Less than 5 minutes ago I was in bed having a pitty party. atm I prayed to God to release this depressed anxious feeling…He did. I proceeded to ask Him to reinforce His word thru an online sermon and he brought me here 💕💕 I cant ! He is too good
“A lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth.” ✨ This was everything I needed at this moment. 💜 There is a knowing that’s coming to me 🙌🏾
“Just because you have a crown doesn’t mean that it’s a crown of honor.. this world is giving out all kinds of crowns but is Heaven honoring all these crowns that earth is giving out?”
I believe that this message is more than a blessing for me. Setting boundaries is absolutely important for us cause it will help us grow and become who we supposed to be.
Hey you watching this ! You’ve GOT THIS GIRL !!! I know it can be hard sometimes to keep pushing !… to keep going but dang it sis your GOING ! And your doing a dang good job in your going ! I pray that we can be friends in this moment I’m that girl who feels she has none… and it can be hard & heartbreaking but girl it’s time you put yourself out there and take a chance!!! EVOLVE GIRL ! GET YOUR HOPES UP 🗣& PRAY ! With that being said cheers to NEW FRIENDS 🥂🥳🙌🏽🥰💕💕💕💕💕💕🔥🥳
“Love without boundaries can create so much heartbreak and trauma. Love without boundaries will have you in relationship with someone who speaks negatively towards you because that love didn’t have boundaries.” 💞✨💖
Yep. Am learning to love myself enough with or without my husband. I love him but we didn't have boundaries and it's caused arguments and I want peace ☮️🕊️ I love my husband and I want us to work
I’m 23 Years Old. A New Mom, In A New City, I’m Am Out Of My Element & My Comfort zone But God Has Been Pushing Me To Become, He’s Triggering Me Into Healing, & He Brought Me Here To This Video Because THIS IS ME! I Have Been The Queen Of Many Things But God Is Calling Me To Be The Queen Of Boundaries & Forgiveness & Grace & It’s So Hard At 23, To Be Hurting & Healing All At The Same Time But THIS IS ME ! & I WILL SET BOUNDARIES SO I CAN RAISE MY SON & Continue Onto The Woman God Is Calling Me To Be. ! Thank You SJR ! I Love You
I named my daughter Vashti and she sent this message today because of the situation I am in today! God bless her and you Sarah Jakes Roberts for this message!
turning 19 in a week! finding my spirituality. finding out who i am, my purpose. evolving into this amazing woman i am! loving & getting to know myself before giving ME away! i am saying this to say THIS MESSAGE WAS FOR ME! i love this woman 🥺
"Love without boundaries can create so much heartbreak and trauma" "If you are going to be made in the image of God you are going to have boundaries too" A WORD!!!!!
I AM becoming, and I can not wait to become the woman that God wants me to be. I am a woman of boundaries, respect, and intergrity. My past does not define me. My heartbreaks does not define. My rejects does not define me. & My pain does not define me. I am worthy, I am loved, and I am enough! 💕
It is NEVER about the other person. It is ALWAYS about self checking, self value, and remembering who's you are. Refuse to lower yourself to correcting another person over a liar.
I love to come to the comments section and read the empowering testimonies. I'm in a 17 year relationship and I've been married for 15 years, we have a beautiful family and my husband adores me, but recently I got off track and was seeking the attention of another man, because he said everything I wanted to hear and made me feel like I wanted to feel, I have now cut ties with that person, and learning to be grateful for the beautiful life and family God has made for me. Thank you God, you are my savior. Thank you God for guiding me and bringing me to such wonderful message. I love you God, amen 🙏 🙌 I give you all the glory and praise.
“It’s not about how much you give, it’s about how much you keep” I needed to hear this. Sometimes we get so caught up doing things for other people and doing for others that we don’t keep much for ourselves and we starve the woman down on the inside of us that God needs us to feed. 🙌🏽 Thank you Jesus for this word. Pastor Sarah touched on so many things that I had been feeling but couldn’t quite put into words until now. ❤️
I was in bed halfway sleep and sick with a sick newborn baby. This word made me sit up in my bed. God bless you Sarah! Every woman needs this word. Thank you!
Im crying so much right now after listening to this. I needed this word and im so scared of the decisions that i have to make. Pray for me please for strength 🙏🏼
I’ve always been told I was attractive but my past relationships made me very insecure when it comes to other women, so I could never understand how I could be so beautiful and have so many good values about myself but was still cheated on by these men. It made me feel low in esteem. Then I start comparing myself to other women who they were cheating on. However, I’m still learning that these guys that I’ve been in a relationship with have self esteem issues themselves and they projected their insecurities onto me. I made them feel whole and they left me empty. I’m also learning and trying to heal from the threat and insecurities I have when it comes to other women because these men decided to cheat on me with them. They’re just as much a victim as I am. If I had created strong boundaries I would have NEVER allowed the attacks on my self-worth and esteem. Also my childhood trauma of sexual abuse played a major role in my self-esteem and the lack of protection that I had during the abuse. So boundaries have always been like a foreign language for me. God been working on me and these things for the past 2-3 years and I see him working. Give yourself grace when learning is my advice!
I’m sorry y’all had to go through that 🥺 what help me with my self esteem Is not listen or worry what the world say you should look like or what man say you should look , focus on what god say about you and it’s challenging in the beginning but declare and speak affirmations over your life look in the mirror talk to yourself and embrace every little insecurity that you have . mentally chop down those lies that planted seeds in your head could have been a comment a family member could have said when you were little that stuck with you or your ex didn’t make you feel good enough . Chop it down with the truth you’re worthy you’re good enough you’re a masterpiece
Yes! I have to create boundaries so that I can see God! I’m willing to lose my seat at the table so that I can be one the God fearing woman I’m being called to be. Amen! I’m living in this moment right now… 🙏🏾
I definitely need to set boundaries on getting my rest, eating and being healthy, my thoughts, etc, it needs to change, lord I pray that you continue to work on me so that I can be the person you destined me to be.
This is where I am in life too queen. At 33 I’m still trying to figure my like out. Boundaries is a must and I love what you’re doing. I ask God the same thing for my life… just to work on me to become who he would have me be🙏🏾God bless you and your journey queen on becoming the best version of whom you’re meant to be❤️
Im definitely in need of boundaries, I no longer can allow myself to settle for less....I feel encouraged and empowered to set all boundaries that are needed for me to become and grow
I’m only 19 I’ve been hurt not only in my childhood, a story that I feel like I could help other women who are also rape/sexual assault survivors. Although Im transitioning into adulthood, in college I’ve become lost like many others. I’ve learned from this message that the previous growth I instilled in myself was not the growth I needed because I needed to create boundaries. I’m gonna rewatch to catch the good stuff I may have missed but thank youu I really needed this.
I use to have a potty party because I felt that I needed friends all the time to be happy , I even got angry with God for removing people and isolating me . I now know he wanted me to love myself and to know I’m in control of my happiness ❤ love this sermon
I was also like that and I was not even aware and God removed every person I was relaying on in my life fast forward to 2022 it was the best decision he made for me and I'm greatfull ❤️
I don't and have not 🚫 involved my self with anyone that's in a relationship engaged not married unless it business. If I was truly on him we would have had sex ...note I'm not a whore like you sleeping with everything that has a pulse. Relationship/ friendship takes time to build it not an over night process.. you do greet meet and sleep with the person.( That nasty like you if you do that) . A women must know here value and worth what she want in a before she begins involve herself she should know how once in a man and a desires that she should give to God 🙏 a woman should not just settle for any man and you shouldn't have to run behind no man or anyone's boyfriend husband or or lover. You have to be desperate.
Amen! I’m 17, starting college, in a relationship… I’m scared of the future most of the time. My crown is in fear and has been for years..I’m gonna change that today. Pls pray for me🙏❤️
God did not give you a spirit of fear but of POWER AND OF LOVE AND OF A SOUND MIND. YOU GOT THIS AND YOU ARE GOING TO BE GREAT. HES GONNA BE THERE THE WHOLE WAY THROUGH. GOD BLESS YOU. 🎉 CONGRATULATIONS ❤❤
Dear Cece, I pray that God wraps you with and grant you insight into His assuring and reassuring love, to enable you to trust Him totally, even when the future doesn't seem clear in your eyes. He will lead you into the place that He has prepared for you.
I am a woman in recovery and I am on a bus on my way to work sobbing because this ministry has touched my heart in such a profound way. Women in recovery many many times do not feel they gave any value we most times do not have good solid boundaries that protect us and we allow others to destroy the women God made us to be. I thank you I needed this today especially. God bless!!
You’re welcome 😇 if you love Sarah you should watch Brenè Brown and Mel Robbins as well. These women are all phenomenal. I struggle with mental illness and these 3 ladies are my go to . I do my light work on my end , but the fire 🔥 they give . Wheeeeeew They set it off .
Hey you, I am so greatful to God for your life and that of those young women you impact. God is so good. having you Say what you said during the sermon I felt so blessed.
AMEN! I’m only 17 yrs old, but I want start to begin to become the other woman in me. I’m enlightened to accept myself and other women for who we are🙌🏿 I hear you 🥺
About 2 years ago I walked away from a toxic relationship from a person people respect in society. I knew personally I would never break boundaries I created and when this person threatened to break it over and over I walked away from everything that looked like “success and elevation” willing to heal and start all over again. It was indeed a Vashti moment. I later realized I was dealing with a covert narcissist and through much studying, therapy and allowing Jesus into the rooms of my life to heal, I am in a much better place and now married to my best friend in a very healthy relationship. Ladies, you are worth so much and we are on the road to becoming. Love you all and praying the best for everyone reading this.🤍
@@lotusvibration I’m so sorry you’re going through this! No one deserves such harsh treatment, manipulation, gaslighting and making you feel like a shadow of yourself! Please pray, see a therapist that is specialized in NPD and do what’s best for your mental health! Gods best for you does not involve abuse!
AMEN!! ❤ Thank you, Father God. I have to thank you, Sarah. I came across your "Girl, Get up" video about 2 months ago, and it completely transformed my way thinking, or rather reinforced what I wanted to do and change in life and the way I needed to be done or said. Thank you GOD for always putting signs in front of me to let me know I am in the right path. I am nervous for the new, but I trust you God. Amen!
That intro !!! About being the other woman! Is a confirmation on a book that’s been sitting on my heart since 2017 that God reminded me to complete this year ! I was too ashamed to write about it.
Wow that’s my same story. I saw your comment and you too inspired me to move forward in what God wanted me to release in 2017 and I procrastinated all this time because of shame. I had to realize that what God was asking of me wasn’t all about me! God brought me through those trials so I can help someone else to get through as well by sharing and completing this book. I encourage you. Write the book 🙏🏽
Focusing so much on yourself and improving your life in such a way that you don't compete with another woman but you embrace her and pray & hope that she is happy. Each and every one of us deserve to be happy. I am becoming that woman. Who uplifts others. I am becoming that woman who pours into other women and gets her strength from the Lord.
I wish I could give this video a million thumbs up. It’s been saved in my “watch later” playlist and I’m grateful that The Most High allowed me to watch when He did. Boundaries are so essential to healing and self growth. I receive this message and the prayer. God bless you and all the women who see this video.
Amen!! “ lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth.” Trust in HIM always, God respects our boundaries. Amen Lord knows I needed to hear this. 👏🏽
I feel this message is for me. I’m in a relationship with a guy who says he’s Christian. We have so many disagreements lately because every weekend he wants to go out, get plastered drunk, and go to clubs and strip clubs with his friends. I told him how I felt but he cares more about the fun. Now that I’m getting closer to God I am having more problems with him. I know I am being called out of this relationship but I am so scared. I’ve liked him since middle school and now I’m in college. I can’t just leave, but I also can’t continuously get hurt every single weekend. I need prayer 💜
Sweetie I pray that you found, or are finding, the strength to leave. I know it’s been a long relationship but if you think about how important it is to please God, and as you draw closer to Him, pleasing people becomes less important. Praying for you.
The LORD will strengthen you and also help you to forgive yourself. We all have strengths and weaknesses but our weaknesses offer us the greatest opportunities for the LORD to use us and to show Himself the mightiest in our lives. Those weaknesses as we humbly surrender them & ourselves to His Protective Custody are like colorful accommodation metals on a soldiers uniform displaying the tests He's brought you through. They're honorable and not to shame you but actually to promote you for greatest in Him. He absolutely adores you don't give up you're a warrior in JESUS *
"A lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth." That line alone speaks volumes. I needed to hear this more than I knew. As a woman that gives and leaves no room for herself, this message hit so close to home. Thank you, God that I am on the road to becoming. I am thankful for this message because I am in a season where I need to create boundaries and in order to stand by those boundaries, I need to lay down the crown of the woman that I currently am to become the woman that God wants me to be. Amen! This message was everything and then some.
I prayed a couple of days ago to God asking him to help me about a situation I’m in with a guy I think I like and then I stumbled to this😭😭😭😭 God is faithful. This is EVERYTHING i needed 😭😭😭😭
Thank you for being you! I am 8 months pregnant, a single mom and am recovering after being hit by a car while crossing the street. I've been battling between a dark and light place. This made me feel reconnected with my faith and I shed so many tears but it felt relieving instead of sad this time. As I bowed my head and closed my eyes to listen to the prayer an image of a sunflower popped in my head. Thank you for these videos you heled push me into a better space.
Boundaries then becoming. I need boundaries in all areas of my life Everywhere! Thoughts, taking care of body as far as going to bed, my self talk and self care, my business, with my kiddos, with my friends.
This was a different spin on Queen Vashti that I didn't know. However, this was exactly what I needed. I pray your new therapists keeps getting in your business because it is making me walk through mine. Love ya sis!!!!
We have a lot of work to do this year,Pheew!! Boundaries! Boundaries! and more Boundaries!! God make me the Queen of Revolution, where I can put on the type of Crown that only the Heavens can honor.😭🙏🏾👑 Amen.
She’s speaking what I’m going through now exactly everything about her past relationships mind you I’m 21 🥺😭😭I’m just crying in a place of peace and healing
I'm grateful to have heard, shared, and received this message. God is truly speaking through you. He knows exactly what we are in need of as the mighty women we are, wounded, tired, in transition and all. So thank you
AMEN AMEN AMEN...I'm going through a spiritual breakthrough and becoming the best version of myself that I`ve longed for in so long in different aspects of my life that I needed growth with and this was the the exact message and confirmation I needed to hear that I`m headed in the right direction...I'm not fully where I want to be but I'm happy where I've made progress where I longed to progress....Love you Sarah
That's me sis... today in the morning a spirit of suicide attacked and even at church... I am in a process of changing my life from being broken to a queen and the self betrayal is on another level... this right here just freed me because truly boundaries are what I lack at.... Amen sister may God continue to keep you and keep helping us through you in Jesus's name.
Amen…..I’m in a new city and feel totally lost with no boundaries. Depression has sunk and I sit on Fb all day looking at every one else live their lives. My day goes so fast and I’m getting nothing accomplished. I’m not living my purpose and I need to be. I need boundaries and I needed this message. Please pray for me!
I'm praying for you. Ask God for the strength to take baby steps, and as you step, be specific about what you want Him to do in your life. Say with specificity, God, remove xyz, increase xyz, support me as I xyz, and so on. Praying for and with you!💖
Girl you can do it 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. God has placed so much inside of you. Your past doesn’t define you. Your current situation does not define you! God is waiting on him to meet you !!! I will be praying with you !!!! Claiming the victory for you in Jesus name !
This was everything I needed to hear… I just was broken up with for me enforcing my boundaries. He didn’t like the push back. I was told I was insecure because I didn’t like the actions of some female “friends”. I also wasn’t getting equal effort or the love and care I deserved… he left… I’ve been struggling for weeks to cope. But by God. I honored myself, I respected myself enough to stand up for what I felt was what I deserved. Glory to God, I asked for answers and this message was sent to me.
And sometimes God sees that YOU are ready to change and that man may not be, so He'll give him another woman that may was where you were with him YEARS ago, and get you out of there to prune you for your kingdom spouse! I just went thru a divorce last year and watching this, I realize that my ex husband is still in 2007 when we met, and I was ready for much more! God had to remove me, by way of him leaving, to free my hands for Greater!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I'm going through the same. This just came in just when I'm asking my self why am I still hurting though I was the victim...then someone posted , "even if it was toxic ,what no one tells you is that you will still grief it"
Thank you this morning, Sister Sarah, as a woman soon to be 64 years old, married for 40 years and Truly a Woman of God, I am grateful for this message. It reminds me that years ago I had to find that "other woman" inside of me too. And I did the work! Where were Women like you back in the 90's...I think they were finding themselves just like I did. Blessings to you always, Faye Healey Goggins
That’s me!! I needed this at this moment and had my 16 y/o daughter listening as well. Thank you I’m hurting and I’m working on healing. All my relationships
Pastor Sarah… I never understood Queen Vashti quite like you shared with me tonight… thank you for sharing your message about boundaries! I am Minister DaNita, I am learning to deal with my boundaries…Amen❤️🩹🙏🏾❤️
" if there’s A women worried about college tell her help is on the way " me watching this was divine direction as am dealing with all the things said in this sermon. Thank you for sharing 💜
Amen Amen Amen. Ceci est une réponse à mes questions, merci pour cet engagement message. Que le Seigneur vous élève et continu de se révéler à vous Pasteur Sarah. Qu'il vous protège vous et votre famille au nom de Yeshua.
I’m a woman who has no boundaries and now I have a mental idea of how important it is to have boundaries. And I thank Sarah Jakes Roberts for this seed. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ I pray that every woman who doesn’t know boundaries will find their place! AMEN!!!!
Less than 5 minutes ago I was in bed having a pitty party. atm I prayed to God to release this depressed anxious feeling…He did. I proceeded to ask Him to reinforce His word thru an online sermon and he brought me here 💕💕 I cant ! He is too good
I experienced the same today. I prayed and God brought me to this message. This is A Word i needed!
That’s amazing 💕
Amen
Amen
Amen
“Sometimes you have to give up being relevant to be authentic!” 🙌🏽
Love this quote!
Whew 😥 Chile
Amen amen that me that me thank you lord this word was positive & powerful
Felt that
I felt that sis🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌
“A lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth.” ✨ This was everything I needed at this moment. 💜 There is a knowing that’s coming to me 🙌🏾
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Amen!!! That’s me that’s me that’s me!!! Thank you lord!!!!!
Amen thank you ! 🙏🏽🔥🙏🏽
Amen
❣️.... you’re not alone sis , be patient our time is coming soon ! Get ready
Amennnnn !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ... here in 2024 you still singing to a choir yearsss laterrrr ❤
"You cannot create boundaries if you do not know what you are protecting". I felt that.
Amen
Amen and Amen
Yes!!!
Amen
Amen 🙏🏾
“You cannot create boundaries if you do not know what you are protecting”
My!My!My… AMEN.
Indeed sis ❤️
Amen amen amen. What a beautiful message.
This got to me good...
This message bless my heart and definitely open my ears and eyes as to how I look at other women.
Mmmhhhmmm
“Just because you have a crown doesn’t mean that it’s a crown of honor.. this world is giving out all kinds of crowns but is Heaven honoring all these crowns that earth is giving out?”
Lord have mercy
That hit me too... 👊💥
Amen!
Amen
I believe that this message is more than a blessing for me. Setting boundaries is absolutely important for us cause it will help us grow and become who we supposed to be.
I’m working on setting boundaries and becoming a stronger version of myself. 🙏🏽
Hey you watching this ! You’ve GOT THIS GIRL !!! I know it can be hard sometimes to keep pushing !… to keep going but dang it sis your GOING ! And your doing a dang good job in your going ! I pray that we can be friends in this moment I’m that girl who feels she has none… and it can be hard & heartbreaking but girl it’s time you put yourself out there and take a chance!!! EVOLVE GIRL ! GET YOUR HOPES UP 🗣& PRAY ! With that being said cheers to NEW FRIENDS 🥂🥳🙌🏽🥰💕💕💕💕💕💕🔥🥳
Aww I love this comment! Cheers 🥂 🎉
@@Lifeofabundancee 🥰 hey boo !
Please...I NEED TO ME HOW AND WHEN I SHOULD ????? 😢
Ok I'm going cry this was so heartfelt and was made for me to find😢❤❤ God bless you
You don’t even know how needed this was for me! Thank you so much for your impactful words!! It so greatly appreciated ❤️❤️
this brought tears to my eyes, 19 years old just trying to find my way.. thank you! Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I’m glad this message got to you while you are still young
You got this baby girl! God got you
I have a 19-year-old in your same boat. Stay in faith and FOLLOW GOD, baby. You'll get there. 💖
God loves you so much, Kaiya! Just keep looking to Him, call out, and keep calling if you feel you have to. He’ll come get you!
You got this girl!
“Love without boundaries can create so much heartbreak and trauma. Love without boundaries will have you in relationship with someone who speaks negatively towards you because that love didn’t have boundaries.” 💞✨💖
Yes!
That was for me😭
@@motshedisimohlahloe1018 me too right now word!
Yep. Am learning to love myself enough with or without my husband. I love him but we didn't have boundaries and it's caused arguments and I want peace ☮️🕊️ I love my husband and I want us to work
Please God let me stay in the boundaries you have created for me
Amen Pastor Sarah Jakes has really touched my life in diffrent ways
She came for me! My everything. My past, my PRESENT but she also set me up to see a better future 💕 AMEN
Amen me too
Amen me as well
Amen
Amen
Amen
“A lack of boundaries may keep you in position but may also keep you from growth” 🥺❤️
I’m 23 Years Old. A New Mom, In A New City, I’m Am Out Of My Element & My Comfort zone But God Has Been Pushing Me To Become, He’s Triggering Me Into Healing, & He Brought Me Here To This Video Because THIS IS ME! I Have Been The Queen Of Many Things But God Is Calling Me To Be The Queen Of Boundaries & Forgiveness & Grace & It’s So Hard At 23, To Be Hurting & Healing All At The Same Time But THIS IS ME ! & I WILL SET BOUNDARIES SO I CAN RAISE MY SON & Continue Onto The Woman God Is Calling Me To Be. ! Thank You SJR ! I Love You
@MICKI PASSION Thank You I Love You❤️
My mother had me at your age! She went through the same journey and made it through with flying colors. So will you! ❤️
Amen 🙏🏽
You can do it gurrrlll! I'm a single mom of 3 and God has been showing off in my life once I put my complete faith, and trust in Him! He's got you!
God bless you little sis!💜💜💜💜
I named my daughter Vashti and she sent this message today because of the situation I am in today! God bless her and you Sarah Jakes Roberts for this message!
turning 19 in a week!
finding my spirituality.
finding out who i am, my purpose.
evolving into this amazing woman i am!
loving & getting to know myself before giving ME away!
i am saying this to say THIS MESSAGE WAS FOR ME! i love this woman 🥺
Keep going sis! ❤🙏
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Amen, I needed this keep me in prayer!!!!!
Amen that's me, that's me, that's me!!!!!
God bless you ! I am as well
"Love without boundaries can create so much heartbreak and trauma" "If you are going to be made in the image of God you are going to have boundaries too" A WORD!!!!!
Yesss
That me that's me thank you for this word🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🥰🙏🙏🙏
I AM becoming, and I can not wait to become the woman that God wants me to be. I am a woman of boundaries, respect, and intergrity. My past does not define me. My heartbreaks does not define. My rejects does not define me. & My pain does not define me. I am worthy, I am loved, and I am enough! 💕
Amen!
This spoke directly to my soul!!! Thank You Lord for this word!!!
It is NEVER about the other person. It is ALWAYS about self checking, self value, and remembering who's you are. Refuse to lower yourself to correcting another person over a liar.
As we’re becoming; may we bring every woman with us! May no woman be left behind!!✨♥️🙌🏾
Amen sis!
Amen
In Jesus name amen thank you!
Amen. Love this word!
"Its not how much you give, its how much you keep." NEEDED to hear that. Immensely.
I love to come to the comments section and read the empowering testimonies. I'm in a 17 year relationship and I've been married for 15 years, we have a beautiful family and my husband adores me, but recently I got off track and was seeking the attention of another man, because he said everything I wanted to hear and made me feel like I wanted to feel, I have now cut ties with that person, and learning to be grateful for the beautiful life and family God has made for me. Thank you God, you are my savior. Thank you God for guiding me and bringing me to such wonderful message. I love you God, amen 🙏 🙌 I give you all the glory and praise.
“It’s not about how much you give, it’s about how much you keep”
I needed to hear this. Sometimes we get so caught up doing things for other people and doing for others that we don’t keep much for ourselves and we starve the woman down on the inside of us that God needs us to feed. 🙌🏽 Thank you Jesus for this word. Pastor Sarah touched on so many things that I had been feeling but couldn’t quite put into words until now. ❤️
This part really touched my heart deeply. Whew
Amen
True sister
Girl she hit my soul with that I needed this message so bad.
That’s. ME!!!!!! AMEN 🙏🏽 GOD BLESS YOU. This was right on time .., valentines Day is one day away 2024 I needed this Lord Jesus
I was in bed halfway sleep and sick with a sick newborn baby. This word made me sit up in my bed. God bless you Sarah! Every woman needs this word. Thank you!
Feel better ❤️
She seems to get u moving I tell u that!!
God help me with the boundaries 😢
That’s me that’s me!
@@amla4258 Thanks Girl!
Im crying so much right now after listening to this. I needed this word and im so scared of the decisions that i have to make. Pray for me please for strength 🙏🏼
Praying for you sis. God is with you. Stay faithful and look to his word for guidance and support. 🙏🏾
Me too
I have really been fighting for a man even lowering my dignity thanks for search powerful word. Am going to create boundaries.
I’ve always been told I was attractive but my past relationships made me very insecure when it comes to other women, so I could never understand how I could be so beautiful and have so many good values about myself but was still cheated on by these men. It made me feel low in esteem. Then I start comparing myself to other women who they were cheating on. However, I’m still learning that these guys that I’ve been in a relationship with have self esteem issues themselves and they projected their insecurities onto me. I made them feel whole and they left me empty. I’m also learning and trying to heal from the threat and insecurities I have when it comes to other women because these men decided to cheat on me with them. They’re just as much a victim as I am. If I had created strong boundaries I would have NEVER allowed the attacks on my self-worth and esteem. Also my childhood trauma of sexual abuse played a major role in my self-esteem and the lack of protection that I had during the abuse. So boundaries have always been like a foreign language for me. God been working on me and these things for the past 2-3 years and I see him working. Give yourself grace when learning is my advice!
You are NOT alone🙏. We will see breakthrough ( Is.61:1-3)
This was me!
This is me currently and am trying not project what they do to me be about or more about them
I’m sorry y’all had to go through that 🥺 what help me with my self esteem Is not listen or worry what the world say you should look like or what man say you should look , focus on what god say about you and it’s challenging in the beginning but declare and speak affirmations over your life look in the mirror talk to yourself and embrace every little insecurity that you have . mentally chop down those lies that planted seeds in your head could have been a comment a family member could have said when you were little that stuck with you or your ex didn’t make you feel good enough . Chop it down with the truth you’re worthy you’re good enough you’re a masterpiece
Sending my prayers to you
Yes! I have to create boundaries so that I can see God! I’m willing to lose my seat at the table so that I can be one the God fearing woman I’m being called to be. Amen! I’m living in this moment right now… 🙏🏾
“You cannot have boundaries when you do not know what you are protecting.”
That might stick to me for a while
I definitely need to set boundaries on getting my rest, eating and being healthy, my thoughts, etc, it needs to change, lord I pray that you continue to work on me so that I can be the person you destined me to be.
Amen in the name of Jesus you’re her already speak it love
This is where I am in life too queen. At 33 I’m still trying to figure my like out. Boundaries is a must and I love what you’re doing. I ask God the same thing for my life… just to work on me to become who he would have me be🙏🏾God bless you and your journey queen on becoming the best version of whom you’re meant to be❤️
The greatest gift that God wants to give you is not something that everyone else sees, it's something that only You know.
NAY AND AMEN “
This
This is Amazing and must be repost appreciate you love 🥰💯😘
Amen, Amen, Amen. I needed this immensely today. God’s timing never ceases to amaze me 🙏🏾✨
“I’m not telling you to discard who you are, I’m telling you to embrace all that you are.”
This hit home
Im definitely in need of boundaries, I no longer can allow myself to settle for less....I feel encouraged and empowered to set all boundaries that are needed for me to become and grow
You got this sis!! Boundaries will be much easier after healing. Healing teaches you to love yourself 🥰
Amen!
You have to. Amen
I’m only 19 I’ve been hurt not only in my childhood, a story that I feel like I could help other women who are also rape/sexual assault survivors. Although Im transitioning into adulthood, in college I’ve become lost like many others. I’ve learned from this message that the previous growth I instilled in myself was not the growth I needed because I needed to create boundaries. I’m gonna rewatch to catch the good stuff I may have missed but thank youu I really needed this.
We are SURVIVOR
I would like to connect with you if possible
I’m 18 and same sis same. I relate to everything you said
Omg, you literally described me and my life right now. I am so glad we found this video! :)
This message is so nourishing. Its beautiful infusion, replenishment. Thank you Holy Spirit and Sarah for this 🤗
I use to have a potty party because I felt that I needed friends all the time to be happy , I even got angry with God for removing people and isolating me . I now know he wanted me to love myself and to know I’m in control of my happiness ❤ love this sermon
I was also like that and I was not even aware and God removed every person I was relaying on in my life fast forward to 2022 it was the best decision he made for me and I'm greatfull ❤️
Having a moment now 🙌🏾
That’s me!
same ❤
I don't and have not 🚫 involved my self with anyone that's in a relationship engaged not married unless it business. If I was truly on him we would have had sex ...note I'm not a whore like you sleeping with everything that has a pulse. Relationship/ friendship takes time to build it not an over night process.. you do greet meet and sleep with the person.( That nasty like you if you do that) . A women must know here value and worth what she want in a before she begins involve herself she should know how once in a man and a desires that she should give to God 🙏 a woman should not just settle for any man and you shouldn't have to run behind no man or anyone's boyfriend husband or or lover. You have to be desperate.
Amen! I’m 17, starting college, in a relationship… I’m scared of the future most of the time. My crown is in fear and has been for years..I’m gonna change that today. Pls pray for me🙏❤️
God did not give you a spirit of fear but of POWER AND OF LOVE AND OF A SOUND MIND. YOU GOT THIS AND YOU ARE GOING TO BE GREAT. HES GONNA BE THERE THE WHOLE WAY THROUGH. GOD BLESS YOU. 🎉 CONGRATULATIONS ❤❤
Dear Cece, I pray that God wraps you with and grant you insight into His assuring and reassuring love, to enable you to trust Him totally, even when the future doesn't seem clear in your eyes. He will lead you into the place that He has prepared for you.
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“Real power come from authenticity and having boundaries”!
“A lack of boundaries may keep you in position but it also keeps you from growth”
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Am happy I found you Sarah you speak to my soul everyday, I pray one day I will be stronger and not accept less than I deserve.
I am a woman in recovery and I am on a bus on my way to work sobbing because this ministry has touched my heart in such a profound way. Women in recovery many many times do not feel they gave any value we most times do not have good solid boundaries that protect us and we allow others to destroy the women God made us to be. I thank you I needed this today especially. God bless!!
Keep going sis!!! I see you .... with much love to you on this journey.
@@mariahwalker1137 thank you so much
You’re welcome 😇 if you love Sarah you should watch Brenè Brown and Mel Robbins as well. These women are all phenomenal.
I struggle with mental illness and these 3 ladies are my go to . I do my light work on my end , but the fire 🔥 they give . Wheeeeeew They set it off .
You keep riding Sis!!! ❤ read suggestion- Set Boundaries Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab
Thanks so much i needed this all my life .
This sermon feels like a letter that is written to me
Hey you, I am so greatful to God for your life and that of those young women you impact. God is so good. having you Say what you said during the sermon I felt so blessed.
@@lizaokie6357 Thank you Sissy... Stay Blessed❤️
The whole Bible was a message written for you child
Amen that’s me that’s me that’s me 🙏🏼
AMEN! I’m only 17 yrs old, but I want start to begin to become the other woman in me. I’m enlightened to accept myself and other women for who we are🙌🏿 I hear you 🥺
About 2 years ago I walked away from a toxic relationship from a person people respect in society. I knew personally I would never break boundaries I created and when this person threatened to break it over and over I walked away from everything that looked like “success and elevation” willing to heal and start all over again. It was indeed a Vashti moment. I later realized I was dealing with a covert narcissist and through much studying, therapy and allowing Jesus into the rooms of my life to heal, I am in a much better place and now married to my best friend in a very healthy relationship. Ladies, you are worth so much and we are on the road to becoming. Love you all and praying the best for everyone reading this.🤍
This is my word! God bless you Sarah 🙏🏻
I realized was dealing with one. And actually married to one . Have a child also so how do I get away ? Just file ..?
@@lotusvibration I’m so sorry you’re going through this! No one deserves such harsh treatment, manipulation, gaslighting and making you feel like a shadow of yourself! Please pray, see a therapist that is specialized in NPD and do what’s best for your mental health! Gods best for you does not involve abuse!
@ele I am in the same shoes however I am relying . Thank You for sharing your story ❤️
@@ntombikhumalo6397 one day at a time. Please educate yourself on NPD. No one deserves such inhumane treatment
AMEN!! ❤ Thank you, Father God. I have to thank you, Sarah. I came across your "Girl, Get up" video about 2 months ago, and it completely transformed my way thinking, or rather reinforced what I wanted to do and change in life and the way I needed to be done or said. Thank you GOD for always putting signs in front of me to let me know I am in the right path. I am nervous for the new, but I trust you God. Amen!
Amen,
I need better boundaries and not always be available to my new bf but prioritize myself and time alone with God.
Girl same. It’s hard but it’s worth it 🙏🏼
I’m literally in the same boat. I’ll be praying for you 🤍
Same here!’ From now on I am energy matching… you get what I receive.
Same here...
“I lay down the crown that other people have given me, and Lord, I pick up your crown!”
That intro !!! About being the other woman! Is a confirmation on a book that’s been sitting on my heart since 2017 that God reminded me to complete this year ! I was too ashamed to write about it.
We cancel shame. Honor your experience and God’s call. He got you and the audience ready to read, learn and be delivered through your telling. ❤️
Wow that’s my same story. I saw your comment and you too inspired me to move forward in what God wanted me to release in 2017 and I procrastinated all this time because of shame. I had to realize that what God was asking of me wasn’t all about me! God brought me through those trials so I can help someone else to get through as well by sharing and completing this book. I encourage you. Write the book 🙏🏽
Amen! That’s me that’s me that’s me!
I want to be the Queen of creating boundaries so that I can experience who God is calling me to be.
I want to be the Queen of Boundaries Lord give me the strength allow me to access the power you have placed in me
Amen 🙏
There's a KNOWING coming to you. There's a knowing developing down on the inside of You.
Focusing so much on yourself and improving your life in such a way that you don't compete with another woman but you embrace her and pray & hope that she is happy. Each and every one of us deserve to be happy. I am becoming that woman. Who uplifts others. I am becoming that woman who pours into other women and gets her strength from the Lord.
That’s ME THATS ME that’s MEEEE 🙌🏾 Amen 🙏🏾
Amen
I wish I could give this video a million thumbs up. It’s been saved in my “watch later” playlist and I’m grateful that The Most High allowed me to watch when He did. Boundaries are so essential to healing and self growth. I receive this message and the prayer. God bless you and all the women who see this video.
That’s me.
Just left a toxic relationship and praying God keep me strong enough to pull the other woman out of me 🙏
amen!!! this women has really changed my life she’s so relatable such a genuine soul!!
Agreed
I need to listen more .. she really helps me
THIS WAS SO SO GOOD!! Amen, Amen!!
Amen!! “ lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth.” Trust in HIM always, God respects our boundaries. Amen Lord knows I needed to hear this. 👏🏽
"God hep me a create a boundary on my mind, so that i can see clearly where I am supposed to be positioned" Amen🙏❤
I feel this message is for me. I’m in a relationship with a guy who says he’s Christian. We have so many disagreements lately because every weekend he wants to go out, get plastered drunk, and go to clubs and strip clubs with his friends. I told him how I felt but he cares more about the fun. Now that I’m getting closer to God I am having more problems with him. I know I am being called out of this relationship but I am so scared. I’ve liked him since middle school and now I’m in college. I can’t just leave, but I also can’t continuously get hurt every single weekend. I need prayer 💜
Let it go sis, God has way better set up for you. Just trust him.
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Sweetie I pray that you found, or are finding, the strength to leave. I know it’s been a long relationship but if you think about how important it is to please God, and as you draw closer to Him, pleasing people becomes less important. Praying for you.
The LORD will strengthen you and also help you to forgive yourself. We all have strengths and weaknesses but our weaknesses offer us the greatest opportunities for the LORD to use us and to show Himself the mightiest in our lives. Those weaknesses as we humbly surrender them & ourselves to His Protective Custody are like colorful accommodation metals on a soldiers uniform displaying the tests He's brought you through. They're honorable and not to shame you but actually to promote you for greatest in Him. He absolutely adores you don't give up you're a warrior in JESUS *
Write down want YOU value
And if he doesn’t align with your values you have to move forward
Yes im backkkkk for this message once again !!! I love this sermon and the word that was given !! One of my favorites !!!! 🤍🤍
I love Sarah. She's the spiritual sister we all need! God is doing his thing with her! ✨
Just because you have a crown doesn't mean that your crown is worthy of honor." So profound👏🙏
Jesus that one is priceless
"A lack of boundaries may keep you in position, but it also keeps you from growth." That line alone speaks volumes.
I needed to hear this more than I knew. As a woman that gives and leaves no room for herself, this message hit so close to home.
Thank you, God that I am on the road to becoming. I am thankful for this message because I am in a season where I need to create boundaries and in order to stand by those boundaries, I need to lay down the crown of the woman that I currently am to become the woman that God wants me to be. Amen! This message was everything and then some.
The word is alive and timeless your words continue to move my life lord thank you amen
I prayed a couple of days ago to God asking him to help me about a situation I’m in with a guy I think I like and then I stumbled to this😭😭😭😭 God is faithful. This is EVERYTHING i needed 😭😭😭😭
Thank you for being you! I am 8 months pregnant, a single mom and am recovering after being hit by a car while crossing the street. I've been battling between a dark and light place. This made me feel reconnected with my faith and I shed so many tears but it felt relieving instead of sad this time. As I bowed my head and closed my eyes to listen to the prayer an image of a sunflower popped in my head. Thank you for these videos you heled push me into a better space.
I hope you and baby are doing well today !!!!! Thank God
I am baddling people lieing on me here were i stay at
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BLESS U QUEEN I PRAY YOUR SITUATION OS BETTER AND YOUR CHILD HEALTHY...BUT GOD🙏
Boundaries then becoming. I need boundaries in all areas of my life
Everywhere! Thoughts, taking care of body as far as going to bed, my self talk and self care, my business, with my kiddos, with my friends.
Amen Sarah Jakes Roberts
Your My pastor sister a child Christ your blessings and you been speaking to me thank you I'm grateful amen
This was a different spin on Queen Vashti that I didn't know. However, this was exactly what I needed. I pray your new therapists keeps getting in your business because it is making me walk through mine. Love ya sis!!!!
I so agree! Sarah was all up in my business with this word and I definitely needed to hear it!
Big Facts lol
Go Vashti ❤ You
We have a lot of work to do this year,Pheew!! Boundaries! Boundaries! and more Boundaries!!
God make me the Queen of Revolution, where I can put on the type of Crown that only the Heavens can honor.😭🙏🏾👑 Amen.
Your ministry is making a divine impact on my life! Thank youuuuu soooo much for sharing your walk and walking in obedience!
Thankful I came across this sermon today!
She’s speaking what I’m going through now exactly everything about her past relationships mind you I’m 21 🥺😭😭I’m just crying in a place of peace and healing
I'm grateful to have heard, shared, and received this message. God is truly speaking through you. He knows exactly what we are in need of as the mighty women we are, wounded, tired, in transition and all. So thank you
AMEN AMEN AMEN...I'm going through a spiritual breakthrough and becoming the best version of myself that I`ve longed for in so long in different aspects of my life that I needed growth with and this was the the exact message and confirmation I needed to hear that I`m headed in the right direction...I'm not fully where I want to be but I'm happy where I've made progress where I longed to progress....Love you Sarah
Amen Jesus 🙏🏽 💕 Thank you for your transparency.
That's me sis... today in the morning a spirit of suicide attacked and even at church... I am in a process of changing my life from being broken to a queen and the self betrayal is on another level... this right here just freed me because truly boundaries are what I lack at.... Amen sister may God continue to keep you and keep helping us through you in Jesus's name.
God Bless you and keep you...You are worthy my Sister❤
Never take your life, beautiful! ✝️💜
All I can say is... every since I started watching you last year, I am becoming that woman you are talking about. Thank you so much 💜💪🏾💜
Amen…..I’m in a new city and feel totally lost with no boundaries. Depression has sunk and I sit on Fb all day looking at every one else live their lives. My day goes so fast and I’m getting nothing accomplished. I’m not living my purpose and I need to be. I need boundaries and I needed this message. Please pray for me!
I'm praying for you. Ask God for the strength to take baby steps, and as you step, be specific about what you want Him to do in your life. Say with specificity, God, remove xyz, increase xyz, support me as I xyz, and so on. Praying for and with you!💖
Gal get up
U can do this we are praying for you
Keep moving even if u hv to crawl keep moving. We got u
Girl you can do it 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. God has placed so much inside of you. Your past doesn’t define you. Your current situation does not define you! God is waiting on him to meet you !!! I will be praying with you !!!! Claiming the victory for you in Jesus name !
Amen! I receive this prayer in the name if Jesus ❤
This was everything I needed to hear… I just was broken up with for me enforcing my boundaries. He didn’t like the push back. I was told I was insecure because I didn’t like the actions of some female “friends”. I also wasn’t getting equal effort or the love and care I deserved… he left… I’ve been struggling for weeks to cope. But by God. I honored myself, I respected myself enough to stand up for what I felt was what I deserved. Glory to God, I asked for answers and this message was sent to me.
Been fighting isolation and that’s exactly where God has been trying to get me to be. 💜✨🙌🏽
Yes, that we where we get ready. Been there and it was actually heaven sent.
I'm also in isolation,it's for the glory of God I believe.
I am in isolation as well. It is beautiful. Christ is preparing us.
And sometimes God sees that YOU are ready to change and that man may not be, so He'll give him another woman that may was where you were with him YEARS ago, and get you out of there to prune you for your kingdom spouse!
I just went thru a divorce last year and watching this,
I realize that my ex husband is still in 2007 when we met, and I was ready for much more! God had to remove me, by way of him leaving, to free my hands for Greater!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
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I had ears to hear and eyes to see and changed. I'm going to work on being healed. Thank you, sis.
Yes Amen just got out of a Toxic Relationship because a lack of boundaries I needed to hear this🙏🙌 Thank You
I'm going through the same.
This just came in just when I'm asking my self why am I still hurting though I was the victim...then someone posted , "even if it was toxic ,what no one tells you is that you will still grief it"
Thanks ffg or letting god use you its slot about my life amen
Amen that's me that's me that's me
Amen
Thank you this morning, Sister Sarah, as a woman soon to be 64 years old, married for 40 years and Truly a Woman of God, I am grateful for this message. It reminds me that years ago I had to find that "other woman" inside of me too. And I did the work! Where were Women like you back in the 90's...I think they were finding themselves just like I did. Blessings to you always, Faye Healey Goggins
Amen! That’s me. I appreciate the woman that I see in the mirror everyday. You are a true servant of God Pastor Sara. You make my daddy proud of you.
That’s me!! I needed this at this moment and had my 16 y/o daughter listening as well. Thank you I’m hurting and I’m working on healing. All my relationships
It’s good to start them early
Amen amen & amen again !!!
Pastor Sarah… I never understood Queen Vashti quite like you shared with me tonight… thank you for sharing your message about boundaries! I am Minister DaNita, I am learning to deal with my boundaries…Amen❤️🩹🙏🏾❤️
Awesome word. ❤❤❤
Amen 🙏
Every time I search for a sermon to watch, you preach on the exact thing I will be wrestling with, all the time. ALL THE TIME.
This happens to me too
Amen
It's crazy how that happens, but I've learned to accept that it's God bringing me to each and every sermon. He literally speaks to me thru her.
Me too ❤️
" if there’s A women worried about college tell her help is on the way " me watching this was divine direction as am dealing with all the things said in this sermon. Thank you for sharing 💜
Amen. I remain expectant....
I AM THANK YOU
Amen Amen Amen.
Ceci est une réponse à mes questions, merci pour cet engagement message.
Que le Seigneur vous élève et continu de se révéler à vous Pasteur Sarah.
Qu'il vous protège vous et votre famille au nom de Yeshua.
I’m a woman who has no boundaries and now I have a mental idea of how important it is to have boundaries. And I thank Sarah Jakes Roberts for this seed. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ I pray that every woman who doesn’t know boundaries will find their place! AMEN!!!!
17:18 literally got me in tears! My God! Hallelujah! Your timing is perfect! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
The no edges took me out Pastor!!🤣😂🤣 I just LOVE how you teach.....come on!! PREACH!❤
That’s deep 😂😂
Amen 🙏 💙 that’s me! thank you lord for what you’re doing Moving how you want to move say what you want to say do what you want to do lord