Stuck in Small Talk? Try These Communication Techniques to Win them Over | Matt Abrahams
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- Опубликовано: 29 май 2024
- In this episode, Matt Abrahams shares his expertise in communication and how to speak successfully when put on the spot. Matt is a leading expert in communication with decades of experience as an educator, author, podcast host, and coach. As a Lecturer in Organizational Behavior at Stanford University’s Graduate School of Business, he teaches popular classes in strategic communication and effective virtual presenting. He has also helped countless presenters improve their communication skills, including those delivering IPO road shows and TED talks.
During our conversation, we delve into the power of spontaneous communication and how it can enhance our creativity and ability to convey ideas. Matt emphasizes the importance of mindset, managing anxiety, and being present in the moment. We explore the key ingredients of charisma and how they can be learned and practiced. Matt also shares practical strategies for structuring our messages and making them relevant and engaging.
Some highlights we explore:
- The impact of anxiety on spontaneous speaking
- The mindset shift from seeing communication as a threat to an opportunity
- The importance of listening and being present in conversations
- The role of structure in delivering effective messages
Tune in to this episode to learn actionable techniques for thinking faster and talking smarter in any spontaneous speaking situation. Get ready to boost your communication skills and confidently convey your ideas in the moment.
Enjoy!
00:00 Unlocking the Power of Spontaneous Communication
00:37 Welcoming Matt: A Deep Dive into Effective Communication
05:38 The Essence of Charisma and Communication Skills
11:20 Mastering Anxiety and Enhancing Focus in Communication
28:11 The Art of Small Talk: Navigating Social Interactions
32:52 Navigating Deep Personal Disclosures in Social Settings
34:25 The Art of Mutual Disclosure and Conversation Dynamics
35:43 Mastering Small Talk: Supporting vs. Shifting Responses
37:25 Improvisation and Structure in Social Interactions
38:22 Effortless Brilliance and Preparing for Public Speaking
39:15 Crafting the Perfect Toast: A Step-by-Step Guide
44:32 Communication Skills for Personal and Professional Growth
55:45 Creative Processes and the Impact of Communication
ABOUT MATT ABRAHAMS:
Matt Abrahams is a leading expert in communication with decades of experience as an educator, author, podcast host, and coach. He is a Lecturer in Organizational Behavior at Stanford University’s Graduate School of Business and teaches popular classes in strategic communication and effective virtual presenting. Matt is also a sought-after keynote speaker and communication consultant, having helped numerous presenters improve their communication skills. He is the author of "Think Faster, Talk Smarter: How to Speak Successfully When You’re Put on the Spot" and "Speaking Up without Freaking Out: 50 Techniques for Confident and Compelling Presenting."
ABOUT Think Faster, Talk Smarter:
"Think Faster, Talk Smarter: How to Speak Successfully When You’re Put on the Spot" by Matt Abrahams provides actionable skills for successful spontaneous speaking. The book argues that thinking faster and talking smarter can be learned through preparation and practice. It provides strategies for managing anxiety, responding to different moods, and communicating in concise and compelling ways. It covers various real-life scenarios and emphasizes the importance of conveying one's true personality and thoughts in the moment.
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Insightful. I think the video contains more than Small talk like how to make a Toast, how to demonstrate emotional intelligence, and communication structures, to mention but a few. Thank you.
True true!
This interview is single-handedly helping my children’s report cards! (Here in Italy they do a LOT of “talk to me about …” for exams, starting in grade 2!!
Love that!
It was a great podcast with Matt, it is such high-quality frameworks, and ideas that helped and will help me soon for my career growth. Thanks, Chase Jarvis for this gem.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I love it
Great interview
I even got tips for a Waiting speech👌
I'm Thirsty of a good and healthy conversation. Thanks God l found you. English is not my first language, but l love to speak in English.
My dream is to live in a neighborhood where people speak English only...l love the snow in Christmas. I was born in D.R. l would love to return to school, but sometimes lm afraid of loans long term.
Thanks you for giving me the ideas to settle a good conversation...GOING ON A SMALL TALK. Thanks be to God that l work in a place where they speak in sometimes.
I'm thinking to move up north Florida maybe there l find more English speakers.
I love your accent 😍 Blessings 🙌
Great insight. Great conversation. Thank you for this. Some real nuggets there.❤
Agree! I love the frameworks, so helpful
Carisma is also related to attitude in my openion
Thank you from Colombia. Good video
Good job Ed!!!
I'D LIKE TO WATCH THIS VIDEO BUT I HAVE NO IDEA THE LENGTH OF IT AND I'M SHORT OF TIME
Really revealing!!! I feel comfi more aftr a unplanned speach than a planned one.. If i try to remmbr smthing during speach i feel diffident..
Thanks a lot fr those structures.. I connect ideas through eg of progressive evolving of ideas.. But this is better ways giving foothold into the topic.. 👍🏼👍🏼
Superb how come so less viewers of this so insightful conversation. Love from Nepal
A hidden gem for sure. Glad you were able to find it.
THANKS CHASE, subscibed, appreciate the guest as well, THANKS MATT
Appreciate it! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Watchin learnin May 23, 2024 ❤🎉
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Excellent video! I used to be confident with my public speaking abilities, following what , now what , so what structure. But recently I am losing confidence in my ability to speak in front of people, then I become self conscious and withdraw. How do you overcome this setback?
Matt talks a bit about this in the show. Start around 7:43. He gets into some ways to manage symptoms of speaking anxiety starting around 13:41. Also, if you're really interested in overcoming it, you might want to check out his book on the topic "Speaking Up without Freaking Out" Hope that helps!
Where is the podcast? Is it his RUclips channel?
This is the full episode. If you want the audio version, you can find it here: chasejarvis.lnk.to/MattAbrahams
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Good interview but I turned playback speed to 1.5
All good my friend. Do what you gotta do. 👍🏼👍🏼