school friend) who died. He struggled with addiction and depression. 4.) Tied together with a smile: about one of her high school friends who had an eating disorder. 5.) The outside: being an outcast/not fitting in. 6.) A place in this world: about the uncertainty that the future holds (also soundtrack on the film Ramona & Beezus). 7.) The lucky one: her fears that come with fame; told through the story of a celebrity that came before her and left the fame behind. 8.) Nothing new: about how things change when you're older. The standards and expectations of a woman are different than a girl's. 9.) I'm only me when I'm with you: about friends and family. 10.) Fifteen: about her and her friend's experience in high school. 11.) Breathe: about the loss of a friendship. 12.) The best day: about her mother's impact in her life. 13.) Change: about her path to success. 14.) Mean: about a critic who left negative reviews about her (didn't actually critique her music, just how she can't sing and made her feel bad). 15.) Never grow up: wrote it about how she has no idea what's coming. She dedicated it to her friend's baby later on. 16.) Innocent: her response to Kanye West in 2009. 17.) Long live: dedicated to her band and fans. 18.) Castles crumbling: what it's like growing up in the public eye and what you think people think of you. 19.) 22: about turning 22. 20.) Welcome to New York- written when she moved to New York. 21.) Blank Space: a joke song about how the media and public portrays her as a person. 22.) Shake it off: about getting back up on your feet and not paying attention to the negative things people say to you. 23.) Bad blood: about someone she wanted/thought of as a friend. 24.) I did something bad: about the media and public's perception of her. 25.) Look what you made me do: about how she realized you can't trust certain people and appreciating the people you can trust. 26.) This is why we can't have nice things: about people taking friendships for granted. 27.) The last great American dynasty: the story of Rebekah Harkness. Taylor Swift bought her house. 28.) My tears ricochet: rumored to be about the betrayal of Scott Brochetta (founder of big machine records, which was Taylor Swift old record label). 29.) Mirrorball: about someone who reflects the personalities around them and shatters when heartbroken. 30.) Seven: about Taylor Swift's childhood friend who seemed to have an unhappy home life. 31.) Mad woman: about how a woman is expected to just absorb everything. If you get mad you are painted as the villian. 32.) Epiphany: about the experiences of her grandfather diring war and the COVID-19 pandemic. How some things you just can't speak about. 33.) The man: double standards 34.) The archer: about anxiety and unlearning bad lessons of the past. 35.) You need to calm down: talks about negative statements surrounding the LGBTQ+ community. 36.) ME!: about self-love and knowing your worth. 37.) No body, no crime: a fictional true crime story. 38.) Marjorie: about her grandmother who died. 39.) It's time to go- about listening to your gut when it tells you to leave. 40.) Who's afraid of little old me?: Taylor Swift addresses and mocks the rumours surrounding her proffessional and personal life. 41.) Clara Bow: pays homage to the film star Clara Bow. Taylor also addresses the manipulation of Clara's career and other women who came after her. 42.) I hate it here: the song explains the yearning of a different time, place or state of mind. 43.) Cassandra: Taylor Swift relates her life to Cassandra; a princess of Troy who was cursed to tell the truth but never believed. 44.) Robin: about a child's world that is filled wih imagination and innocence. 45.) Anti-Hero: is about Taylor Swift's personal failures and what she hates about herself. 46.) Vigilante shit: about a woman who seeks revenge. 47.) Karma: talks about how karma is living your best life. 48.) Bigger than the whole sky: the loss of a loved one (could be interpreted as any kind of loss). 49.) Dear Reader: giving advice and warning not to trust all advice blindly. 50.) Carolina: movie soundtrack (where the crawdads sing). 51.) Safe & sound: movie soundtrack (Hunger games) 52.) Eyes open: movie soundtrack (hunger games). 53.) Sweeter than fiction: movie soundtrack. 54.) You'll always find your way back home: movie soundtrack (Hannah Montana, performed by Miley Cyrus). 55.) Beautiful ghosts: movie soundtrack (Cats). 56.) Only the young: the younger generation holds the key to the future. 57.) Christmas tree farm: christmas song and how she grew up on a crhistmas tree farm.
She does take accountability in many of her songs. And I just want to point out that she is a storyteller above all else. So, while most of her songs are based in reality, she can still change and add details to make a better story for the audience. Just listen to the lyrics and music, you don't have to figure out which boyfriend she's writing about.
I gave 23 years of my life to a man child who thought I was supposed to be his new replacement mother. I not only did everything to make our relationship exist but also did everything that both a mother and father have to do for children and the entirety of the household. God got him removed for us.
Not really a Taylor fan but that line really hits home. I was lucky enough to have one child earlier in life. Sadly with someone who turned out to be a horrible person and father. I gave the rest of my youth to two people that didn’t/dont value me. The first went on to marry and have kids with someone else after treating me like a doormat for 5 years. (My fault for letting it happen for so long) the second is still my partner who (probably for the best) has not been able to get me pregnant in the roughly 10 years we’ve been together. I could live with that if he was a good partner. Unfortunately the qualities that were there for 7 years have disappeared and I often feel resentful that I gave what was left of my youth to this person and no longer have a chance at more children or a relationship that is fulfilling. I’m almost 40 and I feel that my chance at love and family is pretty much gone. Definitely hurts to feel like you wasted your precious time.
So true. Men need to realize some women want to have kids, but women need to wake up. It gets more difficult to have children in our 30s. I dated a man who did this to me. Strangely, he was English. The truth was he just didn't want it with me - his right, but I allowed it.
Totally agree… although women also need to realize that it’s not all about them as there’s literally no benefit in a western marriage for a man… infact it’s just liabilities.. would you work for a company without getting paid forever?
Good points made, but can we not support Taylor please? She’s going kinda anti-Christian and curses in all her songs now and I would never say she’s a good influence for little girls or teens anymore.
I used to think that whole "best years of my life" line was bull. Im now 50, looking back on 25 years of marriage and family feeling like I did not get out as much as I put in.
Pretty deep that she acknowledged she intentionally wasted her time with a guy who clearly wasn't interested but then she still blames him? How is that deep? Deep would be, "I'm a hot mess and I keep making the same mistakes. I'm going to therapy and taking a break from dating until I can fix what's wrong on my end, so I can make healthier choices. 🎶 Oooohhh, I'm going to be single for now."
Literally the only time anyone has ever convinced me to stop and listen to taylor swift's lyrics. Brett , you are a literally one in a million girl. ❤🎉
Apples to Apples. Our younger years are just as precious, and not to be trifled with. Mine were stolen by a disingenuous abuser. Found out too late after the "I do", and stuck it out for thirty years.
I feel this, I want to be married and have kids and be a loving partner and Mom. But I'm single and I'm almost 40 and I'm pretty sure my window for having kids is closing quick!
My husband and I met in our late twenties. We never considered each other “boyfriend or girlfriend”. We began discussing marriage on our second date. We were married within 6 months of meeting and didn’t even kiss until the alter. 3 years in and I’m pregnant with our second child and so happy. Don’t let men waste your time and then blame them for it like T Swift.
it is kind of funny that if a guy were to say this? he would be labeled as a creep. that he should "not care" and that he is "toxic" for wanting a wife. the irony of this is insulting.
Yeah but also, don't let all this "women have a limited time to have kids" propaganda scare you women. Don't feel like you have to throw yourself at the first guy who will sleep with you, take it slow and find the right man who will be a husband and a father, and who won't leave you as a single mother just because you got scare by this talk
That is true too. That's why im still single. I've dated a couple of guys in my early 20s and looking back thank God I didn't marry either of them even though we did talk about marriage and kids.
I’m with Ben on this one. He said it’s not the man’s fault. Women have the freedom to leave. Once it’s clear that the relationship isn’t gonna have a finish line, it’s time to go.
She probably tried to make it work because she knows about the stigma on her with being in many relationships. Also yes they're free to leave and yet many hate the "no fault clause for divorce. I know she wasn't married but say hypothetically they got married in a year and he was acting like that throughput the marriage asking managing to bag her.
Brett, just stop! Taylor is at fault... "Oh, my God, look at that face You look like my next mistake" The only thing I've learned from taylor... is she learned nothing from her last relationships -- it's a given travis will fail soon enough. Taylor the (artist) needs to take a long break/time off, I'm almost guarantee taylor (the person) WILL find love eventually. (imho: joe Alwyn will someday spill the beans; that taylor is indeed a witch!)
My dude, the reason she wrote blank space is cause of people like YOU. The public’s perception of her, that’s what the song is about. And she wrote it as a joke, it almost didn’t get released, but keep on yapping about stuff you don’t know
As long as everyone is truthful. I told my partner I was NOT getting married. I refuse to sign a contract where the other party is rewarded for breaking it.
Bro. What youth? She is in her 30s, and writing like a teenage girl. She is single, because of her own life decisions, and getting rich blaming it on everyone but herself.
Do you have the same energy for male rock stars who still write and sing about sex and drugs when they're well into their 60s and 70s? She's 34. Chill. Also, you're allowed to still write about your past experiences.
All I heard was that she knew the relationship wasn’t working and kept pushing for it to work. I feel like a lot of women do that and we have no one to blame but ourselves.
Men statistically live shorter lives than woman, but you don’t hear us complaining about working 20 hrs of overtime every week, in the prime of our lives just to support a wife and children.🤷♂️
Some thing tells me Brett that you can relate to this song in some way. It is a situation that you would avoid like a plague being that you are in those years and you want the fairytale perfect relationship. Well, so far so good. Good luck with your life plans.
@@priscillajimenez27 Although that can definitely be the case and it’s messed up that people feel the need to do so, it feels like majority fall into saying that they just don’t know, which is fine only when you’re young. If that’s the case, then you need to proceed at your own discretion. Are you willing to take that risk on if they’ll come around to something that you don’t want to compromise on or are you only willing to be with someone who you’re absolutely sure your values align with? What I’ll say is by the time you’re a young adult, you should, at MINIMUM, have an idea of what you’d like your future to look like (kids vs no kids, where you’d like to live, career, marriage, etc.) and if you don’t, then that could be signs for trouble
@@nadiar.4638 That’s why good communication between partners is important because if you do, it’ll come up at a time where nobody should be dragged along
@@bearcatfan1000 true, but it can still be very difficult to either tell someone after years you have changed your mind or to actually leave after putting years of time into a relationship. A situation like that just sucks overall
Any one-sided relationship, be it a relationship, friendship,etc. should be re-evaluated to see if it is what you really want and if it is worth your time and effort.
I HAVE MORE COINS IN GOING BALLS THAN BRET🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I HAVE MORE COINS IN GOING BALLS THAN BRET🤣🤣😢,,.
@@Evil_Jyan ...are we...okay?!?
Yes, but TS doesn't mention marriage or kids. BC shouldn't assume every woman seeks those things - millions don't.
All Taylor Swift sings about is her crying needs. Why even give her or anyone like her the time of day. If singing about boys is all she's got than obviously her and all the girls and women like her don't need to procreate. Life more inportant to live than crying women
Ladies, reject being forever girlfriends, embrace becoming wives.
My skibidi
Millions don't want to. You must be aware than marriage went out of fashion half a century ago.
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm gee, and I wonder what the reason was.
Saying anything is your "forever " is ignorant anyone who says anything like that stay away from
@@stingwcwI pity people like you. Just because you enjoy being miserable doesn't mean you have to push it on everyone else and act like it's normal. Because it's NOT. I have seen both sides. My adoptive parents were married well over 60 years and fostered for 50 YEARS. There absolutely ARE forever relationships. I've been with my partner since I was 20, almost 15 years. And we're still going strong. My sister has been married 25 years. And still going strong. You're supposed to find your person and build your life together. Otherwise your life is meaningless. You're contributing nothing to society. Or our future. Who's going to love and care for you if you get sick... Or when you get old... I uploaded a video of a woman in her 80s with dementia being abused and beaten in an OAP home. They CONSTANTLY mocked her for wasting her life on a career and having nobody to even visit her. Her home and all her assets and savings were stolen to "pay" for her "care" and whatever is left after her death will be taken by the government. All to provide her with daily abuse. And she had been locked in her bedroom alone literally screaming for attention for YEARS. Those with family were treated far better. So even if you don't want family caring for you, just HAVING them around to observe your care make's your living conditions infinitely better. If you don't build a family you're burdening everyone else and forcing them to make all your decisions FOR YOU. You WON'T like the outcome. NOT ONE of the old people at the home that video was taken EVER had a friend visit them. Because by then they were dead, moved on with their lives or in an OAP home of their own if you don't build a family there ISN'T ANYONE. Enjoy reaping what you sow. ☠️🤡☠️🤦♀️🙅🤷♀️
I died at the altar waiting for the proof. 😢
"so it's gonna be forever
Or it's gonna go down in flames"
That's taylor. Always! lol!
@@fizzyjecadoBasically, it always goes down in flames with that girl. They can't ALL be the problem. And if they are, she shouldn't be dating until she's completed intensive therapy. She's 30 something still writing songs about exes like a teeny bopper.
@@user-jv5pp8pv9l i mean she did write a song that says "its me, hi, im the problem, its me" sooooooo 🤷🏻♀️😅
@@user-jv5pp8pv9l she hasnt written about an ex since 4/5 albums ago. 2 albums were about people she made up, more like a storybook concept. She had an album about finding confidence and dealing with self critique. And this new album has only about 3 songs about her ex of 6 years. A lot of the other songs are about a fling she had afterwards and how that was toxic from both sides and other songs are about her own problems. And when she released this last album she said these songs were written in the moment and after looking back a lot of the pain she felt was selfinflicted.
@@user-jv5pp8pv9llol are you kidding me it sells, you think she's writing soley for funsies 😂 it's all a business strategy. Love songs and break-up songs have always been popular
Brett is so real for this❤❤
No, she's assuming - with no evidence - that TS wishes she were married with kids.
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm 🤓☝️
Brother this is a hypothetical. We don't necessarily know the full truth
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm She's not assuming anything. She's evaluating the lyrics that Taylor Swift wrote herself. Brett isn't assuming anything about her as a person, but interperating the lyrics the way she wants to.
@@tonyscalze4077@Queen_Ursula 👍👍👍
guys the video is about staying out of the forever girlfriend trap...obviously she's gonna give her own perspective, if the other guy wanted to come out and give his side that badly he would, it's happened before
But it's TS... poster child of the forever gf, and as far as coming out to defend himself, why? It would only make the guy seem petty, like he still cares and not to mention the cat ladies... I mean TS fans that will attack him
I HAVE MORE COINS IN GOING BALLS THAN BRET🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣ubhxyxtt
Not necessarily - she may have wanted cohabitation. Marriage went out of fashion half a century ago.
I am piggy 🐷
No. If he "wanted to come out" he knows almost exclusively men would listen and even then only a portion of us. Additionally, like Hasan said, it would make him seem petty, bitter, and everyone know Swifties are mental. As much as I am a fan of TS's country pop; she is definitely petty. It's her style and demographic.
I gave 26-33 to someone who turned tail and ran as soon as I wanted him to contribute to the health of the relationship. My number one piece of advice to anyone is, don't wait. If it's not going where you want at the speed you want, leave. Because if you don't, you end up 39 and childless when all you ever wanted was to have a family.
You are not married yet?
@debayanpal3181 No. I am not. At my age, I will likely become a foster parent instead of having children naturally. This was not my plan. But it is my reality.
@@buxombrowncoat5631 You can easily have children. In Nordic countries women have children so late in late 30s. You may move there. And the society there will not judge unlike USA.
@@debayanpal3181 Thank you for the encouragement. I'm getting healthy now, losing weight and quitting smoking, so I can hang around for the family I do make.
@@buxombrowncoat5631 I would suggest you Norway or Iceland. The most open minded nations but have strong holds on their values.
So glad to hear a young woman say these things because they are TRUE‼️
When you get to be a mom and a grandma it is a gift to both parents❣️
If/When Taylor gets pregnant and writes about pregnancy and motherhood, it's going to be as poetic, validating, and thought-provoking as everything else she has written these last 5 years
So not at all, then?
@@butterflygirl141yep
A large part of that problem is that many young men in their 20's aren't ready for that yet.
Boys. Boys aren't ready for that. My nephew is 22 and recently married. He found a good one and didn't waste her time. Just like he didn't waste the time of the girls before his wife. He's a young man. Boys lead women/girls on with no real intention. If you're not ready, don't date someone who knows what they want. It goes the other way as well.
What are you talking about. Women don't whant men in their early to mid 20's. Men are not encouraged to approach women ether(your mother and sister don't count). Men in their 20's was ready for serious relationship in in the past do to expectations and social pressure. And their children turned out fine. Fun fact: Not owning your own land, home and having a steady income was the biggest reason to why marriage didn't happen. There for, many young men about 50-60% never had their own family and children.
She’s been in at least 17 “committed” relationships and that’s just the famous ones. Who knows how many other men she’s been with. Something tells me it’s her that’s the problem. Almost all of her ex’s have since married except her most recent ones. They are clearly men who what to commit, but she has remained a 38 year old teenager.
@@filipjohansson4293yeah but closer age gaps r better. Most ppl marry at 30 anyway.
So true. I literally just spoke to a guy yesterday and made a joke about him getting a wife. He said no because he's too young. I asked how old he was. Bro is 32! Dude you're not 18! I even asked him if he was expecting to marry a much younger girl since women have a smaller window for children...
We need to see Brett Cooper debate her brother about Taylor swift
Who's her brother, and why do we need to see them debate TS?
@@zeldadanielleBen Shapiro, cos he’s not a swiftie
@@stephaniemiddleton3740 BEN. IS. NOT. HER. BROTHER. 😤
@@reginaphalange9316 I don't know if you're serious or not; it's a joke...Brett doesn't find it offensive, why do you?
@@viiiRA_ 1. It’s not funny anymore
2. Some dummies actually think she’s really his daughter or sister
Whilst I understand the sentiment of the lyric, it removes any accountability from the writer in the relationship. Both parties are able to leave a relationship if they're not happy. To say that she is pissed off that he let her give all her youth for free would mean she had no choice but to stay which isn't the case.
This right here! She takes zero accountability.
Unless he wasn't completely honest about what he wants. We'll never know what her and whoever this song is about would discuss behind closed doors, but if he was putting across some idea that he eventually wants kids, and yet continued to let things string on and on, then yes, the blame is mainly all on him. Yes, Taylor could have just called it quits, but she would obviously rather hold on and fight if she truly cares for the guy, and believes he wants kids, only for her to just get led on with no finish line in sight. Leading to her being upset because he then would have wasted her time.
@@OnlineJeeper Respectfully, even if the person she wrote this about was promising her things, the test is in the action. If he was not following through with action and she has stayed in the relationship hoping for change, then she has allowed herself to continue giving him her youth without a return on her investment in him. There is accountability there on her part. I am not saying that he didn't do wrong by her. I am merely saying that we all have choices and she made the choice to stay despite the red flags. It's not easy when you love someone but there are still choices.
@@user-jv5pp8pv9l Wrong...in a monologue Taylor wrote that on proper inspection she found out that most of her wounds were self inflicted....brett even talks abt it in the full video
Let’s not act like people are in love. Women always hope he will change and spend years waiting. It’s not that easy to just give up on someone you love!
And so many guys will just drag you along in a relationship just enough to keep you there with no interest to actually get into a serious relationship/traditional relationship
Yes, all women who want to have kids should be careful who they give time to BUT for those of us that don't want kids it's equally important to not give time to people who don't deserve it.
BC seems to assume that all women want/need marriage & kids.
Well yes, obviously nobody should give time to people that don’t deserve it, but women who want children have to be much more conscious about it because, whether we like it or not, we have a biological clock that won’t wait forever, so we need to be much more careful
Omg that's not what we're talking about Karen!!!
And women who don't want children shouldn't date men who do want children. Both parties should be honest and on the same page. If one person wants children and the other doesn't, one person will be disappointed and potentially resentful. Obviously, there are exceptions, but it's rare.
@@laurenskee2665🤣 its okay some people just want to feel relevant. Whatever makes them sleep at night.
So she tried to force a relationship that she knew he wasn't interested in, but he was the one wasting her time? Sounds like she wasted her own time. Cry me a river.
Please share how to be as perfect as you, o wise one.
if u have ever listened or researchced before making a comment will being blind, her other songs in the album mention how he always left enough clues to keep her interested, etc. research loser
Except he told her that he did wanna marry her, she just needed to wait. Women need to learn that they can’t change men, that’s true, that’s part of the reason why Brett does the forever girlfriend videos, she’s constantly warning women to not become one. But if a man is telling you that he’s going to marry you someday, and you are in love with him, that makes it much more difficult. A man telling a woman to just wait a little longer till he’s ready to be married because she’s in love with him and he knows she will wait IS bad, IS wasting her time and as a woman of course you are going to be bitter when you realise that the promises that he made were just lies. I’ve seen it happen with girls older than me in my church, it sucks for them, and it leaves them absolutely discouraged.
100%
@@valeriam6248boo hoo
Taylor swift is so consistent. After every failed relationship, she writes a new song.
Taylor Swift songs that are NOT about romance or breakups:
1.) Ronan: about Ronan Thompson (4 yr old boy) who died because of cancer.
2.) Soon you'll get better: about Andrea Swift (Taylor Swift's mom) who struggled with cancer.
3.) Forever Winter: about Jeff Lang (Taylor Swift's high school friend) who died. He struggled with addiction and depression.
4.) Tied together with a smile: about one of her high school friends who had an eating disorder.
5.) The outside: being an outcast/not fitting in.
6.) A place in this world: about the uncertainty that the future holds (also soundtrack on the film Ramona & Beezus).
7.) The lucky one: her fears that come with fame; told through the story of a celebrity that came before her and left the fame behind.
8.) Nothing new: about how things change when you're older. The standards and expectations of a woman are different than a girl's.
9.) I'm only me when I'm with you: about friends and family.
10.) Fifteen: about her and her friend's experience in high school.
11.) Breathe: about the loss of a friendship.
12.) The best day: about her mother's impact in her life.
13.) Change: about her path to success.
14.) Mean: about a critic who left negative reviews about her (didn't actually critique her music, just how she can't sing and made her feel bad).
15.) Never grow up: wrote it about how she has no idea what's coming. She dedicated it to her friend's baby later on.
16.) Innocent: her response to Kanye West in 2009.
17.) Long live: dedicated to her band and fans.
18.) Castles crumbling: what it's like growing up in the public eye and what you think people think of you.
19.) 22: about turning 22.
20.) Welcome to New York- written when she moved to New York.
21.) Blank Space: a joke song about how the media and public portrays her as a person.
22.) Shake it off: about getting back up on your feet and not paying attention to the negative things people say to you.
23.) Bad blood: about someone she wanted/thought of as a friend.
24.) I did something bad: about the media and public's perception of her.
25.) Look what you made me do: about how she realized you can't trust certain people and appreciating the people you can trust.
26.) This is why we can't have nice things: about people taking friendships for granted.
27.) The last great American dynasty: the story of Rebekah Harkness. Taylor Swift bought her house.
28.) My tears ricochet: rumored to be about the betrayal of Scott Brochetta (founder of big machine records, which was Taylor Swift old record label).
29.) Mirrorball: about someone who reflects the personalities around them and shatters when heartbroken.
30.) Seven: about Taylor Swift's childhood friend who seemed to have an unhappy home life.
31.) Mad woman: about how a woman is expected to just absorb everything. If you get mad you are painted as the villian.
32.) Epiphany: about the experiences of her grandfather diring war and the COVID-19 pandemic. How some things you just can't speak about.
33.) The man: double standards
34.) The archer: about anxiety and unlearning bad lessons of the past.
35.) You need to calm down: talks about negative statements surrounding the LGBTQ+ community.
36.) ME!: about self-love and knowing your worth.
37.) No body, no crime: a fictional true crime story.
38.) Marjorie: about her grandmother who died.
39.) It's time to go- about listening to your gut when it tells you to leave.
40.) Who's afraid of little old me?: Taylor Swift addresses and mocks the rumours surrounding her proffessional and personal life.
41.) Clara Bow: pays homage to the film star Clara Bow. Taylor also addresses the manipulation of Clara's career and other women who came after her.
42.) I hate it here: the song explains the yearning of a different time, place or state of mind.
43.) Cassandra: Taylor Swift relates her life to Cassandra; a princess of Troy who was cursed to tell the truth but never believed.
44.) Robin: about a child's world that is filled wih imagination and innocence.
45.) Anti-Hero: is about Taylor Swift's personal failures and what she hates about herself.
46.) Vigilante shit: about a woman who seeks revenge.
47.) Karma: talks about how karma is living your best life.
48.) Bigger than the whole sky: the loss of a loved one (could be interpreted as any kind of loss).
49.) Dear Reader: giving advice and warning not to trust all advice blindly.
50.) Carolina: movie soundtrack (where the crawdads sing).
51.) Safe & sound: movie soundtrack (Hunger games)
52.) Eyes open: movie soundtrack (hunger games).
53.) Sweeter than fiction: movie soundtrack.
54.) You'll always find your way back home: movie soundtrack (Hannah Montana, performed by Miley Cyrus).
55.) Beautiful ghosts: movie soundtrack (Cats).
56.) Only the young: the younger generation holds the key to the future.
57.) Christmas tree farm: christmas song and how she grew up on a crhistmas tree farm.
Don’t forgot , consistently riding in her private jet killing baby penguins and not caring 🤷🏽♀️
That’s not a good person .
@@galyasteynberg3130Notice how a lot of the songs are for movies though
@NuggieIsMissing 5/57 are for movies. I'm not a swiftie, but that doesn't seem like a "lot" of these songs to me
That's what every music artist does
100% I was chomping at the bit to get married and have kids at 21...then voila found a man 2 years older who wanted the same thing and we were friends 3 years and together 9 months, married, pregnant 3 months later. Ages 25 and 27. Women must prioritize kids if they plan to have them.
I thought I'd be married with kids by my early 20s. Didn't happen. Guy I was talking to at 16 (2005), we split after all the drama with his ex at our church. While in college, started actually dating a guy at 20. We talked about marriage and kids. I broke up with him after two years due to his mental instability. At 24 I started seeing a much older guy who was my pastor's youngest son (35) who already had a child. I'm a stepchild so I was open to being a stepmom. Turns out the guy only wanted sex and got mad when I wouldn't give it to him outside of marriage. After over a year I found out he was cheating the whole time and ended up getting a other girl pregnant and marrying her (they're separated now). After that (26) I was just working to sustain myself while working with children as a teaching assistant. By 2019 I moved states. So yeah it's not always black and white.
It's not because you prioritize having children that it will happen out of the blue. You still have to be lucky to find the right guy and also, it's not black and white. Life doesn't go always as planned.
I have girl friends who want this for years, but haven't found the one yet. Does that make them the problem? Maybe they are to picky. But at the other hand, you sometimes need some luck to meet that person at the roght place at the right time.
I feel this so much, got me thinking and put tears in my eyes as I only have 10 years left to have kids and I see no hope in what years I have left to have any children.
Dont give up but seek for a good man, you still have time
I totally understand what you mean. And if you count in the higer risk of getting a unhealthy baby starting from the age of 25 you even have les time. meanwhile a friend of mine that doesn't want kids says it's not that bad. at 30 years your vertilety is already droping and she is just denying those facts and telling me al kind of things to maye give me doubts. I still have a bad taste in my mouth of the conversation. Her asuming I'm not ready for kids yet dubble hurted me since I already wanted them at the age of 28. I finish my study this sumer that in the end is usles while I postponed my wish to have childrens for it. I'm 30 and kind of stressing out about it. what if we finally are trying it and it doesn't work or it takes me forever to get pregnent.. For that reason alone I reget doing that studie.
@ydejonge9443 Yeah that's unfortunate, I love my boyfriend very much and don't want to leave him, but he's made it very clear that he doesn't want children unless we're financially stable to support kids. We can barely afford things for ourselves, let alone a kid, so I understand where he is coming from. With the economy the way that it is, it just feels hopeless, I bust my butt working and don't have anything to show for it, and that's why with only 10 years left and basically no money I just see no light at the end of the tunnel for any kind of hope at a life with children.
No, she's annoying because all she sings about is how she's some kind of angel and how its always the boys screwing it up
literally not true at all listen to Back to December and even if it was artists can sing about whatever they want and ur just trying to find a reason to hate her. i've never seen anyone say this artist "sings too much about this" for anyone else
That's so not true. She literally has songs, even well-known songs, where she puts blame on herself.
She has blamed herself multiple times in songs, unlike other artists that wouldn’t get such criticism because people hate her to hate
Exactly such a tired view point.
@@itzemily3463now list the songs where she talks about her multiple exes and their flaws... it's literally her brand, it's what's she's known for
That's my favorite song on the album ❤️
Taylor Swift is my age, and I started listening to her when she first came out. She is still singing about the same things. I have outgrown it and her. I got rid of all her early cds. All of her new stuff sounds like everything else out there. It has gotten old and annoying. It makes it worse when the media keeps shoving her in everyone's face regarding her new man. We don't care! I don't care for her, but I wish her all the best.
It’s just gotten sad at this point. She’s in her mid thirties, but has the ability of a 19 year old to keep a relationship
@@gamingaura4204"keeping a relationship" isn't an ability, it's something that depends on both ppl
Stop dating wrong,
katt williams said it best...
If every guy you date ain't shit,
Maybe there's something about YOU that attracts ain't shit men.
Women only do half the equation forgetting they're about of the relationship as well.
She's aware of this
Why would anyone care what douchebag Katt Williams said?
way to completely miss the point
@@jamesvanderbilt201I don’t believe he missed the point I believe he added on too it how much of those lyrics are true and how much is made up celebrity garbage maybe she’s was too narcissistic to see he was trying and she was also apart of the problem
Damn. "It’s me, I'm the problem" in *my* T-Swift lyrics???
Except that she's lying. She has not been giving all her time to her relationships. She gives all her time to her brand, tours, music, etc. So those guys are probably taking a queue from her. If she really wanted to be married she would act differently.
Exactly!! She's a true narcissist!!
not only that but who the hell would want to marry a woman who is literally making a fortune off of writing about her ex's? you would never escape being compared to her past lovers. not by her, and not by her friends, and god help you if the fans find out
she’s a celebrity obviously she’s going to have other stuff to do but so does every other working person. Plus her partner knows what they’re getting into and how tight her schedule is but you always find time for the people you love, it’s not as if she’s shutting everything and everyone out or she’d have nothing to write about 🤷♀️
She means whatever time she gives for relationships she gave it to him.
If women cared about their youth so much, why are they all on OF?! Why wait for that 6", 6 figured 6-pack? We're not wasting your youth; YOU ARE!
Taylor Swift is not an OF girl. She's speaking from her own experience, not for all women. And I would prefer if you didn't speak for women either, because a lot of women have fallen into this trap even if they're good, normal people who have not been provocative at all. A lot of good people have been led on, both men and women, and for women, it hurts even worse because of their biological clock
I swear i never met a girl who did only fans in my whole entire life, and I almost exclusively talk to women
@@frann8002 I wish I could agree with you, but it seems to have caught on like a contagion. The biggest place this process was evident is social media. I had a lot of people I had gone to high school with on my Instagram. The process seemed to follow this trajectory. 1. Boudoir empowerment trend where women decided showing everyone they know their scantily clad bods brought them immense power > 2. Genetically gifted women start OFs and make bank > 3. Everyone and their mother of all shapes and sizes starting the OFs. The next logical step in this cycle is to legalize ladies of the night again and you will see them all selling themselves off as consumer goods.
“all on OF” how many woman have you met who have only fans. It most of the women surrounding you have OF, I’d say you’re most likely the problem.
And don’t come after me. I said most likely.
uhhh u obviously have never talked to a women if u assume they are all on of lmfao
I've never listened to a full swift song but those lyrics are heartfelt honesty
Yea, no.....
Maybe the first six times she sang the same bs about different men but they used up garden tool has never been in a serious relationship that wasn't about the attention but I guess if your dumb af it's hard to see
Maybe she didn't want to face facts that he wasn't going to marry her and kept thinking she could change him.
uhh have u listened to her songs whatsoever queen? her songs mention how he always left enough clues to keep her going etc. research before getting mad loser
He had many mental issues
@@purpleclaws202 how do you know that? Do you know him personally?
@@purpleclaws202who?
Im not gonna marry her when shes giving that "time" to 29 other dudes
Nor should you. This is more on the topic of good women ready to be wives and mothers, dating a guy who they expect want that as well, but then just get strung along because the guy says on and on that he's not ready. If your ideal woman is a loving wife and mother, then yes, obviously do not try making it work with a girl who can't decide on what guy she wants. That point of view right there is what the song is talking about from Taylor's perspective, and from women in general as well. Don't try on and on making it work with a guy if he can't decide what he wants
Time?
Reading through these comments-- really wishing Brett garnered a more female audience. These dudes get 30 seconds of content they don't like and flip out like they're 10 year olds.
Sadly most young women are liberals, and that's just statistics
I see a lot of guys like that under many conservatives channels. They blame women for why they're not successful men or why they're not helpers of one another among other crazy comments I've read. Like what the heck
Wow my comment disappeared when I said I've seen guys under conservative videos blame females for why they're locked away at home or not looking out for others. Sad
@hazelwormwood Nah, we aren’t flipping out, it’s just by this point, there are men and women in this comments section smart enough not to believe anything Taylor Swift says until there is proof. No hate towards Swift in any sort of way, but she has a pretty dodgy past when it comes to honesty, versus if Brett wrote this song, then I would believe it, because she has way more integrity than Swift.
@KevinZ45 lol ok 👍
To be fair though, T. Swift is literally a serial dater in that she's had how many different relationships in the past decade? Hell, almost all of her biggest hits are esswntially diss tracks directed specifically at the person she most recently broke up with at the time
What about the rest of the entertainment industry like look at at Leonardo DiCaprio he has had 23 public relationships while Taylor has had 12
This is not true. But even if it was, people are allowed to write about their relationships. EVERY musician does this.
Last time I checked, Look What You Made Me Do, Shake It Off, Blank Space and Anti-Hero are some of her biggest hits, that aren't about a relationship at all.
She was literally in a 6 year relationship for most of that past decade...
In the past decade, which is 10 years, she was with a person for 6 years
"🗣️🎶🎶🎶You let him hit it raw, now you a single mom. Now you are a single mom🎶🎶🗣️"
i don’t often agree with you, and i get very defensive over Miss Swift, but i completely agree with you here. these lyrics are beautiful and have so much meaning behind them. not just for Taylor but for all women.
Not for me. Speak for yourself and your silly little friends.
So basically you're only open to opinions you agree with
It takes idol worshipping to see the light I see. You need Ms. Swift to tell you how to think.
TS doesn't mention marriage or kids.
Swiftie robot
That sounds really good,10 or 15 years ago. The women today are a completely different story as mentioned here many times.
Taylors had 50 ex's but its all of the men that were the problem
Stop exaggerating stuffs. She only had 9 exes and it is normal in comparison to the the Gen-Z dating a dozen of them in a year or two, lol.
back to december, midnight rain, anti hero and so on
this proves how haters don't know shit about her music. she has several songs and lyrics that are about the relationship being her fault.
@@saakshishetty7786 Even with as "few" as 9 exes, you gotta start realizing that maybe you're the problem after than many failures.
She only has 12 exes
Thank you for actually analyzing lyrics and being able to dissect the artist and her apart from each other ! Candace Owen’s and Ben Shapiro need a lesson on that
Taylor Swift has dressed up as a snake and performed witchcraft rituals at her concerts. I don’t separate art from artist because what comes out of the mouth defiles the heart.
Ben is more indifferent with TS. Candace actually hates her.
I don't think Ms. Swift has ever carried a damn thing in her life, not her relationships, not her own groceries, not a bag full of school books, not even the expensive designer clothes she just bought. 😂😂
womp womp. shes one of the strongest business people out there today, and isn't a nepo baby if thats what u mean.
@leah.leah.leah. , bahahaha, sure she is. She has to ask her father for permission to speak on politics.
@@SamBrockmann u obviously dont know what a nepo baby is then? if thats what u are referring to. she would be a nepo baby if her parents were executives in the music industry which they arent. she was privileged, but not a nepo baby. on the second one, her brand, which is a brand, is a multi-billion dollar one with multiple industries. her cats have a higher net worth than you. buy a helmet
@@leah.leah.leah. she is actually one of the worst people to talk about relationships when she LITERALLY makes money off of them and formed her whole career around her breakups.
@@aoi_susano 1. Only a subset of her songs are about breakups. 2. She makes money from her songs, and the songs that are about breakups are not even her most popular songs.
Women as a whole also need to vet men better
Even FBI can’t vet these m3n. Joe Alwyn seemed like one of the good ones.
@@manifest2203wom3n aren’t even worth marriage anymore
The only thing the song is about is making Taylor another million. just give it time she’s gonna break up with Kelsey and write an album about him and make millions. It's her MO
100% 🙌
@@AylaHetfield jealous? 👀
If I was a man, I would not be with Taylor Swift.
@nadyatytian279 she don't want you
He seems smart. He won’t act up.
She was pretty impressive was she was 15-16yo, but her lyrical ability has never matured and advanced, and now she's just propped up by a ridiculously large and rabid fanbase. If she debuted this music as a new artist today, she'd be little more than an also-ran.
miss maam--
That's not true lol Olivia Rodrigo and Sabrina Carpenter release music like this
I don’t know if she’ll be an also-ran, but her music resonated with me as a 16 year old when she first debuted. Now I’m in my 30s, it’s a bit pathetic to see a woman in her mid 30s still writing the same type of songs. Emotionally she hasn’t matured. Most of my peers who were also fans as teens are now married with children and steady jobs. She’s still crying about unanswered phone calls and breakups.
@@kkho8408 Perhaps, "also-ran" would be too strong a term, but I strongly doubt that, with exactly the type of content you're referencing, at her age, she would be one of the most popular pop artists, let alone in all of music. I have many friends still in the industry and I can say with certainty that there are a lot who find her very hard to take seriously from a musical standpoint. Marketing? She's very gifted. However, with a fanbase like hers it's tough to differentiate between strong marketing and a product that sells itself.
@@purpleclaws202 They're also 21yo & 24yo, respectively, and while I think Rodrigo could have some staying power because of her talent, the shtick that Carpenter sells likely won't last. More power to them to go prove me wrong, but if they're still writing the same songs about the same things in a decade, I don't think you'll be hearing their name much.
I love this. You need to battle Ben on Taylor!
My brother has been in a twenty year relationship with a woman, that began in her late twenties. They have never married (never lived together), no children. He never had a desire for marriage or kids.
At times, I think he stole a life she could have had.
Wow that's crazy
she could have left tho if she wanted "a life"
🤷♂️ why so many chose a side in a relationship they were not part of, Guarantee no one has a perfect relationship not even the rich. If you don’t like the song don’t listen to it pretty simple.
Nothing to learn here. It's the exact same thing she always does. She tries to divert away from her unwillingness to grow into a woman. Poor kid is going to have so much more trouble
She already is a woman tho, isn't she? She's 21, right? And I don't understand your comment about her trying to divert away from it. 🤔
She's 34
Bret or Taylor?
@@queenwin8509 REALLY ?!? I THOUGHT ONE TIME SHE SAID THAT SHE WAS 21 OR 22
@@gachabear1616 probably 12 years ago
Thank you for providing this knowledge to kids who may not be hearing it at home. My generation never talked about this. We all became doctors, dentists, lawyers and engineers. We sacrificed our 20s to our careers and many of my friends had trouble conceiving
Been there. Your youth is precious. Try not to waste it on someone who doesn't deserve it.
It's also up to the woman to just say Hey f*** this this isn't working out I'm leaving
Yes that’s what she did. She is writing about it.
I really think you’ve got the best mind when it comes to bringing very different people and ideas together 😊❤
Swift's music has been garbage since late 2000's. At least the older stuff was tolerable, benign and childish as it was.
Women, if you are in a relationship that is obviously that one sided then he is just not that into you and it's time to move on. In order to find husband material you may have to lower your standards but at least you can land your man. The #1 reason men won't commit is because in the back of their mind they know they can do better and they don't want to settle.
My favorite lyric is from schism by tool, it is “pure intention juxtaposed will set two lovers’ souls in motion” which (I think) means that when an ideal or intention is contrasted with something so different, it can cause romance or love. For instance in 1984 when the first “scene” with the black hairs girl happens, it is in such contrast that it prompts them to love. Or more like we want what other try so hard to keep us from, and it makes it all the more alluring.
I recommend listening to other tool stuff, it has some of the most incredible lyricism I’ve ever heard.
🤣 Brett is way too smart to be listening to Taylor swift , wtf!
People are allowed to enjoy things.
Wtf when does being smart dictate your musical preference?So she has to listen to classical music?
Taylor Swift is literally one of the strongest business people in the world right now, she has a higher IQ than you can probably count to.
@@leah.leah.leah. if she was as high of an IQ as you believe why hasn’t she retired and used her money to make more ? Kid is a dancing monkey that made her career entertaining tween girls and divorced angry women 🤣 I retired at 27 whats her excuse ?
I was engaged after being in a relationship for 7yrs. He proposed a year before my mom passed away and I then fell into a deep depression and he went and cheated on me multiple times. I left him 2 yrs ago and now I am 34 and I'm so scared I wasted my youth with him and won't meet someone in time to be able to have kids. It scares me so much.
I’m 24 and married and I want children so bad. But we just can’t afford it and it’s so heartbreaking that my years are leaving me I feel so pressured for time. Sometimes it crushes me how fast time goes by.
If you want kids then have them. Reevaluate your finance. Move to a more affordable area. Talk to your parents and ask for assistance. I’m tiered of people saying they can’t afford kids. Kids require sacrifice, are you willing to sacrifice.
My husband lost his job during the pandemic and we happened to get pregnant and I was in school. I took no time off had our baby while working an internship and we made it work. We are now having our second and had to cut majority on expenses so we can afford another child.
Yes and no. Buy second hand, don't feel pressured to have whatever the influencer moms are showing, live more modestly if necessary. Kids can be expensive but they don't have to break the bank.
As a woman, it is very true. Woman's prime is 25-32. After that, it is less and less productive.
"This is where it gets real good" I beg to differ.
She saw the red flags but choose to carry him up the hill and perform cpr. Women need to take accountability for not letting go of shit relationships. Have boundaries that you uphold and keep it pushing. I did that and I’m married with two kids and many more child bearing years ahead of me.
Lol no need to brag.
Geez how many "unrealized so-called relationships" is that for ole Taylor now?...Fifty?.... not sure Swift is capable of having...or..from a professional viewpoint.... needs...a " healthy " relationship.... What in he\\ would she sing about?....failing at relationships seems to keep her professionally relevant....
@@andreahernandez-sj3csthey’re right tho… 🤣
@@brettrobinson2901 she's had 9. Which is a good amount since she started when she was 16 up to 34
No, it wasn't just her youth, it was his youth, too. At the time they were together, she wanted to run and hide from her Hollywood, and he gave her safety and solace. If he hadn't been giving in this relationship, if he hadn't been so good of a guy, she wouldn't have been so pissed off when this ended. I'm a girl, and my gut is telling me I'm glad he got away. A huge part of her is the fame and the attention. A life with him was never gonna be enough for her. He was never gonna be enough and she wanted it all.
Wow, a honest woman that says it like it is… thank you… one rational comment amongst 100s…
We should not learn anything from a false idol.
She must’ve read my DMs talking about how she’s letting them sign her soul away. It’s not about a man, it’s about Hollywood. Pray for her!
While a legitimate viewpoint, why do we take anything Taylor Swift says about dating with any degree of seriousness? She made her money, largely, by singing about her terrible taste in men, and how it constantly comes back to bite her.
Taylor Swift songs that are NOT about romance or breakups:
1.) Ronan: about Ronan Thompson (4 yr old boy) who died because of cancer.
2.) Soon you'll get better: about Andrea Swift (Taylor Swift's mom) who struggled with cancer.
3.) Forever Winter: about Jeff Lang (Taylor Swift's high school friend) who died. He struggled with addiction and depression.
4.) Tied together with a smile: about one of her high school friends who had an eating disorder.
5.) The outside: being an outcast/not fitting in.
6.) A place in this world: about the uncertainty that the future holds (also soundtrack on the film Ramona & Beezus).
7.) The lucky one: her fears that come with fame; told through the story of a celebrity that came before her and left the fame behind.
8.) Nothing new: about how things change when you're older. The standards and expectations of a woman are different than a girl's.
9.) I'm only me when I'm with you: about friends and family.
10.) Fifteen: about her and her friend's experience in high school.
11.) Breathe: about the loss of a friendship.
12.) The best day: about her mother's impact in her life.
13.) Change: about her path to success.
14.) Mean: about a critic who left negative reviews about her (didn't actually critique her music, just how she can't sing and made her feel bad).
15.) Never grow up: wrote it about how she has no idea what's coming. She dedicated it to her friend's baby later on.
16.) Innocent: her response to Kanye West in 2009.
17.) Long live: dedicated to her band and fans.
18.) Castles crumbling: what it's like growing up in the public eye and what you think people think of you.
19.) 22: about turning 22.
20.) Welcome to New York- written when she moved to New York.
21.) Blank Space: a joke song about how the media and public portrays her as a person.
22.) Shake it off: about getting back up on your feet and not paying attention to the negative things people say to you.
23.) Bad blood: about someone she wanted/thought of as a friend.
24.) I did something bad: about the media and public's perception of her.
25.) Look what you made me do: about how she realized you can't trust certain people and appreciating the people you can trust.
26.) This is why we can't have nice things: about people taking friendships for granted.
27.) The last great American dynasty: the story of Rebekah Harkness. Taylor Swift bought her house.
28.) My tears ricochet: rumored to be about the betrayal of Scott Brochetta (founder of big machine records, which was Taylor Swift old record label).
29.) Mirrorball: about someone who reflects the personalities around them and shatters when heartbroken.
30.) Seven: about Taylor Swift's childhood friend who seemed to have an unhappy home life.
31.) Mad woman: about how a woman is expected to just absorb everything. If you get mad you are painted as the villian.
32.) Epiphany: about the experiences of her grandfather diring war and the COVID-19 pandemic. How some things you just can't speak about.
33.) The man: double standards
34.) The archer: about anxiety and unlearning bad lessons of the past.
35.) You need to calm down: talks about negative statements surrounding the LGBTQ+ community.
36.) ME!: about self-love and knowing your worth.
37.) No body, no crime: a fictional true crime story.
38.) Marjorie: about her grandmother who died.
39.) It's time to go- about listening to your gut when it tells you to leave.
40.) Who's afraid of little old me?: Taylor Swift addresses and mocks the rumours surrounding her proffessional and personal life.
41.) Clara Bow: pays homage to the film star Clara Bow. Taylor also addresses the manipulation of Clara's career and other women who came after her.
42.) I hate it here: the song explains the yearning of a different time, place or state of mind.
43.) Cassandra: Taylor Swift relates her life to Cassandra; a princess of Troy who was cursed to tell the truth but never believed.
44.) Robin: about a child's world that is filled wih imagination and innocence.
45.) Anti-Hero: is about Taylor Swift's personal failures and what she hates about herself.
46.) Vigilante shit: about a woman who seeks revenge.
47.) Karma: talks about how karma is living your best life.
48.) Bigger than the whole sky: the loss of a loved one (could be interpreted as any kind of loss).
49.) Dear Reader: giving advice and warning not to trust all advice blindly.
50.) Carolina: movie soundtrack (where the crawdads sing).
51.) Safe & sound: movie soundtrack (Hunger games)
52.) Eyes open: movie soundtrack (hunger games).
53.) Sweeter than fiction: movie soundtrack.
54.) You'll always find your way back home: movie soundtrack (Hannah Montana, performed by Miley Cyrus).
55.) Beautiful ghosts: movie soundtrack (Cats).
56.) Only the young: the younger generation holds the key to the future.
57.) Christmas tree farm: christmas song and how she grew up on a crhistmas tree farm.
She does take accountability in many of her songs. And I just want to point out that she is a storyteller above all else. So, while most of her songs are based in reality, she can still change and add details to make a better story for the audience. Just listen to the lyrics and music, you don't have to figure out which boyfriend she's writing about.
@@galyasteynberg3130 You have way too much time on your hands.
No wonder why she endorses Joe Biden
I gave 23 years of my life to a man child who thought I was supposed to be his new replacement mother. I not only did everything to make our relationship exist but also did everything that both a mother and father have to do for children and the entirety of the household. God got him removed for us.
Taylor Swift is the LAST WOMAN you should take seriously on relationships. Her career was built on breaking good men and writing songs about them.
Never let a boyfriend keep you from finding your husband ❤
Not really a Taylor fan but that line really hits home. I was lucky enough to have one child earlier in life. Sadly with someone who turned out to be a horrible person and father. I gave the rest of my youth to two people that didn’t/dont value me. The first went on to marry and have kids with someone else after treating me like a doormat for 5 years. (My fault for letting it happen for so long) the second is still my partner who (probably for the best) has not been able to get me pregnant in the roughly 10 years we’ve been together. I could live with that if he was a good partner. Unfortunately the qualities that were there for 7 years have disappeared and I often feel resentful that I gave what was left of my youth to this person and no longer have a chance at more children or a relationship that is fulfilling. I’m almost 40 and I feel that my chance at love and family is pretty much gone. Definitely hurts to feel like you wasted your precious time.
... this lyrics are only Swifts side of these Story
yes like every lyric to any song since it’s her song ?
It’s her song so of course it’s her side
lol what a stupid comment
Just like everybody else's?
Obviously what do you expect
ITS HER SONG which is from her own pov
So true. Men need to realize some women want to have kids, but women need to wake up. It gets more difficult to have children in our 30s. I dated a man who did this to me. Strangely, he was English. The truth was he just didn't want it with me - his right, but I allowed it.
Totally agree… although women also need to realize that it’s not all about them as there’s literally no benefit in a western marriage for a man… infact it’s just liabilities.. would you work for a company without getting paid forever?
Good points made, but can we not support Taylor please? She’s going kinda anti-Christian and curses in all her songs now and I would never say she’s a good influence for little girls or teens anymore.
what are you 90?
What woman is genuine question in 2020
The majority of her explicit songs have a clean version, or go listen to KidzBop
It shouldn't take you years or even months to see if the person is worthy of such a gift. You don't even have to give yourself like that to know.
Every day you get closer and closer to being a Swiftie whether you like it or not :D
damn brett is more succint than our english teachers at interpreting texts
I used to think that whole "best years of my life" line was bull. Im now 50, looking back on 25 years of marriage and family feeling like I did not get out as much as I put in.
Dang. Did I just become a swifty? That was pretty deep.
Pretty deep that she acknowledged she intentionally wasted her time with a guy who clearly wasn't interested but then she still blames him? How is that deep? Deep would be, "I'm a hot mess and I keep making the same mistakes. I'm going to therapy and taking a break from dating until I can fix what's wrong on my end, so I can make healthier choices. 🎶 Oooohhh, I'm going to be single for now."
@@user-jv5pp8pv9l quit yapping
Literally the only time anyone has ever convinced me to stop and listen to taylor swift's lyrics. Brett , you are a literally one in a million girl. ❤🎉
Exactly!!!! We're not desperate to get married we're on a time crunch!!
ain't no way this could be aboit joe alwyn, he was literally perfect
Given Taytay’s body count, I’m gonna say she’s the major problem in her relationships rather than the gents.
She’s the common denominator
Ugh, you're a Swiftie! Your stock just took a huge hit!!!!!
Why? Im confused. Wouldnt it go up?
It is interesting how she's always 100% of the time the victim
Listen to her songs and you'll realize that that's not how her songs are
listen to her songs??
back to december, midnight rain, anti hero etc..
Listen to her songs
I'm a dude, but I often felt I had a greater sense of urgency in this regard than most young women.
Apples to Apples. Our younger years are just as precious, and not to be trifled with. Mine were stolen by a disingenuous abuser. Found out too late after the "I do", and stuck it out for thirty years.
love you brett
I feel this, I want to be married and have kids and be a loving partner and Mom. But I'm single and I'm almost 40 and I'm pretty sure my window for having kids is closing quick!
My husband and I met in our late twenties. We never considered each other “boyfriend or girlfriend”. We began discussing marriage on our second date. We were married within 6 months of meeting and didn’t even kiss until the alter. 3 years in and I’m pregnant with our second child and so happy. Don’t let men waste your time and then blame them for it like T Swift.
Not a Taylor Swift fan but I literally got chills
In China you have to pay a fee if you date a woman in their prime and then leave them
The daily wire is WOKE
it is kind of funny that if a guy were to say this? he would be labeled as a creep. that he should "not care" and that he is "toxic" for wanting a wife.
the irony of this is insulting.
My mom told my dad they either start planning for marriage and kids, or they were over, and now here I am
Yeah but also, don't let all this "women have a limited time to have kids" propaganda scare you women. Don't feel like you have to throw yourself at the first guy who will sleep with you, take it slow and find the right man who will be a husband and a father, and who won't leave you as a single mother just because you got scare by this talk
That is true too. That's why im still single. I've dated a couple of guys in my early 20s and looking back thank God I didn't marry either of them even though we did talk about marriage and kids.
@@priscillajimenez27 how is the dating market on the women's side? I'm very curious
I would love to here Ben’s perspective on this
Waiting for the future song about how Travis is the next one at fault in her victim-world! LOL
From how he acted in the super bowl, many people think they won't last
Yall are wild of you think Taylor is that literal
He seems smart. He won’t act up.
@@manifest2203if he’s actually smart, he’ll find someone younger… dudes just 34 and hella rich, he’ll get whatever he wants tbh
Read it like a literacy teacher😂
Love you vids by the way❤
Hey ladies guys decide relationships not you. If a guy isn't showing interest pay attention
I’m with Ben on this one. He said it’s not the man’s fault. Women have the freedom to leave. Once it’s clear that the relationship isn’t gonna have a finish line, it’s time to go.
She probably tried to make it work because she knows about the stigma on her with being in many relationships.
Also yes they're free to leave and yet many hate the "no fault clause for divorce. I know she wasn't married but say hypothetically they got married in a year and he was acting like that throughput the marriage asking managing to bag her.
Brett, just stop! Taylor is at fault...
"Oh, my God, look at that face
You look like my next mistake"
The only thing I've learned from taylor... is she learned nothing from her last relationships -- it's a given travis will fail soon enough.
Taylor the (artist) needs to take a long break/time off, I'm almost guarantee taylor (the person) WILL find love eventually.
(imho: joe Alwyn will someday spill the beans; that taylor is indeed a witch!)
Blank Space is satire. Joe Alwyn is a very private person. He’s not into gossiping and backbiting.
sir u need to eat an m+m, pet a dog, and take a nap cos u are yapping
My dude, the reason she wrote blank space is cause of people like YOU. The public’s perception of her, that’s what the song is about. And she wrote it as a joke, it almost didn’t get released, but keep on yapping about stuff you don’t know
He recently told that it was hard to get over Taylor.
As long as everyone is truthful. I told my partner I was NOT getting married. I refuse to sign a contract where the other party is rewarded for breaking it.
Bro. What youth? She is in her 30s, and writing like a teenage girl. She is single, because of her own life decisions, and getting rich blaming it on everyone but herself.
30s is not exactly old, what are you on?
Bro she dated joe for like 6 years
What are you talking about
She’s not single? And she’s talking about “youth” as in the prime years for marriage and children. Think before you comment
@@Cat4ever368 exactly
Do you have the same energy for male rock stars who still write and sing about sex and drugs when they're well into their 60s and 70s? She's 34. Chill. Also, you're allowed to still write about your past experiences.
All I heard was that she knew the relationship wasn’t working and kept pushing for it to work. I feel like a lot of women do that and we have no one to blame but ourselves.
Men statistically live shorter lives than woman, but you don’t hear us complaining about working 20 hrs of overtime every week, in the prime of our lives just to support a wife and children.🤷♂️
If you don't like it don't do it. You have free will to make whatever life choice you want.
You think narcissistic women of this generation care about what men want lol
Some thing tells me Brett that you can relate to this song in some way. It is a situation that you would avoid like a plague being that you are in those years and you want the fairytale perfect relationship. Well, so far so good. Good luck with your life plans.
The moral of the story: talk about this stuff before getting into a relationship
Sadly some do but people lie
@@priscillajimenez27 Although that can definitely be the case and it’s messed up that people feel the need to do so, it feels like majority fall into saying that they just don’t know, which is fine only when you’re young. If that’s the case, then you need to proceed at your own discretion. Are you willing to take that risk on if they’ll come around to something that you don’t want to compromise on or are you only willing to be with someone who you’re absolutely sure your values align with?
What I’ll say is by the time you’re a young adult, you should, at MINIMUM, have an idea of what you’d like your future to look like (kids vs no kids, where you’d like to live, career, marriage, etc.) and if you don’t, then that could be signs for trouble
People and situations can change though
@@nadiar.4638 That’s why good communication between partners is important because if you do, it’ll come up at a time where nobody should be dragged along
@@bearcatfan1000 true, but it can still be very difficult to either tell someone after years you have changed your mind or to actually leave after putting years of time into a relationship. A situation like that just sucks overall
After 3 years... I'd been gone.