3 Ways To Be Unf*ckwithable | Vishen Lakhiani
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- In this feisty A-Fest talk, Vishen Lakhiani helps you get Unf*ckwithable through personal growth & development 💪 .Click here to watch the first hour for FREE 🤗👉go.mindvalley....
Founder of Mindvalley Vishen Lakhiani believes there are 3 elements to becoming Unf*ckwithable that you’ll discover in this motivational speech video!
Whether you have a challenge in your wealth, goal setting, self love, career or health, you can use transformational ‘mind hacks’ to instantly rise above it...see you in the Masterclass to find out exactly what you have to do! 😃
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Vishen Lakhiani spoke about compassion and gratitude in the process of becoming Unf*ckwithable. Did this surprise you? Comment your thoughts below! Join Vishen’s Quest For First Hour FREE 👉go.mindvalley.com/bl
making money as a farse . what a disgusting sight
What place is that? I want to go into those meditation chambers :)
Not at all A suprize. It's the way it worx 💓
My 11 years of pain ended last night after applying what I've learned here. I'm grateful for you, the teachers, your team and your mission. God bless. (or whatever you wanna call it). ;)
Love this
That is so beautiful
Are you Muslim? Then don't say God when you talk about Allah. Muhammad had eleven wives, while his own religion "only" allowed to have four, and raped female war captives on the side, allowing his followers to do so also. Allah orders to kill non-believers on several occasions throughout the Quran and Muhammad sure did so.
Black Box Allah is the same God of the Old Testament. The God of Abraham, Noah, Moses, and Adam&Eve. God also ordered the death of those who didnt worship Him. Read your bible.
Aletheia23 No he isn't, the Quran denies Allah ever had a child and says Jesus is just a prophet, while the NT says no one goes to heaven except through Jesus. Jesus always preached of love, Muhammad was a war mongering, torturing, raping, woman-hitting MONSTER.
Interestingly you didn't respond to my falsifiable claims of raping of war capitves and so on and so forth. Here you go for some of the verses detailing the immoral nature of Islam and the pedophile rapist that is Muhammad:
FROM THE QURAN - 70:22-30
"Not so the worshippers, who are steadfast in prayer, who set aside a due portion of their wealth for the beggar and for the deprived, who truly believe in the Day of Reckoning and dread the punishment of their Lord (for none is secure from the punishment of their Lord); who restrain their carnal desire (save with their wives and their slave girls, for these are lawful to them: he that lusts after other than these is a transgressor..."
FROM THE QURAN - 4:24
"And all married women are forbidden unto you save those captives whom your right hand possess. It is a decree of Allah for you. (Muhammad Pickthall's English translation of the Quran).
If you are still a Muslim and Muhammad-worshipper despite knowing that you are truly despicable. And yet you dare to call yourself aletheia, shame on you.
So it's basically"I don't give a fuck, IM here, and IM ready for whatever"...hell yeah
Past present future
What about perfect past and perfect future?
Forgiveness unhooks you from the train of negativity you've been lugging behind you. Now you can move faster.
Thank you!! I just shared this with my 19 and 21 year old sons hoping they won't waste one more second of their lives not being "unfuckwithable"! Amazing.
It is amazing to see parents pass on life class. I wish I could open a school for this.
you look young
I have a 17 year old and i am about to do the exact same!
Andrea L Love this too.
you brought tears to my eyes. been living with depression for years just watching this video even without doing any exercise made me feel in peace with myself cant wait to watch all your videos and read your book i feel you saved my life. and i thankyou.
turn down speakers around 1:05-1:10
I did not heed this advice. RIP eardrums
Thanks for the heads up!
Saw this just in time
fuck me i just read this as things got loud as fuck
I died................................ x_x ...............................
it's really easy. without forgivness, you carry negative thoughts and emotions with you. dragging you down
and those that forgove must be carrying a load and a burden cause the sure snap
thearough
yeah sometimes.
but you also have to accept that some things are just shit, regardless of your feelings
I've spent so many years giving away my power by being nice, always saying yes, being a pushover. That ends today! Today I begin to love myself more, respect myself more, stand up for myself more. Today I begin to be unfuckwithable!!! Thank you for the inspiration!
When we practice meditation on forgiveness, eventually we will reach a point where,it's hard for us to hate someone , irrespective of how badly they hurt us, and we will start realizing they need help and support, not punishment.on other hand By practicing forgiveness we could able to attain deep sense of peace, and moreover you will be unfuckwithable with your anxiety, irritation , fear, so on, it really works. Thank you vishen you are inspiring me to become a better human being.
I forgave 2 of my closest family members for trying to make me their servant after 20 years of despising them then I get a message in my subconscious to investigate my husbands phone activity, long story short I had been accepting abuse from my husband because I had become so drained from the hate I had for my family. I am just being born again with full love for myself and life.
Janelle Carter I send you love ... light and prayers
I think its working well for you, cuz you still messed up the lyrics to ice ice baby....and you seem ok with that.
Ooo
I caught that too haha
daaaamn. I noticed that as well.
he messed up
but i get the message
Given the amount of preparation he had for this presentation. The odds of him doing this on purpose, seem quite high for people who notice alone to understand this meaning on a deep level.
i recommend checking out the book "The four agreements" for anyone interested in this subject .. this presentation was almost a complete rephrase of that book
As a psychologist I must agree that affirmation techniques like "I am enough" have been proven to raise self-esteem quite radically. Forgiveness, as mentioned, does need to be genuinely expressed in the mind as this affirms to the self that the negative act wasn't something intentional, therefore, you don't feel persecuted or a victim. I can see that this is much akin to the Beck's cognitive triad i.e. having negative views about oneself, the future and the world. However, I can see how the approach you have mentioned actually speeds this process up. I will be looking in to this method in greater detail. Fantastic title by the way.
what type of psycolgist are you? i want to be one but have alot of questions about what career i can apply psychology into if that makes sense please reply because i will soon be applying to college
Just started to cry when I watched this!!! I lost six family members in less than two years... I have been through some trying times... this is one statement I WILL live with! Thanks so much!!!
I’m praying for you; I hope these years later you’ve found a sense of peace and strength through the ebb and flow of life 💛 remember always God loves you too, He is there carrying you in the palm of His hand when you can’t carry yourself.
If truth be known, seems like most individuals on this planet want to fuck with you, only if you let your egoistic-sub-conscious mind, let it. Becoming Aware, Mindfulness is very powerful, indeed. Let the truth be known. The truth will save you.
Great positive speech. I feel it’s important that viewers understand that being “Unf-ckwithable” is not the same as someone who “Doesn’t Give a F-ck”.
The former encourages inner peace, self-love, and empathy. The latter is more about ignorance, “I am better than you” mentality, and not caring. Big difference.
I love how he not so but seemingly politely chased marisa off the stage
That was actually amazing. Well worth 45 minutes of anyone's time.
Dave thank you, i understand radical forgiveness at an additional dimension now. Not just doing it to grow spiritually, but doing it to teach the body to forgive the entire pattern, not just the one incident.
It's psychological growth, not spiritual.
I am not sure that being immune to criticism or praise is such a great thing. How, then, would I learn? Negative judgements can run you down. But failing, or being told that what you are doing is not working. It is important to hear it as information, not make it mean you are bad. But it is important to hear it.
Huh hats not it at all. Just because it doesn't affect you emotionally any more doesn't mean your logical assessment of the criticism isn't there anymore.
Mwara Kung'u being immune to criticism just means criticism won't act like a virus in your body, it doesn't not mean you become deaf. you can hear criticism and think about it, and not take it personal. oh yeah, there's already a term for that, it's constructive criticism
i don't think he was trying to say to ignore cause he did say he took criticism well i think he was trying to say stop letting negative comments interrupt you from doing great things because of the fear of failure comes from fear of people thoughts & comments on your life nothing is wrong w/ constructive criticism but you need to know the difference between that & plain old hate & not let people stop you from doing what you want if you fail you fail fuck people opinions become unfuckwithable bitch 🤘🏾
5:38 Extraordinary minds do not need to seek validation from outside opinion or through the attainment of goals.
Instead, they are truly at peace with themselves and the world around them. They live fearlessly immune to criticism or praise and fueled by their own inner happiness and self love.
Love this whole heartedly..going to put this up on my wall as a reminder and a goal of mine. 😍🙏💫👊 Thank you!!
This guy describes evidence that Spiritual principles like forgiveness and mindfulness change us biologically and make us more resilient.
That sneaky interruption at 34:45 was very skilful
That is Mindful
Eugene same
She was kinda asking for it
I thought I was the only one that noticed that lol
Eugene a
It is difficult to forgive when you have forgotten what to forgive. You just know the negativity is there.
accept the negativity and forgive yourself for being negative and self harming
If you couldn't be happy because you couldn't convince your mind that you weren't the problem and that you have to trick yourself to forgive to let go then i'd rather carry my scars around knowing that ill not put up with evilness and hostile people. In my mind they should not be ignored or forgiven just so you can feel happier about yourself. The existence of good versus evil will always be. You just need to be strong enough to take the punches and understand that in this world bad things happen and its not your fault so keep your head up high but you shouldn't need to forgive to move on. My 2 cents.
Anthony Nguyen Craaaaaawling in my skiiiiiin
So true. The minute you start worrying about what others think, you become weak.
When you said, "My book will piss you off if you're a Trump supporter," I decided to buy it.
because you're a Trump supporter?
+Jelek Gamboa
I'm saying - no. Because that promoted a desire for me to purchase the book as well.
I didn't vote for Trump either.
Trump 2016
Mary Hall brilliant. that's assuming all Trump supporters are the same. This kind of language and attitude is why the Democrats lost everything. its sad
hypocritical
claiming to celebrate diversity yet continuing to generalize and categorize and homogenized. I'm buying the book even though I support Trump because I've always liked Mindvalley and I'm going to let that stupid comment slide. Something a lot of people could benefit from. oh yah, wait, that's what this is all about.
If everyone is saying hey dude is a bigot and point out his actions. Is it everyone lying or are you blind to the truth?
I've learned to appreciate the contrast as well as the good times, as the contrast always leads me to what I want!
man you got to forgive that waiter you keep talking about it, that's the second video I watched and you keep bringing him up. lol
"Letting Go" - by David Hawkins. Everything I hear comes back to this book. Forgiveness is letting go...
Ted Bundy was also "unfuckwithable". This is how to be psychopathic 101
true lol...although Ted Bundy and any sociopaths were also completely lacking of any empathy, and therefore unable to forgive.
Kaylee Marie Claire
I am mature in age, but learning this is empowering and you are never to old to learn. Thank you for this!!!
I'm surprised at the amount of negativity in this comment section. I think everyone is taking his message a tad too far. Forgiveness; letting go of the pain held for years or even decades can be liberating, but that doesn't mean you become gullible. If someone makes a mistake, you can forgive them for their error, but also take into account why they did that error and make a mental note if its something that can affect you again in the future. Feeling enough; be happy with what you have, but don't be full of yourself. Its better to use 1 thing at 100% instead of 2 things at 50%, and it also makes you happier because you're using the full potential of an object, situation or person. But thinking that you're perfect is just as damaging as excessive critique.
"I'm surprised at the amount of negativity in this comment section." Then fuck off.
wise words
This whole 'forgiveness' thing took off some while back when people were even being actively forced to forgive their abusers when they were kids. That's hard I would say. I believe any contrition by anyone having done something bad to anyone else should absolutely come first, then you get to decide. No free pass.
Just like "forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who have sinned against us" ... and this makes the burdens lighter. Straight out of the word of the Lord.
Awesome video!! You can achieve this without a computer, through meditation. Just like the monks did.
HI Melissa, like you comment, can you please let me know what type meditation you would be required to use
The type of meditation I do is similar to the one that Christie Marie Sheldon does. You can find her doing a clearing energy block session...thats the best way in my opinion!
visualization is key
Yeah, and those smart monks also came up with amazing beer making!!!
F Ps idk how this doesn't have more upvotes
I AM ENOUGH amazing three words. I was driving and in tears when I heard Marisa speak...life changer...I've always believed that when you love yourself you will attract people that respect and love you. Just saying I AM ENOUGH is my new mantra..
37:15 I love this lady! Something about her delivery and energy that I resonate with #Infinitely !
Her message to me was the most simple, the shortest in duration, but yet, the most POWERFUL! Wow~
This works, I've been bullied at home and at the office so this helps a lot
What a wonderful speaker he is! Thank you for your message kind sir! 🙏
People need to realise that not only are their possession not themselves; but that their "methods or approach", their knowledge, does not constitute their individuality -and through this accept their reality as ideal.
Once you get a rep for punching people. They stop fucking with you ;)
The part of forgiveness is what happened to me.
I had just went through a bad... Really bad breakup just before 2019 had ended. I was listening to Cathrine Ponder's Prosperity Lectures. I had did her part on forgiveness, but, I did it using mirror work. I said what she said in the mirror, bit I felt it and meant it. You know, she called me the next morning apologizing for everything. Then we actually had a little conversation. After the call I immediately went and looked in the mirror and thanked The Universe whole heartedly.
Wow! 😍 This was a beautiful video filled with wisdom and love. Thank you all so much ❤❤❤
You are amazing Vishen.
My vibration started to shift as soon as I started listening to this video although here you are talking about entirely a different subject.
Sending love to you and Christie.
Forgiving cures cancer
I thought that was weed......
I was being facetious, this dude talks like forgiving is the cure to everything.
No problem John, sarcasm is very difficult to display through text :)
This video changed my life. PERIOD. I will never be the same again. Thank you Mr. Kalhiani for making my life immeasurably better.
Being immune to what people say is also a characteristic of bullies and psychopaths
It's a trait that is worth copying from them.
By the way, bullies are NOT immune to what people say about them. They are very sensitive to that.
Mwara Kung'u psychopaths is extreme... I'd say narcissistic personality disorder instead,L. Just a bit more accurate
Bullies supress their hurt feelings and take it out on others... They are angry at the world cos hurt in their lives has caused them to have negitive beliefs about others and themselves
That's the thing. They *AREN'T* immune. Their nervous. Nervous people won't recognize them. Nervous they'll lose their self-worth. Nervous they'll become forgotten in society. If they weren't why would they threaten someone's life over the simplest of things like walking down the hallway?
Bullies don't have to come from highschool or on the street. They can actually be your own family members, too. My dad, my mom, my sister, my brother, almost everyone I've met has been a gawd damn bully to me. But remember don't prove yourself to them.
You don't have to prove them a damn thing. Let them wallow in their own self pity. They're not worth it. They're not worth your time. So they yell and scream. So do stray dogs and wild animals. Don't ever stoop to their level. And if they hit you...make sure they remember the pain.
Sorry to rant but I've dealt (and sorta still am) dealing with this shit. It's always people who do no wrong who get hurt for no reason. It's some fucking stupid shit. Fuck it. Fuck it all to hell.
you shouldn't make yourself immune to criticism or praise. being able to admit what you want to you're self is more important.
Bruce Lee was unfuckwithable 🙏
No he wasn't
This actually helped me out of my depression. I mean i could write so much more but you just need to discover it by yourself. Really i'm very criitycal to bullshit. But this isn't bullshit. Stay happy folks! And remember FORGIVE, BE PRESENT AND YOU'RE ENOUGH!!! So simple yet such effective rules to live by.
Just exactly what I needed to hear❤! Many thanks❤!
Alan watts teaches these methods and more. He's incredible. People are a reflection of there own environment and have no free will and so you should forgive them as it's not their fault. People keep wanting more and more without realising it's all for nothing : Your enough. Finally you should live life in the now as that's only the real place to be.
I really needed this. Thank you so much for sharing this!
This was F_ing Awesome. Reworking 50 years of "stuff" is difficult, but I really enjoyed this as I work to be UnFuckWithable...
um these are the bases of all religion ?
Except #IslamSucksBalls
joebonsaipoland no thats not true.
Quasimirco LP
It's impossible to prove that #IslamSucksBall is not true.
Exhibit INFINITY - latest OHIO Muslim attack on innocent Americans.
Innocent Americans??? the fact you call them Americans means they are part of a legal entity and military force that carry out atrocities across this world be careful what you seed it may grow into something you may not like especially when you F45KN fund it!!! NO Americans or any Nationality is Innocent PERIOD . if you are a SOL-Dier Citizen you have Duties and Obligations to your MASTER the STATE
***** #GFY #IslamSucskBalls and your comment just further proves that. #IslamSucksBalls QED
Removing judgments from the thing you need to forgive helps me. By saying this is just an experience we shared. Its not good or bad or just is and its over and its not happening right now. I try to live as much as I can in the now. When thoughts pop up that are painful this is what I remind myself of
So Awesome!!! ❤ Thank you for Sharing❤
Thank you Vishen, I'm beginning 2017 with Forgiveness, I am Enough and Being in the Present. What a wonderful year ahead. I loved to hear you recite ICE ICE BABY! Happy New Year!
beautiful man.
the atmosphere of calmness that a lot of the guest speakers brought to the stage seemed a little stagnant to me, but the main speaker helped push forward. I really appreciate this video because it shows me how I can advance my ability to help others explore their emotions.
150 years ago these guys were selling awesomeness potions off the back of a wagon
"Empathy is the highest form of learning" ... good forgiveness exercise
Very positive....
Bring enough people to speak and they start contradicting themselves. One says have empathy and feel what others feel and the other says do not absorb other people's stress. Anyway, the message is clear: Just deal with your past by forgiving, deal with your present by accepting yourself and thinking you are good enough.
Kid Cudi it was Kid Cudi who made it popular. Your welcome
Allister Tenpenny I got it from Scarface
you're right! I love his song unfuckwitable!
Vishen, truly progressive thinking! And superb rappin'!
Lord Voldemort must have been here.
How dare you say his name
He forgave him
Great, now you've attracted some 37 Death Eaters
Hope thats enough
Makes sense, Voldemort never felt enough.
Thank you so Much i cried when u talked about forgiveness and i knew i should forgive m'y mom et Then i dont know Why i tought about m'y father and i cried again but the emotion was stronger ! Then i cried again when marisa talked so i décided to write "I AM ENOUGH " at the wall on front of my bed ans also in the kitchen. Wow thank you vishen so much !!!
handing out makeup that says "I am enough" that's ironic.
The point of the lipstick is to use it to write, '''I am enough'''. As was stated several times before, even men used the lipstick. You are correct, but you did not need to point it out, as the irony is intentional and built into the design.
I dont see why its ironic. Color uplifts and painting the lips or body is not a bad thing. Its been done thousands of years. Excessive make up is not a good thing but enhancing the face or body is part of the human experience. All cultures have done it in one form or another.
This is so weird. I prayed one morning to be more than enough. That very day I was traveling to an appointment, And I saw a bill board for a radio station that said "You are enough". I was blown away. I had traveled this route so many times and never seen this billboard. The billboard was old and weathered so I knew it was there for a long time but I'd never noticed it. This message keeps coming at me from different sources.
Absolutely brilliant. Thank you Mind Valley. Thank you Vishen and all the Spiritual teachers.
so basically be goku?
Love is unconditional, and we all know that but we don't apply it to ourselves. Love yourself regardless of everything.
Wouldn't "Unflappable" work just as well?
I was thinking the exact same thing. Using the term he did just lowers the impact, makes it seem more low-brow. It also makes the message less accessible to groups like young kids that otherwise could benefit from the message. Really not liking this trend of using curse words in everything we say and do these days.
+Anthony D what a hateful comment reminiscent of those low-class people I was referring to. The fact that I could teach this to my child is not the point. They are not my thoughts. It has more impact of it comes from the source and as I said, it is less impactful and less accessible to other groups. It just plain sounds trashy. And lo and behold instead of arguing a point in a civilized manner, I get trolled by a foul-mouthed jackal of a follower. I rest my case.
Some people swear. Some people get offended. We all are who we are.
+Anthony D yes, that is true. But from a capitalistic [read: greed] perspective, it doesn't make sense as a business model to limit your audience by choosing such a stupid curse word to be the center of your otherwise very good message. In general, the iq of our country is falling and things like this cropping up in academia are prime examples. It's also indicative of the decline of civil discourse. Just disheartening all around. I would have shared this video with my colleagues but since many of them work with parents and children it would not be appropriate.
***** Trash-talking filth. You people don't realize you are making my point crystal clear with your teeny tiny minds and your teeny tiny members to go along. Trashy. Trashy. Trash.
Watching this again in 2020, thinking about how much this mindset sound like a certain group of people...
Unfuckwittable - Kid Cudi is where it can from :P
Jay Electronica
Am I the only one who was like: “No! It’s ‘Turn off the lights, and I’ll glow.’l
He still messed up the Ice Ice Baby lyrics. lol
I just bought your book the code of the extraordinary mind. I can't wait to read it! Thank you for your videos😍
Take out the "with", and I could teach the class.
Crackhouts 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nice! 😂👍
Thank you all so very much!!! Please keep up the good work! :-)
Hey somebody tell what the 3 are, please?
1. Don't be lazy
2. Don't click on something and expect people to do the work for you
3. watch the video
Heart of Gold forgive. you are enough. be present. heal your past present and future. be immune to criticism.
AHI lol
hahaha,nice
1. fuck bitches
2. get money
3. repeat
Hi I love you video, thank you so much! I just feel I need to say something, because mr. Dave Asprey still breathes in stress, high up his chest. So hearing that he was born almost suffocating, it made absolute sense! It would be great for him to learn to breathe from the belly. Hope you can receive this with love!
Love & light
can anyone sum up this video
Devin Haueter shit
Forgive everyone, agree that you are enough, and to be stress free
Forgive Really everyone ,,, Say and wright in your mirror and walls ''I'm Enough'' ,,, Take deep breath with open eyes and focus on things in front of you when you feel stressed/angry/hasty.
Pseudoscientific nonsense used to convey a really simple, practical message: Forgive and Forget
Devin Haueter Yeah listen to it and come up with your own opinion instead of asking for someone to short hand information for your lazy ass because your unable to attempt to comprehend information.
What I understood from this session was simply, our body searches cause to deteriorate & get it closer to death instead of living joyfully & peacefully
Ok...I'm subscribing because anybody brave enough to rap to a VANILLA ICE song...LOLOLOLOL!
Sorry to laugh...but you rapped better than he did!
Unf***withable isnow one of my new fave words - I love it!!
I forgive you for wasting 43 minutes of my life.
Idk why he brought up trump supporters, I am voting for him and I still like some of the ideas here. : /
I forgive you for voting Trump.
I forgive all Trump supporters.
And now I imagine I am hugging them.
Better than voting for Hillary.
Hostile Hero soooo hard though... Lol
Teach your children and grandchildren this, so they can forgive you voting for Hillary.
I am amazed by results , i was unable to forgive my ex-gf and had pathetic time, now after watching you forgiven her, immidiate change happened was i am able to pick more weights in gym now, strange but true
your words or priceless and you are giving something that could change ones life entirely!! 🖤 love from India💙💛
Since authority is the largest bully (most capitulate to authority) the three things needed are:
1) Own no cell phone
2) Own no internet connection.
3) Hide your income from your federal government. This last deserves about 100 paragraphs of instruction. It helps to do it with a lawyer (not an accountant)
I watched these videos and now I'm my own boss!!!!!
"Words are like bullets, and I let them pass straight through me."
- Southpark
OMG!!! IAM TRULY THNKFUL FOR EVERY SINGLE VIDEO N INFORMATION I HAVE RECIEVED THRU MINDVALLEY, RUclips. I AM FOREVER CHANGED THRU MY METAMORPHOSIS!!! THIS IS FIRE!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💞💞💞💞💞🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪💪👑👑👑👑✌✌✌✌
But don't forget... you can't touch this.. this dude is funny...I love him! ❤️
I don't think money talent and beauty is enough we want love!!
Enlightening presentation.
One observation, the quote by Bill Bullard was opinion knowledge:
Opinion is really the lowest form of human knowledge. It requires no accountability, no understanding. The highest form of knowledge is empathy, for it requires us to suspend our egos and live in another’s world. It requires profound purpose larger than the self kind of understanding.
- Bill Bullard
Amazing video! Thanks for the info. Cheers mates!
I'm your fan. Always Thanks a lot~~~! I will meet you someday~:)