THERAPIST REACTS to Melanie Martinez- Mrs. Potato Head

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  • @Taromilktea333
    @Taromilktea333 Год назад +6258

    “It’s such a waste when little girls grow into their mothers face, but little girls are learning how to cut and paste and pucker up their lips until they suffocate” favorite lyric of all time!!

    • @DobbyHagrid
      @DobbyHagrid Год назад +343

      I also like "$100,000 for some compliments" because it shows how stupid cosmetic surgery is

    • @almogxchq5282
      @almogxchq5282 Год назад +53

      @@DobbyHagrid I won't say it's stupid. Some surgeries are needed to make you function or/and look better.

    • @Just_a_benchh
      @Just_a_benchh Год назад +138

      @@almogxchq5282That’s not what we’re referring to though.

    • @almogxchq5282
      @almogxchq5282 Год назад +31

      @@Just_a_benchh I also added or. A surgery done to make yourself feel more confident and comfortable being yourself shouldn't be shamed

    • @MsStorm336
      @MsStorm336 Год назад +76

      i love the sippy cup lyric that goes "pill diet, pill diet, if they give you a new pill then you will buy it, if they tell you to kill yourself than you will try it. all the makeup in the world wont make you less insecure, you've got weights in your pockets when you go to the doctors, your favourite candies cotton, thats why all your teeth are rotten, silly girl... with silly boys..." thats an entire verse but its my favourite part in the entire song. simply because it is so hard spitting. its spitting the cold hard and harsh facts.

  • @andydgaf7
    @andydgaf7 Год назад +6581

    I watched this video back in middle school (i am 23 now) and it really helped me get over a huge insecurity which was my crooked smile. I slowly stopped covering it when I laughed and stopped wishing that I could get braces. IK that Melanie helped so many of us young women learn to love and accept ourselves in so many ways and continues to do so to this day

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  Год назад +784

      Thank you so much for sharing and for staying strong😊👍

    • @rayoffdarkness
      @rayoffdarkness Год назад +95

      Aww that's beautiful!! I'm sure you have a gorgeous smile

    • @jinx111
      @jinx111 Год назад +54

      same watching this as a young kid put a voice to something i didn't realize was affecting me so heavily, while at the same time giving me the message that it's okay to feel uncomfortable with the pressure of society or others that you should change your looks or feel guilty for your looks

    • @Frizaaa_3d1tsYT
      @Frizaaa_3d1tsYT Год назад +15

      it's only 4 months old.

    • @cwendolly
      @cwendolly Год назад +22

      @@Frizaaa_3d1tsYTthe melanie martinez MV is 4 months old?

  • @terrancesilvermistbenjamin9864
    @terrancesilvermistbenjamin9864 Год назад +2358

    Just got a little clarity. The woman who got the surgery in the video and then had her husband pretty much cheat on her wasn't Melanie it was a girl on TV. Melanie switched the channel after sitting back down and stumbled across that. Which is why after she watched it she took the wig and padding off realizing what she was trying to do wasn't right.

    • @V4mpirelvrs
      @V4mpirelvrs Год назад +211

      That’s crybaby though, not Melanie because Melanie and crybaby are not the same person. Melanie is telling crybaby’s story through the song and entire album.

    • @terrancesilvermistbenjamin9864
      @terrancesilvermistbenjamin9864 Год назад +125

      @@V4mpirelvrs I know lol sorry I never refer to her by her persona name 😂 same thing still though pretty much

    • @goomiiii
      @goomiiii 10 месяцев назад

      @@V4mpirelvrs🤓

  • @jenisaysthings
    @jenisaysthings Год назад +2917

    This was the first Melanie Martinez song I listened to and I immediately became obsessed

  • @Clouds._xx
    @Clouds._xx Год назад +1767

    “Don’t be dramatic, it’s only some plastic. No one will love you if you’re unattractive!” Bro that line pains me yet I love it. It speaks what almost everyone thinks at some point in our lives. People say that “looks don’t matter”, but everyone tries to be pretty and appealing so they can get a lover. People feel ugly so they try to make themselves pretty with makeup, plastic surgery, dressing up, or acting differently just to suit the group or person they want to be with. The saddest thing is, is that you don’t notice your own beauty, you only see the “ugly” views in your own reflection. Whether it be pimples, face shape, body weight, your hair and just everything else about you. You’re all so beautiful even if you don’t realise it. Stay safe, and don’t change yourself for someone even if they tell you to. That just proves that this person/people only want you for your looks/appearance/personality. Stay yourself and only change for yourself. Love yourselves!💗

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  Год назад +166

      Thank you for these words and for taking the time to watch😊❤️

    • @lor_rainee
      @lor_rainee 11 месяцев назад +7

      FRR!!

    • @lonely.kidjay
      @lonely.kidjay 11 месяцев назад +16

      and that's a lie bcz if somebody try to get wit somebody they like "ur ugly" or say something about look so to some ppl looks do matter

    • @mothicmoon4353
      @mothicmoon4353 11 месяцев назад +14

      This made me cry. I’m 23 and so insecure of a body weight I can’t control because of medical issues, that I was seriously considering plastic surgery. You have a beautiful heart. ❤️

    • @DzinkyDzink
      @DzinkyDzink 10 месяцев назад +4

      The irony is that Charisma plays almost as big of a role as looks in interpersonal attraction.

  • @Nevermind-ng7lr
    @Nevermind-ng7lr Год назад +1106

    the date on the plastic surgery document is October 31st. It's Halloween, a holiday where people basically wear masks.

    • @mindybrgt
      @mindybrgt Год назад +70

      Oh I never noticed this detail😮

    • @Nevermind-ng7lr
      @Nevermind-ng7lr Год назад +44

      @@mindybrgt me too, found out about it in videos from fans who found these details in music videos

    • @undividedstars
      @undividedstars Год назад +32

      omg that's so clever of her

    • @ajandrianjafymusic
      @ajandrianjafymusic Год назад +21

      How is it after all these years I’ve never noticed that! Damn that’s very Taylor of Melanie

    • @Giaschannel2012
      @Giaschannel2012 Год назад +5

      Oh lol never realised that

  • @claire.chiste
    @claire.chiste Год назад +1033

    always a good day when we get a melanie reaction

    • @andydgaf7
      @andydgaf7 Год назад +11

      seriously!

    • @CatFox21
      @CatFox21 Год назад +9

      Yee

    • @heheiminyourwallspookies
      @heheiminyourwallspookies 5 месяцев назад +1

      especially positive ones from men 😢 it's like Melanie's sifting the good men for us 😂

  • @kromthebomb
    @kromthebomb 11 месяцев назад +72

    love it when ppl dont judge melanie or say her style is weird and scary and give a genuine reaction, especially when a male watches it. thx my guy

  • @Valcultie
    @Valcultie Год назад +294

    I relate to this song sm, like I have been called 'A pig with lipstick' more times than I can count. This song was the first song I came across from Melanie Martinez, and it still holds value to this day.

    • @patrickisqueiro4097
      @patrickisqueiro4097 Год назад +51

      thats harsh! you are beautiful and try to think most people say those things just to be mean/get to you, but its not true. I've had the oportunity to confront my childhood bully (one of them) years later and he said he was just saying those things to joke and make fun of me but never actually belived them. not that others opinion should matter at all but it gave me comfort and strenght to not let that get to me anymore

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  Год назад +41

      Thank you for the comment and for sharing 😊❤️

    • @sonielotaku3293
      @sonielotaku3293 6 месяцев назад +2

      Im so fucking sorry you had to hear that omg people are awful

    • @secretlysorbet
      @secretlysorbet Месяц назад

      I’m sorry for you, but my first thought was the creator that made the “you look like a kid with diabetes, I AM A KID WITH DIABETES!!” audio..

  • @miadoja9246
    @miadoja9246 Год назад +711

    This song really helped me learn that I was perfectly fine just the way I am. But it was hard to listen to since I was struggling with my body image and felt like I wasn't enough. I really like how she spreads these messages to help us and understand that there's nothing wrong with us.

  • @ajandrianjafymusic
    @ajandrianjafymusic Год назад +410

    Melanie’s music is something else, she’s incredibly honest and hits the nail in the head for many issues from this: body image to family dynamics. She’s one of a kind. Definitely one of the best to come out of a talent show

    • @ajandrianjafymusic
      @ajandrianjafymusic 2 месяца назад +1

      @ when the new album finally does drop you just know it’s gonna be amazing! I gotta agree with everything you said, she’s a huge inspiration to me for my own music because of the way she presents herself and her lyrics:)

  • @ra1nb00m_h00vez
    @ra1nb00m_h00vez Год назад +527

    Just a reminder that this applies to men and boys too. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. You don't have to be muscular, masculine, don't cry, etc. if you don't want to. You can be whatever you want to be. It's important that you feel comfortable. (I know this video doesn't exclude men. I just wanted to point it out because they are valid too) ❤:)

  • @thezheani1434
    @thezheani1434 Год назад +262

    I actually just went to one of her concerts on the 10th! She wore the Nymph outfit and everything, she really went all out. It was absolutely ethereal.

    • @Turntechgodshead
      @Turntechgodshead Год назад +30

      You don’t know how jealous of you I am

    • @MOUSEBRAINED_MUSHR00M
      @MOUSEBRAINED_MUSHR00M Год назад +8

      Woa! I’m going to her concert in may!!!

    • @mel39373
      @mel39373 Год назад +6

      i’m going to her trilogy tour in june !! i’m so excited to finally see her after being a fan for yearss

    • @thezheani1434
      @thezheani1434 Год назад +2

      @@MOUSEBRAINED_MUSHR00M AHHH IM SO JEALOUS!!! I hope you have the best time!

    • @thezheani1434
      @thezheani1434 Год назад

      @@mel39373 OMG IM SO JEALOUS!!! I hope you have the best time!!!! 😭

  • @mistressthorn
    @mistressthorn Год назад +112

    "Don't be dramatic, it's only some plastic. No one'll love you if you're unattractive."
    "Will a pretty face make it better?"
    "Do you swear you'll stay forever, even if her face don't stay together?"
    God, Melanie's songwriting is just incredible! She tells the story and sums up our feelings perfectly in just a few simple sentences. I adore her music, but this song is absolutely one of my favorites. And you know it never ends when it comes to appearances in our society. Someone could have every single physically attractive quality that society says you need to have and guess what? They'll still find something wrong! There is no such thing as perfection, we all have flaws and they're all beautiful. I still struggle with body image issues but I try to combat that by pointing out the parts of me I do like and accepting the parts that I struggle with but can't change. To anyone who's struggling right now, know that who you are is enough. You are beautiful just as you are, please don't ever change yourself to fit into the mold society wants or to please another person. Let your beautiful self shine through!

  • @tamironga
    @tamironga Год назад +108

    She’s not the actress in “the movie” though. Melanie only appears at the beginning and end of the video. I’m excited for Mad Hatter!

  • @Åľŵąÿşřęmëmbēř_ø
    @Åľŵąÿşřęmëmbēř_ø Год назад +214

    Melanie has helped me alot.
    I used to be rlly insecure about my gap, but she reallt helped me
    The funny thing is, we have about the same sized gap, i always looked up to them for that, but i hated how mine looked, really shows how hard we can be on our selvs..

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  Год назад +27

      Thanks so much for sharing this😊👍

    • @cr1m3wav3
      @cr1m3wav3 6 месяцев назад +2

      same bro, I always wanted braces, but as I got older, I realized my gap is a part of my identity, I would look so different without it :0

  • @KittyCatChoco-q8i
    @KittyCatChoco-q8i Год назад +141

    When I was a teen, my uncle told me I should look more like the girl on the other table, she was wearing shorts and a tank top, and sneakers, her hair was curled with no frizz, she had makeup on, she looked very pretty I was wearing jeans and a shirt, hair all frizzy and wearing tennis shoes. I felt so depressed, I was 13, and after that, I used my birthday money or Christmas money to buy some foundation/bb cream, blush, eyeliner, lipstick and masara and I practiced using makeup, I wore them all the time and the same uncle looked at me during a vacation and told me that I should look like my aunt, no lipstick no foundation and just some mascara and eyeshadow and he told me I was wearing too much for my age. I felt it again, depression creeping up on me, and I know, no matter what I'd do they'll point something out. It was sick! I'm 25 years old now and happily married with a wonderful husband who makes me feel beautiful no matter what time or day, I don't wear makeup that often anymore and I'll wear them if I feel like it.

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  Год назад +30

      Thank you so much for this story and for you believing in yourself and finding that great husband ❤️

    • @KittyCatChoco-q8i
      @KittyCatChoco-q8i Год назад +5

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial Thank you! Love your videos! ❤️

  • @Lildemon-kj6bd
    @Lildemon-kj6bd Год назад +43

    I love how Melanie Martinez gets into the mindset of young girl that are going through this is still going through this I know I struggle with this still

  • @Kamdynisme
    @Kamdynisme 7 месяцев назад +22

    as a 14 year old girl who has done horrid things to herself, like having and ED and self harming this song spoke to me so much and so did this reaction, that no matter what you are beautiful. You are beautiful to someone and that someone should be the person who treats the way YOU are, and won't try to change you.

    • @sonasaha1255
      @sonasaha1255 6 месяцев назад +2

      I am so sorry for you 😢. Remember you are beutifull in your own way. No one is ugly. Thier just self concise 😊

  • @WereLonelyRizzlers
    @WereLonelyRizzlers 10 месяцев назад +30

    “No one will love you if you’re unattractive” this is how I feel every day

  • @nikitakerry1362
    @nikitakerry1362 Год назад +42

    Having a sister that has that image (skinny, pretty, etc), people would always insult me and compare me to her and I just formed a hatred for her and I never feel pretty... That's why each time I would listen to this song... I would cry and think of all the things people have told me

    • @prettyxbonez96
      @prettyxbonez96 Год назад

      Hmm do you both have a relationship. Is there a reason to actually hate her other than your sis being attractive?

    • @nikitakerry1362
      @nikitakerry1362 Год назад +11

      @@prettyxbonez96 no she is actually a nightmare... Because she is pretty, everyone believes her... She has turned all of my friends against me and tells everyone I am abusive.... I accidentally hit her once when she was in the way... But she likes twisting stories

    • @WhiteSilk1783
      @WhiteSilk1783 11 месяцев назад

      Did you... Get revenge? Okay, I know I'm crazy, and yeah, revenge isn't always the key to everything but... Once you're fed up, you needa do something to make her stop and put her to her place, but I know you have morals, I'm just tired and it's 11:19pm here rn-​@@nikitakerry1362

    • @THEONlyGOOdmemes32
      @THEONlyGOOdmemes32 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@nikitakerry1362 so sorry for you 😭

  • @Snak-Pak
    @Snak-Pak 11 месяцев назад +22

    Im a male and this song makes me cry everytime i hear it. Im very happy to hear it form someone to explain how ive felt about myself for years

  • @TheSmallOne66
    @TheSmallOne66 Год назад +58

    "Not that there's anything wrong with anyone who does any kind of treatment- only if it's what they want for themselves" THANK YOU DUDE! I feel like some people don't understand that. Thank you.

  • @cool_person
    @cool_person Год назад +64

    Melanie is absolutely my favorite artist out there. Some may call her fans 'pick me's', because she's so different from other artist and may sometimes make 'pick me' songs, but I completely disagree. Her music isn't pick me, it's story telling, and can sometimes help people with their trauma recovery and all. I myself didn't grow up traumatized, I just really like her music, but that doesn't change the fact that it can really make you realize how it feels to be in those situations. I do kinda relate to this song though, as I myself was too a victim of the female body standards, and I'm still on my ed recovery. Though I never got got as far as plastic surgery, this song still gets to me, since I know how it feels to want to fit in the standards.

  • @mastertofu
    @mastertofu Год назад +78

    I love the uncensored horror that Mrs Potato Head portrays. I never cared about my appearance as a girl, until the people around me start to make comments about how I look and how I dress and make me uncomfortable in my own skin. This kind of beliefs often aren't with a person when they're borned, they've been trained to doubt themselves this way by society. I've never gone to the extreme of physically changing myself for someone, and just like Crybaby, I needed to see the pain that comes with trying to fit someone's beauty standard when it isn't truly you.

  • @AutumnintheNorth
    @AutumnintheNorth Год назад +25

    7:30 - "Is it true that pain is beauty?"
    For AFAB people, YES! Pain is beauty; you must SUFFER for your art and saying anything less demeans what we lived
    Instead of denying our lived reality, ask "What does beauty give you? For how long? When considered over your whole lifespan, is it WORTH the pain?"

  • @ToxicXNature
    @ToxicXNature Год назад +17

    My favorite line from every single one of Melanie's songs is "it's such a waste, when little girls grow into her mother's face" because FUCK that line just hits so hard

  • @angeliqueperez2592
    @angeliqueperez2592 Год назад +51

    Ugh, i was excited for you to see this music video!! This song NEVER hesitates to make me cry. One of my favorite songs by her, even though ALL of her songs rock lol

  • @yoraidelledelosreyes7137
    @yoraidelledelosreyes7137 Год назад +22

    im so happy that someone also has a teeth gap. for all my life i was very insecure of my teeth gap but melanie helped me!

  • @donieka27
    @donieka27 Год назад +405

    I ran out the class to go on break and watch this lol 😂 amaziing as always

  • @Khiara
    @Khiara Год назад +12

    I love this guy’s commentary!! AND HOW HE VIBED TO THE BEAT! melanie ateee in this mv 😭💕

  • @matts_.sweater
    @matts_.sweater Год назад +25

    Melanie actually makes me feel so much better about my insecurities. I love how her songs have such deep meanings and are so catchy and good at the same time.
    #Iheartmelanie💗

  • @Mels_Cookie
    @Mels_Cookie 3 месяца назад +4

    I like how Melanie took all of the things off realizing that she is pretty just the way she is

  • @emiilyjaane7
    @emiilyjaane7 5 месяцев назад +12

    I absolutely love Mel, Her ALL of her music has an actual realistic meaning to them. Everyone can relate to her music. 💕

  • @lorshian_go
    @lorshian_go 10 месяцев назад +8

    It's so sad the part when she got all those surgeries done and he reacts like disgusted about how everything turned out and now she is regretting and remembering her oldself, its like when you change something on yourself you can't go back.

  • @bigheartlilbxdy
    @bigheartlilbxdy Год назад +20

    I have a chubby face a baby one and I have a gap in my teeth and when I smile I get like these weird little wrinkles on the side of my cheeks.. this song helped me understand stuff i don’t have to change for anyone and when I was younger I was a bit chubbier then other kids

    • @palesa8777
      @palesa8777 Год назад +2

      Wow you sound very cute like extremely beautiful

    • @bigheartlilbxdy
      @bigheartlilbxdy Год назад

      @@palesa8777 tyyy

    • @AriannaIvey
      @AriannaIvey 11 месяцев назад

      Their called dimples, I have them too, and people really like them, although it’s one of my insecurities, I’ve learned to love it.

  • @amalieisabel
    @amalieisabel Год назад +55

    Love your Melanie Martinez reactions!🫶🏼 Makes me sad to think of the fact, that you one day will have watched all the music videos🥲😩

  • @lifewithcosmic
    @lifewithcosmic Год назад +24

    My first melanie song was doll house ...it was reflecting! Then Mr potatoes head ! And mad hatter these three stories just had an impact on younger me 😅

  • @rosea-rose4462
    @rosea-rose4462 Год назад +111

    The lyrics are deep, the song sounds upbeat, and the video itself is creepy.

  • @earlisonline
    @earlisonline 9 месяцев назад +6

    Years after and this mv is still a hard one to watch. As someone who struggles with a lot of insecurities specially on physical appearance, this hits different

  • @GyaruoSigmaBSDTheMemoryReader
    @GyaruoSigmaBSDTheMemoryReader 11 месяцев назад +4

    I'm currently watching this as a middle schooler (not specifying my grade level), and your words made me feel alot better. Thank you.

  • @purpull2591
    @purpull2591 Год назад +20

    This song never fails to make me shed a tear every time I listen to it

  • @elisecarson8618
    @elisecarson8618 4 месяца назад +2

    I LOVE THE LYRICS “Oh Mrs. Potato head tell me, is it true that pain is beauty..?”

  • @Juli-ln5vp
    @Juli-ln5vp 8 месяцев назад +9

    This guy is so real for loving Mel, bro’s literally the goat.

  • @Anukulika2
    @Anukulika2 Год назад +20

    What I've noticed is that the woman in the story looked beautiful before she even got surgery, it's like Melanie trying to make fun of us, because the woman looks beautiful but the man doesn't see her that way, even though she is.
    Goes to show how people are picky.

  • @KaiPereira-rb1xw
    @KaiPereira-rb1xw 8 месяцев назад +7

    "baby soft skin turns into leather"
    "and a hundreds thousand dollars for some complements"
    this is painfull.

    • @KaiPereira-rb1xw
      @KaiPereira-rb1xw 7 месяцев назад

      @definitelynothaska sorry, english is not my first language

    • @avxryyys
      @avxryyys 7 месяцев назад +1

      The baby soft skin turns into leather acc hits hard..

  • @mart1an._fangs
    @mart1an._fangs 11 месяцев назад +15

    What I noticed about the line “potatoes turn to french fries” is that potatoes are usually bigger, while french fries are thin, how everyone wants to be thin and skinny like french fries, and never big like potatoes.

    • @disorgan1zedchaos
      @disorgan1zedchaos 8 месяцев назад +2

      TYSM FOR THIS?? I DIDNT GET IT UNTIL NOW

  • @VShinkarenko
    @VShinkarenko Год назад +7

    There was a time where I would sob at the very thought os listening to this song, today my eyes still water everytime I watch this mv, I wish I could reassure my teenage self and tell her to be a little more gentle with ourselves, I really do.
    Great reaction and amazing insights as always, Tom!

  • @Cyn_4444
    @Cyn_4444 2 месяца назад +2

    “No one will love you if you’re unattractive”
    hit me personally.

  • @twiztidsidfreak13
    @twiztidsidfreak13 25 дней назад +1

    Her imagery has always been amazing

  • @daniela_loves_naruto
    @daniela_loves_naruto Год назад +13

    I love how Melanie’s music has a message Not only that it’s so good and sounds amazing! I also really like Stawberry Shortcake by Melanie!💗

  • @Heheimaveiwer
    @Heheimaveiwer Год назад +9

    When I started listening to her songs,her music became my therapy

  • @arxcicy
    @arxcicy Год назад +6

    I used to starve myself many times a week i found melanie when i was 9 and helped me through life. Im here today because of her.

    • @disorgan1zedchaos
      @disorgan1zedchaos 8 месяцев назад +1

      i’m so proud of you for that, glad things are going better 🤍

  • @xxhannah0485
    @xxhannah0485 Год назад +12

    I had no business watching that mv over and over at the age of 9 😭

  • @DanaWebb-lm2fw
    @DanaWebb-lm2fw 6 месяцев назад +2

    I always tell myself that if I have to change myself for another person to love me, then they're not worth having my love! I am a huge Melanie fan please do more of her videos they have huge morals.

  • @Bloodydemise
    @Bloodydemise Год назад +12

    This song made me cry the first time I heard it!

  • @null.1993
    @null.1993 Год назад +10

    The man in the video portrays as society. Society sets a beauty standard that if you don’t have the look, you won’t be loved or attractive. In my point of view, the young lady obv. Was already beautiful because she grew into her mother’s face but she allowed society to change her because she didn’t let the beauty standard of a slim body, perky lips and blond hair.
    The lyrics speaks for itself as well as the meaning. You were already beautiful the way you are, you don’t need to change anything of it or for anyone. Be happy who you are and be happy the way you are.

  • @GenTlee
    @GenTlee Год назад +19

    The girl isnt melanie! Its another actor and it was like melanie aka crybaby was watching a movie and realized she didnt have to change for someone to accept her! :)

  • @JinxNightcore
    @JinxNightcore Год назад +6

    This song got me through a lot in middle school and it still does

  • @PINK_SCARF_SPROUT
    @PINK_SCARF_SPROUT 5 месяцев назад +2

    I wish you were my therapist, your so genuine and kind.

  • @Vox_Offical
    @Vox_Offical Год назад +8

    When i was little, i was obsessed and realating to melanies songs 😭 I made her crybaby poster when i was in like 3rd grade 😭

  • @Fear1ess-f6z
    @Fear1ess-f6z 3 месяца назад +1

    when i first watched this mv, i started crying because of how sad and beautiful it was.

  • @ZamZyanNobe
    @ZamZyanNobe Год назад +7

    I love how you describe melanies songs

  • @miamor-tq6jk
    @miamor-tq6jk Год назад +1

    Honestly happy I found this channel- Melanie really helped me grow up and I love how you took us younger girls thought into perspective 🫶 I know the songs meaning and hearing you really get deep into it made me realize how I visualize myself

  • @Sierra-t5y
    @Sierra-t5y 5 месяцев назад

    I rarely listen to music because it can put me into different moods to easily but the way Melanie makes her music and videos and stuff is just amazing… like it’s so detailed then it’s like hidden little messages everywhere… I really like her music and the way she expresses things in it.

  • @OliviaHanson-or4hw
    @OliviaHanson-or4hw 8 месяцев назад +2

    I remember being young not understanding why people would care so much about how they look. But now that I am older I understand. I wish I was 5 years old again.

  • @gertieisonline
    @gertieisonline 9 месяцев назад +5

    i love melanie so much becuase i can realte to alot of her lyrics shes so amazing as crybaby and in k-12

  • @oliviafrazier3596
    @oliviafrazier3596 9 месяцев назад +1

    I'm obsessed with Melanie Martinez now. And you! You're so cool!! This is a great way to deliver important information in a format that everyone can enjoy. Thanks bro 🙏

  • @TvLele-fd2
    @TvLele-fd2 7 месяцев назад

    Him vibing when the music started made me happy because I love Melanie Martinez so much and no matter how small or big an issue is, she can always make you feel better with her music

  • @Sponey_n_akira
    @Sponey_n_akira Год назад +5

    Bro the way he dances is so wholesome I can’t even 😭

  • @aduckinatinytophat
    @aduckinatinytophat 8 месяцев назад +1

    Whenever I felt really insecure I listened to Mrs Potato Head...
    I think it helped remind me that I shouldn’t change how I look for strangers.
    I’m still insecure, but I’m glad I didn’t act on my insecurities

  • @XOXO-XOXO-XIXI-XIXI
    @XOXO-XOXO-XIXI-XIXI 2 месяца назад +2

    Okay so right now Im currently a teenager, and whenever I saw this video a lot of boys at my school were saying stuff like "Hey you might wanna consider going onto a diet or something!" trying to apparently 'Help all the girls out in the school with their image' And a lot of girls at my school tried reporting it but the school didn't care, but a lot of my friends parents including mine started noticing that me and my friends wanted to buy beauty products, and honestly it made it worse, my acne got worse and stuff but I saw this video and I started focusing more on my mental health rather than my physical appearance which is really just a body of skin, so I gotta say don't believe any of those kids at school telling you to go on a diet or any of those ads either. Remember that your beautiful/handsome in everyway not only your appearance but also your personality :)

  • @elizabethdarby6867
    @elizabethdarby6867 Год назад +11

    The man is supposed to represent society

  • @Olifurat
    @Olifurat 8 месяцев назад

    I absolutely love Melanie Martinez. The depression she cures is very impressive. Her songs are so sick and her voice is so soft and beautiful and she makes deep meanings sound so innocent.

  • @Alexus_69
    @Alexus_69 Год назад +1

    I love Melanie’s music it helped me through a lot and listening to doll house is so relatable and it’s so comforting

  • @qxiiaw2541
    @qxiiaw2541 7 месяцев назад +5

    She is literally my therapist since i was 11

    • @vividmyo
      @vividmyo 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@z.v.x.888Melanie??

    • @qxiiaw2541
      @qxiiaw2541 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@z.v.x.888 uh no she is a girl?

  • @Paz_videos
    @Paz_videos 8 месяцев назад +1

    This whole song describes how i feel abt myself. I have always tried to find way to make people love for me not my looks. What makes it worse is my depression. And inhate the fact that i cant even view myself as pretty

  • @Melanin_loverxxz
    @Melanin_loverxxz Год назад +4

    I LOVE MRS POTATO HEAD SO MUCHHH!!, IT'S MAKES ME CRY BECAUSE IT'S SO SAD THAT PEOPLE TRY TO MAKE THEMSELVES PERFECT FOR SOMEONE:((,WHEN THEY ALREADY ARE PERFECT!!, AND TO EVERYONE IN THE COMMENTS YOU GUYS ARE SO SO PERFECT THE WAY YOU ARE AND YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!! 💕💕💕

  • @Doodle._.Dragons
    @Doodle._.Dragons 8 месяцев назад +2

    I cried SO hard when I first watched this because I related to it SO MUCH

  • @_AM-DED_
    @_AM-DED_ 8 месяцев назад +1

    I am a male and i can confirm that beauty standards suck. I remember being 5 and watching TV with my dad and i noticed in every movie we watched, there was a guy i REALLY wanted to look like, great hair, great skin, everything. I still feel like that. And when i was 13, i ruined myself even more and i started doing SH. And i didnt stop, i COULDNT stop. I am now 19 and i got my first house cause i can legally move out of my parents house. I am still doing SH. Luckily i have been clean for a week, but yall, dont do what i did. It ruins you even more. If i could stop the SH addiction i would. I want yall to know you matter and you dont have to change anything about yourself. The only thing that needs to be changed is the world if its making us THAT insecure.
    And especially the young women. You all are said to be more into beauty and could ruin your real beauty by changing yourself for others.
    Love yourself, that goes to EVERYONE.

  • @vencellorente6440
    @vencellorente6440 Год назад +20

    My favorite song

  • @dannielle..
    @dannielle.. Год назад +13

    this song helped me with my body image so much when i was a preteen and made me realise the beauty standards for young girls and women is so unrealistic and rarely naturally achieved

  • @KayaKikoRose
    @KayaKikoRose 6 месяцев назад

    All of her songs mean something, it always has a backstory and I love it. Like dollhouse, strawberry shortcake ect. Her songs have helped me through things honestly I relate to a lot of these songs..

  • @theminegirl3775
    @theminegirl3775 Год назад +1

    I was bullied when I was a child because of being tall, skinny and having round, small head and a baby face. I was bullied heavily by everyone - children, teen, adults, elders and I was A CHILD. Now I'm 23 and the trauma has severe consequences. I really hope that people will stop bullying others for what they cannot change. These people think it's a joke but they don't know that they are actually causing someone trauma and the consequences are pretty bad, even the daily life suffers due to trauma. These people ruin lives. Really hope that bullying will stop one day.

  • @someone760
    @someone760 5 месяцев назад

    I really enjoyed watching this person appreciate and express utmost respect to the depth of this heartbreaking song along with us.

  • @michaelinthebathroom7560
    @michaelinthebathroom7560 Год назад +9

    You got the message right from the beginning.

  • @kamalgharzeddine6610
    @kamalgharzeddine6610 6 месяцев назад +2

    Dude just vibing with the song

  • @Crushergirl3122
    @Crushergirl3122 Год назад +3

    I just love how you enjoy the music and get into it, I love seeing people enjoying things fully ❤🥰

  • @melissaisloud7404
    @melissaisloud7404 9 месяцев назад +2

    I love how her cosmetic surgery appointment is scheduled on Halloween.

  • @OhMy617
    @OhMy617 Месяц назад +2

    My whole life I was just told if I’m not skinny no one will love me

  • @ΒΕΝΥ
    @ΒΕΝΥ 5 месяцев назад +2

    This music video makes me cry every time I watch it

  • @gintongaparador999
    @gintongaparador999 5 месяцев назад

    This song helped me embrace my god-given beauty and it helped me to be compassionate too. Even when I struggled with acne, I was able to show kindness to myself as well as others who were going through it. I learned not to be judgemental and be more understanding.

  • @The_Real_Prinzessin
    @The_Real_Prinzessin 8 месяцев назад

    I love Melanie Martinez so much. Mrs Potato Head is my favorite song by her--everytime i listen to it i almost cry, it is such a perfect song in my opinion. It shows how much horrible lies afab people are told about our worth.

  • @juliaparry4237
    @juliaparry4237 Год назад +2

    I love Melanie more than any other artist, she's so perfect

  • @danielcoats2691
    @danielcoats2691 Год назад +10

    The womanbon the tv isn't Melanie. She's an actress named Nora Hall

  • @timmaglente3652
    @timmaglente3652 9 месяцев назад +5

    WHEN THE SONGS SO GOOD EVEN THE THERAPIST STARTS DANCING!
    9:12

  • @guiaauxtero3810
    @guiaauxtero3810 Год назад +17

    "No one will love you if you're unattractive"

  • @EzraMollat
    @EzraMollat 10 месяцев назад

    I would listen to Melanie so much when I was in a really dark spot, it made me feel understood. I still love and listen to her music but it makes me bitter sweet

  • @worthamiIIion
    @worthamiIIion Год назад +1

    this song has such a deeper meaning than people think , its not only about a girl feeling uncomfortable in her own skin and feeling like she has to change herself to live upto other peoples stereotypes but its also about how she feels she has to get all these surgeries etc. for guy, talking about her being in a toxic relationship where he doesnt love her but loves her beauty.

  • @maquezin
    @maquezin 5 месяцев назад

    That's the music that touch my heart the most, because that was the 2 video of her that i had listened to and i was around 10 years i guess?(Or 12, something like), and i ALWAYS had some problem with my appearance and i was almost getting depressed because of it, because i saw that "our image is better than our personality", that people would always judge you for the way your smile is, the way your eyes are and etc.
    I cried every time i listened to it.