*1-to-1 Coaching Information: For Those Interested in Working Together* I really love shooting these videos and I appreciate the love and support I receive. Unfortunately, I must turn away the majority of people who want to work with me. I have very limited availability and can only support a limited amount of people. My coaching is about long-term change and deep structural transformation. Complex issues can not be resolved in one or two hours. That simply doesn't work. I'm interested in working with people who have a deep commitment to their long-term development. *This is not for everyone.* Even if you resonate with many of my videos, we still might not be the best match for working together. You can find the current details about my program + pricing in the description of my calendar (link is down below). *Do not book if you are not serious about working with me and making deep long-term and structural changes. This is strictly for people who are serious about going deep.* *Apply to work 1-to-1 with me here (serious applicants only):* www.lucassegeren.com/coaching
In every friendship I have ever had I have always been the giver without receiving much. I couldn’t sit still. I was always going and giving and putting myself in situations where I over extended myself. I’m not saying I am anywhere close to healed, but I’m a hell of a lot farther than I used to be.
I could cry 😢,remembering how I would bake cupcakes 🧁and take them to my friend’s homes along with beautiful ❤Valentine’s cards….Only to be treated like I was inconveniencing them!😢
But God is so good! I am now a happily married woman for 43 years with beautiful , loving sons and soooo many grandchildren that love and adore me. 🎉🎉🎉
At 63 I am FINALLY seeing the truth about myself….lt all has to do with being treated badly by both of my parents. I was literally found by the railroad tracks as a baby early one morning and found by the police.
jeez i need a version of this video for the other side of the spectrum- for the avoidants/ people who attract the over-givers. i keep finding myself in this situation- with people who want to help me, be there for me, or wait for me to do better. even when i flat out tell them i can’t promise any other kind of relationship and am not able to reciprocate, they say it’s fine even though i can feel that its not. and then i feel guilty for wanting to cut it off, like im making a paternalistic decision for them for their sake, which seems wrong. so the kind thing to do is cut it off. but then i feel im repeating the avoidant cycle by running away. oy vey 😅
I like your videos and I appreciate you. Sometimes I avoid you because you feel like a critical internal voice to me sometimes but that's my perception. I don't mean to say that about you.
Hi Lucas! Following you and very impressed with each video cast…I signed up for coaching, but was not fully in agreement with Terms of Service and Privacy notice. I’m , terribly sorry , but I wish you all the very best…from the Western Canadian Rockies,
And as I sat through the rest of the video I feel so gently called out 😂 .. but in a good way! Very good reminders, I was talking to a friend about some of these things, but also need to adhere to myself fr. The goal is to go into the 30’s having a lot of these tools already memorized so I feel more prepared for the coming decades 🫶🏽 very good stuff! I wish more ppl talked about these things but I enjoy listening to the little talks and learning to adhere to my own journey and healing ❤️🩹
That's a big topic, but one very fundamental thing is to create an emotionally safe context and be an emotionally safe person for them to open and share with. Gently bring these things to their attention in an open and compassionate way
*1-to-1 Coaching Information: For Those Interested in Working Together*
I really love shooting these videos and I appreciate the love and support I receive. Unfortunately, I must turn away the majority of people who want to work with me. I have very limited availability and can only support a limited amount of people.
My coaching is about long-term change and deep structural transformation. Complex issues can not be resolved in one or two hours. That simply doesn't work.
I'm interested in working with people who have a deep commitment to their long-term development. *This is not for everyone.*
Even if you resonate with many of my videos, we still might not be the best match for working together.
You can find the current details about my program + pricing in the description of my calendar (link is down below).
*Do not book if you are not serious about working with me and making deep long-term and structural changes. This is strictly for people who are serious about going deep.*
*Apply to work 1-to-1 with me here (serious applicants only):* www.lucassegeren.com/coaching
In every friendship I have ever had I have always been the giver without receiving much. I couldn’t sit still. I was always going and giving and putting myself in situations where I over extended myself. I’m not saying I am anywhere close to healed, but I’m a hell of a lot farther than I used to be.
I could cry 😢,remembering how I would bake cupcakes 🧁and take them to my friend’s homes along with beautiful ❤Valentine’s cards….Only to be treated like I was inconveniencing them!😢
But God is so good! I am now a happily married woman for 43 years with beautiful , loving sons and soooo many grandchildren that love and adore me. 🎉🎉🎉
Never set yourself on FIRE 🔥 to WARM OTHERS!!
finally realizing I was seeking other peoples approval was a big thing for me to finally realize
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This is probably the most valuable video I’ve ever watched, genuinely thank you
Haha thank you for the love ❤ glad it was helpful for you
@@lucas_segeren what kind of meditation do you suggest for someone just starting to do this consciousness work
@@bray01239 Vipassana
You’re playing a role in saving my soul. God bless, man
Thanks, this explains a lot of my suffering
wowww your amazing you made me open my eyes and my heart chakra felt spoken too thank you for your wisdom 🙏🏽
So glad!
I'm Currently Working Through This.
I'm Learning To Self-Affirm My Inner Child, She Be Wilding.
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Thank you very much, I be going throught these too its like you know every answer of my life right now
At 63 I am FINALLY seeing the truth about myself….lt all has to do with being treated badly by both of my parents. I was literally found by the railroad tracks as a baby early one morning and found by the police.
Greetings from Germany my friend you help a lot of people in the world thanck you for your videos and keep going you gonna go far !!!!
So nice of you ❤
I needed to hear this, for fork’s sake, God help me inscribe it into my bones and blood
jeez i need a version of this video for the other side of the spectrum- for the avoidants/ people who attract the over-givers. i keep finding myself in this situation- with people who want to help me, be there for me, or wait for me to do better. even when i flat out tell them i can’t promise any other kind of relationship and am not able to reciprocate, they say it’s fine even though i can feel that its not. and then i feel guilty for wanting to cut it off, like im making a paternalistic decision for them for their sake, which seems wrong. so the kind thing to do is cut it off. but then i feel im repeating the avoidant cycle by running away. oy vey 😅
Thanks for sharing
Very valuable video❤
Thank you
I like your videos and I appreciate you. Sometimes I avoid you because you feel like a critical internal voice to me sometimes but that's my perception. I don't mean to say that about you.
the internal voice we need but not the one we (think we) deserve
Hi Lucas! Following you and very impressed with each video cast…I signed up for coaching, but was not fully in agreement with Terms of Service and Privacy notice. I’m , terribly sorry , but I wish you all the very best…from the Western Canadian Rockies,
I'm not quite sure what you're talking about. I never sent anyone anything in regards to Terms of Service or any Privacy Notice. Thanks for the love
Another banger (:
Unrelated question, what do you film on?? Your videos be lookin so crisp !!!
Sony a6100
@@lucas_segerenah makes sense! ty for sharing !
And as I sat through the rest of the video I feel so gently called out 😂 .. but in a good way! Very good reminders, I was talking to a friend about some of these things, but also need to adhere to myself fr. The goal is to go into the 30’s having a lot of these tools already memorized so I feel more prepared for the coming decades 🫶🏽 very good stuff! I wish more ppl talked about these things but I enjoy listening to the little talks and learning to adhere to my own journey and healing ❤️🩹
@@railabeouf That sounds like a great goal :) Thank you for sharing
How do you help a partner who overhelps you and doesn't show clearly their needs?
That's a big topic, but one very fundamental thing is to create an emotionally safe context and be an emotionally safe person for them to open and share with. Gently bring these things to their attention in an open and compassionate way
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Thanks for all the love :)