To be honest I just ride the flow, if she push I push and if she pull I pull and if she ignore me or belittle me then she doesn't deserve me and I walk away
I just wanna say this I get that there are guys that pretend to be nice guys cause they want something, but there are guys who are actually nice guys too
Rejection is not the worst thing to happen. If it's not the right guy approaching charges could be the worst thing, harassment/false allegations of r&÷$. Been there done that, im good. Part two - Chad, pump and dump. Last part, why play a game, play the video games if men want to play games.
HEY MARITZA,YOU MADE SOME GOOD POINTS,BUT THE NICE GUY WILL ALWAYS LOSE,WOMEN WILL ALWAYS GO FOR THE GHETTO BUMS WHO TREAT THEM LIKE GARBAGE.I SEE IT EVERY DAY.IM SURE YOU DO TOO.
The book " No more Mr. Nice Guy". Was a good read. Bottom line in the book, nice guys do nice things for a woman and assume they will be nice back. If you do not ask for what you want and need. For god sake do not, do not, "pout" if you donot ask and are not receiving! Women want to please and do not read minds. Best of luck!
Dearest Maritza...how can you even say stuff so fantastic... "Don't see her as the prize...because the real prize...is you." I have just one thing to say...thank you, thank you...and thank you...I am going to do exactly that. I just love you so much...Stanley ❤
She must earn everything you give her. In a boys' baseball game, they gave trophies to everyone, the winners and the losers. The trophies went in the trash because they were worthless because they didn't earn them.
To my dearest most precious Maritza... I have never heard anything so beautiful...never ever... "You are the flow...and I follow you." I have three words for you... ...yes yes, and yes... I love you...but you know that already... Stanley ❤
To my dearest most precious Maritza...these words are so beautiful...I don't even know what to say... And now...I would like to ask you a question...a deep question... ...❤️
Great video, you seem to know exactly what advice I need. I always over think too much and that's way i still not tell her yet , so for example, telling her we have a lot in common do you want to be my girl ? should be enough ? and i asume better tell her in person instead of a text message ? By the way you look amazing in this dress
Thank you for your special words 😘 Tell her , " hi beautiful, how about if we do something just you and me this weekend, 'because The more I get to know you , the more sure i become of how much we have in common ,and I like you , how do you feel about that ?" Good luck my love ❤️
i will always disagree don't resonate with this at all because i think being nice is not wrong at all to me i think being nice is right nobody can't not convince me otherwise i just don't care what nobody say but at the sametime i respect your point of view beliefs even tho i don't resonate with it
Haha Maritza, I had to learn these things through the years. I took on a lot of my mothers traits which isn't a bad thing. My mother is a wonderful person. But I've had to learn that being to sweet will not get you anywhere as a man. Being to nice will only get you walked on. And not telling a women your intentions will get you frienzoned. All hard lessons I've had to learn by myself without the internet. I even had a girl way back ask me if I was gay once. That was embarassing. Talk about a blow to your manlyhood. Here I thought I was being respectful and trying to get to know her first but not making any moves. She was used to guys moving quick lol. There's a fine line there that you have to learn. I hate the whole "nice guy" deal on the internet because I think it confuses a lot of dudes. It does have some truth in it but it can be taken the wrong way. To be honest, I think the internet has convoluted the thoughts of a lot of men. You have guys saying just don't give a crap about her or what she's doing and she will fall in line. That's the player. Then you have the 1%ers saying you have to make yourself the man by getting rich and getting muscles etc. There are other ideas to. I've watched all these to try and learn what I did wrong over the years. You know what's helped me the most, is just listening to women. My brain works in a fix it mode. So often times I find it really hard to listen to women. But once I sat and started listening, I started to understand women a little better. I went on a rant again I apoligize. Very good video. Thank you Maritza!
@@smiles7631 The problem is not the problem, the problem is how the problem affects her. When listening, I tried to always ask if they want a solution or just for me to listen.
I been through it over years man a women won't say she doesn't like me or they won't say nothing at all to me it's like a mind game a jedi mind trick if u get what I mean I message a couple friends on Facebook Messenger they didn't say nothing to me and I speak to them in Spanish they still didn't say nothing to me I was hurt by that but I'm over it tho I when on with my day I stand tall and strong have to keep on moving on and stay strong and move forward.
To be honest I just ride the flow, if she push I push and if she pull I pull and if she ignore me or belittle me then she doesn't deserve me and I walk away
I respect that thought !
I just wanna say this I get that there are guys that pretend to be nice guys cause they want something, but there are guys who are actually nice guys too
Nice Guys is different from Kind Guy. Nice Guys means "hidden agenda".
Very nice message
Rejection is not the worst thing to happen. If it's not the right guy approaching charges could be the worst thing, harassment/false allegations of r&÷$. Been there done that, im good. Part two - Chad, pump and dump. Last part, why play a game, play the video games if men want to play games.
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We should love women for their capacities and the way they treat us. Well said!
Thanks for taking the time to watch and relate !
I think there is a general misconception about what a nice guy is...definitely between what women consider nice guys.
Thanks Dr, for that input 🙏🏻
HEY MARITZA,YOU MADE SOME GOOD POINTS,BUT THE NICE GUY WILL ALWAYS LOSE,WOMEN WILL ALWAYS GO FOR THE GHETTO BUMS WHO TREAT THEM LIKE GARBAGE.I SEE IT EVERY DAY.IM SURE YOU DO TOO.
Helmet 🤦🏼♀️
The book " No more Mr. Nice Guy". Was a good read. Bottom line in the book, nice guys do nice things for a woman and assume they will be nice back. If you do not ask for what you want and need. For god sake do not, do not, "pout" if you donot ask and are not receiving! Women want to please and do not read minds. Best of luck!
Thank you for sharing
Dearest Maritza...how can you even say stuff so fantastic...
"Don't see her as the prize...because the real prize...is you."
I have just one thing to say...thank you, thank you...and thank you...I am going to do exactly that.
I just love you so much...Stanley ❤
You're so special Stanley 😘 the love is mutual! Thank you for your kindness
She must earn everything you give her. In a boys' baseball game, they gave trophies to everyone, the winners and the losers. The trophies went in the trash because they were worthless because they didn't earn them.
Well said 👏🏻
Men still need the right signals from women. Men make the offer and expect a reaction from women. If this doesn't happen, men would lose interest
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There's a distinction between a,"nice guy", and a gentleman...
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To my dearest most precious Maritza...
I have never heard anything so beautiful...never ever...
"You are the flow...and I follow you."
I have three words for you...
...yes yes, and yes...
I love you...but you know that already...
Stanley ❤
What comes out from your heart Stanley is even more beautiful to me 😘
To my dearest most precious Maritza...these words are so beautiful...I don't even know what to say...
And now...I would like to ask you a question...a deep question...
...❤️
@@stanley_looby😮
Always ask ! If I can respond, I will
Its best not to take advise from women about dating. You have no idea and change your mind constantly.
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Great video, you seem to know exactly what advice I need. I always over think too much and that's way i still not tell her yet , so for example, telling her we have a lot in common do you want to be my girl ? should be enough ? and i asume better tell her in person instead of a text message ? By the way you look amazing in this dress
Thank you for your special words 😘
Tell her , " hi beautiful, how about if we do something just you and me this weekend, 'because The more I get to know you , the more sure i become of how much we have in common ,and I like you , how do you feel about that ?"
Good luck my love ❤️
You're right on; great video Maritza 👍🏻🙂
Thank you my sweet friend 😘
Un buon video! Il tuo vestito ti sta benissimo e tu sei mozzafiato Maritza 🥰
Mi John ! Tan bello. Siempre con tus flores primito mío 😘
@Soulbooklet 😘 🤗
Amores. Tanto tiempo !
Amores ☀️☀️
She seems peaceful and reminds me of Dora the Explorer as an adult.
😂 so cute ! Thank you
Some wisdom I've never thought of before in this. Thank you, M
Always here for you 😘
Maritzita...ojalá esa clase de hombre encuentre la persona indicada 😊
Mi María bella ❤️
i will always disagree don't resonate with this at all because i think being nice is not wrong at all to me i think being nice is right nobody can't not convince me otherwise i just don't care what nobody say but at the sametime i respect your point of view beliefs even tho i don't resonate with it
You haven't even watched it
There's much confusion over nice guy vs. kind guy vs. good guy. Calls for some intense study.
Haha Maritza, I had to learn these things through the years. I took on a lot of my mothers traits which isn't a bad thing. My mother is a wonderful person. But I've had to learn that being to sweet will not get you anywhere as a man. Being to nice will only get you walked on. And not telling a women your intentions will get you frienzoned. All hard lessons I've had to learn by myself without the internet. I even had a girl way back ask me if I was gay once. That was embarassing. Talk about a blow to your manlyhood. Here I thought I was being respectful and trying to get to know her first but not making any moves. She was used to guys moving quick lol. There's a fine line there that you have to learn.
I hate the whole "nice guy" deal on the internet because I think it confuses a lot of dudes. It does have some truth in it but it can be taken the wrong way. To be honest, I think the internet has convoluted the thoughts of a lot of men. You have guys saying just don't give a crap about her or what she's doing and she will fall in line. That's the player. Then you have the 1%ers saying you have to make yourself the man by getting rich and getting muscles etc. There are other ideas to. I've watched all these to try and learn what I did wrong over the years. You know what's helped me the most, is just listening to women. My brain works in a fix it mode. So often times I find it really hard to listen to women. But once I sat and started listening, I started to understand women a little better. I went on a rant again I apoligize. Very good video. Thank you Maritza!
Thank you for sharing your journey, it sounds like you've learned a lot❤️😘
@@smiles7631 The problem is not the problem, the problem is how the problem affects her. When listening, I tried to always ask if they want a solution or just for me to listen.
the word 'nice guy' lost its meaning honestly haha
Give it a few years and the term ‘good guy’ will also.
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I been through it over years man a women won't say she doesn't like me or they won't say nothing at all to me it's like a mind game a jedi mind trick if u get what I mean I message a couple friends on Facebook Messenger they didn't say nothing to me and I speak to them in Spanish they still didn't say nothing to me I was hurt by that but I'm over it tho I when on with my day I stand tall and strong have to keep on moving on and stay strong and move forward.
You need someone clear ! If she doubts or doesn't respond then go to the next one !
@Soulbooklet right exactly I know right yup u are right about this!!!💯
Awesome
🌹hope you enjoy
@ I love you babe❤️❤️❤️🫶💍
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Sound effect is kind of loud
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+1 respect her for her big brain and big heart over the T & A okay buena noche
Muy bien amigo 😂👏🏻🌹
PSS ~ check the title spelling 3 Mistakes Nice “Guys” caught that on the scrolling
Your always looking out for me 😘😘
Wut r dey?
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so annoying!
Explain?