I knew a guy who was a Power Rangers fan and actually met his wife at a convention. She was a big girl but once they got married he paid the bills so she could just go to the gym. She actually lost 70 pounds, but gained a new boyfriend, her trainer. When the husband found out it was “Divorcing Time”, and ironically the stress of divorce caused the ex wife to gain all of her weight back.
"i cheated on my husband multiple time, asked for an open marriage, so i can continue doing it without guilt. but now my husband is seeing another woman, and it's unacceptable." does she hear herself ?? wtf
Literally my ex bro hahaha some girls are Psychos, just leave soon if you see some damn clear red flags, like i should have left her when she was flirting with her male friends but it was just ''fun'' yea right. My story ended just like you would expect it...
you know it's bs when she had to preface it with all this nice stuff beforehand lol. It's so manipulative the way she tries to get him to admit he 's attracted to other women before she asks to open up the marriage so she can turn around and act like he wanted it too. Smh. Noticing somebody in public (especially girls that wear those tight yoga pants they know what they're doing) is not the same as actually being attracted and in love with that person. People that have relationship problems just don't know what real love is. I notice hot people and skimpy people all the time. Am I attracted to them because I noticed what they wanted me to notice? no.
It's the rights of that baby she terminated a long time ago, and the fact that she already takes advantage of the husband and gets away with it.. Life has ways to bring the truth out to light, she exposes herself by herself out of greed cuz she's a back clapping addict!
Yah but most men don't get that if she reaches the point of asking this question, the guy has messed up alot over and over in the past that he killed all the desire she could have for him and she's looking elsewhere for it
Notice how she didn't tell her ex husband and daughter about her previous cheating with her personal trainer and her abortion, or the fact that she was sleeping with her coworker.
She made sure she told everyone enough about her ex-husband that a quick google search would reveal who he was. Lol She's still mad about the situation.
She destroyed a good marriage for her vanity and ego. She deserves her karma so she shouldn't be whining now. She built the prison of her own unhappiness and humiliation.
Yet she admitted that his behavior changed when he did sleep with that chick, so she even kind if states that there was no evidence of him cheating before, other than her guilt and justification for her first affair...
bastard culture is very real...very promoted...very protected...her body her choice, his seed his right to know--absolutely no reason mandatory paternity tests should not be a standard yet
They think that their feelings are normal. Sounds like she has daddy issues due to being brought up by a single parent and needs male affection from any male that will give it to her as got none from a dad.
“I’m 100% sure that our daughter is my husband’s” I’m absolutely sure it’s not with this line she wrote. I hope very much that he gets a DNA test on the daughter eventually.
Apparently she didn't tell him and he didn't know Idk she was good at hiding it maybe, it's Karma who exposed her since she took full advantage of her husband! The truth will surface no matter what.
Typical... this wife decides an open marriage is going to make HER happier (let's be honest, that's what she really intended). Her husband goes along with it and gets with the neighbour who's younger and more successful. This leads the wife to assume they were already cheating... go figure. The selfishness and delusion required to shift the blame for the failure of the marriage.
Barely 5 minutes in and she's already a confessed cheater, wanted the open relationship, blames ex husband for cheating during their open relationship, and accuses him of cheating prior. Ma'am, grow up and learn to take accountability. Stop being a child, and behave like you have one. Edit: minute 6, "no sleeping with coworkers"... immediately tells us she wants to sleep with a coworker
If I were her daughter, I don't think I'd ever be able to respect my mother again. Blew up her family, cheated, and is a hypocritical narcissist. Where's the love for someone like that?
@@Notmyname979its crazier when you consider that she says her daughter still questions her dad in pushing her to open it. Meaning her daughter probably still doesn't know she cheated, otherwise the daughter would know just how much motive her mom had in pushing to open it. Shes clearly taking her cheating to the grave outside of that post she made. Damn shame a young lady has to be left in the dark because she cant bear telling the whole truth. I dont get how you can out your kid through pain to ease your own guilt man.. That shits so messed up.
@@_ybabruh imo the one asking for the open marriage is the one to blame always. She probably doesn’t know her mom was the one who initiated it. If I were the dad I would’ve just told her the truth. Problem is most people never believe the dad
@@Notmyname979 yeah i agree. Well at least it came out when it did, just gotta hope the trauma doesn't linger on too long. Couldn't imagine what I'd do if i had to view my parents in that light.
Jesus this sort of story scares the crap out of me. This is a literal horror story, like Freddy Kruger or Jason Vorhees. You can be the best man ever and she'll still cheat. How can someone be so horrible.
That's why you can never let yourself get too attached. You need to be forever mentally ready for BS. If the day comes, at least you can shock her to the core by moving on immediately.
Many good people get horrible partner because narccistic thing good hearted == weak, not just good men too, good women often get bad man as her partner, sad but its what often happen in this god damn society
Not every woman is like that. We married in our early 20s and never looked back. We have been happily and playfully married for more decades than most people have been living. It was first time for everything for both of us. To this day we still visit during meals, flirt at home, and hold hands in public. We have had differences and disagreements, but we would resolve these one way or another and live forward. Infidelity never entered our thinking. We both had to work on things here and there, but we succeeded because both of our hearts are in this until we are no longer on Earth. One of my favorite joys is a huge and lingering arms full hug of my angel wife in the mornings. She pampers me and I pamper her. Life can be good, BUT both spouses have to work at it.
Be on your guard always don't get too attached or blind in love. Keep your eyes and ears open, get secret paternity tests for your children if you have any. Basically don't get too comfortable.
Statistically, 80% of husbands and 87% of wives DON’T cheat. So, the odds are very much in your favor. (Based on the stat that 20% of married men and 13% of married women have had sex outside of their marriage.)
@@kevinsmithgaming Quality of man makes no difference. Even if you're a billionaire, why would a woman stick around when the government will make you hand over half your stuff if she decides to leave? As soon as she feels like it, she's gone and, there's no point in saying that wouldn't happen with a billionaire when it already does happen.
A successful marriage is one in which either you or your spouse are dead. So long as you are married the likelihood that it will end prematurely through divorce or death is inevitable. Just the idea that you CAN divorce and have to start over is enough to not get married.
After losing weight I started receiving attention from other men, so I asked for an open marriage and he agreed. I can't prove it but I know in my heart that he cheated on me. She is with my neighbor, she's younger and successful. Wow! What an idiot!
You told your daughter everything? (No, you didn't!) The saying is. "What a tangled web you weave when first you start to deceive." You're cheating on your husband with your professional trainer. Who was helping you lose weight. While your husband was encouraging you to help you to lose weight to be a better, healthier version of yourself. You did not tell this part of your story to your daughter. So no, you did not tell her everything. Not only did you change the relationship with your husband to be based on lies and deception. You have now included your daughter in those lies and deceptions.
6:53 "We're not sleeping with co-workers." 8:25 "I started to flirt more with the guy at work." See guys? Open relationship = changing the rules. If they change the rules once, they'll change it again - which means there are no rules, no relationship anymore. You're single, and so is she. It's just not being fully acknowledged. If she wants to open the relationship, she want to act single. So let her BE single, and LEAVE! #Freedom!
Exactly. You want to set rules? There are no rules. Wanting to run around and sleep with random people is antithetical to a relationship, it's just over and let her know it!
Interesting and enlightening story! Marriage is not just a commitment, but a daily work on the relationship. Thank you for sharing this story - it makes you think about what is truly important.
@@reallyshel This is why I tell guys they should never chase a woman. If she doesn't show just as much interest in him as he does in her, move on to the next one.
Yep, her greed after so much cheating and getting away with it or pity on the husband cluelessness from her side she decided to tell him let's open it that's led him to find the one.
Open marriage means the woman can cheat but the man can't or else he will lose half his stuff. Its a situation where the woman doesn't want a divorce but still wants to cheat. She benefits more staying married but she also knows a real divorce is still a pretty good consolation prize.
Karma for cheating on him previously. And you admit that you was emotionally cheating on him before asking for the open marriage. You got what you deserved.
She already plays him and gets away with it, we thank her for her greedy behavior about opening a relationship with him to toss her this deceitful wife she never mentioned the first affair to her husband
They have something called the Darwin awards for people who end themselves through stupidity. I think there should be a new award for people who end their relationship through stupidity. I suggest calling it the Tomasi award...
😅 Beauty fades overtime. Women don't like this line. They want to be the beautiful princess until their head is full of Grey hairs. It has nothing to do with weight. It has nothing to do with lifestyle. She was a promiscuous woman before and after her marriage she just never decided to settle down. I'll give her credit she gave 18 years of marriage to her husband. But in the end she never bonded with her husband. Ladies life is so much better when you don't cheat.
"I started cheating on my husband and asked for an open marriage to be able to do it guilt free." Also her 'I believe he was cheating on me prior to the open marriage' Wow, never have I witnessed such a cut and dry case of pure projection in my life.
14:50- so she wanted her back blown out by other dudes but can't accept the fact that the husband slept with someone else? These creatures live in the double standard reality
She cheated before so it came back again when she decided to ask for an open marriage. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Now she will pile on the pounds. As always, when they ask for an open marriage they already have someone in mind, lined up or are already screwing around and just want to go full tilt.
Notice how she tried to lighten the deal by making it seem like he was the elone that wanted other women common thing women do Instagate she literally said not to mess with someone at work and she did the opposite lmao leave it to women to confront you for their mistakes
NO REAL MAN WILL EVER BE DUMB ENOUGH TO GO BACK!!! You’ve already signaled to him that he isn’t number 1 and no relationship has enough room for two masculine individuals…
I swear the selfishness knows no bounds. She did admit to it being her fault, but did you notice her say " I was afraid I would get fat again because of the American diet". More blame shifting.
I would never accept an open marriage. That is your wife saying that she wants the security you offer her but she also wants to live like she is single when the opportunity presents itself. Go be single then, bye.
I am so pleased this guy divorced her, she is an awful piece of work & he is now free. His daughter laying any blame at his door for this situation is idiotic…
Cheating is like stealing. It's a moral issue. This woman is immoral. She is trying to give herself an "out" "I asked him for an open marriage" II was afraid of younger women" "I saw this, saw that, felt this, felt that" She is self centered, was looking at other men, and trying to make it his issue, when he told her it wasn't. She is placing on him, what it her fault. Our society especially women, places too much emphasis on fictional "romantic" sex. From dressing, to make up, to surgical procedures, to stupid quizzes online. Marriage is about more than sex, but sex is still important in a different way, a much closer way, because it does change. Yet here she is, sneaking around, and blaming him, for something she initiated. She is getting what she deserved.
Some how the earlier betrayal was not enough to be honest but then has the nerve to ask for the open marriage. Well he is the father of your daughter because he raised her, but he or she has the right to know if he is 100% the biological father. Karma, may have struck her as he decided to go with the woman who loves him and the one who loves him back without question. When the person who usually ask for the open marriage is the one who thought about cheating. Well, you got what you wanted and fortunately so did he. 😢
the daughter has ZERO reason to be mad at the father. Her mom is 100% the issue and the only problem. Before she even asked for the open marriage, mind you she only did it so she didnt feel guilty for cheating, and ruined a perfect relationship with a guy who loved her and wanted no one else. For the daughter to even think about being upset with her father just shows how dumb women truly are.
So right off the bat she accuses her husband of cheating with no proof just a hunch. Then drops a line casually like its nothing that she had cheated before in the relationship. Talks her husband into an open marriage. Says one of the rules is no sleeping with co-workers and then immediately starts sleeping with a co-worker.... this is the kind of shit women do and don't see any of the bad in what they did.
The messed up part is that the daughter is blaming her father not knowing he mom was unfaithful from the start and pushed for the open marriage so she can have a license to enjoy herself.
1: she said she felt desired and attractive to and by other men 2: she was very excited and happy and immediately went to create a profile on apps 3: she is the first to almost right away, start to flirt, and be bolder with her co-worker even though she herself set that rule, then other guys shortly after 4: she realized she only wanted the open marriage for herself, not her husband 5: she already cheated on him and got pregnant years before by another man, when her and her husband were already together 6: she even said she didn't want to go around being sneaky and quite 😂 There are so many red flags that the husband never knew about. He probably only agreed to the open marriage because he knew she would still do it behind his back even if he said no
Ight so..... Basically when you ask a man, ANY men, literally anyone, this is automatically a "oh... ok so we're divorced but we live in the same house" situation. The man will mentally check out at that exact moment. You played your cards and made a fool of your stupid ahh.
Work with a girl who had an open marriage. They were swingers at the time. Last I heard, he dumped her right after their son had his 18th birthday and now the ex-husband has a harem of girlfriends. She lives alone and is depressed and broke all the time…
As soon as she asks for a open marriage the relationship is over. You have no option but to leave because if you tell her no she is still going to cheat and the mere fact that she asked to have an open marriage says she has zero respect for you.
Rules in open marriage are laughable honestly...rules are first thing what fly from window. Especially rule like "no emotional attachment" yeah, right, thats simply not achievable for guy who is monogamous, if course he will catch feelings for his new lover and leave a 304 who doesnt respect him
@@scaredpaul540 The reason she talks about the possibility of her being pregnant even if she's 47 years old if she didn't use protection it means if she's really sure about not getting pregnant she would sleep letting men fill her up, she does not care about STDs This is another rule she broke!
OP is a broken 💔 woman. I knew she only asked to open the marriage so she could sleep with... Wait for it... The CO-WORKER! Women who want to open their marriages always have a guy in mind. And yet, this is what happens: Hubby ends up replacing the wife with someone better. Play stupid games 🎮, win stupid prizes 🏆.
I had a friend in an open relationship. Only. Every time it was his turn to boink outside the relationship she would create an emergency or fake being sick to ruin it Every time. That is only the cases she allowed him to make plans with.. others she refused outright. I used to think that ployamory stuff was cool.. but after some time with the S&M kink groups myself it completely disgusted me. Most of those people are damaged.
Anyone care to listen to this and try to claim women aren't their own worst enemy? Why would a man want to marry a woman knowing he has to remain vigilant, in case she cheats or is tempted to cheat for the next 40-50 years? Any woman who ever asks "why don't men want to get married?", because it's not worth the lifetime of stress and aggravation required to keep you from breaking the vows you voluntarily made when you got married.
So, she broke her own rules, sleeps with a co-worker, gets jealous that her husband is following the open marriage, selfish, yeah this woman is fucking crazy lol
Gets pipes down by multiple dudes over months while her hubby is clearly miserable and the second he starts dating, she stalks him and loses her shit. 🤣
The moment a woman I'm with has sex with another guy, and she doesn't need to tell me, I can tell, I just lose all affection and attraction I had to her, in this day and age it makes it hard for me to be in a relationship, women are so loose you can't get actual monogamy almost anywhere.
He’s genuinely asking where the relationship might’ve derailed & she just fully came out & said “it didn’t. You just married a girl the can’t keep it her pants.”
I love how the rules she place was no people at work. Meanwhile, she was already wanting a guy that was at her job and open the marriage just to talk to him pretty much.
Again, she asked for it. Whenever good men accept "open-relationships" asked by their wives, you can be sure, that if their wives try to "close" it again, because they are good man, they will ask for a divorce. Women now a days are at their worst, not cause they are naturally like that, but because our society created a cicle of pride around women who make them prideful. Let's pray for women and their improvement towards God .
The entitlement and narciccism here is on another level. Cheats, gets pregnant by another man, asks for an open marriage and expects the husband to be the faithfull one because she gets jelous. And then bitches about the outcome. I wish i knew her, I would laugh my ass off at her.
These are fake stories right? Nobody can be that stupid to finally feel stupid at 13:30 mark instead of 1 min into the story mark. 😂😂😂😂😂 Tell me these are just some kind of entertainment only, like those sex story websites back in the days? And this story is like a pyramid of not taking accountability by unnecessary rationalization of ones mistakes! Oh my God! This is so infuriating.
The cheating wife asking to her "simpy stupid understimated husband" for an "open divorce" thinking it was going to be for her continued onesided benefit right in front of his face, but backfired with undesirable results, open replacement fast. 👋 😂😂😂🎉
Irony is that basic math says that the choices go in the men’s favor as you get older. If a man has a job,house, takes care of himself. The man will absolutely have more choices and be able to be selective. He wasn’t cheating and you wounded his pride. Your mistake was once he adjusted to his situation. He realized it was better for him and he had endless opportunities. Young,old,successful,very attractive,sexually fun and mostly crazy with very few good choices. Like how men treat his ex wife. He doesn’t have to commit to them.
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I knew a guy who was a Power Rangers fan and actually met his wife at a convention. She was a big girl but once they got married he paid the bills so she could just go to the gym. She actually lost 70 pounds, but gained a new boyfriend, her trainer. When the husband found out it was “Divorcing Time”, and ironically the stress of divorce caused the ex wife to gain all of her weight back.
Haha fat again and all alone.
🤣🤣🤣 Good
@@tonkatruck5858indeed no room on this planet for more evil "humans"
I love happy endings 😂
THE IRONY TASTES LIKE STRAWBERRY.
"i cheated on my husband multiple time, asked for an open marriage, so i can continue doing it without guilt. but now my husband is seeing another woman, and it's unacceptable."
does she hear herself ?? wtf
well she is a female. That is what they do
Literally my ex bro hahaha some girls are Psychos, just leave soon if you see some damn clear red flags, like i should have left her when she was flirting with her male friends but it was just ''fun'' yea right. My story ended just like you would expect it...
completely narcissistic
She hears the words but her feelings are to strong to logicaly listen to them...
@@marecare77 Women use their feelings, emotions and personal experiencies as the arbiter of truth. Not logic, reason or the history of our species!.
Asking for an "open marriage" is like asking 4 the divorce 😂
It's like giving both partners the opportunity to replace the other without sneaking around or fighting but the marriage is over all the same
Woman: I have a unicorn.
Same woman : want a horse.
Trades unicorn for a horse, then cries she lost the unicorn lol
you know it's bs when she had to preface it with all this nice stuff beforehand lol. It's so manipulative the way she tries to get him to admit he 's attracted to other women before she asks to open up the marriage so she can turn around and act like he wanted it too. Smh. Noticing somebody in public (especially girls that wear those tight yoga pants they know what they're doing) is not the same as actually being attracted and in love with that person. People that have relationship problems just don't know what real love is. I notice hot people and skimpy people all the time. Am I attracted to them because I noticed what they wanted me to notice? no.
Women never get it…you ask a man this question and it’s done. Even if the guy agrees. You will be replaced
It's the rights of that baby she terminated a long time ago, and the fact that she already takes advantage of the husband and gets away with it..
Life has ways to bring the truth out to light, she exposes herself by herself out of greed cuz she's a back clapping addict!
And if they ask the question they are already cheating
Or wanting to cheat, which is just as bad. @@joeblow871
Yah but most men don't get that if she reaches the point of asking this question, the guy has messed up alot over and over in the past that he killed all the desire she could have for him and she's looking elsewhere for it
@@jwill9877 still not an excuse. Communicate or divorce. If somebody keeps messing up & you still stay with them, that your fault.
Cheating because of "Insecurity"?
No. It's self-centeredness.
Notice how she didn't tell her ex husband and daughter about her previous cheating with her personal trainer and her abortion, or the fact that she was sleeping with her coworker.
She made sure she told everyone enough about her ex-husband that a quick google search would reveal who he was. Lol
She's still mad about the situation.
@TehShadowDeath right that's crazy. It's almost like she wants someone to look him up and point him to this video
Don't forget they agreed to use protection. You don't get pregnant from accident, especially if you're an old woman. She was rawdogging hard.
Women and accountability ... 🏃
Good point
She destroyed a good marriage for her vanity and ego. She deserves her karma so she shouldn't be whining now. She built the prison of her own unhappiness and humiliation.
And she’ll do it again and again.
Right away blaming him when she said I think he was Cheating. Taking accountability without blaming somebody else hard for women
Never mind the fact she herself already cheated 😂
@@bennyfugazzi1054that's how cheaters operate
That part she already was dirty af for all we know he never went outside the marriage until she told him ….
The fastest thing on Earth is a woman fleeing from accountability.
Yet she admitted that his behavior changed when he did sleep with that chick, so she even kind if states that there was no evidence of him cheating before, other than her guilt and justification for her first affair...
“I decide to confront my husband” Smh … she opened the marriage. Crazy as hell.
But didn't admit to her 1st affair or sleeping with colleague which was against the rules.
I am 100% sure my daughter is my husband's, what she really means is I am 100% NOT sure if my daughter is my husband's!.
bastard culture is very real...very promoted...very protected...her body her choice, his seed his right to know--absolutely no reason mandatory paternity tests should not be a standard yet
Cheaters ALWAYS think the other person is cheating..... Because they think everyone else does it if they are. Just garbage
They think that their feelings are normal. Sounds like she has daddy issues due to being brought up by a single parent and needs male affection from any male that will give it to her as got none from a dad.
I like how the affair baby termination was glossed over.
it means nothing to them - it really is disgraceful and disgusting. The West has fallen.
To take a life while cheating on your husband is crazy
😂 so?
She talks about STDs and protection while she was already a long time ago in the street without protection letting men fill her up!
I’m beginning to think this story is kind of made up since it’s hard to hide an abortion surgery from someone she lives with.
“I’m 100% sure that our daughter is my husband’s”
I’m absolutely sure it’s not with this line she wrote. I hope very much that he gets a DNA test on the daughter eventually.
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Yep!!
Shes an adult when this is happening. Hes already raised her...
If my wife asked for an open relationship, I’d immediately know she doesn’t truly love me. It would be over that instant
The one thing that she never says is did he know she cheated on him the first time,this is just another pathetic insecure attention seeking 304.
Apparently she didn't tell him and he didn't know Idk she was good at hiding it maybe, it's Karma who exposed her since she took full advantage of her husband! The truth will surface no matter what.
@@adnanorochi3761 Or, he secretly found out she gave him gonorrhea and took the opportunity to hook up once she proposed to open up the marriage.
Wasn't one of the rules "no coworkers"? She went straight there!
BASICALLY 😅
notice how many lies tricks and deceit s he used! not a good person
She meant no coworkers for him, she meant rules only for him. Her coworker went in rawsky and in all orifaces to claim her
Then got mad at him for doing the same thing
She is literally full of bull if she is not full of stds too. Good riddance
Typical... this wife decides an open marriage is going to make HER happier (let's be honest, that's what she really intended). Her husband goes along with it and gets with the neighbour who's younger and more successful. This leads the wife to assume they were already cheating... go figure. The selfishness and delusion required to shift the blame for the failure of the marriage.
“he won’t leave his new woman” - no, he simply doesn’t want YOU back!
See what happens when a woman tells you they LOVE YOU and you're Perfect ! Ahhh, True Love !
...tf...he LOVED you when you were BIG, and helped you to lose the weight? That's the ultimate investment any man would make with a overweight woman.
Barely 5 minutes in and she's already a confessed cheater, wanted the open relationship, blames ex husband for cheating during their open relationship, and accuses him of cheating prior. Ma'am, grow up and learn to take accountability. Stop being a child, and behave like you have one.
Edit: minute 6, "no sleeping with coworkers"... immediately tells us she wants to sleep with a coworker
If I were her daughter, I don't think I'd ever be able to respect my mother again. Blew up her family, cheated, and is a hypocritical narcissist. Where's the love for someone like that?
5:54 The marriage ended right there.
@@Notmyname979its crazier when you consider that she says her daughter still questions her dad in pushing her to open it. Meaning her daughter probably still doesn't know she cheated, otherwise the daughter would know just how much motive her mom had in pushing to open it. Shes clearly taking her cheating to the grave outside of that post she made. Damn shame a young lady has to be left in the dark because she cant bear telling the whole truth. I dont get how you can out your kid through pain to ease your own guilt man.. That shits so messed up.
@@_ybabruh imo the one asking for the open marriage is the one to blame always. She probably doesn’t know her mom was the one who initiated it. If I were the dad I would’ve just told her the truth. Problem is most people never believe the dad
@@Notmyname979 yeah i agree. Well at least it came out when it did, just gotta hope the trauma doesn't linger on too long. Couldn't imagine what I'd do if i had to view my parents in that light.
Jesus this sort of story scares the crap out of me. This is a literal horror story, like Freddy Kruger or Jason Vorhees.
You can be the best man ever and she'll still cheat. How can someone be so horrible.
That's why you can never let yourself get too attached. You need to be forever mentally ready for BS. If the day comes, at least you can shock her to the core by moving on immediately.
Ask Tom Brady
Many good people get horrible partner because narccistic thing good hearted == weak, not just good men too, good women often get bad man as her partner, sad but its what often happen in this god damn society
Not every woman is like that. We married in our early 20s and never looked back. We have been happily and playfully married for more decades than most people have been living. It was first time for everything for both of us.
To this day we still visit during meals, flirt at home, and hold hands in public. We have had differences and disagreements, but we would resolve these one way or another and live forward. Infidelity never entered our thinking. We both had to work on things here and there, but we succeeded because both of our hearts are in this until we are no longer on Earth.
One of my favorite joys is a huge and lingering arms full hug of my angel wife in the mornings. She pampers me and I pamper her.
Life can be good, BUT both spouses have to work at it.
Be on your guard always don't get too attached or blind in love. Keep your eyes and ears open, get secret paternity tests for your children if you have any. Basically don't get too comfortable.
And this men is why marriage is not worth it…
DAMN SKIPPY!!
Just don't be a low quality man marrying low quality women. But I do agree, the balance of scales is screwed
Statistically, 80% of husbands and 87% of wives DON’T cheat. So, the odds are very much in your favor.
(Based on the stat that 20% of married men and 13% of married women have had sex outside of their marriage.)
@@kevinsmithgaming Quality of man makes no difference. Even if you're a billionaire, why would a woman stick around when the government will make you hand over half your stuff if she decides to leave? As soon as she feels like it, she's gone and, there's no point in saying that wouldn't happen with a billionaire when it already does happen.
A successful marriage is one in which either you or your spouse are dead. So long as you are married the likelihood that it will end prematurely through divorce or death is inevitable.
Just the idea that you CAN divorce and have to start over is enough to not get married.
Wait I thought she said “no coworkers”. Now if I’m correct didn’t she sleep with the coworker first?
Classic "rules for thee but not for me"
It's worse. She had the guy lined up, scheming and being manipulative to her innocent hubby. Consequences for her and W for him. Perfect!
After losing weight I started receiving attention from other men, so I asked for an open marriage and he agreed. I can't prove it but I know in my heart that he cheated on me. She is with my neighbor, she's younger and successful. Wow! What an idiot!
She cheats, asked for an open marriage and gets it. She sets all the rules and BREAKS THEM ALL IMMEDIATELY 😂😂😂
You told your daughter everything? (No, you didn't!) The saying is. "What a tangled web you weave when first you start to deceive."
You're cheating on your husband with your professional trainer. Who was helping you lose weight. While your husband was encouraging you to help you to lose weight to be a better, healthier version of yourself.
You did not tell this part of your story to your daughter. So no, you did not tell her everything. Not only did you change the relationship with your husband to be based on lies and deception. You have now included your daughter in those lies and deceptions.
Exactly.
6:53 "We're not sleeping with co-workers."
8:25 "I started to flirt more with the guy at work."
See guys?
Open relationship = changing the rules. If they change the rules once, they'll change it again - which means there are no rules, no relationship anymore. You're single, and so is she. It's just not being fully acknowledged.
If she wants to open the relationship, she want to act single. So let her BE single, and LEAVE! #Freedom!
This story is fiction.
@@nedinator3000 ah yes but so many of them are not fiction
Exactly. You want to set rules? There are no rules. Wanting to run around and sleep with random people is antithetical to a relationship, it's just over and let her know it!
Interesting and enlightening story! Marriage is not just a commitment, but a daily work on the relationship. Thank you for sharing this story - it makes you think about what is truly important.
There are about 3 billion replacements available
But you will never realistically even meet 0.1 of them
@@reallyshel This is why I tell guys they should never chase a woman. If she doesn't show just as much interest in him as he does in her, move on to the next one.
He picked wrong the first time
Yep, her greed after so much cheating and getting away with it or pity on the husband cluelessness from her side she decided to tell him let's open it that's led him to find the one.
Amazing how the daughter automatically took her mom’s side.
I love when women get dumped when they ask for an open marriage and open marriage is cheating as sweet as you put it.
Open marriage means the woman can cheat but the man can't or else he will lose half his stuff. Its a situation where the woman doesn't want a divorce but still wants to cheat. She benefits more staying married but she also knows a real divorce is still a pretty good consolation prize.
YUP ! Laws gotta change, Boys !
Chronicles of a cake eating 304.
Karma for cheating on him previously. And you admit that you was emotionally cheating on him before asking for the open marriage. You got what you deserved.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes!!
She already plays him and gets away with it, we thank her for her greedy behavior about opening a relationship with him to toss her this deceitful wife she never mentioned the first affair to her husband
I can tell this women voted for both hillary and biden.
They have something called the Darwin awards for people who end themselves through stupidity. I think there should be a new award for people who end their relationship through stupidity. I suggest calling it the Tomasi award...
😅 Beauty fades overtime. Women don't like this line. They want to be the beautiful princess until their head is full of Grey hairs. It has nothing to do with weight. It has nothing to do with lifestyle. She was a promiscuous woman before and after her marriage she just never decided to settle down. I'll give her credit she gave 18 years of marriage to her husband. But in the end she never bonded with her husband. Ladies life is so much better when you don't cheat.
Loooool she went straight 304 mode as soon as she got the chance not to mention she had cheated once before... SMH can't feel sorry for her at all.
Ground rule: no coworkers.
The wife, instantly: so anyway this one coworker I fantasized about
I'm struggling to find anything redeeming about this person. Every disloyal trait with no real sense of accountability.
"I started cheating on my husband and asked for an open marriage to be able to do it guilt free."
Also her 'I believe he was cheating on me prior to the open marriage'
Wow, never have I witnessed such a cut and dry case of pure projection in my life.
“I think he was already cheating with the neighbor”…. “I cheated on him with my trainer, got pregnant, and aborted while we were married”
WHAT??!!!
She mad at the dad … she wanted the dad to just what … “fight for his marriage”? 🤣
14:50- so she wanted her back blown out by other dudes but can't accept the fact that the husband slept with someone else? These creatures live in the double standard reality
This is called pride, and believe me, because of the sexual industry, not only in 🌽 but also in social media, women became more prideful than men.
She cheated before so it came back again when she decided to ask for an open marriage. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Now she will pile on the pounds. As always, when they ask for an open marriage they already have someone in mind, lined up or are already screwing around and just want to go full tilt.
After 3 minutes in, I already knew her story was pathetic.😵
Cheaters always think their partners are cheating. They don't seem capable of even conceiving the concept of loyalty.
Notice how she tried to lighten the deal by making it seem like he was the elone that wanted other women common thing women do Instagate she literally said not to mess with someone at work and she did the opposite lmao leave it to women to confront you for their mistakes
She sounds stupid!!!! She destroyed her own marriage … funny how she keeps saying “my husband “when he’s already her ex-husband
😂😂 moral of the story don't ever treat your woman bright she will cheat on you and divorce you😂
NO REAL MAN WILL EVER BE DUMB ENOUGH TO GO BACK!!! You’ve already signaled to him that he isn’t number 1 and no relationship has enough room for two masculine individuals…
I swear the selfishness knows no bounds.
She did admit to it being her fault, but did you notice her say " I was afraid I would get fat again because of the American diet". More blame shifting.
I would never accept an open marriage. That is your wife saying that she wants the security you offer her but she also wants to live like she is single when the opportunity presents itself. Go be single then, bye.
Do what he did say yes then find a woman and send the papers and the notice the house is for sale.
Translation: I thought I could do better so I treated him badly .... 2:00
This dude sounded like the PERFECT guy, and she threw it away because HE helped her lose weight and she thought she deserved a treat. Epic fumble.
I am so pleased this guy divorced her, she is an awful piece of work & he is now free.
His daughter laying any blame at his door for this situation is idiotic…
Cheating is like stealing. It's a moral issue. This woman is immoral. She is trying to give herself an "out" "I asked him for an open marriage" II was afraid of younger women" "I saw this, saw that, felt this, felt that" She is self centered, was looking at other men, and trying to make it his issue, when he told her it wasn't. She is placing on him, what it her fault.
Our society especially women, places too much emphasis on fictional "romantic" sex. From dressing, to make up, to surgical procedures, to stupid quizzes online. Marriage is about more than sex, but sex is still important in a different way, a much closer way, because it does change. Yet here she is, sneaking around, and blaming him, for something she initiated. She is getting what she deserved.
Some how the earlier betrayal was not enough to be honest but then has the nerve to ask for the open marriage. Well he is the father of your daughter because he raised her, but he or she has the right to know if he is 100% the biological father. Karma, may have struck her as he decided to go with the woman who loves him and the one who loves him back without question. When the person who usually ask for the open marriage is the one who thought about cheating. Well, you got what you wanted and fortunately so did he. 😢
He’s a simp weird guy…. No respect to himself.
the daughter has ZERO reason to be mad at the father. Her mom is 100% the issue and the only problem. Before she even asked for the open marriage, mind you she only did it so she didnt feel guilty for cheating, and ruined a perfect relationship with a guy who loved her and wanted no one else. For the daughter to even think about being upset with her father just shows how dumb women truly are.
She cheated on him before opening the marriage. What she actually did was set him free. Just went about a jacked up way of doing it.
So right off the bat she accuses her husband of cheating with no proof just a hunch. Then drops a line casually like its nothing that she had cheated before in the relationship. Talks her husband into an open marriage. Says one of the rules is no sleeping with co-workers and then immediately starts sleeping with a co-worker.... this is the kind of shit women do and don't see any of the bad in what they did.
The messed up part is that the daughter is blaming her father not knowing he mom was unfaithful from the start and pushed for the open marriage so she can have a license to enjoy herself.
1: she said she felt desired and attractive to and by other men
2: she was very excited and happy and immediately went to create a profile on apps
3: she is the first to almost right away, start to flirt, and be bolder with her co-worker even though she herself set that rule, then other guys shortly after
4: she realized she only wanted the open marriage for herself, not her husband
5: she already cheated on him and got pregnant years before by another man, when her and her husband were already together
6: she even said she didn't want to go around being sneaky and quite 😂
There are so many red flags that the husband never knew about. He probably only agreed to the open marriage because he knew she would still do it behind his back even if he said no
Ight so..... Basically when you ask a man, ANY men, literally anyone, this is automatically a "oh... ok so we're divorced but we live in the same house" situation. The man will mentally check out at that exact moment. You played your cards and made a fool of your stupid ahh.
30 seconds into the video shows how women get bored and are hypergamous. This woman was never committed to her husband.
Work with a girl who had an open marriage. They were swingers at the time. Last I heard, he dumped her right after their son had his 18th birthday and now the ex-husband has a harem of girlfriends. She lives alone and is depressed and broke all the time…
Why did the husband agree to it?
He should have just said , “No. End of discussion. Period.”
Then she’d get angry he was being prudish and holding her back. Once she asks for an open marriage, it’s because she’s planning to hook up already.
Don't say no. Say yes, replace her, and then leave her.
It wouldn’t have mattered she was cheating and aborting babies before he ever was considered plus if he said no she’d have done it again
It always surprises me that a woman who wants to cheat actually claims she loves her husband. No you don't.
As soon as she asks for a open marriage the relationship is over.
You have no option but to leave because if you tell her no she is still going to cheat and the mere fact that she asked to have an open marriage says she has zero respect for you.
The fact that she even thought about trying to turn the daughter against her father by lying is crazy I hope she ends up alone
When open the marriage you have NO say in who he sleeps with..
What rules ..
We all know that the rules are for him, but not for you..
Wovs Beaker
Rules in open marriage are laughable honestly...rules are first thing what fly from window. Especially rule like "no emotional attachment" yeah, right, thats simply not achievable for guy who is monogamous, if course he will catch feelings for his new lover and leave a 304 who doesnt respect him
@@scaredpaul540 The reason she talks about the possibility of her being pregnant even if she's 47 years old if she didn't use protection it means if she's really sure about not getting pregnant she would sleep letting men fill her up, she does not care about STDs
This is another rule she broke!
Judging from this woman's past, she's just gunna cheat on whomever she snags.
Wow, this is how some women think gentlemen. Please be aware. 😮
***most women***
Yep. Gets jealous when he gets action, but doesn't admit to her wrong doing with others. It's all his fault!
OP is a broken 💔 woman. I knew she only asked to open the marriage so she could sleep with... Wait for it... The CO-WORKER! Women who want to open their marriages always have a guy in mind. And yet, this is what happens: Hubby ends up replacing the wife with someone better. Play stupid games 🎮, win stupid prizes 🏆.
I had a friend in an open relationship. Only. Every time it was his turn to boink outside the relationship she would create an emergency or fake being sick to ruin it Every time. That is only the cases she allowed him to make plans with.. others she refused outright. I used to think that ployamory stuff was cool.. but after some time with the S&M kink groups myself it completely disgusted me. Most of those people are damaged.
Good story until it said husband went around the block and parked 2 houses down. No one would do this.
OP gave her husband the biggest gift he could ever get, down with the trash
Anyone care to listen to this and try to claim women aren't their own worst enemy?
Why would a man want to marry a woman knowing he has to remain vigilant, in case she cheats or is tempted to cheat for the next 40-50 years? Any woman who ever asks "why don't men want to get married?", because it's not worth the lifetime of stress and aggravation required to keep you from breaking the vows you voluntarily made when you got married.
So, she broke her own rules, sleeps with a co-worker, gets jealous that her husband is following the open marriage, selfish, yeah this woman is fucking crazy lol
Lol even giga chad has his woman cheating on him. Good for him, her asking for an open marriage was the best thing she ever did
So she lies, manipulates and shes insecure! She's weird!
This is a good story :-)
Gets pipes down by multiple dudes over months while her hubby is clearly miserable and the second he starts dating, she stalks him and loses her shit. 🤣
Op is a compulsive cheater who is now crying because she got replaced by a hotter and younger and even slimmer women 😂💀
The moment a woman I'm with has sex with another guy, and she doesn't need to tell me, I can tell, I just lose all affection and attraction I had to her, in this day and age it makes it hard for me to be in a relationship, women are so loose you can't get actual monogamy almost anywhere.
She will have to answer to the all mighty one day, such a loss soul. SMDH
Yeah, she thinks she gets away with it since he didn't find out !! Such stupid woman who thinks with her **** rather than her mind!
He’s genuinely asking where the relationship might’ve derailed & she just fully came out & said
“it didn’t. You just married a girl the can’t keep it her pants.”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love happy endings !!!!
I love how the rules she place was no people at work. Meanwhile, she was already wanting a guy that was at her job and open the marriage just to talk to him pretty much.
A open relationship is not marriage.
Again, she asked for it.
Whenever good men accept "open-relationships" asked by their wives, you can be sure, that if their wives try to "close" it again, because they are good man, they will ask for a divorce.
Women now a days are at their worst, not cause they are naturally like that, but because our society created a cicle of pride around women who make them prideful.
Let's pray for women and their improvement towards God .
The entitlement and narciccism here is on another level. Cheats, gets pregnant by another man, asks for an open marriage and expects the husband to be the faithfull one because she gets jelous. And then bitches about the outcome. I wish i knew her, I would laugh my ass off at her.
These are fake stories right?
Nobody can be that stupid to finally feel stupid at 13:30 mark instead of 1 min into the story mark. 😂😂😂😂😂
Tell me these are just some kind of entertainment only, like those sex story websites back in the days?
And this story is like a pyramid of not taking accountability by unnecessary rationalization of ones mistakes! Oh my God! This is so infuriating.
The cheating wife asking to her "simpy stupid understimated husband" for an "open divorce" thinking it was going to be for her continued onesided benefit right in front of his face, but backfired with undesirable results, open replacement fast.
👋 😂😂😂🎉
Irony is that basic math says that the choices go in the men’s favor as you get older. If a man has a job,house, takes care of himself. The man will absolutely have more choices and be able to be selective. He wasn’t cheating and you wounded his pride. Your mistake was once he adjusted to his situation. He realized it was better for him and he had endless opportunities. Young,old,successful,very attractive,sexually fun and mostly crazy with very few good choices. Like how men treat his ex wife. He doesn’t have to commit to them.