This is why I have much respect for openly gay men. I detest down low brothers, It is not fair. Thank God I have always had a gaydar, I can just tell when a man is gay.
You have been a blessing to me, Walter Lee. I am 60 yrs now and no one else has shared as much as you have about this subject with me. Yes, my ex is in Atlanta repeating the same game he played with me from age 15 with a new wife. God, help her. He's 62 now and need to leave women alone. Thank God, he's out of my life and I'm not HIV positive. There is no way possible a woman can make a gay man happy. They will beat and fuss with you when they want that man; they keep so many secrets.
This happend to me. My ex husband was living a double life for years. It took me years to figure it out. My kids and I were devastated for years. He had no remorse for what he did. If you are gay live your life privately don't marry an innocent person and bring innocent children into the world and ruin their lives. He was so abusive emotionally in this marriage now I understand it was because he was struggling with who he was. I forgive him but as a person he was cruel. Let God deal with him on judgement day! My children are a blessing and we are all doing well .
It's crazy how common this has become. I was shocked to find out that a woman that I grew up with died of AIDS that her husband had contracted and passed on. Another good friend of mine just divorced after her husband decided to tell her he was gay 2 kids later. Why even marry a woman?
Walter, thanks for this video! The writing is usually on the wall. I have been married for 33 years. My husband, is denying his gayness, and claims he is not gay-phobic because ALL his friends are gay/bi. I respect and appreciate gay men who are honest about their gayness. I do NOT respect liars and users, regardless of their sexual persuasion.
Walter Lee Hampton II Yes! Recently, he tried introducing me to Bruce Ratner for the second time in 1 year, when both Bruce and I tried telling him that he had introduced us last year. I am convinced that he only invites me to these events so he can prove to people that he is straight. But this is just one of the clues that he is in the closet. If he would admit to being bi, I would feel a lot better and be more accepting. Either way, I must move on.
sweetheart I hope u found peace and understanding. There is a silver lining for all things. I'm a heterosexual man and it saddens me out black men are doing these things to our sisters. hang in there
@@bklynsummer hi! I finally set myself free Dec 2021. On the road to healing after a 2 yr session with a psychiatrist. I am now with a straight guy who loves me and we are 3months into the relationship. Praying for your healing too, dear.
@@mordoquiojunelle Not really better, just better at faking it to get more of the truth. If he thinks I'm ok with it, he confesses more. Just found out last week there was another guy. Worst yet he hooked up with him in 2015. So he's story about depression & childhood abuse, you already know. We don't fight but I know at this stage I don't feel anything in my heart. How could I ever love someone the way I did after such a betrayal. Kicker in the pants... I'm pretty open minded. I'd rather he tell me his desires then proceed to destroy my soul. But you know what? HIS ISSUE IS NOT MY ISSUE.... I don't allow myself to have a pity party. Although they do drive by's...lol But I do my best to say "He did this to us because he chose to, well I choose to not drown in his disrespect."
@@bklynsummer things get better through time. I am seeing other people now and he cannot do anything about it. I am done suffering. It's my time to find my happiness. We are civil.
Nasty! He had me thinking I was the problem… looking back he was picking up his dude and taking him to work in the morning… park meetups and so much more I saw in texts. They had plans to marry beards and keep their sick shit up. God showed me the truth. Further validation in confronting him with “Brad? You could do better than Brad!” Out the door he went. Disappeared for 3 days before returning and flipping the script that I was crazy. Right… now we’re divorced and his dude is married 🤦🏻♀️ I’m sure they’ll be happy in hell together… reminiscing about all their deception. Yuck 🤮
I'm going through this now and I'm very embarrassed and thankful I wasn't given any diseases. That embarrassment is so real tho that I decided to keep his secret but I broke up with him.
I'm glad you moved on! Some people share their experiences and others will take it to their grave. I'm so glad that I ran across Walter's videos. My friends always call me homophobic but I'm not. I can pick one out in a crowd. #sixthsense
Walter, I think you are right that ultimately men will cheat just out of boredom if nothing else, a new adventure. You are very compassionate and understanding. I'm your fan.
The men magazines,The late phone calls,.The crazy thing is I always made an excuse for it all.I am sure that if my husband would not have left that I would still be trying to save
Walter I’m gay and I’m honest to women; I would never lie to a woman about my sexuality or pretend to give signals that I like her that way when I don’t in that way because I love men. Hence I’ve never been with a woman for a good reason that I’ve stated that I don’t want to lead her wrong that would lead to marriage when that’s not what I want; I want a man in my life. Just being honest.
This is just what I needed. 25 yrs. of marriage and we're white. I guess it depends on how the community you live in views gay men. Anyway, thank you. I've only known for a few months and it is a lonely place. I needed to hear this straight-up. Might be the 3rd time I said thank you, but can't help it.
Hi Walter, Just wanted to let you know how empowering your videos truly are to me. It gives me assurance to know that my personal struggle is finally understood. If I could jump through the screen of my computer, I would give you a big hug. Thank you so much for being an inspiration to me in my journey to self-recovery! I look forward to connecting with you on FB. May God continue to bless you in truth & light!
I have a few male gay friends. Why is it that my gay friends try to turn out young straight men, vs attempting/pursuing relationships with gay men. I was told it was similar to how straight men love virgins. What is this about. This is the only thing i get angry with my gay male friends--even attempting to get close to my 25 year old straight son. Inappropriate.
I am a Black woman, and by looking at your videos, you seem to be one of the very few "Honest & Real" Black gay men and women I have seen. A lot of Black homosexual people live in denial about their environment, which seems to be one of the primary reasons the HIV rate is so high in the Black community. I have a lot of respect for men like yourself.
You are a great help Mr. Hampton, I'm grateful that you tell the truth the whole truth about Gay men, (married gay men) that's why women respect you you don't lie, you are honest and I appreciate it, I have learned a lot from you a out different situations, I have no negative thoughts about hay men at all, it I love honesty, Thank you 😀🤔
You hit home here in Atlanta. All the narcissist/husband living gay/bi/swinging/blackout gangbang parties thereby, you resonated the quickest with saying I'm crying while he's living it up... thank you
If you experimented in your youth or swung but, haven't in years/decades and it bothers you, should one tell their wife or just let the past be? I don't cheat or lie. It's just the past that bothers me with my wife.
I had a friend who was bi and he told me things to look for in bi men. I will say so far 80%of the time he has been right. I feel many men think it's a game for them to trick women. That's not fair or funny. Women I know one dead give away it many bi men don't like women. If you take the time to find that out you will see. If a man does like women that will tell you a lot about him. Look to see if he has friends and what kind of friend they are. If he is too emotional with his feelings that's a good sign. He is always hanging with his sister's. He's a Mama's boy! That's a good sign.
It's good to know that's there's someone who feels the same way I do. Ithink they're the some of most horrible men on earth. There's a lot of women I'm goin to share this video with.
Walter, your video is extremely informative. How can a woman tell while dating if these men are on the downlow? Or what the most common signs of a man on the down low?
Hey Walter! Love ur video's, esp. the one with ur mother in it. She's beautiful. As a religious woman, she tried 2 keep it as real as possible. But i, a former christian 20 years, find that religion is a denial program, filled with myths. So, it's damn near impossible to "keep it real" cause ur programmed to "believe" vs knowing, and keep ur mind on block vs thinking 4 urself. "In all ur ways acknowledge him, and He shall direct ur paths." This is requiring us to not think. Peace.
i appreciate your honesty yes however situations like these you must use common sense logic over emotion. As long the woman is not infected with HIV is most important.
hey walter,i just subscribed to your channel ,after asking the question is my husband gay,i love your frank and honest answers,i wanted to ask you,if a man is cross dressing ,is he gay.he was strung out on meth,i havent lived with him in almost two yrs,he's in rehab,now and wanting us to get back together.what should i do..thank you for your time.PS.we have been married 8 yrs,and im shocked.
Hi Walter,I was wondering if anyone was addressing this issue.I am glad that you are.I found out that my husband was gay after knowing him since I was 16.I am now 42 and we are in the process of a divorce.Walter is it normal for me to feel an obligation to save him from himself.Do this make any sense to you.I felt this way for a long time.
Dear Walter Lee Hampton 11 hope you are well.My brother you are a goodman.I am a straight man enjoy watching your videos pleased that you are on RUclips
As a black gay out man, I am seeing it at a facility in Los Angeles CA. This old nigga who's 72 Year's and says he's been married to his wife for 50 years, however he's highly effiminate and emotional. He's been to prison. However he has probably been lying and manipulating this poor black woman all of these years. However he cannot walk up straight now, and is bent way over when he walks and has to get around on a scooter. Thank you Walter Hampton for this video. You look handsome!💯💯💯✌️✌️✌️👍👍👍👍👍 THANK YOU KING 👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
Why do so many people in the black community think it's just straight and gay? There is a such thing as being bi. Not all those guys are either one way or the other.
I am a gay man as well Walter. I enjoy & appreciate all of your videos. I have mixed feelings about a few comments in this one. I can understand a woman being so deeply in love with her husband that she refuses to believe he is cheating. Still I find it very difficult to believe that there are more than a handful of women that have never suspected infidelity when it has been going on for sometime. Chances are by the time we are 40, most of us have been cheated on at one time or another. It's one of the toughest pills to swallow but it's also life. Even though we might want to use a pillow to smother or beat this person in the head with bat - it would only leave us incarcerated.
Ew! You reinforce how much my gay husband hated me. I went along with all his excuses until there were none. It wasn’t me boo… still a hard pill to swallow. Like how could a person do this to another?? I was the problem?? No way!!
Walter what happens in a gay relationship when the partner finds out that his man has been having sex with a WOMAN.....is it just as devastating as when the woman finds out about her husband being with men?
It is painful going through what your going through, but how is it Walters fault for being gay? It is not Walter who hurt you! You should blame the person who hurt you, not the people he hurt you with or someone whom your husband might have preferred because the other person is a man. Do not take your hurt out on innocent parties. Take it out on the person who deserves it. Don't be angry at yourself also, it is not your fault. It is the damn creep who was hiding his extra marital activities.
I always suspected my sons father was gay. I told him as much. He's a buff guy always in the gym whatever. People need to listen to their inside voices honey
GET OUT FAST AS I CAN!!! LOVE BE CANCELLED. I'M CHOCOLATE ICE CREAM. HE DON'T LIKE CHOCOLATE ICE CREAM. there is nothing we can do for one another. LOVE CANCELLED. Pray for my health.
remember watching the movie'Colored Girls' where Janice and her husband was at the Opera and Janice grabbed her husband hand to keep his attention. I really understood what she was attempting to do.I always felt that if I did what he wanted sexually that it would keep him.I finally realized that i wasn't what he wanted.I saw the signs but ignored them?
J G-man That's not true, there actually are both bisexual men and women. HOWEVER the guise of being bisexual has been used by actual gay men so often that there is a perception that it doesn't exist. I would say it's more rare and uncommon to be a true bisexual male. But if a man is truly GAY and with a woman then he is just gay and with a woman possibly saying he's bi. That's different than truly being bi. I wouldn't be with a Bi man, at least not in my foreseeable future, but there are women who are comfortable with it.
J G-man I'm with you on this one! It doesn't matter if your the a pitcher or batter you're all on the same damn team. Let's keep it real! GAY is your label.
I just found out my husband cheated on me with 5 men while we were together, sometimes sneaking out in the night and coming back to sleep next to me. He says he loves me and that he was experimenting. I find it hard to believe. He now has converted to Hinduism (I am christian) and says that he was sick and is better now because of God. To me this sounds like bologna but I do not want to seem close minded. He continues to deny any "labels".....HELP jesus
Gay men on the DL are right about one thing, cheating and being dishonest with your girlfriend/wife is no different than a straight man cheating on his girlfriend/wife. Both are completely despicable. There is a chance, however, that the cheating straight man is a little bit less of a coward than the cheating gay man. I shouldn't have to explain why to anyone with an adult mind.
I am going thru this right now it is heart wrenching n painful I am so fuckin angry n hurt I didn't want to b a single mom especially like this it was healing until u said u were gay call me ignorant all u want I HATE YOU TOO!!!!!!! NO ONE CAN UNDERSTAND THIS PAIN!!!!!!
what do you think about this though... a lot of our grandparents our grandmothers were married to gay men and didn't know it and stayed til death do us part. Is the main thing for you now HIV????
Our show talks about married closeted LGBTQA frequently because Producer/CoHost Candice Fleszar-Smith has a gay husband. She's very open about it. Her husband's boyfriend has been on the show twice. Hubby's boyfriend talking about spending time alone with kids for first time, and coming out to his own wife. ruclips.net/video/VzMOt165i3U/видео.htmlm32s Candice met her husband's boyfriend LIVE on the show for the first time to help spread the word that this situation happens a lot. ruclips.net/video/OaCVIaJVMV4/видео.html StraightSpouse.org is a great resource for spouses of LGBTQA
Thank you for your words because I am highly devastated to have found this out last month..
The only thing she needs to do is leave him!
This is why I have much respect for openly gay men. I detest down low brothers, It is not fair. Thank God I have always had a gaydar, I can just tell when a man is gay.
Yasss
It's refreshing to see gay men like this.
You have been a blessing to me, Walter Lee. I am 60 yrs now and no one else has shared as much as you have about this subject with me. Yes, my ex is in Atlanta repeating the same game he played with me from age 15 with a new wife. God, help her. He's 62 now and need to leave women alone. Thank God, he's out of my life and I'm not HIV positive. There is no way possible a woman can make a gay man happy. They will beat and fuss with you when they want that man; they keep so many secrets.
Son you are coming with the truth. This is relevant 4 years later..
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This happend to me. My ex husband was living a double life for years. It took me years to figure it out. My kids and I were devastated for years. He had no remorse for what he did. If you are gay live your life privately don't marry an innocent person and bring innocent children into the world and ruin their lives. He was so abusive emotionally in this marriage now I understand it was because he was struggling with who he was. I forgive him but as a person he was cruel. Let God deal with him on judgement day! My children are a blessing and we are all doing well .
It's crazy how common this has become. I was shocked to find out that a woman that I grew up with died of AIDS that her husband had contracted and passed on. Another good friend of mine just divorced after her husband decided to tell her he was gay 2 kids later. Why even marry a woman?
Walter I just love you! The way you think and speak, so strong physically and mentally!!!!
Man you speak the truth I just found you a couple of days ago love your videos keep them coming...
+Chatill Marshall Thank You Chatill!
Walter, thanks for this video! The writing is usually on the wall. I have been married for 33 years. My husband, is denying his gayness, and claims he is not gay-phobic because ALL his friends are gay/bi. I respect and appreciate gay men who are honest about their gayness. I do NOT respect liars and users, regardless of their sexual persuasion.
Elgeta Witt all his friends are gay & Bi?
Walter Lee Hampton II Yes! Recently, he tried introducing me to Bruce Ratner for the second time in 1 year, when both Bruce and I tried telling him that he had introduced us last year. I am convinced that he only invites me to these events so he can prove to people that he is straight. But this is just one of the clues that he is in the closet. If he would admit to being bi, I would feel a lot better and be more accepting. Either way, I must move on.
sweetheart I hope u found peace and understanding. There is a silver lining for all things. I'm a heterosexual man and it saddens me out black men are doing these things to our sisters. hang in there
Thank you.
Thank you!!
I love how open, straight forward, and honest he is. Excellent informational video.
I respect your straightforwardness
Thank you for your words,...very truthful and went down straight to my heart. I am in pain. Hopefully i can recover from the betrayal.
Hey just saw his video & noticed your response. Hope your doing better, as I am now in the first 11 months since I found out.
@@bklynsummer hi! I finally set myself free Dec 2021. On the road to healing after a 2 yr session with a psychiatrist. I am now with a straight guy who loves me and we are 3months into the relationship. Praying for your healing too, dear.
@@mordoquiojunelle Not really better, just better at faking it to get more of the truth. If he thinks I'm ok with it, he confesses more. Just found out last week there was another guy. Worst yet he hooked up with him in 2015. So he's story about depression & childhood abuse, you already know. We don't fight but I know at this stage I don't feel anything in my heart. How could I ever love someone the way I did after such a betrayal. Kicker in the pants... I'm pretty open minded. I'd rather he tell me his desires then proceed to destroy my soul. But you know what? HIS ISSUE IS NOT MY ISSUE.... I don't allow myself to have a pity party. Although they do drive by's...lol But I do my best to say "He did this to us because he chose to, well I choose to not drown in his disrespect."
@@bklynsummer things get better through time. I am seeing other people now and he cannot do anything about it. I am done suffering. It's my time to find my happiness. We are civil.
I say succesfully leave the marriage get counseling and move on enjoy life.
Nasty! He had me thinking I was the problem… looking back he was picking up his dude and taking him to work in the morning… park meetups and so much more I saw in texts. They had plans to marry beards and keep their sick shit up. God showed me the truth. Further validation in confronting him with “Brad? You could do better than Brad!” Out the door he went. Disappeared for 3 days before returning and flipping the script that I was crazy. Right… now we’re divorced and his dude is married 🤦🏻♀️ I’m sure they’ll be happy in hell together… reminiscing about all their deception. Yuck 🤮
Sending you my prayers I’m in a similar kind of circumstance :(
Thank you! Sending you prayers as well. I’m so sorry!! 🙏🏼
I'm going through this now and I'm very embarrassed and thankful I wasn't given any diseases. That embarrassment is so real tho that I decided to keep his secret but I broke up with him.
Honey, you have nothing to be embarrassed about. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG! Don't blame yourself and hurt for someone else's actions.
I'm glad you moved on! Some people share their experiences and others will take it to their grave. I'm so glad that I ran across Walter's videos. My friends always call me homophobic but I'm not. I can pick one out in a crowd. #sixthsense
Walter, I can always count on you to tell the Truth!!
when he said hiv affects mostly gay men is one one. I'm heterosexual and I always thought that. This dude is gay and saying some real shit.
Walter I like how you get to the point and you don't pull any punches. There should be more people in the world like you.
Walter, I think you are right that ultimately men will cheat just out of boredom if nothing else, a new adventure. You are very compassionate and understanding. I'm your fan.
thank you Walter this video is very helpful
you're a very honest man,you have integrity,i enjoy your videos..
The men magazines,The late phone calls,.The crazy thing is I always made an excuse for it all.I am sure that if my husband would not have left that I would still be trying to save
Walter I’m gay and I’m honest to women; I would never lie to a woman about my sexuality or pretend to give signals that I like her that way when I don’t in that way because I love men. Hence I’ve never been with a woman for a good reason that I’ve stated that I don’t want to lead her wrong that would lead to marriage when that’s not what I want; I want a man in my life. Just being honest.
This is just what I needed. 25 yrs. of marriage and we're white. I guess it depends on how the community you live in views gay men. Anyway, thank you. I've only known for a few months and it is a lonely place.
I needed to hear this straight-up. Might be the 3rd time I said thank you, but can't help it.
Hi Walter, Just wanted to let you know how empowering your videos truly are to me. It gives me assurance to know that my personal struggle is finally understood. If I could jump through the screen of my computer, I would give you a big hug. Thank you so much for being an inspiration to me in my journey to self-recovery! I look forward to connecting with you on FB. May God continue to bless you in truth & light!
I have a few male gay friends. Why is it that my gay friends try to turn out young straight men, vs attempting/pursuing relationships with gay men. I was told it was similar to how straight men love virgins. What is this about. This is the only thing i get angry with my gay male friends--even attempting to get close to my 25 year old straight son. Inappropriate.
They're all predators...They're not reproducers they are recruiters
Walter, I LOVE YOUUUUUUU!!!!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, help women with their gaydar!!!! Seriously, do you have any videos of how to tell if a man is on the DL?
Jillian Mallory if I could come around the person and there friends I can definitely tell. I have a sixth sense for it.
@@KISSTHECHEF2010 I gotta figure out what you know… otherwise I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life!
That's right! RUN LIKE HELL ladies! There's no straddling the fence in any relationship. I feel for the women that can't pick up on it.
19 years 🙋🏻♀️ 🤦🏻♀️
My aunt's husband was gay, but she got tested and was negative. She dodged a bullet!
I am a Black woman, and by looking at your videos, you seem to be one of the very few "Honest & Real" Black gay men and women I have seen. A lot of Black homosexual people live in denial about their environment, which seems to be one of the primary reasons the HIV rate is so high in the Black community. I have a lot of respect for men like yourself.
You are a great help Mr. Hampton, I'm grateful that you tell the truth the whole truth about Gay men, (married gay men) that's why women respect you you don't lie, you are honest and I appreciate it, I have learned a lot from you a out different situations, I have no negative thoughts about hay men at all, it I love honesty, Thank you 😀🤔
I AGREE THERE ARE A LOT OF DOWNLOW BLACK GAY MEN TRYING TO LIVE HETERO LIVES
Even if the woman wears a strap on to please him she doesn't have the pounding strength of a man.
that will not work. they want A MAN!!
You hit home here in Atlanta. All the narcissist/husband living gay/bi/swinging/blackout gangbang parties thereby, you resonated the quickest with saying I'm crying while he's living it up... thank you
If you experimented in your youth or swung but, haven't in years/decades and it bothers you, should one tell their wife or just let the past be? I don't cheat or lie. It's just the past that bothers me with my wife.
Preach!
You are a true friend to women. I have watched your videos and you give very practical advice.
Thank you so much 🙂
I had a friend who was bi and he told me things to look for in bi men. I will say so far 80%of the time he has been right. I feel many men think it's a game for them to trick women. That's not fair or funny. Women I know one dead give away it many bi men don't like women. If you take the time to find that out you will see. If a man does like women that will tell you a lot about him. Look to see if he has friends and what kind of friend they are. If he is too emotional with his feelings that's a good sign. He is always hanging with his sister's. He's a Mama's boy! That's a good sign.
It's good to know that's there's someone who feels the same way I do. Ithink they're the some of most horrible men on earth. There's a lot of women I'm goin to share this video with.
Gay Men are who they are, everyone has Free Will.
Agreed… but said gay men should not marry straight women!! That’s just plain wrong!!
God bless you you are brave
Walter, your video is extremely informative. How can a woman tell while dating if these men are on the downlow? Or what the most common signs of a man on the down low?
7:00. You are one of my new favourite people. Thanks for the words Walter.
Thank you very much, I needed this!
Hey Walter! Love ur video's, esp. the one with ur mother in it. She's beautiful. As a religious woman, she tried 2 keep it as real as possible. But i, a former christian 20 years, find that religion is a denial program, filled with myths. So, it's damn near impossible to "keep it real" cause ur programmed to "believe" vs knowing, and keep ur mind on block vs thinking 4 urself. "In all ur ways acknowledge him, and He shall direct ur paths." This is requiring us to not think. Peace.
i appreciate your honesty yes however situations like these you must use common sense logic over emotion. As long the woman is not infected with HIV is most important.
Thank You for watching my videos!
Your welcome and thank you for keeping us in the know. We love you .
but how can you save him?....how can you help him?
hey walter,i just subscribed to your channel ,after asking the question is my husband gay,i love your frank and honest answers,i wanted to ask you,if a man is cross dressing ,is he gay.he was strung out on meth,i havent lived with him in almost two yrs,he's in rehab,now and wanting us to get back together.what should i do..thank you for your time.PS.we have been married 8 yrs,and im shocked.
thank you...Good honest talk..no matter the difference or belief..honest talk..thank you.
why is this just geared to black women? it happens to all races
I just love your honesty
Hi Walter,I was wondering if anyone was addressing this issue.I am glad that you are.I found out that my husband was gay after knowing him since I was 16.I am now 42 and we are in the process of a divorce.Walter is it normal for me to feel an obligation to save him from himself.Do this make any sense to you.I felt this way for a long time.
Amen. I appreciate your perspective. Honestly
Dear Walter Lee Hampton 11 hope you are well.My brother you are a goodman.I am a straight man enjoy watching your videos pleased that you are on RUclips
I love your videos you are most definitely one of my favorite RUclipsr's
As a black gay out man, I am seeing it at a facility in Los Angeles CA. This old nigga who's 72 Year's and says he's been married to his wife for 50 years, however he's highly effiminate and emotional. He's been to prison. However he has probably been lying and manipulating this poor black woman all of these years. However he cannot walk up straight now, and is bent way over when he walks and has to get around on a scooter. Thank you Walter Hampton for this video. You look handsome!💯💯💯✌️✌️✌️👍👍👍👍👍 THANK YOU KING 👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
Wow!
I've been watching Walter since 2013 and this was the first video of him I watched.
Thank you, I'm trying to get out. I don't know how to start.
I agree totally! Putting God first though.
I love you! 👏
He reminds me of the man that played on green mile
Why do so many people in the black community think it's just straight and gay? There is a such thing as being bi. Not all those guys are either one way or the other.
yes i do.
You are so right, i was manipulated.
Walter, this guy secretly taped me wit his phone, from back position! The police said they can't do anything! I'm pissed!
I sorry.I should have asked if you have seen the movie Colored Girls,
True
Yes you are right
I am a gay man as well Walter. I enjoy & appreciate all of your videos. I have mixed feelings about a few comments in this one. I can understand a woman being so deeply in love with her husband that she refuses to believe he is cheating. Still I find it very difficult to believe that there are more than a handful of women that have never suspected infidelity when it has been going on for sometime. Chances are by the time we are 40, most of us have been cheated on at one time or another. It's one of the toughest pills to swallow but it's also life. Even though we might want to use a pillow to smother or beat this person in the head with bat - it would only leave us incarcerated.
Ew! You reinforce how much my gay husband hated me. I went along with all his excuses until there were none. It wasn’t me boo… still a hard pill to swallow. Like how could a person do this to another?? I was the problem?? No way!!
Hi Walter, I'm a new subie to your channel.
Walter if a man need sex in his wife ass is he gay pls do a video of that.
Walter what happens in a gay relationship when the partner finds out that his man has been having sex with a WOMAN.....is it just as devastating as when the woman finds out about her husband being with men?
How tall are you Walter?
It is painful going through what your going through, but how is it Walters fault for being gay? It is not Walter who hurt you! You should blame the person who hurt you, not the people he hurt you with or someone whom your husband might have preferred because the other person is a man. Do not take your hurt out on innocent parties. Take it out on the person who deserves it. Don't be angry at yourself also, it is not your fault. It is the damn creep who was hiding his extra marital activities.
Thank you❤️☹️
why do you hate me?....
Thanks
My husband just came out to me last week. This week he has told me he wants to try bedding another female.
What?! Maybe another female will make him straight 🤦🏻♀️
Wow
Will I think everyone should be able to live their life happy
I always suspected my sons father was gay. I told him as much. He's a buff guy always in the gym whatever. People need to listen to their inside voices honey
Thank You
GET OUT FAST AS I CAN!!! LOVE BE CANCELLED. I'M CHOCOLATE ICE CREAM. HE DON'T LIKE CHOCOLATE ICE CREAM. there is nothing we can do for one another.
LOVE CANCELLED. Pray for my health.
yes i have!
Have u seen that video dr Boyce Watkins did of you?
remember watching the movie'Colored Girls' where Janice and her husband was at the Opera and Janice grabbed her husband hand to keep his attention. I really understood what she was attempting to do.I always felt that if I did what he wanted sexually that it would keep him.I finally realized that i wasn't what he wanted.I saw the signs but ignored them?
There is no bi.
J G-man That's not true, there actually are both bisexual men and women. HOWEVER the guise of being bisexual has been used by actual gay men so often that there is a perception that it doesn't exist. I would say it's more rare and uncommon to be a true bisexual male. But if a man is truly GAY and with a woman then he is just gay and with a woman possibly saying he's bi. That's different than truly being bi. I wouldn't be with a Bi man, at least not in my foreseeable future, but there are women who are comfortable with it.
J G-man I'm with you on this one! It doesn't matter if your the a pitcher or batter you're all on the same damn team. Let's keep it real! GAY is your label.
What about lesbians who get married and have children?
chili powder this video has nothing to do with that topic!
chili powder I'm sure that this can be applied to lesbians too.
Water, why you changed your stance on this, I will never know.
not really.
"Why I changed my mind about bisexual men being married to women" video. What did I misunderstand?
I just found out my husband cheated on me with 5 men while we were together, sometimes sneaking out in the night and coming back to sleep next to me. He says he loves me and that he was experimenting. I find it hard to believe. He now has converted to Hinduism (I am christian) and says that he was sick and is better now because of God. To me this sounds like bologna but I do not want to seem close minded. He continues to deny any "labels".....HELP jesus
Juliette Coy Sick with what? You should get tested & make sure he didn't give you anything
Why are yall still married, he's gay, come on man
You know he’s gay and has lied to you. Either its okay and you accept it, or you dont and go about your business.
Yes, get tested! Best thing my ex ever did was to stop sleeping in our bed… took some time but I figured out what was up.
he is!
Gay men on the DL are right about one thing, cheating and being dishonest with your girlfriend/wife is no different than a straight man cheating on his girlfriend/wife. Both are completely despicable. There is a chance, however, that the cheating straight man is a little bit less of a coward than the cheating gay man. I shouldn't have to explain why to anyone with an adult mind.
Ummm
yummmm!
Ummmmmm, he is gay.
I am going thru this right now it is heart wrenching n painful I am so fuckin angry n hurt I didn't want to b a single mom especially like this it was healing until u said u were gay call me ignorant all u want I HATE YOU TOO!!!!!!! NO ONE CAN UNDERSTAND THIS PAIN!!!!!!
Yessssss!
Be heart broken.
what do you think about this though... a lot of our grandparents our grandmothers were married to gay men and didn't know it and stayed til death do us part. Is the main thing for you now HIV????
Our show talks about married closeted LGBTQA frequently because Producer/CoHost Candice Fleszar-Smith has a gay husband. She's very open about it. Her husband's boyfriend has been on the show twice.
Hubby's boyfriend talking about spending time alone with kids for first time, and coming out to his own wife. ruclips.net/video/VzMOt165i3U/видео.htmlm32s
Candice met her husband's boyfriend LIVE on the show for the first time to help spread the word that this situation happens a lot. ruclips.net/video/OaCVIaJVMV4/видео.html
StraightSpouse.org is a great resource for spouses of LGBTQA