She married education and money hoping it will make her happy. But comes to find out, she's more miserable. A sad story with great lessons to be learn.
Don’t be sad or have regrets. You didn’t wish for love and happiness, instead you wished for wealth and education of a husband and you got exactly that. You should be proud of yourself. Most people don’t even get their wish to come true.
Leave that man alone, you've made your choice, now live with it! I wouldn't even dare go to his store if I were you. Just because you're miserable, don't try and ruin someone else's happiness!
Am I the only one that noticed the story started out with her being maiv choo and then all of a sudden changed to nkauj ntsuv and then to nkauj sua??? 😂🤣😂
Not trying to be mean, but you got exactly what you wanted! You wanted to married your dab laug b/c he's educated and has money, so you should live with the consequences. Anyways, I'm glad you let your BF go since he deserves better. I'm pretty sure if you were to married your BF, you will be here telling your story about how you regret marrying him and wish you married your dab laug.
Sister, being married to a highly educated person is a very different lifestyle. Especially medical doctors...they are busy and always on call. The lifestyle of a hard worker who is not highly educated is also a different lifestyle. Sounds like you have the lifestyle you chose..don't be sad...make the best of you have.
Is understandable for someone with that kinda degree. He probably has his own stress. People with those degrees they are heartless. He probably has someone on the side.
Stop complaining. Some of us don’t have that luxury. Just be happy with your money and focus on yourself, go back to school if you’re bored and love your kids. Just find a hobby. Rich people like you can do anything you want to do. Love is nothing. Your husband is a busy man. Your husband is right. You are a very lucky woman to be married to him. If you know how to have fun, you do not need your husband. He isn’t cheating on you, he isn’t beating you and he lets you control his money. Learn to love him and don’t expect anything in return because his love to you is through his money.
I know right! Why she complaining about love when she got money to buy everything she wants! Crazy! She just need find some good friends n go enjoy the luxury life. Stop depending on him for money n love!
Don't think too much!! He does loves you! He was just busy on his work and he need some time to do his work too becuase that needs alot of thime and it not easy task need it take times too and also he might be so tired and need time alone after those hard work too that makes him don't want to do or talk?Think of the positive things too if he doesn't love why he let you do whatever you want
I don't see what misery about her life. she has more freedom and live like a queen but she regret not marrying her ex and sell vegetable. she need to has her mind check.
Money don't buy love sister. You can't have it all. I rather have love than money. Txomnyem khwv ib hnub noj ib hnub xwb los tsuas sib2 hlub yog qhov nplua nuj. Kev nplua nuj yog kev hlub.
I think your husband married you to fulfill his parents' dream and not his. But, he knows spousal support is going to be a huge chunk of his paycheck. Good luck to you!
Your doctor husband might be cheating behind your back with a white lady at work but he hang onto you because of his honor in the families they respect him so much. I think you will need to prepare yourself for that day to come. People who act like your husband he have his own mistress in the corner. It time for you to go hunt for your happy life making friends out there. You need to make him pay more attention to you and not your mistress. I work for 3 clinics and doctors do have lot of vacation time. Your husband have a mistress and you need to find your sugar daddy as a friend and make you heart live on. Good luck!
This is what happens when you're too lazy to work for what you want and want an easy way out only. Want a doctor? Go to school for it. Want a lot of money? Work for it. Easy come easy go
Life is not perfect. I bet so many woman would trade their lives for yours!! So many married the love of their life, but is super poor and can’t even buy a pair of shoes whenever she wants, and now Love means nothing when broke as hell. Remember, there’s no love when your stomach is empty. In order to love, you have to have a home to live in and food on the table. But some people who have a very privileged life are blind and complain they don’t have the love they want. But remember, if he isn’t cheating, doesn’t beat you, and provides a good life for you and you’re very comfortable financially, then life is pretty darn good!!!
Koj yog ib tug neeg uas ntseeg tsis tau. Yog koj tau tus txom nyem ntshe hnub no koj txoj neej neeg no koj twg ho yuav hais tias koj khuv xim tus kawm tau docter lawm thiab. Neeg siab tsis tus li koj ces ntshe tau tus twg los yuav muaj chaw tib.
Actually you just don't know your love language from the beginning, you are the kind of woman that qualities time is your love language. Don't feel bad every thing is over then just live with what you have now.
Such a sad story.. like everyone in here say.. you chose money over love.. lucky your husband doesn’t show you love if he does and you see your ex boyfriend.. your nose gonna be so high up in the roof that you won’t even see him..
She wouldn't have been happy with the bf. He's better off wothout her, shes a princess that would not work. She married him for money and he married her for vanity and his parents. She gets to eat well, sleep well, dress well, and freedom to do things. It's better than most in abusive and controlling life.
Vivncaus aw...kv yeej to taub koj kawg, kuv tus twb tsis tau yog Dr. Tsuas yog lawv paub ntaub ntawv tshaj yus xwb, lawv twb ua li kov rau yus xwb. Tus siab kawg.
Some people will love and cherish you because you put your life on hold to support them so they can achieve their dream while some look down on you when you aren’t level up to them. This is why it’s important to also work on yourself as well.
Tus yus tsis tau ce yeej khuv xim, tabsi thaum tau lawm ho yuav tsis zoo li siab xav. Hlub tus nyob ntawv yus ib sab. Time change people will change. Wish you the best.
Koj paub tsawg!!! There's already a life story in here or on May Vang about a doctor who does his American side-chick on the side and only married his hmong wife for his parents. Bet that's your hub's story. Let me be clear: I work with lots of doctors. They can't wait to take time off to go spend with their children and spouse! And my sister is married to a doctor (he went to med school after they martied). She is the back bone of her household! My BIL helped raised and wipe my kids' boogers, even after he was a doctor. Your diamond is fake!
What do you mean you don’t care if the person you love don’t have money or not smfh. You married your husband right now bc he has a high degree and gunna make money for you. Now you’re gunna be a hypocrite saying you want love from a man even if he doesn’t have money smfh. You got what you deserve, no offense. Plus being a doctor is very stressful, you can’t expect him to give you time everyday.
My sister is a resident. She been in many relationship with people who are outside of her field. She said they won't understand how much time she spend at her job. She cannot be with someone of a different field, being a doctor takes a lot of time and they spend lots of time researching or at the hospital. You are not in the field, you will never understand your husband. Be glad he isn't cheating on you.
Sister, there's no telling what the future holds. You made a decision based on what you thought was the best when you chose your husband. Don't be too hard on yourself. Leverage your current financial situation to invest in yourself and be the best person that you can be. If you can't bare the life that you have, at least you can move on and be independent.
Your husband knew you chose him because he’s a doctor and rich only, that is why he ignore you. It’s not because he doesn’t love you.May be he did love you but he don’t trust your love too. Doctor keeps their feeling hidden for loosing too many patients. And you just ruin it. Tseem khuv xim tus qub.
Sister don't ever look back in the past and regret. U never know ur ex bf might just be putting up a front because you were there. I'm sure your husband loves you but he has a different way of showing you he loves you. Let the pass be the pass, just look forward to the future with your husband.
Money doesn’t just walk into your bank account, if you haven’t put in the work to trade. Same with love. It won’t just show up at your door step to love on you, when you yourself haven’t give love. Now you don’t have both, because you are poor at both. Can’t expect to withdraw when you haven’t deposited. Zero in = zero out, lady. You deposited yourself for his little and money. So now all you can withdraw is that. You yourself don’t love him, how can you expect him to love you? Your husband knew your true color. He knew what you are after. He could buy you with a master student status. He knows he can keep buying you with the niam dovtawj title & 💵. When he got the $, buying you as his personal cook, cleaner, and bed partner isn’t an issue. Happiness, he can find elsewhere, who loves him and compatibles.
Sister, txhob tu siab os. Tsis yog yus hmoov os nawb. Nco ntsoov tias nyias muaj nyias hmoov...txawm koj mus tau koj tus qub hluas nraug los xyov neb lub neej puas yuav zoo li koj tus qub hluas nraug thiab nws tus poj niam lub thiab. Tej zaum kuj txawv thiab los tsis paub. Nothing in life is guaranteed. Don't feel too bad.
Righteousness is the most important thing in the world. You want your husband to love you like a husband should love his wife bc that’s the right thing to do.
Can't have it all! You had to choose and it appeared you chose money over love. You don't even know the stress your husband has due to his work. All you think about is you and your wants/needs. You need to be more supportive to your husband. He's right, you are a very lucky woman and rotten spoiled. Any women would love to be his wife.
Sister, your husband is right. You are lucky to still have money to spend. And since he is not cheating on you, you need to stop complaining. You had love but seemed you didn't want it. So you chose money instead. But you cannot complain that your husband's heart is not with you. The Bible says that wherever man's money is, that's where man's heart is. So like your husband is saying, you dont understand about being a doctor and how educated people spend their time. It is a life long learning.
i understand your pain sister. When we were young, we were stupid and made stupid decisions. Sometimes it's only after we make those stupid decisions that we learn. If you never married your doctor husband, maybe you would have always wanted to marry rich, but now that you have married rich, you realize that money doesn't buy happiness. Sorry sister. May you hopefully one day find love and happiness. Just because you made one dumb decision or have a lot of money doesn't mean you don't deserve love.
Not very intelligent thought! Every person is different Not only that, she’s also not very bright She should count her blessings She should understand if she married the poor guy, she would be regretting everyday that she didn’t marry the doctor!! 🙄
Tus sister aws...along with a lot of things in this world, nothing lasts forever - including money and love or infatuation. You probably would've regret your decision either way because you never know what the future holds. Make the best out of the situation. Hopefully your husband will learn to love you and accept you.
Thats your fault sister, yuav tus txomnyem g yuav los pob xav yuav tus doctor ces thaum kawg zoo li kos os tus pluag tus txomnyem yog tus yuav hlub koj tshiaj os
He has another woman on the side. He has a high stress job and with that he needs to relieve his stress. So hes doing that with another woman. Trust me. Whether you're a man or woman no one can be that cold and heartless unless they have a side chick
You got what you wanted. Money. Make the best of what you have. If your spouse is too busy with work, make time with family and friends. To have money, the gotta work hard. Just be grateful for what you have and that he's not cheating on you. At least I hope he isn't. A job can be extremely stressful depending on what it is.
That ok it's something women always looking for the best guy so don't regrets what you have. Even you married your old boy friend that not mean you will be the best wife for him.
me niam hluas aw pej cov poj niam ces tau tus txom nyem los yuav khiav mus nrhiav tus muaj tu tus muaj los ho hais tias lawv tsis hlub no ces yuav tsis muaj leej twg ua haum peb cov poj niam lub siab li os
Even if you go married the poor guy you probably will be complaining that you have a poor life and you could’ve married your rich guy .. so just be bless and happy. Being a doctor required a lot.. please be understanding of that .. if you want love all the time then married someone who just sit at home and make love with you all the time and eat dirt. Lol You’re actually a lucky person to even be with a doctor..
Dang…still complaining? I will take all the kids and vacation every weekend 😅 if he ok with everything and whatever you do. Let him be as long as he didn’t cheap like you say. Be happy with a hard working husband. Enjoy life lady. My husband is a high education too but not at your husband level yet and I’m happy with my husband even he didn’t have much time with me and the kids. Take your husband to the spa and get him a nice message. That’s what I did to mine because he work hard and he need’s that kind of relax too. Chill lady and be happy 😃
It’s very true worthy lesson for everyone to learn to earn to understand to make corrections anyway. The Hmong’s people are telling that beautiful face of a girl has blue heart (evil) heart and handsome man is truly unworthy because he is proclaiming himself very handsome guy. He is foolish anyway haha, that’s true life because he is truly foolishness to married you after the marriage of the real beings partner anyway. Things are going to be worse for no details of the real life in this real world. Thank you for sharing your life with your wrongfully married man anyway.
Koj twb nyob nrog nyiaj thiab kub es zoo siab mog....koj txawm tau ua tu niam txhem txhem zaub lo koj lub siab yeej tsis tuag koj...koj yeej yuav xav tias yog koj yuav txiv Dr. Ces koj twb tsis tau lo zaub txhem zaub thiab no...koj tu npau suav muaj tseeb es zoo siab rau yam koj tau
Sis, you have to listen to Lwm Yaj’s song Tus yus tsis tau yeej khuv xim. If you have a gardening husband, ntshe koj yuav complain tias khwv dhau lawm thiab no os. Be grateful for what you have.
Coming from a man, I be looking else where too if I'm making that kind of money. He only keeping around because of child support. Doctor or not. I know plenty of doctors that spent lots of time with there wife. Some years never, but not for 15 years like you said. Leave him and get child support. You will still be rich, but be used a lot by guys. Good luck!
Hais txog txoj kev muaj kev txom nyem yeej g yog teeb meem qhov tiag yog ua neej raws txoj hmoo xwb koj txoj hmoo yeej los li no. Vim kuv no twb xaiv tus neeg kuv hlub xwb cia li tau tus txom222 nyem Niam txiv g muaj kwv tij los g nrog luag muaj ib tug thiab thaum kawg lub neej twb g xaus thiab os es txhob tu2 siab yog peb yeej tuav peb daim ntawv los li no cia lwm tiam mam rov mus nriav kom tau daim ntawv zoo los ua neej rau fab lwm tiam lawm xwb os....
Lady, you can’t have it all. You chose money over love so live with it. If you can’t have his time and affection, at least enjoy spending his money. After all, you married him for his money, not for love. Even if you married for love, some day that feeling will disappear and you will still be poor. Just be grateful.
Tus txomnyem mus yuav tus muaj ces kawg mus ua luag qhev. Tus nruam yuav tus ntse ces kawg raug thuam. Yog li peb ib txhiaj txiv neeg thiaj tsuas yuav tus kom hauv thiab phim peb xwb mas, ib tsoom me hluas nkauj aws.
Tau no ce khuv xim Tus Tom xwb o mog Koj Tus txiv Dr yeej hlub koj koj thiaj Li tau Nws nyiaj sib ov Tab si koj cov lus hlub ..yog .1.koj xav nrog koj Tus txiv ua ke.. 2..koj xav hnov los lus zoo los ntawm koj tau txiv lub qhov ncauj xwb ..o
Tus ntses dim yeej yog tus loj xwb os mog. You don’t wear their shoes and walk their lives, you don’t know what you’re missing. Txawm tias koj yuav tau koj tus hluas nraug los ntshe koj haj yam chim thiab haj yam complain tias tau lub neej txom txom nyem es niaj hnub ua teb khwv hnub noj hnub khwv hmo noj hmo xwb no os. Kuv xav mas yog koj yuav nws koj tseem yim huab tu siab tshaj koj lub neej tam sim no nawb. Tus me sister, you have everything you need to build yourself a happy and satisfying life, you should be happy. Love yourself and find things to do to occupy your time. Nco ntsoov hais tias yam ntawm yus tes yus pom tsis zoo tsam thaum yus tso phluav ces luag hos khaws nkaus lawm ces hos haj yam khuvxim nawb.
It’s unfortunate that your husband see himself as better than you and the rest because of his educational accomplishments. However just know that he’s not better and you deserve more. My husband has a doctorate degree and treats me as his equal and respects me. Love is more important than money. ❤️ Hopefully you both can work it out.
You should've married someone who loves you and you two can work together to build your wealth. Then you would've both wealth and a loving husband like many of us.
Sister you have too much time on your hands!!!It’s a very demanding career as a doctor. It’s almost a 24/7 responsibility. What you can do is be a supporting/understanding spouse. You already know what you got yourself into in the first place. Money can’t buy love just material goods. And he’s a good provider. Go get a job so you won’t have all the time in the world to wait for his love!!!!
Ntawm kuv tus kheej mas kuv xav tias koj tus txiv dr muaj dua ib tug tshiab from his work lawm os. He doesn’t want to divorce you because he doesn’t want to pay child support and spousal maintenance. Doesn’t matter how stressful a person’s job is if they love you they will make time for you especially for someone who’s so educated haj yam paub ntxias neeg tshaj yog nws hlub koj. But, you deserve it what you got. Not hating just saying
You wanted to chase money but you're a peasant. You would never be able to cross the fence to the other side. That is why he doesnt care to call to check up on you. He's wishing you would go find someone else and leave him.
1: tus tsis tau yeej ib txwm yog tus zoo tshaj 2. He is not the only one to do that 2 their women. He is a smart el cheater somehow he does not really care about your activities but $$$$ in your hands. lot men not even leave $$$ to their women. doors open to u for others things that you enjoy after him so. . . .. why not be el cheater . just like he does. ever his decide/want to dirvoce, remember that 50 50 2 u both so . . . . something else. . . we people are tender to each other only begenning of la ove . . . after that. . . . the tender will slowly disapear . . .and
Sister, he’s showing you he’s doing great in life without you. That is your biggest regret in life you have to live with. No need to be sad cuz that’s what you wanted.
A lot of people are saying negative things but I don’t judge you. Our parents have drilled it in our heads to marry a well educated person that way life wouldn’t be so hard. That’s what you did and found out the hard way that that’s not always true. There’s going to be regrets in life but try not to dwell on what cannot be undone. Be happy for your ex boyfriend that he found someone who truly loves him. As for your husband, he sounds very arrogant and cold but he is still providing for you, let’s you manage the finance and is not cheating so try to see the good in him. Accept him for who he is and stop comparing yours and his relationship to other couples. Every couple has their own set of problems and what you see on the outside might not always be the truth.
Vim koj xaiv tus muaj nyiaj tus muaj npe.nyiaj yus khwv tau tabsi tus hlub yus tiag khwv tsis tau.yusmam khwv thiaj uog yus tug vim koj ntshaw luag tug.cov muaj $,cov educated ces koj ua lawv qhev xwb os.my hubby is educated im educated too but i cater to him hand n foot like a king
You made your bed now lie in it lady. No pity for you what so ever! But on the real tho, if he's letting you splurge on his money then by all means do use it. Just saying! 😂🤷♀️
Don’t be sad or have regrets. You didn’t wish for love and happiness, instead you wished for wealth and education of a husband and you got exactly that. You should be proud of yourself. Most people don’t even get their wish to come true.
Leave that man alone, you've made your choice, now live with it! I wouldn't even dare go to his store if I were you. Just because you're miserable, don't try and ruin someone else's happiness!
Am I the only one that noticed the story started out with her being maiv choo and then all of a sudden changed to nkauj ntsuv and then to nkauj sua??? 😂🤣😂
Not trying to be mean, but you got exactly what you wanted! You wanted to married your dab laug b/c he's educated and has money, so you should live with the consequences. Anyways, I'm glad you let your BF go since he deserves better. I'm pretty sure if you were to married your BF, you will be here telling your story about how you regret marrying him and wish you married your dab laug.
Yog kawg tus pog no ces tau tus txiv txomnyem los ntshe nws yuav coj tuaj complain hauv youtuber no
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Sister, being married to a highly educated person is a very different lifestyle. Especially medical doctors...they are busy and always on call. The lifestyle of a hard worker who is not highly educated is also a different lifestyle. Sounds like you have the lifestyle you chose..don't be sad...make the best of you have.
Is understandable for someone with that kinda degree. He probably has his own stress. People with those degrees they are heartless. He probably has someone on the side.
Stop complaining. Some of us don’t have that luxury. Just be happy with your money and focus on yourself, go back to school if you’re bored and love your kids. Just find a hobby. Rich people like you can do anything you want to do. Love is nothing. Your husband is a busy man. Your husband is right. You are a very lucky woman to be married to him. If you know how to have fun, you do not need your husband. He isn’t cheating on you, he isn’t beating you and he lets you control his money. Learn to love him and don’t expect anything in return because his love to you is through his money.
I know right! Why she complaining about love when she got money to buy everything she wants! Crazy! She just need find some good friends n go enjoy the luxury life. Stop depending on him for money n love!
Money don't buy Love
Mab you are a wonderful sport teller. Some people are just DULL. Keep up the good work.
Don't think too much!! He does loves you! He was just busy on his work and he need some time to do his work too becuase that needs alot of thime and it not easy task need it take times too and also he might be so tired and need time alone after those hard work too that makes him don't want to do or talk?Think of the positive things too if he doesn't love why he let you do whatever you want
I don't see what misery about her life. she has more freedom and live like a queen but she regret not marrying her ex and sell vegetable. she need to has her mind check.
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Money don't buy love sister. You can't have it all. I rather have love than money. Txomnyem khwv ib hnub noj ib hnub xwb los tsuas sib2 hlub yog qhov nplua nuj. Kev nplua nuj yog kev hlub.
I think your husband married you to fulfill his parents' dream and not his. But, he knows spousal support is going to be a huge chunk of his paycheck. Good luck to you!
Your doctor husband might be cheating behind your back with a white lady at work but he hang onto you because of his honor in the families they respect him so much. I think you will need to prepare yourself for that day to come. People who act like your husband he have his own mistress in the corner. It time for you to go hunt for your happy life making friends out there. You need to make him pay more attention to you and not your mistress. I work for 3 clinics and doctors do have lot of vacation time. Your husband have a mistress and you need to find your sugar daddy as a friend and make you heart live on. Good luck!
Kab lia...! Zaj no zoo heev li. Ua tsaug mog.
This is what happens when you're too lazy to work for what you want and want an easy way out only. Want a doctor? Go to school for it. Want a lot of money? Work for it. Easy come easy go
Niag ko ces xaiv tau lub neej yuam kev lawm os tus me niam tsev aw!!!!
Life is not perfect. I bet so many woman would trade their lives for yours!! So many married the love of their life, but is super poor and can’t even buy a pair of shoes whenever she wants, and now Love means nothing when broke as hell. Remember, there’s no love when your stomach is empty. In order to love, you have to have a home to live in and food on the table. But some people who have a very privileged life are blind and complain they don’t have the love they want. But remember, if he isn’t cheating, doesn’t beat you, and provides a good life for you and you’re very comfortable financially, then life is pretty darn good!!!
Koj yog ib tug neeg uas ntseeg tsis tau. Yog koj tau tus txom nyem ntshe hnub no koj txoj neej neeg no koj twg ho yuav hais tias koj khuv xim tus kawm tau docter lawm thiab. Neeg siab tsis tus li koj ces ntshe tau tus twg los yuav muaj chaw tib.
Koj ntshaw nyiaj, koj tau & Pom tus muaj nyiaj-phem-koj thiaj appreciate txoj hlub
Actually you just don't know your love language from the beginning, you are the kind of woman that qualities time is your love language. Don't feel bad every thing is over then just live with what you have now.
Such a sad story.. like everyone in here say.. you chose money over love.. lucky your husband doesn’t show you love if he does and you see your ex boyfriend.. your nose gonna be so high up in the roof that you won’t even see him..
She wouldn't have been happy with the bf. He's better off wothout her, shes a princess that would not work. She married him for money and he married her for vanity and his parents. She gets to eat well, sleep well, dress well, and freedom to do things. It's better than most in abusive and controlling life.
Good lesson. Thank You
I don't think you would be happy marrying your boyfriend with the hard life he lives. You are not meant for him. Leave him alone.
Vivncaus aw...kv yeej to taub koj kawg, kuv tus twb tsis tau yog Dr. Tsuas yog lawv paub ntaub ntawv tshaj yus xwb, lawv twb ua li kov rau yus xwb. Tus siab kawg.
Pojniam rhuav plhu! Tau txiv Doctor los tsis txaus siab. Tau txiv txomnyem los tsis txaus siab. Lol
Some people will love and cherish you because you put your life on hold to support them so they can achieve their dream while some look down on you when you aren’t level up to them. This is why it’s important to also work on yourself as well.
Tus yus tsis tau ce yeej khuv xim, tabsi thaum tau lawm ho yuav tsis zoo li siab xav. Hlub tus nyob ntawv yus ib sab. Time change people will change. Wish you the best.
Koj paub tsawg!!! There's already a life story in here or on May Vang about a doctor who does his American side-chick on the side and only married his hmong wife for his parents. Bet that's your hub's story. Let me be clear: I work with lots of doctors. They can't wait to take time off to go spend with their children and spouse! And my sister is married to a doctor (he went to med school after they martied). She is the back bone of her household! My BIL helped raised and wipe my kids' boogers, even after he was a doctor. Your diamond is fake!
What do you mean you don’t care if the person you love don’t have money or not smfh. You married your husband right now bc he has a high degree and gunna make money for you. Now you’re gunna be a hypocrite saying you want love from a man even if he doesn’t have money smfh. You got what you deserve, no offense. Plus being a doctor is very stressful, you can’t expect him to give you time everyday.
My sister is a resident. She been in many relationship with people who are outside of her field. She said they won't understand how much time she spend at her job. She cannot be with someone of a different field, being a doctor takes a lot of time and they spend lots of time researching or at the hospital. You are not in the field, you will never understand your husband. Be glad he isn't cheating on you.
Sister, there's no telling what the future holds. You made a decision based on what you thought was the best when you chose your husband. Don't be too hard on yourself. Leverage your current financial situation to invest in yourself and be the best person that you can be. If you can't bare the life that you have, at least you can move on and be independent.
Just dont think too much. You only have one in life. Either rich or love. But like other had said maybe he have another woman on the side.
Now that he is a doctor and earn a lot of money. You should just go back to school make something of you.
Money is everyone first priority
Your husband knew you chose him because he’s a doctor and rich only, that is why he ignore you. It’s not because he doesn’t love you.May be he did love you but he don’t trust your love too. Doctor keeps their feeling hidden for loosing too many patients. And you just ruin it. Tseem khuv xim tus qub.
Peb cov poj niam hmoob meskas ces yeej tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws li koj ntag nawb......
Raug siab kawg os
Pias tau kho kho siab kawg.
Sister don't ever look back in the past and regret. U never know ur ex bf might just be putting up a front because you were there. I'm sure your husband loves you but he has a different way of showing you he loves you. Let the pass be the pass, just look forward to the future with your husband.
In this world we can not have everything. And even if we did have everything, there is always something missing. Be happy with what you have.
Money doesn’t just walk into your bank account, if you haven’t put in the work to trade. Same with love. It won’t just show up at your door step to love on you, when you yourself haven’t give love.
Now you don’t have both, because you are poor at both. Can’t expect to withdraw when you haven’t deposited. Zero in = zero out, lady.
You deposited yourself for his little and money. So now all you can withdraw is that. You yourself don’t love him, how can you expect him to love you?
Your husband knew your true color. He knew what you are after. He could buy you with a master student status. He knows he can keep buying you with the niam dovtawj title & 💵. When he got the $, buying you as his personal cook, cleaner, and bed partner isn’t an issue. Happiness, he can find elsewhere, who loves him and compatibles.
Love yourself and go find a hobby or back to school and see your worth. You have his money and body but not his love.
He is embarrased u...u r not in his level....in life u need to marry for love n compatible with someone his level
Time to design yourself! Life is short and yolo!
Sister, txhob tu siab os. Tsis yog yus hmoov os nawb. Nco ntsoov tias nyias muaj nyias hmoov...txawm koj mus tau koj tus qub hluas nraug los xyov neb lub neej puas yuav zoo li koj tus qub hluas nraug thiab nws tus poj niam lub thiab. Tej zaum kuj txawv thiab los tsis paub. Nothing in life is guaranteed. Don't feel too bad.
Its great story!
Tus muam koj ces ntshe Npam tiag tiag li lawm o Pab tsis tau koj Vim koj yog ib tug neeg Ruam tshaj plaws li
Zoo heev od
Doctors, the rich the poor when we are old, sick we are ending in the same place in the Hospital, nursing home and the Grave.
I think you love him more than he loves you
Righteousness is the most important thing in the world. You want your husband to love you like a husband should love his wife bc that’s the right thing to do.
Koj tus txiv twb khav2 tias nws yog ib tug Doctor muaj2 nyiaj no ces yeej meem tas mav siv kom txaus nkaus es lwm hnub thiaj tsis khuv xim
Can't have it all! You had to choose and it appeared you chose money over love. You don't even know the stress your husband has due to his work. All you think about is you and your wants/needs. You need to be more supportive to your husband. He's right, you are a very lucky woman and rotten spoiled. Any women would love to be his wife.
❤️❤️❤️all your gorgeous outfits!
Sister, your husband is right. You are lucky to still have money to spend. And since he is not cheating on you, you need to stop complaining. You had love but seemed you didn't want it. So you chose money instead. But you cannot complain that your husband's heart is not with you. The Bible says that wherever man's money is, that's where man's heart is. So like your husband is saying, you dont understand about being a doctor and how educated people spend their time. It is a life long learning.
i understand your pain sister. When we were young, we were stupid and made stupid decisions. Sometimes it's only after we make those stupid decisions that we learn. If you never married your doctor husband, maybe you would have always wanted to marry rich, but now that you have married rich, you realize that money doesn't buy happiness. Sorry sister. May you hopefully one day find love and happiness. Just because you made one dumb decision or have a lot of money doesn't mean you don't deserve love.
People want what they can’t have. But grass is not so greener on the other side.
Wow, great informative story. I learned not to ever marry a doctor.
😂🤣
Not very intelligent thought!
Every person is different
Not only that, she’s also not very bright
She should count her blessings
She should understand if she married the poor guy,
she would be regretting everyday that she didn’t marry the doctor!! 🙄
Zaj no tu siab tshaj plawv li os. Yuav ua cas ua neej txog thaum kawg os lawv es?.
Tus sister aws...along with a lot of things in this world, nothing lasts forever - including money and love or infatuation. You probably would've regret your decision either way because you never know what the future holds. Make the best out of the situation. Hopefully your husband will learn to love you and accept you.
Thats your fault sister, yuav tus txomnyem g yuav los pob xav yuav tus doctor ces thaum kawg zoo li kos os tus pluag tus txomnyem yog tus yuav hlub koj tshiaj os
He has another woman on the side. He has a high stress job and with that he needs to relieve his stress. So hes doing that with another woman. Trust me. Whether you're a man or woman no one can be that cold and heartless unless they have a side chick
You got what you wanted. Money. Make the best of what you have. If your spouse is too busy with work, make time with family and friends. To have money, the gotta work hard. Just be grateful for what you have and that he's not cheating on you. At least I hope he isn't. A job can be extremely stressful depending on what it is.
Txoj kev ntsaw nyiaj txog thaum kawg tuag tug qhov pim qhuav qhawv . You got what you want
That ok it's something women always looking for the best guy so don't regrets what you have. Even you married your old boy friend that not mean you will be the
best wife for him.
me niam hluas aw pej cov poj niam ces tau tus txom nyem los yuav khiav mus nrhiav tus muaj tu tus muaj los ho hais tias lawv tsis hlub no ces yuav tsis muaj leej twg ua haum peb cov poj niam lub siab li os
The majority of human beings would pick money over love. Be happy. You have money.
Even if you go married the poor guy you probably will be complaining that you have a poor life and you could’ve married your rich guy .. so just be bless and happy. Being a doctor required a lot.. please be understanding of that .. if you want love all the time then married someone who just sit at home and make love with you all the time and eat dirt. Lol You’re actually a lucky person to even be with a doctor..
Dang…still complaining? I will take all the kids and vacation every weekend 😅 if he ok with everything and whatever you do. Let him be as long as he didn’t cheap like you say. Be happy with a hard working husband. Enjoy life lady. My husband is a high education too but not at your husband level yet and I’m happy with my husband even he didn’t have much time with me and the kids. Take your husband to the spa and get him a nice message. That’s what I did to mine because he work hard and he need’s that kind of relax too. Chill lady and be happy 😃
It’s very true worthy lesson for everyone to learn to earn to understand to make corrections anyway. The Hmong’s people are telling that beautiful face of a girl has blue heart (evil) heart and handsome man is truly unworthy because he is proclaiming himself very handsome guy. He is foolish anyway haha, that’s true life because he is truly foolishness to married you after the marriage of the real beings partner anyway. Things are going to be worse for no details of the real life in this real world.
Thank you for sharing your life with your wrongfully married man anyway.
Koj twb nyob nrog nyiaj thiab kub es zoo siab mog....koj txawm tau ua tu niam txhem txhem zaub lo koj lub siab yeej tsis tuag koj...koj yeej yuav xav tias yog koj yuav txiv Dr. Ces koj twb tsis tau lo zaub txhem zaub thiab no...koj tu npau suav muaj tseeb es zoo siab rau yam koj tau
At first, you don’t want love but want money. At last, you don’t get love but stick with money my dear.
Sis, you have to listen to Lwm Yaj’s song Tus yus tsis tau yeej khuv xim. If you have a gardening husband, ntshe koj yuav complain tias khwv dhau lawm thiab no os. Be grateful for what you have.
Coming from a man, I be looking else where too if I'm making that kind of money. He only keeping around because of child support. Doctor or not. I know plenty of doctors that spent lots of time with there wife. Some years never, but not for 15 years like you said. Leave him and get child support. You will still be rich, but be used a lot by guys. Good luck!
Hais txog txoj kev muaj kev txom nyem yeej g yog teeb meem qhov tiag yog ua neej raws txoj hmoo xwb koj txoj hmoo yeej los li no. Vim kuv no twb xaiv tus neeg kuv hlub xwb cia li tau tus txom222 nyem Niam txiv g muaj kwv tij los g nrog luag muaj ib tug thiab thaum kawg lub neej twb g xaus thiab os es txhob tu2 siab yog peb yeej tuav peb daim ntawv los li no cia lwm tiam mam rov mus nriav kom tau daim ntawv zoo los ua neej rau fab lwm tiam lawm xwb os....
Peb ua neeg nyob ces ib leeg yeej muaj ib zaj dab neeg os
Tus yus tsis tau ces yeej khuv xim
Lady, you can’t have it all. You chose money over love so live with it. If you can’t have his time and affection, at least enjoy spending his money. After all, you married him for his money, not for love. Even if you married for love, some day that feeling will disappear and you will still be poor. Just be grateful.
Tus txomnyem mus yuav tus muaj ces kawg mus ua luag qhev. Tus nruam yuav tus ntse ces kawg raug thuam. Yog li peb ib txhiaj txiv neeg thiaj tsuas yuav tus kom hauv thiab phim peb xwb mas, ib tsoom me hluas nkauj aws.
Tau no ce khuv xim Tus Tom xwb o mog
Koj Tus txiv Dr yeej hlub koj koj thiaj Li tau Nws nyiaj sib ov
Tab si koj cov lus hlub ..yog .1.koj xav nrog koj Tus txiv ua ke..
2..koj xav hnov los lus zoo los ntawm koj tau txiv lub qhov ncauj xwb ..o
Tus ntses dim yeej yog tus loj xwb os mog. You don’t wear their shoes and walk their lives, you don’t know what you’re missing. Txawm tias koj yuav tau koj tus hluas nraug los ntshe koj haj yam chim thiab haj yam complain tias tau lub neej txom txom nyem es niaj hnub ua teb khwv hnub noj hnub khwv hmo noj hmo xwb no os. Kuv xav mas yog koj yuav nws koj tseem yim huab tu siab tshaj koj lub neej tam sim no nawb. Tus me sister, you have everything you need to build yourself a happy and satisfying life, you should be happy. Love yourself and find things to do to occupy your time. Nco ntsoov hais tias yam ntawm yus tes yus pom tsis zoo tsam thaum yus tso phluav ces luag hos khaws nkaus lawm ces hos haj yam khuvxim nawb.
3 ua neeg nyob,yuav tau saib hauv daim iav yus zoo li cas ces yuav xaiv tus kom zoo li yus xwb thiaj tsis poob kiag muag os .
It’s unfortunate that your husband see himself as better than you and the rest because of his educational accomplishments. However just know that he’s not better and you deserve more. My husband has a doctorate degree and treats me as his equal and respects me. Love is more important than money. ❤️ Hopefully you both can work it out.
You should've married someone who loves you and you two can work together to build your wealth. Then you would've both wealth and a loving husband like many of us.
On a serious note, money can't buy happiness
Sister you have too much time on your hands!!!It’s a very demanding career as a doctor. It’s almost a 24/7 responsibility. What you can do is be a supporting/understanding spouse. You already know what you got yourself into in the first place. Money can’t buy love just material goods. And he’s a good provider. Go get a job so you won’t have all the time in the world to wait for his love!!!!
Ntawm kuv tus kheej mas kuv xav tias koj tus txiv dr muaj dua ib tug tshiab from his work lawm os. He doesn’t want to divorce you because he doesn’t want to pay child support and spousal maintenance. Doesn’t matter how stressful a person’s job is if they love you they will make time for you especially for someone who’s so educated haj yam paub ntxias neeg tshaj yog nws hlub koj.
But, you deserve it what you got. Not hating just saying
You wanted to chase money but you're a peasant. You would never be able to cross the fence to the other side. That is why he doesnt care to call to check up on you. He's wishing you would go find someone else and leave him.
1: tus tsis tau yeej ib txwm yog tus zoo tshaj
2. He is not the only one to do that 2 their women. He is a smart el cheater somehow he does not really care about your activities but $$$$ in your hands. lot men not even leave $$$ to their women. doors open to u for others things that you enjoy after him so. . . .. why not be el cheater . just like he does. ever his decide/want to dirvoce, remember that 50 50 2 u both so . . . . something else. . . we people are tender to each other only begenning of la
ove . . . after that. . . . the tender will slowly disapear . . .and
Sister, he’s showing you he’s doing great in life without you. That is your biggest regret in life you have to live with. No need to be sad cuz that’s what you wanted.
A lot of people are saying negative things but I don’t judge you. Our parents have drilled it in our heads to marry a well educated person that way life wouldn’t be so hard. That’s what you did and found out the hard way that that’s not always true. There’s going to be regrets in life but try not to dwell on what cannot be undone. Be happy for your ex boyfriend that he found someone who truly loves him. As for your husband, he sounds very arrogant and cold but he is still providing for you, let’s you manage the finance and is not cheating so try to see the good in him. Accept him for who he is and stop comparing yours and his relationship to other couples. Every couple has their own set of problems and what you see on the outside might not always be the truth.
Vim koj xaiv tus muaj nyiaj tus muaj npe.nyiaj yus khwv tau tabsi tus hlub yus tiag khwv tsis tau.yusmam khwv thiaj uog yus tug vim koj ntshaw luag tug.cov muaj $,cov educated ces koj ua lawv qhev xwb os.my hubby is educated im educated too but i cater to him hand n foot like a king
Nyiaj txiag puag g sov os peb ib txwm hais lm tias Nyiaj yuav g tau kev hlub no ne.
You made your bed now lie in it lady.
No pity for you what so ever!
But on the real tho, if he's letting you splurge on his money then by all means do use it. Just saying! 😂🤷♀️
U can't get everything u want. U need to learned to accept and be happy what u get. Don't expect too much woman.
The lady has too many names. First, her name was mai chong, nkauj ju, then mai shoua???
Hwj koj tus hluas nraug ko ces yog ib tug quav dev xwb thiaj yuav quaj. Kuv ces twb tsis ntsia thiab kkiav deb li deb lawm osss.
Honestly, the turn out would’ve been the same if you married your poor ex. With him being poor, you would’ve regret not marrying a rich man.
Ua cas ib pliag hais Nkauj Ntsum ib pliag ho hais Nkauj Sua.