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  • Опубликовано: 19 янв 2025

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  • @noemi5861
    @noemi5861 2 года назад +4486

    when the producer asked “and what ab her?” (talking ab the date) i died a little inside.. why would u put someone in such an awkward spot

    • @fernandasanchez8763
      @fernandasanchez8763 2 года назад +327

      I agree. Production fucked up on this one.

    • @artsyb9437
      @artsyb9437 2 года назад +53

      It was a question. They are literally doing a video for Cut. His response was very hesitant almost as if he wouldn’t be spending more time with her in the box.

    • @heidic0355
      @heidic0355 2 года назад +5

      Same I was ommgg😭😭😭

    • @bunklypeppz
      @bunklypeppz 2 года назад +39

      @@artsyb9437 Of course he hesitated to respond. They already sort of established that all three would be going on the date after the producer pulled the "what do you mean 'we'?" move when Gebilet asked what they would do on a date. So when he was asked about taking Gebilet on a date, he could have been pausing because he was processing why that question would be asked after they had already planned to go on a date with all three of them. I think it's probably the case that Lu was more into Sophie, but he at least deserves the benefit of the doubt on that moment, because the producer was definitely trying to make things awkward.

    • @KaylaaaRenee
      @KaylaaaRenee 2 года назад +7

      @@fernandasanchez8763 ik that’s ya opinion but personally I didn’t see it like that I think it was bc he said it where he didn’t even wanna include her and the producer just simply asked a question to make her feel included

  • @uchihaavenger2068
    @uchihaavenger2068 2 года назад +6045

    The chemistry literally went from 100 to 0 instantly.

    • @scxxt3r_
      @scxxt3r_ 2 года назад +233

      Fr, I could tell the difference when Gebilet left, I love those 2 girls chemistry

    • @oranjebeer6637
      @oranjebeer6637 Год назад +1

      @@scxxt3r_yes

    • @johnlee4636
      @johnlee4636 Год назад +85

      This goddamn producer is to blame

    • @juanvasquez6535
      @juanvasquez6535 Год назад +6

      Shorter Lu "It doesn't matter what your name is!"

    • @appa609
      @appa609 Год назад +3

      Joe Rogan

  • @ComedyGlor
    @ComedyGlor 2 года назад +5578

    wow when Lu asked Gebilet on a pity date and she straight up said "no i deserve better" that was fucking amazing. Like i don't think i would've had the confidence to do that, but after watching this video maybe i will now. Thanks Gebilet

    • @bloodah7300
      @bloodah7300 2 года назад +172

      he didnt want to ask her out so that "rejectetion" meant absolutely nothing to him. also the director forced him to ask her out.

    • @dapo3538
      @dapo3538 2 года назад +229

      I don’t think the director should have prompted a date between Lu and Sophie or revealed to Gebilet that they were going on a date because it obviously made her feel left out. The whole concept of 3 people trapped in a box who are all monogamous makes no sense. Imo, the director was trying to start drama for content.

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor 2 года назад +6

      @@dapo3538 yh most likely 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @ChooseLove1979
      @ChooseLove1979 2 года назад +6

      @@bloodah7300 explain why he look so shocked and hurt then? 😂

    • @SlanderKing445
      @SlanderKing445 2 года назад +8

      @@ComedyGlor why u getting so pressed 💀

  • @brej2002
    @brej2002 2 года назад +16040

    Wow this went from so well to so awkward. I thought that the two girls had more chemistry from the jump. I hope they reconnect in the future because they were so complimentary and understanding towards each other.

    • @ff2154
      @ff2154 2 года назад +111

      I thought so two.

    • @juanmacias5922
      @juanmacias5922 2 года назад +213

      Hopefully they can go on a normal date on their own. >..

    • @femmechatnoir863
      @femmechatnoir863 2 года назад +301

      Right that dude was full of himself and had so many red flags. Very disappointed with the women.

    • @mmarceline3
      @mmarceline3 2 года назад +11

      i hope so too

    • @JohnDoe-kb3nm
      @JohnDoe-kb3nm 2 года назад +101

      Lmao just because she called out the name thing you think they have a connection? I think none of these people had a connection just lust for each other. I feel bad for the African girl though she actually seemed like a good girl. The dudes an idiot for choosing the other girl over her💀

  • @Dymsx86
    @Dymsx86 2 года назад +7666

    I knew this wasn't going to go well, but I did not expect what happened with Gebilet. She's so beautiful and is 100% correct that she deserves better. If a situation isn't serving you, get out asap. I am glad she trusted her intuition and left.

    • @kaylapayton5547
      @kaylapayton5547 2 года назад +167

      To me it takes courage itself to go wit your intuition!! Was still crazy to see how this video took a big turn but was prolly for the best

    • @oooladip
      @oooladip 2 года назад +60

      so true. There were clear signs at the beginning that this wouldn't go well.

    • @Chrisbx17
      @Chrisbx17 2 года назад +106

      But all that happened to her was she got embarrassed cuz she got rejected, and it was not the guys fault, he got put on the spot by the camera guy

    • @angeloduartebrito9336
      @angeloduartebrito9336 2 года назад +47

      @@Chrisbx17 i think was a bit is fault lk u going on a date whit 2 persons and u ask just 1 for a second date……come on

    • @angeloduartebrito9336
      @angeloduartebrito9336 2 года назад +15

      I really though this would go well but then things start to go left i think thoses 2 girls are too good for him !

  • @jacobhenderson3278
    @jacobhenderson3278 Год назад +965

    Gebilet was actually the life of the party. Without her, the atmosphere crushed. She absolutely deserved better than them

    • @Mazygolucky
      @Mazygolucky Год назад +60

      I agree but I also don’t think Sophie did anything to push her away. I think those two had more chemistry than Lu did with either of them. I wish the two of them got more time to talk.

    • @Stayler17
      @Stayler17 Год назад +10

      lol what? None of them did anything wrong

    • @jacobhenderson3278
      @jacobhenderson3278 Год назад +8

      @Stayler17 I agree, and Gebilet just deserved more than them. They just didn't really accept her. It would be better if she was with someone who does.

  • @ndjjiekkskkejjr
    @ndjjiekkskkejjr 2 года назад +11885

    I really hate when people don’t ask what name they prefer. Sophie was so nice for that. People don’t realize how empowering and nice it is when people learn how to pronounce “foreign” names.

    • @hugoprice44
      @hugoprice44 2 года назад +424

      Very true, in my opinion it’s lazy and kind of disrespectful to not even attempt to call someone by their actual name just because it may be a little harder to pronounce.

    • @JerseyAccent653
      @JerseyAccent653 2 года назад +59

      @@hugoprice44 Sometimes, if the name is too hard to pronounce, I'll avoid using their name altogether fearing I would be embarrassed if I got it wrong. Now that you have brought that to my attention, I will correct my behavior and try to make an effort to learn AND USE peoples names. Thank you.
      A question to someone with a harder name to pronounce: if ppl get offended by others not saying their name right (or not using it at all), why not just use a nick name? They're fun for everyone!

    • @ish9172
      @ish9172 2 года назад +122

      @@JerseyAccent653 not everyone prefers nicknames. when you ask someone to call you by a nickname, it's because you like it. Gebilet said that she didn't want to go by a nickname and that's perfectly fine. if you care enough, you'll be able to pronounce it right. i'm sure people can say my name without an accent if they put an effort into it, but I still introduce myself with the "no accent" version of my name because i don't think it's as important for new people to know. but i do tell close friends the right pronunciation. but Gabilet wants people to pronounce it right and shouldn't be expected to act like people like me and we should respect that. tbh her name isn't that hard to say

    • @smoothbeast
      @smoothbeast 2 года назад +15

      Agreed BUT I feel like he still gave her an open door to say she would rather be called by her name. He asked what she went by and asked if it was fine that he called her "Gibby" for the next 12 hrs.. You almost miss it because Sophie then jumped in and for whatever reason gave her the confidence to say she'd rather her name.

    • @ish9172
      @ish9172 2 года назад +47

      @@smoothbeast if we're getting specific he also asked what she went by. why did he assume that she had to go by a different name? might've meant it in a different way but we're analyzing lmao. that's not the main point tho. this is only one situation and i didn't answer in a way that concerned the vid very much. it was more about "harder" names overall

  • @ZenzoSezSo
    @ZenzoSezSo 2 года назад +6850

    It does feel like Cut was the catalyst behind the exchange that led to Gebilet leaving; asking Sophia to go on a bathroom break, asking Lu to explain again that he just asked Sophia out on a date, asking Lu "what about her?" which subtly prompted him to ask Gebilet out but in a way that felt like a pity ask. I think all this unnecessarily cast a spotlight on Gebilet being left out when that moment could've just passed without much fanfare and maybe the rejection wouldn't have felt so emphasised for Gebilet. I get that it makes for an interesting watch but it feels uncomfortable when it's at the expense of someone's real feelings.
    I'll add that this is all speculative since I have no idea how else this could have turned out if different actions were taken.
    Edit: For those saying it done was to make Gebilet aware of what happened when she was gone, Gebilet was already aware because at 9:16 all three of them had just spoken about Lu asking Sophia out. in this light, the producer nudging Sophia to go for a break and then prompting the topic again at 9:45 felt unnecessary.

    • @IsraelLlerena
      @IsraelLlerena 2 года назад +613

      Absolutely. The guy didn’t mean to single out Gebilet. All the guy basically said was he’d like to have a date that wasn’t inside a box. The producer took that as “so you just asked Sophie out?” The dude didn’t mean for it to come across like that imo. Just said he’d like to meet with them in general outside the box.

    • @sleepysapa9874
      @sleepysapa9874 2 года назад +177

      it was already uncomfortable with three ppl in the box, i think the producer just aired out wut was gunna be behind her back, cause why couldnt he just ask with all of them there? just made the misunderstanding worse

    • @mermer1045
      @mermer1045 2 года назад +134

      Seriously this channel can be so cut throat vs jubilee. I enjoy the content but big oof 😮‍💨

    • @parps_official
      @parps_official 2 года назад +12

      this!

    • @MoKiShea
      @MoKiShea 2 года назад +91

      If the producer hadn't made him tell her, I feel like the rest of the date could've maybe gone better for everyone without her knowing that they were planning on going on a date afterwards and getting her feelings hurt.

  • @amberbusse
    @amberbusse Год назад +510

    as soon as he said “alpha male” she knew lmaooooo

    • @GwenActually
      @GwenActually 7 месяцев назад +17

      yeah he seemed ok to me but as soon as that came out it's like oh no, then Joe Rogan? I'd have left like Gebilet lol

    • @ottelf
      @ottelf 2 месяца назад

      Wait he did omg noooo

  • @vanessaaac
    @vanessaaac 2 года назад +5300

    Super strange that the director dude kept asking them to go to the bathroom even if they didn’t need too. You could tell they were getting annoyed. And he definitely pushed the situation that made Gebilet feel the need to leave. I think it was especially rude for him to say “wait, who’s going on the date?” and snicker afterwards as if he was making fun of Gebilet for thinking she was part of the date too. Even with all the other things he said, if he had never said that, the 3 of them could have had a much more natural conversation without anyones feelings getting hurt.
    I hope Gebilet is okay! Both ladies were super nice, smart and beautiful!

    • @deeplydeeplydope1111
      @deeplydeeplydope1111 2 года назад +292

      Definitely! The interviewer is shady & walked them into this scenario. I've unsubscribed

    • @AP-pk6mk
      @AP-pk6mk 2 года назад +214

      The interviewer sabotaged it

    • @EduardoTyrannyth
      @EduardoTyrannyth 2 года назад +94

      @@AP-pk6mk I felt the same. To much intervention

    • @rendered33
      @rendered33 2 года назад +21

      It brought you content didn’t it?

    • @kaiaswrld
      @kaiaswrld 2 года назад +47

      To be fair it was over a 12 hour period and they probably only asked once an hour. And they seemed more annoyed with each other lmao

  • @brej2002
    @brej2002 2 года назад +8099

    When Sophie asked Gebilet how she preferred her name to be pronounced and Gebilet felt the confidence to say it 💕🥺❤️🥺

    • @costcopizza999
      @costcopizza999 2 года назад +90

      Who tf doesn't have the confidence to say their own name?

    • @dbunny412
      @dbunny412 2 года назад +363

      @@costcopizza999 a lot of people don't have the confidence to speak up when people either mispronounced their name or choose not to pronounce their full name. It's definitely a thing.

    • @princessfaust
      @princessfaust 2 года назад +17

      that was such an eyeroll

    • @callhard
      @callhard 2 года назад +11

      @@costcopizza999 lmaoo nigga u got me laughing 😂😂😂

    • @hannahmiller5619
      @hannahmiller5619 2 года назад +7

      @@costcopizza999 softies

  • @CharlieMouton...
    @CharlieMouton... 2 года назад +1995

    Here's a message to Gebilet: you stayed true to yourself and you seem lovely, don't feel guilty or ashamed and you're right you absolutely do deserve better. Have a great day :)

    • @heittomerkki
      @heittomerkki 2 года назад +4

      she doesn't deserve anything better?

    • @KaylaTheKindOne
      @KaylaTheKindOne Год назад +16

      @@heittomerkki yes she does tf

    • @oranjebeer6637
      @oranjebeer6637 Год назад +4

      @@heittomerkkiwtf

    • @Narra0002
      @Narra0002 Год назад +1

      I agree. He didn’t like her, but if he did, he should have said that

  • @yesterdaydream
    @yesterdaydream 2 года назад +9817

    PLEASE reunite Sophie and Gebilet. Even if only for a spill sesh about how much worse it got when she left🤣

    • @P_Rex66
      @P_Rex66 2 года назад +210

      1000% all for that. They need a date. they need to connect.

    • @akshay9409
      @akshay9409 2 года назад +37

      @@P_Rex66 EXACTLY!!!!!!.... I was thinking the same

    • @laine8932
      @laine8932 2 года назад +87

      Yes please because it was so weird when she left😅

    • @zambezijack
      @zambezijack 2 года назад +5

      Yes

    • @Maguire708Julie
      @Maguire708Julie 2 года назад +8

      Absolutely! They deserve a chance!

  • @demidesiree1486
    @demidesiree1486 2 года назад +3316

    i think it was the “host” whatever you call the person from cut in this, really put gebilet on the spot by making lu & sophie say they were going on a date without her.
    i get this is entertainment but there’s a reason lu said it once gebilet went on a bathroom break...
    she likely would have naturally picked up on the vibe without the host forcing the situation. and had she stayed it would have been super uncomfortable knowing they’re on a date with 2 people that only want each other. :/

    • @h.sowandegray2913
      @h.sowandegray2913 2 года назад +146

      Use this same logic with their video series "The Button" , the producers have very little game. Their questions don't help the contestants at all and it steers them down a black hole.

    • @Charles57912
      @Charles57912 2 года назад +146

      Honestly tho he really sabotaged everything

    • @francoherrera601
      @francoherrera601 2 года назад +37

      It's to stir up drama which works for entertainment I guess

    • @ccardoso92
      @ccardoso92 2 года назад +5

      100%

    • @_callmeebee_
      @_callmeebee_ 2 года назад +35

      I wonder if it was more so to prompt honesty and openness within the dynamic. And to show those kinds of conversations to others. At least I hope it was…instead of trying to stir up drama.

  • @JemimaKline
    @JemimaKline Год назад +516

    Let’s be honest, Gebilet was the real winner here. She was soo adorable and bubbly 🤩 Absolutely loved her xoxo

  • @canb1648
    @canb1648 2 года назад +2987

    This was VERY interesting to watch how energy and interests shifted after initial attraction took a backseat as the date continued! Compatibility >>> physical attraction. Also, Gebilet deserves BETTER!

    • @hellobecky84
      @hellobecky84 2 года назад +4

      Yes, spot on to all of these observations!

    • @reddabrigety5687
      @reddabrigety5687 2 года назад +2

      I don’t feel like there was anything other than the name thing that was bad at all, of course he was gonna be more attracted to one than the other

  • @randomsauce6277
    @randomsauce6277 2 года назад +3008

    Gebilet lit up the room instantly, and she just sparkled with that good energy. After the fist interaction about the name thing, I knew something was off about that man. And when the process followed he only really turned to Sophie, I could see what was going on & already feared the outcome:(

    • @ilhuicatlamatini
      @ilhuicatlamatini 2 года назад +13

      Completely agree!

    • @Realcordy
      @Realcordy 2 года назад +2

      Wtf

    • @Realcordy
      @Realcordy 2 года назад +24

      What’s off with him asking Sophia out Lmao 🤣

    • @purpleaxxe
      @purpleaxxe 2 года назад +83

      @@Realcordy The timing. It was barely at the midpoint of the 12 hours on their first meeting, and it was based solely on attraction. From the jump he favored Sophia, and he never attempted to focus on the ladies equally. That's fine for entertainment purposes or if all parties are just trying to hook up. Dating and relationships, not so much. He also lacked the tact to wait until the end of the experiment to ask her on the date. He basically jumped the gun. I personally think it reflects on his character and maturity.

    • @MrPanggs
      @MrPanggs 2 года назад +16

      @@purpleaxxe So you think that waiting 12 hours instead of 7 to ask someone out (with whom you've been in a small box with all this time) would allow him to see past seeing Sophia "Solely on attraction"? Also he said he wouldn't be against seeing her outside of the box. The producer is the one who butted in and said "so are you asking her on a date?"

  • @ellisdyke5114
    @ellisdyke5114 2 года назад +2183

    the women should have gotten together. they had SUCH good chemistry

    • @scxxt3r_
      @scxxt3r_ 2 года назад +14

      LITERALLY

    • @Wooweemama
      @Wooweemama 2 года назад +24

      She didn’t like Sophie it seemed like

    • @diegovidal1172
      @diegovidal1172 Год назад +45

      i dont think there was any chemistry, i think it was One being awkwardly nice to the other.

    • @brockkent8576
      @brockkent8576 Год назад +1

      @@Wooweemama yeah I agree

    • @kmk900___
      @kmk900___ Год назад +5

      your last name rings a bell

  • @babycakes45ify
    @babycakes45ify 2 года назад +836

    Okay but Sophie saying “at least us” was kinda awkward too cause you could’ve been like “yeah! Let’s all go and hang out” but that just further excluded the other girl and validated her feelings.

    • @sunnc
      @sunnc 2 года назад +41

      yeah I felt the same

    • @rosa_stars349
      @rosa_stars349 2 года назад +5

      yea

    • @suplosers3615
      @suplosers3615 2 года назад +24

      Yeah it was so rude

    • @crazguykwan8955
      @crazguykwan8955 2 года назад +100

      Everyone was solely blaming the guy but yea, she contributed to gibliet's feeling of rejection. It's not a lie, what Sophia said, but that does put up a barrier

    • @nolan_8
      @nolan_8 2 года назад +21

      Yeah, you could see it in her face :(
      The producers definitely started it, but they have a show to make I guess

  • @stephanutterbutter3.14appl4
    @stephanutterbutter3.14appl4 2 года назад +4983

    Wow the producers are completely responsible for creating that issue. Bring the women back! They had SUCH good chemistry!!

    • @houseoffoxx4878
      @houseoffoxx4878 2 года назад +94

      It’s a Social Experience! Why come at the producers for what you already know the channel is

    • @cloppin
      @cloppin 2 года назад +11

      @@houseoffoxx4878 because

    • @melanindonnaricca9645
      @melanindonnaricca9645 2 года назад +7

      There clearly was no chemistry if he chose Sophia over Gebilit.

    • @averygrace5744
      @averygrace5744 2 года назад +72

      @@melanindonnaricca9645 they meant the women had chemistry with each other 👩‍❤️‍👩

    • @pressplay6092
      @pressplay6092 2 года назад

      @@houseoffoxx4878 the “experiment” is automatically void once you interfere with it. They should’ve let things just flow

  • @plannedandplanted
    @plannedandplanted 2 года назад +1519

    I went to school with Gebilet and have been friends with her for a long time. PEOPLE HAVE BEEN GIVING HER NICKNAMES WITHOUT HER CONSENT FOR HER WHOLE LIFE! Deeming her name is too unusual or hard to pronounce so they shorten it for their own convenience, or Americanizing it. I was guilty of it as well. But I’m so thankful Sophie spoke up and didn’t let Lu call her a name she didn’t prefer.
    And when she said “no thanks, I deserve better”….. absolute mic drop

    • @Wooweemama
      @Wooweemama 2 года назад +19

      How is she doing? 😊

    • @vincentmoss6845
      @vincentmoss6845 2 года назад +12

      Shows you skipped the part where he asked does anyone calls you by nickname and she was she’ll shocked to speak on it tho

    • @plannedandplanted
      @plannedandplanted 2 года назад +53

      @@vincentmoss6845 He asked what she goes by (assuming she doesn’t just go by Gebilet - there’s a good chance he wouldn’t have asked that if it were a more common name), then cuts back in and TELLS her what he’s going to call her before she has a chance to reply 🙄

    • @prada_brandzz
      @prada_brandzz 2 года назад +10

      @@plannedandplanted He literally asked FOR HER NAME ur just tryna cause problems

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor 2 года назад +36

      @@prada_brandzz and then he proceeded to say he's not calling her that

  • @YazzyPazzyJazzy
    @YazzyPazzyJazzy 2 года назад +1258

    Gebilet made such a good choice, you should leave a situation if it makes you uncomfortable, very healthy thing to do that i think more people would benefit from, you dont have to feel pressured to stay in a social situation if youre no longer feeling good about it

    • @Angelina-pi2cc
      @Angelina-pi2cc 2 года назад +5

      She was totally pretending she was cool with everything, weird to be so fake

    • @vanessaaac
      @vanessaaac 2 года назад +41

      I don’t think Gebilet was pretending she was cool with it and being fake. You can be genuinely happy for someone else while still having your own feelings hurt.
      I personally wish she had more confidence in herself to stay and maybe talk with Sophie more. But at the same time, I respect her decision to leave and do what was best for her!

    • @Angelina-pi2cc
      @Angelina-pi2cc 2 года назад

      @@vanessaaac yea good point that guy was really rude tho and she said she was a "personality" girl and that dude was not it in the personality department , like who cares? She got really weird trying to entice him about her over share of having threesomes and Sophie looked all weirded out that Gebilet was being so sexually forward and then she still didn't get picked😬

    • @vanessaaac
      @vanessaaac 2 года назад +5

      @@Angelina-pi2cc I definitely think the dude was a bit off and a bit rude (definitely not the type of personality I like) but I personally didn’t get the feeling that Gebilet was being too sexually forward and weird

    • @Angelina-pi2cc
      @Angelina-pi2cc 2 года назад

      @@vanessaaac yea I personally think that talking about intimate sexual experiences with a complete stranger guy to attempt to turn him on comes off kinda pathetic and obviously ineffective/ way too thirsty

  • @agathequenard49
    @agathequenard49 2 года назад +5973

    This was truly a rollercoaster... Hope Gebilet won’t feel too bad about the experience: I thought she was super fun (and she dodged a bullet). She and Sophie should meet up they both seemed to have fun together and I feel like they’d be great friends (or more depending how it goes) !

    • @JonJacks
      @JonJacks 2 года назад +54

      Curious, why do you feel she dodged a bullet?

    • @juanmacias5922
      @juanmacias5922 2 года назад +171

      Wow, just wow, first half I was like what an awesome date, and as soon as Gebilet left, it all went down hill! D: I guess her, and Sophie were the ones actually keeping the date alive in the beginning?

    • @kashivk5111
      @kashivk5111 2 года назад +119

      I was confused why you said she dodged a bullet then he said he liked joe rogan I fully understand now.

    • @kill3008
      @kill3008 2 года назад +67

      @@JonJacks alpha male podcasts

    • @kelvinopara7297
      @kelvinopara7297 2 года назад +2

      @@juanmacias5922 no they weren’t Sophie is just way more into women than men. And gib needed the guy to show more interest in her, which I can get. But I wouldn’t give the credit of the date going well only to those two. Because Sophie’s negative bias toward men was triggered the second gib left because of him. She literally said she doesn’t value what “men say”. He’s the one who dodged a bullet. Sophie sucks, no cap. And if she was a man and genders were swapped. She would be a gay sexist man.

  • @avapuccini45
    @avapuccini45 2 года назад +795

    when Gebilet left it had the same vibe as your favorite character dying on a show, and yes you do deserve better than him. The gut and other girl were so awkward, he made it awkward to be clear. The two women on this had 10x the amount of chemistry than that sahara desert of a man.

    • @EyeRage1398
      @EyeRage1398 2 года назад

      he seemed chill? he was promted to speak on the dates, even his initial date request. sounds like you have a thing against men to me. Whats up with calling him "the gut" andwhat does "sahara desert of a man mean"? since youre into name calling, you seem like a c$nt.

    • @BlueGamerCast
      @BlueGamerCast 2 года назад

      L lesbian

    • @Paulo14_45
      @Paulo14_45 2 года назад +19

      Women.🍷🗿

    • @hhour2096
      @hhour2096 2 года назад +11

      How did he make it awkward?

    • @hhour2096
      @hhour2096 2 года назад +16

      He was just being himself. He seemed nice and chill

  • @kaylapayton5547
    @kaylapayton5547 2 года назад +3332

    Gebilet has so much energy I hated to see her go :( her personality was everything

    • @gianludadude
      @gianludadude 2 года назад +46

      You're conflating energy with putting on a facade.

    • @EVAlution27
      @EVAlution27 2 года назад +30

      @@gianludadude ngl i felt that like something was off

    • @gianludadude
      @gianludadude 2 года назад +32

      @@EVAlution27 My interpretation is that the girls were having fun competing for the guy,. As soon as he showed a preference for Sophie, and Gebilet (who could not handle the "rejection") bailed, the dynamics change dramatically.

    • @corrupt8120
      @corrupt8120 2 года назад +94

      @@gianludadude For me it seemed like Gebilet was way more interested in Sophie, and so when they told Gebilet about the guy asking Sophie on a date, she just got emotional and left.

    • @kaylapayton5547
      @kaylapayton5547 2 года назад +5

      @@gianludadude yeah I see ur vision, I just wish she didn’t leave so we could’ve saw how it all played out, all I’m saying is this definitely took a turn I didn’t see coming

  • @RandumTeam
    @RandumTeam 2 года назад +473

    “Yeah we can hang out” me knowing damn well they’re never going to see each other again after this

    • @NahNo-xy2kq
      @NahNo-xy2kq 2 года назад +8

      And for good reason

    • @invincibleGabe77
      @invincibleGabe77 2 года назад +2

      bro sophie is my sister i can tell you she is not dating either of them for sure

    • @uwugrl
      @uwugrl 2 года назад +1

      @@invincibleGabe77 why not gebilet?

    • @xyzabc6626
      @xyzabc6626 2 года назад

      @@invincibleGabe77 your sister is a freak.

  • @ilovekene9697
    @ilovekene9697 Год назад +228

    I loveeeeee Gebilet’s energy. It’s always the awesome people getting ostracised.

  • @amberlilyy
    @amberlilyy 2 года назад +844

    Wasn't expecting that shift in energy, but good for Gebilet for knowing her worth and removing herself from the situation. I've been in a similar one (obviously not the same setting) but I wish I'd stood up for myself like her.

  • @emmalinegeldhof4225
    @emmalinegeldhof4225 2 года назад +711

    As soon as he decided he was going to call her Gibby with no further discussion until Sophie actually asked for her preference I knew this guy wasn’t it. The women had so much better chemistry. I mean ‘alpha-male’? What are you a dog?? I never understood the obsession with abo dynamics in men. I’m glad they both dumped him

    • @emmagination444
      @emmagination444 2 года назад +48

      Seriously! Red flag! Self centered & lack of empathy & awareness to others

    • @dumbbuilds1751
      @dumbbuilds1751 2 года назад +6

      @@emmagination444 You got all that from a few minutes of watching. Isnt that a bit judgy mate?

    • @dcal1452
      @dcal1452 2 года назад +9

      He was lame but she was too. I never understood why someone cares so much whether they voted or not. And if dude picked the "wrong" candidate, she would have scoffed at that as well.

    • @Savvy_Fandoms
      @Savvy_Fandoms 2 года назад +37

      @@dcal1452 When one candidate wants to take away all your rights and your potential partner voted from them, right then and there they made it clear that they do not care for your wellbeing as a human. It's that simple.

    • @dcal1452
      @dcal1452 2 года назад +6

      @@Savvy_Fandoms So, let me ask, who is the candidate who wanted to take away all of our rights? And I say this as a black man.

  • @divebombsmusic
    @divebombsmusic 2 года назад +42

    He was like “oh that’s a hard name, I’m gonna call you this ridiculous nickname for the next 12 hours and you’re going to like it”

  • @Raddiebaddie
    @Raddiebaddie 2 года назад +1221

    Would love a truth or drink with the two women- they had more in common!

    • @kjay_za9101
      @kjay_za9101 2 года назад +14

      The fact that they're women?

    • @tyyt2146
      @tyyt2146 2 года назад +13

      We need to normalize heterosexual relationships

    • @josahell
      @josahell 2 года назад

      @@tyyt2146 LMAO this has to be the stupidest comment I have read in the entire history of the internet.

    • @daquonsimmons8240
      @daquonsimmons8240 2 года назад +1

      i swear this channel has the most feminist and liberal audience of ALL TIME lmfaoooo

    • @br6735
      @br6735 2 года назад +17

      @@tyyt2146
      I’m pretty sure we’ve been having that on past episodes

  • @TheRockerX
    @TheRockerX 2 года назад +2041

    As soon as Lu didn't want to use Gebilet's actual name, I immediately knew Sophia and her should just ditch him and go with each other instead.

    • @ff2154
      @ff2154 2 года назад +83

      Yea that was a major turn off

    • @anhhel
      @anhhel 2 года назад +227

      “Imma just call you Gibby” not a single ounce of respect - and it only went downhill from there

    • @jollyquinn430
      @jollyquinn430 2 года назад +44

      Well, I also didn't like him do that. But it's kinda rude to judge a person based on one small mistakes. Sometimes we make little mistakes. And I wouldn't say that just because of that, they should've ditched him.

    • @corrupt8120
      @corrupt8120 2 года назад +4

      But in the end Gebilet ditched them and Lu and Sophia just wanted to hangout as friends.

    • @ff2154
      @ff2154 2 года назад +28

      @@corrupt8120 I don't think she did. She was just trying to make him feel not bad about it

  • @hiHelloPeople
    @hiHelloPeople 2 года назад +180

    I felt terrible for Gebilet, I thought that Sophie and Gibilet had good chemistry at first but she deserved better

  • @st3ffn11
    @st3ffn11 2 года назад +1709

    He got worse the more he talked. To top it off, he was willingly oblivious to it all. I was genuinely shocked.

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz 2 года назад

      He needs therapy - asap.

    • @daquonsimmons8240
      @daquonsimmons8240 2 года назад +144

      there's literally nothing wrong with the guy. yall are so sensitive and judgemental

    • @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024
      @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 2 года назад +82

      @@daquonsimmons8240 There is, y’all are so mad.

    • @thedarkhorse9218
      @thedarkhorse9218 2 года назад +7

      @@daquonsimmons8240 the guy showed that he was trash from the beginning... From not wanting to learn how to pronounce her name to asking her what she's mixed with. Total trash.

    • @daquonsimmons8240
      @daquonsimmons8240 2 года назад

      @@bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 not mad at all. clearly u are all mad at the guy. low IQ comment

  • @lumensapace
    @lumensapace 2 года назад +849

    Okay but did the girls reconnect after? They seemed to get along so well and would make good friends or partners!

    • @ace5672
      @ace5672 2 года назад +3

      I think I have a feminist and lesbian issue

  • @kerryn
    @kerryn 2 года назад +73

    I would've left with her, she really dodged a bullet. I hope she's not too deeply affected by this experience, there are so many people that would love to be around her and truly cherish her presence ♡

  • @yoshi-wp8zi
    @yoshi-wp8zi 2 года назад +3105

    “What are you mixed with?”
    “How do you have sex with other women?”
    “ I don’t vote.”
    “Racism doesn’t affect me.”
    Does he have ANY idea what he’s giving off??

    • @valzod3808
      @valzod3808 2 года назад +677

      He also listens to Joe Rogan regularly

    • @anhhel
      @anhhel 2 года назад +254

      LITERALLY - ofc editing could’ve left things out but he seemingly never took an actual interest in getting to know either ladies

    • @brandonalvarez2075
      @brandonalvarez2075 2 года назад +237

      Oh no it’s a self thinking black guy who’s prob conservative. Not everyone has to fit in your box

    • @Queenb2001
      @Queenb2001 2 года назад +169

      ALL MAJOR REDFLAGS!

    • @superkroger
      @superkroger 2 года назад +421

      @@brandonalvarez2075 Nooo He's a black guy that allies himself with people who systematically and unapologetically create lawsuit suppress his own community. That's the problem. Don't try to use the think for yourself tactic, other black people know how to think for themselves as well. We're just not going to align ourselves with people that try to suppress us.

  • @luisSerracin255
    @luisSerracin255 2 года назад +696

    Gebilet is so beautiful, she seems like someone who lights up a room with their good energy but it's very sensitive. It was to see her spark disappear in the video. I hope you're okay and forgot about this bad experience. Also, Sophie seems quite nice too! Especially with the name pronunciation question, I hope they can become friends

  • @ilovekene9697
    @ilovekene9697 Год назад +34

    Gebilet, never have people Americanise your name. It’s wonderful and cries untouchable history. Your name is who you are.

  • @mackstacks8913
    @mackstacks8913 2 года назад +309

    The host made it awkward by pushing that on him to ask Gebilet out on a date too. If it was going to go downhill by him being more attracted to Sophie, let that happen naturally. Instead, they pushed it and made it get to a point where Gebilet was uncomfortable therefore making Sophie uncomfortable. The point of these should be to nudge slightly but not push. If this wasn’t going to work out for all 3 of them, let it play out that way. Or maybe it could have.
    Once Gebilet was gone, Sophie was kind of looking for reasons to be less attracted to homeboy and once Joe Rogan came up, it was a wrap. Kind of pigeonholed him from there and he def aint do himself any favors by not realizing maybe this wasn’t the best time to get into that. Those convos would never come up if all 3 were there and things progressed naturally.

    • @kobewilliams6796
      @kobewilliams6796 2 года назад +7

      but they not hearing that, all they see is a girl being hurt by a man and making him the problem. he do got problems tho lol

    • @mackstacks8913
      @mackstacks8913 2 года назад +14

      @@kobewilliams6796 oh no question. Asking a girl if she likes alpha males is def a weirdo thing to ask.
      But by that time, he could tell he lost her and kind of said fuck it lol. But yeah, both the girls were looking like they wanted to jump his bones before the host interjected and made it weird…

    • @midnightswami896
      @midnightswami896 2 года назад +8

      The host wasn’t pushing him to ask Gebilet out but rather asking him to make his intentions clear. Gebilet was an amazing person and continued giving energy but the dude had already completely shifted his focus off of her, and the host wanted HER to know that, because the dude wasn’t fucking saying it.

    • @mackstacks8913
      @mackstacks8913 2 года назад +11

      @@midnightswami896 he wasn’t pushing him? Lol
      “Ask them what happened when you were using the restroom?”
      “Well what about Gelibet”
      Are literal words that came out that producers mouth. Yea, buddy was giving Sophie more energy but he didn’t ignore Gelibet nor made her feel unwanted up until that point. Should he have waited till after to ask Sophie out, sure, but Cut put 3 people in a box its likely that someone could have become more attracted to one more than the other.

    • @midnightswami896
      @midnightswami896 2 года назад +2

      @@mackstacks8913 that was the right amount of provocation, because Gebilet was wasting her time and energy one some dude who already had his mind set on someone else but couldn’t respect her enough to tell her straight. I’m glad the host asked that question because it made his feelings clear to Gebilet, hence letting her move on because she deserves better than being a third wheel.

  • @carolinesmith6450
    @carolinesmith6450 2 года назад +1159

    Gebilet *does* deserve better. I haven't got to the end of the vid yet, but I hope she's okay.

    • @ff2154
      @ff2154 2 года назад +86

      I wish she would have stayed because she did have potential with Sophie....the guy was the one who didn't really vibe with either of then

    • @emmagination444
      @emmagination444 2 года назад +8

      Fr! If it’s not a hell yes it’s a hell no!!

    • @Silverwarhawk
      @Silverwarhawk 2 года назад

      Then shut up and watch the video

    • @ff2154
      @ff2154 2 года назад +10

      @@mimosasseat9860 I think that she had some trauma (probably rejection) that came up/was triggered, so she started to feel bad. I do think they also give then alcohol/weed so that also can bring up emotions

    • @Drakavio
      @Drakavio 2 года назад

      @@ff2154 I felt the same

  • @aydanjane
    @aydanjane 2 года назад +157

    "she was mean to me" WHAT, she was 100% in the right

    • @lucywilson5570
      @lucywilson5570 2 года назад +12

      Narcissist 🙄

    • @naru6909
      @naru6909 Год назад +9

      Sounded so fucking childish of him

    • @fatmooselips3110
      @fatmooselips3110 Год назад

      You’re also a toxic person

    • @Kaiju733
      @Kaiju733 5 месяцев назад +4

      The producer put him on the spot that's not his fault

    • @Calebsnyder-lv2cg
      @Calebsnyder-lv2cg 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@Kaiju733rs the producer honestly ruined everything by asking the wrong questions too soon

  • @SamriBliss
    @SamriBliss 2 года назад +217

    The box is already too small for one person - I can’t imagine being in the box with two other adults!

  • @Mxrisa_Nicole
    @Mxrisa_Nicole 2 года назад +166

    The cameramen really ruined this one. Sophie and him had a private conversation, and as soon as Gebilet came back the people behind the camera pressured them to talk about their private conversation 🙄

    • @bullyprojecctyes3399
      @bullyprojecctyes3399 2 года назад +42

      Camera man was the biggest instigator, I knew it would go downhill instantly once he started speaking

    • @Zythus07
      @Zythus07 2 года назад +20

      Initially I thought that too, but it's not like 36,000 people (including probably Gebilet) was gonna see that conversation later on RUclips or anything. It's like you prefer Gebilet to find out in that box? Or at home on RUclips after the fact?

    • @RoseArcanum
      @RoseArcanum 2 года назад +17

      @@Zythus07 I'm with you. I think it was right for her to find out, kind of sneaky for him to ask her out in private like that and let that be kept under wraps

    • @TheRed4123
      @TheRed4123 2 года назад +1

      @@RoseArcanum the host did not care for her tho, all he wanted to is to instigate for youtube drama and hurt a person in the process.

    • @RoseArcanum
      @RoseArcanum 2 года назад +5

      @@TheRed4123 I think it definitely was for the drama, but it's not like Lu didn't cause this for himself either. He was way too oblivious with what he was doing. If Lu felt no attraction towards Gebilet, then it was right for her to know about it and make that decision to leave. Better know now then find out later on RUclips feeling stupid cause you thought you had a connection with him. Though the dynamic of three (seemingly) monogamous people on this blind date is very new and different, so some hearts were doomed to be broken anyways

  • @marybrady688
    @marybrady688 2 года назад +77

    Wow, that was horrendous. But HELL YES to Gebilet, know your worth!

  • @hannahmiller5619
    @hannahmiller5619 2 года назад +248

    Gebilet is so darling. From just through a screen, I can tell that’s a nice genuine soul. She’s the light.

  • @commanderkeen3787
    @commanderkeen3787 2 года назад +1136

    Isn't it funny how triangulation works in a social setting. Things are very different when it's just two people. More of these videos please

    • @artisttjan
      @artisttjan 2 года назад +58

      I think it was triangulation from the beginning, he showed more attention to Gebilet but then ask Sophia out when she wasn't there which put Sophia in a positions where she couldn't ask Gebilet out without it sounding second hand. I do thing Sophia was into Gebilet and I also think the guy was to so it was confusing when he did what he did.

    • @moonease4173
      @moonease4173 2 года назад +5

      @@artisttjan ding ding 🛎

    • @francoherrera601
      @francoherrera601 2 года назад +2

      In those situations where the flow of conversation changes i believe it's because someone in that group is more of a mutual friend then a friend friend.

    • @anush11011
      @anush11011 2 года назад

      Well when there’s three people nobody has to feel pressured to say something

    • @Realcordy
      @Realcordy 2 года назад

      @@artisttjan they were girls getting along just like he was vining with Gebilet But was attracted to Sophia

  • @jasminelanderos8562
    @jasminelanderos8562 2 года назад +56

    “Do you like alpha males?” Wtf kind of question is that lmao

    • @raj8294
      @raj8294 Год назад +1

      For real lol

  • @dammee
    @dammee 2 года назад +2736

    The guy’s energy is bad and he managed to emotionally drain everyone in the box. I need a second video with Sophie and Giblet talking about what the experience was like for them.

    • @dcal1452
      @dcal1452 2 года назад +117

      He was an F boy, but Sophie sucked too. Gebilet was awesome.

    • @meredithporizkova2798
      @meredithporizkova2798 2 года назад +27

      THIS! Was looking for a comment regarding him and his bad energy!

    • @MCchizzle
      @MCchizzle 2 года назад +130

      Do YoU LiKe AlPhA mAlEs?

    • @albertfoo1569
      @albertfoo1569 2 года назад +31

      Why was his energy "bad". Appreciate the clarification

    • @Bookauru
      @Bookauru 2 года назад +60

      @@dcal1452 Sophie didn’t even do anything

  • @EmleeLikesTurtles
    @EmleeLikesTurtles 2 года назад +310

    Gebilet, Queen, you made the right choice. When they said "we should go on a date outside the box", even though Gebilet wasn't there, I assumed they meant all three of them. So did Gebilet it seems and pointing out that it would just be two of them going was pretty cruel. Anyone would want to leave after that. She seemed so bright and fun and open-minded and anyone who wouldn't want to take her out and sweep her off her feet must be mad.

  • @daina4368
    @daina4368 11 месяцев назад +9

    "she felt rejected and it got to her emotionally." like she wasn't just standing up for herself. i hope you guys had enough sense to fire this godawful director, and i hope he's reading these comments

  • @educampsrocks
    @educampsrocks 2 года назад +1805

    “ARE YOU INTO ALPHA MALES” 😭😭💀💀

    • @neatynel
      @neatynel 2 года назад +119

      rightt... gross

    • @gabelincoln3608
      @gabelincoln3608 2 года назад +9

      Cry

    • @frankieforesight9271
      @frankieforesight9271 2 года назад +60

      hahhahahahah, that question says it all lmfaooo

    • @Ari-ne2yb
      @Ari-ne2yb 2 года назад +88

      Also, he's into Joe Rogan + Doesn't think racism is a thing lmao. That was a near miss for both of them I'd say

    • @uwugrl
      @uwugrl 2 года назад

      @@gabelincoln3608 incel

  • @lillitaft9195
    @lillitaft9195 2 года назад +210

    I felt so much for Gebilet when she right out of the gate was covering her smile and then when Sophie asked what she really wanted to be called you could see how seen that made her feel. The 2 women should be on this show just them or the Cut should connect them together again.

  • @CeeWillTheTrill
    @CeeWillTheTrill 2 года назад +12

    This went from worse to worser. I’m never seen such a train wreck

  • @risi7634
    @risi7634 2 года назад +1659

    Just started the video but immediately I am rooting for the two women. The guy not even trying to pronounce Gebilet's name was whack.

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 года назад +11

      Lmfaoo no but same 😂💜

    • @risi7634
      @risi7634 2 года назад +29

      Well, that took a turn :(

    • @TheAfricanGrey
      @TheAfricanGrey 2 года назад +26

      The whole video was so hard to watch 💀

    • @risi7634
      @risi7634 2 года назад +34

      @@mimosasseat9860 he’s awful and neither of them was into him

    • @Zazanorton
      @Zazanorton 2 года назад +4

      they both had more chemistry together

  • @brej2002
    @brej2002 2 года назад +293

    Truth or drink with Sophie and Gebilet please !!!

  • @jessikadewitt4077
    @jessikadewitt4077 Год назад +19

    Genilet honestly seems like one of the most sweetest people ever. She didn’t deserve to be treated like that at all. It was mainly the directors fault for asking them questions that set them up for awkward situations

  • @DylandWhiteBars16
    @DylandWhiteBars16 2 года назад +309

    JUSTICE FOR GEBILET!!!! I LOVE HER NAME SO MUCH. WE NEED ANOTHER VIDEO WITH JUST THE TWO GIRLS!!!!!!! PLEASE CUT PLEASEEEEEEE

    • @laine8932
      @laine8932 2 года назад +6

      PLEASEE cut if you read the comments pleaseeee do this for us!!!!🙏🏽

    • @sofiathlm7947
      @sofiathlm7947 2 года назад

      Gilet

  • @tiffanyculver4288
    @tiffanyculver4288 2 года назад +219

    Just by the actions in the that short 5 minutes of silence, I already knew who he actually liked. Just by the body chemistry and just gave me the vibes honestly.

    • @EduardoTyrannyth
      @EduardoTyrannyth 2 года назад +13

      The person you decide to interact with shows a lot about who you want to be with.

    • @una6702
      @una6702 2 года назад

      he definitely seems like the type to only date white girls and put down black women

    • @hhour2096
      @hhour2096 2 года назад +11

      He played with her hair

  • @bigmcg7484
    @bigmcg7484 Месяц назад +2

    The way Sophie immediately stepped in for Gebilet and asked her what she actually wanted to be called and immediately validated her, with him right there in between them is bare minimum but also incredible like yesss

  • @ImLuvinMe001
    @ImLuvinMe001 2 года назад +93

    i know exactly how Gebilet feels! being a black woman + having a big personality she probably has been rejected a lot. she does deserve better tho, who wants to date an alpha male Joe Rogan listener…

    • @LEMATTOFFICIAL
      @LEMATTOFFICIAL 2 года назад +21

      She is a catch! That dudes energy was way off. He seemed fake with his easy going persona. Strikes me as the lowkey controlling type.

    • @polaricedtea7530
      @polaricedtea7530 2 года назад +1

      The last statements proves why you get rejected a lot 😂

    • @ImLuvinMe001
      @ImLuvinMe001 2 года назад

      @@polaricedtea7530 does kissing Joe’s ass make you feel better about yourself?

  • @naomipattavina5579
    @naomipattavina5579 2 года назад +290

    I'm so sorry for Gebilet, she seems like a sweet, sensitive girl and this guy was not it.

    • @daquonsimmons8240
      @daquonsimmons8240 2 года назад +14

      there's literally nothing wrong with the guy. yall are so sensitive and judgemental

    • @cloroxbleach5593
      @cloroxbleach5593 2 года назад

      Pussc

    • @polaricedtea7530
      @polaricedtea7530 2 года назад

      @@daquonsimmons8240 fr bruh

    • @weidchar1646
      @weidchar1646 2 года назад +1

      Was he wrong for having a preference and voicing it? I feel bad for Gebilet too but to call the guy a douchebag or anything like that just seems really unfair.

  • @m4574
    @m4574 2 года назад +29

    Gibelet you seem to have a great personality and you have a beautiful smile, no need to hide it. Yes, you definitely deserve better!

  • @adinahimani175
    @adinahimani175 2 года назад +2837

    He was honestly more aggressive with Gebilet (asking her to change her name; asking her what she was mixed with, looking past her often and not at her) and gentle with Sophie (gentle touches, only giving her eye contact, compliments, etc.) he seems like he has a “type” and thought Sophie would be more “submissive” with that alpha question and when she was showing her opinions and didn’t like his interests he got turned off. A whole loser tbh. The two girls should go on a date.

    • @mr-el5hn
      @mr-el5hn 2 года назад +327

      deadass he was such a loser you could just tell that's why he liked Sophie at first. When he realized she had her own boundaries and values important to her you could just tell he didn't like that.

    • @blupartec2082
      @blupartec2082 2 года назад +74

      who hate you guys?😂

    • @andrealiu5106
      @andrealiu5106 2 года назад +9

      @@mr-el5hn this

    • @j8elynn
      @j8elynn 2 года назад +9

      agreed

    • @UptownLBoogie
      @UptownLBoogie 2 года назад +12

      YES!!

  • @Queenb2001
    @Queenb2001 2 года назад +1658

    We need to normalize learning people's actual names!

    • @jonosono
      @jonosono 2 года назад +37

      Seriously! So many people just assume others like having their named shortened from the jump. No! If that's true, believe it, they will tell you that!

    • @juanmacias5922
      @juanmacias5922 2 года назад +36

      @@jonosono and it's not even about shortening, if we are cool, and you want to give me a cute nickname, I'm all for that, but don't change my name just because you don't want to take the time to learn/use it...

    • @tystheticchannel3733
      @tystheticchannel3733 2 года назад +5

      Yes, as someone who has a unique name. We appreciate it so very much! I can get by with nicknames but you get extra sugar for saying the full 😉

    • @tystheticchannel3733
      @tystheticchannel3733 2 года назад +2

      @@juanmacias5922 exactly this!

    • @JimmyTRUELOVE
      @JimmyTRUELOVE 2 года назад +5

      oh bore off ffs.

  • @amandaarrasmith9936
    @amandaarrasmith9936 2 года назад +20

    Cut really didn’t need to tell Gebilet that the other two were going on a date :( they made her feel so bad

  • @MossKoss
    @MossKoss 2 года назад +298

    gotta love a woman who knows her worth

    • @rendered33
      @rendered33 2 года назад +2

      Absolutely

    • @benjiman818
      @benjiman818 2 года назад

      True maybe she was actually more inline with his interests in the end

    • @lxstcheckll9348
      @lxstcheckll9348 2 года назад

      I mean if she deserves better. Than what would better be. Better would be someone who can make her feel good and maybe u need to change for to get the better. That the reason she failed to get interest since she obviously doesn't want a women companion since she should have felt comfortable to stay and not express her thought if she has a sense of placement if the she has any ideas of settlement toward the other girl. She searches for the man, which counterclaim the thought really I deserve better?
      What so special about her than the other girl, yes she may be more attractive but the terms "guy will fuck anything" is a term for a reason.

    • @MossKoss
      @MossKoss 2 года назад

      @@lxstcheckll9348 when speaking of change, you shouldn’t have to change for someone you like. Yes change is good but it’s also bad. If you change because of someone it’s not because YOU want to change it’s because THEY want you to change, if you truly wanted to change you would change for yourself and not someone else.
      She left for the fact that she felt like a second option. She felt like he was obligated to ask her if she wants to go out. You can clearly see that he was like, oh did you want to go out too. Like it was clearly a second option choice to pick her.
      And I never said that there was anything special about her. I basically said “personally I like her because she knows what she likes and want. (In like the terms of ideologies)”

    • @ChooseLove1979
      @ChooseLove1979 2 года назад

      @@lxstcheckll9348 who is more attractive?

  • @shaebubblegum3212
    @shaebubblegum3212 2 года назад +260

    It seems the guy was looking more towards one of the girls vs the other . I saw someone say it would’ve been electric if it was just the women both seem so open and understanding

    • @moonease4173
      @moonease4173 2 года назад +6

      All jokes aside if he would’ve played his cards right he could’ve kept hanging out. With them, possibly had a relationship with both. or already stayed friends with them

    • @zoeg4213
      @zoeg4213 2 года назад +16

      @@moonease4173 you think the girls would’ve been compatible with the guy enough for a whole ass relationship?? did we watch the same video? even before Gebilet left, you could tell that he liked Sophie more (like Shae Bubblegum mentioned, only looking towards her), whilst Sophie and Gebilet liked eachother more.
      edit: spelling

    • @omellonakamura1573
      @omellonakamura1573 2 года назад +1

      @@zoeg4213 honestly from what I watched it looked like a classic love triangle, it seemed like Lu clearly liked Sophie a lot more and Sophie took more interest into Gebilet but as it went on Gebilet took interest into Lu. I'm pretty sure Gebilet wasn't oblivious to Sophie comments. Why else would Gebilet leave if she knows Sophie finds her interesting and attractive....simple she wanted Lu.

    • @zoeg4213
      @zoeg4213 2 года назад +2

      @@omellonakamura1573 that may be the case, but i still highly doubt they would’ve gotten along enough to be in a full blown relationship (or even a meaningful friendship) lol. if Gebilet stayed, i feel like she would’ve had the same reaction as Sophie by the end 💀.

    • @omellonakamura1573
      @omellonakamura1573 2 года назад

      @@zoeg4213 yea by the end of their first real triple date with no filter they would've inevitably dumped Lu honestly especially with him clearly being part of the manosphere

  • @sarahmcclelland334
    @sarahmcclelland334 2 года назад +28

    I relate so much to Gebilet personality wise, she’s so sweet and I wish I could be her friend. Please please bring back her and Sophie, they both deserve SO much better!!

    • @sarahmcclelland334
      @sarahmcclelland334 2 года назад +1

      Also not the Joe Rogan podcast💀. And the zombie go bag.

    • @brockkent8576
      @brockkent8576 Год назад

      Noo Gebilet deserves way better than sophia

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +528

    I love the two women and I honestly hope they see each other after this 💜

  • @CactusJack252
    @CactusJack252 2 года назад +51

    I'm sad that Gebilet left. The whole dynamic changed when she did. I can see why the guy is single.

  • @unskinny2234
    @unskinny2234 2 года назад +12

    gebilet brought the show! the energy died after that

  • @rianlynn3854
    @rianlynn3854 2 года назад +82

    Gebilet, NEVER apologize for setting a boundary of what you want to be called, Its your name (or a nickname if you dont like you name for the audience) but its how people address you to get your attention and connect. If its not a name that resonates with you, its going to be ill feelings whenever you hear it. If you have a boundary, express it. THose who just wanna trample them, they aint meant to be in your life.

  • @JaredRix
    @JaredRix 2 года назад +222

    Gebilet made the right choice, and Sophie only realized once she wasn't there to lighten the mood lmao.
    Strike one: trying to give her a nickname
    Strike two: What are you mixed with?
    Strike three: The pity date offer
    And after she left it only got worse lmao

    • @illseedez
      @illseedez Год назад +1

      these comments are just idek how to explain it

    • @londynk1085
      @londynk1085 Год назад

      @@illseedez what about them?

    • @illseedez
      @illseedez Год назад

      @@londynk1085 you’re like 8 bro why are you on this app😭😭

    • @bmb4024
      @bmb4024 Год назад

      The first two strikes weren’t strikes they were fine with them even if the nickname was a mistake. The third was the only one that was considered a strike but even so he was kinda set up

    • @Just_a_benchh
      @Just_a_benchh 10 месяцев назад +1

      First two aren’t strikes, so tired of scrolling through the comments and seeing a bunch of feminists being mad at the guy. 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @astridgonzalez-ortiz5547
    @astridgonzalez-ortiz5547 2 года назад +11

    Gebilet is AMAZING wow, she deserved better but she really dodged a bullet. I hope CUT has her back because she's amazing.

  • @sleepysapa9874
    @sleepysapa9874 2 года назад +534

    gebilet leaving because of the feeling of rejection is completely understandable, why spend more hours with someone who will treat u like a second choice or like the pity invite. she deserves to be someones first choice. and for the people who are blaming the situation on the producer, they didnt tell him to ask sophie on a date privately. man just seemed shady asking sophie on a date without gebilet there. producer just aired it out so that the situation wouldnt get worse later down the line.

    • @mimosasseat9860
      @mimosasseat9860 2 года назад +7

      but she agreed to going on a three way date? what did she expect ? the dude wanted to go out with her too so im confused

    • @joanne5697
      @joanne5697 2 года назад +22

      @@mimosasseat9860 nahh he doesnt. that was a pity date

    • @berserker5551
      @berserker5551 2 года назад +2

      Why wouldn’t he ask her privately? The producer made it weird on purpose by airing it out

    • @byronbryan2178
      @byronbryan2178 Год назад

      He's straight and in a confined space with 2 girls. Obviously he's gonna have preference over one of them, but the way he's handled it was pretty shitty

    • @rushking19
      @rushking19 Год назад

      He probably asked her privately because it would be awkward with all 3 of them . Also the producers put 3 people in on purpose for that Sam reason. Someone would get left out .

  • @bellep9520
    @bellep9520 2 года назад +87

    Aw Gebilet 💔 I hate seeing that happen to a black woman, I'm glad she had the strength to remove herself from such an uncomfortable and weird situation. The interviewer is very weird for pushing for that.
    Lu was a red flag the second Gebilet said her name and immediately asked "what do you go by?". Boy, bye.

    • @willius_caesar
      @willius_caesar 2 года назад +2

      I really don’t think Lu meant it in that way. He’s just a little ignorant, but I’m sure he’s a good guy. I think Sophia instantly understood Gebilet because they’re both sort of still in touch with they’re foreign culture, whilst Lu’s just an american dude who isn’t too familiar with those struggles. He really doesn’t deserve the amount of garbage he’s getting in the comments or even to be accused of “mansplaining” by Sophia. If anything people should be mad at the producers for making the situation soo unbearable for Gebilet.

    • @Harrisonkmt
      @Harrisonkmt 2 года назад +1

      @@willius_caesar I couldn’t agree more, it disgusts me seeing how one sided the comments are. From what I saw from Lu, is that he is shy and doesn’t really have social skills. I think you should never judge someone because he could have had some sort of trauma in the past that screwed up those skills.

    • @lucywilson5570
      @lucywilson5570 2 года назад

      😂 he deserves every bit of hatred he gets and anyone who thinks like him is a waste of space

  • @Krbmusic123
    @Krbmusic123 2 года назад +27

    When he took his shirt off… yikes. That man’s ego is the size of the moon.

  • @gallifrey3003
    @gallifrey3003 2 года назад +293

    Idk Sophie acted kinda weird about the date too. The whole, "At least us, but..." part was kinda exclusionary. And afterwards when Gebilet and Sophie were together, Sophie seemed surprised that Gebilet rejected his pity advances, but didn't seem to comfort her or anything even though she knew Gebilet felt bad about it... And the "You know, I couldn't tell ya," instead of confronting Lu about how the rejection made her feel??? Like come on, was I the only one frustrated with how Sophie reacted in this situation too? Idk I didn't like how either of them treated Gebilet, she was a gem and deserved much better!!

    • @geraldinegrace6202
      @geraldinegrace6202 2 года назад +51

      i 10000% agree with you and don’t know how there isn’t more comments about her behavior as well, just bc she didn’t like him in the end doesn’t mean she also wasn’t the problem when it came to not including gebilet

    • @meljuliajoyr
      @meljuliajoyr 2 года назад +29

      and the fact when the host asked “do you miss Gebilet” shes like “a little bit” like girl what? she already feels rejected this just makes things worse, at least act more excited

    • @invincibleGabe77
      @invincibleGabe77 2 года назад +3

      that’s just her personality she’s literally my sister

    • @benjiman818
      @benjiman818 2 года назад +8

      It was a competition thing. At first she felt competitive with her so she was tryna one up her and secure the dude for validation. Once she realised actually he liked her all along , and fake “offered” the other girl a dare she saw him as suddenly low value.

    • @eoinhaughey345
      @eoinhaughey345 2 года назад

      @@invincibleGabe77 prove it

  • @kittyfairy662
    @kittyfairy662 2 года назад +71

    gebilet really was the mediator and positive energy between the two, thats why when she left the two didn't really like each other. but i feel for her, i know how it is to be the 3rd wheel, the 2nd person who doesn't get chosen, it's hurtful

  • @saltii5899
    @saltii5899 2 года назад +39

    The producers caused so much chaos, the rejected girl is going to feel like she isn't good enough for her whole life.

    • @saltii5899
      @saltii5899 Год назад +2

      @@whatsthetea9609 sorry to miss inform you, when i said "rejected girl" i never implied that she didnt meet my beauty standarts. What i actually meant was that the guy gave more attention to the other girl and made the "rejected girl" feel quite lonely.

    • @saltii5899
      @saltii5899 Год назад

      @@whatsthetea9609 oh I see your point and totally agree with you here. I dont think that she is going to be left "traumatised" by this event. I just wanted to say that this experiment was a bad idea in the first place.

  • @Sadeyah
    @Sadeyah 2 года назад +343

    Gebilet does absolutely deserve the whole world and more, I'm so glad she said that and never accepted a sloppy second date! She's so bubbly, please bring her back ✨✨✨

    • @dapo3538
      @dapo3538 2 года назад +1

      Why does she deserve the whole world? Because she got rejected? Everyone gets rejected from time to time, does everyone deserve the whole world? The proper response to rejection is to move on and not try to change someone who doesn’t like you.

    • @ChooseLove1979
      @ChooseLove1979 2 года назад +1

      @@dapo3538she never did that weirdo. Get a life

    • @dapo3538
      @dapo3538 2 года назад +1

      @@ChooseLove1979Don’t worry bout my life, mind ya business. I never said she didn’t move on, I was talking in general. People who get rejected sometimes try to make the person who rejected them want them or change for them. It happens very often. My point was she isn’t special and doesn’t deserve praise

    • @evansmuhu
      @evansmuhu Год назад +1

      ​@@dapo3538 Thank you!!! These snowflakes never want to be offended by anything

  • @geraldinerodriguez6987
    @geraldinerodriguez6987 2 года назад +243

    He seems like such an exhausting person to be around . Wish he would have left instead/:

    • @niyahliyah2626
      @niyahliyah2626 2 года назад +5

      ikr

    • @johnnajackson9264
      @johnnajackson9264 2 года назад +23

      That kind of guy will never leave, though, unfortunately.

    • @daquonsimmons8240
      @daquonsimmons8240 2 года назад +10

      there's literally nothing wrong with the guy. yall are so sensitive and judgemental

    • @geraldinerodriguez6987
      @geraldinerodriguez6987 2 года назад +21

      @@daquonsimmons8240 ok andrew tates second account lol

    • @daquonsimmons8240
      @daquonsimmons8240 2 года назад +5

      @@geraldinerodriguez6987 this guy is nothing like andrew tate. to make that comparison is so silly

  • @abramsluv
    @abramsluv Год назад +4

    they put 3 of them for a reason.. they knew what they were trying to do.

  • @littlelamb3656
    @littlelamb3656 2 года назад +1220

    I know how Gebilet felt, and it's such a shitty feeling when you sense instantly that you're third-wheeling in a social setting but you try to let things flow "naturally" only to realize you're just being pushed further out. I was really proud of her for just leaving instead of trying to "keep the peace." Lu is very rude despite his laid-back demeanor. He made it very clear that he favored Sophia and he could've honestly saved that for out of the box instead of letting his excitement over a new toy potentially blow someone's self-esteem. Also, unpopular opinion, Sophia wasn't innocent either. I felt like she could've done more to make Gebilet feel included instead of reveling in Lu's attraction to her. She lowkey played two sides of the coin and gave mixed signals to Gebilet all the while trying to look like Lu just went after her when she was heavily flirting back with him. It was really eery to see how people's walls can fall to reveal who they truly are and all I know is Gebilet was genuine from the beginning to the end. She's such a beautiful and radiant soul who deserves much more than a second-place platonic or romantic relationship from the others.

    • @mimosasseat9860
      @mimosasseat9860 2 года назад +150

      dawg I dont wanna be rude but I think you started reaching a lil bit half way through this comment

    • @Monsieur1057gazi
      @Monsieur1057gazi 2 года назад +39

      I think your oversimplification of the video is hilarious, I see your point of view but let’s be realistic now lmao

    • @mimosasseat9860
      @mimosasseat9860 2 года назад +20

      I understand youre point of view but I dont think they were trying to exclude her like that

    • @Aleutica
      @Aleutica 2 года назад +85

      i feel like sophie wanted to go out on dates with both of them again but the cut host made it awkward by making it seem like sophie and lu were the only ones interested in each other, so sophie didn't get a chance to ask to see gebilet again. there's nothing inherently wrong with sophie "playing two sides of the coin" in this situation, it seems like that's what everyone was meant to do here-figure out if any of them wanted to see each other again. and with only one date between three people it wouldn't surprise me if at least one person wanted to see multiple of the others again

    • @Juzzzer
      @Juzzzer 2 года назад +7

      so what I got from this comment was you wanted Lu to be fake and put on a facade that he was attracted to giblet

  • @keithbrister4787
    @keithbrister4787 2 года назад +28

    The moment he asked if she’s mixed with anything is when I knew it would go left. You can tell Eritrea wasn’t “exotic” enough to like her and even though he probably didn’t know about Jordan either the fact that she was lighter sealed the deal.

  • @kalb6122
    @kalb6122 2 года назад +103

    Gebilet, I just wanted to say you’re totally valid! As an Ethiopian, I recognized you right away lol. Anyway, I also sensed that you were nervous so you talked a lot or loudly. I think Cut producers did really bad this episode with how they handled things and the guy was immature. I hope to see you again in the future and hope things are well!

    • @muffinfighter3680
      @muffinfighter3680 Год назад +11

      It was kinda shocking that the guy didn't know Eritrea or assumed that Gebilet is mixed. You could immediately tell that she is East African

    • @brockkent8576
      @brockkent8576 Год назад

      No one cares, ethiopian

  • @hellomynameisalaina
    @hellomynameisalaina 2 года назад +417

    Okay I know this has perhaps has nothing to do with skin colour, but as a fellow dark skin girl, this just hit close to home because my lighter skinned friends are the ones that are always asked out by, and meanwhile I get asked on pity dates / just ignored, so I really felt for Gebilet here :((

    • @BarestTruths
      @BarestTruths 2 года назад +79

      I reserve the space to be wrong about Lu but he certainly strikes me as the type that doesn’t date black women and defends that choice by bashing them.

    • @rendered33
      @rendered33 2 года назад +1

      @@countessofmontecristo3849 💯

    • @FrankieTheTurtle
      @FrankieTheTurtle 2 года назад +10

      She’s not dark skinned though. She’s brown skinned.

    • @mimia.4810
      @mimia.4810 2 года назад +31

      @@FrankieTheTurtle Skin color is relative.

    • @eolay4411
      @eolay4411 2 года назад +4

      @@wetdon591 some men find that demasculating. It's still a societal taboo

  • @2000scunty
    @2000scunty 2 года назад +11

    Gebilet did not feel rejected, she felt disrespected. The guy behind the camera was being an a**

    • @theunusualsuspects16
      @theunusualsuspects16 2 года назад +1

      But the black guy gets blamed simply for being himself

    • @r1xelf420
      @r1xelf420 Год назад

      @@theunusualsuspects16 fr

  • @juanmacias5922
    @juanmacias5922 2 года назад +181

    Man, he dropped the ball, hard, I'm not surprised to find out he lacks empathy.

  • @macayla6363
    @macayla6363 2 года назад +344

    after watching the full video, i can agree with the comments! gebilet and sophia should get another date

    • @ff2154
      @ff2154 2 года назад +16

      And the Cut should pay for it!

    • @Angelina-pi2cc
      @Angelina-pi2cc 2 года назад +1

      Lol gebilet def wasn't bi. " I'm gender fluid" psh she said that after Sophie said she was bi. Gibilet was being a people pleaser, can't even say hey say my real name , she legit dosent like women you can see it in her face

    • @ace5672
      @ace5672 2 года назад

      It wasn’t a date lol

    • @yusra2575
      @yusra2575 2 года назад +7

      @@Angelina-pi2cc who even are you?💀Do you know her personally? No

    • @glizzyvision
      @glizzyvision 2 года назад +10

      @@Angelina-pi2cc First off, it was Sophie that asked her if she wanted a nickname or for ppl to go by her actually name. Also for someone who you seem to say “isn’t bi” she had way more chemistry with Sophie than she did with the other guy. Not sure what your problem is but you definitely seem like you’re projecting 😂

  • @hailey.jade28
    @hailey.jade28 2 года назад +5

    I’m In love with gebilets energy!!! Such a beautiful soul

  • @stuts527
    @stuts527 2 года назад +404

    The date definitely got boring once Gebilet left. Sophie & her had the most chemistry from the start, the guy was just there.
    Mid way through the video I felt a little tired of Gebilet's high energy, but the moment she left it got dull. She really was holding the entire date together!

    • @brockkent8576
      @brockkent8576 2 года назад +6

      People who say blunt things like this, have deep seated issues 😂

  • @poejavelski148
    @poejavelski148 2 года назад +48

    That was PAINFUL to watch. Went from 0 to 60 in a second.

  • @the_dysphoreo
    @the_dysphoreo 2 года назад +16

    i feel so bad for Gebilet, the thing is i felt much more chemistry between sophia and her and i mean even if it was just platonic they had good chemestry from what i saw and heard and then that happened and i just feel really bad and really hope Gebilet is okay

  • @sta3236
    @sta3236 2 года назад +42

    1 min in and i already want them to dump lu lol he couldn’t even be bothered to learn her name

  • @jameskay6882
    @jameskay6882 2 года назад +173

    Man sits there talking about how good the Joe Rogan podcast is and then says he doesn't like to consume negative media because it can effect who you are as a person. Dude, you need to do some introspection.

    • @TheAfricanGrey
      @TheAfricanGrey 2 года назад +13

      Literally 💀 that shit killed me

    • @robert7567
      @robert7567 2 года назад +14

      For real! Homie is contradicting himself. Cute but I’m not sure the elevator’s going to the top floor.

    • @brandonalvarez2075
      @brandonalvarez2075 2 года назад +10

      Joe Rogan isn’t negative media, it’s your opinion. He often brings people who he disagrees with and has a laugh with them in the end

    • @wanderingoldsoul420
      @wanderingoldsoul420 2 года назад +10

      It's interesting because I've watched Joe Rogan's podcast and I truly feel like the only people that sit there and dog it are only doing so based on societal review of him rather than his actual character. The man speaks some very real truths that not many people want to accept. Especially about the past few years. A personal opinion doesn't make it negative media.

    • @emmagination444
      @emmagination444 2 года назад

      Fr Watching joe rogan is gunna make you a garbage human

  • @ThatBoiNejiOfficial
    @ThatBoiNejiOfficial 2 года назад +25

    They really fumbled Gebilet 🤯💕
    you can tell bro just wanted to have a three-sum 😭

  • @RedisNotaFlavor
    @RedisNotaFlavor 2 года назад +170

    CUT, GIVE GEBILET & SOPHIA ANOTHER DATE!!

  • @mannequinn_made420
    @mannequinn_made420 2 года назад +1819

    The minute he told Gebilet what he was gonna call her instead of asking her what she wanted to be called. I knew the date was over for them. He gives off that, “I only date girls that don’t look like me vibe.” 🤷🏽‍♀️ Tbh, if I were the other girl in the box, I wouldn’t have been interested either. 😂 I would’ve been like girl, you wanna get outta here? Go get a drink? 🥰 A potential date or a friendship 🤷🏽‍♀️ leave him in the box where he belongs.

    • @Tyra_Rose
      @Tyra_Rose 2 года назад +157

      Tbh I think Sophia was more interested in Gebilet lol they had the most chemistry

    • @mannequinn_made420
      @mannequinn_made420 2 года назад +13

      @@Tyra_Rose Agreed

    • @wm6549
      @wm6549 2 года назад +6

      Yes

    • @teetheluchador
      @teetheluchador 2 года назад +64

      Same he gave off i like white girls vibes ick

    • @gennydf95
      @gennydf95 2 года назад +105

      I mean if as a black man he can't see racism and thinks inflation is more important he probably doesn't date black women 🤷🏽‍♀️ also the fact tha the asked her what she was mixed with instead of assuming she was black 🚩🚩🚩