I used to fall into that trap of comparing myself to others. Particularly, my peers, people I grew up with, or went to school with. Their lives seemed so perfect compared to mine, or it seemed on the surface that they had achieved more. What I learned is that what people outwardly project is not always the reality. You don't know what is going on behind closed doors. Your friend with the "perfect" life might be in a troubled marriage, have a problem child, be in heavy financial debt, have a job that does not fulfill them, or that is terribly stressful. They could be dealing with an illness that you are not aware of, or have a terrible relationship with a son/daughter/parent. There is the saying "the grass is always greener on the other side" and I really think that is true. No one has the perfect life and we all need to stop comparing ourselves to others and concentrate more on what we can do to make OUR lives more happy and fulfilling. As far as the video, Melissa, this was the best of both worlds. I tend to find your Japanese videos more relaxing for some reason, but sometimes while listening, my mind will wander and I'll wonder..."what is she saying?" hehe. So, the English videos are much appreciated because then I know what you are speaking about. I hope you will continue to make videos in both languages, but this was a very enjoyable change to listen to you go back and forth between languages. OMG, I wrote a book length War and Peace comment! Sorry for that. :)
Hey, don’t be sorry! Thank you so much for this lovely comment☺️ I totally agree with you. What seems to be “the perfect life” is often very superficial. We all need to find out what makes OUR life happier!
Melissa maintains a healthy relationship with her YT community & subscribers through making a reply on each comment posted , which other channels, do not. Keep it up ☺️☺️
im so happy to see all these youtubers supporting our community. sometimes, even if you're not being attacked directly, the discrimination can still be all around you. so this kind of content really helps me. thank you so much.
I'm always blaming myself (for not doing enough exercise, not reading great authors enough, not working enough etc.) in order to be a better version of myself. And I think the key is not to persuade yourself that you've already achieved your ideal but to do all what you can to achieve it ! This would make people more confident about themselves ! 😊
Your compassion and positivity are a breath of fresh air. It's so impressive how you switch effortlessly between Japanese and English and no matter which language you speak your genuine nature shines through. I hope people who are feeling down or anxious find this wonderful video. There will be 10k that have discovered your amazing channel very soon! :)
Your videos are so relaxing whenever I go to sleep. Once I started listening to you, I immediately go to sleep right away lol. Anyways keep up with the good work on your channel!! (By the way your gorgeous, I mean your BEAUTIFUL lol😊) take care!!
![[JPN]ASMR | Gentle Mic Brushing🎙 | Whispering positive affirmations](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/_M8rEcoRG3Y/mqdefault.jpg)
this is how i can tell you grew up in australia and not japan
全ての言葉が、とってもとっても伝わりました！！原稿の様な物を見ずに、ずっと目を見て話して下さったので伝わったのだと思います。とても穏やかな気持ちになれました！！
この動画は、私にとって神動画です！！
素敵な動画をありがとうございます！！
温かいお言葉ありがとうございます😭🥰
精神的につらい出来事の連続で、聴きながら泣いてしまいました。優しくて温かい言葉をありがとうございます(; ;)
ニルヴァーナさんにとって、今日が昨日より少しでも良い日になることを祈っています。コメントいただきありがとうございました！
とても心が楽になれました😭😭😭
励ましていただきつつ、癒していただいたので、とてもリラックスできました！ありがとうございます！
こういう心持ちをもっと若い時代に持てていたら、また違った景色を見ていたかもしれない。
しかし経験を経て気付けたのなら、それはそれでアリ、と思いたい。
Melissaさんの言葉を、自らに向けて「私は、私の事を見捨てない。」と置き換えられたのなら、その人は立ち止まってもまた前に進める人じゃないかな。
（あと、破裂音？が聴いていて心地良いです。滑舌が良いからでしょうか？）
おっしゃる通りです！自分はいつでも自分自身の味方であり続け、決して見捨てず、自らの可能性を信じることが大切なんだと思います。
コメントいただきありがとうございました☺️
日本ではあんまり LGBT のことをメディアなどでは見ないから、こうゆうのをやってくれてありがとう :)
見てくださってありがとうございます☺️
いつも癒されていたのに今日は元気まで頂いて自然と涙が零れました。
本当にいつもありがとうございます。
メリッサさんもどうかご無理だけはなされずに。
陰ながら応援しております。
優しいお言葉ありがとうございます！どうぞ良い一日をお過ごしください😌
優しい言葉ってやっぱ温かくなるね〜
何よりです〜☺️
I used to fall into that trap of comparing myself to others. Particularly, my peers, people I grew up with, or went to school with. Their lives seemed so perfect compared to mine, or it seemed on the surface that they had achieved more. What I learned is that what people outwardly project is not always the reality. You don't know what is going on behind closed doors. Your friend with the "perfect" life might be in a troubled marriage, have a problem child, be in heavy financial debt, have a job that does not fulfill them, or that is terribly stressful. They could be dealing with an illness that you are not aware of, or have a terrible relationship with a son/daughter/parent. There is the saying "the grass is always greener on the other side" and I really think that is true. No one has the perfect life and we all need to stop comparing ourselves to others and concentrate more on what we can do to make OUR lives more happy and fulfilling. As far as the video, Melissa, this was the best of both worlds. I tend to find your Japanese videos more relaxing for some reason, but sometimes while listening, my mind will wander and I'll wonder..."what is she saying?" hehe. So, the English videos are much appreciated because then I know what you are speaking about. I hope you will continue to make videos in both languages, but this was a very enjoyable change to listen to you go back and forth between languages. OMG, I wrote a book length War and Peace comment! Sorry for that. :)
Hey, don’t be sorry! Thank you so much for this lovely comment☺️ I totally agree with you. What seems to be “the perfect life” is often very superficial. We all need to find out what makes OUR life happier!
打ちひしがれてどうしようもないとき、ここに来ます。
ただの才色兼備ではなくメリッサさんの温情、温かみを感じられて、非常に良い動画になりましたね🌟
ありがとうございます☺️
still one of my favorite videos ever. i hope youre doing well. thank you for everything. 💗
Melissaさんの言葉で救われました。ありがとうございます。😭✨
少しでも力になれていれば嬉しいです！
僕も望んでいた動画が意外に早くアップしてもらえて嬉しいよmelissa ちゃん😄みんな元気がでること間違いないなしだよ、僕も君を応援します。ありがとう😘
ありがとうございます！少しでも力になれていれば嬉しいです😌
Melissa maintains a healthy relationship with her YT community & subscribers through making a reply on each comment posted , which other channels, do not. Keep it up ☺️☺️
I’m just so grateful for all your support! Thank you for this lovely comment🥰
貴女に出会えてよかったです､､､､
大好き。本当に癒されてます。
支えになってくれてありがとう🥰
少しでも力になれていれば、本当に嬉しい限りです！ありがとうございます☺️
im so happy to see all these youtubers supporting our community. sometimes, even if you're not being attacked directly, the discrimination can still be all around you. so this kind of content really helps me. thank you so much.
Love is love and all human beings are free and equal! Happy Pride🌈🥰
自分の代わりはいない、その通りですね 自分の人生の主役は自分
意味ある一秒一時を過ごしたいとあらためて思いました
おっしゃる通りです。一瞬一瞬を大切にしたいですね☺️
他人は愛せるのに自分は愛せなかったけど、俺は今日から自分を愛すぞ。
と、思った…
プライド月間、教えてくれてありがとうございます。
自分は、自分自身の一番の味方いてあげなくてはですね！
ご視聴ありがとうございます☺️
Melissaさんのリップノイズ囁きがめちゃくちゃイイです。ほんと癒されますし、好きです🥰
聞いてて健やかに寝れます、、、😴
リラックスしていただけて嬉しいです！ありがとうございます☺️
メリッサさんの優しく温かい言葉に力を貰いました🥰✨ありがとうございます😭頑張れそうです⤴️✨
あとめっちゃ可愛いです💕
少しでも力になれたようで何よりです！ありがとうございます☺️
ほんとに幸せな気持ちになる🥰今回に限らずまたこういった前向きになれるような動画出して欲しいなあ..🥲♥️
もちろんです〜ご視聴ありがとうございます☺️
I'm always blaming myself (for not doing enough exercise, not reading great authors enough, not working enough etc.) in order to be a better version of myself.
And I think the key is not to persuade yourself that you've already achieved your ideal but to do all what you can to achieve it ! This would make people more confident about themselves ! 😊
Exactly! We are all full of possibilities☺️ Thank you so much for your comment!
やった＼（*´∇｀*）／ﾔｯﾀ-♪✨melissaさん✨👌素敵な動画ありがとうです✨リラックスして聞いてますよ🌟いつも素敵な声で癒されてます✋梅雨🐸☔体調気をつけてくださいまし💤🌈
ありがとうございます！お互い体調には気をつけましょう😌
はい😊melissaさん✨🌈返信嬉しいです👌いっぱい応援します(*^^*)
Your compassion and positivity are a breath of fresh air. It's so impressive how you switch effortlessly between Japanese and English and no matter which language you speak your genuine nature shines through. I hope people who are feeling down or anxious find this wonderful video. There will be 10k that have discovered your amazing channel very soon! :)
Aww thank you so much! I’m just so happy to see this community grow and really grateful for all your support🥰
素敵なASMRありがとうございます！
ご視聴いただきありがとうございます☺️
ハイッ寝っ転がってます。
はい〜メッチャりらっくすしています。
貴女も輝いていますよ。お化粧も薄めに感じます。カワイイなぁ〜。
リラックスしていただけて何よりです😌
プライド月間を初めて知りました
勉強になります
優しくも力強い言葉に心震えました
（ASMRなのに！）
本当にありがとうございます！
ありがとうございます！少しでもお力になれていれば嬉しいです☺️
前向きになれる言葉って自分を改められて考えさせられますよね👏
自分にも回りの人も大切にしなきゃって😃
話変わるんですけど…
FF7リメイクのインターグレートはプレイしました？💡
おっしゃる通りですね☺️
残念ながらPS5がまだ手に入っていないので、しばらく先になりそうです〜
@@MelissadoesASMR PS5が待ち遠しいですね😅
FF9のアニメ化とかの話も出てて色々注目ですね😆
Melissaさんのゲーム配信とかも見てみたいかもです👏✨
Thank you so much Melissa this is such a beautiful video 💕🥺
Thank you for watching🥰
Your videos are so relaxing whenever I go to sleep. Once I started listening to you, I immediately go to sleep right away lol. Anyways keep up with the good work on your channel!! (By the way your gorgeous, I mean your BEAUTIFUL lol😊) take care!!
I’m so glad to help you fall asleep☺️ Thank you for watching!
Hello
また素敵なリップノイズの囁き声に癒されたと共に、少し気持ちが楽になりました。ありがとうございます😊
何よりです！ありがとうございます☺️
First like ✌🏾
Yay! Thank you☺️
You're so gorgeous 😍😍
Aww thank you!
こんなに心に響くasmrは初めてです。ありがとうございます🎵
嬉しいです！ありがとうございます☺️
どんな髪型も似合いますね☺
癒しをありがとうございます！
ありがとうございます！😳
言葉に気持ちが入っていて、とても癒されました♪
ありがとうございます😭💕
こちらこそご視聴ありがとうございます🥰
あなた顔がかわいい
😳
Aquí los que no ablan inglés y japonés XD
Hola🥰
登録者もうすぐ1万人になりそうですね！😳👏
1万人記念としてにQ＆A動画を見てみたいです✨
気づけば9000人、本当にびっくりです😳
Q&A動画撮ってみたいです！
@@MelissadoesASMR ぜひぜひ！！募集するならたくさん質問しますよ！✊
🤗🎧😌😌
☺️☺️😴
購読者数がだんだん多くなります。 おめでとうございます^^チャンネル繁盛してください眠れない時によく見たり聞いたりする映像です。 ありがとうございます～👍😄
嬉しいです！ありがとうございます☺️
omg you like Muse ❤️
😳😳🥰
今夜は熟睡できます😴😴😴
😴😴😴
Very beautiful.
Thank you!!!
素敵です！
ありがとうございます☺️
Allo! :)
Salut!☺️
Nooooo👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻