Boundaries And Becoming X Sarah Jakes Roberts

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 14 тыс.

  • @alexisakins5587
    @alexisakins5587 2 года назад +1055

    Less than 5 minutes ago I was in bed having a pitty party. atm I prayed to God to release this depressed anxious feeling…He did. I proceeded to ask Him to reinforce His word thru an online sermon and he brought me here 💕💕 I cant ! He is too good

  • @cortinac.8526
    @cortinac.8526 2 года назад +728

    “Sometimes you have to give up being relevant to be authentic!” 🙌🏽

  • @jaylindiamondnique
    @jaylindiamondnique 2 года назад +824

    “A lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth.” ✨ This was everything I needed at this moment. 💜 There is a knowing that’s coming to me 🙌🏾

  • @QueenRoni28
    @QueenRoni28 7 месяцев назад +5

    I’m working on setting boundaries and becoming a stronger version of myself. 🙏🏽

  • @Sheislizettemukasa
    @Sheislizettemukasa 2 года назад +462

    "You cannot create boundaries if you do not know what you are protecting". I felt that.

  • @SM-fu1sl
    @SM-fu1sl 2 года назад +314

    “Just because you have a crown doesn’t mean that it’s a crown of honor.. this world is giving out all kinds of crowns but is Heaven honoring all these crowns that earth is giving out?”

    • @AdornmentMinistries
      @AdornmentMinistries 2 года назад +1

      Lord have mercy

    • @kawaihaefam1492
      @kawaihaefam1492 2 года назад +4

      That hit me too... 👊💥

    • @1979emartin
      @1979emartin 2 года назад +3

      Amen!

    • @arnishashegog2319
      @arnishashegog2319 2 года назад +2

      Amen

    • @victoirekambere2705
      @victoirekambere2705 2 года назад +7

      I believe that this message is more than a blessing for me. Setting boundaries is absolutely important for us cause it will help us grow and become who we supposed to be.

  • @obajeaisha4319
    @obajeaisha4319 Год назад +77

    “A lack of boundaries may keep you in position but may also keep you from growth” 🥺❤️

  • @BrandiO-g6f
    @BrandiO-g6f Год назад +8

    This spoke directly to my soul!!! Thank You Lord for this word!!!

  • @mayaharris5366
    @mayaharris5366 2 года назад +370

    turning 19 in a week!
    finding my spirituality.
    finding out who i am, my purpose.
    evolving into this amazing woman i am!
    loving & getting to know myself before giving ME away!
    i am saying this to say THIS MESSAGE WAS FOR ME! i love this woman 🥺

  • @iamraizadianne
    @iamraizadianne 2 года назад +616

    “You cannot create boundaries if you do not know what you are protecting”
    My!My!My… AMEN.

    • @angeliemorris4136
      @angeliemorris4136 2 года назад +6

      Indeed sis ❤️

    • @marymburu2014
      @marymburu2014 2 года назад +2

      Amen amen amen. What a beautiful message.

    • @mandisapayi5441
      @mandisapayi5441 2 года назад +2

      This got to me good...

    • @beverleynation302
      @beverleynation302 2 года назад +2

      This message bless my heart and definitely open my ears and eyes as to how I look at other women.

    • @tiffany84445
      @tiffany84445 2 года назад +2

      Mmmhhhmmm

  • @giavonnijohnson5347
    @giavonnijohnson5347 2 года назад +177

    I’m 23 Years Old. A New Mom, In A New City, I’m Am Out Of My Element & My Comfort zone But God Has Been Pushing Me To Become, He’s Triggering Me Into Healing, & He Brought Me Here To This Video Because THIS IS ME! I Have Been The Queen Of Many Things But God Is Calling Me To Be The Queen Of Boundaries & Forgiveness & Grace & It’s So Hard At 23, To Be Hurting & Healing All At The Same Time But THIS IS ME ! & I WILL SET BOUNDARIES SO I CAN RAISE MY SON & Continue Onto The Woman God Is Calling Me To Be. ! Thank You SJR ! I Love You

    • @giavonnijohnson5347
      @giavonnijohnson5347 2 года назад +3

      @MICKI PASSION Thank You I Love You❤️

    • @empoweredesquire
      @empoweredesquire 2 года назад +2

      My mother had me at your age! She went through the same journey and made it through with flying colors. So will you! ❤️

    • @Prophetessdaeja
      @Prophetessdaeja 2 года назад +2

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @leigh-annedavids7781
      @leigh-annedavids7781 2 года назад +5

      You can do it gurrrlll! I'm a single mom of 3 and God has been showing off in my life once I put my complete faith, and trust in Him! He's got you!

    • @kymberleeiamarie7970
      @kymberleeiamarie7970 2 года назад +3

      God bless you little sis!💜💜💜💜

  • @Happy2BShonnie
    @Happy2BShonnie Год назад +15

    Yes! I have to create boundaries so that I can see God! I’m willing to lose my seat at the table so that I can be one the God fearing woman I’m being called to be. Amen! I’m living in this moment right now… 🙏🏾

  • @kaiyab.2871
    @kaiyab.2871 2 года назад +343

    this brought tears to my eyes, 19 years old just trying to find my way.. thank you! Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @nyashaziyezwa6773
      @nyashaziyezwa6773 2 года назад +11

      I’m glad this message got to you while you are still young

    • @thegirlraq
      @thegirlraq 2 года назад +12

      You got this baby girl! God got you

    • @kishawilliams9563
      @kishawilliams9563 2 года назад +7

      I have a 19-year-old in your same boat. Stay in faith and FOLLOW GOD, baby. You'll get there. 💖

    • @sherylpaul-stubbs2516
      @sherylpaul-stubbs2516 2 года назад +5

      God loves you so much, Kaiya! Just keep looking to Him, call out, and keep calling if you feel you have to. He’ll come get you!

    • @CrestFallin
      @CrestFallin 2 года назад +3

      You got this girl!

  • @tallyellabne
    @tallyellabne 2 года назад +463

    She came for me! My everything. My past, my PRESENT but she also set me up to see a better future 💕 AMEN

  • @cortinac.8526
    @cortinac.8526 2 года назад +291

    “Love without boundaries can create so much heartbreak and trauma. Love without boundaries will have you in relationship with someone who speaks negatively towards you because that love didn’t have boundaries.” 💞✨💖

    • @slowjamsstephens3214
      @slowjamsstephens3214 2 года назад +1

      Yes!

    • @motshedisimohlahloe1018
      @motshedisimohlahloe1018 2 года назад +5

      That was for me😭

    • @dottamiller598
      @dottamiller598 2 года назад +1

      @@motshedisimohlahloe1018 me too right now word!

    • @Dragonfly0674
      @Dragonfly0674 2 года назад

      Yep. Am learning to love myself enough with or without my husband. I love him but we didn't have boundaries and it's caused arguments and I want peace ☮️🕊️ I love my husband and I want us to work

    • @Dragonfly0674
      @Dragonfly0674 2 года назад

      Please God let me stay in the boundaries you have created for me

  • @JaMoriaaaa._
    @JaMoriaaaa._ 5 месяцев назад +3

    Amennnnn !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ... here in 2024 you still singing to a choir yearsss laterrrr ❤

  • @christinemarie2634
    @christinemarie2634 Год назад +198

    "Love without boundaries can create so much heartbreak and trauma" "If you are going to be made in the image of God you are going to have boundaries too" A WORD!!!!!

  • @BigCEO3
    @BigCEO3 Год назад +147

    Hey you watching this ! You’ve GOT THIS GIRL !!! I know it can be hard sometimes to keep pushing !… to keep going but dang it sis your GOING ! And your doing a dang good job in your going ! I pray that we can be friends in this moment I’m that girl who feels she has none… and it can be hard & heartbreaking but girl it’s time you put yourself out there and take a chance!!! EVOLVE GIRL ! GET YOUR HOPES UP 🗣& PRAY ! With that being said cheers to NEW FRIENDS 🥂🥳🙌🏽🥰💕💕💕💕💕💕🔥🥳

    • @Lifeofabundancee
      @Lifeofabundancee Год назад +3

      Aww I love this comment! Cheers 🥂 🎉

    • @BigCEO3
      @BigCEO3 Год назад +1

      @@Lifeofabundancee 🥰 hey boo !

    • @debrabrown3292
      @debrabrown3292 Год назад +1

      Please...I NEED TO ME HOW AND WHEN I SHOULD ????? 😢

    • @MommyKia83
      @MommyKia83 Год назад +4

      Ok I'm going cry this was so heartfelt and was made for me to find😢❤❤ God bless you

    • @korijones9092
      @korijones9092 Год назад +2

      You don’t even know how needed this was for me! Thank you so much for your impactful words!! It so greatly appreciated ❤️❤️

  • @lisamadlala5016
    @lisamadlala5016 2 года назад +135

    As we’re becoming; may we bring every woman with us! May no woman be left behind!!✨♥️🙌🏾

    • @Neeallday
      @Neeallday 2 года назад +1

      Amen sis!

    • @channi49
      @channi49 2 года назад

      Amen

    • @rostanley
      @rostanley 2 года назад +1

      In Jesus name amen thank you!

  • @thatsofudgy
    @thatsofudgy 5 месяцев назад +1

    Amen Pastor Sarah Jakes has really touched my life in diffrent ways

  • @shaniajohnson2698
    @shaniajohnson2698 2 года назад +135

    I was in bed halfway sleep and sick with a sick newborn baby. This word made me sit up in my bed. God bless you Sarah! Every woman needs this word. Thank you!

  • @tasharawatson8231
    @tasharawatson8231 2 года назад +65

    I love to come to the comments section and read the empowering testimonies. I'm in a 17 year relationship and I've been married for 15 years, we have a beautiful family and my husband adores me, but recently I got off track and was seeking the attention of another man, because he said everything I wanted to hear and made me feel like I wanted to feel, I have now cut ties with that person, and learning to be grateful for the beautiful life and family God has made for me. Thank you God, you are my savior. Thank you God for guiding me and bringing me to such wonderful message. I love you God, amen 🙏 🙌 I give you all the glory and praise.

  • @briannarobinson7578
    @briannarobinson7578 2 года назад +152

    “It’s not about how much you give, it’s about how much you keep”
    I needed to hear this. Sometimes we get so caught up doing things for other people and doing for others that we don’t keep much for ourselves and we starve the woman down on the inside of us that God needs us to feed. 🙌🏽 Thank you Jesus for this word. Pastor Sarah touched on so many things that I had been feeling but couldn’t quite put into words until now. ❤️

  • @Blessingwithalesson
    @Blessingwithalesson 9 месяцев назад +3

    That’s ME THATS ME that’s MEEEE 🙌🏾 Amen 🙏🏾

  • @thessanoelle
    @thessanoelle Год назад +54

    I AM becoming, and I can not wait to become the woman that God wants me to be. I am a woman of boundaries, respect, and intergrity. My past does not define me. My heartbreaks does not define. My rejects does not define me. & My pain does not define me. I am worthy, I am loved, and I am enough! 💕

  • @thedaniuknow
    @thedaniuknow 2 года назад +158

    "Its not how much you give, its how much you keep." NEEDED to hear that. Immensely.

  • @cebilendlovu3363
    @cebilendlovu3363 2 года назад +121

    Im crying so much right now after listening to this. I needed this word and im so scared of the decisions that i have to make. Pray for me please for strength 🙏🏼

    • @danielledavis7058
      @danielledavis7058 2 года назад +3

      Praying for you sis. God is with you. Stay faithful and look to his word for guidance and support. 🙏🏾

    • @lucynjoki9474
      @lucynjoki9474 2 года назад +2

      Me too

    • @lucynjoki9474
      @lucynjoki9474 2 года назад +1

      I have really been fighting for a man even lowering my dignity thanks for search powerful word. Am going to create boundaries.

  • @w.o.r.d7516
    @w.o.r.d7516 2 месяца назад

    This message is so nourishing. Its beautiful infusion, replenishment. Thank you Holy Spirit and Sarah for this 🤗

  • @lakeytranero2019
    @lakeytranero2019 2 года назад +33

    It is NEVER about the other person. It is ALWAYS about self checking, self value, and remembering who's you are. Refuse to lower yourself to correcting another person over a liar.

  • @onika284
    @onika284 2 года назад +90

    The greatest gift that God wants to give you is not something that everyone else sees, it's something that only You know.

  • @maggymbugua5831
    @maggymbugua5831 2 месяца назад

    Am happy I found you Sarah you speak to my soul everyday, I pray one day I will be stronger and not accept less than I deserve.

  • @daniellehaynes8319
    @daniellehaynes8319 2 года назад +80

    I use to have a potty party because I felt that I needed friends all the time to be happy , I even got angry with God for removing people and isolating me . I now know he wanted me to love myself and to know I’m in control of my happiness ❤ love this sermon

    • @bulelwakowa3920
      @bulelwakowa3920 2 года назад +3

      I was also like that and I was not even aware and God removed every person I was relaying on in my life fast forward to 2022 it was the best decision he made for me and I'm greatfull ❤️

    • @valeriasurles8907
      @valeriasurles8907 Год назад +1

      Having a moment now 🙌🏾

    • @katarahstrong4730
      @katarahstrong4730 Год назад +1

      That’s me!

    • @mayajones1352
      @mayajones1352 Год назад +1

      same ❤

    • @crystalnelson1775
      @crystalnelson1775 Год назад

      I don't and have not 🚫 involved my self with anyone that's in a relationship engaged not married unless it business. If I was truly on him we would have had sex ...note I'm not a whore like you sleeping with everything that has a pulse. Relationship/ friendship takes time to build it not an over night process.. you do greet meet and sleep with the person.( That nasty like you if you do that) . A women must know here value and worth what she want in a before she begins involve herself she should know how once in a man and a desires that she should give to God 🙏 a woman should not just settle for any man and you shouldn't have to run behind no man or anyone's boyfriend husband or or lover. You have to be desperate.

  • @tasharawatson8231
    @tasharawatson8231 2 года назад +88

    I definitely need to set boundaries on getting my rest, eating and being healthy, my thoughts, etc, it needs to change, lord I pray that you continue to work on me so that I can be the person you destined me to be.

    • @chandralewis6923
      @chandralewis6923 2 года назад

      Amen in the name of Jesus you’re her already speak it love

    • @BTEE_Cosmetics
      @BTEE_Cosmetics 2 года назад

      This is where I am in life too queen. At 33 I’m still trying to figure my like out. Boundaries is a must and I love what you’re doing. I ask God the same thing for my life… just to work on me to become who he would have me be🙏🏾God bless you and your journey queen on becoming the best version of whom you’re meant to be❤️

  • @allenahercules2594
    @allenahercules2594 2 года назад +79

    Im definitely in need of boundaries, I no longer can allow myself to settle for less....I feel encouraged and empowered to set all boundaries that are needed for me to become and grow

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock 2 года назад +1

      You got this sis!! Boundaries will be much easier after healing. Healing teaches you to love yourself 🥰

    • @esthereve8242
      @esthereve8242 2 года назад

      Amen!

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 2 года назад

      You have to. Amen

  • @ahcoloringhaven
    @ahcoloringhaven 5 месяцев назад

    Amen, Amen, Amen. I needed this immensely today. God’s timing never ceases to amaze me 🙏🏾✨

  • @bethdocy9399
    @bethdocy9399 2 года назад +87

    I am a woman in recovery and I am on a bus on my way to work sobbing because this ministry has touched my heart in such a profound way. Women in recovery many many times do not feel they gave any value we most times do not have good solid boundaries that protect us and we allow others to destroy the women God made us to be. I thank you I needed this today especially. God bless!!

    • @mariahwalker1137
      @mariahwalker1137 Год назад +3

      Keep going sis!!! I see you .... with much love to you on this journey.

    • @bethdocy9399
      @bethdocy9399 Год назад

      @@mariahwalker1137 thank you so much

    • @mariahwalker1137
      @mariahwalker1137 Год назад +1

      You’re welcome 😇 if you love Sarah you should watch Brenè Brown and Mel Robbins as well. These women are all phenomenal.
      I struggle with mental illness and these 3 ladies are my go to . I do my light work on my end , but the fire 🔥 they give . Wheeeeeew They set it off .

    • @exploreroftruthandbeauty599
      @exploreroftruthandbeauty599 Год назад +2

      You keep riding Sis!!! ❤ read suggestion- Set Boundaries Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab

    • @samanthasingh49
      @samanthasingh49 Год назад +1

      Thanks so much i needed this all my life .

  • @porschasanders1198
    @porschasanders1198 2 года назад +71

    I’ve always been told I was attractive but my past relationships made me very insecure when it comes to other women, so I could never understand how I could be so beautiful and have so many good values about myself but was still cheated on by these men. It made me feel low in esteem. Then I start comparing myself to other women who they were cheating on. However, I’m still learning that these guys that I’ve been in a relationship with have self esteem issues themselves and they projected their insecurities onto me. I made them feel whole and they left me empty. I’m also learning and trying to heal from the threat and insecurities I have when it comes to other women because these men decided to cheat on me with them. They’re just as much a victim as I am. If I had created strong boundaries I would have NEVER allowed the attacks on my self-worth and esteem. Also my childhood trauma of sexual abuse played a major role in my self-esteem and the lack of protection that I had during the abuse. So boundaries have always been like a foreign language for me. God been working on me and these things for the past 2-3 years and I see him working. Give yourself grace when learning is my advice!

    • @oneof7billion627
      @oneof7billion627 2 года назад +4

      You are NOT alone🙏. We will see breakthrough ( Is.61:1-3)

    • @love_life_business
      @love_life_business 2 года назад

      This was me!

    • @nangulakanelombe4589
      @nangulakanelombe4589 2 года назад

      This is me currently and am trying not project what they do to me be about or more about them

    • @LifewithDeedior
      @LifewithDeedior 2 года назад

      I’m sorry y’all had to go through that 🥺 what help me with my self esteem Is not listen or worry what the world say you should look like or what man say you should look , focus on what god say about you and it’s challenging in the beginning but declare and speak affirmations over your life look in the mirror talk to yourself and embrace every little insecurity that you have . mentally chop down those lies that planted seeds in your head could have been a comment a family member could have said when you were little that stuck with you or your ex didn’t make you feel good enough . Chop it down with the truth you’re worthy you’re good enough you’re a masterpiece

    • @bobgasylvie6202
      @bobgasylvie6202 2 года назад

      Sending my prayers to you

  • @DejaRaelynn
    @DejaRaelynn Год назад +44

    I wish I could give this video a million thumbs up. It’s been saved in my “watch later” playlist and I’m grateful that The Most High allowed me to watch when He did. Boundaries are so essential to healing and self growth. I receive this message and the prayer. God bless you and all the women who see this video.

  • @marygarcia3017
    @marygarcia3017 11 месяцев назад

    Amen Sarah Jakes Roberts
    Your My pastor sister a child Christ your blessings and you been speaking to me thank you I'm grateful amen

  • @ccsm1tten
    @ccsm1tten Год назад +51

    Amen! I’m 17, starting college, in a relationship… I’m scared of the future most of the time. My crown is in fear and has been for years..I’m gonna change that today. Pls pray for me🙏❤️

    • @ChaoticPeace1112
      @ChaoticPeace1112 Год назад

      God did not give you a spirit of fear but of POWER AND OF LOVE AND OF A SOUND MIND. YOU GOT THIS AND YOU ARE GOING TO BE GREAT. HES GONNA BE THERE THE WHOLE WAY THROUGH. GOD BLESS YOU. 🎉 CONGRATULATIONS ❤❤

    • @sochimaanya1198
      @sochimaanya1198 Год назад

      Dear Cece, I pray that God wraps you with and grant you insight into His assuring and reassuring love, to enable you to trust Him totally, even when the future doesn't seem clear in your eyes. He will lead you into the place that He has prepared for you.

    • @shaterahwoodson214
      @shaterahwoodson214 11 месяцев назад

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜💜💜

  • @shanicehill9807
    @shanicehill9807 2 года назад +42

    That intro !!! About being the other woman! Is a confirmation on a book that’s been sitting on my heart since 2017 that God reminded me to complete this year ! I was too ashamed to write about it.

    • @ericanelson6616
      @ericanelson6616 2 года назад +6

      We cancel shame. Honor your experience and God’s call. He got you and the audience ready to read, learn and be delivered through your telling. ❤️

    • @AdesuwaSade
      @AdesuwaSade 2 года назад +5

      Wow that’s my same story. I saw your comment and you too inspired me to move forward in what God wanted me to release in 2017 and I procrastinated all this time because of shame. I had to realize that what God was asking of me wasn’t all about me! God brought me through those trials so I can help someone else to get through as well by sharing and completing this book. I encourage you. Write the book 🙏🏽

  • @zekryatbatal9871
    @zekryatbatal9871 2 года назад +18

    AMEN! I’m only 17 yrs old, but I want start to begin to become the other woman in me. I’m enlightened to accept myself and other women for who we are🙌🏿 I hear you 🥺

  • @blueroyalvlogs
    @blueroyalvlogs 6 месяцев назад

    Amen! I receive this prayer in the name if Jesus ❤

  • @dawniebb7665
    @dawniebb7665 Год назад +10

    I named my daughter Vashti and she sent this message today because of the situation I am in today! God bless her and you Sarah Jakes Roberts for this message!

  • @TyTheeHistorian
    @TyTheeHistorian 2 года назад +36

    “You cannot have boundaries when you do not know what you are protecting.”

  • @anamgwenn
    @anamgwenn 2 года назад +40

    “Real power come from authenticity and having boundaries”!
    “A lack of boundaries may keep you in position but it also keeps you from growth”

  • @tracymiller4949
    @tracymiller4949 9 месяцев назад

    Lord have MERCY! You be talkin STRAIGHT TO AND ABOUT ME, Pastor Sarah!!! Thank you for being transparent and REAL! And I'm 53!!!

  • @Jessicatheepro
    @Jessicatheepro 2 года назад +85

    “I’m not telling you to discard who you are, I’m telling you to embrace all that you are.”

  • @Kay-wt6wn
    @Kay-wt6wn 2 года назад +115

    I’m only 19 I’ve been hurt not only in my childhood, a story that I feel like I could help other women who are also rape/sexual assault survivors. Although Im transitioning into adulthood, in college I’ve become lost like many others. I’ve learned from this message that the previous growth I instilled in myself was not the growth I needed because I needed to create boundaries. I’m gonna rewatch to catch the good stuff I may have missed but thank youu I really needed this.

    • @nicholesmith7482
      @nicholesmith7482 2 года назад

      We are SURVIVOR

    • @juluxeevents3240
      @juluxeevents3240 2 года назад

      I would like to connect with you if possible

    • @nysharee6856
      @nysharee6856 2 года назад +1

      I’m 18 and same sis same. I relate to everything you said

    • @cristyfervily9985
      @cristyfervily9985 2 года назад

      Omg, you literally described me and my life right now. I am so glad we found this video! :)

  • @lisiiiiboo
    @lisiiiiboo 2 года назад +42

    Amen!! “ lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth.” Trust in HIM always, God respects our boundaries. Amen Lord knows I needed to hear this. 👏🏽

  • @ayandamaseko5017
    @ayandamaseko5017 2 года назад +41

    "God hep me a create a boundary on my mind, so that i can see clearly where I am supposed to be positioned" Amen🙏❤

  • @ndivhuwodaswa9073
    @ndivhuwodaswa9073 2 года назад +19

    Focusing so much on yourself and improving your life in such a way that you don't compete with another woman but you embrace her and pray & hope that she is happy. Each and every one of us deserve to be happy. I am becoming that woman. Who uplifts others. I am becoming that woman who pours into other women and gets her strength from the Lord.

  • @fayehealeygoggins7139
    @fayehealeygoggins7139 2 года назад +60

    Thank you this morning, Sister Sarah, as a woman soon to be 64 years old, married for 40 years and Truly a Woman of God, I am grateful for this message. It reminds me that years ago I had to find that "other woman" inside of me too. And I did the work! Where were Women like you back in the 90's...I think they were finding themselves just like I did. Blessings to you always, Faye Healey Goggins

    • @nubianqueenti
      @nubianqueenti 2 года назад +1

      Amen! That’s me. I appreciate the woman that I see in the mirror everyday. You are a true servant of God Pastor Sara. You make my daddy proud of you.

  • @hbawardi
    @hbawardi 5 месяцев назад

    YES AND AMEN! IN THE UNSTOPPABLE UNSHAKEABLE AND NEVER FAILING NAME OF MY LORD JESUS! ❤

  • @simplymarie5434
    @simplymarie5434 2 года назад +56

    She’s speaking what I’m going through now exactly everything about her past relationships mind you I’m 21 🥺😭😭I’m just crying in a place of peace and healing

  • @alexandradunklin9400
    @alexandradunklin9400 2 года назад +31

    "A lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth." That line alone speaks volumes.
    I needed to hear this more than I knew. As a woman that gives and leaves no room for herself, this message hit so close to home.
    Thank you, God that I am on the road to becoming. I am thankful for this message because I am in a season where I need to create boundaries and in order to stand by those boundaries, I need to lay down the crown of the woman that I currently am to become the woman that God wants me to be. Amen! This message was everything and then some.

  • @onika284
    @onika284 2 года назад +37

    I want to be the Queen of creating boundaries so that I can experience who God is calling me to be.

    • @D1271-e5c
      @D1271-e5c 2 года назад +1

      I want to be the Queen of Boundaries Lord give me the strength allow me to access the power you have placed in me

    • @Nikaplustwo
      @Nikaplustwo 2 года назад

      Amen 🙏

  • @trenathompson5760
    @trenathompson5760 9 месяцев назад +1

    That’s. ME!!!!!! AMEN 🙏🏽 GOD BLESS YOU. This was right on time .., valentines Day is one day away 2024 I needed this Lord Jesus

  • @KCKarebearr
    @KCKarebearr Год назад +24

    I love Sarah. She's the spiritual sister we all need! God is doing his thing with her! ✨

  • @heaven7750
    @heaven7750 Год назад +58

    Thank you for being you! I am 8 months pregnant, a single mom and am recovering after being hit by a car while crossing the street. I've been battling between a dark and light place. This made me feel reconnected with my faith and I shed so many tears but it felt relieving instead of sad this time. As I bowed my head and closed my eyes to listen to the prayer an image of a sunflower popped in my head. Thank you for these videos you heled push me into a better space.

    • @mariahwalker1137
      @mariahwalker1137 Год назад +1

      I hope you and baby are doing well today !!!!! Thank God

    • @davidleek6140
      @davidleek6140 Год назад

      I am baddling people lieing on me here were i stay at

    • @annettebradford4434
      @annettebradford4434 Год назад

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @rescueistheway4470
      @rescueistheway4470 Год назад

      BLESS U QUEEN I PRAY YOUR SITUATION OS BETTER AND YOUR CHILD HEALTHY...BUT GOD🙏

  • @elegoldb
    @elegoldb 2 года назад +90

    About 2 years ago I walked away from a toxic relationship from a person people respect in society. I knew personally I would never break boundaries I created and when this person threatened to break it over and over I walked away from everything that looked like “success and elevation” willing to heal and start all over again. It was indeed a Vashti moment. I later realized I was dealing with a covert narcissist and through much studying, therapy and allowing Jesus into the rooms of my life to heal, I am in a much better place and now married to my best friend in a very healthy relationship. Ladies, you are worth so much and we are on the road to becoming. Love you all and praying the best for everyone reading this.🤍

    • @Glamos28
      @Glamos28 2 года назад +1

      This is my word! God bless you Sarah 🙏🏻

    • @lotusvibration
      @lotusvibration 2 года назад

      I realized was dealing with one. And actually married to one . Have a child also so how do I get away ? Just file ..?

    • @elegoldb
      @elegoldb 2 года назад +1

      @@lotusvibration I’m so sorry you’re going through this! No one deserves such harsh treatment, manipulation, gaslighting and making you feel like a shadow of yourself! Please pray, see a therapist that is specialized in NPD and do what’s best for your mental health! Gods best for you does not involve abuse!

    • @ntombikhumalo6397
      @ntombikhumalo6397 2 года назад

      @ele I am in the same shoes however I am relying . Thank You for sharing your story ❤️

    • @elegoldb
      @elegoldb 2 года назад

      @@ntombikhumalo6397 one day at a time. Please educate yourself on NPD. No one deserves such inhumane treatment

  • @siphe-sihle
    @siphe-sihle 2 года назад +26

    I prayed a couple of days ago to God asking him to help me about a situation I’m in with a guy I think I like and then I stumbled to this😭😭😭😭 God is faithful. This is EVERYTHING i needed 😭😭😭😭

  • @lashawnbrown9479
    @lashawnbrown9479 11 месяцев назад +2

    I'm in tears I really needed to hear this today I thank you Sarah for your story your growth thank you for you ❤

  • @cutieistheword101
    @cutieistheword101 2 года назад +54

    amen!!! this women has really changed my life she’s so relatable such a genuine soul!!

  • @onika284
    @onika284 2 года назад +45

    There's a KNOWING coming to you. There's a knowing developing down on the inside of You.

  • @poppiemoseki7543
    @poppiemoseki7543 Год назад +22

    “I lay down the crown that other people have given me, and Lord, I pick up your crown!”

  • @jasminelara4558
    @jasminelara4558 2 года назад +111

    Amen,
    I need better boundaries and not always be available to my new bf but prioritize myself and time alone with God.

    • @hannahchaney3630
      @hannahchaney3630 2 года назад +5

      Girl same. It’s hard but it’s worth it 🙏🏼

    • @sydneealease3892
      @sydneealease3892 2 года назад +2

      I’m literally in the same boat. I’ll be praying for you 🤍

    • @LizRojas-fg4zu
      @LizRojas-fg4zu 2 года назад +5

      Same here!’ From now on I am energy matching… you get what I receive.

    • @udehesther2986
      @udehesther2986 2 года назад

      Same here...

  • @kgothatsodineokeebine
    @kgothatsodineokeebine 2 года назад +18

    We have a lot of work to do this year,Pheew!! Boundaries! Boundaries! and more Boundaries!!
    God make me the Queen of Revolution, where I can put on the type of Crown that only the Heavens can honor.😭🙏🏾👑 Amen.

  • @siyolisemakaka6013
    @siyolisemakaka6013 2 года назад +52

    This sermon feels like a letter that is written to me

    • @lizaokie6357
      @lizaokie6357 2 года назад +4

      Hey you, I am so greatful to God for your life and that of those young women you impact. God is so good. having you Say what you said during the sermon I felt so blessed.

    • @siyolisemakaka6013
      @siyolisemakaka6013 2 года назад

      @@lizaokie6357 Thank you Sissy... Stay Blessed❤️

    • @maggiefraser2551
      @maggiefraser2551 2 года назад

      The whole Bible was a message written for you child

    • @treeseer1573
      @treeseer1573 2 года назад

      Amen that’s me that’s me that’s me 🙏🏼

  • @JaMoriaaaa._
    @JaMoriaaaa._ 3 месяца назад

    Yes im backkkkk for this message once again !!! I love this sermon and the word that was given !! One of my favorites !!!! 🤍🤍

  • @bigmommie120
    @bigmommie120 2 года назад +17

    Boundaries then becoming. I need boundaries in all areas of my life
    Everywhere! Thoughts, taking care of body as far as going to bed, my self talk and self care, my business, with my kiddos, with my friends.

  • @cocoababby6321
    @cocoababby6321 2 года назад +27

    “Lay down the crown others have given you and pick up the crown God wants you to have” that was a word. This message was so good and I needed to hear this. Ill make a in effort to set boundaries in my thoughts. Thank you !

  • @Yukidumbduh
    @Yukidumbduh 2 года назад +25

    Just because you have a crown doesn't mean that your crown is worthy of honor." So profound👏🙏

  • @takileacollins4629
    @takileacollins4629 11 месяцев назад

    Amen!!! I have been in a head faulk and have been looking to God for so many things, BOUNDARIES is definitely one. Please pray for me. The devil is trying me and testing my faith and trust in God. My finances, health elationship, children, household. I know God is GOOD, and NO weapon formed against us shall prosper. Lord, deliver me, and let your will be done in our lives. Refresh, renew, guide us, walk us into prosperity and abundance. Rebuke the forces of evil that try to torment and raise the need for doubt in your word and faithfulness. I need a mighty fresh wind and breakthrough from you, dear God. To you, I give all the praise and the glory in Jesus' Name AMEN

  • @daniellematou8236
    @daniellematou8236 2 года назад +36

    " if there’s A women worried about college tell her help is on the way " me watching this was divine direction as am dealing with all the things said in this sermon. Thank you for sharing 💜

  • @belindacraine296
    @belindacraine296 2 года назад +77

    This was a different spin on Queen Vashti that I didn't know. However, this was exactly what I needed. I pray your new therapists keeps getting in your business because it is making me walk through mine. Love ya sis!!!!

    • @jenniferhenderson314
      @jenniferhenderson314 2 года назад +7

      I so agree! Sarah was all up in my business with this word and I definitely needed to hear it!

    • @JaeC444
      @JaeC444 2 года назад

      Big Facts lol

    • @CindyTheMotivator
      @CindyTheMotivator 2 года назад

      Go Vashti ❤ You

  • @brittanym7203
    @brittanym7203 2 года назад +22

    This was everything I needed to hear… I just was broken up with for me enforcing my boundaries. He didn’t like the push back. I was told I was insecure because I didn’t like the actions of some female “friends”. I also wasn’t getting equal effort or the love and care I deserved… he left… I’ve been struggling for weeks to cope. But by God. I honored myself, I respected myself enough to stand up for what I felt was what I deserved. Glory to God, I asked for answers and this message was sent to me.

  • @msnukums8454
    @msnukums8454 11 месяцев назад

    YESS LORD DIS WAS 4 ME I THANK U LORD CONTINUE HAVIN UR MIGHTY WAY N MY LIFE LORD I THANK U 4 ALL U HAV DONE & STILL DOIN N MY LIFE N JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN

  • @Missfitmalveaux
    @Missfitmalveaux 2 года назад +47

    That’s me!! I needed this at this moment and had my 16 y/o daughter listening as well. Thank you I’m hurting and I’m working on healing. All my relationships

    • @Nikaplustwo
      @Nikaplustwo 2 года назад +1

      It’s good to start them early

  • @nedralbrown4256
    @nedralbrown4256 2 года назад +55

    I'm grateful to have heard, shared, and received this message. God is truly speaking through you. He knows exactly what we are in need of as the mighty women we are, wounded, tired, in transition and all. So thank you

  • @HollyStevens-d9p
    @HollyStevens-d9p Месяц назад

    10/16/2025 6:22pm Estern Time
    Amen!! I will set Boundaries in Relationships without fear of losing them!!
    This Word has open my Eyes, Ears an Soul . My inner Spirit is Jumping right now!! Thank You God for SJR.

  • @kortnelong5011
    @kortnelong5011 2 года назад +28

    Your ministry is making a divine impact on my life! Thank youuuuu soooo much for sharing your walk and walking in obedience!

  • @b.h.3462
    @b.h.3462 2 года назад +31

    Amen…..I’m in a new city and feel totally lost with no boundaries. Depression has sunk and I sit on Fb all day looking at every one else live their lives. My day goes so fast and I’m getting nothing accomplished. I’m not living my purpose and I need to be. I need boundaries and I needed this message. Please pray for me!

    • @kishawilliams9563
      @kishawilliams9563 2 года назад +1

      I'm praying for you. Ask God for the strength to take baby steps, and as you step, be specific about what you want Him to do in your life. Say with specificity, God, remove xyz, increase xyz, support me as I xyz, and so on. Praying for and with you!💖

    • @tracymaposa
      @tracymaposa 2 года назад

      Gal get up
      U can do this we are praying for you
      Keep moving even if u hv to crawl keep moving. We got u

    • @craiganderinhinkle4981
      @craiganderinhinkle4981 2 года назад

      Girl you can do it 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. God has placed so much inside of you. Your past doesn’t define you. Your current situation does not define you! God is waiting on him to meet you !!! I will be praying with you !!!! Claiming the victory for you in Jesus name !

  • @MissConviction
    @MissConviction 2 года назад +29

    Been fighting isolation and that’s exactly where God has been trying to get me to be. 💜✨🙌🏽

    • @AnnettepSalmon
      @AnnettepSalmon 2 года назад +3

      Yes, that we where we get ready. Been there and it was actually heaven sent.

    • @rachealowolabi4331
      @rachealowolabi4331 2 года назад +2

      I'm also in isolation,it's for the glory of God I believe.

    • @artforchrist5065
      @artforchrist5065 2 года назад

      I am in isolation as well. It is beautiful. Christ is preparing us.

  • @rachaelfavors8817
    @rachaelfavors8817 11 месяцев назад +1

    Amen Jesus 🙏🏽 💕 Thank you for your transparency.

  • @kailaalessi9760
    @kailaalessi9760 2 года назад +57

    I feel this message is for me. I’m in a relationship with a guy who says he’s Christian. We have so many disagreements lately because every weekend he wants to go out, get plastered drunk, and go to clubs and strip clubs with his friends. I told him how I felt but he cares more about the fun. Now that I’m getting closer to God I am having more problems with him. I know I am being called out of this relationship but I am so scared. I’ve liked him since middle school and now I’m in college. I can’t just leave, but I also can’t continuously get hurt every single weekend. I need prayer 💜

    • @olgaphala9955
      @olgaphala9955 2 года назад +19

      Let it go sis, God has way better set up for you. Just trust him.

    • @Sweetpotatoeee
      @Sweetpotatoeee 2 года назад +2

      🙏🏼💜

    • @momentsbydesyn8021
      @momentsbydesyn8021 2 года назад +4

      Sweetie I pray that you found, or are finding, the strength to leave. I know it’s been a long relationship but if you think about how important it is to please God, and as you draw closer to Him, pleasing people becomes less important. Praying for you.

    • @jeaninerichardson7179
      @jeaninerichardson7179 2 года назад

      The LORD will strengthen you and also help you to forgive yourself. We all have strengths and weaknesses but our weaknesses offer us the greatest opportunities for the LORD to use us and to show Himself the mightiest in our lives. Those weaknesses as we humbly surrender them & ourselves to His Protective Custody are like colorful accommodation metals on a soldiers uniform displaying the tests He's brought you through. They're honorable and not to shame you but actually to promote you for greatest in Him. He absolutely adores you don't give up you're a warrior in JESUS *

    • @AT-zl6dk
      @AT-zl6dk 2 года назад

      Write down want YOU value
      And if he doesn’t align with your values you have to move forward

  • @portiadube6218
    @portiadube6218 2 года назад +34

    That's me sis... today in the morning a spirit of suicide attacked and even at church... I am in a process of changing my life from being broken to a queen and the self betrayal is on another level... this right here just freed me because truly boundaries are what I lack at.... Amen sister may God continue to keep you and keep helping us through you in Jesus's name.

  • @karabothedoll
    @karabothedoll 2 года назад +10

    AMEN AMEN AMEN...I'm going through a spiritual breakthrough and becoming the best version of myself that I`ve longed for in so long in different aspects of my life that I needed growth with and this was the the exact message and confirmation I needed to hear that I`m headed in the right direction...I'm not fully where I want to be but I'm happy where I've made progress where I longed to progress....Love you Sarah

  • @laurelbrouet138
    @laurelbrouet138 11 месяцев назад +1

    This message was a blessing. Thank you Lord for your word. Amen!

  • @the1beloved1
    @the1beloved1 2 года назад +30

    Pastor Sarah… I never understood Queen Vashti quite like you shared with me tonight… thank you for sharing your message about boundaries! I am Minister DaNita, I am learning to deal with my boundaries…Amen❤️‍🩹🙏🏾❤️

  • @jajsgp2015
    @jajsgp2015 2 года назад +41

    Thats Me! This literally speaks to my situation. I have a hard time setting boundaries in my relationships. This message encouraged me to learn how to maneuver my relationships from now on. With love, but also with boundaries so that I can hear God and continue to grow in my purpose.

  • @roswell9901
    @roswell9901 2 года назад +42

    This message was absolutely for me at this point in my life. I struggle with setting boundaries. This message is a part of my day. Encouraging myself to set boundaries for my life.

  • @sashadavis6224
    @sashadavis6224 Месяц назад

    Amen. When I tell you this message was right on time!

  • @AmberClarke1423
    @AmberClarke1423 2 года назад +40

    Yes Amen just got out of a Toxic Relationship because a lack of boundaries I needed to hear this🙏🙌 Thank You

    • @sebabatsomollo5229
      @sebabatsomollo5229 2 года назад +2

      I'm going through the same.
      This just came in just when I'm asking my self why am I still hurting though I was the victim...then someone posted , "even if it was toxic ,what no one tells you is that you will still grief it"

    • @myrtlemobley6015
      @myrtlemobley6015 2 года назад +1

      Thanks ffg or letting god use you its slot about my life amen

    • @valerieshaw2344
      @valerieshaw2344 2 года назад

      Amen that's me that's me that's me

    • @tatianaartis5518
      @tatianaartis5518 2 года назад

      Amen

  • @thewarroom4230
    @thewarroom4230 2 года назад +37

    Amen, Amen, Amen. I'm expecting greatness in 2022 but I know I must step into the NEW. This word hit me at the core. I just love your transparency Sarah, it's that thing that helps set women free. I'm grateful to have came across this word. We serve an intentional God and he knows just what we need. Thank you Lord for ordering my steps, healing me from the inside out and may your will be done in my life and not my own. In Jesus name, Amen.

  • @yvonnetelley5632
    @yvonnetelley5632 2 года назад +8

    This blessed me so much..I'm 49 years old been married for 22 years an i have completely lost myself..Where there is life there is hope..I will find that other woman in me🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @kadianncoghiel810
      @kadianncoghiel810 2 года назад +1

      Girlll I understand everything what you are saying, but I pray the Lord will show us who we are on our own with him guiding us with his eyes on us. Bless you woman of God.

    • @yvonnetelley5632
      @yvonnetelley5632 2 года назад

      @@kadianncoghiel810 amen amen

  • @michelemorrisini582
    @michelemorrisini582 Год назад

    Thank you Sara, for laying your vulnerability wide open so that we can begin to do the same with one another & help each other heal. Please pray for me that God would send me a tribe of women in my life.
    I never leave my house, work from home, hubby runs all errands. I have a good family support system but we all live in different states. I want to be used for Gods plan. I’m thirsty for real face to face connection. I want to join a movement that helps women feel seen, safe, supported & significant.
    But I need a hand.
    Sisters, please pray for me, and God Bless you.

  • @kabweyambayamba2432
    @kabweyambayamba2432 2 года назад +28

    I've been praying about resolving my identity in Christ and setting boundaries .When you start to do the healing work especially after leaving a toxic relationship - It can get so hard to look past the person you were then. This message is so vulnerable and honest ! So timely for me. Thank you God !

    • @jassyica
      @jassyica 2 года назад

      Say it again

  • @mtay__2218
    @mtay__2218 2 года назад +23

    Before watching this i didnt know how important having boundaries were. Especially so that we can become who God has called us to be | our identity, value, and worth in him. So many times we let our mistakes shame us and think that God can never help which is a lie from the pits of hell. The part where she said you'll have to not pour out as much love & respect to others as you have before! Whew 😩 thank you so much for this life changing message Sarah. 🙏🏾

  • @chartramartin6683
    @chartramartin6683 Год назад +20

    I struggle with boundaries bad and I feel this message speak to me so much I was just in a situation that I am ashamed of myself for accepting it made me look at myself and begin to fix me