Bro transform yourself and follow conversation between krishna and Arjun if you are right or wrong whatever love yourself you care superior no one can defeat you expect you
@@joon8001there must be limited number of seats for engineering so that there can be 90% placement. But nowadays there are lots of private colleges offering more than 200 seats with just 10%placement.
College gives flexibility to get in and out of campus but in school you are stuck there for whole day But yeah college doesn't feel as helpful as school
When we need to be calculative, we care about the things that doesn't matter. This is CALLED the state of indecisiveness which is worst than a a decision that didn't work...
I was thinking the same thing when I went to college. My hostel & college both were away from city, it looked very worst. But 4 years down the lane, while doing engineering I got to know reality much better, some hard truths slapped me from inside, got to know a lot of things and still I know there's a long way to go. I guess if I had choosen the other way things might have become worst.
I never knew ki clg life aisi v hoti hai..3 sal hone wala hai yeh mera last sem hai...ek v naye dost nhi bane..bht koshish kiya maine bht zyada efforts lagaye fir v nhi bane..chote chote groups hai jinme shayad mai missfit thi....apna kam karwa lete the fir bat karna band kar dete the!! jab sare maze karte the mai kone me baithke canteen me khake Ghar chali ati thi..kisse bat karu kaha baithu kya karu kuch samjh nhi ata tha...andar ek ajeeb sa pain hota tha!!clg ki kuch ladkiya mock karte the mujhe maine kuch v nhi bigara tha unlogo ka fir v comment pass karte the gossip karte the mujhe dekhte hi...teachers v bass toppers ko hi dekhte the baki students ko janwaro jaisa hi treat karte hai...metro station me bht din baithi rahti thi chupchap ghar se bolke nikalti thi clg ja rhi hu baithke bass yahi sochti thi kaise niklu yaha se...fir khudko samjhaya sambhala ki yaha se nikal nhi sakti mai!!! now it is what it is..fir clg jana hi band kar diya bass exams dene jati hu last ek hi bacha hai.. bass degree k wajah se sahan kar liya yeh sab!
I hope it gets better for you. Mera life bhi kuch aisa hi tha high school mein. Thoda bhot baat to ho jata tha par dosti nhi ho payi. sab grp bana ke maze karte the aur mai ek kone padi rehti thi. andar hi andar itna lonely feel hota tha aur iski vajah se confidence bhi gir gaya aur kisi se baat krne ka mann bhi nhi karta tha aur anxiety alag level ki hoti thi. fir I took a year before going to college bcz I thought mai ready nahi hu cllg jane ke liye. and uss ek year mein I managed to make 2 very good friend and discovered my hobbies, gave myself time to heal from the school ka trauma and cracked entrance exam with a good score. I still feel anxious but I'm happy now. I hope aap bhi apne aap ko better karne pe focus karo and baki sab sambhal jayega. Good luck with your future!! Btw mai 2 months me college jane wali hu aur thoda darr lag rha ki history repeat na ho firse..
Hello @rups3081, I read your comment....... देखो इसे देखने के 2 नजरिया है.... या तो आप जैसे है वैसे रहिए और खुद में Regret करते रहिए............... और दूसरा ये कि -आप अकेले रहना सीख गए (खुद से लड़ना, खेलना, हंसना) जो कि life के Tough Situation के लिए बहुत important है...... लेकिन अब इसमें कुछ Change की जरूरत है 1.firstly be social ( धीरे धीरे Unknown किसी से भी बात करने की कोशिश कीजिए.... इससे आपको बोलने में Confidence & कुछ नए दोस्त भी बनेंगे) 2. एक या दो Good Friend बनाइए 3. कोई भी एक hobby develop कीजिए 4. & Most important .. ये सारी energy को जो भी कोई dream/Exam उसमे लगा दीजिए ..!! Note - I'm student of university of Allahabad... College के Starting में मेरा भी same Situation था.. फिरclg में Random किसी से भी बात करता था कभी कभी awkrard situation v हुआ है...But finally बदला हुआ महसूस करता हूं confidence & dost सभी आ गए हैं मुझमें.....! I hope k you understand..& Best wishes 👍
I can really understand you . I know the pain of being loneliness in college. Mere bhi college life mai almost sab log fake nikal gaye and I'm in 3rd year aur abhi tak mai feel karta hu ki mere college mai koi dost hi nahi hai sab matlabi hai apna kaam nikalwane waale bahut logo ne bahut use Kiya tha mera isiliye khud ko akela kar liya . Even aaj bhi meri school ke ek do best friends se baat hoti bus baaki koi nahi . Bahut school ke bhi change hogye waqt ke saath . Many a times I felt left out but don't worry have faith focus on your career everything will be fine soon🫂
Guys, hear me. I got into one the famous university in my state. There so many people who dreamt to enter the university. Because of technical issue I got informed one week before the 2nd internal that i got admission there. And then it was rush but i got only half marks in every subject in that first semester. I only got into the university just after two months my father died who was my best pillar who supported me in academics. I was heart broke after hearing that i only got half mark in exams and also I thought I would dissappoint my father's soul. I became loner in the college. There students of high status and they always look down on peoples with low marks they treat you like pushovers . I managed to survive till 3rd semester but after that i needed pshychatrist because i developed suicidal tendencies. I came from a below average family so i couldn't drop out of college. Also I could only visited the doctor 2 times because of financial crisis in family. I blamed my self for not being useful to the family. I realised that no matter how a top university or local university you get in, if you have bad memories there, that is just hell for you.
Same case with me joined medical a year ago and thought would make good friends but in reality im fed up everyone enjoying college life and i here waiting for my college life to end as soon as possible no true friends away from home 😢and many more that cannot be explained but one thing at the end no one will support or come with us we have to stand alone and i like being alone
same even my college have only 5 to 8 students in whole college and only I am the regular one don't know what to do? All dreams about college Life are Vanished.
exactly not same but yeah this is too much relatable to me I also wanted to leave this college not because it is bad but I am not enjoying or interested in it. Like esha ho raha hain ki mujhe accha score Karna hain yeah mujhe pata Hain toh main accha score bhi kar rahi hu but I am not happy and it is also true that no one force me . I don't know mujhe kya ho gya tha .Ab man mein bohot bohot guilt ho rahi hain bohot I couldn't exam. college Jana Hain jaa rahi hu , parna hain par Rahi hu acche marks Lana Hain woh bhi le aa rahi hu but at the end of the day khud andar se Tut Rahi hu . Mujhe Mera dream achieve karni hain and I will change my life 🤞
Even I'm finding college boring and I'm in a good college of commerce in my State, since I find it boring I Just do my own things, like figuring out life , prep for govt exams, make RUclips videos, etc. Often times if it's boring it might be because you're making it to be so.
@@Frcfbhhvgfcfdxdxdxd But in my family... My parents won't allow to take leave even if i have cold, fever.. They say... Go... You have no fever... So i have attendence above 90%
@@mickey___mouse____ in other words, I hope u can find your true hapiness and I remind you about 'death'; that everyone will eventually die sooner or later. another words of advice, Don't trade self-respect for respect from others.
Honestly ...the same thing is happening to me now...I passed 12 and opted for law ...as many of u know that almost all law aspirants dream about studying from a national law University by cracking CLAT(entrance exam) ...I also tried but I couldn't ...as a result I got admitted in a local law college ...I have always dreamt of studying from a top law school because I had big aspirations...but somewhere down I feel like I won't be able to fulfill my dream because taking drop year (along with college ) is difficult ...so I started to accept my life but nowadays I don't feel good because of the taunts and self doubts ...my college mates are not much serious ...and my school friends were all ending in much better colleges than mine...😭 I don't know what to do ...about trying CLAT again , I still don't know whether I would be able to prepare again or not😭😭
Bro believe in yourself and do whatever you feel is good for you. There is nothing wrong in preparing for clat again. Just achieve what you desire nothing else doesn't matter.
hey, if you don't mind asking are you still in that college and how is it going now is the college life treating you well? as I am in a similar situation
@@bhumi9936 Yes , it's going well ( I am making it better actually ) ... I am in this college only ... don't think much ...u will sail through it too ..
I'm going to leave my hostel because I don't get environment to study here. I think I can to much better at home then hostel because I am doing online course. For the sake of my future I'm talking this decision but afraid of people who is going to make fun of me that I couldn't survive here. My parents may also be feeling that I'm a dumb but I think this right decision of mine.
That is a thinking bias for which many of us falls for, its called "Sunk cost fallacy". Ankur sir has already explained it very well so i don't think i need to. But I will suggest everyone to read the book "the art of thinking clearly", it explores on more such biases.
Sometimes some money loss is the best loss you can have, never compromise your happiness for some amount of money. Money can be earned but your life once gone is gone.
I get 90% in 12th...and my biggest regret is i couldn't get my dream college because of my parents... After this incident i am very depressed.. Now i have no motivation.... So i want to drop out for a one year... I don't know actually what to do... I feel like a loser....
Same situation!! I'm not satisfied I'm not happy with my mates and college eventhough it's my initial day but still I'm not getting the vibe I want!! I think I should leave my college and get into the new one where I can find my space , where I can explore more... I need some Exposure....
But I think degree to miljayegi na .... koi ug degree wala hoto jarur poori krlena warna bahut muskil ho jayengi cheeze because even in every government job they expect you that you have a bachelor's degree in hand
@@theyfwastro yess yes I'm over It, graduated this year with a good GPA... Earning now! I'd would still say that they were the worst years of my life and I would rather not if I could take that decision again... but the past is past!
@@IndianDoctor2900 ah I see, very understanding. but sooo glad you were able to get your degree !! 🫶 right now i'm in a not so good situation and i'm only in my first year but i wish i could be strong as u 😭 thank u for taking the time to reply !
@@theyfwastro oh god! I totally understand, it gets difficult but you will survive and enjoy too... It's just a matter of time, focus on your degree and do more things outside of college. Don't rely on anyone, try to make few good friends, but in college don't just trust anyone... On a different note, if there is some place better you can go to! Different college or even courses, if you're sure you will be happy there.. research a bit and get out, we have only one life, why waste prime years in a place that sucks your soul. If thats not possible, just go with the flow, take care of yourself and do more things that make you happy.
@@IndianDoctor2900 Thank you so much you don't know how comforting this is to me 😭🫶 You overcoming the hardships should be an inspiration to me for whatever decision I'll be making in the future. I appreciate this comment so much thanks a lot !!
I have same problem 😢my college is far, boring professors not teaching well dont have any friends already spended 84000 in my 1st year i fell like leaving it but I can't 😭
Same for me I joined a local college for integrated MBA even though I got admission in a govt college for b tech. Now even after 1 year I hate my decision and cannot connect with my batchmates and is uncertain about my future
Same happened with me after paying 90,000 +17,000(bus-fees) and have to give 1,80,000 more but I've decided to take my admission off, I've spent 2 semester here and realised that continuing this college will only led me to waste more money and time. I belong to a middle class family, I was giving my fees paid up by loans and I'm sure its a correct decision.. Rather than wasting more time and money I'd prefer to leave cause I've already wasted a lot time and can't waste more.. According to me if you think about the money you already gave, had been wasted so just stop continuing, it will waste more important opportunities for you and keep you away from your goals..
Bhai bhai plz help.. In peer pressure I have taken Adm. in engineers college by paying 90k fees total of 1st yr but my only aim is to crack upsc and I want to cancel my admission should I focus on rat Race or do follow my Passion of clearing upsc Bro plz help.. Pure middle class ka banda hu or kuch bada karna chahta hu
Kbhi kbhi lgta h log kitne mc hote h yaar mai jiske saath pura sem rha whi log ditch krke chle jaate h.... I think dost wost kuch nhi hite h engineering me sb madarchod hote h isliye be independent and fuck friends and friendship nhi to they will disturb you emotionally
Well tbh this applies to time management as well. If you have wasted some amount of time it's fine, move on and do smt productive with the rest instead of wasting more time on regretting...
I have recently joined mbbs college and yes I have been here for like 3-4 days and still I can't adjust I don't have any friends no one talks to me idk why they all are good friends to each other but not to me and I don't know how to go through this with studies and seniors
Hello Sir I liked and enjoyed your videos on investment and self development. I am requesting to make a video on whether working or studying abroad affordable using an excel sheet. Looking forward for a new video.
If the question would have been... She is a school student and would have been the same scenario 45K spent, batchmates are not intresting, teachers are boring then...what would have been ur response. 🤔
Hi always look forward to your videos. They r inspiring n full of positivity to say the least. Request u to make a video on education avenues abroad both at grad & pg level and which option makes more sense. Also how to plan for child's education abroad esp for a middle class family
Same thing happened to me even my money, time everything was very much wasted and I can't learn everything well here but I can't leave it I don't know what to do in my life I make my future and career very bad 😭😭😭😭
I've done my 12th and the very hectic problem which I'm facing rn is to what to do next? I'm very stressed rn because my plan is that I do not want to waste my 1 year or take a drop. Previously, i was planning to do BCA but after communicating to few teachers and professors, I've made the conclusion to do BTech CSE but here the problem is I haven't did the JEE or CUET for the same. I'm currently living in Gorakhpur and I'm planning to go to Delhi for better education. Will this Work? Will taking direct admission or going through Entrance Test Work? Will I regret it further by choosing this decision? Also, I'm doing Freelancing in Video Editing and Motion Designing from many years. When I was in my High School, I used to think that I'll not get into this rat race and I'll develop something & learn new skills by my own after 12th. Is my thinking while coming from a lower middle class background & living in Gorakhpur worth it? Will I regret if I will not be in the college? What should be the steps to choosing right career without having regret in future? Please suggest. I might help me a lot.
@@vfx.gauravk can you please help me guide me I'm currently doing BSC CS but here there is no college life im not getting any exposure also no coding culture all students come there only for degree because they all are preparing for gov job but i want to do startup and creative things should i leave and join btech cse as im not give any entrance exam but i get a tier 3 clg there i can join class meet lots of friends and learn new things should i join or continue here please guide me im confused 😕
@@yogeshx6 bsc cs is not a bad option, I won't suggest you about the leaving if you've already taken the admission. The truth is most of the colleges in India are like that, if you wanna try different stuffs, you've to do time management, you've to focus on balancing things cuz you can't just leave the college cuz that's a total loss of you + your parents. if you're taking admission in btech cse, you'll not get much time too + I'm into the same stuffs - I'm doing freelancing, managing multiple youtube channels, I also know that I'll also have to manage my stuffs.
Didn't had a good school life, don't know about how college life will go but I don't care as not getting a good school or college life is something I have got by birth
Bgm is SAVE ME by BTS,a really good song,very sweet and calming....i know the topic of video is different but there are many people who ask whats the bgm,so here you go
Actually what about those who can't afford fees of top clg or average in studies but keen to learn and be better ao don't if ur persuing ur degree from normal clg try to build strong foundation in ur majors and try to be best in it learn more relevant skills and there ur, even if can't affords things, average and in normal clg doesn't matter What matters? Ur proficiency in those subs and right skills if u have these things u have higher chances .. In companies
Guys, seriously i need help 🙏😭 I'm a 16 year old boy in 1st year of my college Nd i would like to share this to you guys that in my new college literally 😔 there is no one who talks to me nicely even after trying many times they just either ignore me or roast me in group's even the few people who i thought were my friends are now really making me feel really really very bad 😞😭 nd i guess I'm about to almost get into depression because i have no one to talk about this issue and even my parents are not supporting me..... I mean that they have paid 5 lakhs extra only for my addmission in the school and that is really a very big amount nd I can't let my parents down so I can't tell them . .. ... I'm writing this letter in a hope that someone reads this and reacts or maybe understands me❤❤😭🙏🙏
Hello sir! Can you please suggest what to do when you are surrounded by dull and non performing students? It personally affects me a lot and messes up things really bad. Want to do better in life!
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I can't connect with my college friends for long while.😣 Everyone talks with eachother. But nobody talks to me.
Can feel you bro... Same with my schoolmates😔
Same🫠
Same here bro
I need to talk with my schoolmates also la
same here...and the friends which i made, all left me :D
I HATE MY SCHOOL AND COLLEGE LIFE AND MYSELF
Bro me also💔. I had only toxic people in my whole life
And my parents
Bro transform yourself and follow conversation between krishna and Arjun if you are right or wrong whatever love yourself you care superior no one can defeat you expect you
Feel u bro
I guess we are rare breed of people
Nobody wants to understand us
I wish we all could be in one college 😔
@@manu8098
It's almost been an year do you still think the same ?
In India both undergrad and graduation degrees are worth it from top colleges.
Otherwise, the remaining are all the same.
Move out of india?
no job guarantee cuz India's population is growing at a high rate:(
@@joon8001it's all about skills
Nowadays even if u are from normal clg good companies hire u but only if u really are hardworking and passionate
@@akshatbhomiano it's true only for cs background students.
@@joon8001there must be limited number of seats for engineering so that there can be 90% placement. But nowadays there are lots of private colleges offering more than 200 seats with just 10%placement.
*I HATE BOTH MY SCHOOL AND COLLEGE LIVES*
Same
Maybe I am not meant to be there and socialize
Same
Grow up kiddo
Me too
I said the exact same thing to my parents and now my realtionship with them is haywires.
@@pooholigarch gadhe fake hai wo
@@abhranildey5272 konse nashe karte ho bhai ? Sarcasm nahi samajh aata ?
@@pooholigarchexactly 😢
The difference between schools and colleges are
Schools will treat you like students but colleges will treat you like servants .
It's true I am really missing my school days
BUT EVERY SCHOOL DOESN'T 😊
@@mewneiiihow your school do 😊
College gives flexibility to get in and out of campus but in school you are stuck there for whole day
But yeah college doesn't feel as helpful as school
@@apeman2093 my college operates like a school I can't go out
Mera Dukh bhi aisa hi hai Doctor banne nikla tha khud Depression ka Patient ban gaya 🥵
Same bro
Same bro
What are you doing currently
@@Yourmamaspapa studying to complete my education
Kaha ho aap abhi?
I was pursuing MBA and the situation was exactly the same. Without anyone's advice, I made the right decision as you said 🙂 I'm wise, feels good 😀
The way that u r motivating...half of your work fulfilled by this.... wonderful communication😊👍
Me who is still in school , watching this : " Yes , I completely agree "
My best academic life class 5 - class 10
Class 1-class 4 don't remember much and after 12th my inner child is dead and I don't enjoy anymore,...
When we need to be calculative, we care about the things that doesn't matter.
This is CALLED the state of indecisiveness which is worst than a a decision that didn't work...
I was thinking the same thing when I went to college. My hostel & college both were away from city, it looked very worst. But 4 years down the lane, while doing engineering I got to know reality much better, some hard truths slapped me from inside, got to know a lot of things and still I know there's a long way to go. I guess if I had choosen the other way things might have become worst.
Same here
@@nikhil_chauhan great to know that bro, wish you all the very best in life.
The situation is same for mine to so what should I do .
@@sohalchunarkar2116 i am also in same situation
Hey bro, I wanna talk to u
I never knew ki clg life aisi v hoti hai..3 sal hone wala hai yeh mera last sem hai...ek v naye dost nhi bane..bht koshish kiya maine bht zyada efforts lagaye fir v nhi bane..chote chote groups hai jinme shayad mai missfit thi....apna kam karwa lete the fir bat karna band kar dete the!! jab sare maze karte the mai kone me baithke canteen me khake Ghar chali ati thi..kisse bat karu kaha baithu kya karu kuch samjh nhi ata tha...andar ek ajeeb sa pain hota tha!!clg ki kuch ladkiya mock karte the mujhe maine kuch v nhi bigara tha unlogo ka fir v comment pass karte the gossip karte the mujhe dekhte hi...teachers v bass toppers ko hi dekhte the baki students ko janwaro jaisa hi treat karte hai...metro station me bht din baithi rahti thi chupchap ghar se bolke nikalti thi clg ja rhi hu baithke bass yahi sochti thi kaise niklu yaha se...fir khudko samjhaya sambhala ki yaha se nikal nhi sakti mai!!! now it is what it is..fir clg jana hi band kar diya bass exams dene jati hu last ek hi bacha hai.. bass degree k wajah se sahan kar liya yeh sab!
more power to you.
you'll do great in life.
trust me.
btw what are you doing?
I hope it gets better for you. Mera life bhi kuch aisa hi tha high school mein. Thoda bhot baat to ho jata tha par dosti nhi ho payi. sab grp bana ke maze karte the aur mai ek kone padi rehti thi. andar hi andar itna lonely feel hota tha aur iski vajah se confidence bhi gir gaya aur kisi se baat krne ka mann bhi nhi karta tha aur anxiety alag level ki hoti thi. fir I took a year before going to college bcz I thought mai ready nahi hu cllg jane ke liye. and uss ek year mein I managed to make 2 very good friend and discovered my hobbies, gave myself time to heal from the school ka trauma and cracked entrance exam with a good score. I still feel anxious but I'm happy now. I hope aap bhi apne aap ko better karne pe focus karo and baki sab sambhal jayega. Good luck with your future!! Btw mai 2 months me college jane wali hu aur thoda darr lag rha ki history repeat na ho firse..
Hello @rups3081,
I read your comment.......
देखो इसे देखने के 2 नजरिया है.... या तो आप जैसे है वैसे रहिए और खुद में Regret करते रहिए...............
और दूसरा ये कि -आप अकेले रहना सीख गए (खुद से लड़ना, खेलना, हंसना) जो कि life के Tough Situation के लिए बहुत important है......
लेकिन अब इसमें कुछ Change की जरूरत है
1.firstly be social ( धीरे धीरे Unknown किसी से भी बात करने की कोशिश कीजिए.... इससे आपको बोलने में Confidence & कुछ नए दोस्त भी बनेंगे)
2. एक या दो Good Friend बनाइए 3. कोई भी एक hobby develop कीजिए 4. & Most important .. ये सारी energy को जो भी कोई dream/Exam उसमे लगा दीजिए ..!!
Note - I'm student of university of Allahabad... College के Starting में मेरा भी same Situation था.. फिरclg में Random किसी से भी बात करता था कभी कभी awkrard situation v हुआ है...But finally बदला हुआ महसूस करता हूं confidence & dost सभी आ गए हैं मुझमें.....!
I hope k you understand..& Best wishes 👍
I can really understand you . I know the pain of being loneliness in college. Mere bhi college life mai almost sab log fake nikal gaye and I'm in 3rd year aur abhi tak mai feel karta hu ki mere college mai koi dost hi nahi hai sab matlabi hai apna kaam nikalwane waale bahut logo ne bahut use Kiya tha mera isiliye khud ko akela kar liya . Even aaj bhi meri school ke ek do best friends se baat hoti bus baaki koi nahi . Bahut school ke bhi change hogye waqt ke saath . Many a times I felt left out but don't worry have faith focus on your career everything will be fine soon🫂
Sirf exam dene jate h h aap or attendance wagaira ban jate the ?
Guys, hear me. I got into one the famous university in my state. There so many people who dreamt to enter the university. Because of technical issue I got informed one week before the 2nd internal that i got admission there. And then it was rush but i got only half marks in every subject in that first semester. I only got into the university just after two months my father died who was my best pillar who supported me in academics. I was heart broke after hearing that i only got half mark in exams and also I thought I would dissappoint my father's soul. I became loner in the college. There students of high status and they always look down on peoples with low marks they treat you like pushovers . I managed to survive till 3rd semester but after that i needed pshychatrist because i developed suicidal tendencies. I came from a below average family so i couldn't drop out of college. Also I could only visited the doctor 2 times because of financial crisis in family. I blamed my self for not being useful to the family. I realised that no matter how a top university or local university you get in, if you have bad memories there, that is just hell for you.
this is so true and I'll hope you do great in life.
Me too bro studying the course which i😢@@PatelVenusPremjibhaidon't like and i don't talk to anyone in college
yes bro please help me ,same situation my also 😢@@PatelVenusPremjibhai
Stay strong brother 👍
@@PatelVenusPremjibhai how guys you are doing
School life 😊
College life 😢
omg!! I can really relate with her so much means I just my god I just know what she is going through!!!!
Same case with me joined medical a year ago and thought would make good friends but in reality im fed up everyone enjoying college life and i here waiting for my college life to end as soon as possible no true friends away from home 😢and many more that cannot be explained but one thing at the end no one will support or come with us we have to stand alone and i like being alone
same even my college have only 5 to 8 students in whole college and only I am the regular one don't know what to do?
All dreams about college Life are Vanished.
@@Doraemon1-s4h private college affiliated by kuk University
But ab aur bacche bhi a Gaye hai
@@Doraemon1-s4h Ab thik hi Kiya matlab aur kitna change karogi...
And, Nahi mai bams nahi Btech kar raha hu....
@@Doraemon1-s4h okay No issues
exactly not same but yeah this is too much relatable to me I also wanted to leave this college not because it is bad but I am not enjoying or interested in it.
Like esha ho raha hain ki mujhe accha score Karna hain yeah mujhe pata Hain toh main accha score bhi kar rahi hu but I am not happy and it is also true that no one force me . I don't know mujhe kya ho gya tha .Ab man mein bohot bohot guilt ho rahi hain bohot I couldn't exam. college Jana Hain jaa rahi hu , parna hain par Rahi hu acche marks Lana Hain woh bhi le aa rahi hu but at the end of the day khud andar se Tut Rahi hu . Mujhe Mera dream achieve karni hain and I will change my life 🤞
Hlo, Hope you are fine now🙂 and best of luck for your future keep shining❤
Background me 'save me' bj ra h God🤩🤩🤩
Even I'm finding college boring and I'm in a good college of commerce in my State, since I find it boring I Just do my own things, like figuring out life , prep for govt exams, make RUclips videos, etc. Often times if it's boring it might be because you're making it to be so.
@aaronmonk
Is your college done?
I want to change college but my parents don't allow and want to show relatives and neighbors that their child is in best college
Same bhai pta ne kya Karu attendance bhi km h boht 😢
@@Frcfbhhvgfcfdxdxdxd But in my family... My parents won't allow to take leave even if i have cold, fever.. They say... Go... You have no fever... So i have attendence above 90%
life is short, I hope you can find better ways soon.
@@SchrodingersLife may be...
@@mickey___mouse____ in other words, I hope u can find your true hapiness and I remind you about 'death'; that everyone will eventually die sooner or later.
another words of advice, Don't trade self-respect for respect from others.
I opened up to my parents and they said exactly the same thing . Im blessed
Life is short enjoy your life by yourself no need of anyone temporary company at the end you have yourself
Yeh toh meri dil ki baat hai☺️
Honestly ...the same thing is happening to me now...I passed 12 and opted for law ...as many of u know that almost all law aspirants dream about studying from a national law University by cracking CLAT(entrance exam) ...I also tried but I couldn't ...as a result I got admitted in a local law college ...I have always dreamt of studying from a top law school because I had big aspirations...but somewhere down I feel like I won't be able to fulfill my dream because taking drop year (along with college ) is difficult ...so I started to accept my life but nowadays I don't feel good because of the taunts and self doubts ...my college mates are not much serious ...and my school friends were all ending in much better colleges than mine...😭 I don't know what to do ...about trying CLAT again , I still don't know whether I would be able to prepare again or not😭😭
Bro believe in yourself and do whatever you feel is good for you. There is nothing wrong in preparing for clat again. Just achieve what you desire nothing else doesn't matter.
hey, if you don't mind asking are you still in that college and how is it going now is the college life treating you well? as I am in a similar situation
@@sanem7137 Thank you for this...and yes ,I am trying to do everything I ever wanted !
@@bhumi9936 Yes , it's going well ( I am making it better actually ) ... I am in this college only ... don't think much ...u will sail through it too ..
@@bandhanighosh oh that's great news that you are doing well.. and also thank you for replying and in a way cheering me up
Kash yeh reel pehle dekh leti ab kuch nhi hosakta 😭
Yes
Mene bhi 😢
Same😢
Koi bat nahi ab vh bohot kuch hai jo ho skta hai
Hi sir i am in CA course ☺️ But I alone do study and everything in my home - We need To make CA college to explore Relationship & life 🔥
I'm going to leave my hostel because I don't get environment to study here. I think I can to much better at home then hostel because I am doing online course. For the sake of my future I'm talking this decision but afraid of people who is going to make fun of me that I couldn't survive here. My parents may also be feeling that I'm a dumb but I think this right decision of mine.
@@senpaiakash6194 same here. I dropped out and moved back home. Enrolled in university here. What about you? Would love to know your story.
@@inahusx I am really glad i am not the only one thanks ❤️🫂
Mera college to college hai hi nahi...
Play School bna rkha hai Bilkul 😑
That is a thinking bias for which many of us falls for, its called "Sunk cost fallacy". Ankur sir has already explained it very well so i don't think i need to. But I will suggest everyone to read the book "the art of thinking clearly", it explores on more such biases.
Sometimes some money loss is the best loss you can have, never compromise your happiness for some amount of money. Money can be earned but your life once gone is gone.
But dude "Abba nhi manege..."
I get 90% in 12th...and my biggest regret is i couldn't get my dream college because of my parents... After this incident i am very depressed.. Now i have no motivation.... So i want to drop out for a one year... I don't know actually what to do... I feel like a loser....
what a great podcast,btw i’m with fba now but was a little demotivated today but now i am a little fueled up.
Sir you really gave a good advice with practical example
God may bless you 💖💖💖
Papa ko kaise ye bataye sir mante hi nhi hai. You know Indian dads mentality😢😮
True I agree
Exactly koi nhi samjhta ulta sab keh dete hai ki dost bnao but jab koi bolta hi nhi to kya dost bnau ?
@@harshitakaur1478 dost aapko bnane padenge apne personality se
Same situation!! I'm not satisfied I'm not happy with my mates and college eventhough it's my initial day but still I'm not getting the vibe I want!!
I think I should leave my college and get into the new one where I can find my space , where I can explore more... I need some Exposure....
@@Hzrsh hey hey don't be stressed out yaa... ummm try to change your college and ask for the refund only when if you're a freshman!!
@@Hzrsh Everything will be okay yaa try to adapt!! Make some friends who matches your vibe!! Good Luck 🤝
But I think degree to miljayegi na .... koi ug degree wala hoto jarur poori krlena warna bahut muskil ho jayengi cheeze because even in every government job they expect you that you have a bachelor's degree in hand
same goes for me . doing BCOM but iam not at all connecting to most of those in my class feeling left out most of the time.
Save Me is ringing inside my head now
Thank you sir you help me a lot !
Missing my old ug days😢 now im feeling miserable while doing my pg with no proper friends
I hated my college life. Absolutely hated.
I'm guessing you're over it now? May I ask if you were able to graduate?
@@theyfwastro yess yes I'm over It, graduated this year with a good GPA... Earning now! I'd would still say that they were the worst years of my life and I would rather not if I could take that decision again... but the past is past!
@@IndianDoctor2900 ah I see, very understanding. but sooo glad you were able to get your degree !! 🫶 right now i'm in a not so good situation and i'm only in my first year but i wish i could be strong as u 😭 thank u for taking the time to reply !
@@theyfwastro oh god! I totally understand, it gets difficult but you will survive and enjoy too... It's just a matter of time, focus on your degree and do more things outside of college. Don't rely on anyone, try to make few good friends, but in college don't just trust anyone...
On a different note, if there is some place better you can go to! Different college or even courses, if you're sure you will be happy there.. research a bit and get out, we have only one life, why waste prime years in a place that sucks your soul.
If thats not possible, just go with the flow, take care of yourself and do more things that make you happy.
@@IndianDoctor2900 Thank you so much you don't know how comforting this is to me 😭🫶 You overcoming the hardships should be an inspiration to me for whatever decision I'll be making in the future. I appreciate this comment so much thanks a lot !!
I have same problem 😢my college is far, boring professors not teaching well dont have any friends already spended 84000 in my 1st year i fell like leaving it but I can't 😭
This was at the correct time
Same for me I joined a local college for integrated MBA even though I got admission in a govt college for b tech. Now even after 1 year I hate my decision and cannot connect with my batchmates and is uncertain about my future
What if one has already paid 2 lakh and 45k is remaining?
😂😂
Doomed !
that's a simple piece of advice that many of us don't realize. thank you so much for constantly sharing your wisdom.
Same situation but sometimes I think maybe I am the problem.
Same situation with my college 😢
Same happened with me after paying 90,000 +17,000(bus-fees) and have to give 1,80,000 more but I've decided to take my admission off, I've spent 2 semester here and realised that continuing this college will only led me to waste more money and time. I belong to a middle class family, I was giving my fees paid up by loans and I'm sure its a correct decision.. Rather than wasting more time and money I'd prefer to leave cause I've already wasted a lot time and can't waste more.. According to me if you think about the money you already gave, had been wasted so just stop continuing, it will waste more important opportunities for you and keep you away from your goals..
What are you gonna do next.
What opportunities someone can explore after dropout of college.
What are you doing now bro
Bhai bhai plz help.. In peer pressure I have taken Adm. in engineers college by paying 90k fees total of 1st yr but my only aim is to crack upsc and I want to cancel my admission should I focus on rat Race or do follow my Passion of clearing upsc
Bro plz help.. Pure middle class ka banda hu or kuch bada karna chahta hu
@@kaihavertz9bhai mai b same feel krri hu 75k deke
@@mastana22 insta id du.. baat krte hain udhr!
okay thanks for reminding. omw to listen save me orchestral ver
Yes sir you are right 👍🏻 but jo low middle class family se h vo kase ache college jayenge fees hi itni rahti hai ki ham afford nahi kar sakte hai
Kbhi kbhi lgta h log kitne mc hote h yaar mai jiske saath pura sem rha whi log ditch krke chle jaate h.... I think dost wost kuch nhi hite h engineering me sb madarchod hote h isliye be independent and fuck friends and friendship nhi to they will disturb you emotionally
दिल की बात कह दी तुमने🙆😌
Bhai mere aass pas Wale sab ek branch k hai mai seedha hu isliye log Mera fayada utha rhe hai mai mentally disturbed huu mai btech chhodna chahta huu
I love this line💯
As someone curious, this is an example of sunk cost fallacy
And warikoo sir explained it well
Yeh duniya kuch din ki hai afterlife bohat badi hai 😢😢😢
Good advice
Well tbh this applies to time management as well. If you have wasted some amount of time it's fine, move on and do smt productive with the rest instead of wasting more time on regretting...
heeeee saidd ittt !!!!! that's the best answer
same situation in my collage
I have recently joined mbbs college and yes I have been here for like 3-4 days and still I can't adjust I don't have any friends no one talks to me idk why they all are good friends to each other but not to me and I don't know how to go through this with studies and seniors
Mbbs aise hi mil gya tumhe
@@neetmantra4512 ni neet diya
Hello Sir
I liked and enjoyed your videos on investment and self development.
I am requesting to make a video on whether working or studying abroad affordable using an excel sheet.
Looking forward for a new video.
But I enjoying my college life with love ❤
Absolutely right.
If the question would have been... She is a school student and would have been the same scenario 45K spent, batchmates are not intresting, teachers are boring then...what would have been ur response. 🤔
Hi always look forward to your videos. They r inspiring n full of positivity to say the least. Request u to make a video on education avenues abroad both at grad & pg level and which option makes more sense. Also how to plan for child's education abroad esp for a middle class family
Same condition and i also don't know what to do😐
She should continue the MBA, and start doing something with herself do your own business make plan, do ground work I hope she will be enjoying
Very easy to say..........
Same thing happened to me even my money, time everything was very much wasted and I can't learn everything well here but I can't leave it I don't know what to do in my life I make my future and career very bad 😭😭😭😭
Same don't know wat to do 😢
I've done my 12th and the very hectic problem which I'm facing rn is to what to do next? I'm very stressed rn because my plan is that I do not want to waste my 1 year or take a drop. Previously, i was planning to do BCA but after communicating to few teachers and professors, I've made the conclusion to do BTech CSE but here the problem is I haven't did the JEE or CUET for the same. I'm currently living in Gorakhpur and I'm planning to go to Delhi for better education. Will this Work? Will taking direct admission or going through Entrance Test Work? Will I regret it further by choosing this decision?
Also, I'm doing Freelancing in Video Editing and Motion Designing from many years.
When I was in my High School, I used to think that I'll not get into this rat race and I'll develop something & learn new skills by my own after 12th. Is my thinking while coming from a lower middle class background & living in Gorakhpur worth it? Will I regret if I will not be in the college? What should be the steps to choosing right career without having regret in future?
Please suggest. I might help me a lot.
Hi what are you doing right now
@@yogeshx6 done. gonna start my first sem in sep in btech cse.
@@yogeshx6 how bout you? how's life?
@@vfx.gauravk can you please help me guide me I'm currently doing BSC CS but here there is no college life im not getting any exposure also no coding culture all students come there only for degree because they all are preparing for gov job but i want to do startup and creative things should i leave and join btech cse as im not give any entrance exam but i get a tier 3 clg there i can join class meet lots of friends and learn new things should i join or continue here please guide me im confused 😕
@@yogeshx6 bsc cs is not a bad option, I won't suggest you about the leaving if you've already taken the admission. The truth is most of the colleges in India are like that, if you wanna try different stuffs, you've to do time management, you've to focus on balancing things cuz you can't just leave the college cuz that's a total loss of you + your parents. if you're taking admission in btech cse, you'll not get much time too + I'm into the same stuffs - I'm doing freelancing, managing multiple youtube channels, I also know that I'll also have to manage my stuffs.
Mera bhi same condition 💔😭
This is called "sunk cost fallacy"
Didn't had a good school life, don't know about how college life will go but I don't care as not getting a good school or college life is something I have got by birth
This is exactly what my friend said to her ex.. to Save 35000 how can one spend ₹1.5 lakh!!!
same goes here 🥲🥲🥲
going through the same rn.
Bgm is SAVE ME by BTS,a really good song,very sweet and calming....i know the topic of video is different but there are many people who ask whats the bgm,so here you go
Actually what about those who can't afford fees of top clg or average in studies but keen to learn and be better ao don't if ur persuing ur degree from normal clg try to build strong foundation in ur majors and try to be best in it learn more relevant skills and there ur, even if can't affords things, average and in normal clg doesn't matter
What matters? Ur proficiency in those subs and right skills if u have these things u have higher chances .. In companies
Bhai idar 9 lakh chale gye 1st year mein😅😢
Which college are you studying in ?
bhai aisa konsa college hai??
Itne paise ha tumhare pas😮
Huh !? Which college bro ??
Did you got through management ( donation) ??
Still 45k is Also big amount which is already spent ,i can't take it back.
But hamare parents nh samjhenge 😔
Aap kaha se ho
Same story 😮 btech 1st year alone
100% right
I hate that i got admission in IGNTU and i have no other option anymore
Going there the same situation
True Sir...
Same here very badd college
Tear 2 or 3 college me Buffalo's brain milte hai
I was in a college before and hated the way I was taught so I changed and got direct admission in second year
Sir but hamari yearly fees 1.2 lakh hai 5 saal ka Medical course hai.... Kisiko bich mai hi chodna ho toh 10 lakh pay krna pdega university ko 🤕
The life u are living is an dream for someone,mbbs is tough but worthy
Yeah but if ur not enjoying it doesnt matter whichever course it is. Same as a millionaire feeling empty. Im in similar situation
Im in much deeper in troubles than paying all the 5 yr fee
Guys, seriously i need help 🙏😭 I'm a 16 year old boy in 1st year of my college Nd i would like to share this to you guys that in my new college literally 😔 there is no one who talks to me nicely even after trying many times they just either ignore me or roast me in group's even the few people who i thought were my friends are now really making me feel really really very bad 😞😭 nd i guess I'm about to almost get into depression because i have no one to talk about this issue and even my parents are not supporting me..... I mean that they have paid 5 lakhs extra only for my addmission in the school and that is really a very big amount nd I can't let my parents down so I can't tell them .
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... I'm writing this letter in a hope that someone reads this and reacts or maybe understands me❤❤😭🙏🙏
Ya that's true 11th grade life is so trash
Right sir 👍🏻
Correct sir, 45k Loss Hoke Wo Doh Lakh se Dusre me Padh sakte hai. But not all 2 lakh + 45k wasting in it
thanks ankur
Love you warekoo sir
Hello sir!
Can you please suggest what to do when you are surrounded by dull and non performing students? It personally affects me a lot and messes up things really bad.
Want to do better in life!
Me too 😭
Very nice 👍
Same problem
They will make you pay atleast 50% of the rest of the fees if you drop(atleast that's the case for my clg)