"It's Kinda Heartbreaking": Tammy Goes Out Of The House First Time In 6 Years | 1000-lb Sisters

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2020
  • Tammy goes out of the house for the first time in six years to meet her mother in a restaurant. She has important news to share about her weight loss surgery, but is shown very little support by her own mother.

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  • @DJ-il4rs
    @DJ-il4rs 3 года назад +14648

    Raising five children doesn’t prove you’re tough when your daughters just said you were cold and unloving. I’m not impressed

    • @06vallarta
      @06vallarta 3 года назад +634

      Seriously like that was your job lady, what do you expect? An award 🥇

    • @sarax710
      @sarax710 3 года назад +357

      My mom has 5 kids n she's literally nothing like this

    • @bushra8208
      @bushra8208 3 года назад +20

      Time stamp?

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 3 года назад +226

      Exactly. My sister in law has 5 kids and she's a horrible excuse for a mother.. She doesn't even have custody of he kids now because she chose men before them.

    • @TrangNguyen-wc6ke
      @TrangNguyen-wc6ke 3 года назад +313

      Ahhh yes neglectful parents want a pat on the back for reproducing.

  • @fairyyuki8082
    @fairyyuki8082 3 года назад +13398

    The mom talking like she is a size 2 Victoria secret model 💀

    • @wellknown1204
      @wellknown1204 3 года назад +573

      Exactly! Her mother is so cruel

    • @ryby44
      @ryby44 3 года назад +64

      who’s the mother

    • @rulerthelion860
      @rulerthelion860 3 года назад +207

      @@wellknown1204 with the chicken out thing she was right. Tammy hasnt been able to change her attitude and its been a year since that

    • @M..nmoonm..n
      @M..nmoonm..n 3 года назад +9

      Under rated

    • @Sunflower_that_loves_you
      @Sunflower_that_loves_you 3 года назад +3

      Hi Tae Tae

  • @scoooby5713
    @scoooby5713 3 года назад +3955

    "i think youll chicken out" we love a supportive mom.

    • @camwatson1030
      @camwatson1030 3 года назад +162

      Amy said that their mom expects all of her children to do everything for her but can't or doesn't want to do stuff for them when they ask. Like when Amy was preparing for the wedding ceremony and asked her mom to go wedding dress shopping for her and the mom told her no. :(

    • @ramonatoney3355
      @ramonatoney3355 3 года назад +70

      Well I mean the proof is in the pudding she has chickened out

    • @frankiedominguez133
      @frankiedominguez133 3 года назад +48

      Was she wrong?

    • @Charlotte-xv1pg
      @Charlotte-xv1pg 2 года назад +4

      @@frankiedominguez133 yes

    • @leobardocruz9178
      @leobardocruz9178 2 года назад +81

      @@frankiedominguez133 I don’t think that’s the point, a parents support is a lot more meaningful then any other kind, if she had been more supportive or attentive when they grew up even showing support later on, maybe she wouldn’t have gone further down, of course Tammy is responsible for her own weight but I don’t think it helped for her mother to not be supportive

  • @frisby7143
    @frisby7143 2 года назад +791

    Amy proved her wrong.
    Tammy proved her completely right

    • @heatherbukowski2102
      @heatherbukowski2102 2 года назад +46

      I wonder if it would have been different if the mom actually supported Tammy...

    • @notgreatnotterrible48years63
      @notgreatnotterrible48years63 2 года назад +22

      @@heatherbukowski2102 I highly doubt it would’ve made a difference

    • @OGStarlightKY
      @OGStarlightKY 2 года назад +18

      @@notgreatnotterrible48years63 I agree, she have all of her siblings supporting her. But she constantly complains and blames everyone else when she falls short.

    • @OGStarlightKY
      @OGStarlightKY 2 года назад +5

      @@notgreatnotterrible48years63 I agree, she have all of her siblings supporting her. But she constantly complains and blames everyone else when she falls short.

    • @joseehill5994
      @joseehill5994 2 года назад +6

      @@heatherbukowski2102 she may not have even gotten like this had she a different mom

  • @randyrose6303
    @randyrose6303 3 года назад +7855

    The mother clearly played a big part . She's heavy herself and telling Tammy to not make excuses . She was so rude and not even encouraging .

    • @kite1668
      @kite1668 3 года назад +285

      fr, the sisters were taught that ‘sodies’ would cancel out the sugar you’ve had before like, what??

    • @ElizabethF2222
      @ElizabethF2222 3 года назад +235

      The mom's like 400 pounds talking about willpower. SMH

    • @dnegel9546
      @dnegel9546 3 года назад +43

      You gotta think she has heard them say that so many times.

    • @someidiot420
      @someidiot420 3 года назад +40

      id eat my feelings too if mine was that awful

    • @someidiot420
      @someidiot420 3 года назад +107

      @Tiger Tierra no she isnt actually, with how critical she is-she's reinforcing tammy's victim complex. if you hear from the most important figure in ur life that you are unable to improve over and over you're gonna start to believe it. tammy's view that she cant change reflects her mom's words. she's crippling her daughters. and she absolutely has no room to be critical when she's the one that raised them, shes partly to blame for not instilling healthy habits in her daughters. how people are treated by their parents counts for a LOT when they grow into adulthood.

  • @roguelove807
    @roguelove807 3 года назад +8238

    Wow... their mom is terrible. She raised them this way, and acts disgusted by them. I'm glad the sisters have each other because their mom definitely doesn't care.

    • @mrghost7657
      @mrghost7657 3 года назад +31

      ¯\_ಠ_ಠ_/¯ yeah

    • @basundharachaudhuri700
      @basundharachaudhuri700 3 года назад +10

      ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @xeno1358
      @xeno1358 3 года назад +19

      Tbh I wouldn’t care either

    • @Lukki-R
      @Lukki-R 3 года назад +109

      @@xeno1358 Why? That’s horrible.

    • @xeno1358
      @xeno1358 3 года назад +31

      @@Lukki-R cause im a horrible person

  • @leomatthew373
    @leomatthew373 3 года назад +405

    The difference in the way that Amy treats Tammy versus how their mother treats Tammy is so heart-breaking.

  • @83girisg
    @83girisg 3 года назад +145

    The was that their mother spoke to them really broke my heart! It’s clear to see that she has a massive impact in the way they are, when you feel more loved eating a cheeseburger than being around your mother... that will mess you up!

  • @openarmsbyszafttravisscott
    @openarmsbyszafttravisscott 3 года назад +4867

    WHY THE MOM ACTING LIKE SHE A MODEL LIKE GIRL U AINT A PRIZE EITHER-

    • @guadalupe3759
      @guadalupe3759 3 года назад +15

      Yup

    • @louis500_3
      @louis500_3 3 года назад +32

      Lost a lot and still losing while Tammy gains

    • @frankiekawaii6163
      @frankiekawaii6163 3 года назад +48

      Hahahahahah i read it as pretzel instead of prize

    • @blupyxi5669
      @blupyxi5669 3 года назад +7

      @@frankiekawaii6163 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jerm5948
      @jerm5948 3 года назад +7

      What!??! Haven't you ever seen the mom in a bikini wooowee

  • @donnavaughn9409
    @donnavaughn9409 3 года назад +5240

    Mom has a horrible attitude.

    • @okaysomething-ef1cx
      @okaysomething-ef1cx 3 года назад +32

      Her mom is a cold toe

    • @MsRanialove
      @MsRanialove 3 года назад +3

      @@amydiet788 what is the need do it for the insult?

    • @unapologeticallyamy9031
      @unapologeticallyamy9031 3 года назад +83

      People with mothers like that very rarely make it to adulthood without an addiction or eating disorder.
      Instead of judging her daughters she should be looking at herself.

    • @gracesvideosvlogs623
      @gracesvideosvlogs623 3 года назад +10

      not rlly. her daughters need to to stop making excuses. if i was her, i wouldnt be very happy with my daughters either

    • @yiyomi3749
      @yiyomi3749 3 года назад +23

      Graces Videos/vlogs But yet she’s obese too and eats like sh**, but she’s judging her daughters when she raised them on that lifestyle? Okay

  • @GrisouIII
    @GrisouIII 2 года назад +106

    Mom is a ray of sunshine, isn’t she.

  • @xkimarax
    @xkimarax 3 года назад +160

    I completely understand now why Tammy acts the way she acts towards Amy’s accomplishments. Their mom was the problem. Tammy please look at this episode so you can find your motivation again 🥺 prove her wrong fr, you can do it 💙

  • @reesebby7737
    @reesebby7737 3 года назад +4248

    Why tf is the mom pretending like she’s not the unhealthy one? 😂😂😂

    • @jigown
      @jigown 3 года назад +16

      Cause she not big as facc

    • @brittanyxbesty
      @brittanyxbesty 3 года назад +125

      @@jigown nah she still is she look like a bean bag

    • @NoName-ok8bq
      @NoName-ok8bq 3 года назад +28

      @@jigown she's still huge she needs it too smh

    • @Thatuchihakid
      @Thatuchihakid 3 года назад +35

      I see everyone in the comment section hating on the mom, and trust me I get it. She isn’t supportive, but look at stuff from her point of view. She said her daughters have said MANY times they are goin to lose weight and never follow through. At the restaurant they say the same thing and what do they eat afterwards?? Some fuckn cheeseburgers😂 How can you take them serious??

    • @Omo21000
      @Omo21000 3 года назад +2

      @@jigown facc lol

  • @ydunamartinee7219
    @ydunamartinee7219 3 года назад +3510

    "we're gonna prove her wrong." you already did Amy, you already did.

    • @juanaramirez7205
      @juanaramirez7205 3 года назад +33

      YESSSSS!!!!!!!

    • @Me-mb1ex
      @Me-mb1ex 3 года назад +135

      I hope Amy has a long and beautiful life and is everything to Gage that her mother never was to her.

    • @randomstuffluvz2323
      @randomstuffluvz2323 3 года назад +49

      Amy has lost 130 pounds, I’m so proud and happy for her! And I think by the end of the year she might be 201 or 198 pounds, I really hope Tammy will lose weight too :)

    • @Charlie_Loves
      @Charlie_Loves 3 года назад +4

      This comment aged

    • @bunanapudding
      @bunanapudding 3 года назад +1

      @@Charlie_Loves is she gaining weight again now that the baby’s born?

  • @singingwhale977
    @singingwhale977 3 года назад +43

    The lack of affection and love throughout their life affected what they are now.

    • @neredya7605
      @neredya7605 2 года назад

      I can't make it out what your pfp is is that league of legends or something

  • @EricGrain
    @EricGrain 3 года назад +89

    Honestly when I see heavier people outside working out or just out and about and doing their own thing I am happy for them because I know it must not be easy for them as it is for others. They are bettering themselves and that is commendable.

  • @mambowumbo
    @mambowumbo 3 года назад +5485

    The mom talking like she has no extra weight

    • @icecube2244
      @icecube2244 3 года назад +109

      Right??? So hypocritical.

    • @NSS7779
      @NSS7779 3 года назад +8

      Nice.

    • @billymatherson3602
      @billymatherson3602 3 года назад +52

      Have you seen this show? Their entire family needs gastric bypass surgery

    • @billymatherson3602
      @billymatherson3602 3 года назад +4

      @yohubby Yes master🧎🏿‍♂️

    • @billymatherson3602
      @billymatherson3602 3 года назад +19

      @yohubby The show is made to judge the sisters but when you see the whole family are walruses you can’t help but judge them too. (:

  • @julien2168
    @julien2168 3 года назад +2215

    Her mom is like 👁️︵👁️

    • @dahlia8019
      @dahlia8019 3 года назад +51

      💀💀💀

    • @jasmineh3519
      @jasmineh3519 3 года назад +81

      👁 n 👁

    • @kelsiiie9786
      @kelsiiie9786 3 года назад +30

      👁. n 👁
      u

    • @juanaramirez7205
      @juanaramirez7205 3 года назад +67

      Couldn't even give her daughter a hug or kiss or "hi sweetie, how's my daughter doing?"
      I feel bad for them as adults how their mom is acting towards them. Now I'm just imagining them as kids being shown no emotion from mom. Makes me so sad!

    • @carolinamurtha3102
      @carolinamurtha3102 3 года назад +9

      How’d you make that mouth line?

  • @cupidine4551
    @cupidine4551 3 года назад +81

    Okay, but Amy is so supportive. Literally love her.

  • @rae5676
    @rae5676 2 года назад +61

    6:15 - 6:25 absolutely heartbreaking. I can’t stand narcissistic parents who don’t acknowledge their wrongs. It’s a wonder they deal with her.

    • @joannafrancis4966
      @joannafrancis4966 2 года назад +5

      All Tammy wants is love and approval from her mother, which she will never get, when your own mother doesnt support you its soul destroying...

    • @jaxl1931
      @jaxl1931 2 года назад

      @@joannafrancis4966 tammy is a lost cause who just wants to blame everyone else for her problems...disgusting!

  • @missbasma5231
    @missbasma5231 3 года назад +3996

    Its kinda sad how Tammy's whole demeanor towards Amy changed once she got smaller.

    • @lolineko2083
      @lolineko2083 3 года назад +493

      Jealousy is evil

    • @Me-mb1ex
      @Me-mb1ex 3 года назад +370

      Misery loves company.

    • @charly7642
      @charly7642 3 года назад +82

      Her behavior towards her sister must change. If it doesn't. her sister will forever use the relationship to hold her back. A little more tough love with the support is in order. And if Tammy can do it, then she surely feels Amy can.

    • @Katiefairyz
      @Katiefairyz 3 года назад +41

      She’s jealous

    • @coqui9879
      @coqui9879 3 года назад +109

      @@charly7642 you have the sisters mixed up

  • @Amy_K27
    @Amy_K27 3 года назад +3547

    This “mother” is a prime example of not everyone is fit to have kids. You need to be honest with yourself about whether you’re the type of person who’s going to put damaged goods into the world or not.

    • @Sonofwill
      @Sonofwill 3 года назад +47

      Very true and it’s getting worse, as a species we have gone from survival of the family, to survival of the individual.

    • @bratzboyz
      @bratzboyz 3 года назад +25

      Absolutely, thank you for saying it, I say it any chance I get. Please don't be a parent if you feel you can't, you're gut is always right, trust me!

    • @aleafazio6431
      @aleafazio6431 3 года назад +16

      People can be damaged goods... Ok... That wasn't smooth.

    • @chocobotaxi4506
      @chocobotaxi4506 3 года назад +29

      @@aleafazio6431 the phrasing/word choice isn't the best but let's be real, Amy K is right. I mean, I'm one of the 'damaged goods' and tbh it's not an inaccurate description

    • @toetail8665
      @toetail8665 2 года назад +1

      Speaking facts!

  • @brookemahan8063
    @brookemahan8063 3 года назад +11

    The sister is such a sweet soul. I’ve never actually watched an entire episode of this. Just the shorts on RUclips. But she always seems so supportive and caring of Tammy. Her biggest fan. And she speaks more of helping her sister and supporting her sister then even herself. Wish her nothing but the best. 🥰

  • @animehawtie
    @animehawtie 3 года назад +19

    Their mother looks at her children as if they are a disgrace when it’s really she’s the disgrace. Love & support them.

  • @arwenpoyadou4132
    @arwenpoyadou4132 3 года назад +6803

    Amy especially is such a supporter of Tammy. "I'm proud of you" Encouraging her sister and never giving up on her. Wholesome.

    • @pamelarose2177
      @pamelarose2177 3 года назад +45

      Yesss thats how sisters are supposed to be

    • @camwatson1030
      @camwatson1030 3 года назад +2

      @เร ๓ץ ภค๓єᅗ Tammy is the older sister

    • @rosechan1203
      @rosechan1203 3 года назад

      @@camwatson1030 Amy? Or I don’t know if there is a brother, I’m still new. And forgot his name

    • @camwatson1030
      @camwatson1030 3 года назад +10

      @@rosechan1203 their brother is Chris whos also trying to get surgery they also have 3 more sisters Amanda, Misty, and Francine, Misty was the one who walked with Tammy to the mailbox she was also at Amys baby shower
      Francine appeard at Tammys housewarming party and Amanda has never been on the show. Amanda is married to Michaels brother

    • @sweet_demonic_dreams4614
      @sweet_demonic_dreams4614 3 года назад +3

      From what I've seen on the show, she's not gonna support her much longer

  • @naomiord5877
    @naomiord5877 3 года назад +10507

    Ok but the human body is actually incredible. It can actually survive being that overweight and stretches that far. It’s insane when you think about it.

    • @amydiet788
      @amydiet788 3 года назад +480

      I'm waiting for Tammy to supernova.

    • @zurrueche2785
      @zurrueche2785 3 года назад +51

      i was just thinking about this

    • @yourhusbandismyboyfriend1714
      @yourhusbandismyboyfriend1714 3 года назад +287

      Skin is your largest organ. It’s a trip that it changes size along with you.

    • @amydiet788
      @amydiet788 3 года назад +62

      @Hasmeen C. Are you saying that technically, Tammy is a power lifter?

    • @jennym1378
      @jennym1378 3 года назад +5

      Lol

  • @kyleoar9083
    @kyleoar9083 3 года назад +48

    Mom: "I don't think you gonna make it." Also mom: "Tammy gives up a lot, if she doesn't think she's gonna make it, then she just gives up." Sounds like the mom wants them to give up, it's weird.

    • @sarcasticallyrearranged
      @sarcasticallyrearranged 2 года назад

      She’s known what Tammy is like since the moment she was born and knew that she never tries if she didn’t succeed at the first attempt.

    • @angiecastaneda9001
      @angiecastaneda9001 2 года назад

      @@sarcasticallyrearranged personally I feel like mom broke her down and used "tough love" to raise them

  • @tishahockaday7978
    @tishahockaday7978 2 года назад +8

    The hurt in Tammy's eyes when she kept looking at her mother! I felt that in my soul. 😢

  • @whyjordie
    @whyjordie 3 года назад +5380

    “I don’t think you’ll make it” - wow great support, mon

    • @lauraalleguen6685
      @lauraalleguen6685 3 года назад +131

      She's telling the Truth 😂

    • @The-Icelandic-Katniss-Everdeen
      @The-Icelandic-Katniss-Everdeen 3 года назад +276

      @@lauraalleguen6685 so what? That is no excuse to not being supportive

    • @AJParkong
      @AJParkong 3 года назад +50

      @@lauraalleguen6685 at least she ain't lying

    • @breathoffreshair7795
      @breathoffreshair7795 3 года назад +185

      @@AJParkong shes doing worse, shes discouraging. It can help support her opinion in the end but serves no purpose at the time

    • @TrueAce2146
      @TrueAce2146 3 года назад +56

      @@breathoffreshair7795 exactly if there is a chance u can do something you should be encouraged but if people saying no you won't make it, dont even try, you don't have the strength, that will make you just give up.

  • @mackixu
    @mackixu 3 года назад +5950

    “The world is passing you by. You need to go and join it.” She is such a beautiful soul. Love the outlook she has on life. I’d rather spend time with her than a lot of other people.

  • @ninagoldsmith
    @ninagoldsmith 3 года назад +20

    Their mom is literally about to make Tammy cry... she is judging the two of them so hard when she isn’t far from their size herself

  • @charliecreed8967
    @charliecreed8967 2 года назад +7

    “The world is passing you by” really hit home for me 😞😢 I do love Amy

  • @isobelamber9785
    @isobelamber9785 3 года назад +2530

    I expected the mum to be skinny the way she was acting 😭

    • @alinatheresa702
      @alinatheresa702 3 года назад +100

      I know. Telling them that they need to have willpower! 😂 Where’s HER willpower? Easy to talk...

    • @revertingthemoldways
      @revertingthemoldways 3 года назад +67

      lol 😂 The way they panned the camera to her body when she was talking bout Willpower 😂😂😂

    • @-criedjupiter-8464
      @-criedjupiter-8464 3 года назад +10

      Stop it yall my stomach hurts 😂 ✋🏽 😭!!!!

    • @jaheemaustin8526
      @jaheemaustin8526 3 года назад

      Frllll

    • @firewolf4824
      @firewolf4824 3 года назад

      @@alinatheresa702 exactly!!!!!!

  • @elenairving9799
    @elenairving9799 3 года назад +3377

    This is so heartbreaking. They are reaching out for help and doing it together and their aweful mother just shuts them down. 🥺

    • @nolanharris4111
      @nolanharris4111 3 года назад +54

      I didn’t see it that way. When someone promises that they will change for years or decades but they never do, you tend to stop believing them after awhile. The mom probably had this same exact conversation with her daughters numerous time before and was let down each time. I don’t blame her for being skeptical.

    • @elisadiax4723
      @elisadiax4723 3 года назад +33

      There’s a way to be skeptical but also give your children the encouragement and reinforcement they need. Them reaching out to her was for her to give them the strength they needed. For their mother to just knock them right back down is cruel even if they’ve been in this same situation before. They are where they are most likely because of their mother’s horrible attitude and the loss of motivation. Word of encouragement can do wonders.

    • @elisadiax4723
      @elisadiax4723 3 года назад +19

      That loss of motivation can possibly be brought on by the mother as well due to lack of affection, self worth etc that the mother never gave them in their childhood/adulthood

    • @florenceschueler6175
      @florenceschueler6175 3 года назад +10

      This makes me sad. Her Mother is obese herself but acts like she is not. Such a narssitic person

    • @southwestlondonerbrown2737
      @southwestlondonerbrown2737 3 года назад +1

      Elena Irving The mother should be getting the surgery too!

  • @michy_ibr
    @michy_ibr 3 года назад +9

    I started crying when their mom said they can’t do it. I feel so bad for Tammy and more Amy because she’s having to mom Tammy. This explains a lot of why these women were in the position of needing surgery in the first place. 😢

  • @nikolakolada3916
    @nikolakolada3916 3 года назад +7

    i love how Amy was encouraging Tammy while she was struggling to get in the van

  • @fiona9912
    @fiona9912 3 года назад +4143

    Their mom looks like grumpy cat

  • @Rosenquist1965
    @Rosenquist1965 3 года назад +2369

    The mothers attitude is why so many parents get astranged to their children.. They are just the person that gave birth to us and thats where it ends.

    • @maribelcano4792
      @maribelcano4792 3 года назад +25

      well, my mom loves me and I will love my child. You juste need heart ❤️

    • @blasinna
      @blasinna 3 года назад +17

      estranged*

    • @AbbzJordan
      @AbbzJordan 3 года назад

      So true!

    • @rodericblack4657
      @rodericblack4657 3 года назад +8

      "They are just the person that gave birth to us and thats where it ends."
      This is one of the most profoundly ignorant statements I've ever heard in my life.

    • @ijustgotreallystoned638
      @ijustgotreallystoned638 3 года назад +2

      @@rodericblack4657 seriously man.

  • @blaria95
    @blaria95 Год назад +7

    Okay, thoughts. As unsupportive as their mother is, she is right about one thing: Tammy chickening out. We have seen Tammy do it so many times. If Tammy doesn’t like being judged, she should get the surgery or lose weight. If she wants to be healthier, then lose the weight. But she does the opposite: ALWAYS.

  • @marbear4273
    @marbear4273 Год назад +6

    Tammy's all Talk. Amy did it I'm so happy for her.

  • @faithtaylor7725
    @faithtaylor7725 3 года назад +1806

    Their mom is toxic they need to keep her out of their life. She’s delusional about her self and think she’s more than she really is.

    • @anyas.2211
      @anyas.2211 3 года назад +31

      Narcissist probably

    • @Omo21000
      @Omo21000 3 года назад +15

      @Blackflag work on your jokes a little more

    • @-criedjupiter-8464
      @-criedjupiter-8464 3 года назад +3

      @Blackflag i don’t understand what u were trying to do 😂? Such a bad joke that it makes me laugh at how bad it is

    • @prettynderanged
      @prettynderanged 3 года назад +9

      that may be one of the reasons they are the size they are. They don't have any help & their family doesn't even reach out.

    • @notoriousalien
      @notoriousalien 3 года назад

      prob where tammy gets it from lol

  • @t9kyo
    @t9kyo 3 года назад +1410

    2:21-2:31 is so cute bruh 🥺🥺 respect to amy for saying she’s proud of her and not just brushing it off like it wasn’t a big deal that she walked that far 🥺

  • @Exbozz
    @Exbozz 2 года назад +4

    5:44 No ma'am, nothing runs in your family.

  • @haleyrison68
    @haleyrison68 2 года назад +8

    I love these ladies. They make me proud to be from Kentucky. I was raised by a parent similar to their Mom. Just wish I had a sister like Amy.

  • @savmcelvain5495
    @savmcelvain5495 3 года назад +895

    It’s really nice how Amy encourages Tammy and noticed how their mom wasn’t concerned about her daughter be embarrassed and winded. I’m glad Tammy has a sister like her. Seems as though the mom is just over it and doesn’t want to deal

  • @yma1233
    @yma1233 3 года назад +738

    This is genuinely heart breaking. Tammy had no love or help since she was a child. She was morbidly obese by the time she could walk. Her mother did this to her and is acting as if she’s all high and mighty?

    • @SydLane
      @SydLane 3 года назад +55

      She's a narcissistic mother. The fact that she had to point out that it's "not her fault"... Yes, her kids are adults now but they were obese in childhood. If your child is obese, then it IS most certainly your fault. It's your responsibility. Not only with food, but by causing the emotional pain that's causing them to self-medicate with food to begin with.

  • @maltal8352
    @maltal8352 2 года назад +5

    “I raised 5 children “ ... looks like she just had em and didn’t care for em .

  • @kkrnsr
    @kkrnsr 2 года назад +7

    I will always think Tammy's face is so pretty even this big. Hope one day I get on here and hear she finally reached her goals and lost weight. Truly wish that for her.

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose 3 года назад +1385

    It’s terrible when a mother can’t encourage her children. I wish the best for both Tammy and Amy.

    • @blupyxi5669
      @blupyxi5669 3 года назад +3

      You realize they have scripts, right? I mean reality TV is anything but.

    • @crystalgrose
      @crystalgrose 3 года назад +1

      @@blupyxi5669 🤭😮

    • @dehyautah2745
      @dehyautah2745 3 года назад +7

      if you knew tammy you would know why she don’t even have hope for tammy. she has a 80% of dying if she don’t loose weight and THEN SHE GOES AND GAIN 100LBS IN 2 MONTHS

    • @santaself2955
      @santaself2955 3 года назад +1

      They dont . Amy has lost slot of weight.after the show Tammy gained more weight so I think the things they say on the show are Mabey slightly real.

    • @donaldewert2332
      @donaldewert2332 2 года назад +3

      @@blupyxi5669 I don't believe for a minute that the mom's remark about her not gonna make it was scripted!!! She's Cold and you can't script that, she's not an actress!!!

  • @eeee-tk2dk
    @eeee-tk2dk 3 года назад +1372

    the mom talking like she's a 24 year old size 00 supermodel like sis you get some extra weight too give them a break

    • @justifano7046
      @justifano7046 3 года назад +37

      She's not entirely wrong
      At some point you gotta put the fork down.

    • @indara152
      @indara152 3 года назад +13

      @@justifano7046 yeah it looks like they had enough breaks

    • @NEXO_JA_The_Emcee
      @NEXO_JA_The_Emcee 3 года назад +15

      Shes smaller than both of them and probably twice their age as well. She has room to talk with them. She mentioned she has heard it throughout her whole life and all they do is gain weight instead of ever losing anything.

    • @lilbill._.377
      @lilbill._.377 2 года назад +8

      @@NEXO_JA_The_Emcee she’s probably 20/30 pounds lighter than any she’s still morbidly obese and age isn’t an excuse

    • @NEXO_JA_The_Emcee
      @NEXO_JA_The_Emcee 2 года назад +2

      @@lilbill._.377 20 or 30 lbs heavier, which arm?

  • @thepeppanugget3594
    @thepeppanugget3594 3 года назад +4

    if I were their mom I would be so encouraging. I can almost call myself an encourager. I have helped people with so many things and it hurts to watch this mother not care.

  • @soniat9429
    @soniat9429 2 года назад +3

    I love listening to Amy. She is such a caring sister and so motivating. Her voice is soothing to me. Love her. You can tell she has protected herself from pain her mom has caused her throughout the years.. I'm glad she knows it's not a reflection of who she is or being rejected. It was common for the era to be cold like.

  • @emilymarie2746
    @emilymarie2746 3 года назад +681

    I'm not a fan of their mom. The way she looked at Tammy when she sat down was so judgy. No sympathy or compassion for her at all when she played a big role in this. And looking at them with disgust when they were eating the burgers too like she's mean.

  • @user-cb1og1dz9l
    @user-cb1og1dz9l 3 года назад +605

    Amy is actually an incredible human being. I hope they're both able to continue with their goals.

    • @amydiet788
      @amydiet788 3 года назад +11

      Except she's not.

    • @giannajaymes2830
      @giannajaymes2830 3 года назад +7

      shes actually a horrible person lol

    • @lovesarah1240
      @lovesarah1240 3 года назад +2

      How

    • @seanflynn6688
      @seanflynn6688 3 года назад +1

      @@giannajaymes2830 why

    • @b0nsaibabe
      @b0nsaibabe 2 года назад +1

      @@seanflynn6688 idk what in specific they’re referring to, but I’ve read about how she’s abused her dogs in the past. Both times leaving them in a hot car. I think, rn especially, she’s a great mom and sister but her morals are questionable

  • @amyishere67
    @amyishere67 3 года назад +3

    Momma is a ray of sunshine ☀️

  • @brettfriedman587
    @brettfriedman587 2 года назад +4

    6 YEARS?! I feel ashamed of myself if I go 1 day without leaving the house. I can't imagine not going crazy after 6 years.

  • @man_on_wheelz
    @man_on_wheelz 3 года назад +875

    When they walked in mom was sitting there looking like a disappointed Robert DeNiro dressed like an old lady.

  • @bradstephens306
    @bradstephens306 3 года назад +429

    Mom's a bit judgemental ain't she? She ain't no lightweight either

  • @MrCwilson42
    @MrCwilson42 2 года назад +7

    its crazy seeing amy in the first season she really looks totally different now

  • @SjC420
    @SjC420 Год назад +1

    I've been watching these clips for a couple weeks now & it's motivated me to get back in the gym..

  • @jamesostergaard3479
    @jamesostergaard3479 3 года назад +249

    Seeing Tammy have almost tears in her eyes when her mom told her she couldn’t do it was heart breaking

  • @landon-bh7je
    @landon-bh7je 3 года назад +553

    “It’s her fault” 💀 you didn’t say anything to her when she was younger and force her to lose weight

    • @aydindicks7144
      @aydindicks7144 3 года назад +10

      its her fault

    • @ramiahred12
      @ramiahred12 3 года назад +52

      Studies have proven that obesity in childhood leads to even more severe obesity in adulthood. If their mother had be diligent with her children and made steps to change her behavior, and their behaviors, back when they were young, their lives may have turned out different. I'm not saying it's all the mom's fault, of course Tammy is to blame for getting this far, but early intervention in childhood has great rates of success.

  • @reptar69
    @reptar69 2 года назад +4

    Tammy this was two years ago.. What have you proved your mom wrong??

  • @lazaromurad322
    @lazaromurad322 2 года назад

    her sister is so sweet by encouraging her and telling her she is proud, believe it or not that is a lotta help bless them both

  • @Gabagool93
    @Gabagool93 3 года назад +1715

    I know Tammy can be mean but I do feel for her. She is obviously going through severe depression.

    • @frostbite7700
      @frostbite7700 3 года назад +50

      I don't. This was all self inflicted. She's pathetic and disgusting

    • @beccawheeliebin
      @beccawheeliebin 3 года назад +182

      it’s a reason for her actions and attitude, but it’s not an excuse. she really needs therapy

    • @doreenjuliavaleroso3969
      @doreenjuliavaleroso3969 3 года назад +47

      I actually agree with you. She needs help.

    • @letmesleep6056
      @letmesleep6056 3 года назад +145

      @@frostbite7700 nobody would eat themselves to Tammy's weight if they're feeling ok.

    • @hannahbarrett6259
      @hannahbarrett6259 3 года назад +53

      there’s no way she isn’t severely depressed to be able to gain that much weight. it’s insane

  • @theyrewatchingus4963
    @theyrewatchingus4963 3 года назад +557

    “The world is passing by “ 😢

    • @LOVEAapjes
      @LOVEAapjes 3 года назад +5

      To everyone bc of covid right now haha :(

    • @sc7244
      @sc7244 3 года назад +2

      Tell me about it 🙄

  • @jvngkooktae6006
    @jvngkooktae6006 3 года назад +11

    Wow I am so sad for their mother's attitude. Amy literally wants to get motivated and her mother kept silence with judging stare. I think sisters won't need to see her face again

  • @BooBoo-qj2zj
    @BooBoo-qj2zj 3 года назад +2

    Id give her a hug if i seen her! She clearly made a huge effort to get there ! I'm so proud 😍😍

  • @joeyk3134
    @joeyk3134 3 года назад +144

    Imagine how terribly depressed you would be from not leaving the house for 6 years.

  • @felixg.281
    @felixg.281 3 года назад +841

    It was quite a comedic moment as they were talking about losing weight, while their burgers arrived

    • @tammy3545
      @tammy3545 3 года назад +57

      I know right? Ummmm. You want to lose weight but then you get a burger and fried stuff on the side.

    • @ludmilamaiolini6811
      @ludmilamaiolini6811 3 года назад +31

      Probably staged by TLC

    • @breathoffreshair7795
      @breathoffreshair7795 3 года назад +35

      @@tammy3545 cold turkey is not advised lol especially when someone has become so dependent on food

    • @SydLane
      @SydLane 3 года назад +42

      yeah but the interesting/crazy thing is that at her size, Tammy could actually eat a burger and french fries for dinner every day and still lose weight. She could probably eat 4000 calories a day and still lose weight.

    • @tonnettegrayson1657
      @tonnettegrayson1657 3 года назад

      Exactly

  • @AS-ri1mb
    @AS-ri1mb 2 года назад +4

    I can’t get over how much weight Amy’s lost! She’s done so well, I really hope she sticks to it!

  • @natalie2278
    @natalie2278 3 года назад +1

    I think yall awesome and clearly strong fighters I love you gals !

  • @brenbarcelona5254
    @brenbarcelona5254 3 года назад +853

    Mom be like " That's her fault" lol. It's your fault . Your family is freaking obese and this is clearly not your kids fault but your fault as a mom for not watching their diet.

    • @amydiet788
      @amydiet788 3 года назад +65

      At some point life you need to take responsibility for yourself. Tammy is in her 30's, this is all her fault at this point. It may be easier to play a victim but it doesn't change the facts.

    • @amydiet788
      @amydiet788 3 года назад +2

      @s s You seem easly triggered, why are you so insecure?

    • @iloveanimals6361
      @iloveanimals6361 3 года назад +4

      @@amydiet788 yeah, I agree... I’m 44 and my diet isn’t the greatest, but my 25 yr son is super healthy fitness fanatic..We are total opposites..

    • @holaXchola92
      @holaXchola92 3 года назад +22

      @@amydiet788 This kind of weight gain is the result of psychological trauma.

    • @ovy830
      @ovy830 3 года назад +3

      People are responsible for their own actions not their parents

  • @jeonjungkook6743
    @jeonjungkook6743 3 года назад +124

    y’all im 14y.o and i turned 15 yesterday, i was also very big, im a girl and i weighed 109kg, since april2020 i decided to change and now im down to 70kg, my bmi before was 39 now its 27, im not yet done but am already proud of myself, we can do this❤️

    • @denfolo5224
      @denfolo5224 3 года назад +9

      Wow! Very proud of you!

    • @maxwelllikethecoffee3850
      @maxwelllikethecoffee3850 3 года назад +7

      Congratulations 🎊

    • @letmesleep6056
      @letmesleep6056 3 года назад +2

      Woah, that's a really cool transformation! Well done! I'm also your age and trying to slim down a little, but I'm taking it slow because I'm still growing

    • @thealmightyflabigail
      @thealmightyflabigail 3 года назад +3

      A bmi of 27 is not overweight, the bmi chart was created in 1830 and hasnt been accurately changed. You are perfectly healthy now! Im proud of you!!

    • @sandrapower3250
      @sandrapower3250 3 года назад +1

      Congratulations to you 💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @nioxa5421
    @nioxa5421 2 года назад +4

    4:28 the moms stink face loooool
    I felt judged and I wasn’t even there

  • @pshye1250
    @pshye1250 2 года назад +3

    3:54 how is she out of breath she literally only took like 6 steps💀

  • @duckygibson2075
    @duckygibson2075 3 года назад +304

    “I’m a fighter” sitting there judging her kids like she’s some model. YOU BIG TOO!!!

  • @van-me5yi
    @van-me5yi 3 года назад +1237

    "i wanna lose weight" *takes bite of burger* mood

    • @magdam7292
      @magdam7292 3 года назад +62

      That's exactly my tought. Trying to lose weight, become pregnant or whatever but still stuff yourself with unhealthy food in a huge amount... sad to watch..

    • @MixedBeauty01
      @MixedBeauty01 3 года назад +8

      Taylor momsen😩❤️

    • @multi298
      @multi298 3 года назад +3

      @@magdam7292 so sad to watch yet she lost the weight

    • @magdam7292
      @magdam7292 3 года назад +3

      @@multi298 only due to surgery

    • @multi298
      @multi298 3 года назад +11

      @@magdam7292 you have to exercise to lose weight with that surgery it just prevents you from over eating smart guy

  • @walterchad
    @walterchad 2 года назад +2

    It’s kind of sad to see that Tammy did stop trying and Amy didn’t and I’m proud of amy for that but it’s sad to see that the mom was right ab Tammy giving up 😢

  • @emmatyson9858
    @emmatyson9858 2 года назад +2

    I hope Tammy and Amy have a long life ahead of them.

  • @kerizmarolle9710
    @kerizmarolle9710 3 года назад +487

    This was the last time that Tammy ever walked anywhere..now she’s twice this size and gets pushed around everywhere

    • @felixedwards2153
      @felixedwards2153 3 года назад +2

      actually?

    • @navy2004
      @navy2004 3 года назад +2

      @@felixedwards2153 yup

    • @abby-jg6lr
      @abby-jg6lr 3 года назад +47

      @@felixedwards2153 not twice this size but yeah, all she’s done is gain while amy has lost over 100lbs

    • @nad0862
      @nad0862 3 года назад +19

      No wonder that with a mother empty of love like that they would try to full themselves with food

    • @metoo3342
      @metoo3342 3 года назад +9

      @@abby-jg6lr All of Amy's weight is going to Tammy

  • @apfg3002
    @apfg3002 3 года назад +328

    I'm really like their sister relationship can see that they are very close

    • @apfg3002
      @apfg3002 3 года назад +5

      @@amydiet788 you don't have to be mean, I'm not trying to be mean to you, I just like to stay positive, hope you have a great Thanksgiving

    • @brittneyg6366
      @brittneyg6366 3 года назад +4

      @@amydiet788 this is like the third comment on this video alone I’ve seen you on. Are you THAT insecure that you have to go around bashing obviously extreme versions of obesity to make yourself feel more attractive? You don’t even have a profile picture and have the audacity to make fun of appearances, come on sis 😂

  • @DiscentG
    @DiscentG 3 года назад +6

    Amy is so loving. I love you Amy you deserve everything..

  • @abigailstraughn6723
    @abigailstraughn6723 2 года назад +1

    it’s amazing too see how much everyone has changed since this episode. Amy is doing great and she’s a mom now and is trying really hard to meet her goals, i bet she’s an amazing mother. For Amy, I wish she got better but she’s in such a rough place right now it’s hard to watch.

  • @mackinzielizabeth872
    @mackinzielizabeth872 3 года назад +246

    they way the mom was looking at her daughters while were eating it disgust me

  • @naife1000
    @naife1000 3 года назад +389

    Their mother is without a doubt the reason they feel the need to eat their feelings in the first place. The don’t just need to lose weight, they need some help with the emotional issues :(

  • @sirfrancisbacon4344
    @sirfrancisbacon4344 2 года назад +1

    That minivan is the real champ of this show. It's way over the load limit... doesn't even stutter just keeps on rolling

  • @romaya3058
    @romaya3058 2 года назад +3

    Amy is so sweet and helpful!💕💕

  • @KairiMewLeviGirl
    @KairiMewLeviGirl 3 года назад +320

    I almost cried watching this. It was hard watching her try so hard and struggle and I completely understand her pain. I have suffered with a binge eating disorder many years now and it got worse as my disability got worse. It's not as simple as dieting when you are addicted to food. There needs to be more understanding around weight problems.

    • @benmccann7895
      @benmccann7895 3 года назад +5

      Eat whatever you want as long as you keep yourself burning calories by exercising

    • @vanityrage1984
      @vanityrage1984 3 года назад +47

      @@benmccann7895 that doesn’t help. You can’t help it. I have a binge eating disorder as well and it’s so incredibly hard. I know you might mean well, but this comment doesn’t help at all.

    • @Sunflower_that_loves_you
      @Sunflower_that_loves_you 3 года назад +4

      @@vanityrage1984 exactlyyy

    • @adevore1971
      @adevore1971 3 года назад

      You need nutrients

    • @lyssa4981
      @lyssa4981 2 года назад +3

      I have a binge eating disorder too. It's so defeating. I've gained 12 lbs back after losing 35, it's basically an endless cycle of nearly starving yourself and then eating until you feel sick (and then some more). It's so heartbreaking. I wish I wasn't this way. :(

  • @tori.z
    @tori.z 3 года назад +515

    Tammy they aren't necessarily looking at you. The are looking at all the cameras filming you.

    • @jimothygoldfish
      @jimothygoldfish 3 года назад +12

      But that's not part of the "script" lol.

    • @aladeenmotherfu3kers687
      @aladeenmotherfu3kers687 3 года назад

      They aren’t

    • @tori.z
      @tori.z 3 года назад

      @@aladeenmotherfu3kers687 they aren't what?

    • @Fatp1gtrollpig
      @Fatp1gtrollpig 3 года назад +10

      Nah but I would look at her the same way even without the cameras cause it’s like a big blob walking around

    • @zeynabuthman639
      @zeynabuthman639 3 года назад +27

      ...they’re looking at her. Believe me. I’d be looking at her too. She looks like a sideshow attraction. It’s worth a few stares. Don’t pretend it isn’t.

  • @dawnemyers2420
    @dawnemyers2420 3 года назад +5

    Her mom knows how their eating habits are on a daily. If I was Tammys mom I guess I would have a hard time believing them too. Her mom knows how they are and hadnt lost yet.

  • @gennyc6900
    @gennyc6900 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your lives with us. I am always grateful to know you ladies. Keep fighting 💪 💖

  • @brookeluce7138
    @brookeluce7138 3 года назад +70

    "The world is passing by. It's time for us to join it"...Wow. What a great sister and person Amy is.

  • @_antonnn1659
    @_antonnn1659 3 года назад +219

    I couldn’t stand looking at Tammy walking through the restaurant I felt so bad for her and everthing she was going through

  • @robertsimmons7556
    @robertsimmons7556 2 года назад

    Such a wonderful supportive mother she is .

  • @dionnemcinnes5274
    @dionnemcinnes5274 2 года назад +1

    I believe your pain Tammy!! I weigh 50lbs more than last year and my Back is Screaming at the end if the day!!

  • @jannierikam.-h.9514
    @jannierikam.-h.9514 3 года назад +125

    I get so sad watching this... When my boy comes to me (he’s 17 now), whenever he comes and has something on his mind, I go instantly in mum-mode - how can I support and help while he also learns to work out things by himself. I am and always will be there. I can’t imagine what has happened in that parent/child relationship for the mum to act so indifferent towards Tammy and Amy.
    Amy - you are on your way with weightloss, so amazing what you’re doing🤩! And Tammy - not everyone is laughing at you, I’m not, I see there’s pain in your eyes, you wish for a better life. If your mother can’t give the support, for whatever reason, just know you have plenty from me. Look after yourself❤️ there’s a whole life out there waiting for you😃❤️❤️

  • @clovelly1946
    @clovelly1946 3 года назад +143

    They have sweet souls,such cold mother this shows why food was such a comfort..

  • @bensenior8661
    @bensenior8661 2 года назад

    I’m so quick to naturally judge these two but actually watching and listening makes me realise they’re nicer and kinder than most people I’ve met

  • @nearmelloo
    @nearmelloo 2 года назад +19

    crazy how her mom knew exactly how tammy was. when she sees its too hard she'll just give up.

    • @sarcasticallyrearranged
      @sarcasticallyrearranged 2 года назад +2

      You can’t really be surprised that she knows her so well since she’s known what she’s like since birth.

    • @nearmelloo
      @nearmelloo 2 года назад

      @@sarcasticallyrearranged yea but i thought she was just being a ruthless mom like they claimed her to be. but she was just being honest after all 😕

    • @Campfire30
      @Campfire30 Год назад

      Not that crazy when she’s the one who made her that way.