5 Life Lessons People Often Learn Too Late

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  • Опубликовано: 13 окт 2024

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  • @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth
    @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth  4 года назад +231

    What's your biggest regret in life?

    • @Beanbtch
      @Beanbtch 4 года назад +233

      Allowing myself to overreact and waste my time+focus on things that never mattered

    • @LastInvestor88
      @LastInvestor88 4 года назад +276

      Wasting time on the wrong people

    • @Jetsonio
      @Jetsonio 4 года назад +59

      living

    • @melvin4681
      @melvin4681 4 года назад +25

      Final Hope That sums up my exact thought as I was thinking of a reply

    • @juliettevonarnim9180
      @juliettevonarnim9180 4 года назад +108

      Worrying too much about stuff now that doesn’t matter in the long run.

  • @supremelyeducated3273
    @supremelyeducated3273 3 года назад +1315

    Eat healthy, do exercise, take vitamin tabs and sleep well.
    That's what I've done and it's my 90th birthday next week. 😊 😊

    • @Yolduranduran
      @Yolduranduran 3 года назад +52

      Happy birthday! Im 52 and I am just now understanding the importance of taking care of my health.

    • @matty31272
      @matty31272 3 года назад +26

      Happy birthday sir!

    • @msladypmodel
      @msladypmodel 3 года назад +17

      Happy birthday

    • @kaidencrip7565
      @kaidencrip7565 3 года назад +9

      Happy birthday gramps

    • @Krislt9
      @Krislt9 3 года назад +14

      Happy early birthday! God bless you!

  • @gabrieladu352
    @gabrieladu352 3 года назад +1168

    1. Everything is temporary
    2. Today’s sacrifice will pay off tomorrow
    3. Life is unfair
    4. Don’t make mountains out of molehills
    5. Face your fears

    • @azmike3572
      @azmike3572 3 года назад +13

      4.5: Make molehills out of mountains instead.

    • @melcomepay6668
      @melcomepay6668 3 года назад +4

      See poem by Carl Sandberg. The Past is a bucket of Ashes. THAT is the eventual fate of USA. and all nations., no matter how Great or free they think they are. USA is great and free? And is also the laughing stock of the world. ( behind your backs as we don't want to get bombed).

    • @svsoleil3255
      @svsoleil3255 3 года назад +17

      thanks..wish i could give u 1000 thunbs up...i hate long vids that dont get to the point

    • @SiblingEstrangement
      @SiblingEstrangement 3 года назад +1

      SV Soleil 6 minutes is not a long vid.

    • @svsoleil3255
      @svsoleil3255 3 года назад +2

      @@SiblingEstrangement ha haa...speak for yourself, brother! time is money...peace to you my friend...

  • @milmex317th
    @milmex317th 3 года назад +464

    Orphaned at 8 yrs old
    Shot when I was 11 yrs old.
    This year I will be 62
    I've been around the world 3 times.
    50 years of borrowed time. Loved every minute of it.

  • @chriscraven9572
    @chriscraven9572 3 года назад +549

    My father always used to say, and I've repeated to my children, "Life's unfair, but sometimes it's unfair to your advantage, and you never complain then".

    • @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth
      @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth  3 года назад +46

      Your father is a very wise man!

    • @shibafujiwatches2808
      @shibafujiwatches2808 3 года назад +4

      Awesome!

    • @dannycalley7777
      @dannycalley7777 3 года назад +5

      C.C...………….my Pop said good things happen bad people ,bad things happen to good people ,get over it and move on , nothing you can do !!!!!

    • @Syklonus
      @Syklonus 3 года назад +8

      I don't agree with people who say "life is unfair" becasue by accepting it they are enabling it, and so are responsible. Always fight for a better life for you and everyone.

    • @latoyacunningham6940
      @latoyacunningham6940 3 года назад +4

      Yes, we do not complain when the unfairness is to our advantage!! I'm so glad your father talked about that facet of unfairness. We should just do the best we can in life to serve God and be thankful.

  • @sean9448
    @sean9448 3 года назад +247

    This video is wisdom. I have one more to add. "If you never ask the answer will always be no." That lesson I learned too late in life and lead to many regrets.

    • @johnbee7729
      @johnbee7729 3 года назад +19

      A former boss used to tell me, don't fail the job interview by not applying for the job. And more recently, everyone who finished last in a marathon ran more miles than those who never left the couch.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 3 года назад +6

      My grandmother used to say, if you don’t ask, you don’t get.

    • @mariannechristine3556
      @mariannechristine3556 3 года назад +1

      In our house, we simply say, "No's are free." It means the same as yours. If you don't ask, you are certainly not going to get it. If you don't get it, it cost you nothing, so take the chance and ask (because no's are free.)

    • @janiewallace4356
      @janiewallace4356 2 года назад

      I love your comment! - is so true - one instance I needed to get a medical thearpy apparatus for my neck - was about $350.00. Was told it would be covered by medicare. But the only source would not give me info I needed. Really went thru 3 DAYS AND and many hours of research and red tape - and it was finally resolved and medicare paid for it. SO IT WAS WORTH IT.

  • @paperdoll5467
    @paperdoll5467 3 года назад +425

    Alone time IS my best life (watching TV, exercising, reading, etc..)...even when i look back now, those are my most happy days.

    • @cheryldee9240
      @cheryldee9240 3 года назад +46

      house call I totally agree and it depends on the individual. Some hate being alone and need others around to enjoy themselves, while others like us enjoy time alone because it's when we can truly be ourselves and do what we want to do. It's rare to have that kind of freedom in a group setting even when among friends and family.

    • @paperdoll5467
      @paperdoll5467 3 года назад +3

      @@cheryldee9240 4 sure!

    • @melcomepay6668
      @melcomepay6668 3 года назад +14

      Yes, alone timei
      Is OK. But others think. It strange, and find it hard to understand ..they si.mply cannot bear to be without other people around.

    • @melcomepay6668
      @melcomepay6668 3 года назад

      @@cheryldee9240 Yes.

    • @natashaibanez6134
      @natashaibanez6134 3 года назад +8

      My husband is an introvert and I am sure he would agree with you

  • @YoungoneYoung-lm4xe
    @YoungoneYoung-lm4xe 3 года назад +867

    Avoid toxic people at all costs, because what they have is contagious.

  • @anaguerrerosholisticwellbe2788
    @anaguerrerosholisticwellbe2788 4 года назад +447

    1. Nothing lasts forever, good and bad things.
    2. Today's sacrifices will pay off tomorrow. Don't just seek instant gratification.
    3. Life is unfair, accept it! Remember nothing is owed to you.
    4. Don't make mountains out of hills. Allow things to evolve naturally as opposed to pushing up that steep mountain.
    5. Face your fears, be yourself and follow your dreams. Keep trying unafraid of failure and don't care about criticism or judgement from others. When you try, you grow!

  • @hoodfellah
    @hoodfellah 3 года назад +192

    As i’ve gotten older i realized i’ve been living in fear my whole life, and thats one of my biggest downfalls

    • @DD-si6oo
      @DD-si6oo 3 года назад +8

      Me too. You are not alone.

    • @NickRoman
      @NickRoman 3 года назад +8

      Yes, me too. But, we do have reason for it. Life can be pretty harsh.

    • @professorbaxtercarelessdre1075
      @professorbaxtercarelessdre1075 3 года назад +6

      me too. it wasn't always my fault, i had bad influences growing up, but after becoming an adult i should've let that all go and moved on, that's the part i'm trying to work on now, and its the scariest thing i've ever had to face

    • @DD-si6oo
      @DD-si6oo 3 года назад +5

      @@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075 be patient with yourself & keep trying- never give up hope in yourself. You are stronger than you know.

    • @professorbaxtercarelessdre1075
      @professorbaxtercarelessdre1075 3 года назад

      @@DD-si6oo thank you (btw that was scarily hard to say, which this channel talked about as well lol)

  • @Toogoodtobetrue458
    @Toogoodtobetrue458 3 года назад +98

    The first lesson here is my life’s mantra. I turned 50 last year. And I feel time is running out for. So I’m painting more and teaching myself piano.

    • @serpico7308
      @serpico7308 3 года назад +7

      Always remember: the Best part of Frank Sinatra's career was in his 50's
      I will be 50 in 3 months. I'm excited 🇺🇸🇮🇹

    • @Toogoodtobetrue458
      @Toogoodtobetrue458 3 года назад +3

      @@serpico7308 good health to you my friend

    • @SpainSpain-kr8lh
      @SpainSpain-kr8lh 3 года назад +2

      Turned 50 three years ago ... so far, so good. Really enjoying it even though Covid has put a crimp in things.

    • @markE946
      @markE946 3 года назад +1

      Same 9 months later 3 hrs every night of theory, I'm addicted

    • @india1784
      @india1784 3 года назад

      Yes! 50 was when I took stock of where I am in health and life goals and where I want to be.

  • @pimpompoom93726
    @pimpompoom93726 3 года назад +321

    I'm 66. They can't teach you this stuff even if they try hard when you are younger. It's life's lessons.

    • @al1665
      @al1665 3 года назад +8

      Right? It's like cliff notes

    • @wayne-kj4iw
      @wayne-kj4iw 3 года назад +28

      when i was young i never understood the phrase youth is waisted on the young , at 58 it makes more sense

    • @alisonl9586
      @alisonl9586 3 года назад +18

      At 62 I can only agree. You may ‘know’ this stuff at 20, but you can’t own it and work with it, until you’ve met some hurdles in life....again and again and again.....

    • @simon_patterson
      @simon_patterson 3 года назад +9

      Yes, the most important lessons can only be learned the hard way.

    • @seemlyme
      @seemlyme 3 года назад +3

      System is the problem. 🏡 Great Qualities.
      1, Show all living creatures; all the love and kindness as much as you can.
      2, Only try to be honest with yourself. If you try to be honest with others, you will get into big trouble soon or later.
      3, Aim only one target at a time; otherwise you are chasing two rabbits and you will miss both. So, the reason behind it. Have one powerful reason and never ever give up the one you want the most.
      4, Don't try to be good person only but be the powerful person. We will grow to be the one or we will die. There is no other choice.
      5, Always learn and look for to improve something your life.
      6, You are not alone. Love and faith the high power reduces unnecessary stress in life. But never completely rely on it.
      7, Success and happiness are the byproducts of our usefulness. So, always increase the possibility of success.
      8, Life is not going to be easy. Because of our unnecessary things. Eliminate all the unnecessary things as much as you can by organising yourself well with the environments.
      9, Never believe anything without the proper evidences.
      10, Always try to give more than you take.
      Because it is dignity/ character of the divinity within you.
      🌎 As long as people continue to see themselves as separate from everything else, they lend themselves to being completely enslaved. Success depends on how well we relate to everything around us. Joy comes from that bliss of connectedness. I believe that unarmed truth and love will have the final word in reality. To love; you should have good heart. I am a good person until I see a person better than my standard of goodness. Being good is the progress towards a worthy cause. Love is God. Whoever lives in love, lives forever. How selfish it is to try to keep something forever? Love is all about nourishing, nurturing, sharing and expanding the love within you for all. The principle to which we adhere to is that we have kindness of love at heart for the whole of mankind. As long as there is the unnecessary differences within us; we can not live peacefully so we have to eliminate all the unnecessary differences among us so we can love all. People abilities may vary but not there true love. If we love a person/ God for a reason then we love the reason but not the person. No reason is the reason to love the person because true love never fails. So do not compare or measure the true love as first or the last but love all truly. If you love people truly then you can understand people. If you don't love then you don't understand people at all.
      People are controlled by system why?
      The Cyclical Consumption is the current economy all over the World. It is making the scarcity problems of the earth finite resources to deteriorate day by day. Current Monetary System is legalised theft. Real money is Gold and Silver. Scarcity gives the money more value. Real money won't lose it's value. When Governments stay away from Gold & Silver then very easy to transfer the wealth / resources to upper class the Rich (Corporatocracy) Elite. When the Governments are printing out more new fiat currency with reserve banks, our old currency is losing its purchasing power everyday. They are printing millions of currency everyday. All governments and laws are existing right now to transfer wealth to upper class the rich elite. The USA Government & other Governments are in many countries, bailed the investment banks & financial institutions in 2008 against the majority of the people. There is no democracy in any countries. Because of the Money System based on profits motive only above all else even humans lives and well-being. So, we do not have freedom to protect our values with the money so on. The violence, bankruptcy & all the negativities are build into the Monetary System of our society. All are owned (including ourselves) by Reserve Bank. Which is private cartel the corporation. So, in legal system, we are legally considered as chattel the properties. They make money in the capital markets with our birth certificates. They do not consider us as Humans. That's the truth. We are at the invisible war with the Elites (Corporatocracies). We have to fight for our Freedom. Resource Based Economy is the Solution. We have to declare the earth resources as the heritage of all the people of this world. So everyone has access to it. Please have your research about zeitgeist movement then you know the truth more.
      Truth About Health/Drugs Industry Because Of It Your Life At High Risk The drug industry is a 1/2 trillion dollars a year worldwide conglomerate. Almost 300 billions dollars just in North America. That is really big business. What would happen if everyone were well? There is no money in health. You see, good health makes a lot of sense but it doesn't make a lot of dollars. Because everything they do is toxic. Every drug they use, prescription drugs, all drugs are liver toxic, bar none. If you've had amalgam fillings put in your mouth by dentists. It is highly toxic. There's cancer because most of the chemos are themselves carcinogens. To view the tumor as the cancer and we know the tumor is not the cancer. The cancer industry is 200 billions dollars a year. The more work they get, the more profit there is. You have to dismantle; If the truth ever came out about what we would need to do. 30% of people of females in America are at risk of getting, will get cancer of the breast. The ones that are already dead have been grossly mistreated by the medical profession and by the government that supposedly is supposed to encourage free research and development of all possibilities. Why would medical doctors who studied medicine and practice medicine and are heavily funded by pharmaceutical companies why would they go and look into vitamins? That they never had the answer orthomolecular. And as more and more of our population start taking their health into their own hands, there's going to be even more and more of changes. It can't go on the way it is. The system is failing apart. We must make nutrition the primary prevention strategy for the population. You are what you eat. You are everything that you have ever done to yourself. The choices you make directly affect the outcome of your life. - (Food Matters Documentary in Netflix)
      😊 Well, I truly love God. I am not religious but very spiritual person. So, I believe 1) Religion is the beliefs in someone experiences But spirituality is having my own experiences. The mainstream religions people promote religious ideology by giving guidelines and guide but In my spiritual life; I do not want anyone or anything between God and me to restrict my freedom to worship God. 2) We do not need any authorities to do good work. The god work is the good work always. In contrast; organised mainstream religions are claiming that they have the authorities to do God works as leaders so on. 3) God is not capable of doing wrong thing, change the past for us and create anything out of nothing for us. Nothing means not anything. So, even God is limited. The mainstream religious people believe that God is unlimited 4) God wants us to take responsibilities for our righteousness life but not for all the consequences of our actions because they are continued to exist among us. So, How can god punish us for all our consequences? The mainstream religious people believe we are full of sins because of all our actions. 5) Freewill is an illusion. People always choose the perceived path of greatest pleasure. So, we do not have choices all the time. In contrast teachings of the mainstream religions are promoting people to do god's will always because we all have choices of freewill always. 6) We can not separate everything into groups. So, everything for good and evil and there's no success and failure for everything. If everything is real then real things can not be threatened. Once you come to understand that God/The Holy Spirit is in each of us, You will no longer need a Book to tell you how to live. Then why we need religious scriptures? The Virtue is the expression of the basic goodness in our actions. The Basic goodness is the fundamental worthiness of every individuals. We are worthy to God always in everything. 7) Beliefs in a cruel God makes a cruel man. No matter what; every living creatures has the right to live and What makes their life cheap? Everything depends on everything. Nothing too big or too small in value. We can not love and hate at the same time; Being a vegetarian means love without cruelty happily. The mainstream religious people are killing people and sacrificing animals in the name of God. They promote God's cruel punishments. The Punishment is endless for Sinners/Devil according to religious scriptures. But God is love always. Overcome hate with love. If all religions for peace, unity? No way. Because they are not for peace. 8) Well, The God gave us everything to go from moment to moment in our lives as we do our part and pray only to thank god then the Love is in progress. The Love is always for everyone. We are always worthy of the God's love. Our greatest fear is; not to be loved by anyone but we are all loved by someone. When we eliminate all our unnecessary differences among us then true peaceful life is possible with the true love. If we can't find the peace within ourselves then we will never find it anywhere else. 9) This is the Fight for independence and freedom of humanity to worship God freely without religious guide and guidelines to restrict us. Unnecessarily, We do not want third party controls over us in anything ; especially in spirituality. 10) Revive Survive Thrive. Sincerely, The Real Peacemaker against religious oppression.
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  • @dcaff330ify
    @dcaff330ify 3 года назад +106

    The biggest life lesson that most people don't learn until it's too late is that happiness is not found in power, prestige, or material pocessions but in family and/or the relationships with those you love and respect.

    • @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook
      @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook 3 года назад

      Bring racist is a CHOICE. The second you get rid of your EGO is the time you invite LOVE. So only way to make space for Love is when YOU get rid of negative thoughts= energies because these stop us from gaining more knowlege.
      The SECRET to experience the next level of consciousness is to get rid of your EGO- example : backbiting, spreading rumours, vulguar language, deliberately putting labels on people - fat/ ugly / mental
      Thinking that you are better than others by looks
      Also CHEATING on spouse very unwise because it takes one away from our true self so one is actually ROBBING ONESELF of TRUE JOY.

    • @billygnosis6976
      @billygnosis6976 3 года назад +2

      True....but pushing yourself and enjoying what life has to offer is awesome as well.

    • @patriciavandevelde5469
      @patriciavandevelde5469 Год назад +1

      And what if you don t love humans anymore?

  • @MnemonicCarrier
    @MnemonicCarrier 3 года назад +45

    I'm not far off 90 years of age now, and life is just beginning! I learned how to code.

    • @stevenlawson9553
      @stevenlawson9553 3 года назад

      impossible..

    • @guitarspud1723
      @guitarspud1723 3 года назад +1

      Kim Jong Ill!

    • @fsands69
      @fsands69 3 года назад +1

      cheers for the hacker grandpa!

    • @MnemonicCarrier
      @MnemonicCarrier 3 года назад +1

      @@fsands69 My joints still work perfectly fine (I can even still play the piano). I type fast. I code like a grandpa possessed. C/C++ is my language of choice. I work on Linux.

    • @fsands69
      @fsands69 3 года назад +3

      @@MnemonicCarrier i hope to be an user of anything you code man! keep it up, someday i'll start coding again as well💪

  • @Pinballpete007
    @Pinballpete007 3 года назад +40

    At 53 I agree with everything in this video but you forgot one that was made into a rock song but still holds true. "Don't know what you got til its gone"

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 3 года назад +2

      True and that hit home.
      Literally home. My sold appartment 😔
      Now trying to appreciate my new home while mourning about the old place.

    • @biaedwards4025
      @biaedwards4025 3 года назад

      @@peaceofmindofpeace1650 me too...still feeling sad...as my new place isn't home...yet!

    • @isithometimeyet6553
      @isithometimeyet6553 3 года назад

      I think that goes with number one - that everything is temporary so you need to appreciate it and not take it for granted that it is always going to be there. It is a hard one.

  • @louisebullock2246
    @louisebullock2246 3 года назад +123

    Someone once said they wish they had not spent so much time worrying about things that never happened

    • @fjb4932
      @fjb4932 3 года назад +11

      "When you see 10 troubles coming down the road, rest assured 9 will run into the ditch before they reach you."
      Pres. Calvin (silent Cal) Coolidge

    • @coconuciferanuts339
      @coconuciferanuts339 3 года назад

      It's a motorcycling saying,It might never happen.

    • @kimloveslp
      @kimloveslp 3 года назад +1

      This is me, I worry about things that either never happen or aren’t nearly as bad as I envisioned

  • @sonicblue3900
    @sonicblue3900 3 года назад +75

    I have learnt over the years to shut out toxic people.
    And develop myself , travel to new lands and meet
    Better people...
    I won't look back...

    • @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth
      @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth  3 года назад +6

      💙

    • @eduardochavacano
      @eduardochavacano 3 года назад +2

      That thought is so popular, so it may be dumb. Most people who abuse the term Toxic are the most toxic people anyone could ever encounter.

    • @troyellis7605
      @troyellis7605 3 года назад

      BRAVO !

    • @Narusasu98
      @Narusasu98 3 года назад +2

      @@eduardochavacano Shut up, toxic guy.

    • @TheTariqibnziyad
      @TheTariqibnziyad 3 года назад +2

      Exactly, i invested feelings in a toxic girl that was hitting on me, I will never invest my feelings on anyone again, only in my goal and my very close friend.

  • @michaelflinn2791
    @michaelflinn2791 3 года назад +185

    Some of us just want to relax, we are tired of living every day to the fullest, like its the last damn day on earth.

    • @coconuciferanuts339
      @coconuciferanuts339 3 года назад +6

      Chilling out.Yeah,I think of snoopy chilling out with Lucy.

    • @catcat4697
      @catcat4697 3 года назад +2

      @@coconuciferanuts339 Lucy can be pretty nice if you get to know her better, she kinda reminds me of ourselves.

    • @alisonl9586
      @alisonl9586 3 года назад +17

      So relax. Don’t make life a serious chore. Feel a warm breeze on your skin, watch a puppy roll in grass, or the wonder of snow ❄️ falling - without feeling you need to do anything about it, just enjoy. ‘Living life to the full’ feels like an order to achieve every day. .....when some days it can be an achievement to just live.

    • @melcomepay6668
      @melcomepay6668 3 года назад +3

      @@alisonl9586 Luccily, I have many warm / happy memories of such things as you describe. Plant roses with your mind., where you plant a rose, a thistle cannot grow. ❤️.

    • @theunspoken1059
      @theunspoken1059 3 года назад +2

      @@coconuciferanuts339 Really? I think of Charlie Brown getting played by Lucy's football trick over and over and over and over and over and over and over....

  • @olyglezz2785
    @olyglezz2785 3 года назад +173

    Am 57 and am still trying to figure out what am going to be when I grow up.

  • @louisgroenwold2413
    @louisgroenwold2413 3 года назад +14

    I am 65, lived with the philosophy, "for everything negative there is a positive" . Last 20 years with my second wife we added another motto: "our main plan is, we don't have a plan". Our life is not dull! I am at a point in my live, that I never dreamed of was possible. For the record, we are happy.

  • @sonohrina2012
    @sonohrina2012 4 года назад +76

    I’m too afraid to fail in a career that I just stay at home and don’t know what I’ll be doing when my baby grows up and I have more time. This video has help me decide to push through it even if I fail. I just have to start somewhere

    • @GraniteRoll
      @GraniteRoll 3 года назад +2

      I’ve grown more from my failures over time as I approached new situations with lessons about what not to do. Reflection will help you. Remember they won’t eat you, just not like you, don’t give them that power to judge you, study hard and keep trying - Lesson 5 in this video.

    • @ricardoestrada1176
      @ricardoestrada1176 3 года назад +1

      Get up in the morning At 4 A clock And do some yoga Every morning In one month You're going to feel better Your minds going to be strong As you get stronger Your fears will go away There's nothing to be afraid of I'm 63 And I'm afraid of getting old I exercise everyday Exercise your mind The muscles in your neck Move your head left and right For 5 minutes Then rest Every time you're sitting down in the sofa Move your head back and forth Do this every day

    • @roywerkmeyra1090
      @roywerkmeyra1090 3 года назад +1

      OMG..if you fear these things that means you have a lot of perfectionisme inside of you...DON't FEAR JUST DO ..you will discover that you have more inside you than you ever know before..just start make drawings writh paint make video's talk with people extent your bouny's take a mountainbike get off the road see the sunset in the forest, make beautiful pics, shop those pics, share them with others , get out off the Box! Creat your own uinivers, develop your own versi 2.0 of your self....
      I.. do not know you ...but I believe in you.. becaurse I know people like you and me..makes the diferend;

    • @matsandresson4758
      @matsandresson4758 3 года назад

      Be strong .ATB.

    • @davidburke2007
      @davidburke2007 3 года назад +1

      Failure is growth. I have also struggled with accepting failure. It is a sign of a low risk tolerance. It will drive you crazy. Fight it because success thrives on risk!

  • @andreeabarbu6201
    @andreeabarbu6201 3 года назад +162

    The most important lesson is: the people in our lives are the most important and we must cherish them, often we realize it too late.

    • @Vestu
      @Vestu 3 года назад +21

      Yes, but be mindful of not doing that in the expense of your own well-being. When you take care of yourself first, you'll be able to cherish and give value to the people in your life in a healthy way. I had to learn this the hard way :)

    • @cliffc2546
      @cliffc2546 3 года назад +4

      I'm very grateful for all the people who have, even slightly or accidentally, helped me. I think that is one thing this video missed. Gratitude, not only paying it back.

    • @joeyd6702
      @joeyd6702 3 года назад +2

      @@Vestu that also happened to me as well. You are a very smart person. 🎭

    • @cooldesertknight9013
      @cooldesertknight9013 3 года назад

      @@cliffc2546 Beautifully said, Cliff. God bless your heart.
      Salaam to you and to all.

    • @taniayager3361
      @taniayager3361 3 года назад +1

      When you're young you take for granted the people in your life it's not until your older that you realise how special they were in your life,

  • @india1784
    @india1784 3 года назад +22

    I was laughing about something I said with colleagues during handover. The patient I went in to see next was smiling from ear to ear. He had cancer and commented and was overjoyed to hear laughter in a hospital. He made me promise to go to a seaside cafe he loved. I will. He didn't stop smiling all night. That made my night, my year actually.

    • @donnalynn4211
      @donnalynn4211 3 года назад

      I heard you're country has a problem with people shitin everywhere.... Wtf

    • @india1784
      @india1784 3 года назад

      @@donnalynn4211 Honey, where do you think I am from? You racists always reveal yourselves on these anonymous platforms don't you? India is my favourite girls name. FYI. You really are a POS aren't you? Digest that!🖕🖕🖕. Bye Karen!

    • @india1784
      @india1784 3 года назад

      @@donnalynn4211 You can't even spell shitting properly. Read a book or 20 Karen. Stay off the gin.

    • @india1784
      @india1784 3 года назад

      @@donnalynn4211 RUclips deleted one of my comments. I guess you hillbillys would be offended by loving your brothers too much.

  • @mcpuffenstuff6213
    @mcpuffenstuff6213 3 года назад +57

    I just turned 38, single, no kids, no alimony, no regrets. Loved and lost plenty of times. Now, I travel the world by myself for months at a time and couldn't be happier.

    • @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook
      @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook 3 года назад +1

      Which countries Did u go to

    • @schong4753
      @schong4753 3 года назад +1

      same.... and just turned 52. missing the travel this past year but using my quiet time as wisely as i can; counting my many blessings every day

    • @showerrodstrong7802
      @showerrodstrong7802 3 года назад +4

      Same. Single, never married, no kids, never had to put my career, wants and hobbies second to a husband. Never had to worry about being cheated on or abused. If current the trajectory of my career continues, I'll be able to retire by 55.

    • @mcpuffenstuff6213
      @mcpuffenstuff6213 3 года назад

      @@Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook Vietnam, Sri Lanka, Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia, Puerto Rico, Mexico, Phillippines. My favorites

    • @berzerker1100
      @berzerker1100 3 года назад

      You're a Happy camper 😂👍😛

  • @andyokus5735
    @andyokus5735 3 года назад +15

    Best thing I ever heard... Some people never fail= Losers! My motto in life is " Winners Never Quit!"

    • @HeadHunterSix
      @HeadHunterSix 3 года назад +1

      "Winners never quit, and quitters never win... but those who never win and never quit are idiots."

    • @andyokus5735
      @andyokus5735 3 года назад +1

      @@HeadHunterSix Everyday can be a supreme victory if one only makes it so!

  • @Quantum3691
    @Quantum3691 3 года назад +42

    It is not our business to know why people "don't like us". It is our business to know how we feel about ourselves and to correct the negative feelings if necessary.

    • @theunspoken1059
      @theunspoken1059 3 года назад

      I'm just replying to collapse your wavefunction. Now you know whether I like you, or whether I don't. You also know how my entangled self feels about you... exactly the opposite.

  • @puffbluesam021
    @puffbluesam021 3 года назад +53

    "Life is fair, it's unfair for everyone."

    • @ppppugh7892
      @ppppugh7892 3 года назад +5

      Paradoxically correct, nice.

    • @rockysandman5489
      @rockysandman5489 3 года назад +1

      Actually, in that regard life seems to be fair to some individuals in the population of rich people. Even more than fair, privileged, a life biased toward them.

    • @ppppugh7892
      @ppppugh7892 3 года назад +2

      @@rockysandman5489 but everybody has a share (skewed maybe) of torment. Pain, loss of loved ones, and their own eventual death. So, in that specific regard, life is generally unfair to all. Or, as Buddha taught, unsatisfactory.

    • @magicslave3066
      @magicslave3066 3 года назад

      wdym?

  • @Writinghood
    @Writinghood 3 года назад +19

    #1 - Nothing lasts forever. I needed that point to help me balance today. When sad things happen I feel like the sadness is going to last forever. Thankfully sadness doesn't last forever, but neither does happiness. Thank you for the encouragement... I needed this message today 🤲

  • @garyviehe9365
    @garyviehe9365 3 года назад +121

    There are three types of people,
    Those that listen to and read the wisdom of others,
    Those who have to learn the hard way,
    Those who never learn at all.

    • @seemlyme
      @seemlyme 3 года назад +1

      System is the problem. 🏡 Great Qualities.
      1, Show all living creatures; all the love and kindness as much as you can.
      2, Only try to be honest with yourself. If you try to be honest with others, you will get into big trouble soon or later.
      3, Aim only one target at a time; otherwise you are chasing two rabbits and you will miss both. So, the reason behind it. Have one powerful reason and never ever give up the one you want the most.
      4, Don't try to be good person only but be the powerful person. We will grow to be the one or we will die. There is no other choice.
      5, Always learn and look for to improve something your life.
      6, You are not alone. Love and faith the high power reduces unnecessary stress in life. But never completely rely on it.
      7, Success and happiness are the byproducts of our usefulness. So, always increase the possibility of success.
      8, Life is not going to be easy. Because of our unnecessary things. Eliminate all the unnecessary things as much as you can by organising yourself well with the environments.
      9, Never believe anything without the proper evidences.
      10, Always try to give more than you take.
      Because it is dignity/ character of the divinity within you.
      🌎 As long as people continue to see themselves as separate from everything else, they lend themselves to being completely enslaved. Success depends on how well we relate to everything around us. Joy comes from that bliss of connectedness. I believe that unarmed truth and love will have the final word in reality. To love; you should have good heart. I am a good person until I see a person better than my standard of goodness. Being good is the progress towards a worthy cause. Love is God. Whoever lives in love, lives forever. How selfish it is to try to keep something forever? Love is all about nourishing, nurturing, sharing and expanding the love within you for all. The principle to which we adhere to is that we have kindness of love at heart for the whole of mankind. As long as there is the unnecessary differences within us; we can not live peacefully so we have to eliminate all the unnecessary differences among us so we can love all. People abilities may vary but not there true love. If we love a person/ God for a reason then we love the reason but not the person. No reason is the reason to love the person because true love never fails. So do not compare or measure the true love as first or the last but love all truly. If you love people truly then you can understand people. If you don't love then you don't understand people at all.
      People are controlled by system why?
      The Cyclical Consumption is the current economy all over the World. It is making the scarcity problems of the earth finite resources to deteriorate day by day. Current Monetary System is legalised theft. Real money is Gold and Silver. Scarcity gives the money more value. Real money won't lose it's value. When Governments stay away from Gold & Silver then very easy to transfer the wealth / resources to upper class the Rich (Corporatocracy) Elite. When the Governments are printing out more new fiat currency with reserve banks, our old currency is losing its purchasing power everyday. They are printing millions of currency everyday. All governments and laws are existing right now to transfer wealth to upper class the rich elite. The USA Government & other Governments are in many countries, bailed the investment banks & financial institutions in 2008 against the majority of the people. There is no democracy in any countries. Because of the Money System based on profits motive only above all else even humans lives and well-being. So, we do not have freedom to protect our values with the money so on. The violence, bankruptcy & all the negativities are build into the Monetary System of our society. All are owned (including ourselves) by Reserve Bank. Which is private cartel the corporation. So, in legal system, we are legally considered as chattel the properties. They make money in the capital markets with our birth certificates. They do not consider us as Humans. That's the truth. We are at the invisible war with the Elites (Corporatocracies). We have to fight for our Freedom. Resource Based Economy is the Solution. We have to declare the earth resources as the heritage of all the people of this world. So everyone has access to it. Please have your research about zeitgeist movement then you know the truth more.
      Truth About Health/Drugs Industry Because Of It Your Life At High Risk The drug industry is a 1/2 trillion dollars a year worldwide conglomerate. Almost 300 billions dollars just in North America. That is really big business. What would happen if everyone were well? There is no money in health. You see, good health makes a lot of sense but it doesn't make a lot of dollars. Because everything they do is toxic. Every drug they use, prescription drugs, all drugs are liver toxic, bar none. If you've had amalgam fillings put in your mouth by dentists. It is highly toxic. There's cancer because most of the chemos are themselves carcinogens. To view the tumor as the cancer and we know the tumor is not the cancer. The cancer industry is 200 billions dollars a year. The more work they get, the more profit there is. You have to dismantle; If the truth ever came out about what we would need to do. 30% of people of females in America are at risk of getting, will get cancer of the breast. The ones that are already dead have been grossly mistreated by the medical profession and by the government that supposedly is supposed to encourage free research and development of all possibilities. Why would medical doctors who studied medicine and practice medicine and are heavily funded by pharmaceutical companies why would they go and look into vitamins? That they never had the answer orthomolecular. And as more and more of our population start taking their health into their own hands, there's going to be even more and more of changes. It can't go on the way it is. The system is failing apart. We must make nutrition the primary prevention strategy for the population. You are what you eat. You are everything that you have ever done to yourself. The choices you make directly affect the outcome of your life. - (Food Matters Documentary in Netflix)
      😊 Well, I truly love God. I am not religious but very spiritual person. So, I believe 1) Religion is the beliefs in someone experiences But spirituality is having my own experiences. The mainstream religions people promote religious ideology by giving guidelines and guide but In my spiritual life; I do not want anyone or anything between God and me to restrict my freedom to worship God. 2) We do not need any authorities to do good work. The god work is the good work always. In contrast; organised mainstream religions are claiming that they have the authorities to do God works as leaders so on. 3) God is not capable of doing wrong thing, change the past for us and create anything out of nothing for us. Nothing means not anything. So, even God is limited. The mainstream religious people believe that God is unlimited 4) God wants us to take responsibilities for our righteousness life but not for all the consequences of our actions because they are continued to exist among us. So, How can god punish us for all our consequences? The mainstream religious people believe we are full of sins because of all our actions. 5) Freewill is an illusion. People always choose the perceived path of greatest pleasure. So, we do not have choices all the time. In contrast teachings of the mainstream religions are promoting people to do god's will always because we all have choices of freewill always. 6) We can not separate everything into groups. So, everything for good and evil and there's no success and failure for everything. If everything is real then real things can not be threatened. Once you come to understand that God/The Holy Spirit is in each of us, You will no longer need a Book to tell you how to live. Then why we need religious scriptures? The Virtue is the expression of the basic goodness in our actions. The Basic goodness is the fundamental worthiness of every individuals. We are worthy to God always in everything. 7) Beliefs in a cruel God makes a cruel man. No matter what; every living creatures has the right to live and What makes their life cheap? Everything depends on everything. Nothing too big or too small in value. We can not love and hate at the same time; Being a vegetarian means love without cruelty happily. The mainstream religious people are killing people and sacrificing animals in the name of God. They promote God's cruel punishments. The Punishment is endless for Sinners/Devil according to religious scriptures. But God is love always. Overcome hate with love. If all religions for peace, unity? No way. Because they are not for peace. 8) Well, The God gave us everything to go from moment to moment in our lives as we do our part and pray only to thank god then the Love is in progress. The Love is always for everyone. We are always worthy of the God's love. Our greatest fear is; not to be loved by anyone but we are all loved by someone. When we eliminate all our unnecessary differences among us then true peaceful life is possible with the true love. If we can't find the peace within ourselves then we will never find it anywhere else. 9) This is the Fight for independence and freedom of humanity to worship God freely without religious guide and guidelines to restrict us. Unnecessarily, We do not want third party controls over us in anything ; especially in spirituality. 10) Revive Survive Thrive. Sincerely, The Real Peacemaker against religious oppression.
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    • @bhangrafan4480
      @bhangrafan4480 3 года назад +3

      You forgot smug wankers.

    • @S314159265358979
      @S314159265358979 3 года назад +1

      Those who discover unknown by a thought experiment (when no one's experience is available)
      Those who learn from others' experience
      Those who learn from personal experience
      Those for whom a single personal experience isn't enough to learn

    • @randybackgammon890
      @randybackgammon890 3 года назад +2

      Why do you assume that it's these 'others'who have any more wisdom than you or anyone else.Whatever they've learned you can learn.

    • @rebekah518
      @rebekah518 3 года назад

      @@S314159265358979 I’ve been all of those.

  • @Purple420Stank
    @Purple420Stank Год назад +69

    Your way of expressing these concepts always attracts me, and nothing, but nothing compares with it-- the tone, the depth of spirituality, I can't put it into words. Your Manifesting Manual is something I can read over and over and soak up. I am in process of making the routine a solid part of my life, and it has made a difference! I LOVE your 12 meditations too ruclips.net/user/postUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq I know I am a different person after 9 months with Super Manifestor, and in process of continued positive change! You deserve accolades every day of the year! Keep on with everything, and as we say in Spanish, ANIMO! Lots of love and every blessing to you both.

  • @0019808
    @0019808 3 года назад +167

    Nobody ever lay on their death-bed, drawing their last breath, and said, "I wish I had spent more time at work."

    • @someoneelse6618
      @someoneelse6618 3 года назад +20

      Unless of course you're lucky enough to go to work doing something you love

    • @markalbert9390
      @markalbert9390 3 года назад +3

      Ruislip- Enjoying work is a state of mind. Enjoying the fruit of work is a satisfying reward in itself. Not in buying things but in empowerment; the ability to do good with money. Yes, MONEY.
      I think worse is to lay on your death bed and say “I wish I had enjoyed my work”. That, is a wasted life. If you enjoy your work, it is hard not to overdo it. Always the trade off.
      How wonderful it must be to to lay there and recall the tangible impacts that too much work enabled...always considering the cost. If any.
      If a person does not work “too much”, maybe they are lazy. Or not enough of a stoic to control their mind.
      But if they have only worked “too much” in order to collect things, that too is sad.
      I hear your comment all the time. We should settle this. Hospitals should give a little “check the box” card to the to dying, with this question among others.

    • @someoneelse6618
      @someoneelse6618 3 года назад +8

      @@markalbert9390 indubitably and eloquently put. Reminded me of this great thought-
      “The Dalai Lama, when asked what surprised him most about humanity, answered “Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, then dies having never really lived.”

    • @victoza9232
      @victoza9232 3 года назад +6

      Ruislip The quote is from Rabbi Harold Kushner, and it's actually: "No one ever said on their deathbed, 'I wish I'd spent more time at the office.'"
      It conveys the same meaning, but I would disagree with it, as there are many people who love their work, whether in the office or not. Work gives them purpose.
      Lucky are those who find work that they're both good at and love doing.

    • @TCt83067695
      @TCt83067695 3 года назад +1

      This is categorically untrue

  • @bachelorlifestyle2068
    @bachelorlifestyle2068 3 года назад +37

    Mantra: I'm sick & tired of trying to be what they want me to be, so I choose just to be me. I will never change who I am, even if the world ends tomorrow.

    • @wiseoldfool101
      @wiseoldfool101 3 года назад +1

      If the world ends.. It wont be an issue.

    • @eugenet7473
      @eugenet7473 3 года назад

      Well, stop it, and if you don't you'll get exactly what they described - yourself, your couch and your TV (provided you can get a job which is not guaranteed at all these days)

    • @markpalka6382
      @markpalka6382 3 года назад +2

      You have the right idea! Oscar Wilde once said, "Be yourself, everyone else is already taken!"

    • @prezidenttrump5171
      @prezidenttrump5171 3 года назад

      YOU STILL CONFORM!

    • @practicalphilosophy9031
      @practicalphilosophy9031 3 года назад

      especially if the world ends tomorrow.

  • @lisalee2885
    @lisalee2885 3 года назад +44

    I am 55 and agree with the list 😃 I wish they would teach this and more in a class in school for our young 😄💜🙏

    • @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth
      @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth  3 года назад +4

      Thanks Lisa! 💙

    • @fjb4932
      @fjb4932 3 года назад +7

      Schools are socialist indoctrination camps.
      Fortunately the young are not interested in learning ...

    • @apamwamba
      @apamwamba 3 года назад +4

      True... but at 55 years you are still young enough to realize your dreams

    • @jenjay7746
      @jenjay7746 3 года назад +1

      @@fjb4932 socialist? Not sure where you live, capitalist more like.

    • @davorgolik7873
      @davorgolik7873 3 года назад +1

      Me too Lisa! ❤️

  • @mooseydeucy
    @mooseydeucy 3 года назад +10

    I stopped watching television in 2010 and that freed so much more time to achieve some of my goals.

    • @berzerker1100
      @berzerker1100 3 года назад

      Yes, because a lot of the B.S. on the news is a "created crisis" it's all planned 🤕😷😾

    • @billygnosis6976
      @billygnosis6976 3 года назад

      I stopped watching the "news" a year ago....ignorance IS bliss.

  • @greensombrero3641
    @greensombrero3641 3 года назад +55

    Living clean is its own reward. The power of physical activity.

    • @seemlyme
      @seemlyme 3 года назад +3

      System is the problem. 🏡 Great Qualities.
      1, Show all living creatures; all the love and kindness as much as you can.
      2, Only try to be honest with yourself. If you try to be honest with others, you will get into big trouble soon or later.
      3, Aim only one target at a time; otherwise you are chasing two rabbits and you will miss both. So, the reason behind it. Have one powerful reason and never ever give up the one you want the most.
      4, Don't try to be good person only but be the powerful person. We will grow to be the one or we will die. There is no other choice.
      5, Always learn and look for to improve something your life.
      6, You are not alone. Love and faith the high power reduces unnecessary stress in life. But never completely rely on it.
      7, Success and happiness are the byproducts of our usefulness. So, always increase the possibility of success.
      8, Life is not going to be easy. Because of our unnecessary things. Eliminate all the unnecessary things as much as you can by organising yourself well with the environments.
      9, Never believe anything without the proper evidences.
      10, Always try to give more than you take.
      Because it is dignity/ character of the divinity within you.
      🌎 As long as people continue to see themselves as separate from everything else, they lend themselves to being completely enslaved. Success depends on how well we relate to everything around us. Joy comes from that bliss of connectedness. I believe that unarmed truth and love will have the final word in reality. To love; you should have good heart. I am a good person until I see a person better than my standard of goodness. Being good is the progress towards a worthy cause. Love is God. Whoever lives in love, lives forever. How selfish it is to try to keep something forever? Love is all about nourishing, nurturing, sharing and expanding the love within you for all. The principle to which we adhere to is that we have kindness of love at heart for the whole of mankind. As long as there is the unnecessary differences within us; we can not live peacefully so we have to eliminate all the unnecessary differences among us so we can love all. People abilities may vary but not there true love. If we love a person/ God for a reason then we love the reason but not the person. No reason is the reason to love the person because true love never fails. So do not compare or measure the true love as first or the last but love all truly. If you love people truly then you can understand people. If you don't love then you don't understand people at all.
      People are controlled by system why?
      The Cyclical Consumption is the current economy all over the World. It is making the scarcity problems of the earth finite resources to deteriorate day by day. Current Monetary System is legalised theft. Real money is Gold and Silver. Scarcity gives the money more value. Real money won't lose it's value. When Governments stay away from Gold & Silver then very easy to transfer the wealth / resources to upper class the Rich (Corporatocracy) Elite. When the Governments are printing out more new fiat currency with reserve banks, our old currency is losing its purchasing power everyday. They are printing millions of currency everyday. All governments and laws are existing right now to transfer wealth to upper class the rich elite. The USA Government & other Governments are in many countries, bailed the investment banks & financial institutions in 2008 against the majority of the people. There is no democracy in any countries. Because of the Money System based on profits motive only above all else even humans lives and well-being. So, we do not have freedom to protect our values with the money so on. The violence, bankruptcy & all the negativities are build into the Monetary System of our society. All are owned (including ourselves) by Reserve Bank. Which is private cartel the corporation. So, in legal system, we are legally considered as chattel the properties. They make money in the capital markets with our birth certificates. They do not consider us as Humans. That's the truth. We are at the invisible war with the Elites (Corporatocracies). We have to fight for our Freedom. Resource Based Economy is the Solution. We have to declare the earth resources as the heritage of all the people of this world. So everyone has access to it. Please have your research about zeitgeist movement then you know the truth more.
      Truth About Health/Drugs Industry Because Of It Your Life At High Risk The drug industry is a 1/2 trillion dollars a year worldwide conglomerate. Almost 300 billions dollars just in North America. That is really big business. What would happen if everyone were well? There is no money in health. You see, good health makes a lot of sense but it doesn't make a lot of dollars. Because everything they do is toxic. Every drug they use, prescription drugs, all drugs are liver toxic, bar none. If you've had amalgam fillings put in your mouth by dentists. It is highly toxic. There's cancer because most of the chemos are themselves carcinogens. To view the tumor as the cancer and we know the tumor is not the cancer. The cancer industry is 200 billions dollars a year. The more work they get, the more profit there is. You have to dismantle; If the truth ever came out about what we would need to do. 30% of people of females in America are at risk of getting, will get cancer of the breast. The ones that are already dead have been grossly mistreated by the medical profession and by the government that supposedly is supposed to encourage free research and development of all possibilities. Why would medical doctors who studied medicine and practice medicine and are heavily funded by pharmaceutical companies why would they go and look into vitamins? That they never had the answer orthomolecular. And as more and more of our population start taking their health into their own hands, there's going to be even more and more of changes. It can't go on the way it is. The system is failing apart. We must make nutrition the primary prevention strategy for the population. You are what you eat. You are everything that you have ever done to yourself. The choices you make directly affect the outcome of your life. - (Food Matters Documentary in Netflix)
      😊 Well, I truly love God. I am not religious but very spiritual person. So, I believe 1) Religion is the beliefs in someone experiences But spirituality is having my own experiences. The mainstream religions people promote religious ideology by giving guidelines and guide but In my spiritual life; I do not want anyone or anything between God and me to restrict my freedom to worship God. 2) We do not need any authorities to do good work. The god work is the good work always. In contrast; organised mainstream religions are claiming that they have the authorities to do God works as leaders so on. 3) God is not capable of doing wrong thing, change the past for us and create anything out of nothing for us. Nothing means not anything. So, even God is limited. The mainstream religious people believe that God is unlimited 4) God wants us to take responsibilities for our righteousness life but not for all the consequences of our actions because they are continued to exist among us. So, How can god punish us for all our consequences? The mainstream religious people believe we are full of sins because of all our actions. 5) Freewill is an illusion. People always choose the perceived path of greatest pleasure. So, we do not have choices all the time. In contrast teachings of the mainstream religions are promoting people to do god's will always because we all have choices of freewill always. 6) We can not separate everything into groups. So, everything for good and evil and there's no success and failure for everything. If everything is real then real things can not be threatened. Once you come to understand that God/The Holy Spirit is in each of us, You will no longer need a Book to tell you how to live. Then why we need religious scriptures? The Virtue is the expression of the basic goodness in our actions. The Basic goodness is the fundamental worthiness of every individuals. We are worthy to God always in everything. 7) Beliefs in a cruel God makes a cruel man. No matter what; every living creatures has the right to live and What makes their life cheap? Everything depends on everything. Nothing too big or too small in value. We can not love and hate at the same time; Being a vegetarian means love without cruelty happily. The mainstream religious people are killing people and sacrificing animals in the name of God. They promote God's cruel punishments. The Punishment is endless for Sinners/Devil according to religious scriptures. But God is love always. Overcome hate with love. If all religions for peace, unity? No way. Because they are not for peace. 8) Well, The God gave us everything to go from moment to moment in our lives as we do our part and pray only to thank god then the Love is in progress. The Love is always for everyone. We are always worthy of the God's love. Our greatest fear is; not to be loved by anyone but we are all loved by someone. When we eliminate all our unnecessary differences among us then true peaceful life is possible with the true love. If we can't find the peace within ourselves then we will never find it anywhere else. 9) This is the Fight for independence and freedom of humanity to worship God freely without religious guide and guidelines to restrict us. Unnecessarily, We do not want third party controls over us in anything ; especially in spirituality. 10) Revive Survive Thrive. Sincerely, The Real Peacemaker against religious oppression.
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    • @RealAmericanHero420
      @RealAmericanHero420 3 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 3 года назад

      Yes. I did not run for three weeks and I feel less calm and strong.
      I walk and cycle but I do miss the feeling of running.
      Going to pick it up again tomorrow.

    • @greensombrero3641
      @greensombrero3641 3 года назад

      @@peaceofmindofpeace1650 even long walks help! take care!

    • @billygnosis6976
      @billygnosis6976 3 года назад

      but that's where the fun is...........

  • @angelabakloyvovtchaikovsky1609
    @angelabakloyvovtchaikovsky1609 3 года назад +22

    People need mentors and sponsors. There is always someone that steps in. Divine intervention

    • @eduardochavacano
      @eduardochavacano 3 года назад

      that is true for the first world, where people are high in reality shows and drama.

  • @carbonunit3191
    @carbonunit3191 4 года назад +6

    The everything is temporary one is bang on. People don’t usually learn this until a big life changing event happens. Like a parent dying. It’s a shock to the system. It can trigger what is lovingly referred to as a midlife crisis

    • @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth
      @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth  4 года назад +2

      I completely agree with you, while I am always focus on creating a better future for myself as time goes bye I realize more and more how important is to enjoy every moment of life! 💙

    • @brianhall8097
      @brianhall8097 3 года назад

      Absolutely agree with you life changing I have reflected losing three siblings my father and mother in two of best friends in 11 months and a divorce 55 years old now never would have thought in a million years life would have turned out this way well sorry for rambling but you made a good point have a safe life through Journey

  • @anthonydecarvalho652
    @anthonydecarvalho652 3 года назад +9

    Something that really open my eyes and quickly made me embrace (and appreciate) my life and the now was to turn around an old familiar saying. Remember: " Life is short " usually go in one ear and out the other. Ask yourself, How long is death! .....yeah. Death is permanent. Live, and live now!

  • @GiraffeParty
    @GiraffeParty 3 года назад +10

    "So sometimes the goals that we reach aren't important, rather the person we become whilst trying to reach them is what counts."
    In the past few years, I made some very difficult life decisions based on this very point. It resulted in divorce, loss of job stability, loss of friendships, and changed gender identity. Though painful decisions, and despite a pandemic, these past 2 years have been the best in my life. My new friends are more genuine, my life experiences are more rich, and I am happier each day than ever before. Great video. Thanks!

  • @pizzaman8409
    @pizzaman8409 3 года назад +6

    "When you're 90 years old, looking back on your past life, you think you'll most joyfully remember sitting in your living room alone watching tv?"
    I will never forget that wisdom! 🤔❤💯😎

  • @irynakalychak6821
    @irynakalychak6821 3 года назад +63

    Living a life of regret, never having been able to learn to overcome my fears.

    • @vaiolover1997
      @vaiolover1997 3 года назад +8

      I have the same fear of failure. I am working out everyday to build my body and confidence. Take a baby step each day and fail often. Success doesn't come easy.

    • @ult1matesult1matum
      @ult1matesult1matum 3 года назад +5

      Fighting that very issue right now

    • @vaiolover1997
      @vaiolover1997 3 года назад +7

      @@ult1matesult1matum I have been fighting the same issue for five years. I decided to want to live well and healthy. Working out and trying build a better version of what I can be before I lay in my dying bed regretting every stinking moment of this short life.
      Get yourself out of this funky life situation and look forward to new start each day.

    • @spacewombat6174
      @spacewombat6174 3 года назад +2

      Keep trying, overcoming fears is so empowering.

    • @rafayz9033
      @rafayz9033 3 года назад +2

      @@vaiolover1997 I have much respect for you brother. As long as you have breath in your lungs know that anything is possible.

  • @marcoguerrero7096
    @marcoguerrero7096 4 года назад +29

    I know that I should just live life to the fullest
    But something in me is just like: you have to be good
    And I want to be excited you know...
    I love life and hate it at the same time.
    It’s still great tho and bad.
    But life moves on with or without you.

  • @jrpipik
    @jrpipik 3 года назад +23

    1 - The other big lesson to learn from "everything is temporary" is that hard things will pass, so don't freak out. 3 - life is not unfair, it's NON-fair, it will throw down boons and banes randomly, so don't take it personally.

    • @billygnosis6976
      @billygnosis6976 3 года назад

      The five Agreements......read it but you may have already.....don't take anything personally #2

  • @7StarsMA
    @7StarsMA 3 года назад +9

    We must learn to love in a world where everything will be taken away from us.

  • @baruchben-david4196
    @baruchben-david4196 3 года назад +7

    The problem with these gems is that for every point one person makes, someone else makes the opposite point. It's all well and good to tell people to learn from their elders, but... from which elders? Definitely listen and learn, but in the end you still have to use your own brains to decide what works for you. And you're going to make mistakes sometimes. That's just part of life.

  • @kimchee94112
    @kimchee94112 3 года назад +38

    Its common sense you need to roll with the punches and move on. Some people wired for failure and other for success while most of us needed a little luck on the way. Don't abuse you body with junk or drugs, invest wisely, put in the hard work, select good friends and a loving lifelong mate There will be hard lessons could not be avoided, you need to pick yourself up and start over. Most of us are not special, life is unfair, a little luck and positive attitude will go a long way.

    • @JohnDoe-zz7on
      @JohnDoe-zz7on 3 года назад +1

      Some maybe wired for failure, but it doesnt have to be that way. You can rewire the program to achieve success; trick is you have to be aware that you have been wired to fail and then fix it.

    • @icetruckker
      @icetruckker 3 года назад +1

      well said.

    • @jenjay7746
      @jenjay7746 3 года назад +1

      Nobody is 'wired' for failure or success. It's all very context related. A genius footballer now would not have been 'successful' 150 years ago. There is nothing hardwired about that. Also 'success' and 'failure' are not natural but socially created ideas. Being a great hedge funder wouldn't help you in the Brazilian jungle. You are ignoring structural inequalities as well. In the UK and many countries you can pay for your kids to access superior education, which means they mix with other privileged people . That's not 'luck'.

    • @kimchee94112
      @kimchee94112 3 года назад

      @@jenjay7746
      Explain the Criminal Mind who could be just as successful legally but ends up in jail taking the other path over and over. And then genetically predisposed serial killers, rapists and pedophiles compel do what they do. Oprah Winfrey from welfare to billionaire so do many others from nothing to millions. Its difficult to change ones bad/evil personalities and in many cases impossible. I'll bet that genius footballer has an excellent chance regardless of the timeline, more than most others for sure.

  • @walterbar3118
    @walterbar3118 3 года назад +74

    Trying is the first step towards failure
    - Homer Simpson

    • @trickyrat483
      @trickyrat483 3 года назад +1

      Never try, and you can never be blamed! :)

    • @StEve-zt5pc
      @StEve-zt5pc 3 года назад

      To Try ... is to Attempt.... That is the Most that can be expected from a well-intentioned Effort.
      To “Do”, is to presume a Successful outcome, which is not always the end result.
      Attempt to Do... vs. Avoid Doing.

  • @sideshowboob
    @sideshowboob 3 года назад +291

    common misconception: "you only live once" - wrong. You only die once, on every other day, you live

    • @melcomepay6668
      @melcomepay6668 3 года назад +5

      We " die" many times.

    • @mirandaquinnn
      @mirandaquinnn 3 года назад +3

      @@melcomepay6668 that is deep

    • @melcomepay6668
      @melcomepay6668 3 года назад +7

      @@mirandaquinnn Thank you. Maybe some people's lives are so awful, that they feel that they do die every day. What I meant was that we live in physical bodies on earth many times.. leaving at "death" and returning again. That, imo is how we learn life lessons. Life itself is the teacher, we the students Perhaps I am going little of track here.. but along with many other people, over thousands of years I actually LEFT MY BODY, in 1982.. Not as a result of any operation, accident, mental illness, drugs etc.. I keep hearing people say.. things like I am starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel.. a common expression now. Well there actuary IS.. a tunnel and there is a light at the end of it. I went up it and into the light!! Obviously I came back. I've now had a fair number of years. Long enuf to be able to look back. If we make mistakes in. Life admit them, and do not repeat them . I would love to be 21 again. Apologies if that was too long an answer.

    • @777-v7u
      @777-v7u 3 года назад

      Correction! you will die twice, if you're not born again.
      Born once die twice; born twice die once.
      The bible makes reference to the 2nd death: the first death, is the death of the body, while the second death, is the death/destruction of the soul.
      That's why Jesus said: YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN!
      We must be born again, because our first birth is no good.
      My soul is as black as a thousand mid-nights.
      My first birth is corrupt, because I inherited my sin nature from my first father Adam.
      Science has proven, that every human born, [without exception,] inherits their blood type
      from the father.
      In order to remedy this problem, God became a man in the person of the Lord Jesus Christ.
      God put himself on the cross, and shed his blood, to pay not only for the sins that I commit, but most importantly, the sin nature that I was born with, the sin code in my blood.
      Many folks try to get right with God by doing religion...it won't work.
      God will only accept one, and only one payment for sin: the shed blood of Jesus Christ.
      If you are born again, your body will die, but your soul, will be reunited with a new body: a body that will never get sick, feel pain, or grow old.
      However, if Jesus Christ returns for those who are redeemed, before they die physically,
      they will neither taste physical nor spiritual death.
      The soul is eternal: it will either live in heaven, or it will live in hell.
      HOW TO BE BORN AGAIN
      1. Repent [change your mind] by agreeing with God, that you are a helpless sinner, and that you cannot save yourself, by anything that you do or don't do, no matter how good it may be.
      2. Put your trust completely, in the shed blood of Jesus Christ to save you.
      Simple! so simple, most people miss it.
      This is not religion, this is a relationship.
      Salvation is found in a person, not an institution.
      Not by so called good works.
      Many well meaning folks teach that a person must repent of their sins in order to be saved.
      That is not true, it is a lie from the devil.
      Should I repent of my sins; yes, but not to be saved.
      The bible never teaches that a person needs to repent of their sins to be saved.
      These "well meaning" folks who teach this, misunderstand the meaning of the word repent.
      The word repent, translated from the Greek is metanoia: it means a change of mind.
      The only sin needed to be repented of, to be saved, is the sin of unbelief...
      The above comment, is my interpretation of life and death.
      I apologize, if this belief that I hold to, causes someone to be offended.
      www.jesus-is-savior.com/False%20Religions/false_religions.htm
      www.jesus-is-savior.com/Believer's%20Corner/Doctrines/repentance_simple.htm
      www.jesus-is-savior.com/Evolution%20Hoax/darwin_said_there_was_no_proof.htm

    • @melcomepay6668
      @melcomepay6668 3 года назад +1

      @@777-v7u That's OK, all opinions have equal value. But my belief is based on actual experience. I saw jesus when I was 14 yrs old. I mean I REALLY saw him and felt him too. So if people ask me Do you believe my reply is I have no choice but to believe.. Those of us and theire are many thousands. Over many centuries, who have LEFT OUR BODIES, temporarily, seen, and returned to the body soon come back with a rather different view of earthly " religion". The OBE is CONFIRMING, and doesn't in any way detract from christ or what he caedd the heavenly father... a his words were to his disciples when they bowed down before him.. See that thou do it not... As for being born again.. we are born again and again, and again, into bodies made for us by our earhly parents. Until we have no need of Earth any more UNDERSTAND, this world is. ruled by Satan. Earth is not controlled by we humans, though we are given dominion. And what has man done with this so called religion? Used it as an excuse to make war and kill others believing that " God" is on thier side That is nonsense.
      Finally, I will. say that I wish you a life free of pain and that you never have a serious accident or operation. but if you do you may find yourself in that beautiful realm of existence, or close to it.. And if you return to your body, you will come back with a different understanding of religion. By the way, Christianity was hijacked by a Roman emporer for his own, evil purposes ( which is what man does with it) Ditto King Henry eighth. a nasty, violent, evil human, who thought he had the right to start his OWN version, The Church of England. Beautiful buildings. but like all human " religious" organisations full of evil and misunderstanding. Apologies for any typng / gramatical errors, my eyesight not to good these days.

  • @MaxWaldron
    @MaxWaldron 3 года назад +11

    Chopin, prelude in E minor, Op. 28 No. 4, lives on. Take up piano, it's never too late. Start with this prelude.

    • @paulrxxxmann6718
      @paulrxxxmann6718 3 года назад

      altho the music is superb, i remember it from " 5 easy pieces ...". there, a not happy man uses it to pour salt on the wound.. so it has unpleasant connotations for me . Wish I could not be him ( in my own tiny way ).

  • @rozaogrodowa8686
    @rozaogrodowa8686 3 года назад

    I am so happy that I have almost finished my bucket list before the covid chaos : many courses, many meetings with my old friends, many trees and bushes planted and finding more joy in simple things everyday.

  • @mikewalters
    @mikewalters 3 года назад +1

    Excellent advice! Great video, I subscribed.

  • @troyott2334
    @troyott2334 3 года назад +22

    Words of wisdom for those smart enough to take it in. " The richest person you will ever know is not the one with the most money, best looks, the best luck, or the most perfect family. To the contrary, the richest person you will ever know is the one who has complete mastery an ownership of his own time (our most finite resource), an answers to no one but himself and his God."

  • @thilakchristopher8246
    @thilakchristopher8246 3 года назад +8

    We learn life from our mistakes and failures.
    Take Life as it comes your way. We learn something till our death.... Nothing wrong in telling the Truth.

  • @gearsNtools
    @gearsNtools 3 года назад +17

    our society has developed a strong aversion to failing. unfortunately it prevents many people from taking the first step on the path too their dreams

    • @seemlyme
      @seemlyme 3 года назад +1

      System is the problem. 🏡 Great Qualities.
      1, Show all living creatures; all the love and kindness as much as you can.
      2, Only try to be honest with yourself. If you try to be honest with others, you will get into big trouble soon or later.
      3, Aim only one target at a time; otherwise you are chasing two rabbits and you will miss both. So, the reason behind it. Have one powerful reason and never ever give up the one you want the most.
      4, Don't try to be good person only but be the powerful person. We will grow to be the one or we will die. There is no other choice.
      5, Always learn and look for to improve something your life.
      6, You are not alone. Love and faith the high power reduces unnecessary stress in life. But never completely rely on it.
      7, Success and happiness are the byproducts of our usefulness. So, always increase the possibility of success.
      8, Life is not going to be easy. Because of our unnecessary things. Eliminate all the unnecessary things as much as you can by organising yourself well with the environments.
      9, Never believe anything without the proper evidences.
      10, Always try to give more than you take.
      Because it is dignity/ character of the divinity within you.
      🌎 As long as people continue to see themselves as separate from everything else, they lend themselves to being completely enslaved. Success depends on how well we relate to everything around us. Joy comes from that bliss of connectedness. I believe that unarmed truth and love will have the final word in reality. To love; you should have good heart. I am a good person until I see a person better than my standard of goodness. Being good is the progress towards a worthy cause. Love is God. Whoever lives in love, lives forever. How selfish it is to try to keep something forever? Love is all about nourishing, nurturing, sharing and expanding the love within you for all. The principle to which we adhere to is that we have kindness of love at heart for the whole of mankind. As long as there is the unnecessary differences within us; we can not live peacefully so we have to eliminate all the unnecessary differences among us so we can love all. People abilities may vary but not there true love. If we love a person/ God for a reason then we love the reason but not the person. No reason is the reason to love the person because true love never fails. So do not compare or measure the true love as first or the last but love all truly. If you love people truly then you can understand people. If you don't love then you don't understand people at all.
      People are controlled by system why?
      The Cyclical Consumption is the current economy all over the World. It is making the scarcity problems of the earth finite resources to deteriorate day by day. Current Monetary System is legalised theft. Real money is Gold and Silver. Scarcity gives the money more value. Real money won't lose it's value. When Governments stay away from Gold & Silver then very easy to transfer the wealth / resources to upper class the Rich (Corporatocracy) Elite. When the Governments are printing out more new fiat currency with reserve banks, our old currency is losing its purchasing power everyday. They are printing millions of currency everyday. All governments and laws are existing right now to transfer wealth to upper class the rich elite. The USA Government & other Governments are in many countries, bailed the investment banks & financial institutions in 2008 against the majority of the people. There is no democracy in any countries. Because of the Money System based on profits motive only above all else even humans lives and well-being. So, we do not have freedom to protect our values with the money so on. The violence, bankruptcy & all the negativities are build into the Monetary System of our society. All are owned (including ourselves) by Reserve Bank. Which is private cartel the corporation. So, in legal system, we are legally considered as chattel the properties. They make money in the capital markets with our birth certificates. They do not consider us as Humans. That's the truth. We are at the invisible war with the Elites (Corporatocracies). We have to fight for our Freedom. Resource Based Economy is the Solution. We have to declare the earth resources as the heritage of all the people of this world. So everyone has access to it. Please have your research about zeitgeist movement then you know the truth more.
      Truth About Health/Drugs Industry Because Of It Your Life At High Risk The drug industry is a 1/2 trillion dollars a year worldwide conglomerate. Almost 300 billions dollars just in North America. That is really big business. What would happen if everyone were well? There is no money in health. You see, good health makes a lot of sense but it doesn't make a lot of dollars. Because everything they do is toxic. Every drug they use, prescription drugs, all drugs are liver toxic, bar none. If you've had amalgam fillings put in your mouth by dentists. It is highly toxic. There's cancer because most of the chemos are themselves carcinogens. To view the tumor as the cancer and we know the tumor is not the cancer. The cancer industry is 200 billions dollars a year. The more work they get, the more profit there is. You have to dismantle; If the truth ever came out about what we would need to do. 30% of people of females in America are at risk of getting, will get cancer of the breast. The ones that are already dead have been grossly mistreated by the medical profession and by the government that supposedly is supposed to encourage free research and development of all possibilities. Why would medical doctors who studied medicine and practice medicine and are heavily funded by pharmaceutical companies why would they go and look into vitamins? That they never had the answer orthomolecular. And as more and more of our population start taking their health into their own hands, there's going to be even more and more of changes. It can't go on the way it is. The system is failing apart. We must make nutrition the primary prevention strategy for the population. You are what you eat. You are everything that you have ever done to yourself. The choices you make directly affect the outcome of your life. - (Food Matters Documentary in Netflix)
      😊 Well, I truly love God. I am not religious but very spiritual person. So, I believe 1) Religion is the beliefs in someone experiences But spirituality is having my own experiences. The mainstream religions people promote religious ideology by giving guidelines and guide but In my spiritual life; I do not want anyone or anything between God and me to restrict my freedom to worship God. 2) We do not need any authorities to do good work. The god work is the good work always. In contrast; organised mainstream religions are claiming that they have the authorities to do God works as leaders so on. 3) God is not capable of doing wrong thing, change the past for us and create anything out of nothing for us. Nothing means not anything. So, even God is limited. The mainstream religious people believe that God is unlimited 4) God wants us to take responsibilities for our righteousness life but not for all the consequences of our actions because they are continued to exist among us. So, How can god punish us for all our consequences? The mainstream religious people believe we are full of sins because of all our actions. 5) Freewill is an illusion. People always choose the perceived path of greatest pleasure. So, we do not have choices all the time. In contrast teachings of the mainstream religions are promoting people to do god's will always because we all have choices of freewill always. 6) We can not separate everything into groups. So, everything for good and evil and there's no success and failure for everything. If everything is real then real things can not be threatened. Once you come to understand that God/The Holy Spirit is in each of us, You will no longer need a Book to tell you how to live. Then why we need religious scriptures? The Virtue is the expression of the basic goodness in our actions. The Basic goodness is the fundamental worthiness of every individuals. We are worthy to God always in everything. 7) Beliefs in a cruel God makes a cruel man. No matter what; every living creatures has the right to live and What makes their life cheap? Everything depends on everything. Nothing too big or too small in value. We can not love and hate at the same time; Being a vegetarian means love without cruelty happily. The mainstream religious people are killing people and sacrificing animals in the name of God. They promote God's cruel punishments. The Punishment is endless for Sinners/Devil according to religious scriptures. But God is love always. Overcome hate with love. If all religions for peace, unity? No way. Because they are not for peace. 8) Well, The God gave us everything to go from moment to moment in our lives as we do our part and pray only to thank god then the Love is in progress. The Love is always for everyone. We are always worthy of the God's love. Our greatest fear is; not to be loved by anyone but we are all loved by someone. When we eliminate all our unnecessary differences among us then true peaceful life is possible with the true love. If we can't find the peace within ourselves then we will never find it anywhere else. 9) This is the Fight for independence and freedom of humanity to worship God freely without religious guide and guidelines to restrict us. Unnecessarily, We do not want third party controls over us in anything ; especially in spirituality. 10) Revive Survive Thrive. Sincerely, The Real Peacemaker against religious oppression.
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    • @gearsNtools
      @gearsNtools 3 года назад

      @Randall V also if we fear failure, we'll never try anything, even if we fail 50% of the time, we still get more done than the person who succeeds at nothing for fear of failing at anything.

  • @georgekiosses7025
    @georgekiosses7025 2 года назад +1

    Thank you ,everything that has been mentioned in this video is very useful . 👍

  • @oaesan
    @oaesan 3 года назад +13

    We hardly live in the present. the best days of my life was when I was in secondary school. The moment I enterered Uni, it was all about the future, then future of children, planning to buy a house, planning for retirement....The only time people stop planning is after retirement, then they start looking back and wishing.

    • @india1784
      @india1784 3 года назад

      Well, my university experience was about doing and being what I wanted..an artist. It isn't all that I am but it was what I wanted from the age of 12.

    • @felixchien1664
      @felixchien1664 3 года назад

      My entire life up until is shit. The present is the best moment of my life. Forget the past.

    • @india1784
      @india1784 3 года назад +1

      @@felixchien1664 👏👏 Things can only get better.

    • @billygnosis6976
      @billygnosis6976 3 года назад

      sorry to hear that.......but its your journey and you decide what it is.....

  • @RB-jl8sm
    @RB-jl8sm 3 года назад +48

    Nothing is permanent. That is most important. Don't give/sacrifice yourself for anyone/anything except if it is a Godly thing to do.

    • @katvig1274
      @katvig1274 3 года назад +1

      hahahhahahahhahhhhaa

    • @777VOID-1
      @777VOID-1 3 года назад

      @@katvig1274 what is so funny fool ?

    • @wilburt57
      @wilburt57 3 года назад +1

      Don’t take life so seriously. It’s not permanent

    • @eduardochavacano
      @eduardochavacano 3 года назад +1

      J T But when you drag God in the equation, people get delussional and believe they will live forever.

    • @RB-jl8sm
      @RB-jl8sm 3 года назад +1

      @@eduardochavacano There is no point in leading a good life if there is no God anyway.

  • @markreeter6227
    @markreeter6227 3 года назад +81

    'Life's a piece of sh-t
    When you look at it.'
    - Eric Idle

    • @ChickpeatheTortie
      @ChickpeatheTortie 3 года назад +2

      So true. Its a bitch and the you die and if you're not careful you might find yourself reincarnating for another 80 odd years of wash, rinse, repeat on and on and on and on and on ad nauseum.

    • @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook
      @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook 3 года назад

      Let's turn that piece of shit into something wonderful shall we?. How may I help you?.

    • @williampalacio5743
      @williampalacio5743 3 года назад

      A handful of sleeping pills , would fix your problem

    • @seatankoable
      @seatankoable 3 года назад

      life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true... ten tenn ten tennn tennee

    • @billygnosis6976
      @billygnosis6976 3 года назад

      I would agree for some anyway....its all in how you look at it,

  • @lukavasovic5434
    @lukavasovic5434 3 года назад +5

    I wish every single person to succeed at what they want.

  • @colinwright9290
    @colinwright9290 3 года назад

    Thank people who have been kind to you. Relatives, work or whatever. Even if it means finding them 50 years later. Make every effort to track them down. The satisfaction for both parties is immense.

  • @_childish8866
    @_childish8866 3 года назад +47

    Me who realizes my depression wont last forever: *I see this as an absolute win*

    • @simplesoul21
      @simplesoul21 3 года назад +1

      Your words inspired me and thanks for making me realising that in a postive way...

    • @_childish8866
      @_childish8866 3 года назад

      @@gabbsdy8741 One word... School

    • @_childish8866
      @_childish8866 3 года назад

      @@gabbsdy8741 13, grade 7

    • @_childish8866
      @_childish8866 3 года назад

      @@gabbsdy8741 this was our extra work we had to listen and answer questions based on this

    • @MrH1254
      @MrH1254 3 года назад

      @@_childish8866 Wow that's really sad

  • @bernardialiaga87
    @bernardialiaga87 4 года назад +27

    I’m pushing to my 50” and I notice I’m not willing to do new tasks at work I remember when I was on my 20’ 30’ and even 40’ I was all kind but now is a bit of losing confidence, I’m gonna watch all your videos.

    • @MrChinchilla_hn
      @MrChinchilla_hn 3 года назад +2

      Fear is useless, nothing can be lost once you get older, but, but health. So consume not processed food and more, organic.

    • @franciscanishagomes3944
      @franciscanishagomes3944 3 года назад +3

      Don't loose your confidence. You are more mature now so you will perform better.

    • @jimreid6370
      @jimreid6370 3 года назад +2

      Talk to no less than five people Don't let them lead you then go to a place you are new too then think it through good luck keep going😅

  • @coreylipow180
    @coreylipow180 4 года назад +25

    The life is unfair one is definitely something we should learn earlier. People tell you it, but you don't really understand it until you have some experiences. You can work very hard, do all the right things, and still you don't get anything that you want, while someone else who goes bumbling through life does. It's very frustrating, but hearing that life is unfair makes it a little better.

    • @Coneman3
      @Coneman3 3 года назад +2

      Yeah you only have to look at thrr we average politician to see how some achieve success by simply blagging it.

    • @Nabiyeni100
      @Nabiyeni100 3 года назад +3

      Even with relationships. Some kind nice people are alone.

    • @catherinebirch2399
      @catherinebirch2399 Год назад

      The world Is full of people who are eaten up with jealousy because some people are more attractive, richer, smarter or more talented than they are. They are just eating themselves up inside over something that they and others have no control over.

  •  3 года назад +8

    When I was in my early 20s, I met a retired stockbroker. He told me to buy and hold solid stocks and to save a bit from wash paycheck . He said dividend reinvestment can easily make the common man a millionaire over time. He was certainly right!
    I followed his advice and have done very well over the decades. The stock market goes up and down, but over the long term has always done very well. I may never own my own factory big box store, or oil well. But by buying stocks in these hard assets I can diversify and own a little bit of each.

    • @mariobannano6592
      @mariobannano6592 3 года назад

      Derek flint, will u help n mentor even though I'm older I still have dreams th. Mbodanceman@gmail.com

  • @TheRumbles13
    @TheRumbles13 3 года назад +5

    My ego took a curbstomping this year, I feel like everyone else's will in the next 10 years, so I'm ahead of the curve and ready for the future!

  • @SamiP-ik7vj
    @SamiP-ik7vj 3 года назад +78

    *1. Never trust politicians, salespeople or self-worshipping responsibility dodgers.*

  • @juliettevonarnim9180
    @juliettevonarnim9180 4 года назад +5

    These videos are absolutely on point and full of wisdom. Thank you so much!

  • @gusgalvanini
    @gusgalvanini 3 года назад +3

    I'm in the medical field and often my patients are in their 80's & 90's and I love advice from them, they tell the best stories and give us the most experinced lessons (literally).

    • @mifmif5572
      @mifmif5572 3 года назад

      Ben detto. I contemporanei scadono a confronto.

    • @melcomepay6668
      @melcomepay6668 3 года назад

      I'm in the 70s now, and I have a few stories, and lots of memories.. llfe is the best teacher.

  • @CeDubble
    @CeDubble 3 года назад +7

    Whatever you want to do... go for it!

  • @racaciaruth4460
    @racaciaruth4460 3 года назад +1

    Amen nothing lasts forever and everything is temporary. Living life to the fullest now, sacrifice now and enjoy people, learn, grow and live this life with meaning.Fears keep us in chains. 🙏 We must face our fears and be overcomers. Beautiful post. Thank you.

  • @luvyanks4ever
    @luvyanks4ever 3 года назад

    When you are praising or blessing you are on the highest frequency of love.

  • @JTchills
    @JTchills 4 года назад +8

    Just discovered this channel after finding out I’m an introvert and everything on this channel makes so much sense. You deserve more views man. You got my sub

    • @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth
      @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth  4 года назад +1

      thank you! 💙

    • @sagitariosolitario774
      @sagitariosolitario774 4 года назад +1

      @Ace indeed also Introvert and realistic approach things and what life brings you ups and downs also curves lines we can take as a blessing or curse.

    • @rietbout3245
      @rietbout3245 4 года назад

      @@sagitariosolitario774 n.b
      N.m.

    • @rietbout3245
      @rietbout3245 4 года назад

      @@sagitariosolitario774 nu

  • @Fuliginosus
    @Fuliginosus 3 года назад +35

    "A person who tries to live in the present moment will soon find themselves in a future they hadn't anticipated dealing with a past that has caught up with them." ~David Partington

  • @spendingtimetogether8428
    @spendingtimetogether8428 3 года назад +7

    Always be positive and never give up!

  • @saeedakhtar0107
    @saeedakhtar0107 3 года назад +11

    Life is fair if one believes that the journey towards destiny is a trial offering both, the good and the bad. In the end success is subjective.

  • @jennatural139
    @jennatural139 3 года назад +5

    Yes just forget about yesterday! focus on building your life today & creating beautiful things today. 🥰

  • @mckoylach1622
    @mckoylach1622 3 года назад +11

    Physical forms exist temporarily but the souls live forever....

  • @Studentoflife512
    @Studentoflife512 3 года назад +13

    Never trust anyone with money.. Time changes people, promises or trust vanishes, greed steps in. youll be amazed how the most loved ones turns against you and causes the most hurt in your life.

  • @sharko5300
    @sharko5300 4 года назад +19

    "Life is change, that's how it differs from the rocks"

  • @francinepangoptchams8485
    @francinepangoptchams8485 3 года назад +1

    Face my fears being myself and express my self was a long journey. Today I am happy of facing my internal deep limited beliefs

  • @squand3r
    @squand3r 3 года назад +2

    Number 6: Music sets the mood. This piano tune turns it into a short funeral of wisdom. If this video had an upbeat song in the background it would have a completely different impact.

  • @wesleyhite8203
    @wesleyhite8203 3 года назад +3

    I never realized the knowledge, and talent, and wisdom of my father.

  • @johnmjennings2144
    @johnmjennings2144 3 года назад +5

    F*n Awesome! Some people never fail. They’re called losers. LOVE IT!

  • @priyapereira1406
    @priyapereira1406 3 года назад +4

    I m 32yrs.and already learned this lesson.. learning the same thii again n again

  • @mukamaronald7497
    @mukamaronald7497 3 года назад

    Every one on this channel, I love you may God bless you abundantly. Much love from Uganda

  • @alvinfernandes4078
    @alvinfernandes4078 3 года назад +1

    Great vid mate. Hope you grow

  • @kerryfoster1
    @kerryfoster1 4 года назад +8

    Great video! I would say apart from the gloomy music. Something like an uplifting dance track would set the mood far better.
    Nusic is one of the most spirit lifting experiences we have!

  • @blueredcross
    @blueredcross 4 года назад +7

    I agree with everything except the part where they mentioned that life is unfair. I'm 30 now, but I have learnt that life is for you, not against you. Even if things seem unfair now, later you will realise why you didn't get the girl, why you didn't get that house or why you were bullied. You'll realise that it shaped you into the person you are today and that through your negative experiences you have become stronger and more understanding and more compassionate.
    Life shows you what you need, it shows you where you can work on yourself and it shows you who should be in your life and who shouldn't.

    • @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth
      @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth  4 года назад +3

      I completely agree with you, the meaning here is that often the "starting point" is unfair, some people has it easier than others, but as you say the difficulties we experience in life shape us into the person we become and often having a tough youth will turn out to be a big advantage later on in life. Thank you for your contribution! 💙

  • @norahphilips3429
    @norahphilips3429 3 года назад +49

    Successfull people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life..

    • @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth
      @TheArtOfPersonalGrowth  3 года назад

      💙

    • @sarahjonhson9684
      @sarahjonhson9684 3 года назад

      That’s true, most people today have been having a lot of failures in Forex and crypto sector because of poor orientation and bad experts.

    • @alexiswhite3979
      @alexiswhite3979 3 года назад

      You don’t make money on forex or crypto by holding your coins rather you trade to make gains.

    • @ericcharles6332
      @ericcharles6332 3 года назад

      Absolutely right!!!!

    • @ericcharles6332
      @ericcharles6332 3 года назад

      Forex trade made me whom I am today financially without any stress and complications.

  • @elsaberhe9704
    @elsaberhe9704 3 года назад

    Sweet! Thanks for the info and mesmerizing art. God bless❤

  • @powercomec
    @powercomec 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for your awesome videos.........Could you please tell me what software you use to make your videos?...Have my best regards........

  • @toni_wood
    @toni_wood 3 года назад +7

    1)Time is valuable.
    2)Love is a gift,not an obligation.
    3.)Materials don't fulfill every need.
    4.)You only live once.Make each day count.
    5.)Better to have one good person in your life,even if it's yourself,than 50 fake friends.Quality over Quantity....

  • @frstchan
    @frstchan 3 года назад +9

    The problem with this is that, since "everything is temporary" it really does not matter what you do or dont do with your life. You wont remember it. Nobody else will either. And ultimately the universe will end and nothing will ever happen again, and nobody/nothing will remember that anything ever happened ever.

    • @PaulineLievens
      @PaulineLievens 3 года назад +1

      :) Amen to that!

    • @JS-fi7fl
      @JS-fi7fl 3 года назад +4

      This is why we always search for meaning, because we live in a world that is meaningless and our minds can't handle that.

    • @cababness
      @cababness 3 года назад

      @@JS-fi7fl that's why we have to create meaning ourselves for ourselves and this can help create meaning for others by our actions. We may as well enjoy things as we go along, after all the odds of anyone being born are not high. Finding things we care about is what gives our lives meaning, and that bring us happiness. I think one thing I'd add is find what makes you happy and do it. It might even bring happiness to others.

    • @edstratton
      @edstratton 3 года назад

      You can usually find joy in simple things without them ever having to "matter". OK you might not remember what you did, and nobody else will. And OK, ultimately the universe will end and nothing will ever happen again, and nobody/nothing will remember anything that ever happened. But that still doesn't stop you looking for joy in simple things. There doesn't have to be meaning to life and you don't have to search for meaning. Just let go and allow yourself to find joy wherever it can be found. And each time you find some joy, share it with others if you can, because that usually amplifies it.

  • @alicecoppers8980
    @alicecoppers8980 4 года назад +39

    I work in hospice and listen to peoples regrets before dying.

    • @rohangelic
      @rohangelic 4 года назад +11

      If you don’t mind, could you share some? ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jonjon5244
      @jonjon5244 4 года назад +4

      Hey!!! Seriously!! Please share :)

    • @jonjon5244
      @jonjon5244 4 года назад +4

      Lol yes please!!!

    • @jamiehogg8989
      @jamiehogg8989 4 года назад +1

      Then people will listen to your regrets and post them 👎

    • @s4lino
      @s4lino 3 года назад +2

      maybe its a good summer holiday place or volunteer experience for the young, I was invited to do 'chores' / help out with a charity that I was involved with...I find it annoying at first as you can imagine (like telling a kid to get off games), then came some life stories (kind of interesting) then looking back or their stories/moments flashback when you are going through hard times and it makes sense (you get a preview of the future or where we will all likely be one day or similar biological conditions)...interestingly enough now thinking back you could tell the happy ones or one's with happier lives or attitudes (towards life) even without being with them through all their previous years...I think the life experiences (drama/trauma/lessons/'hacks') of the grey generation are actually helpful and priceless when you look back like you don't appreciate things you study till one day you might use it 10 or 20 years down the track (kind of like when you about to leave this world everything flashes back before you that kind of thing)....reminds me of the saying sacrifice the good now in front of your eyes for the chance to achieve/get and be able to appreciate the great that were meant for you. Normally you only get one or the other or your choice of timing and sacrifice plays a part...have a look at the video on Tube here "How Warren Buffett made his first 1,000,000 by The Swedish Investor" to see what I mean about sacrifice and you can see why his path is more solid and followable more or less by others compare to other 'Giants' of this world...most would have gave up long ago hence not deserving of Excalibur goodies so to speak.

  • @GentlePace8
    @GentlePace8 3 года назад

    Wonderful lessons. Beautiful presentation too. Love love it 💖

  • @icemaiden9534
    @icemaiden9534 3 года назад

    i used to hide behind baggy clothes, never did make up even when i looks as tired as i often felt, i didnt want to talk to people i let the judgments of a few mean people when i was in my teens psychologically scar me for almost 20 years. then i started telling myself every morning, do not let old hurts drag you down, stop hideing and be yourself it took months but finally i started careing more for my mental and physical health.
    before all the lockdowns i threw out most of my old clothes, bought all new stuff that i liked and started to engage more with people around me. i ware make up cause when im having a bad day it makes me feel good, i dress up when going out, i learned to cook properly in 2019 so i can better look after myself, i started to exercise and regularly met with friends outside for a cup of coffee.
    i take time every day to apprriaciate just being alive, yeah things are tough right now and i miss everyone and going out and just enjoying all the little everyday things, but im going to enjoy them all the more once all this is over.

  • @1bigdogthe
    @1bigdogthe 3 года назад +4

    Like the singer from Queen says " Nothing really matters, anyone can see. Nothing really matters, nothing really matters to me. "

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 4 года назад +42

    The first one reminds me of the saying 'The old learn through experience what the young know through instinct.'

    • @enakkomey2852
      @enakkomey2852 3 года назад

      👍

    • @franciscanishagomes3944
      @franciscanishagomes3944 3 года назад +3

      The old learn through experience and the young learn through mistakes.

    • @Coneman3
      @Coneman3 3 года назад +1

      The expression means learning about what really matters in life. When young, we are free of responsibilities and haven’t been burned by bad experiences, but as old people, our imminent demise forced us to reassess and see what really counts.

    • @acidzansey2502
      @acidzansey2502 3 года назад +2

      @@franciscanishagomes3944 experience is just a name we give to our mistakes...

    • @eduardochavacano
      @eduardochavacano 3 года назад

      dont go searching for lessons then...

  • @andrewviscountdeloire6756
    @andrewviscountdeloire6756 3 года назад +9

    I will add: to be old/young is a social construction. Don’t let society defines you in terms of numbers of years. You own your life and only you can define who you’re.
    I always regret not to be thankful enough to my parents and teachers.
    Pets give you unconditional love and you should be a good student and give back unconditional love to others.

  • @carloshenriquemaiarosario7448
    @carloshenriquemaiarosario7448 3 года назад

    Thanks so much ! I’m still learn English , your voice . Pronunciation is so clear ! Thanks a lot , i wish a success .