not well, i imagine. as someone who had a mother like this (though, this is coming from an afab perspective), i can tell you she would quickly realise that, no matter the gender or sex, her son's romantic partner will take attention away from her and she wouldn't be happy with that. mine was mildly homophobic - lots of microaggressions, but wouldn't say an outright slur - and she really tried to act like she supported me even though she clearly didn't. that's because mother's like my own and like kelly are likely narcissists, the world must see them as just the best and most loving parent in the world even if the children they're actually parenting hate them and want nothing to do with them anymore. so she'd most likely say she's supportive for the brownie points, but then be clearly unsupportive in her actions
I want someone to sit Kelly down and ask what is so different about Matt's maternal and paternal relationships that you think its normal to act like this
There was a clip where Matt was about to get dressed, and his mother looked at him half-dressed and said "hubba hubba". And that woman MEANT it, it was so uncomfy.
Imagine if a dad checked out his half-dressed daughter grooming in the mirror and said that. He'd be designated a perv and it wouldn't be allowed on the tube. It would be considered sexual abuse.
whats really sad about relationships like that is that when she dies, hes literally not gonna have anybody left, and he will either mentally break down into a depression, or become angry, sour, and probably predatory towards women in search of a new “complete” support-system…
Best way to keep myself breathing when things are at their darkest.... 🦆 If I'm going to give up and let the Miserable Ones win .... I'm grateful to be lucky enough to have my hubby and son to live for in the gray- dark grey in-between times... But in those pitch Black- times ...feel like my mere existence could be bringing my loved ones down into Hell with me-times Spite has kept me breathing long enough to get back up😅😢😅
Kim dodged the BIGGEST bullet. Matt had the opportunity to move to Texas with her for a temporary work assignment, zero things holding him back except for his attachment to Kelly. He didn't go and Kim almost instantly lost all feeling for him, clearly. He didn't even bother to visit her for like the first three months she was there.
If it’s any consolation, it’s not *totally* a scam! Is it usually advertised to “melt fat” when it 100% doesn’t do that? Yes. But they do actually have benefits for specific health issues, so at least it’s not a useless product that exists for the sake of making money :D still sucks that they ARE used as a scam though.
I was a huge hater against pet strollers until my dog got old and couldn't make it on her walks anymore and seeing how happy she looked being able to see the park again made my day She would be wheeled to the park, have a wee run around on the grass then nap in her stroller on the way back
I'm afraid the reflection she has done isn't so much "I need to stop smothering my son because it's bad for him," and more "I need to have grandkids, and the only way to do that is to change the way I interact with my son." I'm afraid she'll back off just enough for him to find a wife and for his wife to get pregnant, but then she'll go back to her old ways because by that point it's too late for the lady to leave. Hopefully she creates lasting change, but the fact that when she talks about doing it, it's always couched in her talk about grandkids makes me worry about that.
if i were the wife in that situation, i would make him sign a page that says "i can say no to your mother entering this house at any time wihout reasons provided" (but ti be fair i would never marry him in the first place lol, it would be such a toxic family dynamic to be dragged into!)
My thoughts exactly. She is hoping for a temporary womb, not for him to find a partner he can move on with in his life. I hope that he doesn't have kids unless he does therapy and goes no contact with his mother as it would be subjecting a new generation to needless trauma.
I wonder if she would be the same if he finally came out and got a boyfriend. Would she act just as competitive with a man as she has been with his girlfriends?
Another one of the families on the show is a gay man and it’s still so unhinged- the guy and his partner have broken up before because of his mother and his mother believes the partner is “toxic”
honestly, i'm sure kelly would be super pissed, because that means no "biological" grandchildren, but she won't say "you can't date a man", but she'll question her son's mental clarity to hell and back "are you suuuuure?" and she'll scrutinize his boyfriend's actions like he is a convicted criminal. worse than with any girlfriend
I KNOW! I was absolutely certain he was DEAD or DIVORCED this whole time!! How the heck can he still be a living, conscious, _still-married_ part of all of this?!
I have sleep apnea, and my CPAP is legitimately the best thing that ever happened to me. I genuinely hope Kelly grows to like hers, too (and that she gets therapy - like, emotional therapy).
I tried convincing my sister to get a CPAP but she doesn’t. 😭 She knows she needs one but doesn’t get it. My mom has one too and she said it’s so helpful.
The way she's babying it up about the cpap drives me crazy. Never have I ever needed help to get the mask on. If I called my dad to come over and help me with my mask he would tell me to eff off. 🤣
Love the proper distinction between intrusive thoughts and impulsive thoughts. They are very different things. it’s way too common of a mistake and a problematic one at that
RE: Sleep apnea I got diagnosed with sleep apnea at 27, and I didn't know I had an issue with it until my partner at the time joked about my snoring and how I'd make weird choking sounds. It finally made sense why I could sleep for 10+ hours and STILL need a nap. I now refuse to sleep without the CPAP machine, because I know I'm not actually getting rest when I do. It's so worth it to use so I can actually sleep. I now don't even need an alarm to wake up. Before... I'd sleep through alarms sometimes. So this is all to say: if you can't seem to feel rested after a long night of sleep, get checked out! It could be sleep apnea!
@adyaparamitaputripratama2786 It's hard to tell if it's just you but some things that were signs for me: - Extremely loud snoring (like to the point where someone sleeping next to me would have a very hard time falling asleep) - Feeling exhausted all the time, no matter how many naps I took or how much caffeine I drank - Waking up in the night often (technically, I was apparently waking myself up constantly with the choking noises but I didn't register that, but I *was* waking up more to use the washroom and such) - Someone telling me that I was making weird choking noises that would interrupt snores If you are having troubles with sleep, I highly recommend a sleep study, if you can get access to it. It really helped improve my life to get treated!
@@adyaparamitaputripratama2786basically you don't get restful sleep so daytime sleepiness, brain fog, grogginess, general fatigue, forgetfulness. some people snore, but you can have sleep apnea without snoring. personally, I felt worse upon waking up than before going to bed. waking up felt impossible before getting my CPAP
....why did Annamarie asking "Are you doing alright?" hit as Hard as Elmo asking 'How is everybody doing?'.... 😭😭 and you right...I am gonna keep going just out of spite also Thank you for always making Amazing Content
17:37 my dad has sleep apnea and has had it since i was a baby, you don't "die" if the breathing stops, your body wakes you up so you can breathe again, it's like the falling dream thing. you usually jerk awake
Some people sleep through it, that’s why a lot of people don’t realise they have sleep apnea. If you have severe sleep apnea, are over 60 and don’t have the machine, you could even die because you stop breathing and don’t wake up, but luckily it’s rare.
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This season Matt is actually standing up for himself and looking at buying a house 8 mi. away from Kelly. The bigger part is, he hasn't told her yet! He's also realizing that the common denominator in is failed relationships is Kelly.
0:07 That question made me cry. I’m not doing okay. But I’m here, and I’m trying. No one’s really asked how I’ve been through all this. I’m a young, black, dark skinned woman, neurodivergent, and I rely heavily on the medical system that I already can’t afford, as I have some issues I deal with. I have little means, and I'm terrified. I was pondering life a little bit ago, and it hit me that I may never get married. I identify as lesbian, as men don’t interest me, and I’ve never found a single one I was really into. Depending on how things go, and how quickly, I may never have that dream. And I know that’s the least of my issues, but I was watching a romcom today and the wedding scene triggered that thought. It hurt deeply, because all I’ve ever wanted was to be loved and accepted. I feel I will have to put my life desires aside because of all of this. Because there will be more pressing things than that…
I'm so sorry you're having a difficult times! I have disabilities too and I know those feelings for sure! Most people don't find someone like me attractive and I've made peace with that a long time ago but it took time to get to that point. Having disabilities or differences doesn't automatically mean you'll never get into a relationships. I've been in a handful of relationships and I'm not going to sugar coat it, it's hard to find someone who will look past that but they are out there! The best thing you can do is to find things to do that you enjoy, develop a wonderful life, make yourself happy and spend time with friends and good family members too. It's best to learn to love yourself before you can love someone else. Who knows, you still might find someone, even if it's not right now.
@@dragonfliesnh4204I appreciate the sentiment of this so much, but I think I’m beautiful regardless of any beauty convention. I hope you feel the same! That’s not my issue, my issue is that I’m gay and I don’t know how much longer gay rights will be standing, but I have other things that will affect me more than the freedom to date and my legal ability to be wed. So it felt silly to feel bad about that, but I feel better now and know that it was completely fine for me to give myself space to feel however I needed to feel :))
@@Starsongzz You're welcome! It sounds like I came across differently than how I meant. When I was talking about someone not finding someone attractive because of their disabilities or differences, it wasn't only in a physical sense. Many people without disabilities, differences or even those who aren't neurodivergent, have a hard time with the idea of being in a relationship with someone who does have these differences. There is a lot of barriers people with differences often face and it's definitely not easy at times. For you, there are also additional barriers, like being gay and other things, so it feels heavy with everything piled on. You aren't silly and everything you said and felt is 100% valid! I'm so glad you are feeling better. Even people with good self-esteem all have days where we just don't like ourselves and/or just feeling crappy about how we see ourselves. That's perfectly ok!
i do think sadly tht the house is another thing for kelly to hold over matt’s head so he feels obligated to stay. i’ve seen it in other abusive relationships (and in my own life)
I feel like Kelli is not the only reason why Matt has problems keeping a relationship with women. Keyword women there if you get what I’m saying. That man is in denial about a lot more than just his too dependent relationship with his mother.
reading through the comments I didn't realize a lot of other people also thought was I was thinking about him. but if it's true and he started dating a man I think Kelly would prob treat them worse than any girlfriend bc they "took" her chance of having bio grandkids
I’m not really doing alright because I broke an ankle pretty badly but the doctor did call me ‘kiddo’ which made me feel more masculine so…LIFE IS AWESOME🔥🔥
I'm a teacher and I often say "alrighty" as I'm getting ready to change topic. I have to mentally make sure I'm not following it up and calling a class of 30 10 year olds sinners.
I didn’t realize how much I needed someone to tell me I am going to keep going instead of trying to tell me why I should keep going (I almost jumped out of a second story window today)
I have a stroller for my cats and.. it's honestly great. They're a lot less stressed in it than regular carriers and it's much easier to transport them in it. If I know I'm gonna have to transition from stroller to car, then I also put them in their soft bags or bring them with me - though there are some strollers where the container section comes off and works as a stand-alone carrier! My vets also mentioned that the most relaxed cats they have come in strollers. Just be sure to have them in harnesses & on leashes when they're in it just in case! Most of them I've seen have mini leashes on the inside but I also put my own on and attach them to the handle.
I'm LITERALLY wearing my 🖤 SURVIVING PURELY OUT OF SPITE jumper AS WE SPEAK! This is my first comment on YT before, but I had to! I took a pic, but I guess you can't post them in the comments here... Anyway, love your channel and keep it up!
I love dog strollers...for disabled/elderly dogs, and non-dog species like rabbits and cats who don't typically go outside. Also useful in crowded areas when you have a little dog who's nervous about being stepped on. What I don't like is how people sometimes use them for perfectly healthy dogs for no reason instead of giving them more exercise.
I was raised by my grandma and she was like this with me and my dad. These kinds of parents latch on to their kids children, they act like they're their own kids and often are in competition with the actual mother. She doesnt want grandkids, she wants to be a mother to his kids.
OH MY GOD THANK YOU ABOUT THE DOG KISSING THING! I have autism with sensory issues, and I cannot stand my face even being near a dog's mouth. The number of times I tell my puppy "not the face!" in a stern tone is unreal, even though I love this dog. It's so gross, yeah! ...not the grossest thing in this video, but still pretty gross.
15:17 Kelly reminds me of one of my aunts she’s a sweet lady she will give the clothes off her back but she just simply cares too much and goes about it in all the wrong ways a lot of the time and it ends up backfiring
I have sleep apnea and am getting a sleep study done but it's not scheduled til March so if you have sleep concerns get the appointment scheduled at least because it's gonna take a while folks!
6:59 Not to shame or anything, but i need to know if my brain is playing with me or if MATT looks completely different in the "flashback" montage then in the present. I just see Ken when in the present one.
A full beard (and maybe a little weight loss) can do a lot to change a man's appearance. Plus studio lights/makeup maybe?Personally he looks like the same person to me
I'm 99% sure that their relationship is the way it is due to, unfortunately, enmeshment trauma (sometimes called "emotional inc*st syndrome"). The lack of personal boundaries and privacy, Matt's loss of autonomy, the codependency, the weird emotional/physical closeness they have that very much seems like emotional inc*st (at least on Kelly's part)... I feel bad for Matt. Enmeshment trauma is extremely difficult to unlearn and escape from, speaking from personal experience of watching my wife go through it. But especially to this degree with Matt and Kelly, where it seems like she basically controls him and his love life - it goes so far that it could possibly be considered (unintentional or not) abuse/grooming. Obviously I don't know their situation 100%, and I can only make guesses based on what is presented to us. But as someone who watched my own spouse go through it and helped her out of it, their dynamic is extremely similar to what she went through. I hope Matt's able to get out one day and have a normal, healthy relationship with.. well, anyone who ISN'T his mother.
I feel so called out on the sleep study thing. I've got one in March (which was the soonest... at the beginning of November 💀), but my service dog knows to wake me up already. That wasn't even what I trained her to do. 😅 She somehow picked it up over the years.
omg you uploaded this at the perfect time, i’ve been seeing clips of this show all over tiktok and have been so curious but can’t bring myself to actually watch it 😭
7:31 : since he's 6 (he's 9 now), I regularly tell my son, "Hey, one day you'll be on your own," before teaching him how to do chores or life lessons. He's not ok with it, now. It's normal. But my biggest fear is to have a 39-year-old man living free in my house. This is my brother's case...and wow. NEVER EVER.
6:38 When I was a kid & still kissed my parents on the mouth, there was a radio discussion about some celebrity kissing her dad on the mouth and how weird that was, and as a kid i was like "that's just how u kiss your parents? thats so normal?" but now that ive kissed other ppl. hoo boy. you wouldnt catch me dead kissin my mama on the mouth.
I highly recommend pet strollers! I have one and while I don’t use it often, it’s been so useful when I’ve had my dog with me in summer when the ground is too hot for his paws and since it’s enclosed I can bring him into stores. It’s helpful to have one just in case. (My friend also takes her cat outside in hers so he can enjoy a walk safely.)
I’m getting the vibe (not to speculate) that Matt might be in the closet and afraid to come out since his mom got him a house solely to have grandchildren 😬
This video made my day, I've been having a crappy day with my family eating the Oreos I was gonna use for Oreo balls and my girlfriend ended up bailing on me for our date because she was busy. Thanks for making me feel better, Annamarie
Kind of off topic, but my family got a stroller for our car for when we go out and had to take our car when he was too young to be left alone and its been a great investment actually, good for taking him outside too since he is blind and he gets too stress when he doesn't know someone's with him and it gives him security and helps us feel confident that he is comfortable and is not getting into trouble. We use it to take him to the vets or even leave it open for his cousins to sleep in because for some reason they all love sleeping in a pile with each other and it's so adorable! Just gotta not close it because then the cousins think it's play time and start jumping on top of them sleeping LOL
My boyfriends mom is like this on the borderline. She absolutely hates me and pretends to like me when I’m around but she always tells him that he should move back in with her and leave me. There is noooo pleasing a mom like this, it’s the man that needs to let go and stand his ground. If he loves you he’ll make it work with his mom and you if not it’s not worth it
thank you annamarie for reminding me of this show. any time i feel down about myself i remember this show and are relieved that i am not like any of these guys. sure i love my mom just like anyone else who has a healthy relationship with them, but never like this
The second I got home the first thing I see is that my fav RUclipsr posted a video after the most horrible math test known to man, I have never been this happy
For some reason I was convinced Matt's dad had died when he was very young and this is why they were like this. So to see him just wonder in shocked me to my core.
From what I’m aware viberating like that at best could help tone a little. But even then the ab machines like that that actually work is more like being hit in the stomach not a jiggle.
I have sleep apnea and it sucks hard, but hearing her talk about it like it was some earth-shattering, life-threatening diagnosis was honestly hysterical
I never thought I’d be defending them, but doggy scrollers are elite, I have one for my senior dog! He’s 10 and has really bad knees but loves to be outside! We’ll take him on walks, so he’ll walk for as far as he wants to, and when he gets tired he’ll climb on it and ride for a little bit, and when he wants to walk again he’ll stand on the rim until we let him out and he’s off! It works great for my little boy, he has my whole heart
Feeling crappy and laying around my house but feeling guilty about doing nothing soooo thanks for asking how I'm doing and letting me know it's okay to hang out and watch goofy stuff. Been binge watching your videos and they help me get through dull days.
Man, I had a really toxic relationship with my dad. Not like this. But he was my only emotionally support system and he was abusive. So I'd bend over backwards trying to please someone unpleaseable. Then I found out it's actually not normal for my dad to tell me all about his sex life. I thought as an adult I was allowed to talk about stuff like that with my parents. And my mom has always been distant and I couldn't talk 'girl' stuff with her. And then I went to therapy and found out that was basically emotional incest. And that alot of the weird 'normal' stuff I did for him was just enmeshment. It's wild to be on the other side of this stuff. Hoping the best for him. Cause losing that dependent was actually the hardest part.
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I noticed the timestamp for the ad lol, this is why I keep coming back to this channel. This and because I love your videos obviously
You look like the Alternate Reality Version of Kurtis Conner and I love you for that
Im morbidly curious how a mother like that would act if her son had a boyfriend instead of a girlfriend
not well, i imagine. as someone who had a mother like this (though, this is coming from an afab perspective), i can tell you she would quickly realise that, no matter the gender or sex, her son's romantic partner will take attention away from her and she wouldn't be happy with that. mine was mildly homophobic - lots of microaggressions, but wouldn't say an outright slur - and she really tried to act like she supported me even though she clearly didn't. that's because mother's like my own and like kelly are likely narcissists, the world must see them as just the best and most loving parent in the world even if the children they're actually parenting hate them and want nothing to do with them anymore. so she'd most likely say she's supportive for the brownie points, but then be clearly unsupportive in her actions
There r gay guys on the show too and the moms act the exact same way
I'd imagine she'd prefer it. No "other woman" to compete with.
@@silvernlavenderI was just gonna say this 😂
omg his mother was so overbearing I just assumed he didn't have a father
Literally same, I almost gasped when his dad suddenly spawned
I want someone to sit Kelly down and ask what is so different about Matt's maternal and paternal relationships that you think its normal to act like this
There was a clip where Matt was about to get dressed, and his mother looked at him half-dressed and said "hubba hubba". And that woman MEANT it, it was so uncomfy.
🤢🤮🚫🚫🚫
Oh hell no. As a mom of boys, this behavior is a major red flag.
gross
Imagine if a dad checked out his half-dressed daughter grooming in the mirror and said that. He'd be designated a perv and it wouldn't be allowed on the tube. It would be considered sexual abuse.
"My mom is my complete support system" YEAH THAT'S BY DESIGN MATT, GET OUT
whats really sad about relationships like that is that when she dies, hes literally not gonna have anybody left, and he will either mentally break down into a depression, or become angry, sour, and probably predatory towards women in search of a new “complete” support-system…
"keep going even if it's out of spite" is so good
And it’s EXACTLY what so many of us are doing 💙
It's my life motto.
i really needed to hear that today ngl
nothing more, nothing less :’)
Best way to keep myself breathing when things are at their darkest.... 🦆 If I'm going to give up and let the Miserable Ones win ....
I'm grateful to be lucky enough to have my hubby and son to live for in the gray- dark grey in-between times...
But in those pitch Black- times ...feel like my mere existence could be bringing my loved ones down into Hell with me-times
Spite has kept me breathing long enough to get back up😅😢😅
Kelly BUILT that house 20ft away for Matt LMAO it was a wedding present for his now failed engagement
Now I know why the engagement failed
i too would quit my fiancé over this
I want to live aeround the same neighborhood as my family, but goddamn not that close
@@skykitti1913 I'm ngl I genuinely wouldn't mind if his mom was normal and not a massive freak. 😭
i love when people refer to TLC by her government name
This made me laugh so hard, I got up out of my spot, and went to the other room to tell my fiance. I could barely get it out cuz I kept cackling
TLC is her drag name 😌
Kim dodged the BIGGEST bullet. Matt had the opportunity to move to Texas with her for a temporary work assignment, zero things holding him back except for his attachment to Kelly. He didn't go and Kim almost instantly lost all feeling for him, clearly. He didn't even bother to visit her for like the first three months she was there.
OH. yeah, that's is a good call on her. that's awful, it really spells out the message on his priorities.
can you even call it a relationship if they havent seen each other in 3 months? if i was her i wouldve just moved on, no explanation needed
“Hello sinners” we say universally
hi sinners!!
oh no....I thought matt and kelly were a one off TLC episode, I didn't realize they had their own whole ass show
The show is on its fourth season and Matt and Kelly have been in all of them. 💀
I didn’t either😭
I thought the show was multiple mama's boys not the same man 😭
it is, but matt and kelly are on all the seasons
If vibration melted fat, I'd have a dangerously low body fat percentage. Definitely a scam.
🤣🤣🤣. Amen. Me too!
I take it you've hit up some of the channel's sponsors. 😂
@@rachel3620 i don't know man, my shiatsu massager does wonders lol (i wish it burned my fat while fixing my back too)
DEAD😂😂😂 true af
If it’s any consolation, it’s not *totally* a scam! Is it usually advertised to “melt fat” when it 100% doesn’t do that? Yes. But they do actually have benefits for specific health issues, so at least it’s not a useless product that exists for the sake of making money :D still sucks that they ARE used as a scam though.
I was a huge hater against pet strollers until my dog got old and couldn't make it on her walks anymore and seeing how happy she looked being able to see the park again made my day
She would be wheeled to the park, have a wee run around on the grass then nap in her stroller on the way back
Awww, that's so cute and adorable!
I'm afraid the reflection she has done isn't so much "I need to stop smothering my son because it's bad for him," and more "I need to have grandkids, and the only way to do that is to change the way I interact with my son." I'm afraid she'll back off just enough for him to find a wife and for his wife to get pregnant, but then she'll go back to her old ways because by that point it's too late for the lady to leave. Hopefully she creates lasting change, but the fact that when she talks about doing it, it's always couched in her talk about grandkids makes me worry about that.
This is exactly what will happen...
That was my first thought, shes going to chill out just enough for long enough to get 2 or 3 grandkids.
if i were the wife in that situation, i would make him sign a page that says "i can say no to your mother entering this house at any time wihout reasons provided"
(but ti be fair i would never marry him in the first place lol, it would be such a toxic family dynamic to be dragged into!)
My thoughts exactly. She is hoping for a temporary womb, not for him to find a partner he can move on with in his life. I hope that he doesn't have kids unless he does therapy and goes no contact with his mother as it would be subjecting a new generation to needless trauma.
I’m fairly sure that Kelly is absorbing life force from Pat because that man is looking like he’s fading. I’m worried about Pat.
Same!
I wonder if she would be the same if he finally came out and got a boyfriend. Would she act just as competitive with a man as she has been with his girlfriends?
Another one of the families on the show is a gay man and it’s still so unhinged- the guy and his partner have broken up before because of his mother and his mother believes the partner is “toxic”
I have a family member who is a boy mom and was definitely like this with her son’s husband
honestly, i'm sure kelly would be super pissed, because that means no "biological" grandchildren, but she won't say "you can't date a man", but she'll question her son's mental clarity to hell and back "are you suuuuure?" and she'll scrutinize his boyfriend's actions like he is a convicted criminal. worse than with any girlfriend
@@magical571she'll probably be offended too. That her son isn't into women meaning he never loved her in her weird little ways
You know things are bleak when “just a mom and her son husband.” Isn’t the worst thing I’ve heard today
I am also very shocked by the appearance of the father. You would have thought he wasn't around at all.
I can't believe his father exists oh my god
I KNOW! I was absolutely certain he was DEAD or DIVORCED this whole time!! How the heck can he still be a living, conscious, _still-married_ part of all of this?!
I genuinely thought she hid his body under the floorboards 😭
0:15 I thrive purely on spite and coffee.
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Ok
Millennial coded statement
Hell yeah ya do 💀
I have sleep apnea, and my CPAP is legitimately the best thing that ever happened to me. I genuinely hope Kelly grows to like hers, too (and that she gets therapy - like, emotional therapy).
Yeah it's a pain to get in the habit of not breathing properly, and thus not getting proper rest, when sleeping makes EVERYTHING so much harder.
I tried convincing my sister to get a CPAP but she doesn’t. 😭
She knows she needs one but doesn’t get it.
My mom has one too and she said it’s so helpful.
I love my CPAP too ❤️❤️❤️
The way she's babying it up about the cpap drives me crazy. Never have I ever needed help to get the mask on. If I called my dad to come over and help me with my mask he would tell me to eff off. 🤣
@@rachel3620LMDOA THANK UU literally thought the same thing i got my cpap at 17 and shes acting like its the hardest thing to put one on 😭😭
I was cracking eggs on my baby’s head when this queen dropped this masterpiece!
wait you didn't cook the eggs first??
Relatable
I read this as I dropped my babies head like an egg
Oh, I was cracking babies on my egg when the queen dropped this video
I cracked my baby's skull upon learning this.
Love the proper distinction between intrusive thoughts and impulsive thoughts. They are very different things. it’s way too common of a mistake and a problematic one at that
my cat Princess Mushroom Ravioli has a stroller and cat strollers are where it’s at 🖤😭
What an absolutely delightful name, please tell her I love her
@ she said “hello humanb on the internet- i love YOU!” she’s quite a loving little woman.
that's a fantastic cat name
@@WickedKatze thank you 🖤 she is orange
@@Gratefullydeceased I love that name! She sounds precious. ❤
RE: Sleep apnea
I got diagnosed with sleep apnea at 27, and I didn't know I had an issue with it until my partner at the time joked about my snoring and how I'd make weird choking sounds.
It finally made sense why I could sleep for 10+ hours and STILL need a nap.
I now refuse to sleep without the CPAP machine, because I know I'm not actually getting rest when I do. It's so worth it to use so I can actually sleep.
I now don't even need an alarm to wake up. Before... I'd sleep through alarms sometimes.
So this is all to say: if you can't seem to feel rested after a long night of sleep, get checked out! It could be sleep apnea!
Hey, um... What are sleep apnea's symptoms if I may know??
@adyaparamitaputripratama2786 It's hard to tell if it's just you but some things that were signs for me:
- Extremely loud snoring (like to the point where someone sleeping next to me would have a very hard time falling asleep)
- Feeling exhausted all the time, no matter how many naps I took or how much caffeine I drank
- Waking up in the night often (technically, I was apparently waking myself up constantly with the choking noises but I didn't register that, but I *was* waking up more to use the washroom and such)
- Someone telling me that I was making weird choking noises that would interrupt snores
If you are having troubles with sleep, I highly recommend a sleep study, if you can get access to it. It really helped improve my life to get treated!
@@adyaparamitaputripratama2786basically you don't get restful sleep so daytime sleepiness, brain fog, grogginess, general fatigue, forgetfulness. some people snore, but you can have sleep apnea without snoring.
personally, I felt worse upon waking up than before going to bed. waking up felt impossible before getting my CPAP
…. So I’m having my husband make an appointment tomorrow. I’ve noticed him doing this a lot recently.
Like I swear I’ve heard him stop breathing for a second recently
....why did Annamarie asking "Are you doing alright?" hit as Hard as Elmo asking 'How is everybody doing?'.... 😭😭 and you right...I am gonna keep going just out of spite also Thank you for always making Amazing Content
12:52 THANK YOU for saying impulsive thoughts, I cannot stand people calling every sorta off thing they say or do an intrusive thought
I feel this so much. The people that laugh about their “intrusive” thoughts could never handle my very real intrusive ocd thoughts.
@@redlikeroses1062Real
if a guy calls his Mum his "number one woman" I'm instantly running for the hills. I will not be in competition with your mother, Sir!
There is just no point, it's way to draining. I was out so fast
Matt is also accused of abuse towards Kim, i think she even got a protective order against him
"Yet another unprecedented time." Indeed. Can we have some boring times soon?
11:33
Im a Personal Trainer. No it is not possible. These products piss me off. It is indeed another scam by the wellness industry. You nailed it
17:37 my dad has sleep apnea and has had it since i was a baby, you don't "die" if the breathing stops, your body wakes you up so you can breathe again, it's like the falling dream thing. you usually jerk awake
Some people sleep through it, that’s why a lot of people don’t realise they have sleep apnea.
If you have severe sleep apnea, are over 60 and don’t have the machine, you could even die because you stop breathing and don’t wake up, but luckily it’s rare.
I wanna say I appreciate the way you do your ads/sponsors. I loooove when people make a clear seperation of their normal content and the sponsor. another reason you're the best
at least during the bush years we had 2000s pop culture to keep us company. god help us all.
MCR is touring again. Hopefully they're writing on the road so we can get a new album because we need it 😭
At least we have the holy trinity, Chappell roan, Sabrina carpenter and Olivia Rodrigo. And Kesha is making a new album!
girl i love u but the fit is giving that picture of the rock if he slayed im crying
I…. Never thought I would feel comfort from the let’s not kiss our family intro
This season Matt is actually standing up for himself and looking at buying a house 8 mi. away from Kelly. The bigger part is, he hasn't told her yet! He's also realizing that the common denominator in is failed relationships is Kelly.
8 miles 😱😱😱
0:07 That question made me cry. I’m not doing okay. But I’m here, and I’m trying. No one’s really asked how I’ve been through all this. I’m a young, black, dark skinned woman, neurodivergent, and I rely heavily on the medical system that I already can’t afford, as I have some issues I deal with. I have little means, and I'm terrified. I was pondering life a little bit ago, and it hit me that I may never get married. I identify as lesbian, as men don’t interest me, and I’ve never found a single one I was really into. Depending on how things go, and how quickly, I may never have that dream. And I know that’s the least of my issues, but I was watching a romcom today and the wedding scene triggered that thought. It hurt deeply, because all I’ve ever wanted was to be loved and accepted. I feel I will have to put my life desires aside because of all of this. Because there will be more pressing things than that…
I'm so sorry you're having a difficult times! I have disabilities too and I know those feelings for sure! Most people don't find someone like me attractive and I've made peace with that a long time ago but it took time to get to that point. Having disabilities or differences doesn't automatically mean you'll never get into a relationships. I've been in a handful of relationships and I'm not going to sugar coat it, it's hard to find someone who will look past that but they are out there!
The best thing you can do is to find things to do that you enjoy, develop a wonderful life, make yourself happy and spend time with friends and good family members too. It's best to learn to love yourself before you can love someone else. Who knows, you still might find someone, even if it's not right now.
@@dragonfliesnh4204I appreciate the sentiment of this so much, but I think I’m beautiful regardless of any beauty convention. I hope you feel the same! That’s not my issue, my issue is that I’m gay and I don’t know how much longer gay rights will be standing, but I have other things that will affect me more than the freedom to date and my legal ability to be wed. So it felt silly to feel bad about that, but I feel better now and know that it was completely fine for me to give myself space to feel however I needed to feel :))
@@Starsongzz You're welcome! It sounds like I came across differently than how I meant. When I was talking about someone not finding someone attractive because of their disabilities or differences, it wasn't only in a physical sense. Many people without disabilities, differences or even those who aren't neurodivergent, have a hard time with the idea of being in a relationship with someone who does have these differences. There is a lot of barriers people with differences often face and it's definitely not easy at times. For you, there are also additional barriers, like being gay and other things, so it feels heavy with everything piled on.
You aren't silly and everything you said and felt is 100% valid! I'm so glad you are feeling better. Even people with good self-esteem all have days where we just don't like ourselves and/or just feeling crappy about how we see ourselves. That's perfectly ok!
i do think sadly tht the house is another thing for kelly to hold over matt’s head so he feels obligated to stay. i’ve seen it in other abusive relationships (and in my own life)
It always makes me so happy to hear “alllrighty, well hello, sinners!”
How dare RUclips hide this from me for a full 4 minutes
I know, right 😡 they didn’t even tell me, I looked for it 😤 Anna is my favorite 😍 ❤
Not me 4 days 💀
I feel like Kelli is not the only reason why Matt has problems keeping a relationship with women. Keyword women there if you get what I’m saying. That man is in denial about a lot more than just his too dependent relationship with his mother.
reading through the comments I didn't realize a lot of other people also thought was I was thinking about him. but if it's true and he started dating a man I think Kelly would prob treat them worse than any girlfriend bc they "took" her chance of having bio grandkids
I’m not really doing alright because I broke an ankle pretty badly but the doctor did call me ‘kiddo’ which made me feel more masculine so…LIFE IS AWESOME🔥🔥
Hope your healing goes smoothly and quickly dude
I hope you heal up fast.
I'm a teacher and I often say "alrighty" as I'm getting ready to change topic. I have to mentally make sure I'm not following it up and calling a class of 30 10 year olds sinners.
That would be really hard to explain to admin 😭
“Son husband” is crazy 💀
Honestly I feel like they are NOT the weirdest mother/son duo on the show this season, I would love to see you react to the other people!
I didn’t realize how much I needed someone to tell me I am going to keep going instead of trying to tell me why I should keep going (I almost jumped out of a second story window today)
Can you imagine this guy tucking his mom into bed, and she asks him "Can you read me Fifty Shades, again? And do the voices." Because I can.
If u said said this was an age gap relationship I would’ve thought no different. She stared like at him like she was looking at a lover😩✊
I have a stroller for my cats and.. it's honestly great. They're a lot less stressed in it than regular carriers and it's much easier to transport them in it. If I know I'm gonna have to transition from stroller to car, then I also put them in their soft bags or bring them with me - though there are some strollers where the container section comes off and works as a stand-alone carrier!
My vets also mentioned that the most relaxed cats they have come in strollers.
Just be sure to have them in harnesses & on leashes when they're in it just in case! Most of them I've seen have mini leashes on the inside but I also put my own on and attach them to the handle.
I'm LITERALLY wearing my 🖤 SURVIVING PURELY OUT OF SPITE jumper AS WE SPEAK!
This is my first comment on YT before, but I had to! I took a pic, but I guess you can't post them in the comments here... Anyway, love your channel and keep it up!
Yippee!!! Congrats on surviving outta spite!
I must’ve missed a drop!! Where can I get one now? 😭
I love dog strollers...for disabled/elderly dogs, and non-dog species like rabbits and cats who don't typically go outside. Also useful in crowded areas when you have a little dog who's nervous about being stepped on. What I don't like is how people sometimes use them for perfectly healthy dogs for no reason instead of giving them more exercise.
I was raised by my grandma and she was like this with me and my dad. These kinds of parents latch on to their kids children, they act like they're their own kids and often are in competition with the actual mother. She doesnt want grandkids, she wants to be a mother to his kids.
OH MY GOD THANK YOU ABOUT THE DOG KISSING THING! I have autism with sensory issues, and I cannot stand my face even being near a dog's mouth. The number of times I tell my puppy "not the face!" in a stern tone is unreal, even though I love this dog. It's so gross, yeah!
...not the grossest thing in this video, but still pretty gross.
I have autism and let my dog lick my whole face lol
@@ritterbird99I don't mind my dog licking my face but in the past few years she will only lick my lips so we don't do that anymore lol
15:17 Kelly reminds me of one of my aunts she’s a sweet lady she will give the clothes off her back but she just simply cares too much and goes about it in all the wrong ways a lot of the time and it ends up backfiring
I have sleep apnea and am getting a sleep study done but it's not scheduled til March so if you have sleep concerns get the appointment scheduled at least because it's gonna take a while folks!
8:57 missed opportunity to say smelly here 💔💔
6:59 Not to shame or anything, but i need to know if my brain is playing with me or if MATT looks completely different in the "flashback" montage then in the present. I just see Ken when in the present one.
A full beard (and maybe a little weight loss) can do a lot to change a man's appearance. Plus studio lights/makeup maybe?Personally he looks like the same person to me
@raebaebay that's why I'm asking cuz my adhd can play games sometimes. And i was so confused. Bcs i though they were two different people
@@jacefromanotherworld naa frfr my adhd was saying the same! He don't look like the same guy at all!
@@Floweroftheburningwoods I'm glad im not alone 😭❤️
My grandfather passed, and You uploading a new video makes me feel a bit better. Thank you Annamarie!😊
I hope you feel better soon ❤
@ Thank you!! Many blessings.🖤
Who made the title for this show
Who loves a mama's boy, and why?
I must inquire further of this peculiar enjoyment.
It's mostly about the girlfriends. The girlfriend is in love with "a mamas boy" but they didn't have a girlfriend for this episode for some reason
I'm 99% sure that their relationship is the way it is due to, unfortunately, enmeshment trauma (sometimes called "emotional inc*st syndrome").
The lack of personal boundaries and privacy, Matt's loss of autonomy, the codependency, the weird emotional/physical closeness they have that very much seems like emotional inc*st (at least on Kelly's part)...
I feel bad for Matt. Enmeshment trauma is extremely difficult to unlearn and escape from, speaking from personal experience of watching my wife go through it. But especially to this degree with Matt and Kelly, where it seems like she basically controls him and his love life - it goes so far that it could possibly be considered (unintentional or not) abuse/grooming.
Obviously I don't know their situation 100%, and I can only make guesses based on what is presented to us. But as someone who watched my own spouse go through it and helped her out of it, their dynamic is extremely similar to what she went through.
I hope Matt's able to get out one day and have a normal, healthy relationship with.. well, anyone who ISN'T his mother.
I feel so called out on the sleep study thing. I've got one in March (which was the soonest... at the beginning of November 💀), but my service dog knows to wake me up already. That wasn't even what I trained her to do. 😅 She somehow picked it up over the years.
Pup just has to keep you alive to have purpose!
I mean it probably loves you too. But also needs job security!
@rachel3620 She does love me, haha. It's part job security, but the main part? Food and treat security. 🤣
omg you uploaded this at the perfect time, i’ve been seeing clips of this show all over tiktok and have been so curious but can’t bring myself to actually watch it 😭
cat stroller is a MUST my cat loves the stroller walks he jumps into every time i walk near it lol
7:31 : since he's 6 (he's 9 now), I regularly tell my son, "Hey, one day you'll be on your own," before teaching him how to do chores or life lessons.
He's not ok with it, now. It's normal. But my biggest fear is to have a 39-year-old man living free in my house. This is my brother's case...and wow. NEVER EVER.
6:38 When I was a kid & still kissed my parents on the mouth, there was a radio discussion about some celebrity kissing her dad on the mouth and how weird that was, and as a kid i was like "that's just how u kiss your parents? thats so normal?" but now that ive kissed other ppl. hoo boy. you wouldnt catch me dead kissin my mama on the mouth.
I literally died when she was randomly wearing the same outfit as him 😭
Imagine Kelly as a grandmother. You would never get to do anything with your own child. Especially with her living next door.
I highly recommend pet strollers! I have one and while I don’t use it often, it’s been so useful when I’ve had my dog with me in summer when the ground is too hot for his paws and since it’s enclosed I can bring him into stores. It’s helpful to have one just in case. (My friend also takes her cat outside in hers so he can enjoy a walk safely.)
that intro scared tf out of me how did you know im depressed af rn don't do that again mane that was scary :(
I’m getting the vibe (not to speculate) that Matt might be in the closet and afraid to come out since his mom got him a house solely to have grandchildren 😬
As The Final Pam would say: my sonsband
This video made my day, I've been having a crappy day with my family eating the Oreos I was gonna use for Oreo balls and my girlfriend ended up bailing on me for our date because she was busy. Thanks for making me feel better, Annamarie
I audibly gasped when you didn’t open the fan
This is a fresh upload.
"what are you doing step mom?"
Kind of off topic, but my family got a stroller for our car for when we go out and had to take our car when he was too young to be left alone and its been a great investment actually, good for taking him outside too since he is blind and he gets too stress when he doesn't know someone's with him and it gives him security and helps us feel confident that he is comfortable and is not getting into trouble. We use it to take him to the vets or even leave it open for his cousins to sleep in because for some reason they all love sleeping in a pile with each other and it's so adorable! Just gotta not close it because then the cousins think it's play time and start jumping on top of them sleeping LOL
My boyfriends mom is like this on the borderline. She absolutely hates me and pretends to like me when I’m around but she always tells him that he should move back in with her and leave me. There is noooo pleasing a mom like this, it’s the man that needs to let go and stand his ground. If he loves you he’ll make it work with his mom and you if not it’s not worth it
Crying at you & Matts matching fits
I wish you posted more often. I love your videos. I ran straight here when I got a notification and stop watching somebody else lol
thank you annamarie for reminding me of this show. any time i feel down about myself i remember this show and are relieved that i am not like any of these guys. sure i love my mom just like anyone else who has a healthy relationship with them, but never like this
The second I got home the first thing I see is that my fav RUclipsr posted a video after the most horrible math test known to man, I have never been this happy
Being called a “sinner” immediately upon arriving, is exactly why I’m staying.
I have found my people.
I don't care what anyone thinks. I just got 2 new kittens and they are being stroller trained. Lol
For some reason I was convinced Matt's dad had died when he was very young and this is why they were like this. So to see him just wonder in shocked me to my core.
I got a stroller for my elderly dog who has arthritis, so they are very useful actually!
*croak*
QUEEN UPLOADED🎉🎉
I was JUST watching your other vids and you posted, I swear you answered my wish 😂
I CANNOT LOOK AWAY FROM THIS SHOW!!!!! thank you for covering it
“I would pay big money, I’m talkin like, 10 dollars” 😂
I went to high school in Loomis and this does not surprise me. Pretty sure he didn’t buy any house, just moved into his mom’s garage.
I was fully ready for the fan drop and when it didn't come i cried
From what I’m aware viberating like that at best could help tone a little. But even then the ab machines like that that actually work is more like being hit in the stomach not a jiggle.
3:07 “we’re neighbors” fun fact, they actually BUILT that house for matt back when him and kim were together …
I have sleep apnea and it sucks hard, but hearing her talk about it like it was some earth-shattering, life-threatening diagnosis was honestly hysterical
2:29 i guess its a PAW-er walk.
i remember seeing them out and about one day when i was getting chipotle ( i live in the same area) and it was such an epic moment in weird tlc "fame"
I never thought I’d be defending them, but doggy scrollers are elite, I have one for my senior dog! He’s 10 and has really bad knees but loves to be outside! We’ll take him on walks, so he’ll walk for as far as he wants to, and when he gets tired he’ll climb on it and ride for a little bit, and when he wants to walk again he’ll stand on the rim until we let him out and he’s off! It works great for my little boy, he has my whole heart
the comparrison of the mother to abby lee miller was spot on
Feeling crappy and laying around my house but feeling guilty about doing nothing soooo thanks for asking how I'm doing and letting me know it's okay to hang out and watch goofy stuff. Been binge watching your videos and they help me get through dull days.
Man, I had a really toxic relationship with my dad. Not like this. But he was my only emotionally support system and he was abusive. So I'd bend over backwards trying to please someone unpleaseable. Then I found out it's actually not normal for my dad to tell me all about his sex life. I thought as an adult I was allowed to talk about stuff like that with my parents. And my mom has always been distant and I couldn't talk 'girl' stuff with her. And then I went to therapy and found out that was basically emotional incest. And that alot of the weird 'normal' stuff I did for him was just enmeshment. It's wild to be on the other side of this stuff. Hoping the best for him. Cause losing that dependent was actually the hardest part.