Finally relaxing my hair AGAIN after 6 months | Setback, Big trim, dry ends | Relaxer update

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  • Опубликовано: 17 дек 2024

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  • @iam_ntli
    @iam_ntli 10 месяцев назад +8

    I love watching your hair videos. They are very relaxing 🎉❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much pretty lady 😃

  • @pebetseaphane4437
    @pebetseaphane4437 10 месяцев назад +22

    Hi Sesi Pale hope you are doing good. I just wanted to say please don't cut your hair. My hair is similar to yours and last year it was shedding a lot wanted to cut it but I didn't. Started doing mini braid with my hair (my hair is relaxed ) and I would moisturise my hair every other day with growth oil ( avocado oil, coconut oil, olive oil and moringa leaves ) focusing on the ends and then cover it with a shower cap over night. My dry ends are better and my hair grew 2 to 3 inches within 3-4 months . Hope this helps ❤❤❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +5

      I’m definitely taking a page out of your book. I’m trying this and I will document my journey💕
      Thank you so much for this advice Pebetse❤️

    • @TheLeloM
      @TheLeloM 10 месяцев назад +1

      This just encouraged me to add the shower cap when moisturizing my hair...thank you

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      I started baggy method on my ends last night😁

    • @rumbidee
      @rumbidee 10 месяцев назад +1

      The shedding led me to cut mine last year💔😭

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +2

      @@rumbidee shedding is frustrating

  • @glamology_za
    @glamology_za 10 месяцев назад +1

    Your hair looks good and healthy...I am also trimming a big chunk to even it out before I do a sew-in.

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      This year I’m keeping my hair tucked away and making sure my scalp is clean and moisturised even in protective style🤞🏽 and doing more trims. I hate to admit it but my hair thrives after trims 😅

  • @ingeMarcel
    @ingeMarcel 10 месяцев назад +2

    Had to cut my hair into a bob, because I was not taking care of it properly and manipulating too much. My ends looked a mess especially in the front. Now I'm starting over as well.
    Good luck with your journey, love your content.

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      Good luck on your journey babe. Thank you so much. I hope we can learn from one another 💕

    • @felicia_rm
      @felicia_rm 10 месяцев назад +1

      Hey, what do you mean manipulating too much? Was your hair always in cornrows or silk pressing?

    • @ingeMarcel
      @ingeMarcel 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@felicia_rm I was using my straightener way too much, almost every week. Combining my hair almost every day, not really doing protective styles. I did a lot of tight buns as well. Didn't moisturising properly, especially when I straightened my hair.
      Lack of protein also played a role, I'm still looking for a good protein conditioner/treatment
      Hope it helps

  • @aysherkabby5937
    @aysherkabby5937 10 месяцев назад +3

    Hi Palesa , well done!! the hair looking good and heath

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much 🙏🏽🥰

  • @673466
    @673466 10 месяцев назад +1

    I haven’t done my hair in about six mnths aswell. Was always on cornrows and your oil help me like crazy. I can see that the volume is getting back like you said. Thank u so much for your help.🙏🏻

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      I’m so happy to hear that. I’m going back to that routine this year.

  • @merlecalderajoseph5405
    @merlecalderajoseph5405 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hair looks healthy and that's really important. I did a big trim also, My hair doesn't like long stretches and protective styles. I will suggest you try a hot oil treatment it's a game changer

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      I have started doing hot oil treatments again. I look forward to seeing the results 💕

  • @0tismadaline
    @0tismadaline 10 месяцев назад +2

    In all your hair looks great at the end love and am excited for your new journey ❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      I’m nervous but excited. Here’s to healthy hair growth 🥂

  • @Khaya6469
    @Khaya6469 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hello sis pale your hair is very beautiful the results r great wishing u reach ur hair goals for the year.....i was also relaxed but I did a big chop last year december n it was a breath of fresh air im starting afresh n the experience is nice xem❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you Khaya 🥰🥰
      I hope we reach our hair goals this year my love

  • @abioyevictoria9209
    @abioyevictoria9209 10 месяцев назад +3

    Your hair looks really good . I think baggying your ends will help with the dry ends and it’s even better that you cut off the bad ends so you’ll notice a difference faster. Baggy method has always worked for me anytime my ends are dry
    My routine will stay the same this year ,I think I found a great routine for myself last year and it works perfectly for my lifestyle and my hair grew well too. I went from a bit over neck length to past armpit length all in one year. I want to retain more length this year (hopefully get to mid back length) and get my edges to be fuller and my hair fuller too
    Hope we’ll get more hair content this year

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      I’ve tried baggy method before guess I’ll be going back to it.
      I’m so happy to hear that! Well done for staying consistent 💕👏🏽

  • @georginaa16
    @georginaa16 10 месяцев назад +2

    Great video Palesa, hair looks nice and thick.
    This year would like to focus on Trims, avoiding Heat, avoid too much Manipulation (leave my hair alone), grow my hairline using JBCO, be consistent with taking vitamins.

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      I’m going to steal a few of your goals! 😉

  • @kortneygolden599
    @kortneygolden599 10 месяцев назад +2

    Your hair looks good. I also have insulin resistance. I started intermittent fasting and it definitely helps

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      That’s great. I’m working with my dr and dietician to reverse it. So far so good

    • @swisdom9117
      @swisdom9117 10 месяцев назад +1

      Is it PCOS-related? ​@@PalesaM1

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      @@swisdom9117 I don't have pcos

  • @simplyalu
    @simplyalu 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hey Pali ❤ your hair is so gorgeous.. I have natural hair this year wanna take it serious and take care of it .. and yes your skin is so glowing and beautiful 😍 🤩

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      🥰🥰 I’m excited to be starting my hair journey over. Hopefully we can recover. Thank you Alu😘

  • @sivenathigowa1409
    @sivenathigowa1409 10 месяцев назад

    Yhu we enjoyed sisi❤️ thank u❤️ your hair is very healthy. I started taking care of my hair since I've followed you😍😍😍

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      That makes me very happy! I want my girls to have happy, healthy hair♥️♥️

  • @Shamiflo
    @Shamiflo 10 месяцев назад +1

    Wow,I wish I knew my hair like this.
    Your hair came out really nice.
    ❤❤❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      It’s a never ending journey of learning. You just need to commit Flora😘

  • @tshiamothobejane
    @tshiamothobejane 10 месяцев назад +1

    Love a good maintenance vlog😍😍😍

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      That fresh relaxer felt so good 🥰🥰 thank you so much for always showing up for me 🙏🏽

  • @nokulungaluhdolmdletshe9254
    @nokulungaluhdolmdletshe9254 10 месяцев назад +1

    This year im hoping to find a stylist that will trim my hair on relaxer days. I need more of the Design essentials mousse, its good for my hair. It is my saving grace, I no longer use gels i just apply it on my hair and it becomes sleek.

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      Staying on track with my trims is also one of my goals😅
      That mousse is so good! I use it on my wigs too 👌🏾

  • @biancaschouw4363
    @biancaschouw4363 10 месяцев назад

    I feel you @palesa I literally had to cut my hair to chin Length. I had a massive set back as well

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      I’m so sorry to hear that bianca. I hope we can get back on track this year 💕

    • @biancaschouw4363
      @biancaschouw4363 10 месяцев назад

      We definitely will ❤

  • @esthertibane2728
    @esthertibane2728 10 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my 🥰😍Glowing skin 🔥🔥🥰♥️

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      🥹🥰 I feel beautiful again, round cheeks and all

    • @esthertibane2728
      @esthertibane2728 10 месяцев назад

      @@PalesaM1 Gorgeous ungenzani 🥰♥️🔥🔥

  • @elentsimpson1180
    @elentsimpson1180 10 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤love love thankyou for posting and godbless.

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much♥️🥰

  • @preciousxulu4087
    @preciousxulu4087 10 месяцев назад

    Hi Beautiful. Thoroughly enjoyed this video. I was a pixie girl for 2 years and now I am in the process of growing my hair to a bob inbetween braiding.
    Please share the salon details. I absolutely loveeee how she handled your hair and that they use Mizani❤ all the best sis with hair this year❤😍

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      Hey precious, thank you so much for watching.
      She’s in Bloemfontein, opposite brebner primary school. You’ll see a big black board - Sthandos hair salon.
      She’s the best💕

  • @simpliiseun3504
    @simpliiseun3504 10 месяцев назад

    Would love a video about the green smoothie

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      😅
      My thing with the green smoothies is too boost my iron levels, I am anaemic. And iron is a very important part of hair growth.
      Green smoothies are rich in iron, vitamin k, and lots of other vitamins and nutrients that aid hair growth.
      I will try and share the video in my upcoming videos. 😘

  • @kalindazimba1854
    @kalindazimba1854 10 месяцев назад

    I saw a girl did a buggy methods for her ends when she had a similar problem. She only buggied her ends.

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      I’ve started doing that again. I hope it works🙏🏽

  • @lindamzapi5633
    @lindamzapi5633 10 месяцев назад +2

    Your hair looks really good? Which relaxer do you use? Currently struggling because I use Ladine but it has been scarce lately and they recommend mizani but it's quite expensive.

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you. I use the mizani butter blends relaxer

  • @siphesihletembisamdenene1235
    @siphesihletembisamdenene1235 10 месяцев назад +1

    like your hair 😍
    wanna ask what are using to yur skin also have black sports on my face

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      Alpha aburtin and sunscreen are a must. You can watch my skincare routine videos here
      ruclips.net/p/PLDgUK7qTg-tWcbgFQjDI8iZ11QoDVBsMn&si=CQA3kbbr_Rma_MR4

  • @tholakelenkele4737
    @tholakelenkele4737 10 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful healthy hair I wish was mine 😮😅❤❤❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      It can be yours! Just be consistent sis 😅

  • @mphomoahloli9175
    @mphomoahloli9175 10 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful hair ❤️

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you my darling ♥️

  • @letushidiwe8082
    @letushidiwe8082 10 месяцев назад +1

    First here🎉🎉🎉love from Namibia ❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      Hello 👋🏽 lovely to see you in the commentsz thank you so much 🥰 ♥️

    • @beatricehamm5528
      @beatricehamm5528 10 месяцев назад

      Great job and it looks amazing ❤❤❤

    • @letushidiwe8082
      @letushidiwe8082 10 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @felicia_rm
    @felicia_rm 10 месяцев назад +1

    Ey hair goals? It's tough hey. I just let my hair grow and it's healthy and long. I want to go back to sew in Weaves like the old times. I don't have time for hair anymore but it keeps growing

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      It’s always good to go back to the things that served us well. 💕 if you do a sew in with a leave out, be sparing with using heat 😉

    • @felicia_rm
      @felicia_rm 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@PalesaM1 Thank you so much! I never thought of using a leave-in when plaiting my hair. I'll definitely do that, especially when I'll be keeping my hair locked for a very long time.

  • @alfredinemay8052
    @alfredinemay8052 10 месяцев назад

    Hi Sis P
    Thanks for the great hair video. This year I’m definitely relaxing my hair all thanks to you. Lol I also want to go to Sis Thato she really knows how to make a girl look gorgeous 🥰🥰

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      She’s amazing! Never disappoints👌🏾🥰

  • @felicia_rm
    @felicia_rm 10 месяцев назад +1

    But you still have it yoh. I love your hair 😍😍😍😍😍

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      😅😂 that’s exactly what I said. We cut a lot but it’s still so long

    • @felicia_rm
      @felicia_rm 10 месяцев назад

      @@PalesaM1 you see!!!

  • @jabulilengomane699
    @jabulilengomane699 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hey my darling P, your hair ma'am ❤❤❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      🙈🥰 I’m loving the fresh trim so much

  • @nokuthulasibeko1514
    @nokuthulasibeko1514 10 месяцев назад +3

    My goals for the year is to continue taking good care of my hair I want to see length

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      That’s achievable. All you have to do is stay consistent with your routine 💕

  • @TheLeloM
    @TheLeloM 10 месяцев назад +3

    I'm starting to think we are all just going through hair setbacks as the relaxed hair girlies . I don't think I will ever do a 6 months stretch ever again😅😅😅against my better judgement I also took out my braids and then got a relaxer so I relate 😅

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      Right!
      Six month stretches are my thing 😅
      I just need to be strict and very consistent when it comes to my routine.
      I needed a fresh relaxer, NEEDED 😂😂🤣

  • @keneiloekotsoe3776
    @keneiloekotsoe3776 10 месяцев назад

    Hey. My goals is get my hair more moisturized cause it gets extremely dry and improve my hairline and length

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      I love that! Moistured hair will grow and retain length 😉

  • @qhamamagopeni9811
    @qhamamagopeni9811 10 месяцев назад

    Hi Palesa, where can I find Thato? Your hair looks amazing

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you.
      She is in Bloemfontein, opposite brebner primary school. Look for the sign that says Sthandos hair salon

    • @OnkgopotseSetou
      @OnkgopotseSetou 5 месяцев назад

      Yoh o kare nka lla I’m so ready to transition, I’m based in Pretoria Thato really knows her stuff 😂❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  5 месяцев назад +1

      @bhoddd 😂 come on over sis

  • @princesskhanye701
    @princesskhanye701 10 месяцев назад

    Catching up ❤❤❤❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      Happy new year my princess♥️♥️

  • @Ntombientle
    @Ntombientle 10 месяцев назад

    Hi love. I was wondering how much the service was including and excluding the trim

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      Please contact Thato 0635784636

  • @Mphokgaladi
    @Mphokgaladi 10 месяцев назад

    Hey Palesa. I love your videos. They are so fun to watch and at the same educating. Thank you so much for your content. My hair goals are to Grow Back my edges , My Hair line is gone 🤣😭. Please if you have any advice with that Please help. Thank you

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      Hey Mpho, lovely to see you here.
      Girl leave the tight hairstyles and braids alone. And buy my oil once I restock 😉

    • @Mphokgaladi
      @Mphokgaladi 10 месяцев назад

      @@PalesaM1 tell me when you restock 🫶🫶

  • @stellamahlangu6143
    @stellamahlangu6143 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Miss P. Wow it's been long. In terms of your hair my opinion would be maybe just maybe your hair needs a trim into a bob or maybe the lady's opinion in regards to moisturising the ends would help I don't know. You should listen to your hair. Other than that your looks healthy you can also go back to using the baggy method as well. Love watching your video❤❤. Happy 2024

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      The dead ends are gone now, my hair will recover.
      I actually started doing the baggy method last night. I just need to stay consistent and treat my hair with care.
      Happy new year sthandwa🥰🥰♥️

    • @stellamahlangu6143
      @stellamahlangu6143 10 месяцев назад

      @@PalesaM1 ok that's great to hear. Please let's be consistent this year no falling back. Morning mam ❤️

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      @stellamahlangu6143 😅 I can’t promise but I will give it my best. Good morning and happy Friday 😘♥️

  • @princesskhanye701
    @princesskhanye701 10 месяцев назад

    Your hairdresser is very passionate about her job❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      The best thing to happen to my hair 🥰♥️

  • @sandraphongo5976
    @sandraphongo5976 10 месяцев назад +2

    Try moisturise your end with the as I am double better

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      Hopefully I can find it. I’ll definitely give it a try. Thank you Sandra💕

  • @rosathomas8303
    @rosathomas8303 10 месяцев назад

    Deep conditioning, Deep conditioning, Deep conditioning 👍 Every time You wash Your hair

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад

      Absolutely

  • @nokuthulasibeko1514
    @nokuthulasibeko1514 10 месяцев назад

    Pale please share vitamins you drink thank you in advance ❤

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      I take a multivitamin, iron, folic, probiotic, omega 3,6,9
      You don’t have to, it’s just to supplement. I’m working on eating more nutrient rich foods

  • @esthertibane2728
    @esthertibane2728 10 месяцев назад +2

    Your hair looks soo good😍🔥and healthy 🔥🔥The trim 🤌🏾🔥
    This year I am honestly going to give my hair the love it deserves and i want to see growth(inches😅)

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  10 месяцев назад +1

      The trim was my favourite part! My hair instantly felt healthier 🥰
      Let’s be consistent with taking care of our hair this year💕

    • @esthertibane2728
      @esthertibane2728 10 месяцев назад

      @PalesaM1 Oh yess we definitely being consistent 💯