We appreciate your honesty. Whether it’s failing the bar or having a miscarriage you share your experiences with us both good and bad. Many influencers only want to portray their lives as being sunshine and roses. Praying for better days ahead. ♥️
I totally agree with what you said about not asking about pregnancy. I just KNEW my sister was pregnant within weeks and could tell she was hiding it at family gatherings (pretending to drink while handing off to her hubby, etc) I said NOTHING. Respect people’s privacy. It doesn’t matter if you have a hunch, if you mean well, whatever. It’s a huge violation of privacy.
Yes, exactly. Inhad sent my sister a text about I needed to talk to her and she jumps the gun that YOU'RE PREGNANT, well at the time I was actually going through an ordeal of miss miscarriage. It hurt bc it couldn't even be announce in a happy way instead with happiness right after came the IM SORRY's, so depressing. Today I still have to go in for hopefully my last HCG draw.
Because Drs “ do this all the time” doesn’t mean at all that they should react so coldly and “ medically “ re a loss of a baby that means everything to the parents. I’ve seen first hand and heard of others receiving the news so cold and matter of fact and find it disgusting. My condolences to you and your husband . Sending hugs and comfort to you .
I am so sorry for your loss. As a therapist and someone who has had a miscarriage, please allow yourself to grieve. It is really hard to see other people pregnant especially when you want to be. It becomes a trigger and you may not even realize it. Take as much time as you need to grieve. I had a "memorial service" and wrote a letter to my baby and it helped a little. Allow yourself to feel those feelings and I'm praying you and Jesse will conceive your rainbow baby soon 🌈
I'm so sorry for you and Jessie's loss. I'm a medical assistant at an OBGYN office, and it was absolutely unacceptable the way your doctor treated you guys. I hope y'all's new doctor is much more compassionate and fitting for you guys! Best of luck on your pregnancy journey!!
Having had a career in medicine, I firmly believe each patient’s “bad news” should never be routine. This doctor has lost sight of the patient and is treating the “chart.” I’m sorry you did not have a doctor who was more compassionate.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you aren't religious, but I would still like to offer a small prayer: May God bless the soul of your baby and may He help Jessie and you get through this, physically and mentally.
Grace, I’m so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage in March at 10 weeks, it was my first pregnancy. I didn’t even get have my first appointment due to COVID. With all honesty it does take a toll on you mentally and it has taken awhile for me to feel “better”. I would definitely change doctors, my doctor was the sweetest and she’ll will definitely be my OBGYN if I get pregnant again. Even though it was a tough situation she was very supportive and made sure I had access to everything I needed to get through such a difficult time. They only thing I would do different is to have a D&C, I decided to do it naturally and that took a lil over a month, my pregnancy hormones also took awhile to go away. Thanks for the tip on the app, i will definitely be downloading it. Many hugs and prayers for you and Jesse!
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this. We just had one in May at 6 weeks 4 days after trying for 11 months so I know how this feels. This is heartbreaking, but thoughts and prayers are going out to you guys ❤❤
Grace, I am so sorry. I'm sorry that you and Jesse are going through this, and I'm sorry that the doctor did not show the empathy and support you deserve. Thank you for sharing this with us. Sending love and good luck as you continue this pregnancy journey 💕
I'm sorry for you and Jesse's loss, i know words can't change what you're feeling but i admire your strength, hopefully you guys will soon have this come true in the best way possible, sending you both love and positive energy ❤️
Grace, thank you for being open and sharing your story. I just want you to know that you're not alone! I had a miscarriage in April at about 5 weeks. It's one of the hardest things I've ever gone through and no matter how early it happens, it's still so heartbreaking. Hoping your next pregnancy is healthy and all is well!
I’m so sorry for the both of you. You most definitely can and will find a more supportive doctor for the next time around! I’m currently a medical student and I was in the room when a Dr. told a patient she miscarried - the doctor was supportive, empathetic, allowed for the couple to grieve, and then gave the appropriate next steps. I’m sorry you were rushed and the doctor was cold. I’m pretty sure the rate of miscarriages is very high, at least 1 in 4 women will experience one in her lifetime. You are so strong and you will get through this with Jesse ❤️ thank you for always being open and honest with your content. It’s never expected but always appreciated.
I am so sorry. I never been in this situation, but I believe that’s not easy to experience it. There is no words that we can say that will take away the pain, but I believe that we learn and it will be an angel looking for you both! When the time it’s the time everything will work the best and most loved way blessed by the other angels.
I am so sorry, Grace. I can’t imagine the grief that you are experiencing right now. Sending love and good thoughts to you and Jesse. Take as much time as you need to heal💕
I am so sorry this happened to you. I have PCOS and I also just had my first miscarriage a week ago. Nothing compares to the emotional pain that comes along with one. Please take as much time as you need and allow yourself to grieve. You will get through this. Also, I am so sorry that your doctor was not supportive during this traumatic process.
Hi Grace! I am so so so sorry for your loss🌹 I am still grieving our first miscarriage this year February- I wouldn’t wish this upon anyone …. You will get through this, thank you for sharing such a personal situation that many of us have experienced 🙏🏾
Oh Grace im so sorry, my sister had one very recently at 3 months and it is truly devastating but it will get easier I promise. It may take some time and its okay to have days where you just cant deal with it because emotions need to be let out. I know no one really wants to hear the same words of encouragement and sorrow over and over again but I truly hope you and Jesse get your rainbow baby, you deserve it so much.
Im so sorry. Sending you lots of support and love. Take care of yourself first and foremost! Im so sorry you have to deal with people being so invasive in your DMs as well. Wishing you and Jesse the best.
You are not alone. I am so sorry that you went through this. It is awful. I had a miscarriage in 2015 when my now 8yo daughter was 2. I want you to know that you are amazing and incredible for speaking about this. You are helping normalize this as a reality for so many women and birth givers. Also, you have the right instinct with regard to your doctor. Having a terrible doctor for my daughter's birth caused me severe trauma and impacted my entire life. You deserve to have a medical provider that makes you *feel* safe, secure, listened to, and to have a medical facility that ensures your experience is as much what you want as is safe and possible. There is hope. Thank you for this video.
I've been in this situation and it is mentally & emotionally ravaging. I am so sorry you were treated so poorly by your providers! There is nothing more invalidating when they won't listen to you and don't care about you.
Sending you a hug! I’m sorry that the healthcare providers were so cold. You are not alone and even though you don’t owe anyone an explanation, someone will be helped by your story. I appreciate you so much and I wish I could say something to help you feel better.
I am so so sorry for your and Jesse’s loss! I’ve experienced two miscarriages and I understand the pain. I am so sorry. Don’t rush the grieving process and don’t let anyone pressure you to do so.
This breaks my heart. Not only for you having to go through a miscarriage, but how poorly you were treated by medical staff during your time of need. I'm a nurse, and hearing this made me sick. Doctors perform things like this all the time, but they should NEVER become numb to a situation like this. They should offer support and answer your questions. Also, him not explaining anything prior to your procedure is total bullshit. He's legally REQUIRED to explain the procedure to you during the time you're signing consent. Shame on him and his facility. I am so sorry that you and your family had to endure this without proper medical support. I hope you find a new OB who is amazing and you have a great next pregnancy. Congrats on your wedding, as well! Been watching you since the early days of waiting for your law school acceptance. Thanks for being honest, and hopefully this will help other women during their time of need.
Oh my, Grace. I am so very sorry. When you said you were dealing with something and not posting, that's the last thing I even considered. (Honestly, I assumed some stupid Bar bullshit). I haven't watched yet, but I see the title. Your ectopic video was suggested to me a day after you posted it and I've been here ever since. This is so sad. And yes, CHANGE DOCTORS. I had a DVT after my first pregnancy, so I was high risk with my second pregnancy. My practice was amazing at caring for me, and super supportive - all 4 midwives and 4 OBs. If you're not getting that, I assure you, there are practices that are much better than the one you go to. (I have friends in Nyack who had a stillbirth and later delivered a little boy and can get their doctor's information, if you want)
I’m so sorry you experienced this. I have never personally experienced miscarriage, but the truth about the clinical and almost businesslike demeanor of the doctor is real. I had a wonderful experience with midwife care where I live and it was a much more personal, hands on experience. I never felt like my medical care was compromised in any way and I really enjoyed working with them. You might think about that route if you’re looking for more of a personal, non-clinical pregnancy and postpartum care. All the best.
We had a missed miscarriage last June at 12 weeks. It's the worst, your body still thinks all is well and it isn't. I'm so sorry you guys had to go through this. I am sending prayers and good thoughts to you both ❤
So sorry to hear that especially since this is your second miscarriage well kind of since the other one wasn’t the same, but that’s how I found your channel miscarriages are tough and I can say this because I’ve experienced it before. I wish for you positivity going forward and good news… miscarriages are super hard to deal with I was in bed just crying for days I had the same issue where the baby stopped growing but miscarried naturally but Jesus Christ it was traumatic
I’m so sorry for your loss. It can’t be easy sharing this so openly but it will help so many people. What an asshole doctor! Just because it’s routine for them, it’s not for most people.
I’m sorry for your loss. I’ve had 4 miscarriages and each time it’s painful. Take your time and work through all the emotions and grief. I’m so sorry. 💛💛💛
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have never been pregnant or had a miscarriage, but I am sure that is a really difficult process to go through. I pray that you find comfort during this grieving process. I plan to seek out a midwife when my fiance and I fall pregnant. I'm hoping it will provide more emotional support than an OB.
I'm so sorry to hear this Grace. Sending you a virtual hug and praying for both you and your husband during this time. Also thank you for sharing something so intimate.
I am so sorry about your loss. Miscarriage is a really tough loss it just feels like you're waking up from a dream to a nightmare. We miscarried at around 5 weeks as well so you are definitely not alone! Sending good vibes your way!
I'm sorry for your loss. Having went through a miscarriage myself, I know how hard it is to tell people about something so tough. I know there's a lot of people who follow you that are relating to you in this instance. I too had a bad experience with my doctor when I went through my miscarriage, and it was sad when the ER doctor on call the night I went into the ER had a lot more compassion for my husband and I. Hopefully you find a better doctor or even a midwife.
Oh love l am so sorry. Losing a pregnancy is the worst feeling. People who haven't been through it dont truly understand the heart aches that come with it. You instantly love this little baby and all the sudden its gone. You are in my constant prayers and thoughts. Take your time working through the loss dont feel like you have to be ok because you dont. ❤ sending you all the love and hugs and prayers ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s such a traumatic thing to go through no matter how you go about it. Take all the time you need to heal and sending you love and prayers for your rainbow 💕
Please don’t ever feel like you owe anyone on the Internet an explanation as to whether/what details about your life you decide to share and when you decide to share them. I’m so so sorry about the messages you’ve received and everything you’ve gone through. I’m sure this video will help others to begin to heal from their similar experiences, but if you ever need a break from the vulnerability of sharing the ins and outs of your life with strangers online, you do not need to apologize for that. Sending you and Jesse lots of love ❤️
I’m so very sorry for your loss!! Take all the time you need we’re here for you! I’m praying and hoping for your next pregnancy to make it all the way.
I'm so sorry for your loss, it's such a traumatic experience, it doesn't matter how "common" it is in pregnancy or for doctor's, it's very traumatic for the parents. I admire you so much for how honest you are on your channel and not portraying life like this "only sharing the good things" that we see so much on social media. Please take time to grieve and take care of yourselves
You have been such an important foundation and inspiration for me and hundreds of others. You are nothing but loved, admired, and respected, and I hope (if you need and want it) that this community can offer you some solace.
Oh grace- I am so so sorry this happend! Now you have two angels in heaven waiting for you- I have 3 waiting for me. After passing the bar I actively tried to conceive- got pregnant and had early miscarriages in weeks 6-8. I was devastated. We wanted a baby so bad, but no one could tell us why this kept happening. So I went to a new doctor she immediately put me on folic acid, vitamin d and leveled my thyroid out- and it helped. Next pregnancy stuck. Maybe this information helps you to ask your new doctor or do some research on you own. Your wonder is coming! Hugs!
I am so sorry for your loss Grace and Jesse . I agree with you, people should not ask if someone is pregnant or when they plan on getting pregnant. There are so many reasons why someone might be gaining weight. This happened to me earlier this summer and because I’m ready but my husband isn’t, it really triggered me when an older woman kept saying that I was glowing and asked me if I knew what I was having yet. Praying for you ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️ My husband and I had a miscarriage as well and we were devastated. I understand what you’re through and hope for good mental health. It’s such a hard time. Hugs to you both.
Grace take as much time as you need. You don't owe us anything. Your health matters more than anything, take care of yourself. Sending you a giant hug and so much love 🤍
I'm so sorry Grace for your loss! Wish you and your husband a lot of strenght to overcome this! Take the time to grieve and take care of yourself, a big hug!
I am so sorry for your loss. I experienced a miscarriage in April after our first round of IVF. It is a very hard process. I recommend not jumping back into it. Please take care of your mental health! I wish you the best and hope for healing💗
So sorry Grace, I went through the same thing for my first pregnancy. Had to have a D&C around 10 weeks as the baby had stopped developing at 6 weeks. It’s one of the hardest things to go through, I’ll be thinking of you.
Oh my… I know there’s nothing I or anyone can say to make y’all feel better, , but my heart is with you and all those experiencing loss. Take as much time for you and Jessie as you need. You two will be in our thoughts & prayers every single night. 😓❤️
Thank you for your strength. I found myself nodding and saying “yup!” to a lot of what you were saying. I went through the same exact thing this time last year. You are strong, resilient, and powerful, but the sadness will still linger and that’s okay. I’m 33 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby and I still feel sadness and longing for what that baby could have been. Your community loves you and we’re always here ❤️
I hate that the doc and his staff gave you that experience. My SIL has had a journey with losses and from her I have learned that grieving the loss is important. And you can grieve and be hopeful for the next try at the same time. It’s ok. Grief isn’t linear. Some days are harder. Some things will make it ache worse. Honor that and allow those feelings to happen. If not you’ll be stuck in it longer. I am praying for you and Jesse, for a successful next pregnancy and also a healing from this loss you’re experiencing. And def get a new doc. There are many many amazing ones out there.
I’m so sorry grace. We are all here for you. Thank you for posting this and being open about it, I’m sure you will have an impact on so many others going through this same thing.
I am so sorry you are part of this group of women who have suffered a loss. Hugs. I can see the sadness in your eyes and just want to say I am so sorry and send you love and hugs.
Awww Grace, I’m sorry for y’all loss. May he or she Rest In Peace. You both will get through this. It does get a little easier day by day. Just take care of yourself spiritually, mentally, and physically. ❤️
We have been trough the same steps in life in the same time.. and I lived a miscarage last week too. It feels so comforting to here.. I feel exactly the same 💔❤️
It's like your speaking my exact story. Pregnant from 1st May, found out at 7 weeks baby wasn't growing but the sac continued to grow so I went back and forth for 3 weeks before they could 100% confirm it wasn't going anywhere. I had an ultrasound, nobody said anything they just sent me to a side room which was covered in miscarriage posters and that's how I found out!! I felt like the doctors didn't look at me like a human that lost a baby, just like a number in a line! My test finally came back negative last week and it broke my heart more than any of the rest of it because I knew then that really was it 💔. I feel for you Grace 💗 we will get there ❤️
Grace, I am SO SO sorry for your loss. I know there are no words that can help make things right for you now. Just know you have such an amazing outlook on this topic and are so positive. Your future is bright with this and thanks for making making videos for me to enjoy xoxo
So sorry to hear this Grace ❤️ Sorry you’re having to go through such a loss and on top of that not being supported by your providers. Routine or not, they should make every effort to be a resource to you during such a difficult time. Sending nothing but love and support your way.
I am so sorry for your loss Grace and Jesse. Just remember we all love you and you can take as much time as you want before making regular videos. You don't need to do anything until you feel you are ready.
I’ve been following you since first year of law school and love your videos. I just found out today I had a missed miscarriage at 7 weeks as well. I’m having a D&C tomorrow. Watching this video makes me feel so much better even though I’ve already watched it before because I know now that you do have a child so I know it’s possible.
Don’t feel bad for not uploading, we completely understand. My mom had 4 miscarriages before she decided to adopt me, it takes a huge mental toll on you. I don’t have any advice for you but I can send good thoughts your way ❤️
I am so sorry for your loss- both of you. How horrible to experience a loss like that. You don’t owe us any explanation but we appreciate it. Please mourn as you need to- whether that’s here or privately. The community you’ve created here supports you in all things. Hugs and prayers of healing for the both of you.
I'm sorry for you loss Grace. I am also so sorry you had to deal with a cold doctor. We so appreciate your honesty and transparency. Please take as much time away from RUclips and social media as you need.
I am so sorry to learn about your loss. 🥰 I am glad to see you back here… sharing your lovely self with us. I was starting to wonder where you where. I appreciate your positive attitude and your efforts to support other women in the same situation.
Sending my love, hugs and thoughts. I just went through a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks. Until it happened to me I didn’t realize how common it was. Thank you for sharing.
I’m so sorry you experienced this Grace. I’ve unfortunately had several of them at various stages (6 -20) weeks and each one was so traumatic it felt like a piece of me got wrenched out. Doctors never really have any convincing answers
I'm so sorry. Im keeping you and Jesse in my prayers. I hope you can continue to heal, and comfort yourself during this time in any way that you can ❤️
My heart sank for you Grace. Having a miscarriage affects everyone. I hope you, Jesse and your family get through all this. Things will get better Grace💙💙
I’m so sorry to hear this. I am sending you so much love right now and will keep you and your family in my thoughts. Thank you for taking the time to share this with us, I know it will definitely help someone who is struggling with similar issues. I hope you feel better soon. 💜💜💜
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. Although I NEVER want anyone to experience this (after experiencing 2 myself - the most recent in June) it is comforting to know that there are people out there that you can relate to. It is so common especially lately. I hope we will both have 🌈 babies soon!
I’m so sorry. I had a miscarriage too and ended up doing a D/C. I was such a mess. I felt like it was my fault. I had no one to talk to. It was the worst. My mother in law even needed to know how it was done that evening. Just horrible. However, I think my husband and I going through that made us stronger. Looking forward to your rainbow baby!!!!💗. One thing that really helped us was making a memory box.
We appreciate your honesty. Whether it’s failing the bar or having a miscarriage you share your experiences with us both good and bad. Many influencers only want to portray their lives as being sunshine and roses. Praying for better days ahead. ♥️
THIS. She’s more than just “relatable” she’s REAL with her audience.
I totally agree with what you said about not asking about pregnancy. I just KNEW my sister was pregnant within weeks and could tell she was hiding it at family gatherings (pretending to drink while handing off to her hubby, etc) I said NOTHING. Respect people’s privacy. It doesn’t matter if you have a hunch, if you mean well, whatever. It’s a huge violation of privacy.
Yes, exactly. Inhad sent my sister a text about I needed to talk to her and she jumps the gun that YOU'RE PREGNANT, well at the time I was actually going through an ordeal of miss miscarriage. It hurt bc it couldn't even be announce in a happy way instead with happiness right after came the IM SORRY's, so depressing. Today I still have to go in for hopefully my last HCG draw.
Because Drs “ do this all the time” doesn’t mean at all that they should react so coldly and “ medically “ re a loss of a baby that means everything to the parents. I’ve seen first hand and heard of others receiving the news so cold and matter of fact and find it disgusting. My condolences to you and your husband . Sending hugs and comfort to you .
I am so sorry for your loss. As a therapist and someone who has had a miscarriage, please allow yourself to grieve. It is really hard to see other people pregnant especially when you want to be. It becomes a trigger and you may not even realize it. Take as much time as you need to grieve. I had a "memorial service" and wrote a letter to my baby and it helped a little. Allow yourself to feel those feelings and I'm praying you and Jesse will conceive your rainbow baby soon 🌈
I'm so sorry for you and Jessie's loss. I'm a medical assistant at an OBGYN office, and it was absolutely unacceptable the way your doctor treated you guys. I hope y'all's new doctor is much more compassionate and fitting for you guys! Best of luck on your pregnancy journey!!
Having had a career in medicine, I firmly believe each patient’s “bad news” should never be routine. This doctor has lost sight of the patient and is treating the “chart.” I’m sorry you did not have a doctor who was more compassionate.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you aren't religious, but I would still like to offer a small prayer: May God bless the soul of your baby and may He help Jessie and you get through this, physically and mentally.
Grace, I’m so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage in March at 10 weeks, it was my first pregnancy. I didn’t even get have my first appointment due to COVID. With all honesty it does take a toll on you mentally and it has taken awhile for me to feel “better”. I would definitely change doctors, my doctor was the sweetest and she’ll will definitely be my OBGYN if I get pregnant again. Even though it was a tough situation she was very supportive and made sure I had access to everything I needed to get through such a difficult time. They only thing I would do different is to have a D&C, I decided to do it naturally and that took a lil over a month, my pregnancy hormones also took awhile to go away. Thanks for the tip on the app, i will definitely be downloading it. Many hugs and prayers for you and Jesse!
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this. We just had one in May at 6 weeks 4 days after trying for 11 months so I know how this feels. This is heartbreaking, but thoughts and prayers are going out to you guys ❤❤
Grace, I am so sorry. I'm sorry that you and Jesse are going through this, and I'm sorry that the doctor did not show the empathy and support you deserve. Thank you for sharing this with us. Sending love and good luck as you continue this pregnancy journey 💕
I am so sorry, Grace. I can’t imagine how you are feeling. Praying that you and Jesse are blessed with your rainbow baby soon 🌈 ♥️
I'm sorry for you and Jesse's loss, i know words can't change what you're feeling but i admire your strength, hopefully you guys will soon have this come true in the best way possible, sending you both love and positive energy ❤️
Grace, thank you for being open and sharing your story. I just want you to know that you're not alone! I had a miscarriage in April at about 5 weeks. It's one of the hardest things I've ever gone through and no matter how early it happens, it's still so heartbreaking. Hoping your next pregnancy is healthy and all is well!
I’m so sorry for the both of you. You most definitely can and will find a more supportive doctor for the next time around! I’m currently a medical student and I was in the room when a Dr. told a patient she miscarried - the doctor was supportive, empathetic, allowed for the couple to grieve, and then gave the appropriate next steps. I’m sorry you were rushed and the doctor was cold. I’m pretty sure the rate of miscarriages is very high, at least 1 in 4 women will experience one in her lifetime. You are so strong and you will get through this with Jesse ❤️ thank you for always being open and honest with your content. It’s never expected but always appreciated.
I am so sorry. I never been in this situation, but I believe that’s not easy to experience it. There is no words that we can say that will take away the pain, but I believe that we learn and it will be an angel looking for you both! When the time it’s the time everything will work the best and most loved way blessed by the other angels.
I am so sorry, Grace. I can’t imagine the grief that you are experiencing right now. Sending love and good thoughts to you and Jesse. Take as much time as you need to heal💕
I am so sorry this happened to you. I have PCOS and I also just had my first miscarriage a week ago. Nothing compares to the emotional pain that comes along with one. Please take as much time as you need and allow yourself to grieve. You will get through this. Also, I am so sorry that your doctor was not supportive during this traumatic process.
I’m so sorry Grace. This is heartbreaking, but you and Jesse will get through this together. ❤️
So sorry to hear about this Grace. This definitely is a hard thing for anyone to go through and no one deserves to go through this.
Hi Grace! I am so so so sorry for your loss🌹 I am still grieving our first miscarriage this year February- I wouldn’t wish this upon anyone …. You will get through this, thank you for sharing such a personal situation that many of us have experienced 🙏🏾
Oh Grace im so sorry, my sister had one very recently at 3 months and it is truly devastating but it will get easier I promise. It may take some time and its okay to have days where you just cant deal with it because emotions need to be let out. I know no one really wants to hear the same words of encouragement and sorrow over and over again but I truly hope you and Jesse get your rainbow baby, you deserve it so much.
Im so sorry. Sending you lots of support and love. Take care of yourself first and foremost! Im so sorry you have to deal with people being so invasive in your DMs as well. Wishing you and Jesse the best.
You are not alone. I am so sorry that you went through this. It is awful. I had a miscarriage in 2015 when my now 8yo daughter was 2. I want you to know that you are amazing and incredible for speaking about this. You are helping normalize this as a reality for so many women and birth givers.
Also, you have the right instinct with regard to your doctor. Having a terrible doctor for my daughter's birth caused me severe trauma and impacted my entire life. You deserve to have a medical provider that makes you *feel* safe, secure, listened to, and to have a medical facility that ensures your experience is as much what you want as is safe and possible.
There is hope. Thank you for this video.
I've been in this situation and it is mentally & emotionally ravaging. I am so sorry you were treated so poorly by your providers! There is nothing more invalidating when they won't listen to you and don't care about you.
Sending you a hug! I’m sorry that the healthcare providers were so cold. You are not alone and even though you don’t owe anyone an explanation, someone will be helped by your story. I appreciate you so much and I wish I could say something to help you feel better.
I’m sorry for your loss. You are such a strong lady. It’s really admirable. Thank you for your willingness to share your story with us 💕
I’m so sorry for your loss. That’s really tough. I wish you tons of love, light, and healing.
I am so so sorry for your and Jesse’s loss! I’ve experienced two miscarriages and I understand the pain. I am so sorry. Don’t rush the grieving process and don’t let anyone pressure you to do so.
This breaks my heart. Not only for you having to go through a miscarriage, but how poorly you were treated by medical staff during your time of need. I'm a nurse, and hearing this made me sick. Doctors perform things like this all the time, but they should NEVER become numb to a situation like this. They should offer support and answer your questions. Also, him not explaining anything prior to your procedure is total bullshit. He's legally REQUIRED to explain the procedure to you during the time you're signing consent. Shame on him and his facility. I am so sorry that you and your family had to endure this without proper medical support. I hope you find a new OB who is amazing and you have a great next pregnancy. Congrats on your wedding, as well! Been watching you since the early days of waiting for your law school acceptance. Thanks for being honest, and hopefully this will help other women during their time of need.
Oh my, Grace. I am so very sorry. When you said you were dealing with something and not posting, that's the last thing I even considered. (Honestly, I assumed some stupid Bar bullshit). I haven't watched yet, but I see the title. Your ectopic video was suggested to me a day after you posted it and I've been here ever since. This is so sad.
And yes, CHANGE DOCTORS. I had a DVT after my first pregnancy, so I was high risk with my second pregnancy. My practice was amazing at caring for me, and super supportive - all 4 midwives and 4 OBs. If you're not getting that, I assure you, there are practices that are much better than the one you go to. (I have friends in Nyack who had a stillbirth and later delivered a little boy and can get their doctor's information, if you want)
I’m so sorry you experienced this. I have never personally experienced miscarriage, but the truth about the clinical and almost businesslike demeanor of the doctor is real. I had a wonderful experience with midwife care where I live and it was a much more personal, hands on experience. I never felt like my medical care was compromised in any way and I really enjoyed working with them. You might think about that route if you’re looking for more of a personal, non-clinical pregnancy and postpartum care. All the best.
We had a missed miscarriage last June at 12 weeks. It's the worst, your body still thinks all is well and it isn't. I'm so sorry you guys had to go through this. I am sending prayers and good thoughts to you both ❤
Thank you for telling us about your story even though you have no obligation to. Sending lots of prayers and positive healing vibes.
Oh, Grace 🥺 I'm so sorry for your loss. Take as much time as you need to feel ready to come back. Keeping you and Jesse in my thoughts. ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you so much love!
So sorry to hear that especially since this is your second miscarriage well kind of since the other one wasn’t the same, but that’s how I found your channel miscarriages are tough and I can say this because I’ve experienced it before. I wish for you positivity going forward and good news… miscarriages are super hard to deal with I was in bed just crying for days I had the same issue where the baby stopped growing but miscarried naturally but Jesus Christ it was traumatic
Thank you for sharing with us. It's so hard. I rewatched your ectopic pregnancy video when I had my own ectopic. You helped me cope.
I am going through this right now, and it means a lot knowing that I’m not alone in my feelings of sadness and anger. Sending you lots of love.
I’m so sorry for your loss. It can’t be easy sharing this so openly but it will help so many people. What an asshole doctor! Just because it’s routine for them, it’s not for most people.
I had a bad doctor experience with my miscarriage as well ... people sometimes uhhhhhhh :}
I’m sorry for your loss. I’ve had 4 miscarriages and each time it’s painful. Take your time and work through all the emotions and grief. I’m so sorry. 💛💛💛
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have never been pregnant or had a miscarriage, but I am sure that is a really difficult process to go through. I pray that you find comfort during this grieving process. I plan to seek out a midwife when my fiance and I fall pregnant. I'm hoping it will provide more emotional support than an OB.
I'm so sorry to hear this Grace. Sending you a virtual hug and praying for both you and your husband during this time. Also thank you for sharing something so intimate.
I am so sorry about your loss. Miscarriage is a really tough loss it just feels like you're waking up from a dream to a nightmare. We miscarried at around 5 weeks as well so you are definitely not alone! Sending good vibes your way!
I'm sorry for your loss. Having went through a miscarriage myself, I know how hard it is to tell people about something so tough. I know there's a lot of people who follow you that are relating to you in this instance. I too had a bad experience with my doctor when I went through my miscarriage, and it was sad when the ER doctor on call the night I went into the ER had a lot more compassion for my husband and I. Hopefully you find a better doctor or even a midwife.
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Oh love l am so sorry. Losing a pregnancy is the worst feeling. People who haven't been through it dont truly understand the heart aches that come with it. You instantly love this little baby and all the sudden its gone. You are in my constant prayers and thoughts. Take your time working through the loss dont feel like you have to be ok because you dont. ❤ sending you all the love and hugs and prayers ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s such a traumatic thing to go through no matter how you go about it. Take all the time you need to heal and sending you love and prayers for your rainbow 💕
Please don’t ever feel like you owe anyone on the Internet an explanation as to whether/what details about your life you decide to share and when you decide to share them. I’m so so sorry about the messages you’ve received and everything you’ve gone through. I’m sure this video will help others to begin to heal from their similar experiences, but if you ever need a break from the vulnerability of sharing the ins and outs of your life with strangers online, you do not need to apologize for that. Sending you and Jesse lots of love ❤️
I’m so very sorry for your loss!! Take all the time you need we’re here for you! I’m praying and hoping for your next pregnancy to make it all the way.
I'm so sorry for your loss, it's such a traumatic experience, it doesn't matter how "common" it is in pregnancy or for doctor's, it's very traumatic for the parents. I admire you so much for how honest you are on your channel and not portraying life like this "only sharing the good things" that we see so much on social media. Please take time to grieve and take care of yourselves
You have been such an important foundation and inspiration for me and hundreds of others. You are nothing but loved, admired, and respected, and I hope (if you need and want it) that this community can offer you some solace.
Oh grace- I am so so sorry this happend!
Now you have two angels in heaven waiting for you- I have 3 waiting for me.
After passing the bar I actively tried to conceive- got pregnant and had early miscarriages in weeks 6-8. I was devastated. We wanted a baby so bad, but no one could tell us why this kept happening.
So I went to a new doctor she immediately put me on folic acid, vitamin d and leveled my thyroid out- and it helped. Next pregnancy stuck.
Maybe this information helps you to ask your new doctor or do some research on you own.
Your wonder is coming! Hugs!
I am so sorry for your loss Grace and Jesse . I agree with you, people should not ask if someone is pregnant or when they plan on getting pregnant. There are so many reasons why someone might be gaining weight. This happened to me earlier this summer and because I’m ready but my husband isn’t, it really triggered me when an older woman kept saying that I was glowing and asked me if I knew what I was having yet. Praying for you ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️ My husband and I had a miscarriage as well and we were devastated. I understand what you’re through and hope for good mental health. It’s such a hard time. Hugs to you both.
Grace take as much time as you need. You don't owe us anything. Your health matters more than anything, take care of yourself. Sending you a giant hug and so much love 🤍
I'm so sorry Grace for your loss! Wish you and your husband a lot of strenght to overcome this! Take the time to grieve and take care of yourself, a big hug!
I am so sorry for your loss. I experienced a miscarriage in April after our first round of IVF. It is a very hard process. I recommend not jumping back into it. Please take care of your mental health! I wish you the best and hope for healing💗
I’m so sorry Grace! Your community of followers here loves you! Sending you good thoughts and hopes that you’ll conceive again soon.
So sorry for your loss ♥️ It really is nice that we have these online forums these days to find support
So sorry Grace, I went through the same thing for my first pregnancy. Had to have a D&C around 10 weeks as the baby had stopped developing at 6 weeks. It’s one of the hardest things to go through, I’ll be thinking of you.
Oh my… I know there’s nothing I or anyone can say to make y’all feel better, , but my heart is with you and all those experiencing loss. Take as much time for you and Jessie as you need. You two will be in our thoughts & prayers every single night. 😓❤️
Thank you for your strength. I found myself nodding and saying “yup!” to a lot of what you were saying. I went through the same exact thing this time last year. You are strong, resilient, and powerful, but the sadness will still linger and that’s okay. I’m 33 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby and I still feel sadness and longing for what that baby could have been. Your community loves you and we’re always here ❤️
I’m so sorry, Grace this is heartbreaking - thinking of you ❤️
I hate that the doc and his staff gave you that experience. My SIL has had a journey with losses and from her I have learned that grieving the loss is important. And you can grieve and be hopeful for the next try at the same time. It’s ok. Grief isn’t linear. Some days are harder. Some things will make it ache worse. Honor that and allow those feelings to happen. If not you’ll be stuck in it longer. I am praying for you and Jesse, for a successful next pregnancy and also a healing from this loss you’re experiencing. And def get a new doc. There are many many amazing ones out there.
I’m so sorry grace. We are all here for you. Thank you for posting this and being open about it, I’m sure you will have an impact on so many others going through this same thing.
I am so sorry you are part of this group of women who have suffered a loss. Hugs. I can see the sadness in your eyes and just want to say I am so sorry and send you love and hugs.
You are so strong and so powerful. I feel sry for you, but I am sure you will cope with it.
Awww Grace, I’m sorry for y’all loss. May he or she Rest In Peace. You both will get through this. It does get a little easier day by day. Just take care of yourself spiritually, mentally, and physically. ❤️
We have been trough the same steps in life in the same time.. and I lived a miscarage last week too. It feels so comforting to here.. I feel exactly the same 💔❤️
It's like your speaking my exact story. Pregnant from 1st May, found out at 7 weeks baby wasn't growing but the sac continued to grow so I went back and forth for 3 weeks before they could 100% confirm it wasn't going anywhere. I had an ultrasound, nobody said anything they just sent me to a side room which was covered in miscarriage posters and that's how I found out!! I felt like the doctors didn't look at me like a human that lost a baby, just like a number in a line! My test finally came back negative last week and it broke my heart more than any of the rest of it because I knew then that really was it 💔. I feel for you Grace 💗 we will get there ❤️
Grace, I am SO SO sorry for your loss. I know there are no words that can help make things right for you now. Just know you have such an amazing outlook on this topic and are so positive. Your future is bright with this and thanks for making making videos for me to enjoy xoxo
So sorry to hear this Grace ❤️ Sorry you’re having to go through such a loss and on top of that not being supported by your providers. Routine or not, they should make every effort to be a resource to you during such a difficult time. Sending nothing but love and support your way.
I am so sorry for your loss Grace and Jesse. Just remember we all love you and you can take as much time as you want before making regular videos. You don't need to do anything until you feel you are ready.
So sorry for your loss. My heart broke when I saw your video. Sending you much love and will pray for you guys. Take care of yourself!
Sorry that you have to go through this. Love you, bestie ❤️
I’m sorry to hear this Grace! Praying for comfort and healing for you and Jesse during this time
So sorry for your loss, Grace. Take all the time that you and Jesse need ❤️
I’ve been following you since first year of law school and love your videos. I just found out today I had a missed miscarriage at 7 weeks as well. I’m having a D&C tomorrow. Watching this video makes me feel so much better even though I’ve already watched it before because I know now that you do have a child so I know it’s possible.
I admire your vulnerability so much Grace. You are helping tons and tons of people by sharing your true life. Lots of love to you 💚🌈
Don’t feel bad for not uploading, we completely understand. My mom had 4 miscarriages before she decided to adopt me, it takes a huge mental toll on you. I don’t have any advice for you but I can send good thoughts your way ❤️
Sending so much love your way, I hope the coming weeks bring you healing.
I am so sorry for your loss- both of you. How horrible to experience a loss like that. You don’t owe us any explanation but we appreciate it. Please mourn as you need to- whether that’s here or privately. The community you’ve created here supports you in all things.
Hugs and prayers of healing for the both of you.
I am so sorry for your loss. That goes for you and Jesse. Praying for you both 🤍
I’m so sorry for your loss 😔 sending you lots of love and hugs! ❤️
I’ve watched you for many years and Im so sorry this happened to you. I too had a miscarriage and i understand what you’re feeling. 🤍
I’m so sorry Grace. Sending you so much love and healing 🌻
I'm sorry for you loss Grace. I am also so sorry you had to deal with a cold doctor. We so appreciate your honesty and transparency. Please take as much time away from RUclips and social media as you need.
Thank you for sharing something so private. Sending you and your family a virtual hug!
Thinking of you & Jesse, Grace ❤️ Please take all the time you need. You don’t owe us anything. Your mental & physical health is far more important.
I am so sorry to learn about your loss. 🥰 I am glad to see you back here… sharing your lovely self with us. I was starting to wonder where you where. I appreciate your positive attitude and your efforts to support other women in the same situation.
Sending my love, hugs and thoughts. I just went through a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks. Until it happened to me I didn’t realize how common it was. Thank you for sharing.
grace i had a feeling something was wrong! i love you so much and i hope that you and jesse are okay♥️
I’m so sorry you experienced this Grace. I’ve unfortunately had several of them at various stages (6 -20) weeks and each one was so traumatic it felt like a piece of me got wrenched out. Doctors never really have any convincing answers
I'm so sorry. Im keeping you and Jesse in my prayers. I hope you can continue to heal, and comfort yourself during this time in any way that you can ❤️
My heart sank for you Grace. Having a miscarriage affects everyone. I hope you, Jesse and your family get through all this. Things will get better Grace💙💙
sending all my love to you and Jesse ❤️ i’m so sorry!
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this. Sending you and Jesse my best wishes for the future.
I’m so sorry to hear this. I am sending you so much love right now and will keep you and your family in my thoughts. Thank you for taking the time to share this with us, I know it will definitely help someone who is struggling with similar issues. I hope you feel better soon. 💜💜💜
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. Although I NEVER want anyone to experience this (after experiencing 2 myself - the most recent in June) it is comforting to know that there are people out there that you can relate to. It is so common especially lately. I hope we will both have 🌈 babies soon!
I’m so sorry. I had a miscarriage too and ended up doing a D/C. I was such a mess. I felt like it was my fault. I had no one to talk to. It was the worst. My mother in law even needed to know how it was done that evening. Just horrible. However, I think my husband and I going through that made us stronger. Looking forward to your rainbow baby!!!!💗. One thing that really helped us was making a memory box.