He was never going to choose Jess after she told him she had a daughter. He strung her along and wasted her entire time and experience on the show. He should have told her he wasn't interested and she could have spent that time getting to know other men in the pods.
If having a child is a dealbreaker for him, he wasn’t going to change his mind after she mentioned she has a daughter. She cheated herself out of the experience by not being upfront. She would have found someone earlier on who was actually fine with her having a daughter if she was honest. And if they weren’t fine with it, then her person just wasn’t on the show. You can’t force someone to compromise a dealbreaker.
Literally no one is invested in his life. He's a southern frat boy jock that just likes to run around playing women and acting like the victim. Couldn't stand him.
He’s so lame for telling Jess she was still his number one while he was engaged to Chelsea & days away from getting married. There was no point in doing that if she was some “mean girl” and got a good edit. Take accountability.
@@GraciaBella-m7f Chelsea didn’t go around afterward saying Trevor was some meanie that got a good edit on the show. That’s the only difference. She was wrong too but I don’t see them making it down the aisle either way. If they do I don’t see their marriage lasting.
@nanirose7786 I think he's talking like that cause Chelsea is still insecure and so in order to be good to his wife he wants to distance himself from jessica now that the show is over to move on with his happily married life to Chelsea. That is what I see. We will find out
@@mari97216 People can like what they like as far as looks but mixed with how he acts I definitely don’t see it. Seems like there a lot more going on off camera that he didn’t want Chelsea talking about on camera.
Chelsea gives pick me energy. She smiled while Jess was crying and I really feel like it was all “kill the cheerleader” vibes with her, cause in the real world, she’d never be in competition with a Jess. So she enjoyed “winning”
Wow this was mean. What a projector. No wonder Jess felt that Jimmy slighted by this interview. If this is how you talk about your "friends" then you ain't a friend. I'm glad that the LIB producers showed the receipts in the reunion episode. And im glad other people backed up Jessica's character. Just because a woman is confident, direct and pretty doesn't make her a mean girl!
I don’t believe him. If Jess was such a “mean girl,” then why did Jimmy send her a friend request… and why did he tell her she was his “number one” even after they met in person and he was already with Chelsea. People are so quick to villainize her just because she’s pretty, but Jimmy was the one who told Jess he was still undecided despite telling Chelsea he was 100% sure he was going to pick her. He is manipulating the story because his relationship with Chelsea took a bad turn and he probably doesn’t want people to know that he regrets turning Jessica down.
@@christinac873 Nah, I think she’s telling the truth. The way he was being all friendly and eager around her in person leads me to believe that she wasn’t so bad in the pods. If she truly hurt him that much, I doubt he would still want to talk it out with her. I know I wouldn’t want to purposefully seek out someone who was mean to me
He didn’t tell Chelsea he was 100% sure he was going to pick her. He told her he loved her but she knew he was still talking to someone else. He made his final decision after he felt offended by the way Jess spoke to him during their last conversation.
Some people believe pretty = mean girl, but Jess wasn't the one who cared about looks that was jimmy, also was jimmy who was in A couple engaged sending IG friend request telling Jess he is still interested, that's all I needed to know about his character.
I agree. If she was such a “mean girl,” then why’d he send her a friend request and say that she was his number one when they met in person 🤨 Dude was clearly still trying to get with her
For real! Like he coulda had a Real Housewife but passed her up for someone who thinks she looks like Megan Fox. My boy fumbled hard! Ol Drunk Meg gonna be abusing tf outta him emotionally😅
She was your number one but then you told Chelsea you loved her… then you said she was still your number one while engaged to Chelsea. This cleared up nothing.
He’s gaslighting us all. Ppl didn’t think he chose wrong b/c of looks. Viewers thought he chose wrong based on what we saw was a stronger connection with Jess. So it came across that he had an issue with being a stepdad b/c all we saw Chelsea do the entire time was giggle. Her looks were just the icing on the cake. And viewers still thought he chose wrong based on how insecure Chelsea appears to be.
I thought she was so sweet and graceful when they met! I was super impressed I expected she was gonna be shady but in fact he was one telling her things a fiancé shouldn’t be saying and Jess kept bringing it back to being happy for them and him being good to Chelsea
People have looked like that way before others decided to pay to look like that. You cannot outright judge someone off their looks to boost your struggling confidence. Makes you become what you accuse them of.
Jess poured her heart to him and he made her believe he liked her🥴 She could’ve talked to others if he told her the truth He said he didn’t mind about her daughter when he actually minded. He isn’t a reliable person
Jess has said in interview that Jimmy was actually fine with it. And that they had dates where they planned about trips all three would take. I think the Jimmy was just scared and put off by confrontation
@@wejlYea, it’s just this whole “he coulve told her, she couldve told him” thing. Like, they’re on the same boat as everyone else. They know they’re dating multiple people and it’s pretty normal to like two people at the same time. Might as well date other guys as well. Her focusing on a single guy in that show format is on her, not on him
Yeah, he reeeeally beats around the bush and is very indirect. With Jess, it was obvious he made his decision way before it got to the point where she went off on him. And with Chelsea, he seemed to have his mind made up from Day 1. He seems to think if he’s straightforward, he’ll get attacked and look bad, but what he gets attacked for is NOT BEING STRAIGHTFORWARD! That’s what makes him look like he’s stringing people along. It’s very selfish.
@@m.a.1874 he would have had to deal with her talking about herself everyday and bossing him around. Looks aren’t everything when you have to deal with the person every day.
@xercesgrl he fumbled with a single mom that leaves her kid to go on multiple dating shows and dresses the way she does on Instagram for all her daughters classmates to see?
In my opinion, I think people should give Jimmy some grace here. Believe me, I'm not the biggest fan of him and he does put his foot in his mouth at times, but I think we're placing way to too much blame on him for that relationship failing. Jessica and people are saying he ruined that opportunity for her, but Jessica also has to take some of the responsibility too. I understand why she felt hooked by him constantly saying "you're my number one" or etc... but she also knew how indecisive he was because he was dating another person, she could've started dating other people in this process and not corner herself in with this one guy. That's the whole point of dating this show; dating around until you find the one. I understand it's hard to reveal you have a child in your life, but she should've revealed that at the beginning. If she did she would've weeded out the guys who weren't ready for that off the bat and not waste her time. If any of the guys came back after hearing that news, then she could use that as a reason to proceed. I think she shot herself in the foot guys. Idk. Jimmy was very indecisive, yes but Jess also chose not explore her possible options.
I think she didn’t want to reveal that she got a child because in real life she got some negative reactions. So she decided to play on her personality first before revealing. In this cas it didn’t work well with Jimmy. But it’s on him. If she would tell vine before he would have exactly the same reaction.
@SuperNashum Exactly my point to reveal she has a child in the beginning. She wouldn't have wasted her time if he wasn't receptive to the news. I thought the same thing where she probably had past experiences where she was rejected for having a child, but If the man isn't ready for a child or doesn't want one, she should just move on and finds the one who'll accept her kid and her, not start something with someone possibly wasting both their time. It's not all on Jimmy. It's on her, too. Her idea was to have the guy get to know her and then spring the news on him. I understand that's not easy news to reveal, especially in the dating phase, but put yourself in his shoes too, not just hers. Also, think about the show they're on and how little time they have to decide on a future wife/husband. There's no time to waste.
Yep, definitely reveal you have child quickly because if a guy isn’t ready to take that on, he just isn’t ready and you’re wasting your energy by trying to win him over with your personality. There are men who wouldn’t be fazed but obviously some would and both are OK.
She deserves someone much better than him. He's superficial, vain and pretty coward (ran away from her daughter). She is a strong, brave, eloquent, and beautiful woman. He also lies a lot, thats clear here and in the show. He was never in love with. Helsea. I knew feom the beginning he was just trying not to look bad on tv and wasted her time.
exactly. Everyone seems to forget that part,but her being upset and crying when she told jimmy " you ruined "this" for me" was a red flag in my opinion.Because by "this" she meant being on the show,and it was very obvious to me
Jimmy is salty not because of how Jessica looks, but because their connection was real. They clearly have some real chemistry. You can clearly see it when they meet. Sadly Jimmy has some serious insecurities just like Chelsea. He's so intimidated by Jessica and if he were healed and if Chelsea were healed they would have never been with eachother! Jessica isn't all about looks the public is.
I don’t think she’s a mean girl at all, she supports all the girls and has nothing but love I feel like even with Jimmy she was very transparent but Jimmy wasn’t into being a step dad yet and really thought Chelesa was going to look like Megan fox 😂
Right. That’s what the show is about, I totally get it it’s hard to make a decision and she was the one pushing to date other woman and ONLY chose her when he’s 1000% sure. And then she was the one whining at the end.
Jess saying Jimmy doesn't want to be her friend in a clip I saw 🤣 I was ROFL Jess girl that man don't want you, he's kinda sick of you getting in his face, you can be however beautiful if a person doesn't like you they just don't. Jimmy is right her ego was way over her head, the producers picked Jess to promote n picked Chelsea to demean all for ratings. Jess is condescending AF I never admired her either Chelsea was more genuine.
Got the guy who wanted to have a big family not to accept one child from his potential fiancé seems like a lot of BS. The guy is either able to take the responsibilities on him or either not.
Buddy if she was truly your number 1 you wouldn’t have told Chelsea you love her and propose to her after your supposed #1 rejected you. You deserved every bit of her “mean girl” attitude and she deserves better. No one feels sorry for you man grow up
@@SandraWard-y8uthe first time I looked at Jess I said her face looks fake lol plastic surgeons tend to give whyt women the same nose. Also her lips looks overly done( hers is not the only one) and we can obviously tell the chest is paid for. All that under pounds of makeup. If that’s what y’all r into in guess but… seriously? 🧐
What’s wrong with being confident? Women have such a hard time in this world, we do it all!!! Raise our kids, make our money, keep our homes nice, stay fit and healthy, maintain friendships, and then you expect us to NOT think we’re “all that”? Those of us that know our worth seem to bother some people. We don’t have time to care 😂
Jimmy doesn't marry boat face. Based on the compliments he is giving Jess, there is no way he could say those things if her were still with Boaty-face Chelsea.
I don’t think she’s a mean girl, she’s a very intellectual and confident woman who’s also emotional available. Jimmy is just a boy who got so hung up on Megan Fox. Hope u enjoy your "Megan Fox" 😅
Everything he's saying is actually right. She was conceited from day 1 and reminded me of Shayna always harping on about her instagram following (which is hilarious because Jess literally looks like she's made of 80% fillers and botox). The way she threw a temper tantrum when Jimmy didn't reciprocate is what pushed him irrevocably to the other woman. In the pods Chelsea was always warm and empathetic whereas Jess was borderline bullying him under the guise of "im a strong woman, can you handle that" but really she was just vain af and annoyed when Jimmy didn't say or do exactly as she expected. People trashing him for not wanting to be a stepdad to a child he's never met for a woman he's known for less than a week -- are you hearing yourselves? Jessica was irresponsible af for coming on a dating show like this when she had a child, and then to not even tell her dates about it until the last minute 🤦♀️ this was such a mess. I cant stand Jimmy, Chelsea or Jessica but we need to admit she's a mean girl and not some kind of icon for the epi pen speech (which was peak narcissism)
@@KDStyle1 lol Yeah, he absolutely choked! He couldn't keep his eyes off her when they were at the lake gathering. That's why he told her she was still his number one. He was 100% regretting that he didn't pick her. That's why he friended her on social media right after getting his phone back. He's just trying to save face now in the press.
Jimmy was looking for fame and only stayed with Chelsea because after the fact it would make him look like a bad guy. He had to keep it up. He’s right about Jess having an ego like that. She’s too into herself. She was shocked she didn’t get the man based off personality because usually her looks get her far. Not this time babe.
I also get the feeling that Jess is a mean girl who is posing for the cameras. Like she was talking about getting excited to get with Jimmy and he was already engaged with Chelsea, the whole comment about him having regrets also shows that she considered herself a better option than Chelsea even though this show is not about looks. It was the moment you see me and noticed that I’m so beautiful and way better looking than Chelsea you are going to regret it, that is such a mean thing to say.
PLease, Jess trauma dumped on him, pressured and bashed him. Poor guy, no wonder he wanted to choose the light-hearted seemingly fun and easy option, Chelsea . He wasnt ready for marriage regardless
How was she not humble ? 🤣 she’s been super sweet and he can’t handle a baddie.. he def wanted a pushover and a girl that’s obsessed with him instead of the other way around
Is this the interview she was mad about? 😂😂😂😂 poor Jimmy, i think you should go on again. One choice was bossy and entitled and the other had no self esteem and a complete emotional mess. I see youre not a villain, you did the best you could in the situation you were in.
Unpopular opinion, but she acted so bratty when she sent him that letter and he didn't pour his heart out back and that's why he decided on Chelsea. Because her temper tantrum turned him off. She got mad at him for feeling the way he felt
If her character is real, then she definitely suffered a narcissistic injury by not being chosen over the other women, after giving him so many hints about her looks. If her character really is real, and I kind of don’t think it is, but if it is, she’s definitely a NARCISSIST, and her ego definitely was injured in front of the world. As it should of been.
Ok at this point, I’m starting to feel like a lot of these “characters” are no longer authentic, but now mostly scripted, because there is the same type of “character” on every season. She played the mean girl narcissist. I think by now, most women know how to cover up their own narcissism while being on national television. So to openly display such characteristics, to me screams a little bit forced and scripted.
I like Jimmy and his perspective on things. I'm really tired of the Love is Blind cast and fan base bashing the men. That's all the show has become. Mica, Irina, Zanab, Jess, Laura, and Alexa have all been disgusting mean girls and the female cast and fanbase seem to encourage it. Every woman is a victim now.
I really like jimmy. I am so proud of him for making a stance on the girl that he chose. He’s right it wasn’t supposed to be about looks and everybody’s making it about looks. Apparently Jessica is in love with herself enough she doesn’t need jimmy to love her also lol😂
Team Jess ❤ she ripped him to shreds and he deserved every ounce of it. We all know you only chose Chelsea because she lied about being a Megan Fox look-a-like😂. In reality Jess looks like Meagan Fox and Kim K had a baby😍! Never once did Jess use her looks or plant seeds until her epic, grand exit. Stop playing in her face just admit you definitely chose wrong based on a lie.
Sorry, Jess is for the streets He didnt want someone all used up If she's so great she would have been picked. She wasnt, coz she had ro rely on personality...which she lacks
He was never going to choose Jess after she told him she had a daughter. He strung her along and wasted her entire time and experience on the show. He should have told her he wasn't interested and she could have spent that time getting to know other men in the pods.
Agree and it got sealed when chelsea said she was look like meagan fox🤣
If having a child is a dealbreaker for him, he wasn’t going to change his mind after she mentioned she has a daughter. She cheated herself out of the experience by not being upfront. She would have found someone earlier on who was actually fine with her having a daughter if she was honest. And if they weren’t fine with it, then her person just wasn’t on the show. You can’t force someone to compromise a dealbreaker.
Literally no one is invested in his life. He's a southern frat boy jock that just likes to run around playing women and acting like the victim. Couldn't stand him.
I think the show probably is a lot more difficult if you put yourself in their shoes
Why keep dating her if it's a dealbreaker? That's OPs point.@@tolu144
He’s so lame for telling Jess she was still his number one while he was engaged to Chelsea & days away from getting married. There was no point in doing that if she was some “mean girl” and got a good edit. Take accountability.
Exactly 👍😃
Chelsea did the same thing to Trevor
@@GraciaBella-m7f Chelsea didn’t go around afterward saying Trevor was some meanie that got a good edit on the show. That’s the only difference. She was wrong too but I don’t see them making it down the aisle either way. If they do I don’t see their marriage lasting.
@nanirose7786 I think he's talking like that cause Chelsea is still insecure and so in order to be good to his wife he wants to distance himself from jessica now that the show is over to move on with his happily married life to Chelsea. That is what I see. We will find out
@nanirose7786 I'm not saying it's right its just what I think 🤷♂️
Lol Chelsea doesn’t talk to him any nicer when she’s upset 😂 he’s no prize
Well he had 2 girls (3 with his bestie) that wanted him...that can't be discounted. And he's never said he was handsome.
He is attractive to me and I bet many others as well.
@@mari97216 People can like what they like as far as looks but mixed with how he acts I definitely don’t see it. Seems like there a lot more going on off camera that he didn’t want Chelsea talking about on camera.
@@mari97216 He looks a little "specially" challenged to me. Also his behaviour is very mama's boy.
Bro has no room to talk. He only picked Cheasea based on her saying Megan Fox
it was the no kid thing that I think weighed more
@@icepincessfasure 💯
THANK YOU! I’ve been saying the same thing ever since he went with Chelsea. And she don’t even look like Megan Fox that much either lol
I don’t think so I think it was her attitude and how controlling she was coming off as and the kid. She had a horrible attitude.
@@icepincessthat’s not what he just stated, he said it was her attitude. You know his mind more than he does, ok.
I found Jess more intelligent than Chelsea. Jess’s goodbye speech is iconic
Yep because she rehearsed it all night.
@@brsugarbabehow do you know?
Chelsea gives pick me energy. She smiled while Jess was crying and I really feel like it was all “kill the cheerleader” vibes with her, cause in the real world, she’d never be in competition with a Jess. So she enjoyed “winning”
Did you see Jessica on perfect match? Intelligence is not her strong suit.
Jimmy didn't pick her cus she had a kid. He wasn't ready to be step dad
why should he
He’s not even ready to be a husband 🤣
No one should be a step dad and Jimmy is a n absolute Chad, he definitely is desired by a lot women and according to her ex fiance he has a big... 😂😂
Wow this was mean. What a projector. No wonder Jess felt that Jimmy slighted by this interview. If this is how you talk about your "friends" then you ain't a friend. I'm glad that the LIB producers showed the receipts in the reunion episode. And im glad other people backed up Jessica's character. Just because a woman is confident, direct and pretty doesn't make her a mean girl!
Jimmy still salty Jess didn’t accept his IG request 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He fumbled and now he mad haha
Oh can it jimmy. You thought you were getting Megan fox when in reality Jess was the one who actually looked like her. It was about looks for him
Jess dont look like megan fox either
She looks nothing like fox.
@@jojosmooth999Megan Fox doesn’t even look like Megan Fox anymore lol.
I don’t believe him. If Jess was such a “mean girl,” then why did Jimmy send her a friend request… and why did he tell her she was his “number one” even after they met in person and he was already with Chelsea. People are so quick to villainize her just because she’s pretty, but Jimmy was the one who told Jess he was still undecided despite telling Chelsea he was 100% sure he was going to pick her. He is manipulating the story because his relationship with Chelsea took a bad turn and he probably doesn’t want people to know that he regrets turning Jessica down.
Question- is there proof that he sent her a friend request? Cause as far as I know, Jess claimed it but she could totally be making it up 🤷🏻♀️
@@christinac873 Nah, I think she’s telling the truth. The way he was being all friendly and eager around her in person leads me to believe that she wasn’t so bad in the pods. If she truly hurt him that much, I doubt he would still want to talk it out with her. I know I wouldn’t want to purposefully seek out someone who was mean to me
people can become mean
@@christinac873 Yea they both admitted it at the reunion.
He didn’t tell Chelsea he was 100% sure he was going to pick her. He told her he loved her but she knew he was still talking to someone else. He made his final decision after he felt offended by the way Jess spoke to him during their last conversation.
Some people believe pretty = mean girl, but Jess wasn't the one who cared about looks that was jimmy, also was jimmy who was in A couple engaged sending IG friend request telling Jess he is still interested, that's all I needed to know about his character.
Did you watch the new episode? He’s awesome!
I agree. If she was such a “mean girl,” then why’d he send her a friend request and say that she was his number one when they met in person 🤨 Dude was clearly still trying to get with her
@@dhglowlightblue Yes, he told her she was still his number 1.
Exactly lol it's a way for them to knock down confidence while boosting theirs by unfairly assuming negativity with good looks.
For real! Like he coulda had a Real Housewife but passed her up for someone who thinks she looks like Megan Fox. My boy fumbled hard! Ol Drunk Meg gonna be abusing tf outta him emotionally😅
She was your number one but then you told Chelsea you loved her… then you said she was still your number one while engaged to Chelsea. This cleared up nothing.
He’s gaslighting us all. Ppl didn’t think he chose wrong b/c of looks. Viewers thought he chose wrong based on what we saw was a stronger connection with Jess. So it came across that he had an issue with being a stepdad b/c all we saw Chelsea do the entire time was giggle. Her looks were just the icing on the cake. And viewers still thought he chose wrong based on how insecure Chelsea appears to be.
100% truth!!! You nailed it.
Who else is here after the reunion to get the tea?
Jessica's big ego which the producers cut from airing on the show.
I thought she was so sweet and graceful when they met! I was super impressed I expected she was gonna be shady but in fact he was one telling her things a fiancé shouldn’t be saying and Jess kept bringing it back to being happy for them and him being good to Chelsea
He sounds like every insecure guy who can’t handle a beautiful woman. Always putting them down.
Facts.
She looks like any other Instagram dark haired Instagram model.
Ya nothing special plus she’s a lil full of her self
Like being humble goes a long way and is more attractive in the end!
Looking hot after having kids hits the confidence harder ! Sorry y’all can’t relate . I know imma baddie and wont water myself down for NOBODY
No you ain't. @@Thebiggest7303
@@jros517 you’re simply miserable. Seek help for that post partum depression
People have looked like that way before others decided to pay to look like that. You cannot outright judge someone off their looks to boost your struggling confidence. Makes you become what you accuse them of.
Jimmy is just trying to save face. Just as he isnt physically attracted to Chelsea, well Jess isnt physically attracted to him.
Jess poured her heart to him and he made her believe he liked her🥴 She could’ve talked to others if he told her the truth
He said he didn’t mind about her daughter when he actually minded. He isn’t a reliable person
Same thing for her though. She couldve told him early on so she could date guys who don’t mind at all
Jess has said in interview that Jimmy was actually fine with it. And that they had dates where they planned about trips all three would take. I think the Jimmy was just scared and put off by confrontation
@@wejlYea, it’s just this whole “he coulve told her, she couldve told him” thing. Like, they’re on the same boat as everyone else. They know they’re dating multiple people and it’s pretty normal to like two people at the same time. Might as well date other guys as well. Her focusing on a single guy in that show format is on her, not on him
Yeah, he reeeeally beats around the bush and is very indirect. With Jess, it was obvious he made his decision way before it got to the point where she went off on him. And with Chelsea, he seemed to have his mind made up from Day 1. He seems to think if he’s straightforward, he’ll get attacked and look bad, but what he gets attacked for is NOT BEING STRAIGHTFORWARD! That’s what makes him look like he’s stringing people along. It’s very selfish.
He’s crazy lol!! He deserves Chelsea and alll of her awkwardness
Are we watching the same show ? Chelsea is way worse she nags and gaslight jimmy the whole show 😂😂
Editing editing editing editing.
True😂
Yess. I am glad he did not decide on her.
But Chelsea only showed her true self AFTER the pods. She told Jimmy exactly what he wanted to hear behind the curtain
He knows he fumbled and trying to act like he made the right decision. 😂! Poor fella. Best of luck to him!
No she’s a mean girl I don’t think he fumbled anything.
@@jjthejet8447 he did fumbled biggg time.
@@m.a.1874 he would have had to deal with her talking about herself everyday and bossing him around. Looks aren’t everything when you have to deal with the person every day.
He dodged a bullet
@xercesgrl he fumbled with a single mom that leaves her kid to go on multiple dating shows and dresses the way she does on Instagram for all her daughters classmates to see?
In my opinion, I think people should give Jimmy some grace here. Believe me, I'm not the biggest fan of him and he does put his foot in his mouth at times, but I think we're placing way to too much blame on him for that relationship failing. Jessica and people are saying he ruined that opportunity for her, but Jessica also has to take some of the responsibility too. I understand why she felt hooked by him constantly saying "you're my number one" or etc... but she also knew how indecisive he was because he was dating another person, she could've started dating other people in this process and not corner herself in with this one guy. That's the whole point of dating this show; dating around until you find the one. I understand it's hard to reveal you have a child in your life, but she should've revealed that at the beginning. If she did she would've weeded out the guys who weren't ready for that off the bat and not waste her time. If any of the guys came back after hearing that news, then she could use that as a reason to proceed. I think she shot herself in the foot guys. Idk. Jimmy was very indecisive, yes but Jess also chose not explore her possible options.
I think she didn’t want to reveal that she got a child because in real life she got some negative reactions. So she decided to play on her personality first before revealing. In this cas it didn’t work well with Jimmy. But it’s on him. If she would tell vine before he would have exactly the same reaction.
@SuperNashum Exactly my point to reveal she has a child in the beginning. She wouldn't have wasted her time if he wasn't receptive to the news. I thought the same thing where she probably had past experiences where she was rejected for having a child, but If the man isn't ready for a child or doesn't want one, she should just move on and finds the one who'll accept her kid and her, not start something with someone possibly wasting both their time.
It's not all on Jimmy. It's on her, too. Her idea was to have the guy get to know her and then spring the news on him. I understand that's not easy news to reveal, especially in the dating phase, but put yourself in his shoes too, not just hers. Also, think about the show they're on and how little time they have to decide on a future wife/husband. There's no time to waste.
@@SuperNashum sorry for the long reply. 😅
Let's stop beating around the bush, he didn't pick her up because she had "baggage" aka a daughter!
Yep, definitely reveal you have child quickly because if a guy isn’t ready to take that on, he just isn’t ready and you’re wasting your energy by trying to win him over with your personality. There are men who wouldn’t be fazed but obviously some would and both are OK.
She deserves someone much better than him. He's superficial, vain and pretty coward (ran away from her daughter). She is a strong, brave, eloquent, and beautiful woman. He also lies a lot, thats clear here and in the show. He was never in love with. Helsea. I knew feom the beginning he was just trying not to look bad on tv and wasted her time.
And now we know Jess actually is a mean girl 😂 We should have believed Jimmy about that at least.
I believe him. Her ego took a hit and she cried because as she said he ruined the "opportunity" for her. Of being on the show.
Or he ruined her opportunity to find real love because he was stringing her along.
@@ivye1826 Nah she went on another reality show and now dating the biggest player in reality tv.
exactly. Everyone seems to forget that part,but her being upset and crying when she told jimmy " you ruined "this" for me" was a red flag in my opinion.Because by "this" she meant being on the show,and it was very obvious to me
@@joanna0988 what's the name of the show
Jimmy is salty not because of how Jessica looks, but because their connection was real. They clearly have some real chemistry. You can clearly see it when they meet. Sadly Jimmy has some serious insecurities just like Chelsea. He's so intimidated by Jessica and if he were healed and if Chelsea were healed they would have never been with eachother! Jessica isn't all about looks the public is.
Or he doesn't want to be a dad yet? Or clocked that Jessica is only here for fame.
I don’t think she’s a mean girl at all, she supports all the girls and has nothing but love I feel like even with Jimmy she was very transparent but Jimmy wasn’t into being a step dad yet and really thought Chelesa was going to look like Megan fox 😂
His point though is that editing is powerful. You only know who she is through that filter.
His whole point is that she was made to look that way through editing…
Right. That’s what the show is about, I totally get it it’s hard to make a decision and she was the one pushing to date other woman and ONLY chose her when he’s 1000% sure. And then she was the one whining at the end.
Jess saying Jimmy doesn't want to be her friend in a clip I saw 🤣 I was ROFL
Jess girl that man don't want you, he's kinda sick of you getting in his face, you can be however beautiful if a person doesn't like you they just don't. Jimmy is right her ego was way over her head, the producers picked Jess to promote n picked Chelsea to demean all for ratings. Jess is condescending AF I never admired her either Chelsea was more genuine.
Jimmy, It's so many red flags but I wish you both well.
Got the guy who wanted to have a big family not to accept one child from his potential fiancé seems like a lot of BS. The guy is either able to take the responsibilities on him or either not.
Buddy if she was truly your number 1 you wouldn’t have told Chelsea you love her and propose to her after your supposed #1 rejected you. You deserved every bit of her “mean girl” attitude and she deserves better. No one feels sorry for you man grow up
This.
Jess is so full of it. Humble people are beautiful people. This girl thinks she is all that and more😂
I mean look at her. I’m a pretty girl I get all the guys and why be humble when it’s the truth?
He didn’t choose her base on her look but base on the look of another woman so she dogged a bullet
@@SandraWard-y8uthe first time I looked at Jess I said her face looks fake lol plastic surgeons tend to give whyt women the same nose. Also her lips looks overly done( hers is not the only one) and we can obviously tell the chest is paid for. All that under pounds of makeup. If that’s what y’all r into in guess but… seriously? 🧐
What’s wrong with being confident? Women have such a hard time in this world, we do it all!!! Raise our kids, make our money, keep our homes nice, stay fit and healthy, maintain friendships, and then you expect us to NOT think we’re “all that”? Those of us that know our worth seem to bother some people. We don’t have time to care 😂
Jimmy doesn't marry boat face. Based on the compliments he is giving Jess, there is no way he could say those things if her were still with Boaty-face Chelsea.
I don’t think she’s a mean girl, she’s a very intellectual and confident woman who’s also emotional available. Jimmy is just a boy who got so hung up on Megan Fox. Hope u enjoy your "Megan Fox" 😅
Everything he's saying is actually right. She was conceited from day 1 and reminded me of Shayna always harping on about her instagram following (which is hilarious because Jess literally looks like she's made of 80% fillers and botox). The way she threw a temper tantrum when Jimmy didn't reciprocate is what pushed him irrevocably to the other woman. In the pods Chelsea was always warm and empathetic whereas Jess was borderline bullying him under the guise of "im a strong woman, can you handle that" but really she was just vain af and annoyed when Jimmy didn't say or do exactly as she expected. People trashing him for not wanting to be a stepdad to a child he's never met for a woman he's known for less than a week -- are you hearing yourselves? Jessica was irresponsible af for coming on a dating show like this when she had a child, and then to not even tell her dates about it until the last minute 🤦♀️ this was such a mess. I cant stand Jimmy, Chelsea or Jessica but we need to admit she's a mean girl and not some kind of icon for the epi pen speech (which was peak narcissism)
I hate how narcissistic Jess is. That sentence she said is disgusting
Yeah she’s just insecure and has to stand on her beauty. She’s was annoying in the pods and had a ton of baggage
Confidence isn't narcissistic..he deserved that sentence..and he did choke!!
@@KDStyle1 lol Yeah, he absolutely choked! He couldn't keep his eyes off her when they were at the lake gathering. That's why he told her she was still his number one. He was 100% regretting that he didn't pick her. That's why he friended her on social media right after getting his phone back. He's just trying to save face now in the press.
He's not wrong 🤷🏻♀️
jess is mean
dang ya'll really hating on Jessica. lol must identify with Chelsea.
Jimmy was looking for fame and only stayed with Chelsea because after the fact it would make him look like a bad guy. He had to keep it up. He’s right about Jess having an ego like that. She’s too into herself. She was shocked she didn’t get the man based off personality because usually her looks get her far. Not this time babe.
I also get the feeling that Jess is a mean girl who is posing for the cameras. Like she was talking about getting excited to get with Jimmy and he was already engaged with Chelsea, the whole comment about him having regrets also shows that she considered herself a better option than Chelsea even though this show is not about looks.
It was the moment you see me and noticed that I’m so beautiful and way better looking than Chelsea you are going to regret it, that is such a mean thing to say.
Social media really reveals how men operate.
Jimmy is a saint for dealing with all that he’s had to deal with. I didn’t like him at first, but he definitely redeemed himself… thus far, anyway.
You know the true nature of people when things end and Jessica showed her lame side .
PLease, Jess trauma dumped on him, pressured and bashed him. Poor guy, no wonder he wanted to choose the light-hearted seemingly fun and easy option, Chelsea . He wasnt ready for marriage regardless
How was she not humble ? 🤣 she’s been super sweet and he can’t handle a baddie.. he def wanted a pushover and a girl that’s obsessed with him instead of the other way around
almost everybody in this show wasted each others time
As far as im concerned, jess is the only one who told the truth 🤷♀️
Ppl are saying she is a plant and an actress. So maybe so .. she got a good edit
Honestly, I don’t think Jessica is all that pretty. She has a slim body but a big face & head. Her face is not all that to me.
I love jimmy!
Same. He's pretty cool
Is this the interview she was mad about? 😂😂😂😂 poor Jimmy, i think you should go on again. One choice was bossy and entitled and the other had no self esteem and a complete emotional mess. I see youre not a villain, you did the best you could in the situation you were in.
Chelsea is uuugggg such annoying . Geeezzzzzzz
JIMMY LOOKS LIKE THE SMUSHED SAUSAGE FROM SAUSAGE PARTY
Chelsea is horrible. You will regret your decision.
But she had a kid that was the reason, already said he likes to travel she can’t travel as much
She went on a show for 2 weeks then filmed another show for 6 weeks so ya she can travel 😂
Unpopular opinion, but she acted so bratty when she sent him that letter and he didn't pour his heart out back and that's why he decided on Chelsea. Because her temper tantrum turned him off. She got mad at him for feeling the way he felt
Dude is lacking discernment.
I agree, but he has good intentions at least
Bro didn’t want to be step father. It’s as simple as that. Some ppl don’t care to be step parents and that’s ok.
I don’t hate him
He didn't fumble anything... Ask yourself... Why is a girl who looks like Jess single & a baby mama ?!... Would love to know her body count.
I can't believe I actually like Jimmy lol he is actually a pretty new guy
He and chels def got married
Hes such a potato who wants to be the good fun guy so bad, he cant handle anything thats not positive
If her character is real, then she definitely suffered a narcissistic injury by not being chosen over the other women, after giving him so many hints about her looks. If her character really is real, and I kind of don’t think it is, but if it is, she’s definitely a NARCISSIST, and her ego definitely was injured in front of the world. As it should of been.
Chelsea looks like Adele - not MF
I said the same thing 🤣
Ok at this point, I’m starting to feel like a lot of these “characters” are no longer authentic, but now mostly scripted, because there is the same type of “character” on every season. She played the mean girl narcissist. I think by now, most women know how to cover up their own narcissism while being on national television. So to openly display such characteristics, to me screams a little bit forced and scripted.
I like Jimmy and his perspective on things. I'm really tired of the Love is Blind cast and fan base bashing the men. That's all the show has become. Mica, Irina, Zanab, Jess, Laura, and Alexa have all been disgusting mean girls and the female cast and fanbase seem to encourage it. Every woman is a victim now.
Dodged a bullet
I really like jimmy. I am so proud of him for making a stance on the girl that he chose. He’s right it wasn’t supposed to be about looks and everybody’s making it about looks. Apparently Jessica is in love with herself enough she doesn’t need jimmy to love her also lol😂
tell me he don’t look like mr incredible
😂😂😂 Yoh, I can kinda see it
Jess is a 10 out of 10
You can be attractive on the outside but if the inside doesn’t match you’re a 6, at best
Jess is a stunner ❤️
Nah. Bitchy is unattractive
So where are all the “secrets being dished”?… 🦗🦗🦗
Team Jess ❤ she ripped him to shreds and he deserved every ounce of it. We all know you only chose Chelsea because she lied about being a Megan Fox look-a-like😂. In reality Jess looks like Meagan Fox and Kim K had a baby😍! Never once did Jess use her looks or plant seeds until her epic, grand exit. Stop playing in her face just admit you definitely chose wrong based on a lie.
Well apparently she moved on to someone some might say is better
Chelsea is too insecure
Sorry but Jess to me is the one that was fake all along.
This shows us that looks matter?
He’s choked. He’s here for the Fox. Or was.
Heavy cope
Jimmy is so cute
Sorry, Jess is for the streets
He didnt want someone all used up
If she's so great she would have been picked. She wasnt, coz she had ro rely on personality...which she lacks
Do you feel better?
Booo Jimmy