The biggest key I've found personally for endless motivation is NEVER to believe in my "feelings" in terms of when I'm in a state of reactivity to the outside world . Our feelings can be incredibly deceptive and lie to us , and lead to all sorts of problems . Once I learned to think greater than my emotional reactive patterns of who I USED TO BE, and built MOMENTUM doing that over, and over, and over, consistently coaching myself out of my own shadow , that's the moment that things consistently got better and better for me in my life . Great video Owen ! As always thanks for being one of the the people that inspires me to post videos every single day ! Much Love 🙏
Personally I found my own motivation to improve my communication skills was contingent upon my ability to enjoy the process. The challenge is to find a way of overcoming conditioned resistance to practice which may be simply a resistance to judgement. Those who find a way to remove that judgement find the practice fun. It should be. Going out and interacting is like lucid dreaming. Working with your whole energies, it is a joy to be free to do that. The fun is not a result, but your results will increase in proportion to your capacity to practice with joy.
This is actually one of the epiphany I had this year. Instead of thinking as “improving myself,” I started thinking like it’s a game and have fun. That got me to go out more
I know if I hate whatever im doing feeling miserable, I wouldn't enjoy anyway it is not a long process, deep down I hate myself I self attack constantly
Got back to watching Owen for 1 month and my life has already improved drastically lol my mind is exploding, this man is something else. HUGE THANK YOU
I sat down in a barnes and noble recently and read Joseph Conrad's The Secret Sharer all at once, and I found myself achieving a state of mind ive been searching for. its a combination of forgetting and ignoring the things i know i should, being totally present, being practically enraptured by anticipation for the next moment, as well as feeling a permanent satisfaction knowing that being in this state will lead me to greater and greater understanding, freedom and inner peace. its the state of truly exploring with the power of your mind, searching for and finding truth.
I love when you make videos in public around people. Something about the social pressure and chaos just helps me zone in and focus on what you're saying
Thought this was someone impersonating you for a moment, since the comment got so little attention. Awesome to see you here! You two definitely should have a talk and post it on your channels. Would be fascinating.
I just am being in awe of seeing you be a master of being comfortable speaking around those people. I love that. Their lucky if they realize the opportunity for what they can listen in on. :)
Owen im so mind blown by your improvement and transformation Im aware of a bit of your progress throughout the years since the days at the time and I relate a lot to you as a person, I myself have gotten into spirituality and esoterics since 7-8 years now, and all the realizations I've had i see them reflected here in your newest material, the synchronicities are high, its like every new video is what i need to hear right now, i started your videos from the start, but also follow your newest as well, keep it up brother im really grateful for everything you share here for free! much love
Been pretty productive this year, improving my spanish got my passport renewed, working on getting my driver's license. Got a asperger treatment which has helped a lot, and I'll receive a treatment called the Silent Mind.
Thanks so much for this, so late in life but I just started reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad. I've gotten confident enough in my social skills and spiritual and mental health and it's not showing up in my life/on my balance sheet because of all the practicalities I have yet to integrate into my life. I realize now that all the knowledge and spirituality and relationships do have to be functional and produce fruit and you have to put in the time and work to learn the gritty stuff. So that's my main focus right now, catching up on all the left brain stuff to balance things out and finally see some results in my life from all of the inner work I've done. Anyway you and the team have been a very big help since the beginning so really thanks so much. Hope you have a great day :)
Note for people: Only 4mins in but Wanna say when Owen says motivation I’m assuming he means the fuel to do it when it doesn’t feel good almost indefinitely. Many people can do a lot like he said, but if you took a big L or a bad day…could you keep going? Or even keep going harder? That’s motivation.
People need to build or have a home shop, where they sell something out of their house, digital or physical. Before they leave the house. Owning a level 1 basic car / home for rent is a good safety net too. Nobody can take it away.
Draw this out on paper. The holy trinity triangle. 3 sides titled - Energy, Focus and Time. In the center of this write Life Momentum. That is the straight and narrow path.
Thank you so freaking much, it makes so much sense and I totally relate on a deep level that it's almost mystical, I believe that's there's an exchange between you and us hard to perceive but it's real and it makes my experience in life so much better, even when it's small momentary gains and bits of taste of a fuller and fullest experience and existence. Hard to put into words, that's aaaa LOT!
Great video. I’m actually from Charlotte and I went to your last event here. Fun fact Charlotte actually is one of the most rapidly growing cities in the nation.
I lived in Charlotte for a while too and moved back home outside of NYC in north Jersey. I agree 100% though with what youre saying because the most developed parts of Charlotte are much more prosperous than most of Bergen County, NJ
one of my science teachers in middle or high school i forget which, brought in Gattica for me and the other students to watch, and i remember thinking "oh this will be some lame safe-for-school movie" but i remember i was very moved by the film and was glad the teacher made us watch it.
notes: WOULD VS COULD ### There are things that in theory you could do (almost anything) but the question is would you? you think to yourself that you have this big menu of options of things you can do but in reality you physically can’t ### what one man can do another can do BUT if you lack the motivation to do something it doesn’t matter what you in theory can do yes you can do what Elon Musk does but in reality you don’t have the motivation ### so it doesn’t matter what you could do, all that matters is what you would do # DOMES another thing that keeps you from doing things that in theory is possible but physically you can’t are domes, let’s look at going to Alaska for example - you can’t because you don’t have enough free days from work, or need to work to pay you rent etc. Work simply does not allow you to go to Alaska and you keep kicking the can down the road and in the end you never go. - Spiritually your can’t resonate with the presence that Alaska will bring so the ego will generate resistance in going because it is “too beautiful” for you consciousness. - Status barriers will generate the belief that something is not for you and so you are not able to go do it ### 99% of the menu you think you have, unless you trick your brain to do it, you don’t actually have ⛔ “I’m going to do this later” biggest delusion ever 💵 The real money is TIME, FOCUS and MOMENTUM you gotta value momentum and get momentum with; - outer experiences: bread - go to the best restaurants, clubs, have the best clothes, things, vacays, practice hobbies you actually want to practice - inner experiences: depth - looking at something with total depth and connecting to it, it can bring you to tears. And if you can’t do that it is because your weak and are hiding because life is that beautiful, and you fail to realise the beauty of life ### to get this you got to always be trying to reclaim time, focus and momentum ## life is not about to ratio between pleasure and pain avoidance IT is staying present to the moment and accepting all the difficulties of life, going through that pain and staying present through it ______________________ Part 2 _____________________ # Do you want to play big or small? who do you need to become and what do you need to learn to actually have big experiences, and challenging yourself rather than being like 99.9 percent of people who are not getting it. - getting good at game by going out every night and failing but going at it again and again - bringing your camera with you and practicing speaking to build social media - understand if you want to run a business you don’t understand business ### if you are truly okay with playing small own that fully, but again are you? we are build to “play big”, to expand, to explore, to experience higher level paradigms. The ability to perceive things with more depth, the ability to think laterally and many many different things. ### death is not something to be avoided , life is something to achieve - you gotta achieve awakening - you gotta achieve personhood - you gotta achieve a great and rich life # when a person lacks motivation they actually think ### that they are a person, that they achieved a great life, they are too optimistic in reality you got to be pessimistic: - am I really build to be a battery for the matrix? - is this really what life is meant to be? - am I awake right now? is my consciousness really expanded? - am I doing the kind of things that are going to challenge me and force me to grow? ### when you are in these high degrees of discomfort, it is also challenging your mind to find peace in difficult situations # IT IS DISCOMFORT THAT HELPS YOU TO GROW do you even have a proactive consciousness that will define you as a person? is what you are doing really meant to be doing in life? when you are looking at the different potentials and competences that you can build are you really cultivating that?
DeAngelo said WILLPOWER is the most rarest thing in humans, we get very little. he said the most we get is right when we wake up. the ability to FOCUS is another one. way to change a habbit 1."start now" 2. "dont hesitate" -wyatt woodsmalls
@@OwenCookSelfHelpMAN=LEADER ...never met him...im not sure if i would concider him as THE MAN...from what ive seen, he seems more like a dorky enterpreneur guy....i have SO MUCH respect for him, i would definitly say hes one of the most influential people ive ever came across in my life....he blew my mind so much and many times with his gathering of wisdom...one of my first father figures for sure.....another one was DavidX, now he was THE MAN....i heard the other day that DavidX died...what a loss.....the first "real man" ive ever met in person that blew my mind was my later mentor and friend Georgy, he is a former german aquivalent of a navy seal, hes one of these rarest humans on earth...a real sigma male...its just incredable what he can get done...just unbelievable if youve never met one....hmmm, kinda weird...now as i think about it, Eben also get so much stuff done aldow he seems to be kind of a super dorky guy sometimes -much love
@@OwenCookSelfHelp i think motivation isnt that much of a problem in my experiance, its more like about HOW to implement the theory into productive action with the wanted imediate result....maybe think about it....deangelo also mentioned that his leading success idea was his "hey, do you have email?"...you could have tried it out imediatly whith a very hight probability of success
Awww man... I've been planning to do three peaks (climb to the highest points in Scotland, England and Wales in under 24 hours). There are do many reasons not to... But I want the momentum and execution. I feel what you say on a core level. Everyone is telling me not to do it and finding reasons to stop it. I plan to do it on the 17th but I could postpone it till next month.
I did something better! I did my first professional solo gig as a musician! It’s always been my dream and it’s come true! Three peak has been moved to October and we are gonna get a minibus of lads together it’s gonna be epic ;)
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Owen, you and Julien are miles ahead of the rest of the coaches. Been a fan since early RSD, love the evolution you went through
This video gave me a does of energy to gain some of that momentum and focus. Good reminder.
Chicago 2023 sold out! Great for y'all. Wish I could be there .
The biggest key I've found personally for endless motivation is NEVER to believe in my "feelings" in terms of when I'm in a state of reactivity to the outside world . Our feelings can be incredibly deceptive and lie to us , and lead to all sorts of problems . Once I learned to think greater than my emotional reactive patterns of who I USED TO BE, and built MOMENTUM doing that over, and over, and over, consistently coaching myself out of my own shadow , that's the moment that things consistently got better and better for me in my life . Great video Owen ! As always thanks for being one of the the people that inspires me to post videos every single day ! Much Love 🙏
Personally I found my own motivation to improve my communication skills was contingent upon my ability to enjoy the process. The challenge is to find a way of overcoming conditioned resistance to practice which may be simply a resistance to judgement. Those who find a way to remove that judgement find the practice fun. It should be. Going out and interacting is like lucid dreaming. Working with your whole energies, it is a joy to be free to do that. The fun is not a result, but your results will increase in proportion to your capacity to practice with joy.
process process process 💪🏻
p.s. one day imma splurge on someone in my van and i’ll yell “you j got jeffied teehee”
This is actually one of the epiphany I had this year. Instead of thinking as “improving myself,” I started thinking like it’s a game and have fun. That got me to go out more
Lucid dreaming
Love you brother❤️
BTW Did Randy Pull ?
I know if I hate whatever im doing feeling miserable, I wouldn't enjoy anyway it is not a long process, deep down I hate myself I self attack constantly
Got back to watching Owen for 1 month and my life has already improved drastically lol my mind is exploding, this man is something else. HUGE THANK YOU
I sat down in a barnes and noble recently and read Joseph Conrad's The Secret Sharer all at once, and I found myself achieving a state of mind ive been searching for. its a combination of forgetting and ignoring the things i know i should, being totally present, being practically enraptured by anticipation for the next moment, as well as feeling a permanent satisfaction knowing that being in this state will lead me to greater and greater understanding, freedom and inner peace. its the state of truly exploring with the power of your mind, searching for and finding truth.
Thanks for the tip
I love when you make videos in public around people. Something about the social pressure and chaos just helps me zone in and focus on what you're saying
Why dont you start make one video today in public?
Been thinking about this a lot lately. It's the 9-5. Makes getting where you want to go unbelievably difficult.
Appreciate your passion and work Owen.
We should talk sometime about God, Love, Consciousness, and Death.
I would definitely watch this & your work is appreciated too Leo!👍
No way lol
Thought this was someone impersonating you for a moment, since the comment got so little attention. Awesome to see you here! You two definitely should have a talk and post it on your channels. Would be fascinating.
I just am being in awe of seeing you be a master of being comfortable speaking around those people. I love that. Their lucky if they realize the opportunity for what they can listen in on. :)
Thanks, you should see the kind of camera work we USED to do lol, makes this a cakewalk -Owen
Owen im so mind blown by your improvement and transformation Im aware of a bit of your progress throughout the years since the days at the time and I relate a lot to you as a person, I myself have gotten into spirituality and esoterics since 7-8 years now, and all the realizations I've had i see them reflected here in your newest material, the synchronicities are high, its like every new video is what i need to hear right now, i started your videos from the start, but also follow your newest as well, keep it up brother im really grateful for everything you share here for free!
much love
Thanks bro, ya and a lot more coming -Owen
Been pretty productive this year, improving my spanish got my passport renewed, working on getting my driver's license. Got a asperger treatment which has helped a lot, and I'll receive a treatment called the Silent Mind.
Thanks so much for this, so late in life but I just started reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad. I've gotten confident enough in my social skills and spiritual and mental health and it's not showing up in my life/on my balance sheet because of all the practicalities I have yet to integrate into my life. I realize now that all the knowledge and spirituality and relationships do have to be functional and produce fruit and you have to put in the time and work to learn the gritty stuff. So that's my main focus right now, catching up on all the left brain stuff to balance things out and finally see some results in my life from all of the inner work I've done. Anyway you and the team have been a very big help since the beginning so really thanks so much. Hope you have a great day :)
i like the branding of endless motivation. it brings a tagline that is more tangible to tie together all your videos.
Note for people: Only 4mins in but Wanna say when Owen says motivation I’m assuming he means the fuel to do it when it doesn’t feel good almost indefinitely. Many people can do a lot like he said, but if you took a big L or a bad day…could you keep going? Or even keep going harder? That’s motivation.
Nice!! -Owen
It’s almost transcendent. The bad anything doesn’t matter. Only your assessment of reality and progress.
Time to re-audit my life and set update plans! Thank you for the reminder 👊🏻
Thank you, father - Mustafa
Lol you're welcome -Owen
Thank you, Owen, for the comfort that you put in the video It Truly
GREAT video as always 16:58.
Thanks bro! -Owen
People need to build or have a home shop, where they sell something out of their house, digital or physical. Before they leave the house. Owning a level 1 basic car / home for rent is a good safety net too. Nobody can take it away.
Draw this out on paper. The holy trinity triangle. 3 sides titled - Energy, Focus and Time. In the center of this write Life Momentum. That is the straight and narrow path.
I've been waiting the last 3 months for this series to start! Pure créeme from the GOAT 🐐 Thank you Owen!
My man always bringing the heat... Could/Would 💥💥💥
Thank you so freaking much, it makes so much sense and I totally relate on a deep level that it's almost mystical, I believe that's there's an exchange between you and us hard to perceive but it's real and it makes my experience in life so much better, even when it's small momentary gains and bits of taste of a fuller and fullest experience and existence. Hard to put into words, that's aaaa LOT!
Well Said Owen
Wow, you mentioned so many great things! I really enjoyed that!
Thank you
Owen and Anthony Robbins are my coaches.
Nice bro tnx -Owen
Great video. I’m actually from Charlotte and I went to your last event here. Fun fact Charlotte actually is one of the most rapidly growing cities in the nation.
I lived in Charlotte for a while too and moved back home outside of NYC in north Jersey. I agree 100% though with what youre saying because the most developed parts of Charlotte are much more prosperous than most of Bergen County, NJ
Great video 🔥the could do vs would is going to really empower and free people from the fantasies of their own minds 🙌
one of my science teachers in middle or high school i forget which, brought in Gattica for me and the other students to watch, and i remember thinking "oh this will be some lame safe-for-school movie" but i remember i was very moved by the film and was glad the teacher made us watch it.
Gattaca is a *sick* movie. Ethan Hawke and Jude Law.
Highly recommend.
That swim clip gave me goosebumps 👍
Very good video like the one you did around 2012
Excellent!
Rapid fire videos lately
notes:
WOULD VS COULD
### There are things that in theory you could do (almost anything) but the question is would you?
you think to yourself that you have this big menu of options of things you can do but in reality you physically can’t
### what one man can do another can do BUT if you lack the motivation to do something it doesn’t matter what you in theory can do
yes you can do what Elon Musk does but in reality you don’t have the motivation
### so it doesn’t matter what you could do, all that matters is what you would do
# DOMES
another thing that keeps you from doing things that in theory is possible but physically you can’t are domes, let’s look at going to Alaska for example
- you can’t because you don’t have enough free days from work, or need to work to pay you rent etc. Work simply does not allow you to go to Alaska and you keep kicking the can down the road and in the end you never go.
- Spiritually your can’t resonate with the presence that Alaska will bring so the ego will generate resistance in going because it is “too beautiful” for you consciousness.
- Status barriers will generate the belief that something is not for you and so you are not able to go do it
### 99% of the menu you think you have, unless you trick your brain to do it, you don’t actually have
⛔ “I’m going to do this later” biggest delusion ever
💵 The real money is TIME, FOCUS and MOMENTUM
you gotta value momentum and get momentum with;
- outer experiences: bread
- go to the best restaurants, clubs, have the best clothes, things, vacays, practice hobbies you actually want to practice
- inner experiences: depth
- looking at something with total depth and connecting to it, it can bring you to tears. And if you can’t do that it is because your weak and are hiding because life is that beautiful, and you fail to realise the beauty of life
### to get this you got to always be trying to reclaim time, focus and momentum
## life is not about to ratio between pleasure and pain avoidance IT is staying present to the moment and accepting all the difficulties of life, going through that pain and staying present through it
______________________ Part 2 _____________________
# Do you want to play big or small?
who do you need to become and what do you need to learn to actually have big experiences, and challenging yourself rather than being like 99.9 percent of people who are not getting it.
- getting good at game by going out every night and failing but going at it again and again
- bringing your camera with you and practicing speaking to build social media
- understand if you want to run a business you don’t understand business
### if you are truly okay with playing small own that fully, but again are you?
we are build to “play big”, to expand, to explore, to experience higher level paradigms. The ability to perceive things with more depth, the ability to think laterally and many many different things.
### death is not something to be avoided , life is something to achieve
- you gotta achieve awakening
- you gotta achieve personhood
- you gotta achieve a great and rich life
# when a person lacks motivation they actually think
### that they are a person, that they achieved a great life, they are too optimistic
in reality you got to be pessimistic:
- am I really build to be a battery for the matrix?
- is this really what life is meant to be?
- am I awake right now? is my consciousness really expanded?
- am I doing the kind of things that are going to challenge me and force me to grow?
### when you are in these high degrees of discomfort, it is also challenging your mind to find peace in difficult situations
# IT IS DISCOMFORT THAT HELPS YOU TO GROW
do you even have a proactive consciousness that will define you as a person?
is what you are doing really meant to be doing in life?
when you are looking at the different potentials and competences that you can build are you really cultivating that?
What a gigachad of self-help
I can't believe you reference the movie Gattaca I watched that back in freshman year biology class when we were learning about DNA
This upload schedule is insane!🔥👌
Nice ya, tons coming! -Owen
🔥🔥
I COULD, and I WOULD, and I know I really SHOULD, but I......
16:45
DeAngelo said WILLPOWER is the most rarest thing in humans, we get very little.
he said the most we get is right when we wake up.
the ability to FOCUS is another one.
way to change a habbit 1."start now" 2. "dont hesitate" -wyatt woodsmalls
He's THE MAN -Owen
@@OwenCookSelfHelpMAN=LEADER ...never met him...im not sure if i would concider him as THE MAN...from what ive seen, he seems more like a dorky enterpreneur guy....i have SO MUCH respect for him, i would definitly say hes one of the most influential people ive ever came across in my life....he blew my mind so much and many times with his gathering of wisdom...one of my first father figures for sure.....another one was DavidX, now he was THE MAN....i heard the other day that DavidX died...what a loss.....the first "real man" ive ever met in person that blew my mind was my later mentor and friend Georgy, he is a former german aquivalent of a navy seal, hes one of these rarest humans on earth...a real sigma male...its just incredable what he can get done...just unbelievable if youve never met one....hmmm, kinda weird...now as i think about it, Eben also get so much stuff done aldow he seems to be kind of a super dorky guy sometimes -much love
@@OwenCookSelfHelp i think motivation isnt that much of a problem in my experiance, its more like about HOW to implement the theory into productive action with the wanted imediate result....maybe think about it....deangelo also mentioned that his leading success idea was his "hey, do you have email?"...you could have tried it out imediatly whith a very hight probability of success
Awww man... I've been planning to do three peaks (climb to the highest points in Scotland, England and Wales in under 24 hours). There are do many reasons not to... But I want the momentum and execution. I feel what you say on a core level. Everyone is telling me not to do it and finding reasons to stop it. I plan to do it on the 17th but I could postpone it till next month.
Did you do it today? :))
I did something better! I did my first professional solo gig as a musician! It’s always been my dream and it’s come true! Three peak has been moved to October and we are gonna get a minibus of lads together it’s gonna be epic ;)
@@flyhigh5735 thanks for checking. I appreciate the effort to keep me accountable
Endless video possible tho??
I wonder what the other people are thinking. Seems like they're focused on the view. If I saw this in person I'd be fascinated.
Do collab with GeryVee🙏
Would be great. You are most important influencers for me❤️
What one man can do another can do.
His name is Robert Paulson.
Yo Owen, what would be be the skills that one would have to develope, for you to want to have this person around for a year? LOVE YOUR SHIT BROTHER!
What good choice of name for your son
What was the question>?
Owen come to Puerto Rico!
I would do that for a vacay but make sure to come here to attend an event! -Owen
👏👏👏👏
WHAT ONE MAN CAN DO, ANOTHER MAN CAN DO
❤️
i cant even get out of bed tf
When are you coming to India
When I'm very old! When you coming here!? -Owen
@@OwenCookSelfHelp as soon as i make money, and will definitely enjoy your company, and again try to convince you to visit India😅
What’s the question?
Lol
fist
Nice! -Owen
solipsism fantasy.