Love this story! It is great for people to hear and learn. This couple married very young..never really got to date much. After 30 years of work, kids, other family members they lost touch of why they married. They both learned that the grass is not always greener on the other side. Hopefully they won't continue to take the other person for granted and appreciate what they have in front of them. Love this story! Thank you
Ua tsaug rau neb ib txij nkawm ua neb tau kawm tiav txog txoj kev tsis sib zam txim thiab tsis paub hloov yu tu cwj pwm lo uv thiab hlub yu tu txij nkawm mog yeej tsis yog ib qho phem thaum rov qab lo sib sau ua ke zaum ob txhua yam tsis tsim nyog siv txhob ua lo yog txhob hais zoo dua li mus uv lwm tu tseem tsim yu mob ti hlwb txha mog thiab nyob ntiaj teb no yuav tsis yog neb xwb yeej muaj coob lo luag txhaj muag qhia thiab tsis yog yu haiv neeg ce yu tsis paub lawv xwb. Kuv nrog neb thiab neb cov me nyuam zoo siab heev es luag txawm yuav hais lu phem li ca rau neb lo txhob tu siab thiab chim ntxub lawv es cia neb ua ib tug qauv rau sawv daws kawm yeej yuav muaj ua ntu zu mus lawm tom ntej thiaj li tsis muaj sib nrauj es tej me nyuam thiaj li tsis ua ntsuag ciaj os thov qhua neb es txhob sib nrauj zaum ob lawm ce neb yog ob tug phaj ej thiab nas ej hauv noob neej mog
I like the ending. Thank you both for sharing. It takes courage and bravery to come together to share such personal experiences. You both save a lot marriages sharing your story.
You have to water the grass and tend the garden, some days the sun doesn’t come out and the flowers don’t bloom but when it does, it’s beautiful. I’m happy that you both came back to love each other.
Niam neej vam aws koj zaj neej neeg no mas raug kiag kuv lawm os nyob hauv lub qab ntuj no ib tsoom txiv neej hmoob mas yog cov uas xaib xiv tshaj plaws lwm haiv neeg tej txiv neej peb yuav ua cas ua tau ib tug pojniam uas g yws taus nas vim hauv lub neej txhua tsav txhua yam yog yus uas tag nro xwb es yus twb tsis yog ib lub cav es yuav nrov txhua hnub naj yus yog ib tug tib neeg ib yam li nws xwb es hauj lwm sab nraum los yus kuj mus khwv tau nyiaj ib yam li cov txiv neej hmoob thiab es los txog hauv tsev los yus tseem los khwv ua noj hauv lub tsev thiab yus kuj sab ces ntau zaus kuj uv g taus lawm ces kawg yws xwb muab xav mas cov txiv neej hmoob no lawv siab phem tshaj plaws li vim kuv tus txiv los yog kiag zaj neej neeg no ntag ib tsoom niam tsev hmoob aws thov peb koom siab los tawm suab saib yuav ua li cas es kom cov txiv neej hmoob no thiaj li g phem 2 6 peb os
Good job explaining both sides of the story. Hopefully this story is shared many times over for every couple to learn from. My husband is a clan leader and he tries hard to fix broken marriages, this will be a good story for him to share with troubled marriages.
Aww. You two were meant for one another. The divorce was a lesson learned. Never take what you have in front of you for granted. Nrog nej ob leeg zoo siab.
Great story! You are meant to be! There’s no perfect marriage. Love takes sacrifices, hardships, and endurance. The grass always green any where when you water.
‘Uag, 2 niam txiv aub ‘aw . Ua cas yav tas los es neb nim yog. 2 niam txiv aub ntxim ntxim hlub kawg. Cas tsam no neb ho hloov siab mus ua 2 niam txiv dev rov los noj dev ntuav txaus luag ua luaj li naj. Hahaha.
I feel the wifey where she's coming from. Especially if the hubby does nothing around the house. I'm glad they learned a good lesson from the separation. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
Ua thiaj yog no tab sis ob leeg yeej puav leej ua yuam kev ib yam yuav haum ces tsuas yog thaum tseem ua khauj ua nraug es thiaj xav sib uv xwb os ob leeg twb mus khawm caum plis yas tag lawm ces rov qab los sib sib hlub nawb zoo dua mus uv tus tshiab os mog yav no paub lawm ces ho sib uv mog tej mi nyuam thiaj yog ob leeg yug ob leeg thiaj hlub thiaj tsis khib nawb
Yog li neb hais lawm twb yog neb tsem txawj xav heev li neb lub neej thiaj rov qab zoo li qub luag tej txawm yuav hais li cas los txhob quav ntsej tsuav yus rov qab sib hlub nkag siab xwb yuav zoo dua ib tug tuag mus lawm eov qab xav npaum li cas los twb rov hlib hlub tsis tau lawm yog sib nrauj xwb txawm koj mus muaj koj ib tug dua los kuv mus muaj kuv ib tug dua los twb ua kev kawm los sib hlub dua lWm yuav tsum tau zam txim tej tug neeg tseem liam tshaj yus tsis paub yus tseem qhuas qhuas tab sis twb tsis zoo npaum yus rov qab sib zam txim nawb neb muaj hmoo heev thiaj li rov qab tau los ua neb lub neej kom kawg os nrog neb zoo siab nawb
Always remember that the grass looks greener on the other side because it's fertilized with bull shit.😅 Glad they were able to work it out and get back together.
Nrog neb zoo siab qhov neb tseem sib zam rov los sib hlub dua rau zaum ob. Txhob mus mloog luag tsuav neb rov sib zam tau lawm luag g nrog yus nyob luag g paub txog yus lub neej neb txoj kev sib nrauj ntawv ntse yog ib lub khuj neb tau muaj tiam tag los los yog tiam no xwb es tej zaum thiaj yuav tau ua kom lub khuj ntawv tag mus zoo siab kawg nkaus rau neb txoj kev sib zam es lub neej thiaj yuav tsheej os.😭😭👏❤💯
I’m proud of you both for sharing your stories, Yes the 1st one is always the one that God gave and with His blessing, neb zaj neejneeg no phem rau Dang Thao zaj nkauj “Puas Taulig”
To husband.tsis muaj ib tug poj niam twg zoo 100% yog zoo 70 80% lawm ncauj heev tes heev ua tau niam tab cuab lawm koj yuav tau uv.thiaj tsis tau nyob qab choj.feem coob txiv neej 40 50 60 ntxeev siab vim xav tau nkauj mos ab los yog ntshaw tus poj niam zoo y nkauj.ua neej yus ntseeg yus tus kheej cov neeg mus mloog phooj ywg kwv tij cob mus tham hluas nkauj thaum kawg yuav kob huam yog qab choj
We all make mistakes in life we only regret it when we actually see our spouse worth and accept our wrongs fix our flaws, communication and corporation is key.
I so appreciate the story and you guys are awesome and you both are learning the hard way in life because when 2 people got married when they're both young and I not date anyone before getting married and always compare to another people wife or husband was better than the one we have until we go through what you guys go through and we come to realize what we have was better than everybody else has but it ok to learn the hard way and to appreciate the one we have are better in the hard way
Tej laus hais tias luag tsis hlub koj los koj yuav tsum hlub luag ces ib ntus yuav zoo xwb, lo lus nov tsis muaj tseeb, Kev hlub ntawm niam txiv mas yuav tsum muaj sib pauj xwb2 yog nws ua zoo ces yus yuav tau ua zoo2 thiab thiaj nyob taus uake, thiaj hu tau tias ''kev sibhlub'' yog ruas cia koj ua zoo2 6 kuv tas li xwb Hos kuv mas heev npaum ib tug dab xwb ces koj yeej yuav lwj siab tuag li hos kuv los yeej yuav phem2 tuag kiag li ces tsis zoo 6 2leeg tibsi li nswb
If people just have each other a chance to grow in their relationship, they don’t need to divorce and remarry. I’m glad it worked out for them and they learned their lesson.
Zoo siab neb rov los sib hkub sib sau mog! Yeej muaj tsheeb li neb ob leeg hais thiab taug cov kev mus ua nkauj nrab nraug nrab os nawb! Laus lawm yeej tsis yeej cov hluas es txawm phem npaum cas los ua siab ntev li cov laus hais mog..
Good story thank you for sharing. Those of us that got married early back then especially the men doesn't know how to value their wife. No romance No dates. But glad you both learned your lesson.
As a couple, you have to help one another. It’s team work not just one doing all the work. Men doesn’t understand that the reason why women nagging it’s because they DO EVERYTHING! Grass isn’t alway green on the other side. You gotta water your own grass.
Sometimes, you see divorced people have so much. But you don't know how it feels when they go home knowing that there Is nobody there waiting for them. It's sad and lonely.
Tsis hais cov Poj niam los yog txiv neej, thaum tsis tau sib nrauj 1 zaug mas yuav nrauj mas yog 1 qho nyuaj tshaj thiab ntshai tshaj vim xws li kuv tus uas yog Poj niam no xwb yus lub neej tsaus Ntuj nti xwb tsis muaj 3 Hnub zoo vim lub neej yeej tsis tau ua Nkauj ua nraug es cia li sib yuav xwb yog li noj los noj tsis sib xws hos hais lus los tsis sib nkag siab hos Nyiaj txiag Nyias muaj Nyias tug hos nws los tub nkeeg kuj tub nkees yeej tsis pab yus li nws tsuas yuav yus vim nws muaj qhov caiv tsis taus Poj niam xwb tabsis yus yuav nrauj nws mas yus ntshai2 tsam yus neej tsa loose lawv lub face thiab tsam yus ho loose yus lub fsce thiab yus kuj ho tsis xav muab yus tej minyuam sib Xais ua ntsuag ciaj ces yus mas tu2 siab ua lub neej nrog kev tu siab xwb los yus yeej uv2 los tau 30 tawm xyoo and still ub and suffer. Hos cov uas lawv tsis ub ces lawv nrauj tau zaum 1 lawm ces lawv lub neej Tom qab zoo ces lawv ub mus hos yog zoo li yus Qub or worst ces lawv recycle kiag xwb ces thiaj yooj yim rau cov ntawd lawm. Yog li kuv ib tug pog thiaj hais tias mi Nyab thiab mi tub neb yuav tau sib ub nawb tsis txhob sib nrauj mog, nrauj ib zaug lawm ces yuav nrauj nti tsib ces lub neej yuav ib sij nrauj ib zaug txiv ib sij nrauj ib zaug Poj niam nawb! Now I believe her 100% right about that
My husband and I are like this too. I won’t talk about what happen but I will say that it is good to come back and work things out not for my kids or anyone. We both learn to communicate better and respect each other better then before. But like I always say we still don’t know the future. But I know that the game is over for me. If we don’t work out again. I will stay single with my kids. At least i know that I tried to make things work.
@@nynyhawj1017 I always tell my close friends and family, no one will understand the struggle and pain inside my heart. I made it out of this fire myself. I wish no one i know walk the same steps like me. Cuz I know for a fact that they won’t make it out alive. The pain will kill them. One thing I learn is always be a good person. Our hmoob lady always end up with a bad reputation good or bad. One day someone see you, they will come marry you, better yet, he came back cuz you are worth millions. Now his world is embarrassed. Haha
No one wants to be searching at 40 years old. But sometimes life take its course in different direction. One chose life and the other one chose a small corner. So the other has no choice but to move on. Life as a human being has no expiration date. It's a matter of choice.
Neb ob niam txiv yog neb tsis paub sib zam tabsis yog ib lub khub es neb yuav tau sib nrauj es mam rov sib yuav thiaj yuav kav neb mus rau yav laus xwb. Txhua cov niam txiv sib nrauj nws yeej tsis mus zoo li neb li, Cov nrauj tag ces liam tas los twb muaj cov mus sib yuav es lam ua lub neej sib nrauj li puav dai taws nyob hnub xam hnub los muaj cov sib sib hlub los muaj thiab. Yog ib qhov kev kawm tias peb twb laus tag lawm ces kawg rov sib zam sib kho xwb mus rau tom ntej los yeej tsis muaj qhov zoo dabtsi ntxiv lawm no xwb.
Txivneej Hmoob xav tias pojniam yog Robot......Tus pojniam twb ua tas tshua yam ces yus nyob yus xwb mas... yuav niag txiv ua abtsi, twb pab tsis tau yus li os
Husband who want 3 full course meal and expect the wife to make everytime and only what he likes only...dude what you gonna do when your wife pass away???....STARVE TO DEATH...yeah there's fast food but u gonna go broke after awhile.....damn I feel sorry for this lady....if u like doing that for your hubby than kuddos to u...but im sure u get tired once in a awhile...it drains your energy im sure!!!! Relationships is about helping each other...having respect... being honest..and have trust....when u have this... everything else will fall in place.
The grass is not greener on the other side. All the moneys you guys spent on your BF and GF should have gone to your children. Glad you guys worked it out.
Thaum yus ob leeg aim xwb ces tsisctxawj sib hlib cia nyias nyias ib ntus lwm tus aim thiab mam rov sib yuav zaum 2 thiab sib hkub mas hom neeg tsis sawm zoo na
I'm capable of doing both men and women work. should I do it by myself. hell no... if you're outside doing work I'm with you. same goes for household items. smh, 30 years is too long.
LUAG QHIA NEB CES DAG, CIA NEB NTSIB MAM LI TSEEB.... NEB PUAS UA TSHOOB TSHIAB NAJ?????? NEB POM DEJ DAG NEB THIAJ LI ZEEM OS YOM!!!! ZOO HEEV UAS NEB MUAB TUAJ QHIA RAU NTIAJTEB PAUB.....
This is a good lesson to those cheaters who think they are still young and good looking when they are in their 40s-50s. Their face are all old wrinkling, gray hair but dye their hair every month to cover up. Ntshaw ntshaw ob peb pab me nyuam...koj pab kuv pab wb pab....Tsuas xav ua dev rau ub rau no tsis xav tab cuab. Cov neeg zoo li no yuav tsum sim txoj kev no thiaj paub tias lwm tus neeg puas zoo li lub siab xav.
Tsis hais leej twg li yus khwv tshaj nws ces yus Yeej uv Tsis taus li muaj tej zaum mas yus npo pa xwb xav tias hais tawm ces ntshe npaim raws yuav cig xwb
Love this story! It is great for people to hear and learn. This couple married very young..never really got to date much. After 30 years of work, kids, other family members they lost touch of why they married. They both learned that the grass is not always greener on the other side. Hopefully they won't continue to take the other person for granted and appreciate what they have in front of them. Love this story! Thank you
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Ua tsaug rau neb ib txij nkawm ua neb tau kawm tiav txog txoj kev tsis sib zam txim thiab tsis paub hloov yu tu cwj pwm lo uv thiab hlub yu tu txij nkawm mog yeej tsis yog ib qho phem thaum rov qab lo sib sau ua ke zaum ob txhua yam tsis tsim nyog siv txhob ua lo yog txhob hais zoo dua li mus uv lwm tu tseem tsim yu mob ti hlwb txha mog thiab nyob ntiaj teb no yuav tsis yog neb xwb yeej muaj coob lo luag txhaj muag qhia thiab tsis yog yu haiv neeg ce yu tsis paub lawv xwb. Kuv nrog neb thiab neb cov me nyuam zoo siab heev es luag txawm yuav hais lu phem li ca rau neb lo txhob tu siab thiab chim ntxub lawv es cia neb ua ib tug qauv rau sawv daws kawm yeej yuav muaj ua ntu zu mus lawm tom ntej thiaj li tsis muaj sib nrauj es tej me nyuam thiaj li tsis ua ntsuag ciaj os thov qhua neb es txhob sib nrauj zaum ob lawm ce neb yog ob tug phaj ej thiab nas ej hauv noob neej mog
Ua tsaug neb zaj neej neeg os
I like the ending. Thank you both for sharing. It takes courage and bravery to come together to share such personal experiences. You both save a lot marriages sharing your story.
Hais tau zoo kawg li thiab ntshe tsuas yog neb xwb lau thiaj li kam rov los sib yuav , yog ib tug qauv zoo ,neb mas thiaj li kawm tiav tiag li hos !!
Great story. Thanks for sharing. Life is a lesson to learn. Tsis pom dej dag siab tsis qig.
This is a very good learning story for all the couples that think grass is greener on the other side.
Thank you for sharing your story.
You have to water the grass and tend the garden, some days the sun doesn’t come out and the flowers don’t bloom but when it does, it’s beautiful. I’m happy that you both came back to love each other.
Neeg siab luv npaum no ces kawg txojkev no. Nyias rov qhia nyias thiaj qhia tau.
Niam neej vam aws koj zaj neej neeg no mas raug kiag kuv lawm os nyob hauv lub qab ntuj no ib tsoom txiv neej hmoob mas yog cov uas xaib xiv tshaj plaws lwm haiv neeg tej txiv neej peb yuav ua cas ua tau ib tug pojniam uas g yws taus nas vim hauv lub neej txhua tsav txhua yam yog yus uas tag nro xwb es yus twb tsis yog ib lub cav es yuav nrov txhua hnub naj yus yog ib tug tib neeg ib yam li nws xwb es hauj lwm sab nraum los yus kuj mus khwv tau nyiaj ib yam li cov txiv neej hmoob thiab es los txog hauv tsev los yus tseem los khwv ua noj hauv lub tsev thiab yus kuj sab ces ntau zaus kuj uv g taus lawm ces kawg yws xwb muab xav mas cov txiv neej hmoob no lawv siab phem tshaj plaws li vim kuv tus txiv los yog kiag zaj neej neeg no ntag ib tsoom niam tsev hmoob aws thov peb koom siab los tawm suab saib yuav ua li cas es kom cov txiv neej hmoob no thiaj li g phem 2 6 peb os
Hahaha my favorite words!! GAME OVER!!!
Love the ending!!! Glad that you two got back together again!! That is love!!
Wow it is a great story thank for the share
Good job explaining both sides of the story.
Hopefully this story is shared many times over for every couple to learn from.
My husband is a clan leader and he tries hard to fix broken marriages, this will be a good story for him to share with troubled marriages.
Aww. You two were meant for one another. The divorce was a lesson learned. Never take what you have in front of you for granted. Nrog nej ob leeg zoo siab.
Very nice story....a real lesson for so many couples.👍
Great story! You are meant to be! There’s no perfect marriage. Love takes sacrifices, hardships, and endurance. The grass always green any where when you water.
Magic happens when husband and wife are humble towards each other
‘Uag, 2 niam txiv aub ‘aw .
Ua cas yav tas los es neb nim
yog. 2 niam txiv aub ntxim ntxim
hlub kawg. Cas tsam no neb
ho hloov siab mus ua 2 niam
txiv dev rov los noj dev ntuav
txaus luag ua luaj li naj. Hahaha.
Yog lawm cov poj niam cam thawj tsi hwm tus txiv ces cov txiv neej ntse yeej tsi yuav li os
Ob leeg kawm tiav qib siab lawm ces zoo tshaj qhov zoo lawm los mas
Sweet story....sometimes we all need to break apart to value eachother alot more.
Glad this couple have learned their lesson. It's a lesson for all of us to learn as well
What a great story! Such a learning curve for us folks! Makes me want to work harder on my marriage. Grass isn't always greener on the other side.
I feel the wifey where she's coming from. Especially if the hubby does nothing around the house. I'm glad they learned a good lesson from the separation. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
This is a good story. Thanks for sharing! We need more story like this one.
Ua thiaj yog no tab sis ob leeg yeej puav leej ua yuam kev ib yam yuav haum ces tsuas yog thaum tseem ua khauj ua nraug es thiaj xav sib uv xwb os ob leeg twb mus khawm caum plis yas tag lawm ces rov qab los sib sib hlub nawb zoo dua mus uv tus tshiab os mog yav no paub lawm ces ho sib uv mog tej mi nyuam thiaj yog ob leeg yug ob leeg thiaj hlub thiaj tsis khib nawb
Tej laus ib txwm piv txoj lus hais tias luam ces zoo thawj ntsug tus hlub ces zoo thawj tug…
Yeej tsis muaj leej twg kam ua koj qhev li os, yus yuav tsum tau ua yus noj thiab pab yus tus poj niam.
Yog li neb hais lawm twb yog neb tsem txawj xav heev li neb lub neej thiaj rov qab zoo li qub luag tej txawm yuav hais li cas los txhob quav ntsej tsuav yus rov qab sib hlub nkag siab xwb yuav zoo dua ib tug tuag mus lawm eov qab xav npaum li cas los twb rov hlib hlub tsis tau lawm yog sib nrauj xwb txawm koj mus muaj koj ib tug dua los kuv mus muaj kuv ib tug dua los twb ua kev kawm los sib hlub dua lWm yuav tsum tau zam txim tej tug neeg tseem liam tshaj yus tsis paub yus tseem qhuas qhuas tab sis twb tsis zoo npaum yus rov qab sib zam txim nawb neb muaj hmoo heev thiaj li rov qab tau los ua neb lub neej kom kawg os nrog neb zoo siab nawb
Always remember that the grass looks greener on the other side because it's fertilized with bull shit.😅 Glad they were able to work it out and get back together.
You both learn your lesson: grass not greener on other side and yus tus niam nkauj txhav qaib nraug txhav yus thiaj sib uv tau.licas los kawg sib uv
Nrog neb zoo siab qhov neb tseem sib zam rov los sib hlub dua rau zaum ob. Txhob mus mloog luag tsuav neb rov sib zam tau lawm luag g nrog yus nyob luag g paub txog yus lub neej neb txoj kev sib nrauj ntawv ntse yog ib lub khuj neb tau muaj tiam tag los los yog tiam no xwb es tej zaum thiaj yuav tau ua kom lub khuj ntawv tag mus zoo siab kawg nkaus rau neb txoj kev sib zam es lub neej thiaj yuav tsheej os.😭😭👏❤💯
Tu siab kawg li od yom, yog zam tau ces rov los nyob ua ke es ntshe yuav zoo tshaj mus yuav dua ib tug tshiab od yeej thov qhuas neb kawg li mog.
Great story. The grass is never greener on the other side.
I’m proud of you both for sharing your stories, Yes the 1st one is always the one that God gave and with His blessing, neb zaj neejneeg no phem rau Dang Thao zaj nkauj “Puas Taulig”
Koj Taj dhau lawm os
Txhob siv lo lus tias neb sib sib hlub. Kev hlub tsis yog hloov mus hloov los. Neb yog tws kev lawm es tsuas rov los ua neej ua kev xwb. Tsis yog sib hlub
Peb cov txiv neej thiab poj niam uas twb muaj 45 rov sauv es yog sib nrauj ces kawg raug lwm tus dag nyiaj, dag noj, dag hav xwb lawv lwm tus yeej tsis hlub yeej tsis yuav yus!!! Yog sib nrauj tag tseem mus yuav luag qub poj niam thiab mus yuav luag qub txiv xwb ces thov txhob sib nrauj!!! Yuav tau thim xav es rub siab ntev, rub siab ntev sib yoog ntshe yuav zoo dua!!! Mus yuav luag qub poj niam!!! Mus yuav luag qub txiv!!!
Good story and good to u guys to understand each other. I hope u too honor and obey from now to the end
To husband.tsis muaj ib tug poj niam twg zoo 100% yog zoo 70 80% lawm ncauj heev tes heev ua tau niam tab cuab lawm koj yuav tau uv.thiaj tsis tau nyob qab choj.feem coob txiv neej 40 50 60 ntxeev siab vim xav tau nkauj mos ab los yog ntshaw tus poj niam zoo y nkauj.ua neej yus ntseeg yus tus kheej cov neeg mus mloog phooj ywg kwv tij cob mus tham hluas nkauj thaum kawg yuav kob huam yog qab choj
We all make mistakes in life we only regret it when we actually see our spouse worth and accept our wrongs fix our flaws, communication and corporation is key.
I so appreciate the story and you guys are awesome and you both are learning the hard way in life because when 2 people got married when they're both young and I not date anyone before getting married and always compare to another people wife or husband was better than the one we have until we go through what you guys go through and we come to realize what we have was better than everybody else has but it ok to learn the hard way and to appreciate the one we have are better in the hard way
Tej laus hais tias luag tsis hlub koj los koj yuav tsum hlub luag ces ib ntus yuav zoo xwb, lo lus nov tsis muaj tseeb, Kev hlub ntawm niam txiv mas yuav tsum muaj sib pauj xwb2 yog nws ua zoo ces yus yuav tau ua zoo2 thiab thiaj nyob taus uake, thiaj hu tau tias ''kev sibhlub'' yog ruas cia koj ua zoo2 6 kuv tas li xwb Hos kuv mas heev npaum ib tug dab xwb ces koj yeej yuav lwj siab tuag li hos kuv los yeej yuav phem2 tuag kiag li ces tsis zoo 6 2leeg tibsi li nswb
If people just have each other a chance to grow in their relationship, they don’t need to divorce and remarry. I’m glad it worked out for them and they learned their lesson.
Zoo siab neb rov los sib hkub sib sau mog! Yeej muaj tsheeb li neb ob leeg hais thiab taug cov kev mus ua nkauj nrab nraug nrab os nawb! Laus lawm yeej tsis yeej cov hluas es txawm phem npaum cas los ua siab ntev li cov laus hais mog..
Neb zaj neej neeg no mas muaj tej ntus lom zem kawg! Yeej muaj tseeb nawb. True story! 😂
Good story thank you for sharing. Those of us that got married early back then especially the men doesn't know how to value their wife. No romance No dates. But glad you both learned your lesson.
Quwv tsis tau paus tsis nkim ua ib siab nlub zoo dua luwm
As a couple, you have to help one another. It’s team work not just one doing all the work. Men doesn’t understand that the reason why women nagging it’s because they DO EVERYTHING! Grass isn’t alway green on the other side. You gotta water your own grass.
Agree
Aman rau Neb ib niam txiv os ua tseem muab Neb zaj neej neeg share ua kev kawm thb is
Great lesson for all of us. Marriage 101
Hais tau zoo kawg……yog poj niam nrauj txiv tas mam ua zoo nkauj ces on husband tooooooo late no need too/ same for the husband.
Great job..! No one should judge unless they are in your shoes.
Sometimes, you see divorced people have so much. But you don't know how it feels when they go home knowing that there Is nobody there waiting for them. It's sad and lonely.
Hi mab
Great example! Very happy for you.
Beautiful story, you both learn your lesson and happy ending to you both
thank you for sharing your story....
Life lessons for every couple. Not everyone has a second chance. Nyuaj npaum cas los tiv kom kawg.
Thanks for sharing your story
Tsis hais cov Poj niam los yog txiv neej, thaum tsis tau sib nrauj 1 zaug mas yuav nrauj mas yog 1 qho nyuaj tshaj thiab ntshai tshaj vim xws li kuv tus uas yog Poj niam no xwb yus lub neej tsaus Ntuj nti xwb tsis muaj 3 Hnub zoo vim lub neej yeej tsis tau ua Nkauj ua nraug es cia li sib yuav xwb yog li noj los noj tsis sib xws hos hais lus los tsis sib nkag siab hos Nyiaj txiag Nyias muaj Nyias tug hos nws los tub nkeeg kuj tub nkees yeej tsis pab yus li nws tsuas yuav yus vim nws muaj qhov caiv tsis taus Poj niam xwb tabsis yus yuav nrauj nws mas yus ntshai2 tsam yus neej tsa loose lawv lub face thiab tsam yus ho loose yus lub fsce thiab yus kuj ho tsis xav muab yus tej minyuam sib Xais ua ntsuag ciaj ces yus mas tu2 siab ua lub neej nrog kev tu siab xwb los yus yeej uv2 los tau 30 tawm xyoo and still ub and suffer. Hos cov uas lawv tsis ub ces lawv nrauj tau zaum 1 lawm ces lawv lub neej Tom qab zoo ces lawv ub mus hos yog zoo li yus Qub or worst ces lawv recycle kiag xwb ces thiaj yooj yim rau cov ntawd lawm. Yog li kuv ib tug pog thiaj hais tias mi Nyab thiab mi tub neb yuav tau sib ub nawb tsis txhob sib nrauj mog, nrauj ib zaug lawm ces yuav nrauj nti tsib ces lub neej yuav ib sij nrauj ib zaug txiv ib sij nrauj ib zaug Poj niam nawb! Now I believe her 100% right about that
Great story
Awww, such a sweet story! ❤❤❤
What's a loosed dude feel sad 4 your wife some men are no deserve good wife until pom dej dag siab mam nqeg
❤ your voice
My husband and I are like this too. I won’t talk about what happen but I will say that it is good to come back and work things out not for my kids or anyone. We both learn to communicate better and respect each other better then before. But like I always say we still don’t know the future. But I know that the game is over for me. If we don’t work out again. I will stay single with my kids. At least i know that I tried to make things work.
I can relate to wat you're saying 💕
@@nynyhawj1017 I always tell my close friends and family, no one will understand the struggle and pain inside my heart. I made it out of this fire myself. I wish no one i know walk the same steps like me. Cuz I know for a fact that they won’t make it out alive. The pain will kill them. One thing I learn is always be a good person. Our hmoob lady always end up with a bad reputation good or bad. One day someone see you, they will come marry you, better yet, he came back cuz you are worth millions. Now his world is embarrassed. Haha
No one wants to be searching at 40 years old. But sometimes life take its course in different direction. One chose life and the other one chose a small corner. So the other has no choice but to move on. Life as a human being has no expiration date. It's a matter of choice.
Thaub laus aw...koj hlwb tsawg heev, yus lub neej es raug lwm tus ntxias kom yus lub neej puas ces yog koj laub.
yog kuwg luwm o yus tus niam nkauj txav qaib txiv nkaug txav noog thiaj yog tus hub yu xwb o
Neb ob niam txiv yog neb tsis paub sib zam tabsis yog ib lub khub es neb yuav tau sib nrauj es mam rov sib yuav thiaj yuav kav neb mus rau yav laus xwb. Txhua cov niam txiv sib nrauj nws yeej tsis mus zoo li neb li, Cov nrauj tag ces liam tas los twb muaj cov mus sib yuav es lam ua lub neej sib nrauj li puav dai taws nyob hnub xam hnub los muaj cov sib sib hlub los muaj thiab. Yog ib qhov kev kawm tias peb twb laus tag lawm ces kawg rov sib zam sib kho xwb mus rau tom ntej los yeej tsis muaj qhov zoo dabtsi ntxiv lawm no xwb.
Txivneej Hmoob xav tias pojniam yog Robot......Tus pojniam twb ua tas tshua yam ces yus nyob yus xwb mas... yuav niag txiv ua abtsi, twb pab tsis tau yus li os
Happy you both love forgive eat other....not alot are like this
Ua cas yuav hais li.40 xyoo tab tom ntshaw2 niam ob niam 3 xwb los sav.
Uatsaug rau 2 tug tuaj qhia txog neb lub neej os
Husband who want 3 full course meal and expect the wife to make everytime and only what he likes only...dude what you gonna do when your wife pass away???....STARVE TO DEATH...yeah there's fast food but u gonna go broke after awhile.....damn I feel sorry for this lady....if u like doing that for your hubby than kuddos to u...but im sure u get tired once in a awhile...it drains your energy im sure!!!!
Relationships is about helping each other...having respect... being honest..and have trust....when u have this... everything else will fall in place.
I believed 40 xyoo tsis tau expired li nawb. 55-60 mas yog muaj ntshav qab zib lawm ces expired tiag2 li nawb. Lol
Lol. Grass is not greener on the other side.
The grass is not greener on the other side. All the moneys you guys spent on your BF and GF should have gone to your children. Glad you guys worked it out.
Thaum yus ob leeg aim xwb ces tsisctxawj sib hlib cia nyias nyias ib ntus lwm tus aim thiab mam rov sib yuav zaum 2 thiab sib hkub mas hom neeg tsis sawm zoo na
Lol🤣🤣🤣
Leej twg hais rau neb tias poj nrauj yawg nrauj es zoo no nas ob tug. Yuav poj niam yuav txiv lawm yus zoo lub = used car = lawm nas. Yog koj tsis xav koj hais tias tus tshiab tab sis yus tus yus ib txwm yuav thiaj yog tus tshiab. Yog li neb zaj dab neeg = expired = lawm.
Kuv yog thawj tus los mloog!
I'm capable of doing both men and women work. should I do it by myself. hell no... if you're outside doing work I'm with you. same goes for household items. smh, 30 years is too long.
LUAG QHIA NEB CES DAG, CIA NEB NTSIB MAM LI TSEEB.... NEB PUAS UA TSHOOB TSHIAB NAJ?????? NEB POM DEJ DAG NEB THIAJ LI ZEEM OS YOM!!!! ZOO HEEV UAS NEB MUAB TUAJ QHIA RAU NTIAJTEB PAUB.....
cov poj nrauj tam sim no phem phem tsuas zoo deev xwb tsis zoo yuav los ua niam tsev nawb lawv aw...
Rawv li xav mas koj loj sai sai ces Lau sai sai es hluas nkauj thiaj tsi nyiam koj thiab koj tsi paub abtsi li
Kuv CES ua ib siab tsis yuav poj niam ntxiv lawm laus. Cov poj nrauj no tsis muaj tus zoo lawm.
Ntuj hos teb cas koj tseem poob $10,000 thiab na hlub koj tus kheej lawv Kaus nyiaj xwb
Qhia Kev cai rau xwb mas
Cov txiv neej hmoob Siab phem siab dub quav Dev Nov mas CIA kom nws Ciaj Dev thawj thiab nws siab thiaj li nqig
This is a good lesson to those cheaters who think they are still young and good looking when they are in their 40s-50s. Their face are all old wrinkling, gray hair but dye their hair every month to cover up. Ntshaw ntshaw ob peb pab me nyuam...koj pab kuv pab wb pab....Tsuas xav ua dev rau ub rau no tsis xav tab cuab. Cov neeg zoo li no yuav tsum sim txoj kev no thiaj paub tias lwm tus neeg puas zoo li lub siab xav.
Tus poj niam koj ib tug neeg nkeeg kawg, tus koj yog xav noj tsis xav uas cov nkauj nrab hmoob nplog yog ib cov nkauj money xwb
Qhov koj ua tsis yog ces
Qhov koj pub $10,000 rau koj niag hluas nraug ntawv!!
Ntau dhau lawm
Vim li cas kj yuav ntshaws hluas nraug luaj na ??
The dog state. Whoever lives in the dog state, their relationship will end up in jeopardy
Dog state? You mean MN?
Yog kawg cov noj tshuaj tawv nruj rov los qab plab nyob hoom ntau tshaj yog hmoob mn. Thiab yuav nkauj mos ab ntau tshaj plaws yog hmoob mn.
Don't be a loser
Ua cas nej tej niam txiv twb txawj txawj hais lus los ua cas tseem sib nrauj thiab lau. Kuv mas ntshaw nej tiag li os.
Txiv tsev hmoob ces ib txhias ces tub tub nkeeg nyom twb tsis txiav. Nyom los poj niam ib puas yam tsav poj niam xwb ces poj niam ham tsis cem les es.
Tsis hais leej twg li yus khwv tshaj nws ces yus Yeej uv Tsis taus li muaj tej zaum mas yus npo pa xwb xav tias hais tawm ces ntshe npaim raws yuav cig xwb
Koj tus hluas nraug ces txias koj nyiaj xwb os nws yeej tsis hlub koj
555555555....txiv neej nrauj poj niam tag ces nco qhov ua nws tu qub poj niam ua nws qhev es ua zaub mov sov so rau nws noj xwb
Zaj no mas yog yus saib yus zoo xwb. Yog niag tov phem. Nyias khav nyias qhov, tsis mus saib iav ces thaum kawg ntsib xauv...